Still waiting for miracle...

Murfdigidy · 2017-01-25T21:05:32+00:00

Self depreciation is the death to your game. The foundation to all of seduction is confidence. You have low self esteem and girls can spot that shit.

Try reading six pillars of self esteem, it's a great start. Seduction is too advanced at this point, you need to build that foundation of confidence

Overnight_Delivery · 2017-01-25T19:00:49+00:00

Girls actually do approach you probably just don't notice it or know how to do anything with it. If you want to play out what a miracle approach would look like go to a strip club with at least $50 and take a seat at the bar and see how you would actually handle it.

nofgiven · 2017-01-25T20:31:37+00:00

They may actually approach me but in most inappopriate time and ways. Like they may come close to me and just stay there like fking wood and do shit on their phone,like they are waiting for me to jump around them and please them to fk with me. Even if somethings is going on I still can't close them. Whatever,this sht is most complicate thing in universe. I will never understand women anyways so I don't know what I'm complaining about. I'm just angry when I "miss" the chance to get laid because I can't just fck them. I'd like to just fck them and get over with and move on.

_TurnuptheSun_ · 2017-01-25T23:35:20+00:00

It seems like you've been stifled in your unwillingness to take action to change your situation. The only person who can change the way your life is going is you; if you hate how your love life is going, then the obligation is on you to change that. If you want to have a love life, then you're going to have to push yourself out of your comfort zone and make yourself uncomfortable. This is how you grow.

Here's what you do:

For all these things, it's best to break them down into manageable chunks to make sure you execute, rather than get overwhelmed and psyche yourself out. Here's a challenge you can do to help with your girl problem. From now on, every day for a month, strike up a conversation with a stranger you meet. Gender or age doesn't matter, neither does location; bus stop, coffee shop, college, wherever, all are good. Just start talking to people. Because you're just being friendly to every and passing the time, there's no fear of "rejection" that stops you doing it. You'll find after 30 days that starting conversations becomes second nature to you.

Once you're comfortable, it's time for the next stage. Talk to one girl a day for 30 days. Sounds scary, but I know it can be done because I've done it myself. Here's my advice on approaching: Starting out, me and my friend used to do between three and five approaches per day. We got blown out all the time, but after a while you start getting comfortable with thinking on the spot and you'll start getting results little by little. A number, then maybe a flake, a date, maybe a kiss, etc. It's simple maths: the more approaches you do, the higher your chances of getting laid.

As for approaching itself, it's really not rocket science. Abide by the '3 second' rule. If you're walking down the street, and you see a hot girl, give yourself three seconds to walk over to her and start talking. This will stop you getting in your head and giving you reasons not to approach.

You're probably going to ask what 'line' you should use to start the conversation. Truth is, it doesn't need to be anything really clever. If you're stuck for stuff to say, try "Hey I'm in a mad rush, but I noticed how cute your ____was and I have to say hello. What's your name?" not exactly Shakespeare, but if you deliver it with good confidence, a cheeky smile, and eye-contact you'd be surprised how far you'll get with it. Check out this video for some really good examples of cold approach: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mmf8lXP6nw It'll take a while before you start getting results, but stick with it and I promise it'll be worth it. That practical challenge should get you started actually using what you know and actually getting laid. It'll smooth out your conversation skills too.

Boom. You now have a foolproof way of getting more chicks. You just have to execute like a motherfucker.

Title	Still waiting for miracle...
Author	nofgiven
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	January 25, 2017 5:42 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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