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Red Pill ExampleAzzmo/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 12:07 AM
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It's gratifying to hear that. Thanks for letting me know.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:17 PM
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You're operating on a level that we should all be operating on but, like public schools, lessons of love are aimed for the lowest common denominator. Thus the people caught up in that regressive culture behave a bit more trailer park and a bit less Utopian. I'd bet that some of your past dates had the potential to be real partners but the trailer parkification of society has them thinking "wow she's totally digging everything I say and I love the feeling of an attractive female engaging and resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:07 PM
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Aloofness and being perceived as confident/narcissistic were rewarded by the majority of females in my high school and college dating scenes. I think that many men learn those rules and never adjust. The things you want in a man would have gotten most young men friend zoned. We, as a society, should have a more open and honest dialogue about how we adjust to the other gender's expectations and about how those expectations change later in life. Another angle to view it from: you said in a post th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 05:11 PM
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The "follow a girl into feminism with intent to procreate" strategy has a historical success rate of: CALCULATING P(A ∪ B) = P(A) + P(B) - P(A ∩ B) 0%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 10:52 AM
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Thanks. I'll reconsider the use of the word. We probably share a distaste for the watering down of words and concepts and I hate to contribute to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 10:54 PM
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That's a logical perspective. Nobody wants to feel denigrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 10:50 PM
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It cultivates a negative view but I'd argue that it's because there's a window through which men can finally see how negative life really is. So they go from confused to angry. Or confused to stoic. Seeing how far things have regressed, with systematic mechanisms put into place to make sure that men do not thrive and operate in isolated ignorance. Does this not all come back to my initial theory that people just don't like an all-male space in which men compare and analyze experiences? You can s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 10:49 PM
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Appreciated. I sensed the possibility once I went through xer posts but even trolls can provide a catalyst for a productive response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 10:34 PM
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There is no grand conspiracy. It's not explicit or conscious. You can tell by the actions. Word policing. Behavior policing. Workplace behavioral reprogramming. Trying to get girls into the Boyscouts. Trying to take down the fraternity system (notice how the media pounces on any story where a woman accuses a fraternity of deplorable behavior, branding them with a stigma even though the courts tend to find these accusations to be false?). Attempts to "get more women into FIELD. Special scholarshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 04:39 AM
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I saw your other posts further down the thread. I'd argue that men looking out for themselves and being honest about female behavior is all too easily colored with a buzzword, at which point thinking stops. Women - and some men - do not want groups of men to congregate and share ideas. The other day a guy posted a thread about his girlfriend wanting to go on a camping trip with her "like a brother" old friend, his girlfriend, and another guy she'd hooked up with. At first, to the socially simple…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 02:45 AM
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why would anyone give two shits? That's the question a lot of people with TRP ideology are wondering, since people seem to care passionately. Any theories?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 02:34 AM
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For the entirety of human history the only reason that anybody has survived a lifetime was that they either created real or perceived value to themselves for somebody else. So what happens when we take the great into automation we humans no longer have the option to create value to somebody else? One of the two methods of survival are now gone. The opportunity to create value for others is gone, because those who own most of the capital don't need you anymore. So the other aspect will be the onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 03:39 AM
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The only reason - the only reason - that you matter to the system is because you can create value for it. Once that ends, and thus people - even the very poor will not be owed anything because they will not contribute or own anything. The poor are subsidized by the good will of the majority. That majority will be the poor-who-have-nothing once all manner of invention, production, and resource acquisition is beyond everybody. What use will any of us be to those who own it? Why will they ship us m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 07:16 AM
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she found out she misread and that it's actually today. That's not true. I wasn't going to comment, but that's just blatantly not true. You've said that she's excited about this. She rarely gets to see this person who is "like family". She forgot when he was coming? Just sorta...mixed up the dates? Noticed at the last minute? Nah. She knew you wouldn't want her to go and so she manufactured this scenario. This puts pressure on you. What's this called? Gaslighting? You're the bad guy now, because…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 06:21 AM
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I think that goes for almost every relationship advice thread on reddit. They are flypaper for people who like vicarious drama.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/17 04:41 AM
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It's an interesting concept. I'm gonna delve in. Not that I'm asking you to share pics but have you seen any progress with before-and-afters?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:12 PM
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Are there any videos or articles that inspired you to do this? I've never heard of it.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 12:43 PM
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No worries! Blunt honesty on the internet can catch even the best of us off guard. Get some fucking sleep you vampire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 10:42 AM
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There's never been a functional human being alive who hasn't had that thought. What are you trying to do here?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 10:22 AM
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You're serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 10:04 AM
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The effect that reddit is having on our perceptions of society would be a good one to invite a bunch of wise people on this subreddit to delve into. I've been thinking about it a lot lately and I tend to agree with your husband's instinct. I'd also be hypocritical since I spend hours a day on this website. It's a very polarizing website in which people often say things that they don't really mean in order to emphasize a point. Maybe they don't get the chance to fully explain what they mean when …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 08:33 AM
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The realization that this is how men inherently are is the most logical conclusion based on the content available. But that's painful to accept. People don't want to swallow that pill. Do you think this is really true? I've never had a desire to hurt a woman who didn't deserve to get hurt. I suspect most men haven't. And for those who deserved to get hurt, it is very easy to act like a civilized human being and control it, just as I do with men who deserve to get hurt. It's pretty difficult to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:48 AM
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If you're dating up 15 years you're going to find men who are either never getting married again or who are utilizing their increasing social capital. That's not to say you won't find a long-term partner in that age bracket, but his behavior is hardly indicative of the fidelity any given man is capable of. This is kind of like using Tiger Woods or a football player as models of male disposition.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 05:42 AM
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Men sympathize too. I think it's easier for us to override our feelings with cold logic. And we have little desire to broadcast our feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 09:03 PM
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Whether hypermasculine or "hypermasculine", they tend not to be stoic and tend not to have a firm hand in steering their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:54 PM
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Abstain. Fuck tribal affiliation. This subreddit should speak for itself. Its users should not feel pressured into or out of sharing their perspectives.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:55 PM
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They both came off poorly and well in alternating segments of that...uh...segment. I say that as someone who recently learned that Nye is an alien and as an admirer of Carlson. Nye was right that the climate would likely look very similar to how it did just before the industrial revolution. Carlson came off foolish not being willing to concede this point. He should have asked the more profound questions: how can you prove that it matters now? How can you prove that it will continue? How can you …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:45 PM
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Their vote will count the same as yours. I live in the USA, where blacks have rendered most of our major cities uninhabitable through crime and irresponsible voting. I suspect my grandfather, who lived in an era where those cities were civilized, knew plenty of people who thought as you do now. Do not underestimate the power of bloc voting or of demographic majorities of undesirable groups. There's nothing you can do against 50% of the people being hostile to you and most of that 50% being stupi…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:34 PM
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Of course they allow it - and merely label it conspiracy..... so that people won't take it seriously.... If they crack down while white people are still a majority they risk proving the point and being overthrown by an enlivened mass. Easier to slowly eradicate the willful race.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:15 PM
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But who gives a fuck? Are they being naturalized? Are they outbreeding the natives by a significant margin while also gaining numbers via immigration? Will they vote in the future? Were these all rhetorical questions? What does rule of law matter if only a native minority believe in it?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:04 PM
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The 16 year olds who've never been in a relationship have chimed in with "hard next" as they do in this subreddit. However, it's encouraging to see the top voted comments contain appropriate advice. Hopefully you'll listen to them. Somewhere in her childhood or past relationships she's learned that this is a thing she can do. Whatever method you employ, this behavior needs to be addressed and gently deconditioned.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 08:09 AM
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I can't imagine what the philosophical branch of TRP would disagree with here. You made yourself available and he risked an approach, as is consistent with both genders' nature. Attraction was mutual, he jumped through the hoops, and you fucked. As to this cold approach on the street and offered sex thing: seems irrelevant to me, in that of course it doesn't work. Those who are adept at creating attraction would spend time creating a connection. They operate more like your FWB than this theoreti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:18 PM
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I find it horrifying since it's one of thousands of examples I've seen this week on reddit of common sense being conditioned out of a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:01 PM
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Persuading people the truth isn't real will somehow change that truth? Thinks about Swedish, German, and French people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:37 PM
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When I was a teenager I did not think I lived in a world where actual adults would be willing to call men women, and women men, just because they preferred to be called that. That we have this insanity occurring and that it is tolerated is still somewhat incomprehensible to me. This is not the truth-based world I thought I lived in. The one bright side is that it's funny. That girl on the right has a hilarious facial expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/17 06:27 PM
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I'm an exception to your rule. I autistically adhere to honorable and fair behavior but I've felt plenty of jealousy and mistrust in relationships. A few years ago I helped a bachelorette party push their suitcase cart to their suite and denied increasingly desperate invitations to come in. They were thirsty and they were almost all hot. Wished them a good night and was on my way because I made a commitment to my girlfriend and I do not make commitments unless I intend to honor them. Your rule i…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:46 AM
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That is what it looks like to feel no false guilt.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 10:46 PM
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Disagreed. It's institutionally encouraged. Individuals tend to conform to societal norms and those norms can be influenced by media. I'm sure there are Youtube videos that show how normalized it has become for women to see women hitting men in the shows and films they watch. It's even in children's movies.
/r/MensRights24/02/17 07:36 PM
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I did a long distance relationship at that age for a year and it sucked. I had no control, insecurity and doubt, and it felt like everything she told me was clumsily curated to present a certain false reality. My advice to my young self would be to treat relationships as self-determinant. If this relationship is killing itself then that's fine, because that's what they do at that age. Fighting it in an era of the thirstiest males and the sluttiest women within a society encouraging those rolls i…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 07:07 PM
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That's interesting to hear. Any theories on how this phenomenon plays out with their enthusiasm for bringing in refugees? Seems like these factors would be at odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:42 PM
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Yep. Without social mores against those practices, humans revert to polygamy and harems . It's in our DNA. The few hundred years of marriage were the aberration.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:39 PM
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Two thoughts: 1.) I did an LDR with a girl for a year when I was in college. It was the most miserable year of my life and, though I've been through some stuff, I don't think I've ever felt more helpless and anxious. Attractive girls are going to get invited to parties every weekend. Even if they don't cheat, they can't possibly empathize or sympathize with the male perspective on sexual exclusivity and protectiveness of a mate. "Yeah I partied into the AM Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:16 AM
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Even the media is set up, no matter how liberal they may claim to be, to stop interracial romance from happening between white women and most minority groups. What makes you say this? It's directly contrary to what I've been seeing.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 01:14 AM
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Most muslims are normal people I do not believe this. Read about Taqiya.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/17 12:37 PM
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Actually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:58 PM
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I've been anxious and I've been bored. Either way, it's not productive arousal. But I think the anxiety theory is a decent angle to examine this from. It stands to reason that one's mind starts to conflate fantasies with reality. Can I compare to the guys in the videos? Since I've seen all of these "satisfied" women, obviously it's expected of me to blow minds too. What if she this, what if I that. When one dedicates 99% of their sexual life to complete fantasy, they have no real basis for reali…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 05:55 PM
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PMO definitely affect arousal in some people, but everybody is different. It's like drugs or alcohol or smoking. I could smoke a pack a day for a year and quit on day 366 without the need to continue smoking since I just don't have the substance addiction gene. Despite that, I believe people when they say that it's an incredible burden to resist. Porn and masturbation definitely affected how aroused I was by women. Porn did it by pushing the boundaries of what is arousing (a lone, naked woman di…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 05:34 PM
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It's asserted often enough by both women and men that I just needed perspective based on monkeybrain psychological principles to convince me. Primal recognition of function and prowess makes sense. I bet you can see the difference in their movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 09:16 PM
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There's no way this is close to true. I'd have expected people around here would be more skeptical than these comments indicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:51 PM
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Your post broke through ~20 years of me not believing women who say this stuff. Dunno if I was on the tipping point of belief but that was eloquent and convincing!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:34 PM
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Even if the porn doesn't have much effect, the corresponding masturbation does. And honestly - be skeptical of that study. Hypercharged ultra maximum stimulation of one's arousal systems via whatever hardcore pornography they need to get a boner definitely makes normal women less arousing.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 12:23 PM
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Fuck that guy. You're making progress and you did the right thing. In the long run this is the best thing you could have done for her, even if it hurts now. If I can slip in some unsoliceted advice: I've tried many antidepressants and I've spent a great deal of time thinking about them in a medical, mechanical, and philisophical sense. I've come to believe that they should be considered tinder for the fire, but NOT the logs. The logs are lifestyle choices: diet - get enough everything, but espec…
/r/askTRP01/01/17 10:15 PM
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I couldn't get anything readable from your link but I checked the citations. This one, for example, speaks to advantages and disadvantages with heterogeneity. My disagreement is with your blanket assertion that diversity is a positive thing. In my view, they point out more provable cons than pros, with the pros being unspecific assertions (and assertions that if we just treated them better they'd be useful and the cons being the obvious downsides that most of us probably innately understand abou…
/r/MensRights31/12/16 05:39 PM
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groups perform problem solving and other tasks better the more diverse they are. This is why cutting-edge companies have such a motley arrangement of employees. Well that's not even close to true. I'd ask you where you heard that but I know I wouldn't get an answer. Feel good schlock.
/r/MensRights31/12/16 01:03 AM
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Of course she ditched my friend soon after and broke his heart. But it's heartwarming because he always says that no matter how much it hurt him, it was more important for him that she was finally happy. <3 That is so bluepill that I just choked on digital steak. I want to put your friend in a headlock but I cannot. You should.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/16 09:34 PM
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I know I'm about to seem racist No need for this. Recognizing reality is not a bad thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/16 10:35 PM
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people of every race do shitty things. Sure, but some do way, way, way, way, way more than others.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/16 10:34 PM
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He hasn't fought in a few years and he was fighting in smaller fighting foundations so I'd imagine the competition level wasn't high. Despite butchering a few women, he managed to lose once. Verdict: never proved anything against a high level fighter.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/16 02:34 PM
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There's a big difference between a resentful feminist and a normal woman. The hope is to normalize them. I don't believe that them being turned into hateful drones is any part of their reproductive strategy or imperative. I believe it's unnatural conditioning designed to shift demographics that was applied to them when they were too young to resist it. AWALT is workable but AWALT(with ear gauges, bad tattoos, a nose piercing, short blue hair, and cynical sneer) isn't even worth approaching.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:21 PM
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I see you're 25 years married. You probably haven't dealt with much of this: http://i.imgur.com/FkgYxWu.jpg http://i.imgur.com/4aiX0vx.jpg
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:16 PM
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Have you been to or experienced a Diversity Studies / Gender Studies / Sociology class recently? I assume you've watched television and have listened to mainstream media. Everything young people experience in these places has subtle implications that white men are a problem. Women are primed for that kind of thinking and then, when they get to college and their trusted professors proclaim it to be so with false data and anecdotes and a very curated curriculum in consecutive classes, they believe…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:02 PM
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We're thinking about two different aspects of TRP. You're thinking about growth through endurance in an introspective sense and I'm thinking about the social and political injustices and imbalances that lead most of us here. I'd love for women to be more empathetic and eventually sympathetic to men's struggles because I think that would mean vastly more quality women. Showing them this perspective would allow them to regain some respect for men that they almost completely lack now due to generat…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 12:30 PM
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Though I am thousands of miles from the event and therefore can take no part in it, I congratulate you on the size of your penis.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 07:20 AM
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Perhaps the only way to move things toward a more equitable mindspace is exposure to TRP-lite via feminists. I watched an interview with the woman who made this film and she said that, though it predictably triggered a ton of feminists, it also prompted many people to say to her that they'd never thought along these lines. I'm a fan of small steps in the right direction, even if, admittedly, it's unfortunate that it requires a feminist just to get people to listen.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 07:19 AM
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I'd argue that the his immigration policies are extremely radical. It's just that we live in a world where most media has conditioned many to feel that this kind of rhetoric is humane and appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:16 AM
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Another poster nailed it: I have a hunch that this confusion comes from how empathy and sympathy are considered to be the same, when in actuality they are two different concepts. Basically what you said initially, just more clear. Women are sensitive (empathetic), they just tend to not give a shit about anybody else (unsympathetic) since friendship and relationships come easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:12 AM
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Jezebel readers are idiots. That, and/or young. The most frightening thing about this mentality is how quickly it can spread if impressionable teens are seeing adults talk like this on a site they trust. Once it's normalized, that's probably the mentality they'll carry for life. The more of this stuff I see the more I wonder if we made a big mistake as a society blowing off religion nearly completely. Never thought I'd say that but man...people are irresponsible when left to their own devices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/16 01:43 AM
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Frankly I'm startled that you're saying these things about modern feminism. Almost nobody believes this because most people have seen how they behave, which laws they advocate for, and how frequently they seek to abdicate responsibility for their actions. Are you sure you've experienced real feminists and the things they advocate? Because again - it seems like you're operating from the somewhat naive perspective that what they say they stand for is true. For the record, I do believe and like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 11:25 PM
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She revealed herself to be religious and "Men should never hit women" was her (and their) doctrine. I agree that it sounds anti-feminist, but that's assuming we live in a rational world. You and I have the ability to perceive and then apply logic to our thinking. Third wave feminists have the ability to feel and be angry if it feels bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 09:02 PM
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Ohhhh yes. Worst example was one who asked me "Would you ever hit a woman?" When I replied that everybody should defend them-self against an attack she did the "wow....WOW. WOWW." shit and her friends joined in. They concluded that I was probably an abuser and dangerous. It was pretty amazing to watch. I've met many girls that are confrontational about gender. I live in a city with a major international university. I think I've seen a lot of the shitty product that comes out of the Gender Studie…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 05:51 AM
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The whole sale avoidance of any boundries or integrity that modern women display honestly leads me to believe that women are not capable of morality on their own they get it from men, if theres no man to give it to them they just take their morality from "the man" the larger super struture in place, which is of course always excessive, consumerist and permissive. There was a great thread on this subreddit a few weeks ago about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/16 07:17 PM
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If you have to be scheduled in then you're the side piece. It appears that she branch swung about three months ago (though I wonder how often you two hung out prior to her change of frame). Girls that are into that dick don't "religiously reform" and lose interest in being around you. Shed the bitch. She doesn't have the courage to break it off because she likes knowing someone is thinking about her. Cold showers. Weights. Find ways to hit yourself with the Opponent Process Theory.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:15 AM
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You're the guy she used to cheat on her boyfriend with. This girl has expressed how she feels about you. Get busy improving yourself and go meet other people.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 09:46 AM
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But football is still fucking sweet. Those guys put in work all week just to try to rip each others' heads off on Sunday, plus all the mind-games and high-risk decision-making from the coaches--can't find better entertainment in my opinion. There is a discussion to be had for whether the merits are worth the detriments. It's fun and it can be inspirational, but it can satisfy your competitive urges vicariously. Lately I've been conflating the downsides of sports fandom with those of porn use. If…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 03:08 PM
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He probably meant this. From there you can trace things back to the executives and major shareholders and ascertain their motives. Then you'll determine what the prescription is for the American mind. In my opinion (and myself of one year ago would be horrified at me saying this), the US is being sabotaged from within by Zionists promoting diversity, fear, marxism, and gender conflict. Mud up our cities and our culture by promoting intermixing. Disincentivize procreation of the (white) people wh…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 09:23 AM
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Seems treasonous. If they're not looking at distributing the shares proportionally - and are instead just going to give their state's votes in a package to whoever got the most turnout 3000 miles away, then they're just giving more power to the majority over the minority. I hope this is not a popular notion. It spits in the face of the founding fathers of the nation.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 08:07 AM
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Her actual father is ugly as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 10:40 PM
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I've browsed this thread and I think the answer is what we all already knew. The "bad apples" argument is convenient for them to dismiss legitimate criticism of female-supremacy doctrine and anti-male bias but, when given the opportunity to talk about the not-so-bad-apples, you get an admission that the bad apples are most of the apples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/16 08:53 PM
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On the most basic level we're talking about what a person did vs. what a person says. A more nuanced perspective requires defining what, exactly, misogyny is and what, exactly, would be distasteful about a person being an endorsed contributor. Distaste for slutty behavior, bewilderment that people believe in the wage gap, or an affinity for monogamy isn't misogyny to me. So in your example we're talking a subjective view about another person's opinions and we're comparing that to an event that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 10:44 PM
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action trumps talk. I share this sentiment, but very few other people do. The person who asked "are you an alien sent to study us" honestly can't understand how you think, and that person seems to represent the majority of Americans (and probably humans). That's how I know that Democracy and marriage were both just flash in the pan concepts. Our race is mostly comprised by simpletons who prioritize feelings over reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/16 09:54 PM
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do you mean to manage it so that making the porn doesn't end up being too pleasurable? There's a penalty accrued if you spend too much time consuming porn. What you're doing is different, but shares elements in that you're staring at body parts and thinking about acts for continuous hours. I'm not wise enough to know if prolonged production is as detrimental as consumption, but I believe that any long-term exposure to this kind of material is going to satiate some of your natural thirsts in unna…
/r/askTRP15/10/16 11:35 PM
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Based on some of the Patreon accounts I've seen doing this, that's a market that isn't tapped out yet. If you can get get a following and make $2,000/month on a hobby then that's a pretty decent incentive. If you do continue, learn about the Opponent Process Theory and apply it appropriately so as to minimize the effects it has on your psychology. As others have said, porn is detrimental in many different ways.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 04:22 AM
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This is hard, guys. She was going to share a hotel room with another guy.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 10:52 AM
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but it looks like men hate women and are constantly having a power struggle with their SO What percentage of men do you think feel this way? I post and read TRP sometimes but I do it with the knowledge that for every person posting on the internet, 10-1000 other people read but do not post and billions of people never read it. To double down on that, anybody who posts in a niche sub is even more outspoken/exceptional. TRP is an option for people, not an endorsement or indictment of an entire gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:29 AM
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What country are you from? What you're talking about has no precedent in European-derived culture so nobody here is going to be able to help.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:09 AM
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Especially in the winter. They made me warmer last winter and I'll do it again. They seem to turn on the inner furnace.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:07 AM
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Nietzsche talks about tyrannical morality. The modern term for something similar is virtue signalling. People want to feel like they are important and so they want to change the world and they want others to see how righteous they are. On top of that, revenge is so satisfying. People can be made to see injustices and given targets upon which they can loose their vengeance. So, combine the two and you have a very appealing platform. People can feel like they're the good guy while also satisfying …
/r/MensRights04/10/16 09:54 PM
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But they're still just that... a minority. They're kinda scary and they frequently prevent events on campuses. This doesn't look like a powerless minority: https://youtu.be/iARHCxAMAO0 The guy just came to talk about how boys are being left behind. They were that triggered. You have to ask who is pulling their strings, and how so many people were led to be affected by something so innocuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/16 05:16 AM
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You're experiencing natural feelings. Humans are shitty and so we thrive on drama and we're discontent with contentment. My advice to you is the same as it was to my brother: it won't get better than what you've got. Maybe it'll be more exciting for a few months, but that excitement will fade when you realize that almost all women are shit. And unless you're Adonis, those exciting encounters are going to take a lot of effort and money to attain. Once the novelty fades and once it begins to start…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 05:03 AM
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Some of it is bullshit, some of it is real. It's ultimately worth doing cold showers since, at the absolute minimum, you're doing at least one badass thing every day, it's easier on your skin, and you waste less time in the shower (if that's a concern). And if it also increases testosterone, improves your immune system, helps you regulate your temperature, and cures depression then that's neat too.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 11:44 AM
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I like your impulse to be kind. There are few enough good women out there. No need to salt the Earth by hardening her. I think your play is to just be honest. We change throughout our lives and, often, those changes come in spurts. You're in the midst of one of those spurts now and you don't want to be in a relationship while you're testing and exploring new boundaries and ideas, both for hers and your sake. It was unfortunate timing. You hope and know that she'll find someone who wants a good w…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 06:34 PM
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To our male lurkers critical of us helping folks like this: Are you aware that many women think the reforming Betas of TRP are disgusting fakers, and think that sub should be shut down and merged with various blue pill subs? I remind myself of this daily when on the internet. It's easy to believe that the distasteful few are a majority when, in fact, they are few. And they may be only temporarily distasteful. comic source
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/16 06:23 PM
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My life experience has also shown this. It's 100% true.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 05:24 AM
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Gonna join the parade of guys suggesting you listen to your instinct. I may do a TRP post about our nanny state requiring and facilitating the invalidation of mens' instincts. You've been trained from a young age to suppress your feelings and impulses. That means that, despite the fact that you still feel things, you don't trust them anymore. I think you have a lot to lose by ignoring your spidey sense here.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:56 PM
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If you're alive in 30 years you'll enjoy festivities. Not sure why you'd be happy about native populations being exterminated though.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 10:49 AM
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If you find a good person you should enjoy your life and take the opportunity to be with that person.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 10:39 AM
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I don't know who you people are but if you expect me to read all that shit you're mistaken. As soon as you started talking about race and breeding I knew it was a shit post. You people have no respect for other people's time. If you want to make a 4 page post make your own website. -me, circa 2010, before I started learning. All the answers are available to you if you want them. Citations and all.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:16 AM
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Women also have less investment in their society if they don't currently have kids. Increased influence in decision making + less investment in maintaining the current society + bleeding heart + instinctual desire to welcome in barbarian alphas = Decline.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:11 AM
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Hall of fame material. It took me many years to come around on these things. It's so fringe from what we're brainwashed into believing in a modern Western education that it's going to hit a lot of people as extreme. 2008 me would be furious at you. The quality of people is a concept that has been abandoned and vilified. This is another Red Pill and I think we're going to see these notions spread in the next 20 years as people are forced to swallow it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 02:06 AM
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Duration - and amount - of alimony can be contingent upon length of marriage so, while people are wisely advising you to take your time, don't put this off for too long. California, for example, fucks over the higher-earning spouse for life if the divorce happens 10+ years after marriage.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:08 AM
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It's such a shitswirl though. I can hardly blame them for stepping into a niche when the system is specifically designed to have that niche. How mad can I be at a Cougar for eating a Mountain Goat? If I removed the Cougars, some other medium-sized, meat-eating predator would eventually fill the role. Same with politics. Our tribal instincts, our shitty schooling, our media, and our capitalist system all form us into a paranoid, angry, bitter bunch of crabs in a bucket. We want shitty, exploitati…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 08:57 AM
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I'm an enjoyer of Gavin McInnes as a comedian/personality but yeah...he's very quick to go to the easy talking points in lieu of a nuanced, considered perspective. He strikes me as someone who gave up on long form content (probably wisely) and is embracing the riches of fringey, tribal politics.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 08:40 AM
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Did something specific get you angry at them or is your anger due to the editing? Seems to me that, even if they're just faking their politics for career ambitions, there's nothing especially sketchy about what they're saying. I know nothing about her other than what I saw in that video and I appreciated that a girl is willing to take a somewhat stoic and logical stance and hopefully force feminist to do the same.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 08:25 AM
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Please elaborate.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/07/16 08:02 AM
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In an alternate reality, your post describes revelations that many women wouldn't even have needed to come to. In that world they haven't been told from youth that they're the victims and prey of males. It's the walls and barriers that our society builds within us that end up causing a lifetime of confusion and misunderstanding between genders. I usually get the sense that American women are defensive and somewhat sociopathic and I'm hungry for a reality where they're kind and enthusiastic. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 05:20 AM
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Do you think this was a perspective somewhat unique to yourself? Do your female friends/family members share it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/16 12:29 AM
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Now if we finally get AI that approaches human intelligence, you could be right, but IMO we are still decades away from that. It's not going to be linear. It's going to be a compounding process that starts and becomes unimaginable to humans within a few days/weeks/months/maybe years. Once the first self-aware, self-optimizing AI is created (and it might actually already exist) it's going to evolve in a way and at a speed that most humans cannot comprehend. That same stupid argument was made in t…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 08:22 AM
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You seem to either have the notion that men don't have blue pill proclivities or that there's a TRP consensus that men don't have them. Neither is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 08:41 AM
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Dude is caught in a closet in a locked room with a girl other than his girlfriend. Dude concedes on girlfriend's "no sex" rule. Can't see how you fucked up. You're not helping him by saying that. He needs to face his mistakes. Nobody, least of all a TRP subreddit, needs morons who want to play the role of the forgiving mother who will tell them that it's not their fault.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 09:36 AM
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Let's not be intentionally obtuse; especially not in an "ask" subreddit where you might mislead someone who is confused. You can see how he fucked up quite clearly, as can we all.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 09:26 AM
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That's not a revenge fantasy though. It seems like you've moved the goalposts because you acknowledged that you can't really back up your initial assertion that TRP encourages revenge fantasies. You're right that there is a lot of anger there and that some opinions there are colored by it. I think we've clarified my initial concern with your assertion that TRP advocates revenge, though, so that satisfies me just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 04:52 AM
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Why was that your example of revenge fantasies, which it often encourages, in the name of a poorly defined good. ? Discussing, recognizing, and avoiding red flags is not revenge. Would I be correct in asserting that you're very emotional about this topic and, through that emotional lense, you misidentify TRP's heavily defensive mindset with regards to single mothers as an attack? Anyway, that's beside the point. I ask again for an example of objective examples of TRP advocating revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 04:10 AM
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Especially with all the revenge fantasies, which it often encourages, in the name of a poorly defined good. Where does this idea that TRP endorses revenge or revenge fantasies come from? The majority of the user base are always very adamant that revenge is a waste of time that could be better spent on self improvement. Can you provide any specific or even vague examples other than that vague "Been creep shamed? Why not help turn some innocent women into social pariahs too!" comment? See this thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 11:52 AM
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Hormones and chromosomes and evolutionary roles. Women more prone to do as the group does and tend to be "done to", a.k.a. receptive or passive. For them there is little incentive to stand out or take risks. For a million years the best reproduction strategy was to survive and to then keep the offspring alive by not pissing anybody off. Males who passed their genes on were risk takers and the active agents in change. To do so required taking the risks of gaining status and then the risks of maki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 10:52 AM
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*to you. Lots of people find them hot (if well done). The thread is asking for a RP perspective. Of course the opinion I offered pertains to me, as it is very clearly the opinion I have. Hopefully it caused you to consider another perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 08:36 AM
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That's a fair point that I should have considered and will keep in mind. Nothing wrong at all with having fun with your look and trying shit. I'm thinking more about women who choose to keep it that way over the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 08:30 AM
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Depends on the type of tattoo and where it is. It's trickier to guess with men because they can do it for a wider variety of reasons. Ultimately, the answer for men and women is that they saw other people do it and aped the behavior. Most common reason: sexual advertisement. This man is signaling that he's dangerous. This guy does it to trick women. He relies on his externalized fabricated character traits created in ink because he knows women want to see those. For some "dangerous" guys, tats a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 08:22 AM
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I think there's more to the distaste one might feel toward these things than simple trolling; I dislike both but never (to my memory) have I posted about either tattoos or short hair. I'll do so now and will enjoy the downvotes for trying to participate in a conversation on this wretched site. I suppose I'll also preemptively /wave to SRS because this is going to be honest and that means delicious drama fodder: To me tattoos represent different things for a man and woman. For women they represen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/16 06:38 AM
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She's young. She's learning. If she took the lesson well, you'll have a loyal girl. If similar behavior reveals itself in the future...that's when you next. Remember that a lot of TRP is advice for men of more advanced ages. It doesn't apply equally to each age bracket. A 25 year old pulling similar shit would be a person who did it intentionally. An 18 year old may just need to learn boundaries. Many people here don't realize that.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 12:48 AM
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With some exceptions, that's not going to do much. They usually contain very little Vitamin D.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:25 AM
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if you shower with soap too often, that the vitamin D won't get absorbed into your body No idea if that's true or not but it costs nothing to believe it. I once saw this posted as a joke but, to be honest, it's wisdom. There's no reason to mess with the majority of the skin unless it's sweaty or dirty.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:23 AM
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You haven't given her commitment but you seem to expect commitment from her. That's not how this works.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:09 AM
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If you don't want to be in a relationship then don't be in one. You wake up each morning with a finite supply of willpower in your tank. Going through all the motions as though they're chores is probably sapping a lot of energy that you should be dedicating to healing and improving yourself. You're not being fair to her at all and you're not being fair to yourself by just stumbling around. Fixate on some goals, plan on how you'll get there and what your life needs to look like on the path, and g…
/r/askTRP26/05/16 11:18 PM
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If he objects he risks coming off as controlling and insecure Only to people who are conditioned by modern society to think that way. Logical people can see why he'd be uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/16 02:07 PM
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People said diet but I have something more specific: Try a ketogenic diet and see if that helps. Losing the water weight retained by high sugar and carb intake might thin your face and, in doing so, bring out what structure you have.
/r/askTRP13/05/16 02:19 AM
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That's a different way of communicating one of my life philosophies. I always ask: "Might I regret this?" Every time I want to take a shortcut or want to satisfy a short term urge. Will I regret skipping over some arduous maintenance or testing task? Maybe. Will I regret just doing all the steps? I won't. I'll do the steps. Will I regret shooting swimmers into the female human's reproductive tract? Maybe. Will I regret wearing a condom? Never.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:41 AM
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Agreed, though I go a step further. I believe that if you're in a phase where you need to focus on self-improvement then fantasy and escapism are kind of like relapsing. Like doing Nofap but looking at porn. Like having frequent cheat meals on a diet. It's going to make the process of becoming a man harder because you're prolonging the immature behaviors. Once one feels like they've taken real steps in reinventing themselves, then perhaps fiction and escapism have a place in their life. But I do…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 02:17 AM
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On reddit it is. Reddit is all about low barrier to entry and low expectations for its users. To the point where the uneducated horde actively censors interesting content on most subreddits. That said, in a broader sense this problem is easily solved if you require a sense of investment in the community for the person joining. I've seen different websites do this in different ways. Some require a certain amount of posts in general areas before they earn the right to participate in the main areas…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 07:27 AM
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TRP: How do you not hate yourself when trying to basically emulate narcissists? It takes time. You'll hate the things you have to do for a while. It was agonizing for me to change the way I thought of and treated women. When your path to success contradicts your morals then it's not a lot different from trying to get used to being a murderer. But you do get used it because you see it work. All those years when her body was turned slightly away from you and her eyes were wandering....now she's 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 11:21 AM
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I know very little of the psychology behind this. I do know that bonding mechanisms, sexuality, and personality can be irrevocably altered at very young ages by trauma. I also know that neuroscientists believe they have explanations of the exact physiological mechanisms that are altered but I can't remember what, exactly, those are. Why do this, indeed. But also why not? People always enjoy stuff up until the point that they don't. And people often have blind hope that this time can be different…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 10:48 PM
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Without doing a 30 minute analysis of her posts, I'll just say that it's gotten to the point where I recognize her username because of her constant insistence that she's strong, vital, immovable, unique, lacks empathy, asexual, etc. There seem to be two general personality extremes that people seem to veer into when they suffer in childhood: meek and childish, or megamasculine. Obviously within those two very broad generalities there is a lot of nuance but they generally explain the feeling I ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 10:15 PM
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I recognize this poster. I thoroughly enjoy her posts and her independent attitude (most people are cows and I love when someone is an individual). That said, she's definitely experienced trauma at the hands of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 02:37 AM
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Take a picture from the nose down and it'll give people something to judge your looks on, though that's probably redundant if you're dating attractive men for any sustained period of time. You're already approximately at their SMV. The reason nobody talks about native american or black girls is because one is an extreme minority to the point of almost being nonexistant and the other group is 90% obese, generally with absolutely foul personalities. In neither of those two groups exists a signific…
/r/askTRP18/04/16 06:24 PM
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After that, I went over her house to watch movies and I feel asleep twice, on that Friday and then Saturday, cause I was very tired from work. She got REALLY butthurt because they were "her favorite movies" and since then she's been turning me down for sex and distant. I don't think she likes you much if she's this insensitive and picky in the first four months. Are you sure you can't do better than this?
/r/askTRP14/04/16 01:21 AM
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To link: [text you want visible]REMOVETHISTEXT(https://www.the-hyper-link-goes-in-parentheses-like-this)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 12:41 AM
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You, my friend, have successfully typed words on the internet. edit: Your quest has failed. The words you typed are now removed. You are now, as before, nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 07:11 AM
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I just. I can't. Apologize for this.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 03:01 PM
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Yep. My two month old niece hurt my eye tonight so I don't think size has much do do with it. An attack is an attack. In case you're curious - no I didn't hit her back. This was her one get out of jail free card.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/16 09:36 AM
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If you've got general anxiety outside of isolated instances you should consider a medication for it. Klonopin is part of the reason I was able to apply TRP social tactics because it allowed me to feel some enthusiasm for going out and improving myself. I don't use it anymore but it got me over a hump I'd probably have stalled at otherwise. It helped me get enthusiastic for meeting up with intimidating girls enough that I learned there's no reason to be intimidated.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 12:30 AM
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The key that unlocks many locks is a great key. The lock that unlocks for many keys is a shitty lock. Different biological programming means different consequences to the same behaviors. Womens' personalities generally worsen with sluttiness. Cynicism, disinterest/quick to bore, unrealistic standards. She can get alpha cock for one night and so now she believes herself worthy of alphas in relationships. That affects a woman's capability to be satisfied with a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 10:18 AM
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I told him that it sounded like something in the book, not that it was something in the book. That is a womanly response if I've ever seen one. Translation: The thing I did that you and I clearly know I did wasn't the thing I did because of some weird logical loophole that only makes sense to me. In the future try "Hmm...yeah I did come off as kinda ignorant there. I'll work on that."
/r/askTRP22/03/16 11:04 PM
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Sounds like a passage from Mein Kampf, bro. , said the person who proudly admitted to not reading Mein Kampf. I also haven't read it but I'm not on the internet telling people about the content of a book I didn't read.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:49 PM
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You must realize that you're expressing pride in your ignorance.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:42 PM
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I've been using it sparingly for five years. It used to be an incredible insult; think about what it implies about another man. Kinda annoying that those uncreative fucks are neutering it by applying it to everything they find disagreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 09:55 PM
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If men lead, women will follow. Demand respect, receive respect. It stands to reason that groups of men taking stands on divorce rape, custody bias, false accusations, false narratives re: wages, and being less willing to be punching bags has led to a young generation viewing men with some respect. For all the mocking MRAs get, they (we? I stand for all the same principles but don't seek a label) seem to be shaping the thinking of a generation of young people into a more egalitarian mindset.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 02:42 PM
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Only 23% of young women consider themselves feminist. I think you have that impression because the crazies are fucking crazy and the rest aren't willing enough to denounce them. We tend to let outliers bias our perception.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:44 AM
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While all of that is true I maintain that there is logic occurring. One example is the polls that show that something like 85% of women under 30 plan to vote for Bernie instead of what might be the first female president ever. I have to think that they're utilizing logic. That alone says to me that they aren't as overtly YouGoGirl as we're sometimes led to believe. Those polls are anonymous so it's not pandering to men.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:39 AM
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I did some math and found that he would have paid roughly 58.16 fuck tons more for child support for 12 years than the initial $200 would have cost him. Next time you see him you owe him a headlock; he either lied or he's an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 01:31 AM
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A paternity test costs like $100. You/your friend full of shit?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:53 PM
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I've been noticing this too. For the pessimists, this is a worthy point worth considering. 15-25 year old women are actually somewhat likely to utilize logic in some of their thinking.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:49 PM
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"Me me me. I did this. I did that. I feel like this." Her message implies that she watches too much reality TV. I'd avoid a relationship with a girl who seems to relish drama and is only concerned about herself.
/r/askTRP29/02/16 02:02 PM
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What are you talking about and why are you talking about it? This thread is about what he said / what one might say to a person like that. If the response is what you're using here it's going to go badly for him.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:30 AM
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Female accountability has been all but eradicated in our culture. Pro-family values went with it. If society is every going to be as cool as I thought it was when I was 10 it's going to take a lot of women buying into RPW philosophies. I love that there's a place where women are talking about self improvement on the internet and talk about actions and don't blame someone else for life being difficult. They're awesome. They're what the term "strong woman" is for. They seem to understand that thei…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 05:01 AM
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We want purpose in life. A major part of the average male's life is attached to his sexual identity, prowess, and performance. As strongly as women desire a family, men hope to be good at attracting women. As such I think TRP is very much about sexual strategy. Homo Sapiens exists now because the males of the species who passed on their genes were competitive about resources, survival, and having progeny. That's programmed into us. People are on TRP because their lives lack purpose. They're in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 04:21 AM
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It mystifies me that this isn't the overarching theme of his campaign because it's so important to me. Many people don't seem to know/agree that politicians have reigns on them and only do the bidding of they who hold the reigns. When billionaires and corporations have all the control there's no reason for politicians to care about our issues.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:03 AM
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It's a place where people in many different situations - in many different places - come together to talk in the one (highly populated) spot on reddit that they're allowed to have honest conversations. As such, many people there disagree with many people there. To ascribe a value system to everybody there isn't going to happen because they're all there for different reasons and disagree on things. If there's a core tenet that I would put on TRP it's this: society has coddled you and lied to you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/16 03:50 AM
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Unfortunately not, as these are burgeoning realizations for me as well. What I can point to are a few videos that have recently shifted my world view a bit: 1.) On Kissinger 2.) On the Coming Collapse 3.) On the Female Role in the Coming Collapse If you're looking for reading materials, Dark Enlightenment has a reading list with a history section. Regarding weapons: Syria agreed to give them up. United State-backed invasion commences. The tool used? ISIS. Yes, we actually support ISIS. Look into…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:35 PM
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Agreed. It wouldn't make sense to disband bases. That's different from seeking new conflict, which is what I'm averse to.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 12:01 PM
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Sounds good Sounds fantastic. No more fucking war. What the everloving fuck? Why can't the USA just spend money on its own citizens for a few years and stop donating it to shareholders of arms companies, vehicle companies, construction companies, mercenary companies, and all the attached support companies? Read about the erosion in the quality of education in Wisconsin five years ago vs. now if you want to see how those kinds of policies work out. Tried and Failed with a capital F. It just ended…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:21 AM
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I share both of those concerns. I was at the first huge Sanders rally of his campaign last July and was really into it until he started with the "women deserve to earn as much as men" shit. Wondered if the girl I was with noticed me sitting stone cold silent while the crowd around me went wild. Despite his shortcomings, I do believe his positives so drastically outweigh those negatives in this time in history that there's no contest for my support. I'll learn more about Trump. Problem is, nothin…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 10:52 AM
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There's a history red pill to swallow once you've choked down the gender red pill. I'm not saying everything in his post is correct, but what we've been taught in school about American righteousness and who the bad guys are is a GIANT load of shit. Question that will blow your mind: how many countries that have agreed to give up their nukes and/or chemical weapons have been invaded thereafter and/or had their government overthrown? nearly all of them We are always told about how bad their leader…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 09:06 AM
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More black guys like you need to exist before white guys are going to buy in. Degenerates and cartoonish men reigning supreme. This is what white guys tend to see and worry about. The black kids in my mostly white high school who assimilated got a great education and have professional jobs. Tons of friends. The black kids who'd moved up from Chicago and were just going to school because their desperate parents were forcing them do made everybody hate them. They were the majority. Any man with a …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:39 AM
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I'm tired of leaders putting other countries before our very own people. In multiple ways. We spend trillions bombing other countries. We spend trillions rebuilding them. We spend trillions in goodwill aid. We spend trillions in subsidizing our companies who work overseas. More people need to ask for some of those trillions for ourselves. That's why I like Bernie. He's talking about spending American money on Americans. First president to propose that kind of insanity in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:35 AM
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Do stuff that you like. If you don't like doing stuff, try stuff til you like some things. People will be there also doing stuff they like. You'll make eye contact and you'll wordlessly communicate "WE BOTH LIKE THIS SAME THING!" Boom. Stuff to talk about that interests you and is relevant. Friends. If the homo sapiens is female: additional possibilities.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 07:44 AM
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I was going to post this video today but you've made such a great supplementary contribution to it that I'm thrilled you got there first. This is an incisive look into the future we've seeded. Lots of criminal males and proud sluts in our future. I used to listen to Loveline all the time and learned quickly that the quality of the parents - and the environment they create for their children - determines it all. This is the spiral.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 06:39 PM
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Women can never win. Women around the world are happy being virginal, sleeping around, and waiting for LTRs to get raunchy. Who are you trying to win with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 08:40 PM
2

You in a thread about controversial opinions shitting on someone who expressed their controversial opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 03:44 AM
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Popo: What are you doing in this area? Dude: Going for a walk. Dude: Going to the 7/11. Have you watched the video in OP? If I recall (I watched it two years ago) there was an example where a potential suspect was asked a question similar to this and incriminated them-self by answering just like that. Turned out there was a crime near the area they were going to/leaving. If they'd not have answered, they would not have admitted to being in the area of the crime.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:11 AM
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Your question made me think of a great post from yesterday. Core tenet: "I Don't Give A Fuck"
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:30 PM
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Back in high school I had a situation like this with a girl. That was a stressful year. Eventually I told her that I hope she has a great life and I didn't speak to her again for a year. Ignored, avoided, looked away. It's the only way to stop your emotions from cascading and to mitigate your addiction to her. Avoid. Your brain is tricking you. She can and will not profit your life. Cut off all contact and methods of checking in on her.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 06:20 PM
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Good TFA analysis from a red pill perspective His critique echoes how I felt while watching. I'm wondering if I'm too concerned about this stuff or if this stuff is too prevalent these days because I had trouble enjoying a brand new fucking Star Wars movie because of how translucently political it was.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 11:15 PM
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I really don't understand why they're covering this up. They have nothing left to gain and they're only hurting their citizens more. They want to hurt their citizens. Destabilize. Destroy the culture. Make them thankful for the bare minimum. All those pesky demands for rights and healthcare and education will go away once people are grateful for something resembling security.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 11:49 PM
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Definitely a cabal. I'd have been just as skeptical as you a few years ago but once you see that a lot of very intelligent people have independently been asking the same questions you realize that it's not in your imagination anymore. I don't agree or disagree that it's a Jewish conspiracy, though I think it's more likely that we're seeing coordinated efforts of billionaires and trillionaires to consolidate power. When (the fundamental human emotions of) pride in your self, culture, and nation b…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:32 PM
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From the OP: This isn't a gender war, it's a race war that is hidden behind a veil of loaded & corrupt vocabulary ("multiculturalism," "equality," "racism," etc) that is meant to put us in a moral sandbox in which criticism is not allowed. I'd be curious to see you rebut him with something more substantive than this. Otherwise don't reply, because nobody wants to see "You're stupid. Wow."
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:26 PM
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The roots for all of this are already embedded and thriving. Fortunately, I've seen some general society pushback against quotas, false rape claimants, and extreme SJW thought policing. We'll see how it goes. I wouldn't be half surprised if you get a major reversion to actual Patriarchy as a generation of men screwed over in ever manner tip the balance. After all, enough years of sexual solitude can teach one to overcome servitude and deference to females. Ideally women will continue to dump fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/16 11:46 AM
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It was a legit question. Great answer. You had a good instinct to keep your son away from unneccesary medication. What are you doing to keep him away from misandrist teachers and administrators? Sounds like he's doing pretty well but he's still a kid who is biologically programmed to trust adults. He's spending his days with people who literally believe he's born to the original sin of being male, with disposition toward violence, rape, rowdiness, etc. I've wondered what I would do if I had a so…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:54 AM
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What efforts are you taking to alleviate the indoctrination/abuse he's subjected to in that school?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 01:36 AM
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Remember that a lot of the advice you're getting from here comes from people you don't know anything about. We have a higher than average probability of hating women (I hate saying this because it's been co-opted by weak people into a red pill ad-hominem. In this case I feel it's relevant). You don't know if you're getting advice from people who are married, who will never marry, or what their stance on marriage is. You don't even know what their stance on relationships is. Since you've expresse…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:15 AM
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My post was based on all of your posts that I've read in this thread and mistakenly attributing /u/oakbasedpaint 's initial post to you. It appeared that he made some very ridiculous claims and then shifted tones to acting defensive. That's my mistake in mixing you two up and I apologize for it. You seem to be taking a more philosophical stance on the issue which, in my self-righteous manner, I commend.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 09:05 AM
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A thought about self reflection: Most things that have to do with politics exist on a spectrum. Are you comfortable being on either end of it? Just as we talk about the insanity of modern liberalism, I would caution that you seem to represent the other extreme. Is your side any more sane than the extremists on the left? I realize an accusatory post is not a compelling one but I feel like dumping a bucket of ice water over your head and insisting that you review some of your stances. Your rhetori…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 01:18 AM
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Not sure why they want the immigration thing so bad In a cohesive and strong society the people have high expectations. They want resources for the masses. Opportunity for the masses. Education, Health Care, Environmental Protection, Regulations, Opportunity. How do you remove this expectation from the populace? You find a way to fracture them and make them afraid. That's what's going on now. A generation of propaganda has created enough political capital that the craziest fucking thing you'd ev…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 01:03 AM
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Agreed. We should also note that this thread and the subreddit wouldn't exist without /r/trp (which espouses this same point as a core principle). Seems like we need to get more guys to read /r/trp and /r/purplepilldebate!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 10:27 PM
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If she'd invited a friend to a restaurant date or something that was supposed to be one-on-one outside the house I think your stance would have made sense. Since she was inviting you over for drinks I think you kinda blew this one. I once had an invite to go to a girl's place which changed into "my roommates are also going to be there". That was an opportunity, not disrespect. I brought some homemade pizza stuff over and we had a rowdy time drinking and thinking of non pizza-shaped things to coo…
/r/seduction05/01/16 08:25 AM
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I believe this. I believe it's also why Europe opened their doors to a wave of uncontrolled immigration. A stable and educated society has high expectations of its government. They are not easy to control and will revolt if things become bad enough. A scared and fractured society is thankful to its government for doing the bare minimum. They are easily led with propaganda and are no threat to government or corporate power. Any time you have to ask why the government or media are pushing an agend…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 10:55 PM
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I put my question on /r/relationships[1] , and everybody but a few people told me to leave him because he was too controlling, so I assume most of them were women. I'm sure the few people who tried to give you nuanced advice were downvoted to hell for it. There's a reason sensible people don't post on that subreddit. Ergo, the advice you will get there will not be sensible. There's a very specific and homogeneous demographic who frequent that place.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 04:10 AM
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Does a philosophy require a prescribed course of action? Can't it simply exist as an examination? I've found TRP to be a great way of tearing down old, rotten infrastructure and putting up some good walls. If at that point a person wishes to put in some gates that's their choice but I appreciate that the guidance is generally limited to caution. I wouldn't want advice on how to live my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 04:29 PM
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This all happened in her freshman year, or was it throughout the four+ years of college? That's in important distinction, I think. In the former case you're looking at someone who got enthusiastic and crazy for a few months or a year. In the latter case, that's a lot of irresponsible fucking over a long period of time and a predictor of future behavior and of her true character and you should seriously reconsider marriage. What it ultimately comes down to is this: who will she be when she's 40? …
/r/askTRP25/11/15 11:46 PM
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God damn we live in a weird system, where a guy can wrong no person and be declared a felon regardless of that.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 01:01 AM
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http://www.icemanwimhof.com/vice-documentary Watch this if you want to see something wild. There are new discoveries being made regarding the potential of our bodies and minds. Cold immersion along with practiced breathing is thought to change blood PH levels, increase positive immune response, and balance cytokines. This guy has done studies at universities to corroborate this stuff and he'll be doing a study at Harvard soon. Casual cold showers at home, though, might still give you these benef…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 11:13 PM
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In other words, you deny my challenge. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 06:22 PM
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I'm unoffendable, so don't be concerned about that. But I recognize your name, and I only browse this subreddit intermittently. That's because you almost exclusively use the same post format: "Some TRPer said" "TRPers are always like" "They do this" "They act like this" Don't deny it. It's your entire post history. Wouldn't it be an interesting challenge to consider an opinion on its own merits, without trying to frame it as something the other team says/does? Huh? Most of your posts refer to "t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 06:09 PM
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I have a challenge for you: Go for a week without primarily posting "The other team does this and it's stupid" type posts. Focus on the philosophy or mechanics of a topic without judgement. I can't understand how you find satisfaction just shitting on people day after day like this. Does it never get old?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 03:54 PM
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I don't condemn this behaviour. Your English is great, except for this part which says the opposite of what it means. Try this out: "I don't condone this behavior." Seems like the optimal method of him dealing with this is getting out ahead of it: tell the boss what happened, tell him that it was relatively innocent, and vow to drop contact with the girl. Make it known that he has learned a valuable lesson and regrets mistakes made in his enthusiasm. From the boss's point of view the most import…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 11:46 PM
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I don't understand the angle you took with your post. You disagreed with him with great gusto, insulted his post, but then went on to substantiate both of his points with evidence.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 05:03 PM
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You should make this stance more clear in your posts on this subreddit. I thought you were arguing from a fairly conventional blue pill bent, but you've got a far more interesting (and unique) nihilistic viewpoint. Do you hold these beliefs because of cynicism or are you speaking philosophically? It's a fairly extreme viewpoint to tell people who are otherwise perfectly attractive that their poor upraising effectively castrates them. I'm 6'0" and fit. I've fucked up a ton of opportunities with w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 03:26 PM
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You indicate that you believe two different things so I'll ask both questions I have: 1.) So your problem with TRP is that it teaches people who are not naturally inclined toward reproductively ideal physicality and behavior to mimic it? What about the guys who would have succeeded, had they not been raised by single mothers who led them toward more feminine behavior? What about the ones who had all female teachers from preschool through to college and were steered into certain behavioral patter…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 01:47 PM
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You're missing the point. Single mothers/feminist society will not tell a guy how to be attractive, even though there are ways he could do it. Unless he's born conventionally attractive or has an amazing instinct, he's fucked in that system. You default to a "girls are naturally attractive so guys are also be naturally attractive". That is a false premise. Guys must work to become attractive in 95% of cases. If they are told to work on the wrong things they are being misled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 04:10 AM
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Good find. Nothing is true on the internet anymore. We have to source every. fucking. claim. I've had it. It's fucking disgusting. The internet was so much cooler 10+ years ago when mostly intelligent people comprised the majority.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 10:35 AM
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A guy sips the water from the river and it's suddenly safe for daily consumption? You and I both know he went home to a reverse osmosis-filtered glass of water and never touched frack water again. It's just as easy to find a video of an official refusing to drink fracking-contaminated water Your argument is uncompelling.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 10:27 AM
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Usually when the topic is discussed (especially in the context of "This guy in the article/documentary/news report has sex dolls - let's mock the fuck out of him") it's pretty clear that a lot of women are very disgusted by men who have sex dolls, and even simpler sex toys. That counts as opposition to me. Perhaps not overt opposition to the dolls in this case, but passive opposition to the notion of a man who has found satisfaction there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/15 04:01 AM
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His style isn't conducive to debate. That's for sure.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:50 AM
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This year, she can't even make my birthday because she scheduled a girls night out to go clubbing. Stopped reading here. She's cheating on you. Move on.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 01:37 AM
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If you're married before you're 30 you're doing it wrong. Many here would say if you're married at all you've done it wrong - and for good reason - but that's between you and your future self. You're going to change a lot in the next 8 years. Preferences, tolerances, political stances, phobias...everything is still in motion. Same goes for her. Do not even entertain the insane notion of marriage before 25 and preferably put it off til you're both in a better spot to make that decision (30). And …
/r/askTRP03/09/15 04:22 AM
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Our government has been coopted by the wealthiest 0.1% anyway. At some point you have to consider voting for the worst candidates in hope that, with enough of them in different offices, they mess things up enough that we do a revolution while it's still slightly feasible in the face of technological power (in other words - 1770s it was muskets vs. muskets and ship vs. ship. In the future it will be handgun vs. laser-shooting 500mph drone that changes directions in a millisecond guided by satelli…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 05:53 AM
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That is absolutely fucking horrifying if that's the case. He was effectively imprisoned for the crime of having a child and then a divorce. What happened to the America we thought existed when we were growing up? /rhetorical
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 05:04 AM
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I'm at about a 1.5/10 level of discomfort reading this thread but this post shot me up to 8/10. Is this actually true as stated, or is it a restriction against him getting citizenship in that other country until his child support is paid?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:25 AM
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You're the living, typing manifestation of the problem with left/right politics. Many words, little wisdom, garnished with a tribalistic bow.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 03:43 AM
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If you were only hearing from 0.1% of people you'd perceive it this way. Hell, you probably are only hearing from 0.1% of people. The danger of the internet and mass media is that our tribal brains insist on conflating any anecdotes we hear with common experience of the group. Believe them or don't believe them at your leisure, but I don't find it hard that a few people have had success.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:12 AM
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I'm smart enough to ignore the stuff I don't agree with That's the difference between someone intelligent enough to tolerate opinions they disagree with and the flarp darp darp who needs to censor those opinions. Unfortunately, 80% of the population are the latter. They feel that there is a malignant nature to opinions they do not hold; that corruption through exposure to ideas is to be expected and so those ideas must be extinguished. If more people steered your course through discussions there…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 10:21 PM
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The notion in your post is worthy of its own thread. It's something that we all know in the back of our minds but never quite verbalize so eloquently as you've done here. And men are guilty of it, too. It's a natural human inclination to be inspired by something and to emulate it but now that's become a cultural trap that we gladly march into, probably because we're primed to respond to it by the commercialism of the society we're raised in.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 10:00 PM
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Good post. I disagree with some of it but I'm not going to rebut with a long post (since the nature of equality or opportunity are subjective and you've got firm Fox News stances already) but I appreciate the insight into why you feel the way they do. As I said originally, the majority of us would probably not identify as easily as you assume as conservative or liberal. Moderates do exist, and we're the majority. We don't fit tidily into a pre-determined set of opinions. Either you're not from t…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:35 AM
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I'll show you how to be moderate by redistributing your examples: + Equal rights, basic income, Free Market (not entirely free; some regulation required obviously for pollution control etc.), logic/reason over feelings, TRUE Freedom of the Press - unlimited hand-outs, feels before realz, banning free speech, CEOs making 300x the pay of hourlies There is no room for picking teams in a logical society. By doing so one, ironically, allows themselves to be controlled in a similar way to the way the …
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 03:35 AM
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a den of conservatives and free market types It would be interesting to see how people identify themselves. I've gotten the impression that it's mostly moderates, with people skewing a bit to either side of the middle (admittedly most of us would be considered conservative on a certain social issue). You think most of us are economically conservative and general social conservative? I highly doubt it.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:48 AM
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Upvoted to balance the downvotes but your comment is in complete contradiction to reality. Gender-related differences are minor!? People go entire lives never understanding the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 10:58 PM
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Return it in the mail. Only exception is if she currently has an expensive gift that you'd given her...or if she broke up with you doing something really nasty. It sounds like an amicable situation and she's a good person. I think it's totally fine to be a good person too. This is outside the bounds of Machiavellian TRP relationship dynamics.
/r/askTRP04/07/15 11:15 PM
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JP_Whoregan's reply to the thread in question and your post - especially the cited parts - just gave me a new found realization I haven't had in a while since I started reading TRP. Same. The concept of how much value sex has to a person is something I've considered in a general sense and as a power dynamic/bargaining chip but never delved into from this angle. This is a fascinating thread.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:09 PM
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Securing a relationship with a woman who adores you and follows your lead is congruent with becoming a person who is adorable and is a leader. It's an aspiration, not an expectation. In order to become the person one wants to be, a person may benefit from defining what it is that they desire. Changing oneself is difficult and painful. Many people can't do it without goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/15 12:23 AM
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You can't deny it's a common narrative I can. It's not a common narrative. I'm assuming we're defining 'common narrative' to mean something that most people agree with. Besides, that thread seemed fake to me the minute I read it. I take offense to some guy's fantasy / some Blue Pill false flag being used to represent the views of a group, instead of using that group's actual views.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 10:46 PM
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Ad hominem; irrelevant. I agree with your OP but quit this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 10:02 PM
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That's exactly it. And it's why there's a lot of anger when people realize that their entire world view is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 10:01 PM
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It's not true but it's a fun story.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 09:01 PM
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Whatever means 'whatever.' It's literal meaning is "anything." What meaning do you suppose it connotes? "Whatever the hell you want" means "do whatever the hell you want." That could literally mean... anything. So I listed some things many, many young women are choosing to focus on. I was admittedly being pedantic. I think it's wrong to say "whatever you want" if the intent is to offer advice. You, the person you replied to, and me all seem to agree that it makes sense to tell people to pursue t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 09:45 PM
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It does not have that affect on men. Do we have any evidence of this either way? I wouldn't be surprised to learn that it does (or doesn't) but I've never seen anything definitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:55 PM
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Have you heard the term alpha widow before? It's a major factor in the very existence of TRP in that women who reach this state are no longer marriageable material. The cynicism and inability to bond with a more average man inevitably means that, as you said, an alpha widow won't perceive the men they're capable of partnering with as 'prince charming'. So your advice is the worst possible advice to give to the average young woman since it leads to its own conclusion, even though that sad path is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:51 PM
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Unless "whatever the hell they want" is to build a successful career and nurture their talents/hobbies. The word 'whatever' clearly connotes a meaning. Its inclusion in the sentence implies something, so I'm not sure why you took this direction. It would be more appropriate to agree with the person you appear to be disagreeing with, since you both agree that the 'whatever the hell you want' advice may lead many people to a sub-optimal path. Women don't need men to provide for them anymore; this …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:42 PM
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You're awesome. It also takes the pressure off of him of having to approach you about doing it. I'd imagine that's a tough conversation for both parties, regardless of how chill they may be. Might as well do it at birth.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:24 AM
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It would take some dramatic mental gymnastics for me to figure out a way that gay people fucking at home makes it okay not to serve them cake. Or how that is such an offense to somebody that it needs to be considered. As long as they're not wearing tutus and a strapon and flaming around in the store they shouldn't bother you.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:06 PM
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Moderators please reply. Your job isn't to curate what people talk about and by deleting most of this thread you've ruined the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 07:24 PM
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Shouldn't they have some choices in who they accept payment from for their product or services? Depends what it's based on. If it's soley based on an unchangeable, intrinsic part of a person's being such as race/gender/sexual orientation then, with very few exceptions, the answer is no. If it's based on that person's behavior: a pest, a threat, or otherwise detrimental - then a choice comes into existence. Like I said, they're filling a limited niche with their business. They're not doing the co…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 07:04 PM
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You say "be an asshole" in an unspecific context. Broadly, of course the answer is that it should not be against the law to be an asshole, even if I personally feel like kicking the shit out of people who act that way. Liberty involves tolerating things we don't like (sorry if this comes off as preachy - I'm just thinking through my fingers and not condescending to you). I think that in this specific area, in which a business takes up that slot in their community for that service but refuses to …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 06:13 PM
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I think the reaction is coming from the fact that, if I leave a TV on for 1 hour, whatever station I'm on will remind me that some dude wants to be a chick. I don't give a fuck and I'm sick of hearing about it. Fortunately this is probably just a little 3-week window of time where the media is covering up a real issue (TPP) to keep the masses distracted. This conversation will largely revert back to the fringes, the government will pass another devastating trade act that their constituents won't…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:50 PM
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I think your examples need refinement. I agree with the one about fat women. It's a dangerous precedent because they seek to affect my body and social life. The second example, though, I'd call deplorable. A business refusing to serve someone based on their orientation is objectively assholeish behavior. Conflating the two things just kind of makes the whole point get confused.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:42 PM
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I was surprised to learn that too. It makes sense once you see a picture of him though. http://venturebeat.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/brianna-wu-standing.jpg
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:34 PM
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Offense is an intrinsic feeling and it's something you can control to a degree. Stupidity is extrinsic and I believe it should be examined in that context. To say that an event or behavior is offensive / ergo / it is wrong - is a subjective take that leaves no room for debate. Instead, examine the merits of the viewpoint without labeling it based on how it makes you feel. The other problem is that some of the worst people in western society beat us to using "offended" as a way to shut down thing…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 02:06 PM
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I'll +1 you since this was what I was compelled to point out. Lowering oneself by admitting to feeling offended is such an empty and pathetic gesture. Basically it's the announcement that the person is not in charge of themself and/or that the world needs to adjust to avoid offending them. We should all strive to avoid viewing life through that lense.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:32 PM
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The worst thing about the rights granted by the First Amendment is that those rights are given to people we disagree with. But you have to deal with that if you value the basic principles of a free society.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/15 03:41 PM
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I can't even comprehend thinking the way you do. There's nothing approaching even an inkling of an insult in that list and yet you've seen fit to feel outraged. How can you look at a list designed for self improvement and think the list's intent is to find fault? Why did you default to finding fault? Why the fuck is there even a need to find fault? Can't people just try to improve themselves without being called victims?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:55 AM
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Just wanted to say that, though the people you're trying to debate in this thread aren't stepping up to the plate, I appreciated the counterpoints you've made throughout. I imagine it's not very satisfying getting non-answers, but objective readers are going to get some things to think about. There's contrast between the feely feels stuff with no logical basis and your reality-based points.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:50 AM
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Sleeping over at frat house cause no ride home Bro. Choke the pill down all the way while you're having this learning experience BUT protect yourself. STDs, emotionally, reputation, financially (don't invest in this one), and against false allegations. People saying downgrade her to plate are right on here - you might as well look for a better option than someone with these qualities who "sleeps over" at a frat house while she has a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 09:38 AM
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You linked to three unpopular posts and one post that amounts to "Most people shouldn't have the right to vote" as your evidence. I believe it would be more honest to say it like "Several A few RedPillers believe that women shouldn't have the right to vote", since "several" could be construed to mean "many".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 12:31 AM
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Agreed. I was subbed there before I found TRP a year and a half ago. Unsubbed. I got tired of the "Here is a bad thing that somebody did" posts. TRP has those bitch posts too, but at least it also has a lot of good, actionable advice and real life anecdotes.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:18 AM
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Respect. That's a fair point and pretty much how I feel. Women shouldn't have to deal with people approaching while they're working out. Not just for their benefit but, as you said, it will inevitably drive them away since it's fucking annoying to be interrupted during work if you don't want to be. The only times I ever speak to women I don't know at the gym are 1.) when they're away from the machines and either changing locations in the gym or doing preparation/juice bar/waiting for a ride type…
/r/seduction21/04/15 09:04 PM
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I contribute to productive conversations (x2) ...said the person who uses strawmen to make awful accusations: I should go grope some butts on the train ride home today too. /s I didn't downvote you but you certainly aren't guilty of much productive dialogue or catalyzing new thoughts with your shaming tactics and exaggeration in this comment chain. You completely lost track of the point you were trying to make (which I half agree with) and turned people against you by conflating speaking with a …
/r/seduction21/04/15 07:54 PM
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What are her friends like? She's going to be spending most of her time with them and with whatever strangers they're inviting over. Sounds like she's good while you're around but you'll be out of sight and far away and these people will be shaping her reality over the summer. Considering they're moving to a beach house...probably not a good thing if you value her fidelity.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 03:55 AM
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In an earlier study, Murray found that women who reported more realistic expectations about what sex would be like in a long-term relationship also had higher levels of desire than those with less realistic expectations. Women who have realistic expectations for their partner don't appear to suffer from decreased desire as drastically as those with excessive expectations. What causes excessive expectations? One sure way is riding the cock carousal and then later settling for a guy after failing …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 05:35 AM
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I think you have good questions for which there are some uncomfortable answers. I upvoted you for asking and am disappointed in the downvoters for discouraging questions. Do you people ever put in other people's shoes? Both the male and the female side, I mean. Unfortunately less often in TRP these days now that the user base has increased. Many of our users are angry and not here for the philosophy, but for the schadenfreude. Would you really leave your loved one (yeah, some people end up toget…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 07:24 PM
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/r/relationships is largely used by lonely, angry people. There is an anti-male bias but I don't think that's nearly the largest problem. Users go to that subreddit not to offer objective advice or to help people, but to derive vicarious thrills from the drama of other peoples' mistakes and pain. Their greatest crime, though, is that they often offer broken people advice designed to make the situation worse (all for that dopamine hit of causing more drama). It's one of the most disgusting places…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 07:03 PM
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Oops. I meant "fairly rudimentary indicators" since things like agriculture and stacking stones are inevitable and don't require especially inventive or creative people. The pyramids were extremely impressive testaments to work ethics and, yes, a level of creativity in the civilizations that created them. I think that level of architectural creativity is within all humans, though, and that the real line of demarcation is when people start harnessing power of the elements and science to create ma…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 03:46 PM
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Does being first to agriculture and monument building indicate superior intelligence or merely that they discovered some fairly indicators of civilization? I believe they had an advantage due to temperate weather and abundant local food supply and I believe that gives no indication of superior or inferior intelligence. It seems that, utilizing these principles thousands of years later, the people in the harsher climates were then able to create a buffer between death and survival in which they u…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:59 PM
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I'm not sure how you can argue that worker's rights (minimum wage, safe working conditions, not being forced to work under duress, collective bargaining, non-discrimination clauses with regards to wages and work done, age-based rules) would exist without some sort of regulation, as even with them there exists a constant stream of stories of bosses treating employees like shit. Unless you're indifferent to that basic aspect of humanity (or supportive of it) it seems logical to give credit to left…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 03:12 PM
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Some good info here. 1.) The answer to your question: it's safe and it's usually done via blood test that is ostensibly 99.9% accurate. Must wait until the pregnancy is over 2 months. The pertinent information is just under halfway down the page if you want to read about the three different methods. 2.) "most states have laws that require an Acknowledgment of Paternity form to be completed at the hospital to legally establish who the father is. After the AOP is signed, couples have a limited amo…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 01:37 PM
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If there are any suspicious circumstances concerning the conception of your child, always get a paternity test. $100-$1000 per kid and you'll know. The concept of taking care of a kid in this day and age that hasn't been tested is absolutely alien to me. We have the stats on this now and it's not pretty.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 12:04 PM
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So, yes, we're all fucked. Everyone, everywhere. All developed countries, even the ones you don't think of as socialist. Only based on the modern paradigm, which is a relic of a time when technology and automation played little role. By the time these demographic shifts occur we'll have automated farms, automated factories, automated stores, automated miners and drillers, automated software programmers...in 50 years most humans won't have or need conventional jobs. The big questions to ask is th…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 06:26 PM
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Sounds like a good plate if you can keep her from worming into your new circle of friends/acquaintances. She clearly can't be trusted to not sabotage you emotionally so don't get attached and don't give her any angles to play next time she decides she needs to psychologically ravage you...but hey...you're attracted to her and she's DTF. So fuck. But don't trust.
/r/askTRP10/02/15 11:10 PM
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If you mean, always do everything you can to make women happy, then I wonder who told you such things. Up until the age of 18 almost every teacher I had was female. The rules in school were designed to keep males from "acting out". The educational paradigm was designed to help females excel (if you're interested in learning more about this there are many compelling articles about how the genders have different needs for learning). The entire mindset of day to day reality was to subtly help femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 01:42 AM
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Any kid who went to a school where defending oneself in a fight resulted in a mandatory suspension for both parties probably also grew up in an environment that did not teach them those things you mentioned. That means a huge swath of suburban white males were not taught these things and were actually discouraged from learning/punished for utilizing these behaviors. So that's...a lot of us. It's why TRP will have over 100k subscribers soon and will continue to grow. Lots of people finally found …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/15 01:30 AM
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OP's only citation is a 25 year old study from Massachusetts hosted on a leftist blog with some pretty sexist cartoons. I'm not trusting these numbers at this point, as there's a pretty clear anti-male bias here. cites a study from 1990 "tl;dr everything TRP believes about divorce is basically garbage." "Terps" "a group of like minded assholes" hosted on a SJW website.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 03:17 AM
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"You've made me happy" is letting him know that you appreciate him based on what he's done. "I love you" means that you love him...until you no longer love him. I think some people are uncomfortable with the statement because they've heard it before in relationships that ended painfully, and sometimes abruptly; it means very little to some people since love can be fleeting. Personally, I'd much rather get acknowledgement that I've been a benefit to my partner and that I can continue to be by beh…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 11:18 PM
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Not many would even acknowledge that 'alpha widow' is a thing, much less put in the effort to become a better person. I probably know two women who would be rational enough to consider this and disciplined enough to go through with it. A very low %. Neither of them rode the CC to begin with, though, so it becomes a chicken-or-the-egg scenario.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 06:34 AM
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People are capable of change. Hell, even these women are probably capable of change if they dedicate a year or two to self actualization with minimal interaction with anybody they're attracted to. Sort of a reboot. You just need to practice your game and harden up a bit. Get some confidence and deal with that anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 05:42 PM
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Opportunity to meet future plates. Opportunity to do some light dread game with your current plate. Opportunity to show SMV to her friends. Everybody here is assuming you two had this planned as some sort of relationship-affirming date but isn't it just a casual meeting to sit and chat over hot drinks? If so, I'm not understanding how this is perceived as a shit test. She might just want you to meet her friends. "Sure...but just for coffee" and then you and her can go off and do your own thing a…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:48 PM
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How about extending a hand for a handshake and offering to bury the hatchet? You're both feeling uncomfortable about her not really feeling a connection...what the hell is the point of wasting time and adding awkwardness into your life over that? It's not her fault. It's not your fault. Just be mature and hope she's mature enough that you can both agree to move past it.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 07:39 AM
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Congratulations to you, reddit user WindUpTerrapin. I hope you have fun with her. There's no question here. OP is bragging and hiding it by putting a ? mark at the end. Congratulate and move along.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 06:53 AM
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Thanks for recognizing it. I think some of the anger on TRP is from people finally boiling over from a lifetime of being shamed for basic male human sexuality - and then from being told that they're wrong for boiling over. It's encouraging to know someone else recognizes how crappy treating boys like that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 10:29 AM
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Many men are made to feel this way. It's a bit more of a modern regular societal pillar than fundamentalist religious declarations are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 10:06 AM
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If your mail order bride figures out things work differently in her new country, she might as well leave you anyway to play the game by the new rules, which favour her much more. That is what often...if not usually...happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/15 09:27 AM
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I've changed more mentally from 25-30 than I did from 18-25. Once you hit 25 you've accrued enough wisdom and experience to actively change yourself, as opposed to being changed largely by biology and circumstance prior to that. And this is the same thing that happens women. As such, one's personality and long-term goals may well shift more from 25-30 than at any other point in life. Marriage advice? I'm not qualified but I'll offer my thoughts on it anyway: tell that great girl that you won't m…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 12:50 PM
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Based on checking the sport out during the Summer Olympics I'd say that women's handball is way more entertaining than men's. The reason is the inverse of why women's basketball is awful: court size. In basketball the court is too big and the basket is too high for women. It should all be scaled down a bit. In handball, the court is perfectly sized for the women's game and it's way too small for the men. The men just seem to score at will with little strategy while the women's game is fluid and …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:54 AM
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/r/nofap might be something you'd benefit from. This might not work itself out in a week. Many guys need a full half a year to reset their shit, since it's not just a problem with your dick but also potentially with your neurobiology.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 09:04 PM
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I'll grant that her stance is fairly unrealistic but "I told you when I married you that it is the most important thing I want from my husband. That he should not look at any other women. You agreed to it." You agreed to it when you married her. You don't get to change the rules of the engagement now that you've married her. If the genders were switched and we were talking about something that bothered a man about how his wife interacted with other men - and the wife agreed to not do it before t…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 05:39 PM
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Toronto is an extremist feminist mecca - perhaps worse than San Francisco - so I think you're going to have more bad experiences than in almost any other city in the world. That doesn't mean you can't succeed, as they can't all be bad, but whereas I may run into maybe 10-15% man-haters here in the USA college town I live in you're going to run into a significantly higher percentage there. I would never consider moving to Toronto or the surrounding cities for anything. If you haven't laid down ro…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 04:40 PM
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Personality growth and maturity come through adversity. Your deprivation of sex is a form of adversity. Though it's probably a small consolation, every day you overcome temptation to do something you want to do you become a stronger person with stronger willpower. So that's cool. As to what to do to alleviate this...date around. Find a guy who treats you right and who you can trust. Don't put out for anybody right away. Let guys know that you're not willing to bang until you've had time to trust…
/r/askTRP20/12/14 02:57 AM
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I'd be glad to help out over there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/14 12:47 AM
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They're not giving that one up for a loooong time. It took a lot of effort to fool the populace into believing it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 04:37 PM
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There is a slow, insidious war being fought against the citizens of the west by the wealthy and their enterprises. These big players own our politicians and are taking rights away, taking tax funding away, consolidating control of resources, polluting, killing millions of people across the globe in phony wars and conflicts, and are slowly manipulating voting such that our votes no longer matter. We may be living in the waning days of Democracy. Are the people aware of this? Maybe. But we're dist…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/14 10:08 AM
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So you didn't really name any negative qualities about her and you DID name a bunch of positive stuff. Why are you worrying about this?
/r/askTRP14/12/14 03:03 AM
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Most pro-male spaces have already been removed or forgotten. Fraternities are one of the last places that guys can act like men. Of course they're trying to shut those down. And it will probably happen, since all it takes is an accusation.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 11:30 PM
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If there were enough other teachers like you - and if they'd started with these boys at a younger age - I'd be more optimistic. You're amazing for trying unconventional things to help these kids and I really hate to dissuade you from trying (since I may well be wrong) but based on my experience in school the damage was long done by that age. Being forced to sit still / told to shut up / told to stop acting naturally / shamed / staring out the window wishing I could go outside and getting in trou…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/14 10:42 PM
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Skip to around 48:00 and watch a few minutes to get context. I'm pretty neutral on this one...they were both pieces of shit. I can't really agree that she deserved a hit to the face hard enough to break skin. Seems that the point of the show is to antagonize the opposition so her actions are fairly logical in the context of the show. If she were acting like this to a random stranger in a bar I'd say he was justified but god damn man...when you go on a game show you've gotta realize people are go…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/12/14 12:19 PM
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source On college campuses, repeat predators account for 9 out of every 10 rapes. I wish this were more widely talked about. It's incredibly insulting and demeaning for boys and men to be told they need to get over their inner urges to rape when they have no such urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/14 09:27 AM
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Interesting questions. I think marriage came about more as a method for men to guarantee their legacy and posterity than it did as a tool for kings to control the masses, though obviously the former is an aspect of it that exists and may now have actually become a major benefit for them. In fact I would bet that the early development of the concept of marriage in various societies were for the exclusive, selfish benefit of the powerful and wealthy, and not available to the masses for some time. …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:58 PM
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Getting mad at promiscuous women for their nature isn't very productive. I'll refer you to this fantastic post in this thread that explores female reproductive strategy in a purely evolutionary sense and how it is manipulated by modern civilization. Consider why they behave the way they do.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:43 PM
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All the good ones get snapped up. At 26/f/single and older you're picking from a pool composed mostly of women who didn't want to get married as they sought perfection and rode the CC or who got divorced at a young age. I'd imagine most of these types of people are going to be fairly demanding and view you as a commodity, not as her one and only. Your only chance is to find someone who delayed marriage for career purposes while they dated carefully.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:20 PM
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Incisive analysis, johngalt316. I especially appreciated the "lol so dumb" part, as one rarely sees such wit displayed on the internet these days. Thanks for the contribution and please don't bother to put any actual effort into future posts, as this is more than sufficient. To step away from the passive aggressive tone a bit: come on man. You've got to have more to say about this than that childish shit. This sub is supposed to be more than a post-something-you-found-annoying facebook/tumblr sh…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 08:34 AM
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Then who typed this two days ago? I would suggest Redpillers just ignore PPD/TBP entirely. I don't always follow this suggestion myself, but most weeks I don't even go there. Don't argue there, don't try to defend the sub there (it's really not needed). Work on something more important. Let PPD become TBP, and let it whither on the vine. Our ideas stand for themselves and no amount of sand-in-the-face debate will convert fence sitters. They have to be ready for it. By having lived in a tbp dysto…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 10:26 PM
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Do you think the majority of people here doing the "Yeah I know I hate that too" 0-effort bullshit are going out and getting laid? They'd benefit from utilizing this information in some context. You're right that one way that could happen would be in the field, but since they're on the internet typing words anyway I think they should take it to PPD and challenge themselves.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 07:19 PM
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I'd argue that I'm more confident in my opinions if I defend them from time to time. TRP's users are fairly circle-jerky and low effort these days and I think it would benefit a lot of people here to have to put their opinions through the crucible and truly think about them for a while.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:37 PM
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We have quite the battle before us, we are 99% the same genes as the bonobo monkey. A female bonobo monkey approaching a tree full of males and wanting to rest on a branch to eat, will first fuck every male in that tree to defuse the sexual tension, and then will sit down to eat... Well when you say it like that...
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:51 AM
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I dug this comic up from my 'funny pictures' folder. It was part of my process of revising how I viewed relationships and gender dynamics. And it's pretty funny.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:09 AM
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Sorry for the treatment you received for sharing your perspective. This sub's population has taken a turn for the worse over the year that I've been here, as exhibited by your -26 points for stating that people should be treated equally.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:45 AM
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TRP is not a comprehensive list of ways to live. It's a muddy conglomeration of ideas and strategies that people can utilize based on their own situation and wants. The two overarching truths that come to mind that everybody there would agree to is that you're responsible for making yourself an attractive partner and that there are differences between the two genders. The things that scare you seem to be strategies specifically for men who want to be promiscuous, strategies for men to try to imp…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 12:14 AM
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Did you verify that her stepbrother is visiting? Whether that's true or not you are not spending much time with your supposed girlfriend. If a female wrote this story I'd tell her she is probably one of many plates for that person. She's sleeping over at someone's house and lying to you about it. Not exactly long term relationship material. It sounds like this could be a constant source of stress and confusion for you. In your shoes I would end this relationship amicably and do some self reflect…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 02:47 AM
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We live in a society that loves to talk about fundamental freedoms and liberty but a group is guilty unless they can prove themselves innocent and they're misogynist if they point it out. And even with all this video evidence he's still guilty in the eyes of some.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 05:08 PM
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Possibly /r/redpillwomen. I wish I had something more than pop psychology and layman's theories to offer on that topic but I'd do more harm than good spouting off about what might work. I do have a suggestion for limiting calories though. In my recent efforts to get cut I've been making green smoothies out of veggies and fruit. What I've found is that these make my effort to eat extra calories harder because they're filling. They'd be a great way of displacing a few hundred calories a day and yo…
/r/askTRP14/08/14 01:43 PM
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Those girls at the gym have made her cry without saying a word to her. For fuck's sake. It appears that she has bigger issues than a few extra pounds and visiting a crabs-in-the-bucket website. What's up with her brain that she's this fragile? I think the tumblr thing is usually an outlet for people who are already broken and less often a catalyst for breaking. Concentrate on fixing her self esteem somehow.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 04:36 AM
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Agreed. It's really inconducive to discussion to allow straw manning as a common method. This place can feel like a whipping post where people can come and get a dig in at people with differing opinions, while having no intention of either defending their own or in considering the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/14 09:36 PM
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Al Jazeera is good.
/r/MensRights10/08/14 11:13 PM
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That ring thing. Did she explicitly tell you that she expected you to buy her an expensive ring or are you editorializing? Honestly, short of infidelity one of the grossest things a woman can do is ask a guy of average means for an expensive ring. She should lower her expectations as a 34 year old single mother. "I want the house, I want you to give up your property investment, I want to tie you to me permanently with a kid, and apparently I want an expensive ring." She wants a kid with you so s…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:08 PM
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"If you see me in line for coffee don't talk to me."
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 03:38 PM
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She may mean that they had a surplus of nearly 500,000 after expenses.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 03:34 PM
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Yeah he's definitely oversensitive but it kind of reads like right now his entire reality is a swirling red mire of rage, helplessness, and confusion. I've been to that place and come out the other side and, looking back at how I acted sometimes, I feel like I was handicapped or mind controlled. He'll come out of it or he won't. He said some dumb shit but I doubt he meant it and I doubt he'd ever had those thoughts about you and your wife prior to that. He was just blowing up after kinda being p…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:38 PM
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You're half to blame in this case. Being attractive for your partner is part of the deal and if you're not filling that role for her she'll find (rightfully so) someone who can. My wife blatently disrespected me to a bunch of women I don’t even know. Do you deserve respect? Honest question. This situation kind of reminds me of a post I read recently about a guy wondering why dread game wasn't working for him. He assumed that by reading a few articles he was ready to apply the formula. It backfir…
/r/askTRP09/08/14 01:21 PM
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Ehhh...I was cringing reading it too. It honestly reads like you were trolling him for a reaction. Whether that was your intent or not, it's probably the impression he got, since it's the impression some of us got. You can give everybody who points this out an insulting name and ignore our advice but is there even a 1% chance that there's an opportunity for self-improvement here?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 12:59 PM
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What can you tell me about the prison systems in 100,000 BC and also 10,000 BC when our species' emotional wiring was being created? As far as I know it didn't exist and the daily situation likely encouraged males to be somewhat aggressive.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 10:39 AM
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This statement has absolutely zero relevance in the evolutionary context. His assertion is that those characteristics tickle her monkey brain, which is what ultimately matters if pursuing easy sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 10:31 PM
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Thank you. The idea of this sub is great and I sometimes enjoy the content but I can only see a few more "I found a guy in a thread on TRP who says this...why do you all feel this way?" posts before I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/14 09:37 PM
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Though I'm not dealing with this specific issue, your strategies for relaying my needs and concerns in an emotional framework are something that I've taken note of and will utilize in other ways. I'd never really thought of it in those terms but I can see it being a very useful way of communicating in some situations. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 12:38 AM
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Unfortunately the posting behavior you outlined is a major portion of threads in this sub. I've mostly lost interest in these topics because they're not philosophical and they're not real questions. They're just accusations couched within quotes from an individual who is mistakenly said to represent a vast group of people. I wonder what the point would be in responding. They have their opinion already. The rest is just post modern argument tactics that are completely designed for slander, not de…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/14 03:30 AM
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Take this passive aggressive, sarcastic shit to a different sub please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/14 12:47 AM
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What's interesting to me is the psychology behind it. If this video is an accurate representation of the public mindset then it seems that, contrary to my beliefs, the interest is less in protecting or elevating females as it is about controlling or degrading men when they're interacting with women. Nobody - male or female - had any interest in helping the girl being accosted by five thugs. Multiple people stepped in to stop the one guy defending the girl from those thugs, even to the point of h…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 10:39 PM
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You're asking interesting questions. I think the difference between a club and a gym is that a club is designed specifically as a platform for hooking up. That's its main purpose. It's dark, sweaty, people are dressed to present themselves as physically attractive as they can be, and most of them are drinking a drug designed to lower inhibitions. The music's volume and bass evoke primal actions. The gym is a place of self improvement. The goal there is internal and, in the US, there's an unwritt…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:11 PM
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Depends what they're doing. Hobbies/hiking/activities or watching movies or whatever are fine. Dressing up sexy to go get drunk in a dance club so she can get hit on by a bunch of single guys is a firm no.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 06:41 AM
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This is good advice if he wants her to do it again. I didn't get the impression that he's a cuckold looking to find ways to encourage her behavior though so I'm not really sure why you posted this.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 06:51 AM
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You've got a lot of Young Male Energy. Channel it into more productive avenues than revenge and pride-salving. Weights/friends/hobbies/adventures/chicks. Is this one of the few times you've been wronged in life? I ask because I felt (and sometimes even still feel) similar and my thinking goes in those same directions. As I've experienced more good and bad things, though, the bad things don't stand out as GREAT INJUSTICES like they used to. Because they're not. They're just things that happened t…
/r/askTRP16/07/14 08:00 PM
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It's possible that it's not actually stressing him out. I know people who are like this - always working on a project to improve the home/car/yard and worried that a rain storm is coming in because it will mean they have to stay indoors. I get the impression that they just like to stay busy and get bored if they're not working on something, which could also be the deal with your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/14 12:53 AM
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My asian buddies/neighbors/co-workers never felt this way (as far as I'm aware) either. There's a recent movement to lower the self esteem of North American Asian men it seems. I have no pony in this race (white guy here) but I've definitely noticed it. My advice is to ignore everything educated_nigga typed and ignore the shitheads who are trying to marginalize Asian males. I have no idea why they're doing it but it's spreading.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 05:42 AM
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I read too much TRP to not know that girls don't care about things I like. It's hard to come to terms with, though. The Red Pill is a bitter pill precisely because it requires accepting certain realities which are way different and much less ideal than you'd hoped they would be. The one possible exception for you, though, is that you might have some luck finding a quality girl with some similar interests at university.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 02:31 AM
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I was going to say what these other people are saying. After some time reviewing the material and particiapating in the discussions I've formulated a slightly altered personality. So, I'll answer a different question: In what way did TRP advice have the greatest impact? Answer: My anxiety and care factor have plummeted. Through knowledge I've become stoic and bemused by things that used to fluster me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/14 02:32 AM
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Is this a fake post? I hope so. If it's real you've got a lot of maturing to do.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 03:38 AM
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Something to consider: 5% of serial rapists commit most college campus rapes This doesn't exactly answer the question but it's a point to make when people try to make it seem like all males are potential rapists. I'm not. You're not. Most of us aren't. If 5%, 25% or 100% of women will be raped in their lifetime, nothing will get better until society begins focusing on the guys who are actually doing the raping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 07:09 PM
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I agree with your post and am just going to ride it a little further: It's more to do with growing up with marginal male figures in her life, I think. The bars are simply an exaggerated and concentrated extension of society's built in worship of women. It's where any half decent girl can go and be treated like a princess. If she is raised to believe that good males are worthy of respect and bad males are worthy of disregard then she's probably okay. A girl like that won't be frequenting bars loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/14 06:58 PM
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TRP ideas have plenty of merit. Even (and possibly especially) the psychopathic behavioral patterns espoused. They work for plenty of people and they offer understanding to people who have walked around in a befuddled haze for their entire lives. Problem is that the user based has swelled in size recently. Most of those people are marginal people with no original ideas who are only able to parrot talking points and complain. It's pretty much all about negativity now and this is ultimately what p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 12:24 PM
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This. I've defended TRP but it appears to be getting worse, and quickly. It's turned into Men's Rights, which I had to unsubscribe from 6 months ago due to excessive complaining and little philosophy or discussion about ideas. In other words - SRS2. I've no interest in a group whose aim is to seek out injustice and circlejerk about it. SRS is an embarassment to humanity and MRA/TRP are on a slow, painful decline down to that level. It's supposed to be about empowering men. The basic tenets of TR…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/14 12:12 PM
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I never said that TRP endorses cheating, I said that a lot of guys there will justify it when a man does it. You said this: they justify guys cheating all the time. The implication was clear. Stop bullshitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/14 02:25 AM
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Since finding this sub one of the common themes seems to be trying to pin some sort of overarching plan on the people who post on TRP. There isn't one. The main universal truth is that life is shades of gray and that a lot of men aren't yet doing their best. 1.) Not for or against. Some people believe it's awful and have personal improvement stories from abstinence, others have no issue. 2.) Probably his fault. 3.) There's no answer. Some single guys like going for women in relationships. Some m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/14 02:20 AM
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Nobody understands you. Boo hoo, poor baby. You sound like one of those reality show contestants at the re-union who say, the producers edited me to be a villain, there's lots of things going on behind the scene you just didn't see. TRP is the bottom of the barrel, unejamacated and wondering why their lot is such shit. Why the ad-hominems?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 08:15 PM
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I spent a few months at TBP Then I can certainly understand why you have the impression that TRP is about externalizing. TBP is a subreddit which only exists in response to TRP, and the posts are almost all reactions to content posted on TRP. "OMG can you believe what they said?!" It shares a lot in common with SRS in that regard. TBP seems to focus a lot on the bad parts of TRP which, as I said in my previous post, certainly exist. Learning about TRP from a place dedicated to making it look bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 07:28 PM
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Don't generalize so much. One of the fundamental tenants of the place is that you need to learn to be your own source of strength and success. If you see people lamenting that society lied to them it's because society lied to them. We're all told lots of lies - marketing, obey my authority, drugs are bad, politics. Now those people are sharing their experiences with that and trying to improve themselves by collectively venting and exploring what's real and what's fake. If you think the primary i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 12:29 AM
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Usually at some point in your teens (when you grow the fuck up) you realize that these are ideals, not based on reality. Some do realize that, some don't. The problem is that those ideals are usually reinforced by the adults around us and by the television and media we're exposed to. If you still doubt me on this start a thread in TRP asking if people would define the experience of a young male in the United States as I described. Most of their anecdotes will follow a similar theme. Unless we're…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 12:09 AM
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I think its roots are in media and in school but the responsibility for digesting it and turning into a working paradigm are on the men who let it happen and on their parents who didn't tell them about the way people are. Media: villains are always men, women in the shows and movies are almost always the victim or co-hero. If it's a romantic comedy the guys watching learn that if you're persistent and sweet enough you'll eventually win her over - no self improvement required. This notion gets pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 07:57 PM
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You could get "married" without the legally binding contract if you really love her. Just do the small ceremony, make the commitment to one another, and skip the whole part where you give the government permission to redistribute your assets.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/14 09:08 AM
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Again, AWALT/AMALT is the problem. I don't get the impression that it's meant to be taken literally. It's a mantra that can serve different purposes: Helps a guy shed the guilt during the process of giving up the ingrained notion that every woman is pure innocence. It will take him a few years to reassess women to be actual human beings (as opposed to pedestalized dolls) and a mantra like that is great fuel. Protects guys from getting into really bad relationships. It's a cheap defensive device …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/14 08:53 AM
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Unfortunately you're going to run into a lot of people who have lived lives devoid of nuanced discussions and philisophical musing. They've been trained to memorize facts for the test, not to wonder about the why of it. thebears1986 wants a black and white declaration because he's uncomfortable seeing all the background details, as he's probably been trained by our awful education system to ignore those. All he's got to offer in a thread challenging us to think is a toxic quip and a downvote. I,…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 08:17 AM
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People like what's theirs and will defend it. That's assuming there's a reason for them to subscribe to scarcity paradigm. I've read a few different books that have indicated that our hunter-gatherer ancestors legitimately didn't need to utilize that concept within their tribes simply because it was more advantageous to share their abundant goods with people they'd known their entire lives and who they relied upon for protection than it was to create jealousy and conflict. I agree with your last…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 08:10 AM
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no control groups of hunter gatherers unspoiled by modern agricultural societies exist anymore. .. I mention the low genetic diversity within hunter gatherer tribes. I'm awake way too late to start Googling for articles about genetics so I'll just drop the thought that came into my brain and see what you think: Is it possible that there are sites where archaeologists can verify that they've found the remains of many members of the same group who died in a relatively similar window of time? If so…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 08:01 AM
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They aren't saying that they wish feminism had never come about (though I'm sure some people feel that way). They're saying that the modern version of feminism takes stances which are more anti-male than pro-female, more victim than seeking opportunity/agency, and more negative than positive. That's how I see it and I have no qualms about saying that I wish that type of feminism would go away. If you tried to label me misogynistic because I want both genders to have equal opportunities then I'd …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 03:50 PM
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World Starrrrr Same video. Check out those comments while you're there. If you thought Youtube comments were bad....whoa.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 09:22 AM
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Female in the back, who was perfectly happy with life 3 seconds ago sees another female with something she doesn't have and is instantly unhappy What's amazing about that was that she wasn't even looking. Another female deemed a male adequate somewhere in the room and it was like pheromones were released or some sort of metaphysical rockets and sirens started firing off. Hypergamous sensors and implementation systems develop very early.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 12:25 AM
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If a stereotype is true, it's because it's continually being proven true. A stereotype that isn't true, is a false stereotype and as such, it will eventually collapse on its own (no need for anything to be done to it). This notion reminds me of one of my favorite quips I sometimes make: "And no stereotypes were broken on that day..." Most people chuckle but sometimes I see that in the back of their mind the old, rusted wheels are starting to turn and the dust of social justice rhetoric begins cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 11:07 PM
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Good luck to you. I saw your picture in this thread and looks aren't your problem. For you it's just about the gradual emotional growth brought on by social experiences and - as someone else suggested - possibly by overcoming significant challenges. Imagine all the egg shaped, short guys who you've seen with their arm around a good looking women. That should tell you how important confidence and a significant sense of self are.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 09:48 PM
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Women seem to have a specific type of radar that detects people who are seeking validation. It's finely tuned and it will detect you. The only way you can get away with being someone who wants validation is to be wanting it while getting it from people in the room. Since that isn't the case with you I think the biggest thing you could improve about yourself is to stop giving a shit what other people think and just join a club/sport and make some buddies. You've read the RP maxim that women aren'…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 08:26 PM
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That's what you want this sub to be? Complaining? You should create something specifically designed for that and leave the philosophical, scientific, and anecdotal content here untainted by cathartic, bitchy whining.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 05:50 AM
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I'd add one: Political idealism pollutes young minds In the last year I've been reading about feminism and men's rights stuff and, on the extreme feminist side of things, Toronto is easily the place where there seems to be the most anti-male sentiment of any place on the planet. It's absolutely sad that a generation of males and females will grow, live, and die in a place with this hateful dynamic in full effect. Based on the stuff I've read and the videos I've seen from that area I'm not surpri…
/r/seduction26/03/14 08:20 PM
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This was my take. Hits way too many of the cliches. This thread is one of the reasons I can't get up the motivation to mock people for hating /r/theredpill in other parts of reddit, despite it being one of the only places on the internet that acknowledges reality. So may posters here are so eager to have something to hate that the vibe is sometimes the same as in SRS.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 01:41 PM
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The unfortunate probable reality is that he'll only change in the face of adversity/tragedy. You have to realize that most guys' personalities are shaped by single mothers, female preschool teachers, female gradeschool teachers, and female middle and high school teachers. He probably went through this gauntlet and came out limp and with low self esteem, as so many young men do these days. What makes guys find a place like TRP? Usually it seems to be anger once we realize how misled we were. Fail…
/r/askTRP20/03/14 11:29 AM
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I have no strong opinion either way but I'll offer a counterpoint: Going to a nightclub as a guy can be a way of growing as a man. Sort of a crucible in which you burn away self doubt and gain experience in multiple different areas. Approaching strangers, seeing how your game works, learning that it can pay to be the lone idiot out there dancing and having a good time (or learning a cool new move), etc. I've used exposure therapy to overcome things I've been afraid of in life. It seems plausible…
/r/MensRights11/03/14 12:26 AM
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I can verify. Started to notice this about two years ago, haven't been to the site in about a year once I finally got sick of it. They have a real SJW slant and I saw many things that were actively anti male. They advocate the women as victims mentality which is a cancer in modern society.
/r/MensRights09/03/14 01:56 AM
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There are a wide variety of people who react to a wide variety of birth control options in a wide variety of ways. I'd say your single anecdote isn't relevant to the topic "how do female sex drives change on birth control."
/r/askTRP06/03/14 08:23 PM
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It's said that there is a rare genetic condition that dooms a very select few to obesity but, for most of us, it's not possible to stay fat on an appropriate diet. If she can supplant grains and calories with greens/fruits for a sustained period of time she should be okay. I see that you wrote that she already has a bird diet, though, but I have to wonder if she did the usual fad thing and then quit like most people do. When I decided to go gluten free what worked well for me was to keep a big t…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 05:03 PM
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Girls destroy vulnerable guys. Shitty girls do.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 04:48 PM
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I specified a 'good woman', of which there are admittedly not many in the USA and presumably the western world. Are you trying to imply that a strong male-female bond doesn't provide the male a major benefit?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 04:48 PM
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One of my female friends told me, never trust advice/help from another female about your problems with females. I can go along with that. They do it to other females too. One of the funniest things I've seen women do to each other is, when one gets an awful haircut (usually a pixie or short cut) they come out of the woodwork to tell her how adorable it looks. There was a reddit thread the other day started by a girl who got a bad hair cut and I was just laughing, substituting all the "OMG you lo…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 04:44 PM
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Sad how cynical this place has become. It used to be about being informed and about being objective but a lot of the newer people are just about hatred.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 04:30 PM
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Companionship. Many, if not the majority of, guys can't open up to other men and be emotionally vulnerable in the same way they can with a good woman. If it's just a hookup who needs you to carry her groceries then this probably isn't something you're concerned about though.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 05:59 AM
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At some point that tingle one gets from feeling self righteous becomes more important than the discourse. Buzzwords and ad hominems are their easiest path to that glorious sensation.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 05:56 PM
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I was just reading a thread about Disney princesses' appeal and then I saw your comment. Something kind of clicked: We sometimes lament that so many women are ruined by the Disney princess mindset. "I'll find my prince charming and I'll never settle until I find perfection" and all the other entitlement factors that come into play. The thing that I don't see many women take from those princesses is that those princesses are sort of the epitome of feminine. Wide-eyed wonder at life, jovial nature…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 03:46 AM
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Those are only faults inasmuch as they made those minutes less than comfortable but I think your honest nature is something you should embrace. In this case it led you - and maybe some of us - to deeper understanding. Because of that I'd discourage defining your actions as faults. Maybe I'm just being a bit pedantic about the use of one word but some of my favorite people are people who will say the interesting thing, regardless of how politically correct it is. Keep being that guy.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:42 AM
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a hard reject of her probe evaluating a potential new branch to swing to If you look at things through this lens you'll find that it's easier to understand a lot of the behaviors that were previously just brushed off as "women being illogical". There's logic there. An interesting experience: Google articles about sexdolls or sex robots. Read the comments. Women. Fucking. Hate. Those. The second a man says to her "you're irrelevant to me" she is likely to try to qualify herself and, finding no sa…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:20 AM
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This comment is sidebar material, my friend. Explains concisely the rather cynical and bitter tone of the place. Most people here are kind and caring human beings who have somewhat recently had their hearts broken by learning that everything they've been promised and taught by people they trusted was a lie and that they were raised, with intention, to be less than they could be. If someone attacks a grieving person or group of people I think that says something about their empathy or intelligenc…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 03:02 AM
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What does she have to do with feminists? With the caveat that I'm not defending feminism I'd point out that I expect people here to be above strawman/ad hominem bullshit. This woman is pretty clearly suffering from some sort of mental disorder. She seemed bipolar and angry.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:14 AM
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Exercise is the most effective antidote to a stressful life besides diet and sleep. If you push yourself just a little harder to go and do it I'd expect that you'd soon find that you feel less stressed out and busy in general.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/14 08:04 AM
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You're 31, you make good money, you say you're in decent shape, and you have a decent dick. You're just entering your most attractive stage in life while she is leaving hers. Note: I believe this chart is exaggerated but does point to a fundamental principle that is worth taking to heart: your value as a male comes from a spectrum of who you are. You're not just looks, income, status, humor, provider...you're a combination and you can always add and improve new cool things to who you are. I thin…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 08:51 PM
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It's a slow process, man. Reading through here you'll see many stories of guys who have gone through exactly what you have. The reason it's called The Red Pill is because it's something you have to swallow to open your eyes to a different reality. My advice is to just spend time using the information here to understand her behavior. She makes sense to many people here who have taken to heart the fundamental principles of human sexuality. As you slowly incorporate these concepts then the other co…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/14 08:18 PM
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Re: eating You don't hear this said often: diet does not mean less food. It means different food. I'd advise you to start buying healthy lettuce (organic if you can afford it) or spinache or collard greens...green, leafy things of any sort, really...and before every meal stuff your face with two handfuls before eating anything else. You could do this and not otherwise change your diet at all. If you can handle two diet changes at once I'd advise cutting down on grains/gluten. Most people do not …
/r/askTRP15/01/14 10:58 PM
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Have an upvote for offering a weird perspective. Ironic that, in a thread based on a Buddhist maxim, someone coming in with an abstract philosophical point gets a deluge of downvotes. What is your point about female friends looking for male buddies? Is the implication that they're not really looking for relationships?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 09:14 PM
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I think the trick is to understand what anger's purpose is in the context of the situation. It's a useful tool for defining boundaries so if someone crossed a bold line and you care enough about them to try to show them what they did then maybe it's appropriate there. It's a useful tool for self motivation. This, and the prior point, are the two most appropriate and common reasons to express anger in my opinion and I'm uncomfortable that so many people in this thread seem feel differently. It's …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 09:06 PM
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I get the impression much of the disgust is appropriately directed at the posters in that thread who try to deny him his discovery and mislead him into believing that female attraction is all about his displayed commitment and not also about the money and status. Blatant lying is hard enough to stomach from an individual but when it's done by a group to a person who seems fairly vulnerable and when the lies are designed to lure him into multiple alimony payments within 20 years then you're going…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 01:09 AM
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it seems like she was denying him comfort, companionship, or even the bare minimum affections. This is a symptom of the societal perception of men as stoic, cold, and emotionless. Perhaps we're partly to blame for buying in and playing this character outside of the times that it's useful (business, assessing strangers, initial courtship). If we're taught to behave as emotionless and we do then it's not shocking to me that women forget that we have emotions other than humor, lust, and anger. I'm …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 12:02 AM
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The SJW and Tumblr feminists don't hate men - they hate average men. Maybe hate isn't the right word and it could better be said that they despise average men. It's a method of staying true to the ideals of their version of feminism while also obeying natural instincts: they love those alpha traits instinctively but hate themselves for it. The easiest targets to reshape their self-loathing into indignation at society are average men who usually just stand by and take the abuse. I think another l…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 05:28 AM
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Sounds to me like she'd cheat on him if you pushed the issue. Women like this want to feel like it isn't their responsibility if/when she has sex with you so she's opened doors but wants you to push the issue and take the blame for what she'll do.
/r/seduction08/11/13 06:39 PM
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Are you me? Am I you? Is everybody here everybody? I wonder if TRP has ever taken a poll to find out how many of us were raised by liberal single mothers. Probably a major portion, as we're the ones who needed the pill the most. I get similar angst to what you expressed when I see people affiliating themselves politically with either of the two American political parties based on gender issues. Neither party cares about average men in this country, which is why I tend to defend the MRM. It's gen…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 11:53 PM
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Good post and ideas but those are all intrinsic aspects. None of that does anything for the people dealing with the corrupted legal and education systems. To change that you have to play politics on a larger scale.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 11:22 PM
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I've been slowly formulating a condense version of the most poignent stuff I read here and on the rest of the web. https://docs.google.com/file/d/0By_2zrCVuIcQOWRhLTdVeFZQeEU/edit?usp=sharing Many of the hyperlinks are bookmarks that link to more info in the lower section but it looks like the hyperlinks don't work so, if you like what you see, download it and read it in Word.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 05:17 PM
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Fair points. It's still strange that, for a species as evolved and adaptive as ours, we don't have a precedent of uncles or fathers or friends or friends' brothers feeling an obligation to teach younger men how it really is. Perhaps doing so would lower local opportunities for themselves. Perhaps such a high majority of men are incompetent in this field that it's like you said - there's just no information to pass on. If that's the case it will be very interesting to see if and how things change…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 11:53 AM
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Having read your replies in this thread it seems to me that you're having a hard time with the possibility that she's cheating, and understandably so. The fact that you're in this subreddit means that you respect yourself enough to try to expand your understanding and it implies that you don't want to be the doormat that so many of our peers have become. This clashes mightily with your plans with this girl and your feelings that you two have developed in your history together. I get it. You'd wa…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 06:51 AM
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Our parents do such an awful job teaching us how to read women. I had to learn something similar to this the hard way also. Why is this not a world in which fathers are eager to pass on to their sons the lessons they've learned about the areas where there are monumental chasms between male and female psychology? Why are sons sent out into the dating realm having been told that women are only ever upfront, kind, and gentle?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 06:12 AM
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There are other factors but you've basically signed over to her unilateral control of your life once you put that ring on her finger. And that is not alpha, and its not sexy Somehow that connection had eluded me up until reading that. That seems like such a fundamental point that I'm amazed that it's not discussed in this context often; or at least not where I've been reading. People tend to focus more on legal iniquities, emotional differences, hormonal changes...I hadn't seen anybody say that …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 12:45 PM
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we're all entrenched and pre-occuppied with a bullshit gender war. As well as sexual preference wars, racial wars, drug wars, gun rights...Americans are distracted by all these social issues and, while they need to be dealt with eventually, they're not nearly as imminent a threat as our country turning into an Oligarchy. The powerful learned a long time ago that the best way to maintain their power is by keeping the people on whose backs they stand distracted. Let them have bread, and may they a…
/r/MensRights19/10/13 08:01 AM
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I think of the general population as puppets whose strings are loosely manipulated by politicians, religous leaders, and their corresponding media cronies when I wonder why people care so much about homosexuality. That is to say: I don't think people do or would care about it very much if it weren't constantly used as a method of distraction and as a tool of steering discourse to specific places. Those places happen to be away from where the public should be focusing: the withering middle class …
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 02:11 AM
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You could do a marriage ceremony and everything else without actually signing a contract with the state. You'd have to get her to agree to this but it would save face with the family and friends. Frankly, since the institution in its modern format is mainly designed to fuck over males who make a mistake with their partner (and also Jane Lynch), you'd have to question her about why signing your rights away on paper is important to her if you're willing to do all the other stuff.
/r/MensRights12/10/13 05:07 AM
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I found the movement over three years ago and have consistently seen morons like that either downvoted or completely ignored entirely. That's what I'm saying dude. It doesn't matter that almost everybody here goes out of their way to be fair and objective because we aren't forming their perceptions. all i have seen is blatantly obvious racist sexist fucktards think they are in the right place and get rightfully shunned or overwhelmingly obvious trolls fail to make the movement look bad. That's h…
/r/MensRights10/10/13 06:14 AM
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I've seen some very, very nasty stuff on the web using the MRA platform to slander women, black people, homosexuals, etc. All it takes is a few extremely outspoken extremists (or plants pretending to represent that cause) and suddenly people are paying attention to them and formulating opinions based on what they say. There's that guy (or plant) who has that Men's academy whateverthefuck who periodically posts here and gets deleted within an hour - he is what people imagine when they see MRA. No…
/r/MensRights10/10/13 02:28 AM
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Assuming the woman is not busting her ass in the gym and eating right, she will most certainly look and behave very similarly to the mother. I think just eating right would preempt 90% of peoples' problems in this area. Eat mostly veggies and fruits and keep it natural and they'll probably be fine, even without hitting the gym four times a week. The problem is that people born between like 1930 and 1990 (or even up til now) were born into a food culture of rich, creamy, buttery, sugary...that sh…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 06:37 PM
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Ohhh you're an SRSer. Hope you got some good material for the crusade!
/r/MensRights20/09/13 06:30 PM
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? We can't laugh at an article which is basically cheat sheet for how to fail with young women because that makes us bitter and unable to get women? Does not compute.
/r/MensRights20/09/13 06:02 PM
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You come off as a really decent person. Just out of curiosity - did you never get into the "fuck her and everything about her" mode that v_yours is in?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 02:32 PM
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I can see both your and his perspective. He's clearly not creating the happiest life for himself if he's got that much disdain for anybody. I don't think he owes her anything, though. From him: She lied to me about where she was going and what she was doing. She stopped coming home to me so she could spend the night with him. She also stopped fucking me. It took three days from the start of her bullshit to me kicking her ass out. He's hurt and pissed and justifiably so. That's one of the greates…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/13 02:09 PM
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Articles like that are the reason the maxim "Don't ask a woman for advice about what women want" exists. It's good for a laugh now but my since-outgrown high school self was seething in rage because of how fucked I was by leaning heavily on female friends for guidance like this. It's almost like an Onion article.
/r/MensRights20/09/13 01:22 PM
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Which of the sexists working in CPS and in the local courts would have done the firing? This is a systematic problem in the system of fathers losing kids due to bias and this woman is doing what she's effectively expected to do.
/r/MensRights09/09/13 08:01 AM
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Also being in the field of computer engineering it's pretty clear that women are hugely underrepresented in it. Ratios represent the appeal the field holds for any given individual. Way less men become nurses. As far as I know no female I've ever known chose to sit around programming or troubleshooting hardware as a hobby. The program itself (and other computer science/engineering programs) is full of people with offensive views of women and I know for a fact that it creates a hostile environmen…
/r/MensRights02/09/13 06:10 PM
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I think women are systematically disadvantaged in society and wish that would change. I feel that your perception is uninformed. The education system is failing men: In 2009 685,000 men and 916,000 women graduated from college in 2009 (the latest year for which statistics have been published). A short op ed which sums up some of the recent data re: trends in education. Where are the efforts to minimize the gap? Where is the outcry of gender disadvantage on this topic? Then there are the anti-mal…
/r/MensRights02/09/13 05:22 PM
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/r/womens_rights exists but doesn't seem to get much traffic yet.
/r/MensRights02/09/13 04:49 PM
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"Feminism isn't anti-male; it's about promoting females as equals." *bans you for being male *
/r/MensRights02/09/13 04:27 PM
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An interesting experiment would have been for a white male audience member to jump up on stage and push her off after she'd pushed the preacher, for the sake of comparing punishments.
/r/MensRights07/08/13 02:20 PM
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Awesome post. One thing that occurred to me regarding diet is a principle that came to me as I began eating mostly raw foods recently: push out the bad foods with good foods. I noticed that it was very hard to "stop eating pizza" or "stop eating cheese" BUT it wasn't hard at all to begin my meal with healthier foods and THEN be allowed to eat whatever I wanted for the second portion. In that manner I habituated myself to healthy eating without feeling like it was a chore. Same thing with my soda…
/r/seduction30/03/13 09:22 PM
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So you're saying she's not socially retarded? Or that all socially retarded people are autistic?
/r/MensRights22/03/13 07:49 AM
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If you do an AMA I suggest you brand you case for easy reference in the community. Something recognizable, perhaps as simple as The Youssef Case. I've spent the last 80 minutes watching parts of your videos and was inspired by the work and preparation on your part. Your turning the system on its head is pretty major and we need to make sure more people see and hear about it. Package the info in a synopsis for the layperson with only five minutes of attention to give, and include the documentatio…
/r/MensRights08/03/13 04:56 AM
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I don't often do this but: wut?
/r/MensRights06/03/13 07:34 PM
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This is a good reminder. I was realizing how true this is when I spent half of last week away (mostly) from the internet. When I sat down and hit refresh on Reddit again I felt like I was viewing things from a different perspective. I was a lot more objective and calm.
/r/MensRights04/03/13 05:51 PM
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That video linked is fucking horrifying. Blind rage Seems like the feminist group generally believes that the speaker was a promoter of rape? I looked into it a bit and found an op ed, including his quote that got them riled up. This really helps to show how bad people look when they get passionate about something they don't understand and turn off their minds. One demon in charge of the local group plants that seed and everybody believes it and is forever on video looking just as bad as the ant…
/r/MensRights25/02/13 07:12 PM
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I checked both links and am disgusted. I'd readily grant that those particular people responsible for covering up abuse deserve the world's cold shoulder. If people in this sub were more willing to focus their scorn on extreme feminism we'd make the average feminist look ridiculous for defending them. Being willing to note that we recognize that they're not all like that will leave some of them open to hearing out points instead of clamming up defensively. As stands, the mention that the person …
/r/MensRights25/02/13 11:29 AM
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Do they have that much structure that people can be removed? I thought it was an idea and a common goal. I may have to go learn more about this stuff. If that's true, then it's ironic that my post above (which isn't at all critical of MRA) is getting down voted by people doing the exact same type of thing. They have more in common with feminists than they realize!
/r/MensRights25/02/13 12:29 AM
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I'll edit it a bit to clarify that I wasn't speaking to you specifically, but rather to the general reader since it looks like a lot of people in this thread dislike feminists based on their feminism.
/r/MensRights24/02/13 11:40 PM
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I agreed strongly with the OP. Men's rights advocates would get a much more sympathetic ear from the middle of the road people without this constant anger at feminism. Once people perceive that you want to take something they get defensive and irrational. Example: this subreddit gets irrational because feminists are irrational because they're threatened by MRAs who are threatened by feminists...etc. It's true that some feminists are problematic but what does that matter? What is the goal here? W…
/r/MensRights24/02/13 11:20 PM
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Page 5 was quite a dandy synopsis.
/r/MensRights23/02/13 06:26 PM
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Every person, male and female, who doesn't yet have HPV should get vaccinated. Info. Even men are covered and there are good reasons to preclude the risk of getting this STD.
/r/seduction15/02/13 07:23 PM
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Take the second line from every stanza on both posters and we'd have a pretty healthy poster. Your poster is a great refutation.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 09:20 PM
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I was neutral but now I'm MRA. I think many MRA would consider themselves 'neutral'. Unless, of course, you define seeking equal rights as somehow opposed to feminism/opposed by feminism. I certainly don't feel like this is a two sided battle.
/r/MensRights13/02/13 08:16 PM
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Most people won't be capable of thinking in these nuanced terms. It's going to be the MEN ARE RAPISTS AND ABUSERS crowd vs. the MEN ARE AFFECTED EXACTLY THE SAME crowd. And, unfortunately, that's necessary to frame the debate for people who aren't deeply interested in the topic. Humans (or maybe just us Americans) don't do a good job of paying attention to important issues unless we have a strong emotional lure. I happen to agree that men are affected in different ways than women when the same a…
/r/MensRights13/02/13 07:17 PM
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That describes it well. There was a specific term for this type of arguing that I clearly liked so much that I promptly forgot it. I'll do some webcrawling and see if I can find the term. edit: Postmodern Discourse
/r/MensRights06/02/13 10:14 PM
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The fallacy being used here is the belief that opposing an organization is tantamount to supporting everything it opposes I think there's a specific term for this. It's kind of an ad hominem attack but that's not the label. It was something like "post modern debating" and refers to the binary thinking and dredging up unstated beliefs and ascribing them to the person being debated in lieu of touching on the actual topic. Whoever can demonize the other side the most "wins".
/r/MensRights06/02/13 08:54 PM
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I care. You should look up some stuff about the frequency and severity of female on male violence and ask yourself if society should be promoting more of it.
/r/MensRights04/02/13 01:10 PM
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I've known / I know guys like this who do pretty well using that goofy, recklessly happy, cornball style. It works for some girls so I would disagree that his points are terrible.
/r/seduction25/01/13 02:14 AM
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We often take our film and television watching experience too much to heart. Probably has something to do with our ape brains not being able to properly filter out what appears to be reality / from what is reality and so we substitute what we see or read in place of getting real world experience or in place of existing experience. We then get into arguments with partners when they can't fit into our little mold. I certainly have come a long way in understanding women and relationships from where…
/r/seduction02/01/13 09:59 AM
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You should comment in one of those massive "Women of Reddit what should guys do more?" threads! This is all legit stuff, whereas those threads are generally disappointing because women just relay stuff magazines say they should like.
/r/seduction02/01/13 03:54 AM
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That was aimed towards someone caught up on one chick. It's good to hear you're not one of those :) I still think you're going to have trouble establishing rapport over Facebook so your best bet is to re-meet her and get a number + a fast date scheduled. If that's not an option throw a hail mary "Hey it's X I was at (the place you spoke) and remembered you making me all kinds of promises" type message at her and maybe she bites.
/r/seduction30/12/12 07:55 AM
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You're a distant memory to her and whatever attraction she might have felt is gone. She's had 10 guys hit on her since then - minimum - and one or two of them probably have a date set up. She's not thinking of you and has a ton of options. You're thinking of her because you don't have options pouring in. That's why pk said to ignore her: you're wasting time and energy that you should be using to find someone more interested in you.
/r/seduction30/12/12 12:35 AM
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I can't even fathom this. These people are treating life like it's some sort of computer program, with no ability to utilize context or apply logic discerningly. Sometimes I think the people who enable criminals are worse than the actual criminals. She's a known quantity but has no power without these assholes constantly harassing this guy on her behalf. Chilling stuff.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 01:28 AM
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Only one of your questions pertains to the now and even the question about who makes more money has been proven to be a drastically exaggerated disparity. Men's right and feminism aren't about what happened 50, 100 or 1000 years ago. It's about issues happening now, and there are some very relevant issues facing both genders that deserve responsible attention instead of the usual hyperbole.
/r/MensRights25/07/12 11:20 PM
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What country was this? United States? Yeah, she almost assuredly retained custody. The father probably got a fine for having a kid with her too. Very irresponsible on his part.
/r/MensRights10/04/12 08:14 PM
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I have seen the light. Your hatred has modified my beliefs. The irrational hatred and accusations you made were effective. I shall now assist you in your cause. What are we doing today? Hating a gender?
/r/MensRights22/08/11 03:39 PM
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Yeah, feminists are right in line behind catcallers on the list of people I wouldn't mind poof disappearing from the world.
/r/MensRights22/08/11 02:45 PM
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I didn't say they didn't or shouldn't creep you out. I, and probably the majority of males you'll meet in a day, despise those guys. I'm just trying to remind you of that. I wonder why some unspoken social taboo against this hasn't manifested. The blatant stuff - the verbal assaults - should have bring with them consequence. Unfortunately our society is very conflict-averse and people that deserve a fist in the face get away with some pretty repugnant crap.
/r/MensRights22/08/11 02:25 PM
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I may have diverged from my point in the previous post by getting into what I find more attractive. My point should have simply been that, as long as you are in good physical shape and moderately attractive, you are going to draw attention. We can't help it. The only way it will stop is if you get fat or start wearing eskimo suits. Those guys harassing you are damaged in some way and did not learn/can not abide by social norms. I really hate that they do that (though it does work to an extent, u…
/r/MensRights22/08/11 02:05 PM
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The "perverts" are the men who have the temerity to not be subjectively attractive. It never really clicked for me until I read that line. That's powerful.
/r/MensRights22/08/11 11:14 AM
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This is very, very interesting. Thanks for pointing that out. I really don't understand why men make comments or overt sounds/gesture. I think if the culprits simply appreciated a good thing when it walks by, women would feel a bit less creeped out. It has to b a strange life to have the constant knowledge that a major portion of people you see in a day want to have sex with you. Especially if you're putting some effort into not presenting yourself as that. By the way - covered shoulders, shirts…
/r/MensRights22/08/11 11:00 AM
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Beauty is a result of selective breeding. Beauty is a target (x) on a beautiful person that, fundamentally, only exists because it is a sexual lure. This "I wear skimpy clothes because I feel empowered" stuff may be how some women feel, and that's fine, but they aren't thinking things through fully. Beauty has nothing to do with the survival of our species and little to do with our capabilities. It is a secondary or third-level trait that, again, exists because of our desire to reproduce with a …
/r/MensRights22/08/11 10:49 AM
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Doctors all make mistakes and omit/forget things from time to time. Especially about psychiatric stuff. Your situations sounds very familiar. Having anxiety problems (at the time untreated) stonewalled me badly. It was irrational. The feeling when things started getting very heavy was basically "Get out of the trench and charge the German bunker!" Once we started moving towards sex I wanted nothing more than to not have to do it. Not in a grossed out way but in that aforementioned irrational way…
/r/seduction08/07/11 07:39 AM
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MisterMagoop - Not an answer to your question but a suggestion: Have you been looked at for an anxiety disorder? Your cure for your sexual hangups (if that's all it is) could be as simple as taking a Klonopin and sealing the deal a few times. Anti-anxiety medication really works and it's possible to be incapacitated by one specific thing.
/r/seduction08/07/11 02:36 AM
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Most attractive women aren't capable of responding to you sexually if you're an average internet browsing college kid. Being kind and trying to show genuine interest isn't going to get you anything sexual. So in that regard, don't lament the loss. You've gone past a threshold and changed your personality. Having the ability to manipulate people is not something easily given up. Your best bet is to look to your past (or family members) and find a female who you were able to respect as a human bei…
/r/seduction19/06/11 11:52 AM
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