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| 1 | Society Acknowledges Male Loneliness… But Condemns Every Way Men Try to CopeWhat about escorts? So if you are 40 years old and you work on yourself, go to the gym almost everyday and build your character and confidence but still don’t have any luck finding a partner. Sometimes in life, things don’t always work out the way it’s supposed to. So the question is how long should a man stay involuntarily celibate? | /r/MensRights | 14/03/26 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Society Acknowledges Male Loneliness… But Condemns Every Way Men Try to CopeOkay, you mentioned a lot of “activities” , but what do we do to get laid? Do you think sex robots is the way to go or escorts? Please don’t tell me distraction and celibacy | /r/MensRights | 13/03/26 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Society Acknowledges Male Loneliness… But Condemns Every Way Men Try to CopeFunny you say vibrating coochie. A model in my showroom has this feature. Gay men also tend to be in “friendships” with a lot of these women | /r/MensRights | 13/03/26 06:37 PM |
| -3 | Society Acknowledges Male Loneliness… But Condemns Every Way Men Try to CopeI understand why some people feel that way. When certain discussions get shut down or banned in different places online, it can make people feel like they have to keep their views private. But I don’t think secrecy is a healthy long-term solution either. The point of the post is that issues like male loneliness should be able to be discussed openly without immediately being mocked or dismissed. When people feel forced into secrecy, the conversation just becomes more polarized instead of more hon… | /r/MensRights | 11/03/26 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Society Acknowledges Male Loneliness… But Condemns Every Way Men Try to CopeI understand the frustration, but I don’t think secrecy or antagonism is the answer. The whole point of the post is that men should be able to talk about loneliness openly without it immediately turning into ridicule. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/26 11:50 PM |
| 15 | Society Acknowledges Male Loneliness… But Condemns Every Way Men Try to CopeSelf-improvement is great advice, but it’s not a substitute for human intimacy. A man can be in shape, successful, and mentally healthy and still experience loneliness after divorce, rejection, or long dry spells. Also, mental health problems and loneliness are often connected rather than separate issues. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/26 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Why Is Society So Comfortable Mocking Sexually Unsuccessful Men?The more human like they become in look and feel, the more people will be open to the idea of owning one. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/26 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Why Is Society So Comfortable Mocking Sexually Unsuccessful Men?Good question. There are a few practical and social reasons why male dolls haven’t caught on with women the way female dolls have with men. First, the physical aspect. Full-size silicone dolls are extremely heavy. Many weigh 70 pounds or more, and moving or positioning them can require a lot of upper body strength. Second, the proportions. Most dolls on the market are around 5'2" to 5'5". That works reasonably well for female dolls because many men prefer smaller women, but many women prefer tal… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/26 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Why Is Society So Comfortable Mocking Sexually Unsuccessful Men?Very valid point. In my experience in this doll industry, I have met a big significant percentage of married men who want to get a doll like this because their wives have lost their drive for whatever reason, and the doll is a healthy outlet and not cheating. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/26 08:49 PM |
| 19 | Why Is Society So Comfortable Mocking Sexually Unsuccessful Men?I really like the points you made here. You brought up some very valid observations. My prediction is that these “fembot” style dolls are eventually going to become so advanced and human-like that owning one may actually become something people see as normal, or even cool. If you’re old enough to remember the 90s, there used to be a lot of stigma around meeting people online for dating. Back then many people thought online dating was only for losers or socially awkward people. Within less than t… | /r/MensRights | 08/03/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Living alone after divorce has been a bigger adjustment than I expectedThis is real, and if you want to interpret it as a marketing gimmick, that's on you. This is something that will be more mainstream within the next five years, and you'll look back at this and understand that nobody's pushing anything here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Living alone after divorce has been a bigger adjustment than I expectedwhat sucks? the rebuilding phase? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/26 04:28 AM |
| 1 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyI'm glad your own personal experiences are different. Of course there are exceptions. However, this has not been the case with a lot of men out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | What makes a woman “relationship material”? Not what you’ve been told.yes, and all these traits fall under good character. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/25 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Almost Got Killed Last NightFirst off man, I am glad you are still here. You survived something that easily could have taken you out, and even if it does not feel like it now, that matters. You are still in the game whether you realize it or not. Now about your wife. I could be wrong, but it sounds like something happened on your side that pushed her away. When someone leaves that fast, when everything on paper seems good, it usually means there was something deeper going on that maybe you regret now. Maybe anger, control … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/25 02:02 AM |
| 1 | The Lie That Men Should Never Be Controlling (And Why Boundaries Are Needed To Maintain Masculine Frame)good point you make. The only issue is how do we know which boundaries come from insecurity? For the man setting the boundaries, he could be thinking that his boundaries are legit and do not come from feelings of insecurity. To other people, they may see this "control" as insecurity. So what do you think it could be that makes the setting of certain boundaries come from insecurity? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Just curious… for those who initiated the Divorce due to reasonings other than infidelity, why did you initiate? How is life, and your mental state now (post Divorce)?At your service my brother from another mother. You know what to do, it's time to take back control. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/25 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Before you criticize "Disney dads"....Yeah, I tried being the “responsible dad” too, rules, chores, structure. My kid said, “Dad’s house feels like school.” Her mom’s place? Chuck E. Cheese with no bedtime and a rotating cast of "just friends." Guess who wins? So now I do both. I’m Fun Dad with a bedtime. We eat ice cream after homework. She complains, then asks when I’m picking her up again. Go figure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/25 02:50 AM |
| 18 | Just curious… for those who initiated the Divorce due to reasonings other than infidelity, why did you initiate? How is life, and your mental state now (post Divorce)?Brother, I hear you loud and clear. Let me tell you something upfront. Downloading Hinge while still married, even just to see what’s out there, is like lighting a match in a gas leak and hoping for enlightenment instead of an explosion. If she finds out, it won’t be a wake-up call, it’ll be ammunition. Courtroom ammo. Emotional wreckage. Even if your intentions are innocent, that app on your phone turns you into the bad guy overnight. Now, with that said, the real story here is that you’re alre… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/25 01:33 AM |
| 20 | Stupid facetimeAh yes, the classic mystery chauffeur move. Nothing says "I’ve moved on with class and maturity" like twisting yourself into a yoga pose just to keep your new boyfriend’s elbow out of the FaceTime frame. Been there, man. You’re sitting on the couch watching your kid talk to Mommy, and suddenly it feels like you’re watching a badly directed spy thriller. She’s whispering, the lighting is weird, and every time you hear a male cough, she’s like, "Oh, that’s just the TV." And you know she’s with Mr.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/25 01:26 AM |
| 2 | The Lie That Men Should Never Be Controlling (And Why Boundaries Are Needed To Maintain Masculine Frame)"Also if you can’t trust your girlfriend to go to the club then that is pretty tragic and you should either work on your own self confidence or find a girl you can trust when you’re not around." Sorry there, but no man should EVER trust his girl going to the club. And if you do, that is a result of being brainwashed by western feminism. If women are in a relationship and want to behave as if they are single, then fuck them! That's not a man's problem, that is clearly a woman's issue and has NOTH… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/25 08:35 PM |
| 5 | The Lie That Men Should Never Be Controlling (And Why Boundaries Are Needed To Maintain Masculine Frame)I agree with you to some extent. But there are plenty of chad looking men out there who have been accused of being controlling because they set boundaries with their women. Many modern women will resist this no matter how good looking the guy is. However, if the dude is lower on the looks scale, yeah, she could put up more of a fight in the beginning compared to a chad guy. However, the chad status can change easily in her mind. So the "chad" looks don't always keep you in the safe zone that she… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/25 08:29 PM |
| 4 | The Lie That Men Should Never Be Controlling (And Why Boundaries Are Needed To Maintain Masculine Frame)Exactly. I am guilty of this myself. I have tried to enforce boundaries in the past but my biggest problem was consistency and sticking to my word. It's tough, especially if she's hot and the sex is the best you have gotten in a very long time. But that's where men go wrong when they think with their dick and do not have an abundance mentality. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/25 08:24 PM |
| 2 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.Dude, I think you replied to the wrong post. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/25 02:08 AM |
| 5 | One Week Away and She Now Decides to ContestMan, I hate to say it, but this doesn’t sound like it’s coming from her alone. You had everything lined up, signed, notarized, submitted, and then suddenly, a week before it’s finalized, she flips the script. That’s almost always the result of outside influence. Someone, maybe a family member, a friend, or some third-party advisor, got in her ear and started planting ideas. Told her she was entitled to more, told her to fight for the kids, or that she was settling too easy. And when someone’s al… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/25 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Toxic, Horrible, SepticYeah man, I actually just responded to a post not long ago that sounded a lot like this. The guy was saying the same thing, his wife had become totally unrecognizable. No empathy, picking fights out of nowhere, flipping the script and making him out to be the villain. And I told him what I’ll tell you now, this pattern is not new, and it’s not some isolated thing. You’re not crazy for noticing the shift. This happens more than people want to admit. What usually happens is she starts a fight over… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 12:38 AM |
| 11 | I feel so brokenYou’re not broken, brother. You’re cracked open, and that’s where the light starts to get in. The fact that you can write this, feel this deeply, and still reach out means there’s still a part of you that wants to live, that wants to heal, even if it’s buried under pain right now. And you’re right, you are not alone. Not by a long shot. There’s something sacred about shared suffering. It connects people in a way comfort never could. Keep climbing, even if it’s slow. Even if you’re crawling. Ever… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 12:25 AM |
| 1 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyWhat I'm saying is that any type of hormonal based drug (like BC) can alter the brain chemistry. So even if the guy is an alpha chad, and she gets off bc, her attraction towards him can still change for the worse. Does this mean she needs to go back on bc? No. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/25 11:18 PM |
| 17 | Today I broke downMan, first off, I feel for you. You’re not broken for feeling this way. You’re a husband, a father, and someone who clearly hasn’t given up. That matters. From everything you wrote, it doesn’t sound like you’re trying to escape or shift blame. It sounds like you don’t want this to end. Unless you were abusive, cheating, or totally checked out, this kind of emotional detachment from her doesn’t just come out of nowhere. People don’t go cold like that without a cause. And I’m gonna say what most w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/25 06:13 PM |
| 2 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyyeah, I don't think it's as simplistic as you make it out to be. It's not just attraction. It's complete change in brain chemistry and behavior. It's not like all of the sudden, they are going to be the best woman towards some alpha chad. She would turn on him as well. So to call this "beta cope" is just pure ignorance. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.portugues? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/25 09:03 PM |
| 4 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.That’s an interesting observation. And there are more males who are on the spectrum than females in general. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/25 08:31 PM |
| 7 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.Yes, the keyword is “connection“. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/25 03:52 PM |
| 9 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.You make a solid point. But let’s be honest, we’re men, and we’re human. We have emotions, and yeah, we’ve got to keep them in check. I remember back when I was younger and deep in my simp phase, I used to take all these lines from women at face value. I believed every story they told about their ex or some guy from a situationship like it was gospel. I always sided with them, thinking I was being supportive. But once I started seeing through the bullshit and actually decoding what was being sai… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/25 04:26 AM |
| 4 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.Thanks. I appreciate the feedback | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/25 09:45 PM |
| 8 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.Good one! Or, she wants to settle down now with you. Translation, you’re the perfect beta simp she can control. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/25 09:16 PM |
| 4 | If You Talk Like Her, You’ll Think Like Her: Stop Using Her Vocabulary - What she says and what she really means.Remember, this is shit she will write in her profile, she may bring these things up at anytime. Not just first date. So it’s important to keep your ears open. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/25 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Suggestions dealing with hostile ex trying to annoy me with new boyfriendglad I can help brother. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Suggestions dealing with hostile ex trying to annoy me with new boyfriendYeah man, this is a manipulation play, plain and simple. She’s not doing this because she’s in love or even proud of the new guy. She’s doing it because you’re not reacting, and that’s eating her up. When someone loses control, they start throwing cheap shots just to see if they still matter. You already handled the hard part. You got out, you protected your kids, and you kept your head while she burned herself with a criminal record. That’s a win. But now comes the part where you have to manage… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/25 08:06 PM |
| 3 | My post about Russell Brand has been removed by a moderator.I don't think that is the real reason for you staying single. Because if you are so concerned about screwing men over in divorce court, than you wouldn't do it. It's mostly women filing for divorce, so why would you be concerned about men getting screwed over in court? | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 06:28 PM |
| 4 | My post about Russell Brand has been removed by a moderator.That’s why you have egalitarian mindset. It’s not the same. It’s completely different. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 04:30 PM |
| 13 | Progress promoting fatherhood in USListen, I’m glad this conversation is finally happening, but I’ll believe it when I see real changes on the ground. We’ve been talking about the struggles men face for years, and only now, when the political winds start shifting, do the big wigs in Washington suddenly realize dads matter and boys are in crisis? Come on. It's not like any of this is new. We’ve got a generation of boys floundering in school, dying younger, offing themselves at alarming rates, getting crushed in family courts, and … | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Why is there a saying that you should never hit a girlDude, it's totally cool to hit a girl in self defense. Just make sure it's not closed fist but open hand slaps. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 01:39 AM |
| 18 | My post about Russell Brand has been removed by a moderator.just look at that person's name "stomp-a-fash", hmmmm, I wonder if this person is a leftist leftard? | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 01:36 AM |
| 27 | My post about Russell Brand has been removed by a moderator.dude, I got 3 of my postings removed from this subreddit, and yes, I also mentioned single mothers and how women over 30 never married, men to need to question why she is single. It's frustrating. I think the moderators thought it was too redpill and I was corrupting the community with my ideas. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/25 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Losers and Loserettes - Why being called a loser cuts deeper for men, how the label evolved, and why it rarely gets tossed at women (plus, what makes a man an actual loser)very well said, especially about the final judgment part of the word loser. This is what motivated me to write this post because I have always thought about this word for so many years and how ugly it is for a man to be called this. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/25 03:32 AM |
| 11 | STBXW says my relationship with my daughters is not normal.Alright my man, take a deep breath because you're doing a hell of a job as a dad, and I’m not just blowing smoke. What you’re dealing with is classic bitter ex behavior. Your STBXW is running a manipulation play straight out of the spiteful co-parenting playbook. She can’t compete with the bond you’re building with your girls, so she’s trying to poison the well with petty comments and character attacks. Calling you a loser? Saying your kids don’t want to be with you? That’s not insight, that’s p… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Cooking for a woman is a personality hackMan, I wish someone had told me this back when I was 24 (2 decades ago). Would’ve saved me a whole lot of pain. Reading this post reminded me of this girl I dated who was three years older than me. I went to her parents’ place in Long Island for the first time, big moment, right? Meet the folks, make a good impression. She asks if I want a baked potato and I say sure, thinking she’s gonna throw it in the oven like a normal person. Instead, she wraps the damn thing in tin foil, tosses it into the… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/25 04:16 AM |
| 6 | Your Best Chances of Getting Lucky Using Cold Approach - The Hotel Bar Strategyunderstood, I'll keep it to once a week. Thanks for your feedback, I will take everything into consideration. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/25 12:51 AM |
| 5 | Your Best Chances of Getting Lucky Using Cold Approach - The Hotel Bar Strategyunderstood, but no need to tell me to "fuck off". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/25 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Losers and Loserettes - Why being called a loser cuts deeper for men, how the label evolved, and why it rarely gets tossed at women (plus, what makes a man an actual loser)exactly, women rarely get called losers. That's why I coined the term "loserette" and explained that women can easily earn that title just like men. A woman can be shoveling shit for a living or flipping burgers in a McDonalds uniform, or work at a slaughter house, and as long as she is attractive and pleasant to be around, men won't give a shit what she does for a living or what her accomplishments are. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/25 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Losers and Loserettes - Why being called a loser cuts deeper for men, how the label evolved, and why it rarely gets tossed at women (plus, what makes a man an actual loser)What does that mean? | /r/MensRights | 07/04/25 09:17 PM |
| 6 | Your Best Chances of Getting Lucky Using Cold Approach - The Hotel Bar StrategyYeah because you’re straight and probably shorter than most of them. Most guys would probably strike out too. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/25 09:16 PM |
| 25 | Women shit test unintentionallyAlright, my guy, I hear you, but let me slow you down for a second. You're calling all this “gaslighting,” but it sounds more like you're just getting tripped up by standard female behavior. You're not dating a sociopath, you're dating a woman. Women say contradictory stuff all the time, they poke, they tease, they say things without thinking. Most of the time, it’s not some evil plot to make you question reality, it’s just how they talk. You ever seen two women have a conversation? Half of it i… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/25 12:43 AM |
| 16 | Your Best Chances of Getting Lucky Using Cold Approach - The Hotel Bar Strategy"fish where the fish are". I guess so, but not many guys even think to use this strategy. That's why I'm pushing for it over other venues. The term "provider services", I like that term, but it's also used to get past certain censorship. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/25 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Wife of One Year Wants DivorceAlright my man, this whole situation sounds like a damn nightmare wrapped in a transplant recovery. First off, I’m sorry you’re going through all this. You're trying to heal and survive, and meanwhile your wife is stealing your meds and chucking stuff at you like it’s a scene out of a bad reality show. Now let’s call it what it is, this isn’t a “rough patch,” this is abuse. And not just emotional abuse either, you’re talking straight-up theft, violence, manipulation, and control. And I get it, y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 07:09 PM |
| 5 | Did any of you find it impossible to ask her to do…anything?First off, what exactly were you asking her to do? Were these big asks or just everyday normal relationship stuff? Like are we talking, “Hey can you pick up the dry cleaning,” or “Can you stop emotionally bulldozing me every time I bring up a basic need?” There’s a difference. And more importantly, what was she asking of you? Because in these setups, it’s usually one-sided. She’s got a laundry list of what she needs from you, and the minute you bring up anything you need from her, suddenly it’s … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 07:00 PM |
| 4 | She's Attractive, She Seems Nice, She's Perfect - Why Is She Still Single?stats mention that when the man files it's usually because of her infidelity, alcohol/drug problem, severe mental health issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 06:03 AM |
| 2 | She's Attractive, She Seems Nice, She's Perfect - Why Is She Still Single?stats mention that when the man files it's usually because of her infidelity, alcohol/drug problem, severe mental health issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 06:03 AM |
| 1 | She's Attractive, She Seems Nice, She's Perfect - Why Is She Still Single?And that's the whole problem. Women are not emotionally ready for commitment in their 20s. I don't know but it sounds like a serious cultural decline. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 05:37 AM |
| 3 | She's Attractive, She Seems Nice, She's Perfect - Why Is She Still Single?Hey look, I’m not denying that men have their own set of problems. Plenty of dudes out there are clueless, immature, and think their paycheck entitles them to a girlfriend who acts like their personal assistant. I’ve seen it. But that’s not the point of this post. The point here is to stop pretending that women, especially the ones who’ve been single for years or are divorced in their early 30s, are just unlucky. They made choices. Same as men do. And those choices have consequences. Yeah, men a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/25 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InThats a good approach you have. I lost my virginity at a young age to a whore. As you said, it helped you take sex of the "pedestal". You are right that there is nothing better than a woman who genuinely loves you and respects you. That is the ultimate goal all of us men want. However, we need an outlet and some experience in the dry seasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/25 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InYou are correct! I believe most guys are not meant to learn game because it's extremely unnatural. For thousands of years, men never needed to know this "game". It's a modern day phenomena. Some dudes will never learn no matter how much they are taught. Very few make big break throughs. So what does TRP do? Ignore those dudes? Pretend the problem doesn't exist? All dudes can improve somewhat. But are they going to improve enough they they become attractive to the opposite sex? So what do we do w… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/25 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InDUDE!!! Seriously? That story is fucking hilarious! Holy shit bro, you're lucky your dick hasn't fallen off by now. Damn....smh | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/25 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting Inand what about all those hoes at the night club that fuck several different dudes every week and don't charge?. Same thing, but I bet the whore makes her johns use a condom and the free hoes don't always enforce that rule. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InExactly! That's my point. If a dude just wants a peace of ass, he has to put on a whole show, act fake and deceptive. That's cool if you want to deal with that headache. Otherwise, it's more efficient to just pay for it. Nothing wrong or incelish about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting Inso fucking a slut who gets around and doesn't charge you? We can also call that "glorified masturbation" | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InSure, I'll answer the question. I'm 45, live in NYC. Last month I decided to go out to the local bars on the weekends. I approached with intention of getting laid, not getting a fucking number. I got laid twice, two different women. One was an old maid in her early 50's. She invited me back to her place at around 2AM. Shitty lay, not really worth staying up that late for it. Second girl was mid 30's, out of town from the midwest on business. She happened to be staying at the Marriot down the str… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 09:09 PM |
| 8 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InExactly, man. Every time, the answer is "just improve your game." Like that’s the magic pill for every guy in every situation. What about men who just want to get some action without the strings, the drama, or the mental gymnastics of modern dating? Why are we pretending that chasing civilian women for casual sex is somehow noble? Even guys with looks and charm use provider services. You think every high-value man is out here running cold approaches for side action? Hell no. They’re paying profe… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InIt means if you go for a long time without sex, you can start thinking with your dick sometimes. It's good to have a clear head when approaching women. The longer you go without sex, the more desperation she can sense. And let's say the guy finally does score and get laid. Great! How consistent is that one night stand going to be? If a guy just wants to get laid with no strings attached, why on earth would he waste his time with women who are not on the same page as him? I guess he should be ope… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InWell you put your body and mind in danger by sleeping with a slut who doesn’t charge. If a dude just wants to get laid without being in a committed relationship, then what should he do? Focus on his cold approach day game? Seriously. Why should a guy get himself involved in a bunch of drama if he just wants to bust a nut. Stepping up ones game to get laid will not protect him from all the drama and bullshit that comes with a one night stand. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 05:31 PM |
| 0 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InSo that means you need to be in a committed relationship if you ain’t gonna wrap your Willy. So how often are you in a committed relationship? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InSo how long is a man supposed to go without getting laid? I want the red pill to give an answer to all those socially awkward men or those who are on the spectrum or some of those that will never get that good looking no matter how much they go to the gym or how good they dress they are still ugly and can’t get laid. This is a reality of life and I think many people just ignore it and just say “focus on your game and yourself improvement“. No one‘s telling people not to focus on that but let’s b… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 04:29 PM |
| 10 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InYes, it does, it’s so you stop smelling of desperation. If you haven’t gotten laid in a long time, sometimes you make really bad decisions and go for the wrong woman because you’re very desperate to get laid. It’s a great way to clear your mind so you can focus on the important things in life, but for some reason, I guess you think that paying for it is only for losers. So I want you to tell me how long is a man supposed to wait in order to get laid one year? Two years? Three years? How long is … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 04:20 PM |
| 6 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InYeah, I’m still trying to figure out why red pill philosophy is trying to deny the fact that there’s a biological urge men have and not everyone is going to be able to find a woman so easily. This isn’t about giving up, this is about enduring, long dry spells for many men. I don’t understand why only in America do men shame other men for doing this. I’m glad that you have the guts to at least admit it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InThat’s the problem, you don’t discuss the big fat elephant in the room. Why does everyone assume that this about MGTOW? That is just foolish and you’re not being realistic with the majority of men out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 07:25 AM |
| 9 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InThen what happens during long dry spells? Nobody talks about that and it’s a fact that we never discuss | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 07:17 AM |
| 10 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting Inbro, you're lucky you have a "roster", not many guys are in that position | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting Inso do you go without sex for years? jerk off? doll? or distractions? What do you do? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 06:00 AM |
| -4 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting Inthat's cool if you are okay with long dryspells, some guys are okay with it, others are not. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 05:59 AM |
| 3 | I might get a divorce and I’m scaredanytime my brother. Let us know how it goes | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/25 08:53 PM |
| 26 | I might get a divorce and I’m scaredHey man, I hear the pain in your words, and I gotta say, this is one of those crossroads a lot of us hit, especially after a decade in. You’re not crazy, and you’re not alone. Look, when the intimacy fades, especially after years of marriage, it’s easy to start thinking the whole thing is broken beyond repair. But more often than not, it’s not about love being gone, it’s about burnout, hormonal changes, and emotional wounds that haven’t been cleaned out properly. You already mentioned counseling… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyI hear what you are saying about how you maintain "good frame". In all honesty, NONE of this matters at all. You could be the smoothest, coolest Chad with lots of money, six pack abs, big dick and once the hormonal shift starts, it can cause her to detatch. Countless good husbands have been left by their once loving wives. It's very scary to think that the woman you marry today, can turn into a monster after the first kid is born. It doesn't even have to be BC. It can be post partum, or thyroid,… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategywaifu-doll | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationyou mean the tiny home/travel trailer route? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 09:13 PM |
| -3 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationwhat the other commentors are saying is that because I sell sex dolls for a living, that I must have some agenda and all my content should be discredited because I am a rubber woman peddler or maybe I have some far right agenda. Instead of scrutinizing the actual substance of the article, they choose to attack me because of my post history and what I do for a living. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationthat's great, thanks for providing links to these articles. I never actually read these before because I don't read the NY Times. ANd who the hell cares if there are similar articles. What is your point?. What are you trying to prove?. WHy don't you criticize the substance of the article instead. Use your research time wisely there buddy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 07:07 PM |
| -4 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationI really want to know what the agenda is? Is my agenda to peddle rubber women to you? Am I trying to pin men against women? I seriously want to know what the agenda is because I have no clue myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationNobody messages me from other subreddits asking for a doll. ANd if they did, that would be great!! But I don't count on that. The dolls are secondary. You should focus on the content, not me. It seems you are more concerned about my background than the post content itself. What's up with that? You are more concerned about who it was written by. Are you trying to warn others about my "dangerous" content, or perhaps I will try to sell them a doll? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 06:25 PM |
| -1 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationI wrote it, AI edited. Who gives a rats ass | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationWrong wrong but think what you wanna think, no one selling you a doll | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationyou made a very wise decison by doing the "snip" | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationI agree with you that I did skim over that because for many it's not always the practical option. Although, I agree, it's quite tempting. But we need to be honest, it's not for a lot of men to do this. Also, I don't think it's necessary to move abroad to find a woman if you are just looking for companionship. Keep in mind that a man who is in his 40s,50's,60s who wants to date a woman half his age, regardless of her cultural background, is most likely going to want to have marriage and family wi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Divorced Men On The Dating Market With Kids - Let the goal for the second round be about companionship rather than marriage and cohabitationI actually have written some articles about going the different route when it comes to home ownership. I encourage that opting for travel trailer/tiny home at a RV park is much cheaper than trying to rebuild equity by purchasing a home or condo paying mortage and maintenance and taxes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 01:59 AM |
| 1 | To the "got more experience than the rest of all you bros on here" alphas, please share your sage wisdom /sOh yeah, here come the “alphas”, the guys who claim they were bottle-fed creatine and started cold approaching nurses straight out the womb. Every time they post, it’s like reading the autobiography of a delusional nightclub bouncer who spews out unoriginal generic advice. These are the same dudes who live in their mom’s basement, but swear they’re giving lectures on frame control to their goldfish. “Bro, it’s all about eye contact, pheromones, and a deep voice.” Nah man, it’s about paying your … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/25 09:36 PM |
| 9 | New lifeHey brother, I feel this one deep. That silence in the house? It echoes. And no amount of pushups or grilled chicken is gonna drown that out when the soul’s heavy. I’ve been in that same movie theater solo, eating stale popcorn, watching some CGI mess thinking, “Well, this ain’t exactly a comeback story.” But I’ll tell you what, sometimes just showing up to the damn movie is a win. It means you didn’t give up. Now, as for the therapy thing, I hear you. You dig deep, peel back the layers, and sud… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 07:50 PM |
| 6 | Now wife works out and loses weightHey man, I hear you loud and clear, and just to be clear myself, I’m not saying it’s all hormones. I’ve written about this before, especially when that shift hits after the third kid. Something does change. Biologically, emotionally, even chemically, but that doesn’t excuse betrayal. It just gives context. And yeah, I feel you on the nudes. Don’t beat yourself up. The reason she’s suddenly turned into a SnapChat centerfold for this other dude? It ain’t about him. It’s about her chasing a fantasy… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 07:13 PM |
| 13 | Now wife works out and loses weightBrother, I feel this one in my soul. Ain’t it wild how she suddenly discovers the stairmaster after torching the marriage? Like, where was that energy when you were begging her to split a salad instead of a double bacon melt? Here’s what probably happened: she’s either on Ozempic, or she's riding that post-affair adrenaline like it's pre-workout. Either way, it’s hormonal chaos mixed with ego fuel. She’s in what I call the “revenge Barbie” phase, hitting the gym, posting thirst traps, and preten… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 06:51 PM |
| 24 | Why do they almost always get knocked up in the first year after leaving?Oh man, I’ve seen this pattern play out so many times, it’s practically a sitcom at this point. She walks out the door, spends six months “finding herself,” and next thing you know she’s knocked up by some dude named Chad who gives her the feefees and makes her thing tingle (more because of the novelty). Why? Because a lot of these women aren’t really leaving to upgrade — they’re leaving to chase chaos with a new cast member. It's like they’ve been emotionally waterlogged from the relationship a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 06:44 PM |
| 6 | Why do they almost always get knocked up in the first year after leaving?very true, I'm glad you mentioned hormones. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | The Myth of Women's Self Healing - Distraction is not self improvementThanks brother | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/25 05:00 PM |
| 1 | The Myth of Women's Self Healing - Distraction is not self improvementWell, they are probably right, sometimes it needs to be said from a man instead, that’s the only cure that will work for these women is monk mode | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/25 05:00 PM |
| 0 | The Myth of Women's Self Healing - Distraction is not self improvementyeah, well, that's good timing to get them on their "self healing journey", that shit is on a spectrum and "self healing" for women can be every few months or less. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/25 05:48 AM |
| 2 | The Myth of Women's Self Healing - Distraction is not self improvementwell said brother! It's the very uncomfortable truths that I love to bring to light. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/25 05:45 AM |
| 1 | The Myth of Women's Self Healing - Distraction is not self improvementmost likely not, that's the problem | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/25 05:42 AM |
| 1 | The Myth of Women's Self Healing - Distraction is not self improvementVery few of them actually rationalize. Of course, no doubt in my mind that this will be met with utter disdain. Tha'ts why i'm putting it out there, that the only real true self healing for women is 1-2 years of pure celibacy. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 17 | The Myth of Women's Self Healing - Distraction is not self improvementyes, very true. The more past relationships she has had, the more damaged she becomes. Not quite the same for men. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/25 07:19 PM |
| 5 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategythis is exactly what I'm talking about. Blaming men for acting like children and not pulling their weight. I'm actually cutting women a break here and not blaming so much the culture and lack of femininity, but rather something more biological at hand. I'm actually blaming the medical establishment more so than the culture. The fact that the truth hurts and you have to deflect basically means that we dare not even discuss this with women because they will get so butt hurt and easily triggered ov… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 09:19 PM |
| 2 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyI'm not taking it as a challenge. The reason why I responded like this is so other people see the comment who are thinking about all the studies. The softer looks has been studied however it's more than just rounded faces vs chiseled jaw lines. It's much deeper than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 07:20 PM |
| 6 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyreally Nikki? Are you just saying this because you take the pill yourself and you dumped an old boyfriend, and now you regret it? Sorry for being so blunt about it, but saying that because the pill has been around since the late 60's, so it can't be the pill because it's been around for a long time. Uhhhh, look at the divorce rates since the late 60s. Now of course, we can talk about women's rights, sexual liberation, yada, yada, yada. But, continue to ignore the big elephant in the room (synthe… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 07:16 PM |
| 4 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategywhich studies? There are so many of them. This isn't a research paper. It's actually a common sense article based on pattern recognition with lots of scientific studies to back this up. If you want, you can look it up for yourself, but I didn't want to get into the nitty gritty scientific part of it because it's not necessary. So many men have lived through what I'm writing about. Citing a bunch of scientific studies just so this article comes off as more legit, is not worth my time and effort. … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 07:04 PM |
| -7 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyshe's still single, my waifu? What about her? It provides a good sexual outlet, and I sell them as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategythanks, but I don't want to be a writer, I rather spread the gospel of redpill truth to my fellow breatheren by any means necessary. Audio, visual, smoke signals, sign language, esp... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 02:14 AM |
| 5 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyyes, and I wrote another article about this too. Hysterectomy will completely change the hormonal chemistry of a woman, usually for the bad. Hopefully she is aware of any changes that occur in her thought process. Many couples end up splitting after hysterectomy because the woman beomes very easily agitated and irritable all the time and will pick fights for no reason. I'm not saying that it will definitely happen, but be on the lookout for those changes. Good luck brother ! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 02:06 AM |
| 4 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyyes it sure does. That's what I have been trying to explain is that there is some misconception that going off bc will change attraction. Going on BC will also change attraction. Some people say that women are more attracted to masculine features while off BC vs while on BC, they go for softer fem men. I don't buy that completely either. In my opinion, going off or on any hormonal based birth control can cause "detachment". I prefer to use that word more than "loss of attraction". Because "detac… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 02:04 AM |
| 2 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyyes, I saw, it's okay if that user is female, no problem lurking around. Hopefully she is learning something of value by being in this subreddit | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 02:00 AM |
| 4 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyyou know that no matter what you tell her about bc, it won't matter because the hormones control the brain chemistry and thought process and her feelings feel justified and real. That's how powerful hormonal changes can be in some people. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 01:38 AM |
| 6 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategytotally, my bad, I actually got confused with the other comment. I apologize. Thanks for defending me | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 01:34 AM |
| 12 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyand believe me, this is no way an isolated incident. Shit like this happens to many guys out there. Thanks for sharing | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 01:32 AM |
| 4 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyThanks, I appreciate your encouraging words. My objective is to spread awareness to as many men out there who have experienced this. It's not just birth control, it's thyroid, HRT, menopause, and many more hormonal issues that affect a woman's thinking and attraction towards her man. Many men as well as women, don't know what is happening and are quick to blame the other person for whatever they lack or supposably did "wrong". | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/25 01:11 AM |
| -5 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyare you actual redpill or some white knight. I'm pushing awareness so dudes know what's going on. Drive by? I'm not driving by anything there brother. I sell sex dolls for a living. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/25 11:48 PM |
| 6 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategyit means that for many women, it doesn't matter how masculine or fem the guy looks while she is on bc. There is a strong possiblity that the change in her hormones will shift her attraction even if her dude looks like Brad Pitt | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/25 11:46 PM |
| 16 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyWhy on earth is this about feminism?, I posted a very similar article like this in the R/purple pill and I got torn apart by all of these feminist saying that I should never as a man dare talk about female hormones and what the hell do I know? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/25 11:16 PM |
| 6 | If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your StrategyI have heard a few cases like this, but I would put my own two cents into this and say that the attraction will change regardless of how masculine the man looks. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/25 11:14 PM |
| 13 | Ex showed up with her new boyfriend to drop off our sonBro, first off—good on you for staying cool and not taking the bait. That muscle car rev? Pure insecurity flex. Guys who are truly confident around another man’s kid don’t need to peel out like they’re in Fast & Furious: Divorce Court Edition. Let me hit you with some truth—you being the good guy isn’t the reason she’s with him now. It’s just how it plays out—girls like her always chase the new excitement, the “Chad with the V8,” but trust me… that thrill ride crashes hard every time. Doesn’t ma… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 01:23 AM |
| 7 | Advice would be appreciatedBro… you’re living in the psychological equivalent of Guantanamo Bay with throw pillows. And she’s running the place like a warden with a side hustle as your financial advisor. Listen, first off—stop apologizing for her behavior. You’re not crazy, you’re not weak—you’re just in the middle of what a lot of guys figure out too late: once respect is gone, everything else crumbles. She doesn’t want a strong, capable man—she wanted a man she could control, then blamed you when you folded under it. Cl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 01:13 AM |
| 14 | "Are we dating the same guy" Facebook groups. Valid Safety Check or online harassment?Honestly, give it time—“Are We Dating the Same Guy” is just gonna turn into a Chad registry. At this rate, the top 10% of dudes are gonna be quarantined in that Facebook group while every woman takes turns dating the same five guys on rotation. And the irony? The more a guy’s name pops up, the more desirable he becomes—“Well if five other women fought over him, he must be worth it.” Meanwhile, the rest of us are out here invisible… watching the Chad Olympics. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 09:18 PM |
| 3 | How feminists manipulate crime statistics and statistics on male victims.Damn, bro… with all this data, it’s almost like reality refuses to cooperate with the feminist narrative. Funny how when men get assaulted, it’s suddenly "mutual combat" or "he probably deserved it." But when it’s flipped? Lifetime Original Movie. At this point, trying to argue stats with them is like bringing receipts to a cult meeting—they don’t care, they’re emotionally invested in the villain story. | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 09:14 PM |
| 16 | The way misandry is "justified" is disgustingYeah, funny how that logic only applies when it benefits them. By that same snake logic, I should avoid women entirely because a small percentage (perhaps,not too small of a percentage...) are toxic… but hey, suddenly that’s misogyny. TikTok’s basically turned into the Home Shopping Network for misandry—“Today’s special: fear-mongering with a side of double standards.” | /r/MensRights | 23/03/25 09:12 PM |
| 2 | White Knights, Digital Thought Police, and the Death of Male CamaraderieI'm going to answer my own question here because the perfect example of a white knight is the moderator of this subreddit community of men's rights. He likes to call my content "incel" material. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/25 06:56 PM |
| 10 | Jesus Would Get Left on ReadJesus had six pack abs and he could multiply the bread and fish and walk on water. Chicks would probably dig that but I doubt they would be impressed with a 33 year old virgin | /r/MensRights | 19/03/25 01:18 AM |
| 2 | White Knights, Digital Thought Police, and the Death of Male CamaraderieI LOVE toxic masculinity, it's extremely important for our well being as men and civilization | /r/MensRights | 18/03/25 03:21 AM |
| 3 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)wow, your story sure hits close to home. That must be so frustrating to be doing all the leg work and researching this for her and she doesn't acknowledge it one bit. Bro, it can get so bad that she thinks her feelings are real and justified. They don't always have to present with any physical symptoms. That's the tricky part. It's the thinking and perception that hormones can really eff up. You probably went out of your way to help her because you really loved her and knew deep down in your hea… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 03:41 AM |
| 2 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsyou personally may not fall out of love, but many women do, especially with good men. Many women can't understand this feeling of detachment from their partner and believe they need to find another man who they can "bond" with. This happens to many good men out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 01:25 AM |
| 2 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)this sure holds true. I posted a similar article in r/purplepilldebate, not one upvote and 99% of comments were triggered women | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsthanks but I disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/25 12:01 AM |
| 2 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsthe change in mood wasn't from the cancer, it was because they removed a vital organ in her body called the thyroid. I don't care about the past or how hormones were used to persecute women. We are talking about NOW. Ignoring this and dismissing this to be some sort of misogynistic conspiracy theory does a disservice to all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 11:48 PM |
| 0 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsThe truth can be insulting, that wasn't my intention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 11:41 PM |
| 2 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsthere is no possible way to word this article where it doesn't trigger somebody. Let's say I was a woman, and wrote this article from a woman's point of view but the same content. I don't know how it would go down but probably still not well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 11:39 PM |
| -2 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsAI may have helped me write it, but I directed, prompted and edited it. This was not some random automated BS, it was well thought out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 11:08 PM |
| 2 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsIt’s from my own personal experience of dealing with my lady who had thyroid cancer and had to get it taken out. It changed her for the worse. Then I started noticing very similar patterns in other couples and wanted to write about this topic so please stop being so triggered about some fake agenda | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 10:34 PM |
| -1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsI actually don't know that much. All I have is my life experience and I put it through chatgpt to find out all the stuff I don't know. I'm not that smart either. I'm honest though. Yes, I'm sexually frustrated (many men are, so what). I'm a shitty writer but I have a lot of good topics I would like to put out there. This article isn't just opinion, it speaks truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 10:17 PM |
| 0 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipstheory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsI don't know, but it sounds like what you just wrote was propoganda. Seems like shutting down the conversation is what you like to do. Just outright dismiss it because there is NOTHING scientifically based in my article. (Everything mentioned in the article is scientifically based, not opinion). What is the agenda? As the OP of this article, what am I trying to push on people? I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 10:08 PM |
| -3 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsI'm scratching my head as the OP and wondering why so many people are triggered and cannot accept that hormones can seriously mess with the mind, change attraction, cause detachment, depression and more, but for some reason a man cannot talk about this. There are so many destroyed marriages where the husband was a good man, the wife loved him and then she did a total 180 out of nowhere. This is not about blame, this is about awareness and seems many on this platform. But I see a lot of women on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsyes, I am a sex doll salesman as well. Big effin deal. ( I am in a relationship) many dudes who own these dolls are married and their wives are cool with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsI think the moderators took it off because a lot of dudes were triggered because their understanding of the article was that I was trying to excuse women for their bad behavior because of hormones. So it wasn't received so well either. However, it did spark debate and a very good amount of men (and some women) DID mention that the article was very much needed and spoke a lot of truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:45 PM |
| 0 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipswell, maybe it would, sometimes hormones play tricks on the mind without having physical symptoms. So perhaps your attraction may increase. Give it a try | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:41 PM |
| -2 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsAnti birth control? Not really, this is about choice and awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsThank God somebody gets what the article is about. Thank you. This is more to have men understand what might be going on with their spouse and try to help them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipstake thyroid for instance, the majority of thyroid cases are from women, yes, there are plenty of men who suffer from this too, but much less. Why is that so contraversial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsgreat, you were the lucky one. THere are countless others who have been affected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:09 PM |
| 0 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsOkay, thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:08 PM |
| -2 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsThis is about choice and awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:00 PM |
| -3 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsactually, total opposite, this is to empower women to choose their birth control which can be beyond hormonally based drugs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:59 PM |
| 3 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsPseudoscience? There is none of that here. This is about health and this is documented. There have been numerous studies. However, this is not a research paper, this is to bring awareness, not blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:58 PM |
| 0 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of Relationshipsthis isn't about fault, this is about awareness and understanding. This article isn't about fault. It's about realizing that there is more at play here than just who is to blame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:56 PM |
| -2 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsMen do suffer sometimes from thyroid and low testosterone, from what I gather I believe it's between 10-15% of men that suffer serious hormonal issues (not just decline in testosterone). Some men suffer from hypothyrodism or graves disease and can cause serious issues in relationships. However the majority of the hormonal issues usually fall on the women. With understanding and awareness, the couple can be equipped to understand what is going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:54 PM |
| -3 | She Said We Grew Apart, But I Disagree - Hormones, The Silent Disruptor of RelationshipsI don't quite understand how this is about being "wronged", but rather to create awareness for both men and women to realize that many reasons for detachment can be hormonally triggered. It's to create awareness to be able to address the problem and get medical intervention. However, in some cases, medical intervention could be causing these issues. Therefore, both men and women need to be armed with knowledge and awareness. Nobody is blaming anyone here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:52 PM |
| 7 | White Knights, Digital Thought Police, and the Death of Male CamaraderieAnd here is an example of a white night | /r/MensRights | 16/03/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsIt makes perfect sense, postpartum is a symptom of something else, just like PMDD is a symptom of something else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 02:22 AM |
| 5 | White Knights, Digital Thought Police, and the Death of Male CamaraderieI think a lot dudes don't even realize they are femenized or white knights until they learn about it down the road. Some dudes will never learn | /r/MensRights | 16/03/25 02:17 AM |
| 9 | White Knights, Digital Thought Police, and the Death of Male CamaraderieYou are lucky to come across many online communities for men to be men, but many of them are shadowbanned, suppressed by algorithms, or banned completely. If you go to different countries, you will see men gathered drinking coffee or beer, playing dominos or cards and no woman is in their space. The cultural decline of camarderie is a serious social issue in the West that many don't even realize until they encounter other cultures or travel outside the country. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/25 02:09 AM |
| 1 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipswhat about in between pregnancies?, I guess you could freeze your sperm, but then you have to pay a lot of money to get them fertilized when she's ready to pop out another one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 01:59 AM |
| 12 | White Knights, Digital Thought Police, and the Death of Male CamaraderieI really would love to know who these white knights are on reddit, something tells me a lof them could actually be women in disguise. | /r/MensRights | 16/03/25 01:56 AM |
| 1 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsyes, it can be a major issue going off of it, and then going back on it. Either way, there are many hormonal changes taking place. Some women may experience increase in libido and for many other women it will have the opposite effect. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 01:54 AM |
| -1 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsit can be both, post partum can last for a long time and it usually needs some medical intervention. Many women don't even realize that it's post partum. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Struggling with My Ex-Wife Enjoying Time I Used to Share with My Daughter - How Do You Handle These Emotional Setbacks?Something tells me that your ex wife's new relationship won't last too long. If you were a good man and she left you for some other dude, the cycle will repeat itself. Just wait and you will see how this turns out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 01:22 AM |
| 0 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsI agree , I’m old school and believe in the old fashion hat. The problem is that if the guy is so used to not wearing a condom it’s very hard to transition for many men so sometimes the pull out method is very necessary to be extra sure if you decide to use the Calendar method. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 12:53 AM |
| 0 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsI actually believe that when she goes on or off the birth control, regardless of her preference in men, the hormonal change will cause a detachment and loss of attraction regardless, if you are a Chad or a Poindexter. Now I’ve heard in some cases that a woman will go on or off birth control andher libido will go up and she’ll be all over her man. However, this is less common than usual. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 12:51 AM |
| 3 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsExactly! For the dudes giving me shit for writing this article, they need to wake up and realize that this is bigger than feminism, modern culture, and hypergamy. I firmly believe that these hormonal imbalances are a huge missing piece of the puzzle which has resulted in millions of failed relationships and marriages and the average person does not connect the dots. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 12:46 AM |
| 2 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsThat's a whole different article because that topic in itself is very loaded and YES, IVF can have some serious mental health consequences. Many women can completely lose themselves after this treatement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 11:41 PM |
| 6 | We Got Married, She Went off Birth Control, We Had The Baby, Now She Wants Divorce! - Hormonal based birth control, the secret killer of relationshipsThere is definitely truth to that, and not all of these situations are caused by hormonal birth control but there is an overwhelming amount of men who have experienced this situation and they could never understand why their ex wife had made a such a 180 after the baby was born. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 10:31 PM |
| 2 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)It's not really excusing her because of hormones, it's recognizing the issue and getting medical intervention. That is the key takeaway from this. And yes, some people are JUST shit, but let's keep in mind if I had to guess the percentage of people who are TRULY shit and are not redeamable, it would be less than 10% | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 02:19 AM |
| 3 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)unfortunately, she will have to go the non conventional medical route and pay out of pocket. My gf is in the same boat with the health care system. Insurance will not cover the better protocol to treat these hormonal issues. She needs to be prescribed non dessicated thyroid (armour thyroid) and must have her free t3's checked. Synthroid doesn't help for many people because they cannot convert the t4 only drug to t3. Correction:Natural Dessicated Thyroid | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 02:16 AM |
| 6 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)Bro, my gf had thyroid cancer and had a total thyroidectomy, it totally changed her for the worst. Anything thyroid related can have a huge impact on behavior. You are not cured just like that from an autoimmune disease (Hashimotos) The hardest part about all this is that many women will NEVER admit that there is a serious hormonal issue going on and instead blame everything on you. This is a very difficult situation to navigate and there are millions of men going through this and have no idea w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 01:16 AM |
| 2 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)That’s some great information you shared and I have another article all about birth control that I will post next | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 12:49 AM |
| 3 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)this is a common pattern. This may be post partum depression that just doesn't seem to go away. She needs to get her thryoid levels checked. Do you think she realizes that her hormones could be out of wack or is she in denial? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 12:36 AM |
| 4 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)The crucial thing to take away from this post is that if there is a bit of self awareness on the woman's part and if the man is aware that his wife's behavior seems to be hormonally triggered, instead of marriage counseling, they should seek medical intervention, get her blood tested and find some way to help her. This CAN only be done if the woman is self aware of what is happening to her and the man can distinguish between hormonal induced irrational behavior vs legit grievances. It's about re… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 12:34 AM |
| 2 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)What would you do if the woman you loved suddenly caught a case of Tourettes Syndrome and would curse at you in public but couldn't control herself. Out of wack hormones can drive a person insane. Maybe if people realized what was happening, they could then take the proper steps to fixing shit. If the problem is HORMONAL, no amount of marriage counseling is going to fix things when medical intervention is needed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 09:56 PM |
| 6 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)Karens absolutely hate my articles about this because they think that none of their grievances are taken seriously about their husbands because it can be all boiled down to hormones (which is very true) but the karens have zero self awareness or accountability for their behavior and blame it all on men. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 09:15 PM |
| -2 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)What I'm trying to say is that men take their wive's behavior personally, and I'm not saying the behavior should be tolerated, but if the couple is aware that these changes could be happening because of hormones, then perhaps they can get the right medical intervention. Or the man can leave if he feels that the wife has zero self awareness of how she has changed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 09:12 PM |
| -5 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)Unless she realizes the changes herself, men can’t do shit about it but understand what’s going on and try not to get butt hurt over it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 08:32 PM |
| 3 | My Wife Changed From Warm and Loving To Cold And Cruel - Hormones, the big disruptor of marriages nobody ever really talks about (it's not just menopause)I really appreciate that. I posted similar topics in other subreddits and they gain a lot of traction and then the moderator decides to nuke the post . I really don’t understand why | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/03/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)Pattern recognition and coincidence and strong correlation vs causation doesn’t always need a sample size . Personal life experience is worth something too. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 04:52 AM |
| 2 | She Was So In Love With Me Until She Had The Baby, Now She Wants DivorceYep, you’re one of millions of men who experienced this 180 shift in character yet many fail to connect the dots with the hormonal change | /r/MensRights | 14/03/25 04:46 AM |
| 2 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)I don't know if you are responding to this article or somebody else, but what in the world made you think that we are trying to make BC illegal? The article was explaining the hormonal implications that occur around ANY hormone based drug, be it BC, thyroid, HRT, and more... Seriously, you completely misinterpret the article and make this a "blame woman" issue. Totally wrong. If this is your mentality, no wonder why shit won't get better. Stop blaming the environment on everything (environment i… | /r/MensRights | 13/03/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | She Was So In Love With Me Until She Had The Baby, Now She Wants DivorceDid your wife suddenly fall out of love with you and leave you not too long after the baby was born? | /r/MensRights | 13/03/25 07:08 PM |
| 3 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)I appreciate that, please share why you feel this article was so needed if you don't mind me asking you to share. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/25 04:03 AM |
| 2 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)Actually, that was worded wrong, I meant to say PMDD symptoms every month, not birth control specifically, but I’m sure there’s some play in that as well, but not for everybody | /r/MensRights | 13/03/25 03:43 AM |
| 0 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)Thanks for sharing. I know a lot of women who take BC for PMDD symptoms. Unfortunately, many of them are still single and have problems pairbonding. They almost never can have a relationship last more than 6 months. The ones who are married, I really don't know of personally. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/25 02:26 AM |
| -1 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)I agree about the environmental issues. They definitely play into the factor, but a lot of it is direct from hormonal based Rx drugs and vaccines. Vaccines can seriously mess up your immune system and hormones but we are not allowed to talk about that because the truth can trigger a lot of people. Almost everybody I know who contracted thyroid cancer was vaccinated (covid, flu, tentnus, and others) a few months prior to diagnosis. Correlation and causation, yes, something is going on. | /r/MensRights | 13/03/25 12:01 AM |
| 5 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)Here's a link to another article of mine (which I will post tomorrow) on birth control: https://www.reddit.com/r/MalePerspective/comments/1j91xkc/was_your_ex_ever_taking_hormonal_based_birth/ | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 11:55 PM |
| 0 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)Thank you for sharing these links, as a matter of fact, I actually have a whole article about birth control and that the sponge and diaphram/calendar are the most effective ways to prevent pregnancy. The Pill started to get pushed really hard in the late 60's and then became the go to for BC which doctors recommended. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 11:49 PM |
| 6 | An Unspoken Reason For High Marriage Failure Rates - Hormones (and it's not just menopause)yes, of course, but what you don't realize is that anything hormonally based (such as birth control) can cause changes in ones thinking, libido, and much more. Yes, it may help control mestrual cycles but there are a whole host of problems that come with that. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/25 09:24 PM |
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