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ConversationBL00DINMYEYES/r/seduction20/06/22 04:58 PM
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20

i’ve learned that the eye contact thing is so unreliable. not making eye contact because they’re not attracted to you is different than not making eye contact with you because they’re nervous because they like you. i’ve slept with some girls that couldn’t keep eye contact for more than 2 seconds and those were the girls that just couldn’t wait until we finally got down to business. those girls seemed to have a higher degree of social anxiety. you could tell by how they behaved and also most of t…
/r/seduction30/05/24 05:07 PM
1

pm me
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:33 PM
0

there’s a good amount of research on this topic
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:46 AM
2

over analyzing it. she’s into you and you’re trying to prove yourself otherwise.
/r/seduction20/05/22 05:20 PM
77

that’s not a joke. a guy would never say that about a girl he’s not into
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:10 PM
1

don’t just ask for her number but suggest that you do something together sometime (grab a drink, coffee etc.) then get her number if she’s down. don’t be overly flirtatious or sexual at first since you’re going to be seeing her often at her work. it will make it awkward if she’s not wanting that. keep it casual until the date and play it safe and see how she reacts to you
/r/seduction17/04/22 08:02 PM
2

how
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:21 PM
1

yeah even guy friends that say it’s weird are probably just jealous also
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:22 PM
18

it’s not bad. who cares what people think. women are more attractive and desirable in their 20’s than their 30’s. of course older women don’t want to hear that.
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:47 PM
4

no date. take her to your house for drinks and getting to know eachother. escalate quickly. don’t join a relationship with her. tell her the next day you like her and enjoyed it but you’re not looking for a relationship. https://youtube.com/shorts/LNrFa3-MQtE?feature=share
/r/seduction31/03/22 06:33 PM
1

get strong. there’s a study that showed male body attractiveness is more influenced by strength than height. go for shorter girls. get shorter friends. post pictures with shorter people. wear boots. buy shoe lifts. style your hair to give you extra height. there’s some style advice on youtube on how to appear taller with your outfits.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:59 PM
1

how is that a cock block. she literally put that girl on a golden platter for you. don’t be mad that she told your secret if it led to the best outcome possible. i actually got laid twice because of friends telling a girl i was into her and then those girls made it very easy for me. be on good terms with her and ask her whatsup with that new girl and say she’s pretty cute and she might do the same thing
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:53 AM
4

i couldn’t picture a girl stopping during sex as soon as you take your t shirt off unless it was something really crazy. just don’t take it off before hand or right away
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:28 PM
1

if she sent the last message then you should text her
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:25 PM
2

can you mentally move on from her and stay friends? eventually you will but better sooner than later. since she’s a part of your friend group, you could bring it up to her and say something like “i know you heard me say that i like you. how do you feel about that? i said it on the spur of the moment, i’m not really sure if i like you or not yet” it’s better to say something about the situation so you can move on from the future awkwardness and feeling how you do right now
/r/seduction09/03/22 01:32 AM
2

only way to know is to work for him. are you good with working late nights?
/r/seduction09/03/22 01:16 AM
25

“ hey what’s your name. we kept locking eyes so i wanted to come meet you.” . it’s good to address it when you approach them to show that you notice those minor social cues.
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:00 PM
1

i don’t know about a pee smell but if it’s bacterial vagininosis or a pH problem, i’ve talked about boric acid suppositories on here before. it literally completely got rid of the smell from a girl i was with for awhile but it would come back if she stopped using them. the smell was gone in 2 days
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:49 PM
2

the signs are too obvious. just get her by herself and kiss her and the rest will flow from there
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:16 AM
2

don’t send it randomly but tell her you just got done working out your abs, let her reply, then say “wanna see?”
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:03 AM
1

Well she already admitted it to you so just give her the bottle and say here these are supposed to help with your pH balance.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:37 AM
6

I once bought a girl a bottle of boric acid suppositories and it completely cured the stanky cooch. If you want to keep seeing her, I would suggest you get her to use them. She even had a doctor tell her to put yogurt up there for the probiotics lol. Don’t know if she tried that
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:34 AM
2

This video actually helped me alot
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:51 AM
0

Honesty I learned a lot from watching YouTube videos- day game etc. but this sub doesn’t help much. If the only content you consume is from people having success with women some of their behavior naturally rubs off on you. I started to notice I would act like/ say things that these puas were doing without trying to emulate them.
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:54 PM
0

Waiting a week to reply isn’t push pull lol. I mean if you were talking in person during that time and the text didn’t need an answer I guess it’s okay
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:30 AM
4

Keep it simple. “Hey, what’s your name”
/r/seduction03/02/22 03:42 AM
2

Alex from Playing with fire on YouTube has some good videos on that. Also on their website
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:47 AM
2

Sounds like a legit “emergency” or whatever happened but you never really know. Wait a day, continue with a few flirty texts then setup another date( or whatever you think) she might even be down to just come straight to your place.
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:41 AM
1

Don’t ask her if you can kiss her. A better way is to ask “Do you want to kiss me” or just say I want to kiss you and see how she reacts, then do it.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:22 AM
3

Not having an Instagram account can be a disadvantage but also having a bad profile does too. I actually usually get good reactions from girls when I say I don’t use social media. You have to say your reason for not having it though. I usually just say I’m not a fan of it, it’s a waste of time, detaches you from reality and it’s like an addiction, but it’s good to keep in contact with friends and family. Usually people agree with but say “yeah I only use it for xyz”
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:54 AM
21

Some say that’s a sign she’s attracted to you but shy/nervous to look at you eye to eye. Some girls say they avoid making eye contact with guys so as not to give them the wrong idea. Either way, if you see a girl you’re interested in, go up and talk to her. You don’t have to have perfect game. Just get comfortable starting conversations with new girls that you’re attracted to.
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:56 PM
3

If she suggested wine at your place she probably is expecting sex but you never know, you still have to put in effort. Both of you sit down on the couch, face her, keep direct eye contact with intent, listen to her, talk about her, come up with excuses to touch her- hands, arms, thighs, shoulder, neck, or offer a massage. This will turn her on. Then kiss her if she’s not responding negatively. If you’re not comfortable with just going in for the kiss then you can say “I really want to kiss you r…
/r/seduction03/01/22 09:50 PM
6

Use your words. Literally just say “I want to fuck you” and if she doesn’t say no, then you’re in the clear. There’s more smoother ways to go about it but that’s a simple way to see where she’s at mentally.
/r/seduction29/12/21 08:50 AM
16

Look at almost every animal species. Males seek out the females and the females play hard to get lol
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:56 PM
17

“You’re a good kisser” It gives her that little confidence boost and she’ll want to keep making out
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:43 AM
246

The average guy wont make a move until he’s 100% sure that you’re interested in him due to fear of failure, being uncomfortable, and turning an interaction awkward. Make it obvious, flirt a little bit. Watch some videos on signs a girl likes you/ iOi’s and hope he catches on to those.
/r/seduction03/12/21 07:12 PM
41

Definitely do it. As a naturally shy guy I would love if a girl I was attracted to initiated something but that’s not how it usually goes. The result really just depends on if he’s into you or not. Guys are easy- if girls did all the work then shit wouldn’t be so complicated.
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:49 AM
2

Don’t ask for number so early. Do some get to know you talk
/r/seduction15/08/21 02:35 AM
2

https://www.playingfire.com/4-rules-to-flirting-over-text-introducing-the-we-frame/
/r/seduction05/08/21 01:41 AM
1

They have good game and a lot of experience. I don’t see how they’re full of shit unless you think they’re programs are a rip off which they could be. But you use pickup lines from jack denmo and angrypicnic lol. I literally just say Hey what’s your name no tryhard shit
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:01 PM
1

I disagree. I think what you say can have a large effect. A lot of pua’s recommend against asking directions because it’s just fake. But good job for getting out there and trying
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:51 PM
2

I know what you mean man. Those shy quiet girls are the best ones. I’ve been in a similar situation. This could be a learning experience for you. You need to open your eyes up to other girls, a lot of them are better once you actually meet them on a personal level. I would also recommend just befriending/talking to some girls at the gym just so she knows you have the ability to be social with girls. If I’m talking to a female, I notice other girls show interest. I read recently that 2/3 of coupl…
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:48 PM
3

Sir do you suffer from Oneitis?
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:33 PM
1

Where did you learn to ask for directions? Girls see right through that shit. It’s better to be more direct about your intentions.
/r/seduction29/07/21 06:20 PM
3

Just “I saw you pulling into the parking lot while I was walking with my roommate the other day”
/r/seduction29/07/21 12:27 AM
4

Just be prepared on what to say when they ask why you’re there
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:57 PM
1

You can’t just walk up to girls, say a pickup line, and ask for their number and expect it to go well. The point is to get to know her and her get to know you in a short period of time then you suggest meeting up and get the number. Props for actually attempting but you’re missing the biggest piece of the puzzle.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:48 PM
6

First you just need to say hey, talk to her and build some rapport. You don’t need to ask your friend for permission to do that, it’s just regular human interaction. You can ask if things start to go any further.
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:40 PM
3

Women/people love hearing about things you’re interested in especially if it’s replacing boring basic small talk. Just start talking about one of your interests and if it’s a person worth talking to, they’ll be intrigued.
/r/seduction23/07/21 01:37 PM
2

She called you right so you have her number…
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:03 PM
1

By approach you mean call/text her? Just say Hey I enjoyed our talk we should meet for coffee sometime.
/r/seduction18/07/21 02:34 PM
2

2/3 relationships start off as being friends so yeah
/r/seduction14/07/21 07:43 AM
1

What did you say when they asked what crime you did?
/r/seduction13/07/21 12:44 PM
1

https://www.playingfire.com/4-rules-to-flirting-over-text-introducing-the-we-frame/
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:31 PM
2

Ask sexual questions like what is the craziest thing you’ve done sexually and have you ever had a threesome and gauge their reactions
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:13 PM
0

“I know this is random but I see you here all the time and I think you are really cute” ask if she likes coffee or whatever you want to take her to do. Then say another time let’s grab a coffee together, I know the best place. Add in some small talk about her if you have enough time. Or just write your number on the receipt haha
/r/seduction07/07/21 05:16 AM
1

Switch to Cialis and stay on it until you don’t need it. Some people say zinc and magnesium help. Same with Phenibut but do your research
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:54 AM
1

Don’t text girls boring and serious like that even if they do it first. Everything should be flirty in some way
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:35 AM
1

Maybe send a voice message. It will remind her more of the good time you had
/r/seduction06/07/21 01:09 AM
2

First just try having regular conversations with them. I started a normal conversation with no intentions with a woman I would normally consider way out of my league. She became attracted, holding very strong eye contact and playing with her hair and rubbing her neck the whole time. I asked if she was single but I was really just trying to figure out if she lives alone because we were talking about our apartments. She blushed really quickly and said she was dating someone. When I go into a set w…
/r/seduction05/07/21 10:26 PM
1

Doesn’t really matter if you do or not. More importantly, she wants to have sex with you so what are you going to do with this information.
/r/seduction05/07/21 06:30 AM
1

It’s the pressure you put on yourself in the situation. Make your goal to become his friend then take it whatever direction you want
/r/seduction04/07/21 12:27 AM
3

It can actually be an advantage because you’ll be different and stand out. You’ll at least get noticed more
/r/seduction03/07/21 04:50 AM
3

It’s possible that she was asking you about the club, hoping that you would take her there(which I wouldn’t do btw). And stop with the long text conversations, save that stuff for in person.
/r/seduction02/07/21 10:41 AM
2

Don’t wait for IOI’s. If you see a girl you like, just go up to her.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:58 AM
9

Not really seeing any good advice so I’ll give you these 3 links which helped me a lot. Openers How to talk to girls on tinder Flirting over text
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:32 AM
2

Give it some time until you dm her again. Her liking your heart eyes comment doesn’t mean shit. It’s like her saying thanks if someone calls her beautiful.
/r/seduction02/07/21 06:25 AM
4

That gave me a good laugh 😂
/r/seduction01/07/21 06:00 AM
6

Start getting with other girls and giving her less attention
/r/seduction01/07/21 05:55 AM
1

Just do it. Who cares if she says no. Make sure to verbally say your attracted to her, try to get a good conversation, then go for the number
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:16 AM
1

Gym is most important for how much it impacts my life.
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:41 AM
2

Do you think she likes you and have you ever talked to her before?
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:09 AM
2

Get strong and lean : https://royalsocietypublishing.org/doi/10.1098/rspb.2017.1819 Wear those height boosting things if you want to
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:53 AM
2

Idk but you probably need to supplement zinc if you’re shooting that many loads
/r/seduction26/06/21 11:39 PM
1

It’s easier to tell if a girl is not interested than it is to tell if she is interested
/r/seduction26/06/21 06:59 AM
3

If it wasn’t at work I would say just say to treat all female attention like that as if they’re interested. Sure it could be innocent flirting or just being friendly but you’ll never know unless you act on it. Depending on where you work that might be a bad idea.
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:13 PM
3

You reached your goal now you need a new one
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:31 PM
2

Build more connection. Learn about them and share about yourself. The number/Instagram shouldn’t be the goal
/r/seduction22/06/21 04:01 AM
0

What’s the golden switch, I don’t get it
/r/seduction22/06/21 03:59 AM
2

You don’t need words
/r/seduction21/06/21 05:15 AM
0

Make sure to look up the age of consent in your state/country. It’s 16 in Massachusetts and I had no fucking clue
/r/seduction21/06/21 12:18 AM
6

Sounds romantic and not friendly. In a scenario like this, the only way you get friendzoned is if you friendzone yourself by not escalating and keeping it flirty. At some point just man up, get close and go for the kiss. Last case scenario you can ask “Do you want to kiss me” but it’s better to not ask if you can.
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:31 PM
1

Ask her if you can draw her like you draw your French girls
/r/seduction17/06/21 11:27 PM
2

r/malefashionadvice
/r/seduction16/06/21 03:33 PM
1

And what are some of the best “tricks” in your opinion that you learned from the book?
/r/seduction16/06/21 01:42 AM
1

You make the decision with which girl you want to be exclusive with. Wait until that time comes and for now do whatever you want
/r/seduction16/06/21 01:39 AM
1

You don’t really need a line, you could just say it how it is. “I saw that you added my friend and your pic reminded me how attractive I found you so I just had to dm you”.
/r/seduction13/06/21 03:47 PM
0

Learn to soft close. Get her to agree to coming out with you, ask her schedule, then pick a day.
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:16 PM
2

Say “You can’t just smile at me like that and not say hello”. Gives him permission to chat you up.
/r/seduction06/06/21 06:28 PM
2

Just recorded video/audio of people’s approaches. Since you’re new but already attempting approaching I would just follow the stuff from this video. There’s tons of conflicting advice out there
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:37 PM
1

Watch some infield footage and talk about what they do. I watched a lot during quarantine just for entertainment purposes and a lot of it naturally carried over to my conversations.
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:25 PM
4

Do it
/r/seduction04/06/21 12:55 AM
3

She asked you to come over for dinner 2 nights in a row and you didn’t smash? Jesus you must be clueless!
/r/seduction02/06/21 09:11 PM
1

If she’s not showing signs of disinterest and you like her, act on it fast or you risk friendzoning yourself. Make sure to voice your attraction to her in some way even just saying “that outfit looks good” and ask her out- obviously with more conversation fillers.
/r/seduction02/06/21 01:13 PM
1

You’re right
/r/seduction01/06/21 07:31 PM
1

Ask her what she likes in a guy, what she likes about you, why does she think you’re talking to her. Play the question game with her to get her asking about you.
/r/seduction01/06/21 06:37 PM
2

There’s of YouTube content on this topic too
/r/seduction28/05/21 08:16 PM
6

Go up to a group of girls and tell them you go to an all boys school and you’re looking for girl friends. Unless you’re repulsive, they’ll probably accept you.
/r/seduction27/05/21 08:32 AM
4

What did you reply, something agreeing to be just friends?
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:48 AM
1

Marriage intentions on the first date. Nice
/r/seduction15/05/21 04:19 AM
2

You could word it like this: Let’s go grab a coffee this weekend, is Saturday or Sunday better for you? It’s like false question, more likely to not get resistance.
/r/seduction15/05/21 12:34 AM
1

“Actually I’m free Friday so (add in something funny/flirty)”
/r/seduction12/05/21 04:42 AM
1

Stop trying to impress and don’t give them what they want first of all.
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:16 AM
1

Don’t fall into the compliment trap. Instead tease her about the photos https://youtu.be/AqeBdWX5P7o
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:07 AM
1

Always keep txting playful, lighthearted, and flirty. You could’ve said “Yes I miss that (something you liked/unique about her)“ and “I have to keep you wondering about me”. And watch this if you don’t know what to send her next: https://youtu.be/LtcLQKEIBN8
/r/seduction10/05/21 10:58 PM
2

Should’ve wrote “Dear diary” at the start
/r/seduction09/05/21 05:54 AM
1

Do you actually go on dates with the girls that say they aren’t into hookups? You have to realize girls will always say stuff like that to not come off as slutty but the majority of them will be down if they like you.
/r/seduction08/05/21 08:51 PM
1

Not a problem at all, probably a good thing. Just need take the next step
/r/seduction30/04/21 07:14 AM
2

It’s very complicated and takes a lot of skill. You go up and you talk to her
/r/seduction27/04/21 10:41 PM
1

Instead of asking for the time you should just give them a compliment. That way you get used to making a girl smile/making her day
/r/seduction27/04/21 05:14 PM
1

Yeah looks/muscle definitely help a lot as far as physical attraction. But that’s only half of the picture why a women will like you. It’s more about how you make them feel
/r/seduction24/04/21 12:59 AM
1

There’s actually some research on this get to googling lol. Why does it matter what’s more important, max out both
/r/seduction24/04/21 12:37 AM
1

She wants your PP or just wants male attention because she’s not getting any from the online guy. The key question is what do you want?
/r/seduction09/03/21 03:01 AM
1

You just have to think of something to say. In that scenario you should just say “Hey, I think it’s weird we haven’t met yet, I’m ___”. Sometimes if I can’t come up with something I just say “hey how are you” they’ll say “good” then I say something I like about them or something on them and the conversation starts rolling from there.
/r/seduction27/02/21 12:31 AM
4

Idk, you might already do this but in the first few messages, say that you’re super busy and won’t be able to respond fast.
/r/seduction26/02/21 08:36 PM
1

B or C. It would be creepy if he wasn’t into you but since he was and he’s probably disappointed he didn’t get your number, he’ll most likely be happy about it.
/r/seduction25/02/21 11:33 PM
1

Always assume it until proven other wise
/r/seduction25/02/21 01:44 AM
1

Unless he’s masturbating all the time instead of having sex, he probably has low testosterone or some hormone imbalance or health issue(diet, exercise, lifestyle, and stress included). Does he take antidepressants?
/r/seduction22/02/21 08:26 AM
4

Wtf no
/r/seduction22/02/21 04:02 AM
1

You gotta state your interest in the beginning with words if you can’t do it with eyes, body language, and the right type of conversation. “You’re cute so I had to come say hello” is pretty boring but works. You can change it up
/r/seduction21/02/21 09:31 AM
3

A lot of girls don’t care but most girls prefer at least an average size. You shouldn’t let it stop you though. If they want you to fuck them then don’t avoid it because of your insecurities. Since you care more about how they will react to it, just have a joke planned ahead about it. If they say it’s small just be like “yeah it’s tiny but it works 200% harder, it’s like the little engine that could” or “yeah it’s actually just shy of 12 inches”. Anything, just don’t get serious or butt hurt abo…
/r/seduction20/02/21 02:35 AM
1

Yeah. Not necessarily eye contact in a conversation but if she keeps looking at you, generally they want you to talk to them. You disagree?
/r/seduction19/02/21 05:59 PM
3

So eye contact isn’t always an ioi that she “likes” you but it does mean she’s interested in you in some way. She at least wants you to talk to her but it could be just in a friendly manner. Who cares, maybe she likes your friend but she could introduce you to some of her friends. Either way you should definitely approach her and just assume she’s interested in you.
/r/seduction19/02/21 02:13 AM
8

You never no with girls man, maybe she expected more out of the date, maybe she doesn’t like you in person as much as she thought she would(you said meet for first time) or she could just be waiting for you to text her. Just txt her and ask her what she did today or ask her what she thought about the date and continue the convo from there.
/r/seduction17/02/21 12:19 AM
2

It’s a good thing that you realize the missed opportunity and feel bad about it. That means next time you won’t let it happen.
/r/seduction13/02/21 08:09 PM
3

Just remember it’s her job to make eye contact and be nice to customers so you could be mistaken but start out with a compliment and and some small talk then slide her your number on a receipt.
/r/seduction09/02/21 02:11 AM
1

Yeah I guess you’re right, as long as you’re not insta replying while she’s taking hours
/r/seduction07/02/21 11:50 PM
2

Never reply to a girl faster than she replies to you or it comes off as desperate. It makes it seem like you have nothing else to do.
/r/seduction07/02/21 09:39 PM
1

This might help: https://youtu.be/FXnwPW8YhR4 Don’t worry about getting a number just get used to approaching a hot girl, saying something along the lines of “Hey I’m actually in a rush but I just had to tell you that you (fill in the blank). Have a wonderful day”. If your goal is to just make the girls day then there’s no way to fail.
/r/seduction07/02/21 05:19 PM
2

Yeah, rejection is better than regret.?
/r/seduction06/02/21 05:00 PM
2

Rejection>Regret. We all learn this eventually. Just go for it.
/r/seduction06/02/21 04:25 PM
2

http://www.thepickupdiary.com/mystery’s-and-style’s-kiss-close-routines/
/r/seduction05/02/21 03:49 PM
1

Be attractive. Hold eye contact and talk low and slow in a relaxing dominant way. Be witty and make her laugh
/r/seduction03/02/21 03:14 PM
1

Good read. I’m gonna pm you
/r/seduction03/02/21 04:12 AM
2

“You actually shouldn’t, I’m a very naughty boy” The ultimate guide to passing shit tests
/r/seduction02/02/21 10:26 PM
2

Comb over
/r/seduction02/02/21 05:32 PM
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Don’t hesitate. If you wait too long you’ll start overthinking and talk yourself out of it. Just get in there and say what you have to say. No anxiety.
/r/seduction02/02/21 03:52 PM
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That’s not always true. If she’s giving ioi’s then she wants to be approached. Headphones or not. Of course if they’re in the gym, everyone will have headphones in.
/r/seduction02/02/21 11:11 AM
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Well said. So many wasted opportunities when i was younger by beating around the bush. You basically friend zone yourself
/r/seduction01/02/21 04:30 PM
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Not every girl will want to be more than friends with you and that’s ok. We’re not interested in every girl either. But if she’s giving you ioi’s, you can be pretty straight forward and say something like “you’re really hot, when are we gonna hangout?” during the conversation. It sounds bad but if she likes you then she’ll love to hear that. You should compliment early on and she’ll know your intentions. Don’t use the words “I like/love” in the compliment though
/r/seduction01/02/21 04:25 PM
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Yeah over thinking and trying too hard is bad bad. Just keep it simple
/r/seduction01/02/21 02:19 AM
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First of all, don’t drink too much alcohol, you can order soda or a water so you don’t look out of place without a drink in your hand. And read this at least 3 times for some general good advice: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wikihow.com/Flirt%3famp=1
/r/seduction31/01/21 09:35 PM
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I’ll just copy and paste this instead of explaining it (Btw this Wikihow page actually has a lot of good basic tips) : Convince your crush to pursue you instead of having to do the work yourself. Though flirting should let the person know that you like him or her, you shouldn't make it seem like you're doing all of the work. Instead, you should be just flattering enough so that the person knows you're interested, but leave him or her to wonder just how much you care. To achieve this, try phrasin…
/r/seduction31/01/21 09:30 PM
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So you need to communicate attraction/ compliment(looks, clothes, vibe etc) early on in the interaction to keep it from turning into just a friendly conversation. If you call her attractive/hot she’ll know you’re not trying to be only a friend. It’s better to do this right away, like in the opener and again in the closer to reiterate your intentions. What TheCinnamonBoi is talking about is called the “We frame” , it’s genius. “So when are we gonna go get a coffee together?” Is 10x better than “D…
/r/seduction31/01/21 04:23 PM
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Oh, you’re comparing me to the ex already i see.
/r/seduction15/11/20 09:23 PM
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“I think you’re hot and I want to get to know you more” should get your intentions across and surely make her feel good about herself.
/r/seduction15/11/20 01:35 AM
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