Hi,

Bit of a weird question and looking for advice:

I've had an issue for a while where I ejaculate before entering...it has caused me a lot of anxiety for quite a while. The feeling becomes compounded after every experience. I think a part of the issue was me losing my virginity at a late-ish age, and the girls I was seeing assumed that I was more experienced sexually than I was.

  1. I was wondering if anybody has ever had this before? If so, do you have any advice for me? From my research, it appears that opening a dialogue with my sexual partner is the best way to proceed.

I had a girlfriend for a year (everything worked well during that time), but following our break-up, the issue resurfaced.

Last year I purchased some viagra, which has dramatically helped my anxiety surrounding this. However, I am scared that weaning myself off the viagra is going to be difficult, and the issue will resurface.

  1. Does anybody have experience with this as well?

I am 22M, healthy and live an active lifestyle.

Thanks for your help - never opened up about this before. I am straight as well.