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It's always rewarding when you learn more about yourself, glad you liked it
/r/seduction01/08/11 01:53 AM
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Work on building more rapport. Being funny helps you be comfortable in your own skin and not afraid of rejection. Now that you're there, learn to just relate with other people without having to be cocky funny all of the time. You are at a great point, and like others have said recognizing that you are over doing it means that you've reached a natural point of calibration along your progress. Be happy and greatfull, this means you are moving in the right direction and are improving dramatically. …
/r/seduction15/03/11 04:54 PM
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It's all about the sub communication. Now, had he said something along the lines of "Hi, I'm xyz. You seem like the kind of girl I might like to get to know. Want to meet up sometime for drinks or coffee to see if that's the case? Great, put your number in my phone and I'll give you a call/text you sometime this week and we can make plans." while being completely calm and indifferent to her response and she would hear: "Hi. I'm xyz. I'm not afraid to proposition you for the chance for you to get…
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:33 PM
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Lol come on guys - this shit is elementary. When he asked her for her facebook account, what he was really telling her is: "Hi, I'm not good enough to have your number, so can I add you on facebook instead?" Or "Hi, i wouldn't known what to do with your number even if I had it, so I won't ask for it since you are obviously out of my league. Can I add you on facebook instead, that way I can look through all of your pictures and semi-obsessively follow your status updates so I can live vicariously…
/r/seduction15/03/11 02:21 PM
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Exactly. But that as you improve, even the worst of the worst you will experience can only go up
/r/seduction10/03/11 03:37 AM
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it would be irresponsible of me to discuss or promote drug use here
/r/seduction09/03/11 12:32 AM
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I agree. People that think of themsevles as introverted will tend to live up to their own expectations of being introverted. that being said, as a heavy tested introvert i threw myself out there like fucking crazy and I didn't develop as an extrovert until about 5 months ago after 5 years in college
/r/seduction09/03/11 12:20 AM
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Glad to help.
/r/seduction09/03/11 12:19 AM
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Exactly. That was the whole idea of the submission. It's all about empathy and learning to communicate on this emotional channel that exists that is invisible to the human eye. The best kind of research is personal experiments. I'd love to hear about what you and or do, keep me informed. I personally love this stuff. -BF
/r/seduction08/03/11 09:35 PM
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I listened to the blueprint the first time Tofo ever reccomened it. Give it a listen, you deserve it.
/r/seduction04/03/11 04:33 PM
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Sure, would love to help. It's is very simple once you understand it. First of all they are two separate things that when used together compliment each other very well, here's how: Giving value is about contributing. Contributing adds to your social value because what ever situation you are in, you are going to help to improve it and add to the mood. Not seeking approval is about being self validated. You do not need to look to others for their opinions about you. You are firm in who you are. Th…
/r/seduction04/03/11 04:31 PM
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I can help. I had this problem for a while. I would be out, talking to random sets thinking everything was great, I would be feeling good, smiling, teasing, and the next thing I know the girls are calling me an asshole and genuinely meaning it. Like "WOW! you. Are. An. Asshole. Holy shit. Come on Sam we are so leaving!" :) Too much cocky funny humor and or negs. Focus more on building rapport and relating to them. Open them, toss a little bit of cocky funny teasing out there to get their attenti…
/r/seduction04/03/11 03:11 PM
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Just make it clear that you will help him but there will be boundaries. You can show him all the right steps but only he can actually do them for himself. I would have clear boundaries, this does not mean you have to take him under your wing like a younger brother who follows you everywhere. Make sure he understands that you are busy with your own life and self improvement. Don't think that you have to invite him out with you, but once or twice would be ideal. Instead, provide the learning envir…
/r/seduction04/03/11 02:56 PM
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Like so many others have already said in this thread, absolutely help him. How could you not? If you are truely devoted to self improvement not only would you recognize the learning opportunities this would do for you but you would realize that helping someone else is no different from helping yourself.
/r/seduction04/03/11 02:52 PM
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I thought about this all day at work so that I could offer you and everyone else valid insight to really help them improve on this skill of being able to recharge and share emotions with others faster than I was able to, and I was able to realize what really sparked it for me. Do you know that feeling you get when someone teases you and you don't say anything? That feeling you get kind of by your belly button that's just like "awwwww I should have done something." This is the feeling you want to…
/r/seduction01/03/11 11:36 PM
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Yes, this is exactly why you've had trouble making close friends. But good news, as an introvert with high empathy it will be much easier for you to learn how to "vibe" and share emotions with other people since you already have the ability there, it is just not developed. Think of having natural emapthy like having a drunk emotional tentacle flailing all around the place. You will pick up the good, the bad, and the ugly but not be able to tell where or from whom you picked it up from. The reaso…
/r/seduction01/03/11 11:24 PM
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All valid points. That being said, you speak EXACTLY like a friend I know in real life who has a similar story. Are you from Ecuador?
/r/seduction01/03/11 11:13 PM
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This was exactly my goal in college. I didn't achieve it until after 5 years. The majority of that was unguided, and just throwing myself out there, and over stressing my system until it clicked after trial and error. I hope this information helps you to achieve it faster, never stop going after what you want.
/r/seduction01/03/11 11:12 PM
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Yes, this is exactly what I am talking about, it is amazing is it not? I too started noticing it at work first when I started trying to be more present and sure, alpha. I think it is easier to detect at work if you work in a corporate setting, since everyone is more or less forced into "worker-bee molds" to be more "professional" appearing as opposed to just being... human. But on the positive side of this, due to this environment being much more life lacking than social situations it is very ea…
/r/seduction01/03/11 02:14 AM
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Yes, this is exactly what I am talking about, it is amazing is it not? I too started noticing it at work first when I started trying to be more present and sure, alpha. I think it is easier to detect at work if you work in a corporate setting, since everyone is more or less forced into "worker-bee molds" to be more "professional" appearing as opposed to just being... human. But on the positive side of this, due to this environment being much more life lacking than social situations it is very ea…
/r/seduction01/03/11 02:13 AM
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Sure, as someone who has also tested extremely strongly to introversion I would love to. Buying temperature is usually used to describe how ready a girl you are trying to PU will be receptive to you. As in need to build more rapport, or do more push pull until her buying temperature increases to the point where she will be "unlocked" and open to your advances. The context I used it above relates more to the level of comfort and ease people in the group slowly rise to by vibe-ing. In a socially i…
/r/seduction01/03/11 02:00 AM
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I tried copying and pasting your formatting into the OP and really just screwed things up even worse =\
/r/seduction01/03/11 01:50 AM
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Read, commented, and upvoted. Great post, thanks for linking it for ease of being able to access it.
/r/seduction28/02/11 02:06 PM
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Great post. I am familiar to jung's perspectives on sociology and pyschology but the topic of anima and animus is new to me, and it really nails the difference between what has been described in the community as masculine and feminine energy. I cannot copy text on my smart phone but I wanted to quote what you said immediately after the quote in your post about the drives of a man to be a loner seeking self actualization and the drive of a woman to live socially and enotionaly in a community. I i…
/r/seduction28/02/11 01:56 PM
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Thank you, I appreciate the feedback. Most of what we are learning by studying PU material is how to communicate effectively and without letting someone down playing what we are communicating for the sake of having themselves look better in a social situation. Taking the time to write congruently to what it is you are trying to convey really helps shape the thought process that happens when you are trying to communicate in real life. I look foward to writing the End all text game post and will b…
/r/seduction28/02/11 01:49 PM
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So now you learn to teach yourself how to recharge in harmony with others instead of only being able to recharge by yourself in isolation. This is an extroverted playing feild, If you want to get a leg up you need to be able to compete in situations that would normally steam roll an introvert. The point is that every resource on the subject says this is impossible. You are either introverted or extroverted and that there is no way to change the way you re-charge. However this is false, and I bel…
/r/seduction28/02/11 01:43 PM
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Tofu, honestly you've put in a great amount of effort to organize the place and to incourage others to get involved who would normally just observe from the sidelines. You are doing a great job and it's working. This is just me wanting to be a part of that effort.
/r/seduction28/02/11 01:31 PM
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Wow, I am blown away. Thank you for taking the time to go through my post and adjust the formatting, even to the point of linking to mentioned outside sources. This makes it much easier to processes, I will be working on improving the formatting of my future posts so that more people will be able to process the information with ease, thanks for the great example
/r/seduction28/02/11 01:27 PM
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I will give you the best describing I can put into words. Keep in mind, the more you experience it, the more you will be able to have an "ah-ha!" moment and recognize it. Once you get better at recognizing it, you start to pay attention to what is causing it. This is the fun part. Then you work on re-creating the events that causes it and BOOM. It is a big chain reaction. So the best description I can give of vibe-ing is like this. Remember the last time you were hanging out with friends or who …
/r/seduction28/02/11 06:03 AM
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hello to my judging self :P INTJ's and INTP's are very closely alike, I've dated lots of girls that were strong INTJ's. That feeling you are describing is when you start to shut down. It's when you don't have anymore energy reserves and your body forces you to go home to recharge. What you are describing is true, text book introversion. The prescribed solution is tricky because without a catalyst that somehow starts off the chain reaction of change, it just equals being a stressed out introvert …
/r/seduction28/02/11 05:51 AM
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That was meant to say a huge eye opener, fixed.
/r/seduction28/02/11 05:30 AM
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Thank you. It is going to be solid. I am going to be using either screen shots from my phone or just quote them directly. Stick around.
/r/seduction28/02/11 05:21 AM
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You are taking either a bad test, or not answering as congruently as possible which is sort of tricky since the questions deal with how you perceive situations and what you think of yourself, which can sometimes change. The biggest thing is learning how to differentiate between the two opposites of each of the four functions that make up a "type," this is where you will see the distinctions are cut and dry, night and day, and literally different modes of operating, all subconsciously and in the …
/r/seduction28/02/11 05:20 AM
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If you did not know already if you are an extrovert or an introvert I would highly suggest taking an afternoon to google and read more about yourself. If you've never jumped into the myers briggs concepts and taken the 16 different personality test you are lacking crucial information about yourself that will really help you learn to improve things about yourself the quickest. You can learn a lot by just skimming the surface and should not take more than an afternoon to be caught up in. Google "m…
/r/seduction28/02/11 05:11 AM
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I am glad you liked it. Anything in particular that stuck out to you, or is there anything else on this topic that you would like to share with us and be apart of the discussion?
/r/seduction28/02/11 05:05 AM
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Basics behind introversion and Extroversion quickly covered because it is assumed to be common knowledge. A brief passage from a book dealing with Jungian psychology that really best describes why functioning as an introvert is not beneficial to you if excelling in social situations and getting the girl is want you want. Because functioning as an introvert means people are dealing with the real, fully present you, and the fully present you is not interacting with the people around you. Every res…
/r/seduction28/02/11 05:02 AM
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Thank you for enjoying the read and I am glad if it helped clarify anything for you. Extroverts are more confident... at extroverted situations. Introverts are going to have the upper hand at introverted situations. Naturally. However what we are all trying to improve on here are extroverted situations, leading to believe that most of us drawn to the community are like me, introverted. The great thing is that it is 100% possible for a full fledged introvert to be able to have to NOT recharge alo…
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:57 AM
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yes, 100% true. As a born introvert myself it is almost a feeling of de-fragmenting on your own after events. Much like de-fragmenting your computer or formatting and putting on a fresh install of your operating system after too much computer use strains the system. But now, actually playing on the extroverted side of the fence, I also experience the complete 180 to this phenomenon. The true goal here is to constantly be working on yourself to improve the parts that are not up to speed by pummel…
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:51 AM
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I assumed this was pretty common knowledge to most people on here. The point of this write up was to demostrate that yes it is possible to learn or teach yourself how to switch over from only drawing state from yourself to being able to draw state in harmony with other people, which is what natural PU is all about. Getting laid and having success with women is just an awesome bonus of being able to socially vibe with everyone around you and to promote positive social vibe-ing in your environment…
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:45 AM
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the book I took that passage on is an analysis of Jungian psychology, very neat stuff. While there are several different types of classified introverts and extroverts the least common denominator between them is how they become energized and what causes them to become de-energized, or in my terms the source that they are able to draw state from. Jungian Psychology is very interesting and really helps to explain the types of behavior people use. I highly suggest to anyone that finds any of this i…
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:41 AM
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As being really experienced in this matter I can tell you two things. First that there are lots and lots of girls that enjoy going out that do not classify as party girls. Second, party girls are really just scared and have low self esteem, this is why they party. This is why most people party. If you want to be able to tell the difference, figure out why they are partying.
/r/seduction08/02/11 02:10 AM
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Congratulations. But most of all, you deserve it. I agree 100% The side benefits are much greater than the pursuit of women. Welcome to being you.
/r/seduction08/02/11 02:08 AM
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They are one in the same if you do it right ;D
/r/seduction19/01/11 12:14 AM
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It's always fun to offer a cigarette to a cigarette smoker. Protip: If out of cigarettes or don't have any, try this, in this order: 1. if there is a bathroom attendant, they will always have them. Most will let them go with a buck each, but if you approach them with "two for a dollar?" They will always cave. 2. No attendant? Ask the bartender. A lot of bars will have an open pack of cigs that will give you some if you put a couple of singles in their tip jar. Bonus points is that this is making…
/r/seduction18/01/11 06:03 AM
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this will change as people get older. Until then, hang with people who aren't stuck in highschool. As in, learn to disqualify people in your life that don't meet your values. To you, judging people based on what highschool they went to has no value. So associate less and less with people that do, and more with people that don't. Doing so will not only make life more pleasant for you since you will have more people who share your standards, but it will help you grow faster because you are strengt…
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:53 AM
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DOWNVOTED. (just kidding). It can be taxing but it is an extremely important first step in learning how to break the ice. If you can't break the ice to every single stranger you see (you better learn how), how do you think you will ever be able to break the ice with that cutie next to you when you only have a short window to do so?
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:51 AM
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"I CAN'T DO THIS BECAUSE I AM INTROVERTED" vs "I MAY BE INTROVERTED, BUT I CAN LEARN THIS STUFF" are two very different thought patterns that produce different results.
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:48 AM
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"Can you tell me where the nearest xyz is?" "Do you know what time it is?" "Every know why..." "FOOD IS DELICOUS!" okay. maybe not the last one. This shit is easy, you just have to learn it is pointless. It is only to get the ball rolling. Try it.
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:46 AM
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Also a million up votes if I had them. The only other thing I would add to this for the person that asked, and anyone reading is: When you don't know what to say, the best opener on the planet is just plain, simple "Hi". If you are about to pass opening when you wanted to, because didn't know what to open with, just acknowledge the person's presence. The majority of us here ignore each other, so it's a real treat when a stranger just stops to acknowledge you. The best way to do this is a brief g…
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:45 AM
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1 million upvotes if I had them. your brain can be rewired Think of this as science man, DO IT FOR THE SAKE OF SCIENCE! :)
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:40 AM
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I agree with this. You can tease the bar staff in pointing out the obvious while connecting with them "Man that girl/guy can not get enough of you!" On slow nights, use it as opportunities to interact with people you normally wouldn't be able to , like the bar staff on a packed night. If you connect or vibe with any of them, find out the other nights they work. THEN go back and see them. They will remember you 100% of the time and be friendly upon arriving (as long as you are not a pest and they…
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:38 AM
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"Hey need any help checking ID's? YOU THERE! You are WAYYY too young. Come on, let me see some ID. HAha WOW! This is the best fake ID I've ever seen." <hand ID to bouncer and continue> "What do you think? Is she old enough? Okay okay, she can come in" Then: "nice talkin' wtih ya but I gotta bounce." to the bouncer and go on your merry way. I pulled this out of no where once when I was pretty under the influence just to be fun, not even to toy the girl but just to be fun and it worked like a char…
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:35 AM
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Yes this. You are starting at the beginning. There are two schools of thought to the whole PUA scene that evolved competing with each other. They are both VERY effective. Learning them both is the best way to go. Listen to RSD - Blueprint decoded (can be found on seddit if you look). It is very long. 20 hours. Do not get discouraged it builds on itself. This will cover concepts needed to battle the inner. Namely, to conquer yourself. While listening to RSD, try to find examples of actual "techni…
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:27 AM
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Hi. Thanks for posting. Have you heard of the concept of non-attachment? It really helps these situations. I'm sure you've heard or realized on your own that most of these skills are auto-correcting. Your actions will calibrate over time as long as you continue to practice. Your subconscious, for lack of better defining term (can anyone help here?), will learn from the social cues given to you AUTOMATICALLY. If you blow a set your behavior will adjust on it's own not to repeat the actions that l…
/r/seduction12/01/11 12:51 AM
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I feel like that's why they are meat heads. Huge over collocation for self esteem.
/r/seduction03/01/11 11:49 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction03/01/11 11:48 AM
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It's under seduction because it involved the dyamics used to get the girl. Shaking with fear = not attractive. Being calm under stress and able to make snap decisions = very attractive. Simple :)
/r/seduction03/01/11 11:47 AM
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Set the bar high, be indifferent to the outcomes. (You will auto-correct. Don't get pissed because you blew a set. Be pissed because you didn't open a set. Blowing the set is what you need to experience in order to know how to not blow a similar set in the future.) And view sets as either gender as equal value.
/r/seduction03/01/11 04:56 AM
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I'll bite, this is a great idea. (it's too bad that most people here will only come out from the woodwork when it's an exciting FR). First of all, you are an asshole! So stop being a lazy piece of shit! :) My goals Spend less time on the internet and spend more time either A. with the people in my life or B. Improving on something. I've been on the net since a young age so it is my go to entertainment when I have nothing to do. I can accept myself logging onto facebook, checking out reddit, and …
/r/seduction03/01/11 04:44 AM
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Regardless of anything that ever happens never be so hard on yourself that you let yourself get beaten down by the situation. You want to be a "natural"? Then you have to learn to become more outcome independent. And I say more because to ever get to a point where someone is 100% outcome independent at all times means that they got that way by being just a little bit more outcome independent each time. What does it mean to become outcome independent? You can tell when you have become completely …
/r/seduction02/01/11 01:26 AM
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Absolutely on the texting. It did work out but I could have easily missed out on a good night by not securing real and immediate plans. Will be working on this.
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:36 PM
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Go for it! Everyone is the shy nine year old niece you see at family xmas parties that want to hide behind their parents legs when they see you. Take it upon yourself to try to bring them out of their shell and they will treat you with respect.
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:35 PM
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This is the biggest thing that has had a huge improvement on my game. In previous situations where I wasn't sure if I should try to take things to the next level or not this time I decided to go for it. I decided that it would have been better to over do it by trying to escalate and isolate even if that might mean I would loose the set just to get myself into the habit of always stepping it up. Luckily for me it worked out this time. Plow Plow Plow!
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:34 PM
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You are absolutely right about the friend turning into a cockblock and I need to be much more careful with that in the future. Had I not held the HB8's interest so hard her friend would have come in between us for sure. Thank you for pointing this out.
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:32 PM
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I am not a natural by a long shot. I've been working really hard on improving some inner game first which was my biggest problem. I actually re typed out this entire FR since it looked like it was written by a drunk monkey and I pointed out all the things which helped me succeed that night but I exceeded the post limit and accidentally hit Ctr+R and lost everything :| I spent a good hour and a half cleaning it up to make it as helpful as possible. really disappointing. I am thinking of doing it …
/r/seduction31/12/10 09:31 PM
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