| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 37 | Unpaid Validation | B_Project | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 06:57 PM | |
| 35 | FDS works in marriages too | B_Project | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:27 AM | |
| 29 | Should I wait to find a HVM to have a Baby at 35 years old? | B_Project | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 05:59 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | NEVER date a male who used prostitutes at ANY pointLOL WUT? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 09:03 PM |
| 7 | The only appropriate response to this kind of manipulative ass message is *BLOCKED*I’m in my 30’s and taking your advice! 😂 I bet I’m not the only one here haha. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:54 AM |
| 14 | Do you feel like location/ where you live matters when finding a HVMDefinitely more of them in bigger cities with higher cost of living | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 06:01 AM |
| 4 | How to make males feel weak?Go for the ego... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:46 AM |
| 18 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.I’ve read this in multiple places as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 7 | ...and nothing of value was lost - these are the men who whine about "hypergamy" and "misandry" online:😂So... Dusty’s in their mama’s basement? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 01:54 AM |
| 8 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Looking for Pickmesha... anyone? Anyone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Megan Thee Stallion - B.I.T.C.HI’ve been listening to some of her songs on repeat! Especially this one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | Twitter poll on how good straight men are at pleasing their partners. You'll be so surprised at the result!Haha for sure! Or they are lying and faking it. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 06:57 AM |
| 36 | Twitter poll on how good straight men are at pleasing their partners. You'll be so surprised at the result!I’m actually surprised the women’s “Never” isn’t higher 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 03:28 AM |
| 56 | Twitter poll on how good straight men are at pleasing their partners. You'll be so surprised at the result!Apparently up to 30% of Millennial men have a porn addiction which goes w porn-induced ED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 03:27 AM |
| 2 | If he cheats on you, that’s mean your pu$$y is trash 🤦🏽♀️Bahaha what a dumbass. Glad to hear it was an “ex” - $10 says he’s gonna say the same shit to another woman 😂 and recycle his little wanker phrase. Guys like that are selfish and terrible in bed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 10:57 PM |
| 7 | How to cope when you lose a queen bestie to an LVM?You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 10:03 PM |
| 9 | If he cheats on you, that’s mean your pu$$y is trash 🤦🏽♀️LOL WHAT?! You’d think that if they spend so much time on a female forum they’d know a thing or two. Or at least just google it. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:43 PM |
| 25 | If he cheats on you, that’s mean your pu$$y is trash 🤦🏽♀️When they say “tight” that’s porn-talk for underage girls with undeveloped bodies. Porn skews a lot of things. As well as making them believe more sex = looser vagina. These scrotes don’t know anything about the female anatomy but sure love to talk like they do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:31 PM |
| 7 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaI agree chances are pretty much null that he will change. He obviously has a sex addiction and it’s definitely worse than what is seen on the surface. Thankfully the relationship wasn’t any longer. I think she should use him and the situation to her advantage regardless, but for that you have to be in “salt the earth” mode... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 09:07 PM |
| 58 | Red Flag vs Green Flag when telling a man he has upset you“An apology without change is just manipulation.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 20 | Broke up with my boyfriend over social mediaThis is probably controversial but if you plan or are thinking about leaving I would start stashing cash away NOW! On top of that stop cooking, cleaning or doing ANYTHING for him, you’re not his mother. Don’t tell him what he did or does wrong, he will “change” himself and use it to manipulate the next woman. Kicking him out of the bedroom and setting up boundaries until he changes or leaves is a good idea: no sex, no dates etc etc until he unfollows all permanently and gets his ass into therapy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:44 PM |
| 141 | Typical 1 3/4 hours of on-line dating“Makes me want to hold you down....” kinda sketchy to hear from a stranger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Facebook dramaPlease don’t forget this when she dumps or is not longer interested in his ass and he comes crawling back trying to love bomb you. You deserve better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:48 PM |
| 16 | #MyTreat .... yeah because I’m gonna pay for a date you’re asking me on 🤯 this is why I have decided to only date men that make 6 figures. Men have looks standards soI can have money standards. That will at least eliminate cheap men who think paying is a treat .... uh passIt’s almost like he’s trying to create an instant false sense of intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:39 PM |
| 8 | What do you tell yourself if he picks another girl over you?I just commented above but if you check SheraSeven1 on YouTube she tells you how. Basically promising but withholding sex, it keeps them chasing you, amoung other tips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:02 AM |
| 33 | What do you tell yourself if he picks another girl over you?The best revenge is living well. Time to level up and focus on yourself (after doing some self care even if that means Netflix, YouTube (I love SheraSeven1 ) and your fav food). Focus on yourself and YOUR best features, don’t compare yourself. A rose can never be a sunflower, and a sunflower can never be a rose. All flowers are beautiful in their own way, and that’s like women too. Don’t be tempted when he comes crawling back after they don’t work out and you’re looking hot because you levelled … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:59 AM |
| 9 | SheRaSeven1: Throw him in the friend zone before he can throw you in the fwb zone & counter mstatements to male bsI love her long ones too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Trying to spread the good word.“We see each other during weekends only” is he married??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:17 AM |
| 10 | Is there such a thing as a male pick-me?They can be a Pick-me when until they get sex (the desperate ones) but that’s about the extent of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha in the wild?Or a doctor! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Reconciling with FDS while having the personality of a provider - what should I do!?Turn to pets, children and family members. Never your romantic interest. They want a lover, not a mother. And it’s emasculating to men. Let them take care of and provide for you. Check out SheraSeven1 on YouTube and she talks about this in some of her videos and how to dial it back and why you should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:54 PM |
| 19 | New relationship goals! 😁💛💛Yes but they have all been from female friends, not men! 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:36 PM |
| 24 | If he wants to hold off on sex and being intimate until “love”, pay extra attention to potential red flags elsewhere. Clickbait title: you’ll never guess why I’m telling you this...What are some good things to say to see if they are into porn? Like pretend that you’re into it and see what their reactions are? Or hint about certain acts and gauge their response? I feel like a lot of them would lie to seem HV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Oh well, if it’s EXCLUSIVEMaybe if he puts it in all caps lock, the lies will sound more believable... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | What do you girls think of starting a business with a man ?I run a business with my husband. All I can say is unless you’re married, don’t do it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 40 | I’m starting to worry that most HVM are off the market by their late 20sA lot of men don’t settle down until their 30s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 10:13 PM |
| 38 | Ok.................$10 says one of this “other habits” includes porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:06 AM |
| 11 | Lol! I don't need to look at the post history to figure out the OP is a man. Let's all agree to NOT follow this advice!Reminds me of a Bbymutha song called “Stay” (really good song actually! Haha): “That p**** ain't gon make that n**** stay He can leave your ass tomorrow Get your paper straight today” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:11 AM |
| 12 | Avoiding male content has done wonders for my life.It’s disgusting how normalized rape has become in shows and movies. Many times there’s absolutely no reason to add it in and it’s completely unnecessary. Sometimes I have to think, “who the F approved this? How many people watched this and were like ‘yeah let’s have this scene here?” But then I think, oh yeah, a bunch of men... 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:06 AM |
| 10 | Avoiding male content has done wonders for my life.This is why I have to check the Parents Guide on IMDB before watching anything now 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Avoiding male content has done wonders for my life.Yes music was a big one for me too! I just can’t listen to some of the same things anymore. While it may be easy to see what type of movie or show might be bad for these things, it’s harder to spot stereotypes or other things which could be written into the script. I’m at the point where if I’m watching something with someone and I see something - I call it out. And if it’s a dealbreaker I turn it right off. I’ve ended many shows halfway through the series and it’s annoying AF sometimes because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:52 AM |
| 31 | Avoiding male content has done wonders for my life.Literally why I’ve stopped watching almost all shows and movies. Also getting older and becoming pickier with what I spend my time on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 06:18 PM |
| 8 | Do not take him to your favorite restuarant/dessert place/park..etcReminds me of this: https://www.google.ca/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f52v84/dorothy_speaks_truth/ Have you been to JustnoMIL on reddit yet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Men in relationships who ‘can’t’ organise datesTrust, but always verify. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:20 PM |
| 21 | Red flags in the beginning, red flags in the end. Red flags everywhere, dump your boyfriend.Or talk about how you’re going to buy a SMALL vibrator in this size (and mention the approx size of his dick). This works too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Loneliness and not loving yourself is dangerousDoing self care things helps me whenever I have feelings like these. Could be anything from a shower, snacks and YouTube videos (like SheraSeven1 or School of Affluence) or whatever else I enjoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Talk is cheapCheck out SheraSeven1 channel on YouTube, there are many ways 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 09:22 PM |
| 4 | Any flags that tell if a man might be smaller down there before you see it for yourself?You could always touched it clothed before you see it? 🤷🏻♀️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 01:31 AM |
| 7 | A moment of silence for our fallen sister 💀 😞I never understood how this works. Does she go down on one knee to do it? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 10 | Pickmeisha wasting her time with small dicked dude with EDPickmeisha alert in the comments: “Just make sure you tell him how good the sex is during and after” LOL WHAT?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | 14 years...I was going to say if that’s a real post then she should make sure her ring isn’t fake from Walmart. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:40 AM |
| 8 | Men who casually have their hand in their pants when chilling at home?Ewww sounds like ex Manboy needed to buy new pants more often 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:17 AM |
| 10 | 19 y.o. Sidechick wants to know if she is wasting her time waiting for her 46 y.o. Boyfriend to leave his wife. 🤦♀️Yeah I feel bad for her. She’s only a child and doesn’t know any better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 05:09 PM |
| 72 | That’s a no from me, dawg...Wow he is literally advertising for a pick-me. Sounds like he also wants her to fund his “travel, new restaurants” while he pays you back with “tv shows, playing pool and relaxing” so how about a coffee date to start it off? LOL PASS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 03:42 AM |
| 33 | Another man who “found out” the woman he’s dating is an FDS member 🙄Oh noes! What will my husband ever do if he found out he was married to one! 😱🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Oh no, no thank you 🤮Ewww, can you imagine if THAT was cheating on you? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 9 | Why being sweet, shy and "submissive" DOESN'T WORK. Never cater to your abuser! Call him out on his shit!Too bad that doesn’t mean he will change it or that it won’t escalate though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 07:36 PM |
| 41 | This woman posted a video about herself turning 30, and here you can see the different between a young 22 years old HVM and an old crappy 50 years old LVM. Just to say that older men aren’t more matureNot to mention get hit on by both younger men in their 20s regularly and men their own age! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 04:08 AM |
| 30 | Check out this giant piece of shit who enjoys making women cry and thinks he’s “teaching them a lesson”OMG this scote literally harassed me in DMs recently for being here 😂🤣😂 We see you Garrison.... LOL. And we no care. Him being obsessed with FDS is an understatement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:40 PM |
| 8 | How much does race play a role in your dating life?Also mixed race here and also fetished for my race... I have a feeling those who fetishize us are porn-sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 10:38 PM |
| 15 | Sure wouldI would knead each particle of flour, one by one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Study Finds Older Women Who Date Younger Men Are More SatisfiedSame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 10:20 PM |
| 2 | No more ride or dieGet their money, make them invest into you and build yourself. Physically and financially. Keep your money to yourself. Your money is your money, and his money is your money too. 😂 That way if he dumps you, you can leave knowing that at least you got something out of it haha. Maybe I’ve been watching too much SheraSeven, she’s the best: https://www.youtube.com/user/SheRaSeven1/videos?disable_polymer=1&app=desktop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 08:34 PM |
| 12 | What kind of men prefer low maintenance women versus a high maintenance woman?Dusties, aka LVM want everyone. But long term they want a LVW (pickmeisha) cause she has as low standards as him and won’t spend his money on clothes and makeup etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:24 PM |
| 22 | Post Breakup TimelineBasically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 6 | Pathetic MGTOWs use the wall as a cope to try devaluation women who are worlds out of their league, because they’re bitter.Oh yeah I forgot these scrotes age preference was 18-25 my bad 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 10 | Pathetic MGTOWs use the wall as a cope to try devaluation women who are worlds out of their league, because they’re bitter.Except by their math she would have hit the wall 7 years ago cause she’s 37..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 09:19 PM |
| 11 | I am pathetic and I need some help..Girl, if he was your soulmate he wouldn’t be dating another woman! Trust me when I say that if a man wants you, you will know it. Throw pickmeisha away once and for all, work on yourself and let a man chase you. I think you’re forgetting how this works: dick is abundant. And being on the other end (you being “chased” so to speak) will be refreshing, and that’s how it’s supposed to be. You shouldn’t have to force a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:55 AM |
| 10 | I am pathetic and I need some help..He’s using you as back up. And he doesn’t even really want you, like really really want you. Block him and get the best revenge, level up! Get someone better and don’t settle. I heard a funny quote a long time ago that said something like this: “Don’t cry over men, do some squats and make them cry wishing they had that ass” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 01:44 AM |
| 11 | Want to block pesky LVMs from PM'ing you on Reddit? Here's how!Thanks, I’ve had a few DMs from these Scrotes lately 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Just deleted all my social mediaLiterally just did the same thing yesterday. Have been putting more time and effort into levelling up in real life and now I will have have even more time for that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 09:12 PM |
| 11 | This is how flippant men are about toying with women’s feelings and treating them like dirt. And we are called bad for wanting to protect ourselves against this kind of bullshit. 🙄Her first mistake was sleeping with him on the second date. He already got what he wanted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 01:56 AM |
| 5 | The most Pickme thing I’ve ever seen on Facebook 😂 Could never be meWhat a good mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:32 PM |
| 7 | The only kinds of men who will respect boundaries according to Purple Pill Debate🤣🤣🤣Except, my husband waited 4 months. And told be he would have happily waited 6 months. Neither banging anyone else nor religious. But mmmkay, whatever makes them feel better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 110 | I can feel myself not putting up with BS anymoreI Venmo'd him $1 for "the audacity“ LOL that’s some Queen shit right there! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 01:00 AM |
| 5 | This is a REAL fb post from a REAL woman!! How to be a Pickmeisha 101 😂Wow she actually hashtagged “MRFIXIT” 😂 Glhf trying to fix him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 12:32 AM |
| 16 | "Fuckboys don't deserve girlfriend/wife privileges" - I don't think any men deserves these privilegesAfter over a decade I simply stopped doing all of these and guess what happened? He’s picking up the slack, the main cleaner of the house and making his own damn meals now. He was so accustomed to me doing these things he was literally struggling with that to eat (still sometimes does). I figured, it’s not my job to finish raising someone’s son. I’ll NEVER go back to doing those things and wish I had set the tone from day one. From now on I cook when I feel like it and what I feel like, for fun.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 06:25 PM |
| 3 | FDS works in marriages tooThanks for your support and brutal honesty. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 3 | FDS works in marriages tooLol we were joking about that too. I made him make a MEGXIT. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:18 AM |
| 24 | Stay 👏 woke 👏Because the ones that “sleep around” are “dirty” but that term of course doesn’t apply to them. Only women.... they need to feel sPeCiAL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 02:26 PM |
| 5 | One Of These people Aged Like A Fine WineDefo downgrade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 03:18 AM |
| 6 | Should I wait to find a HVM to have a Baby at 35 years old?That’s my thought process. And hopefully the right guy will come along. Without the baggage of an ex or having to deal with one. But since I haven’t been single since 21, I’m not sure how much I am narrowing my dating pool... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 06:25 AM |
| 4 | Unpaid ValidationThank you! Will do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 08:27 PM |
| 13 | This sub explains EVERYTHINGThese types of friends would need to go to therapy and come “out of the fog” so to speak and become completely different people in order for that the happen. At my age, that’s unlikely to happen so I only surround myself with bad ass boss bitches. There’s less of them but it’s about quality than quantity as you get older. Plus HVW have more to offer in a friendship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:15 PM |
| 59 | "Never apologize for the space you occupy in this world."I love wearing heels so that I can look down on men. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 03:15 PM |
| 11 | The LURE method: How to make men crave youMe three! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 08:49 PM |
| 4 | The LURE method: How to make men crave youWould love to see how this works in a LTR and marriage so a post on that would be amazing! Do you mean by flashing cleavage on purpose, or kind of bending over or making them pop casually to show it? I can easily validate a man but I struggle with CID with new men and feel awkward sometimes. Do you need to be good at flirting? I kind of naturally do this entire method with my current partner right before sex, but my CID is overtly sexual and only used before sex which wouldn’t be appropriate for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 03:49 PM |
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