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Back2Faith/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 03:39 AM
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That's okay. This can be fixed. Back off and let him take the lead. If you want to help by bringing him over a meal, cool. But don't do everything for him otherwise what is he going to be able to do for you to show you that he's capable of being a good partner? Also happy cake day!
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 04:51 PM
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This is too much too soon. You just met in person. Let him lead by planning dates, etc, unless you plan to do everything for him in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 04:46 PM
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I work from home too with a husband who works long, stressful hours (7am to 5pm). When I want to talk and can tell my hubby clearly isn't in the mood for conversation, I call my mom or my sister or one of my friends. And when they aren't available I do self care like taking a long hot bath while reading on my ereader or drawing. Basically aything that allows me to relax without badgering my husband 24/7. Then I let my husband come to me when he's done settling into being home for the afternoon.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 04:45 AM
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I would never date a man I wasn't attracted to, again. I did this in my teen years. My first boyfriend was very buff and girls swooned over him like crazy, but I honestly didn't care and found him unattractive myself. Then I met my husband. We have been together over ten years and my heart still flutters when he walks through the door. Looks for change as people age, but I think being initially attracted to your partner goes a long way in keeping that spark alive as you both age and grow. When I…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 02:14 AM
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Let it go and trust your gut instincts. If he really wanted to see you again, he would reach out.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/22 12:18 AM
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This is an awesome friend report. I love reading about other women receiving love and being taken care of properly by their men.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 07:27 AM
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I think men who feel appreciated and not nagged to death are naturally romantic in their own way. My husband isn't the rose petals in the bath type, but he's very romantic in a more chivalrous manner. Fixing my car without prompting if it needs it, making sure I have a blanket at all times if the house is cold, driving to the store in a blizzard if I need something so I can stay safe at home, etc. Every once in a while he will break out some candles because he knows it makes me happy, but that's…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 07:18 AM
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Alright so I was in this situation and you literally answered your own question. Why is your marriage on the rocks? Because you can't stop complaining and your husband feels like he isn't good enough. The solution is really easy, although I know it may seem daunting from the frantic mindset you are in now. Stop complaining and be grateful to your husband for taking care of your family. For me that meant writing a journal everyday of the things my husband did that I loved and made me appreciate h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 07:05 AM
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This. My husband and I met online while living in separate countries and I went to visit him for 2 weeks once we decided to meet in person. We had sex and ended up dating before I left to go back home. I'm not saying he will end his relationship with you and date this woman instead. But unless she is his long lost sister, he is going to without a doubt fuck her or at least try to.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 06:00 AM
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I wanted kids before and my husband did as well. Now that we are in our early 30s after facing years of infertility and just enjoying each other's company, we are both enjoying being child free. If we were blessed to have kids it would be great, but it's no longer a priority for either of us. Also I think people should have as many children as they can handle emotionally and physically. As long as they give them lots of love and the basics of life, who am I to judge?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/22 06:16 AM
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Yep, life is already hard for y'all outside the home. The home should be y'all's peaceful sanctuary which sometimes requires the woman stepping back and letting y'all relax and have some much needed me time.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/22 02:29 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/22 02:27 PM
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I personally think men should lead relationships. I'm a Christian and that's how God set it up in the Bible. Also as someone who did lead in the dating stage of my relationship with my husband, I can honestly say I did not respect him as much then as I do now. Subconsciously I definitely questioned if he could be the provider and protector I wanted, even when he was making more money than me. I wanted a man who could lead our family, even if I didn't verbalize it back then.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 11:11 PM
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Yep, this is a good example of how I felt. I was telling my husband I wanted him to lead, but when he didn't lead like I wanted him to, I would undermine everything by either questioning him about it or constantly saying "I told you so" if things went awry. It killed his self confidence and did a lot of damage to our relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 11:04 PM
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I used to complain a lot to my husband. I found that praying when I refound my faith, helped cut down on alot of the complaining. That and just practicing being mindful of what I say before I open my mouth to speak. My husband has always been much better in that regard than me. Also congratulations on the addition to your family!
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 11:01 PM
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