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BackInSeppoLand/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 12:35 AM
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I see the same thing. My circle when I was married was mostly around her friends or parents of kids friends. I don't have that many friends as I've moved around a lot, but those friends are good friends. I don't think my ex-wife's friends are close like I am with mine.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 10:11 PM
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I've been on the fence on this one. I've had a girlfriend for 3 years, on and off. She's generally very supportive, but even last week she asked me if I was holding back or in denial over my lack of a relationship with my kids. As if I'd hit them. Three years in and she was asking me this? She should know better. It felt like a huge betrayal. So we're going long distance now, but I can never invest in a relationship what I have done before.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 06:30 PM
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I agree. I've not been here long, but in the real world there appears to be nowhere to go. I raised my kids and now I'm living thousands of miles away. It wasn't my choice to leave them. My ex is a monster, but this was acceptable to her circle. It's not acceptable. If any of these people lived my experience, they'd be astonished. My business partner is now dead as his ex kept him away from his kids. This happens much more often than I would have expected. In here and in other social media I've …
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/24 05:26 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 01:04 AM
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I don't understand how that forum can be up when the male equivalents are banned. It's effectively a hate forum.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 12:41 AM
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I'm 51 now. I'd gone online after my separation and I sad sex with a bunch of women. My libido was a fraction of what it was. It's coming back, I suspect because I was drinking a lot and I'm not now, which can kill your testosterone levels.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:22 AM
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I didn't bail on my kids. Read the post, asshole. And even if I had, the downvoted post had nothing to do with it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 12:10 AM
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What kind if unwashed asshole downvotes this?
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 03:04 PM
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You're right, but my ex in this case thinks she's doing the right thing. She's doing the selfish thing and she's harming them by doing so. Your situation sounds uncomfortable. TV and politics are raising our children to hate us.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 01:58 PM
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I hear you. The problem for me is that I invested my whole life in this. There is no more family in my future. I'm not sure that there's a future at all.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 01:44 PM
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I hope you're right. Maybe I'm just being pessimistic, but they seem to have forgotten me already. I have no contact information for my son. My girls are now HS seniors. They haven't got the time. And their mother's narrative pervades. Whatever that is. She says that she's trying to help. She's lying, of course. But if I go hard I'm not doing myself any favors.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 02:14 AM
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It's rough being back here, because New York is home and I haven't been there in years. I just spent the last 4+ months in Dallas and to be brutally honest, I'm lucky that I'm alive now. Long story. My business partner didn't make it. He died at 47 - still waiting for the autopsy. I might go back to Australia, but now I have to be in South Florida as my Dad is dying. And I have business to take care of here. It's not salt on my part, but I feel like I just don't know these kids anymore. And if a…
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 01:36 AM
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For me there was no battle. My (ex) kids are in Australia and I'm on the US East Coast. My Dad is terminal here. I'll probably hear from the in-laws about how sorry they are when my Dad dies. And I honestly don't know how I'll respond to that.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 12:43 AM
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