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| 2 | Help! I’m an emotional cheatLook how negative your framing of the choices are. What if you said, instead, 1) To leave for my happiness, because my happiness is important to me and going through the next sixty or so years of my life unhappy would be a travesty. Guilt at leaving her would eventually fade, especially knowing how easy it is for a women to pick up a new mate, and by making myself a better man I would set myself on a course of unstoppable happiness and fulfillment. 2) To stay in a relationship which is unsatisfy… | /r/askMRP | 23/04/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | "Convinced" into marriage at 23; now don't know what to do... (story & questions)she says she somehow doesn't find the muscular Alpha Males attractive??? LOL. So at the risk of beating what should already be a dead horse to you: 1) you got where you are today by listening to and believing that the words and advice given to you by women were true, 2) women will say this in order to avoid sounding shallow, 3) if your wife asked you "do these pants make me look fat", would you say to her "Yeah hun, I find slim women more attractive, you could lose a few pounds"? Pretty sure Rol… | /r/askMRP | 23/04/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 17, 2018I am struggling with a mind game that tells me, “you progressed very quickly so far, you will probably start failing reps soon.” And the problem is...? This is obviously part of the process, otherwise you'd expect to be lifting upward of a thousand pounds in a few years if linearity held forever. Failing a rep isn't necessarily a negative thing. Once you start stalling regularly it just means your newbie gains phase is ending and you should look at a more advanced program. I decided I am not hav… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/04/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | "Convinced" into marriage at 23; now don't know what to do... (story & questions)And pick a lifting plan and stick to it. Lots of resources in posts here, in r slash fitness and r slash weightroom subreddit sidebars. Starting strength, 5/3/1, PPL, anything will work for a beginner. Don't just show up, do some bicep curls, and wonder what the fuck else to do for an hour. A decent plan includes emphasis on all the major areas of your body. You set goals, struggle to reach those goals, and watch your progress. You get a rush when you hit a new record, you learn the discipline o… | /r/askMRP | 22/04/18 03:06 PM |
| 5 | Help! I’m an emotional cheatProblem: The real problem is me. At least you're more honest than most guys first time posting Inability to be keep fidelity. Aww, as if this was something outside of your control. How about rewriting this as "continuing to make decisions incongruent with my goal of staying in this relationship", or "can't be arsed to make the decision - if I want to be married or spend my life fucking strange". Or even Tradis3's third option. You're framing this as out of your control when it's really the only … | /r/askMRP | 22/04/18 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Self Compassion: Become Your BestI think there's a bit of a split personality behind the idea of "bluepill" manhood and so you have to look at self compassion a couple of ways. On the one hand, men are expected to just suck it up, go to war smiling, wait for all the women to get off the Titanic first, and so on. On the other hand, the prevalent social conditioning also reinforces the trope of the "sensitive man" and a man who communicates openly and honestly with his wife/gf about everything that worries him. The first is what … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 06:26 PM |
| 3 | John Cena wises up, dumps post-wall Nikki Bella 5 weeks before their scheduled weddingLOL. Ferris Bueller pointed this out beautifully in 1986. https://youtu.be/bhoeIKr6tdo?t=126 (relevant speech lasts 30 seconds or so) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 02:38 PM |
| 2 | The Sperg Free way to fast for WeightliftersAbout 6 lbs of rebound, I cut from 235 to 210 and then bounced around 215-217 for the next week. I think some of it is gut weight for sure, and some of it is getting back onto carbs which creates more glycogen in your system which holds onto more water. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 12:26 AM |
| 2 | The Sperg Free way to fast for WeightliftersYou ever have one of those days where you're super busy, lunch rolls around, you feel hungry, but you're so busy you skip lunch? Before you know it dinnertime rolls around and you realize you haven't eaten all day but your lunchtime hunger just kinda went away on its own? Once you get into it, you still get hungry feelings once in a while ( a few times a day maybe) but they come and then go pretty quickly, especially after you realize they're just just something you feel that doesn't really need… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | The Sperg Free way to fast for WeightliftersNo food. It was technically a little bit cheaty since I allowed myself a coffee with 18% cream in the morning (no carbs in it though so no insulin spike), and I'd have a full blown cheat of either a beer or a vodka/soda most nights. And to be totally honest there was one day I had a small handful of gummy bears I think I might have had a protein bar on one of the earlier days. Other than that I took some salt packets from mcdonalds and made some chicken bullion cube broth to drink to keep my sal… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 12:45 PM |
| 4 | The Sperg Free way to fast for WeightliftersDecember 4th through 23rd. 20 days. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/18 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Frame advice with ex wife and kidsExpectations is pretty close. You should definitely read NMMNG. Covert contract is a term from psychology that's pretty well explained in that book. It's basically when, in your own mind, you make a "contract" like "I do A, and the other person will return the favour with B". As in "I'll be nice, so she'll love me" or "I'll try not to make her angry so she'll respect my needs", or "I'll do the dishes so she won;t be stressed and then she'll fuck me". Or even "If I don't make waves, people will b… | /r/askMRP | 15/04/18 02:30 AM |
| 10 | Frame advice with ex wife and kidsThe blubbering like a little sissy isn't a good place to be. I get it, I was there too once. But spending 30+ minutes with the ex while dropping the kids off isn't good for you. If you can't handle it, cut it short. The kids don't need to see daddy whimpering either. Your emotional state suggests that counselling or therapy for you might be useful. But my number one takeaway is that you're living in the past. You talk about being invested and not wanting to lose it, but you're viewing all this t… | /r/askMRP | 14/04/18 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Frame advice with ex wife and kidsI think you are seeing the world through some seriously disturbed thought processes, heavily distorted by emotion, and characterized by a lack of internal stability and peace. I submit that this is prototypical lack of frame. Sometimes gruffness is an attempt to shake you out of your self-fulfilling negative thought processes. Of course, sometimes it's just telling you to fuck off. Which interpretation might lead to some insight into the nature of your problems and their solutions? | /r/askMRP | 14/04/18 11:25 PM |
| 14 | The Sperg Free way to fast for WeightliftersJebus the resistance to even a single day of fasting is unreal. I fasted for 20 days and lost 25 lbs. I didn't die, didn't curl up in a ball in the corner of the gym sobbing, didn't develop terminal death syndrome. Yeah, I didn't have the same stamina, but I managed just fine. I pulled 440 before and still pulled an easy 425 the week after I finished. One day a week of fasting is a brain dead simple, zero-effort, way to reduce my weekly calorie intake by 1/7th. Not to mention the increased menta… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Instinct, Emotion and ReasonThis isn’t to throw $10 words at you Oh, the irony. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/18 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 10, 2018I am now thinking of my wife's frame as an emotional octagon where you go to argue and fight. I like that. I need to NOT reflexively respond, pause for a moment and think before I speak. I find meditation has been helpful for that. Viewing anger arising but not becoming the anger, staying mindful. Feelings are drops of water in the river of emotion that runs through our mind constantly. The trick is to stay standing on the bank, watching, rather than diving in and fighting the current. A guy rec… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/04/18 11:30 PM |
| 3 | How the F did I end up a married beta having starfish sex twice a month? Where am I fucking up, and how do I fix it?Don't fucking talk about it. You cannot negotiate desire. | /r/askMRP | 10/04/18 10:31 PM |
| 3 | Q: dread level 4 - leave without telling where toConventional wisdom is that the open relationships thing means she's already checked out, is looking to branch swing, but doesn't want to give up on those sweet sweet benefits of yours just yet (a free house to live in, free groceries, a ready ear to fill with her daily woes, etc etc). She doesn't want dick with you more than once a month, but she would go out and fuck some strange on a moment's notice? Talk about not being invested in your relationship or interested in you. And yet you hamster … | /r/askMRP | 05/04/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 03, 2018hernia Some tips on lifting to avoid hernias: shoulder pain youtube rotator cuff excercises, IWYT band excercise, do shoulder mobility work, stretches, physio-type rehab like finger wall walks. Biggest thing I did to improve shoulder impringement was dead hangs from a pullup bar, let your scaps rise, just go limp. Use straps if you need to. Biggest way to improve shoulder during bench is to use decent form (shoulder not 90 degrees out from your body but elbows flared down a bit, etc etc) but als… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/04/18 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Take the Wife Back?I'll take a stab at answering this. It's not that self-doubt implies you're operating within the feminine imperative. Self doubt can occur around any situation, even, say, an automotive mechanical problem for example, and that's clearly not a BP or FI issue. It's that the reason for the self doubt, the opposing arguments to your chosen course (you ought to go back to her because marriage is special, you owe it to the poor woman because victim, you owe it to the kids because matriarchal family hi… | /r/askMRP | 04/04/18 03:19 PM |
| 11 | Take the Wife Back?The most significant exclusion would be WISNIFG, but that was and is the least needed. And yet here you are, feeling guilty at the thought of saying no to your ex-wife. Despite the obvious feedback from the universe: kids are happier now and I'm a better father than I've ever been | /r/askMRP | 03/04/18 11:09 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE on how I (35m) lied to myself about taking TRP, while still being totally plugged in, and about to marry a crazy, manipulative, narcissistic, bitch (28f)After reading your original story, thank god you bailed out of the slow motion trainwreck you created for yourself. One piece of advice, though - if you don't do some serious work on yourself to fix your low standards, low self-esteem, and the shitty way you expect and allow yourself to be treated, and the way you view and respond to situations in which you sabotage yourself, you are just going to attract more of the same and re-live the same disaster in each and every relationship you may find … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/18 06:29 PM |
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