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BadCopWithDonut/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:24 AM
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BadCopWithDonut/r/askTRP28/02/15 08:57 AM
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You have to leave her sooner or later if you have these feelings now. Especially if you have an easy time meeting new ppl.
/r/seduction16/04/25 02:05 PM
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Seed the day 2 in the interaction! Be as specific as possible. Don't just seed "let's go out". Maybe talk about a unique venue that you should go to and make her confirm she wants to go there. Also stay in set for longer and if possible make instant date or at least make he switch locations. Baby step somewhere.
/r/seduction16/04/25 10:55 AM
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Foundation Training is legit and made my posture so much better
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:27 AM
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"People pleasing Syndrome" Great read!
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:16 AM
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Don't touch or grab her right away. If she touches you say, with a smile, "Hey now, hands off the merchandise" Don't lean in or hover over her. Stand up straight and, if the music's too loud or she's seated, simply speak up. these 2 points are complete BS. You want to enable physical contact as soon as possible to avoid being friend to friend. Saying that you should avoid physical contact is just limiting yourself. Calibrate after the fact. See how she reacts and then adapt.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:23 AM
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Inner game videos from tyler are just fucking gold
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 08:50 PM
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Going close to failure with every set is scientifically proven best for hypertrophy though.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 01:42 PM
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Escalate physically
/r/askTRP14/06/15 11:15 AM
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You miss the point. If you enjoy yourself, she will enjoy being around you. You are the priority
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:01 PM
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Imo ask her for honest feedback. Maybe there was actually something you did which made her change her mind. You have nothing to lose, just something that to learn.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 07:02 AM
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"Focus on making her feel good" -> that's a bad mindset. Always focus on enjoying yourself and let her join the fun!
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 06:55 AM
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Remembers me of the sweet girl who worked in a hostel which I fucked while I stayed there over the weekend. So cute and innocent...yeah AWALT
/r/askTRP26/04/15 11:37 AM
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Kegels in combination with nofap are fucking gold!
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 11:13 AM
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Have a stronger frame.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 02:29 PM
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If you want to do it do it. It won't change shit though.
/r/askTRP03/04/15 10:35 AM
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You are right saying jealous mate guarding doesn't work... But if its a ltr you have to set boundaries. Make it clear to her what you expect from a gf. Simply Say to her that you don't want a gf that stays in contact with her exes. If she doesn't cut contact next her.
/r/askTRP31/03/15 01:14 PM
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This. Huge red flag and instant next for me if she proceeds
/r/askTRP30/03/15 10:28 AM
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His advice is still right and you sound childish.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 09:35 AM
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You have oneitis. Read the sidebar in trp. First dates should never be movies.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 09:34 AM
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Yeah you realised you made a big mistake. You say you are new to trp so just take it as learning experience. From the small info I have I also think you handled more situations wrong and didn't see red flags beforehand. What she did definitely is a huge red flag. Maybe she wasn't ltr material to begin with... You say she is prude, maybe you just don't attract her enough.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 07:53 AM
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Well you should never punish a girl for good behaviour. But when you are busy and she "throws tantrum" when you can't meet her its not really good behaviour. If she misses you, awesome. But if she's clingy and wants to control you, put her in place.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 07:42 AM
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So whats the point of your post? You know the answer to your question.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:20 AM
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So whats the point of your post? You know the answer to your question.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:18 AM
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Just watch YouTube videos of guys who approach direct on the street. Then go out and do it. You will get better and build confidence. If you can't find good stuff check out sasha daygame. For night game, formula of gambler is pretty awesome.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:07 AM
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A plate you are talking to??? By talking you mean fucking right? If not she is not your plate and you need to read the sidebar. If you are fucking her its not necessarily a shit test. Maybe she just wants to be in a ltr with you. If you don't want it, simply tell her. She will either stick around hoping to be in a ltr with you in the future or leave you. Don't enter a ltr if you don't want to.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 07:00 AM
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Well there are basically two views on this: Most people on theredpill say don't get too attached to a single girl and spin plates. There is nothing wrong with that and guys can live happily this way. Personally I prefer being in ltrs though, so I have to worry about what you described. You can't be perfect in everything. But I don't think that's necessary. As long as you are determined and have goals. There will always be guys who are better in certain areas. We all know that it's in women's nat…
/r/askTRP30/03/15 06:56 AM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 09:49 AM
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I have no personal experience with this. But lets look at it like this: If I say: No he can't be RP and has to live unhappy! Would that be of any help? No. So just assume he can
/r/askTRP28/03/15 09:55 PM
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So what? Any red flags? Stop being a robot and enjoy life. If she hurts you you will only get stronger.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 06:27 PM
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Meet her and see where it goes...do you really want to look back at your life and wonder what would have happened if you had the balls? Don't be afraid of oneitis...if you don't see red flags with her enjoy the ride for what it's worth.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 05:48 PM
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Shaking is just the Adrenalin in your body. Embrace the rush and don't worry about it
/r/askTRP28/03/15 05:43 PM
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She just sees you as the leader of the family now. No incest
/r/TheRedPill28/03/15 11:15 AM
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"She feels like my rock" Dude seriously?... This should be the other way around. I don't know you personally but it looks like you really just want to stay in your comfort zone and you are too afraid of the possibility to be alone at one point. If your relationship is all sunshine and rainbows that's awesome. But I have the strange feeling that you are miles away from being a man and at one point your girlfriend will realize this when she has an alpha cock for the first time.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 10:58 AM
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It's ok son! Just take this as a learning experience. Probably she wasn't ltr material to begin with. You already stated your mistakes with the phone calls. But the problem lays deeper in you...It's your mindset that lead to this situation. You cared way too much. Focus more on your own life. You should be too busy with work and other plates to care about dealing with this shit! Don't act needy ever again.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 10:46 AM
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Now that I read the update I have a different view on this. Even if she didn't cheat this is such a fucking huge red flag. Abort ship asap!!
/r/askTRP28/03/15 10:26 AM
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That's awesome. The women who aren't attracted to you simply don't supply what you are looking for. You shouldn't care about them.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:05 PM
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sure, all women are capable of doing something like this. And hypergamy is real. But still this doesn´t mean she cheated on him here. Doesn´t sound to me like the other guy is that alpha. But without knowing her in RL it´s not possible to stay.
/r/askTRP24/03/15 08:02 PM
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You have no clear reasons to think that at this point
/r/askTRP24/03/15 03:22 PM
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If you don't fuck them they are not plates.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 12:19 AM
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Soft next her asap! You say you already have feelings for her and see a future life partner??? Your brain is fucked already. She will most likely ride the CC and you won't realise or won't have the balls to next her. Do it now ! From what you said there is no way she is ltr material...srsly read the sidebar
/r/askTRP18/03/15 09:18 AM
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Direct game doesn't work on the streets? That's some bullshit man. Opening direct doesn't mean that you are all sold to her already. If you open indirect she fucking knows what you want aswell if she is not stupid. At the end of the day your opening isn't the biggest sticking point. Its mostly about your body language and sub communication. Personally I love opening direct cause it actually does show that you are a fucking man that goes for what he wants. But opening direct doesn't imply that yo…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 09:47 PM
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Have you read the sex God method? It covers this subject pretty well and shows good ways to increase emotional connection
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:58 AM
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Ltr game is completely different to spinning plates. I think it's important to improve your ltr game so that when you find a worthy woman you will be able to handle her accordingly. If you treat a ltr like a plate I'll guarantee you that she will leave you sooner or later.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:22 AM
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At no point op said that he's desperately seeking for a ltr. The fact that he's spinning plates to "interview" for ltr material is a perfect example of abundance mentality. When you enter a ltr all you have to do is be willing to leave if she starts behaving badly.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 10:16 AM
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Now that's a great mindset!
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:53 AM
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I completely agree. For me its about spinning plates until I find a woman that might be worth starting a ltr with. When you make your rules clear at the beginning and she accepts them it can be a great time. Additionally you can really improve your game a lot in a ltr, because due to her strong feelings her shit tests can be strong.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:46 AM
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I have to disagree... A woman has desires for alpha and for beta traits. Did you read the sex god method? If you go full dominant and don't give her any stability she will eventually leave you. You have to fullfill all her needs. I'm talkin ltr here though. If you only spin plates you get away with being pure dominance all the time.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:16 PM
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Okay...this might sound harsh but I really doubt you swallowed the pill at all You have to start eating more and LIFT and FUCKING EAT! I used to be skinny as well... 1,89 m and 76 kg. Currently I'm at 85 and the difference in how women respond to me is huge compared to before I lifted. It doesn't have to be 100% clean and ripped but gain weight. Now back to your inner game. The way you describe the whole situation sounds really sad. You should stop thinking about your ex!!! She is your past and …
/r/askTRP27/02/15 07:41 PM
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Well...you have to answer this for yourself. The situation seems clear. How old are you? Do you want to settle for her? Since you said she's already 30, she might try her best to get pregnant from you
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:45 PM
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What do you really want for yourself? To be honest it reads to me as if you still have one itis feelings for your ex. Did you fuck other girls between your ex and your current? Maybe I'm wrong and its hard to say without knowing you but I have a strong feeling you should plate both, focus on yourself and fuck some other girls. Don't hop into ltrs too early without trying a lot of different girls ;)
/r/askTRP27/02/15 06:15 PM
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Leaving was your good right...you probably destroyed her soul with your comment though :D
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 01:26 PM
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Work on your inner game son
/r/askTRP14/02/15 01:15 PM
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Interesting...yesterday evening unbreakable was on tv. seems like you watched it :D
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 01:10 PM
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Some guys here are fools and some are wise. I'll choose which advice I take.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:44 PM
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This opened my eyes I guess. Thanks for this quality post!
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 01:37 PM
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Hm I don't think so... It's a ltr and I didn't want her to do it. So I fucking told her. If she can't follow my lead, she can't be my ltr.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 12:27 PM
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Of course I care. This is a LTR and not a plate.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 12:25 PM
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Hmm I see your point. But modeling is not her career. She just did it as a favour to the photographer or for the excitement of being photographed. If she would actually be modeling I would be okay with it. What really bothers me is the fact that she asked me about it. And after I told her not to go she still went.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 12:10 PM
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She wanted exclusive. And I agreed after some time cause she seemed worthy. I don't feel really insecure it's just a bad move from her to do this photoshooting after I told her not to. If I tell her not to go she needs to have enough trust in my decision to follow it. At least that's what I expect from a LTR. If you don't care who your ltr hangs out with that's fine. But that's not how I handle ltr's, that's plate game imo.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 11:52 AM
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Don't judge something you didn't try yet. Go monk mode or stay the way you are. It's your life, your choice, your responsibility.
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:18 AM
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Yeah just thinking about it I feel like I swallowed some more of the red pill. To have an idea of her partner count it is really important to look at her upbringing. Did she have a strict religious household? Was her father around when she grew up? What people did she hang out with etc.? These points are really important when trying to find out how many partners she had and essentially if she is even worth and ltr or only a plate.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:37 AM
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Prefect advice! You don't know what she will evolve like but if you have a good feeling it's worth trying out. But always be ready to aboard the ship if she changes her behaviour!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:32 AM
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Finding a good looking girl with no more than 2 partners is really difficult. How do you try to find our her partner count? Do you expect her to be honest when you ask for it? I think most girls will lie to you about this to make them more valuable
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:25 AM
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Op made a decent point in identifying sluts. When you feel like it's just a routine for them that they move through like it's their fucking job, you know you are pounding a slut and know what to expect from her. If don't feel like op is bragging. Good post!
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 09:21 AM
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Trying to keep escalating is never a mistake. Thats exactly the correct way!
/r/askTRP19/01/15 06:35 PM
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Noce
/r/seduction23/12/14 10:58 AM
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As a German, fuck this shit!
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:51 PM
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Nice moves! Might try to learn some of them
/r/seduction27/08/14 08:10 PM
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Great
/r/becomeaman18/07/14 05:44 PM
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I think it's in one of his longer youtube talks...just watch them both, they are great anyway ;)
/r/seduction25/08/13 02:02 PM
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When you start making out with them, most of the time you lose attraction. Sasha daygame had a good talk about this somewhere on youtube... It's better to wait until you are at better locations (home) where you can get the lay.
/r/seduction25/08/13 01:45 PM
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