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Badguy60/r/RedPillBooks18/03/23 07:02 AM
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Go to literally any of the women dominated subs and see if they don't group us lol
/r/seduction25/04/26 12:08 AM
16

They love this type of shit actually. One time I scored a girl talking about Batman
/r/seduction07/03/26 01:30 PM
1

This honestly won't do anything today
/r/seduction16/01/26 05:42 PM
5

Most dudes won't, it's literally getting worse every year
/r/seduction30/12/25 06:29 PM
2

That's just evil
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:10 PM
-5

The fact you are getting down voted really shows how people don't touch grass. Looks, status, money, and even cockiness shit on social skills.
/r/seduction25/09/25 06:34 PM
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30seconds or a min
/r/seduction20/09/25 01:46 PM
6

I don't think you in the right sub
/r/seduction13/09/25 05:38 AM
1

Emphasis on claimed to be a woman, and it's not like people have this view or other views online and once you go in the real world it's almost completely the opposite or non-existent.
/r/seduction01/09/25 10:03 PM
1

It didn't get easier with dating apps ( expect the beginning). How do you think it will get better with Ai
/r/seduction01/09/25 10:00 PM
1

Reddit vs real life
/r/seduction01/09/25 12:46 PM
1

Yeah it’s always pretty high up lol
/r/seduction01/09/25 12:30 AM
1

How is this even remotely weird? Physical attraction is number for most creatures
/r/seduction31/08/25 04:35 PM
3

Honestly extremely
/r/seduction30/08/25 05:39 PM
1

What do you normally do?
/r/seduction29/08/25 12:19 AM
1

It helped to know about the girls that didn't have the right logistics
/r/seduction28/08/25 05:28 PM
2

It’s a point where the leveling up becomes stupid, Miami being a example
/r/seduction25/08/25 07:00 PM
3

Because anytime a "space" put women into dating mode they go for the highest standards, you literally see it all the time in women dating advice. School, Friends, Cold approach, even sometimes your local bar doesn't have this. It's why I I'm careful with the word " date"
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:11 AM
1

How old are you now?
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:07 AM
3

I think " testing the waters" is better phrasing or at least something I like to do Works well and saves time
/r/seduction15/08/25 05:45 PM
1

How tf TikTok
/r/seduction10/08/25 09:04 AM
1

Taking a break cause of money. But it's not hard for me
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:56 AM
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I’m basically in the same position as you. But mentally and physically best I ever been Girls are also easy it’s ever been but just taken a break because money Just broke lol
/r/seduction03/08/25 09:58 PM
2

Man I feel you
/r/seduction03/08/25 09:56 PM
1

No
/r/seduction02/08/25 08:18 AM
1

No can’t be average
/r/seduction01/08/25 11:11 PM
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Honestly these one of the only post that past in this sub
/r/seduction01/08/25 03:51 PM
1

Go direct
/r/seduction31/07/25 08:00 PM
1

Long paragraph… Nah The difference is one made a move that’s it
/r/seduction28/07/25 03:03 PM
3

Ehh no one really knows how to talk to each in this generation women including and honestly Gen Z aren't good texters either. People literally just aren't communicating
/r/seduction25/07/25 09:15 PM
-1

You are using this phrase wrong lol. But we get the point
/r/seduction24/07/25 02:28 PM
1

Depends what race you are but it's not that hard
/r/seduction20/07/25 01:05 AM
5

Now this is gold, but honestly you can do it to women even in their early 30s lol
/r/seduction15/07/25 12:06 AM
1

Tf was this just randomly on the street
/r/seduction12/07/25 06:25 AM
6

That makes sense
/r/seduction10/07/25 03:29 PM
1

Where are you from?
/r/seduction10/07/25 01:25 PM
1

Yeah kinda
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:08 AM
1

Who's the guy?
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:08 AM
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It's a trend so they follow it Can make him look like the bad guy
/r/seduction02/07/25 09:29 AM
1

Yes. But you have to realize you won't always have a picture moment
/r/seduction01/07/25 03:04 PM
2

You have to be polarizing to a degree
/r/seduction27/06/25 06:59 AM
2

Fair
/r/seduction22/06/25 09:28 PM
2

Dm me
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:22 AM
4

See this is why I ask questions because this detail is important
/r/seduction22/06/25 01:32 AM
2

What’s your insta?
/r/seduction22/06/25 12:27 AM
3

Did they live close or something? Like I wonder how they would find him and what did he post?
/r/seduction22/06/25 12:26 AM
1

I needed to hear this, a long time ago, I seriously thought you had to just pound these on
/r/seduction03/06/25 01:55 PM
1

Dudes trip over themselves
/r/seduction28/05/25 09:19 PM
1

Florida or Vegas I'm guessing?
/r/seduction28/05/25 08:36 PM
2

Where have you met most of them?
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:40 PM
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Black Dude
/r/seduction27/05/25 10:47 PM
1

What's funny about this whole thing is you are basically putting her on a pedestal usually, because you are trying to live up to her or what another guy imprinted on her (wow that was cringe, but whatever). Ever sense high school I been the BD that has broke the rule for them waste of time
/r/seduction27/05/25 06:45 PM
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Yeah the more attractive they also think you are or actually are the more they'll like you. Seriously I'm tried of these post "how to get a 10" to like you
/r/seduction26/05/25 10:33 PM
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It's literally just love bombing, this is basically what I see that works
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:18 PM
0

Can you explain further?
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:50 AM
2

Most of it was standard pickup shit , honestly it worked sometimes but not as consistent as being "corny" Like I use to say " I really like your look, cute etc etc" or "I had to meet you" it's probably closer to "you look fucking gorgeous " or "your hair or whatever looks cool asf or comparing them to a anime character if the style fits etc
/r/seduction25/05/25 03:04 AM
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It's literally this. It's one of the reasons I think I had recent more success was because I just tell them I like them, but it feels like love bombing but they also eat that shit up , but are also ready to go distant as hell when something doesn't good perfectly or they feel like you aren't valuing there time.
/r/seduction25/05/25 01:41 AM
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Yeah she's gonna do this type of thing again to him
/r/seduction24/05/25 12:26 PM
5

This is one of the worst things women do in dating, because it enforces dudes to not leave
/r/seduction24/05/25 12:25 PM
5

Adding to this. You have to pull 2 triggers: 1st talking to them 2nd making a move
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:43 PM
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Do you seriously think this whole post or me is talking about a guy from village in Africa or regular dude in America?
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:08 PM
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"Plenty of people live in places they don't need to waste money on a car. Maybe in most of America that's a minimum, but that's not universal" How the flying fuck do you call my metric dumb and in the next paragraph want us to go by the minority.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:39 PM
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There's no cheap hotels around me lol. Ubers are like 20-35$ to any good bar around me All together everything you just said is causing me 150$ + Literally not worth it.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:34 PM
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I mean the last one is impossible. If we are simply talking getting laid then this is all (but the last) not needed. But I would consider it a waste of time to get girls just to get laid especially if it's not going anywhere without at least the first one down.
/r/seduction19/05/25 11:00 AM
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I mean it depends Until you have a car? That's pretty reasonable Until you have abs? Yeah still reasonable Until you have a house? No Shit it could just mean until you enough free time to game and see girls
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:22 AM
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Nah You right, I have gotten to the point where I think dudes doy actually even really want women and just care more about some type of acceptance from men or just following a giant pitty party.
/r/seduction16/05/25 09:07 AM
1

And people say DMs on Instagram don't work lol
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:39 PM
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Honestly this one " social rule" I threw out outside of playing or holding a girls hand when flirting I generally don't touch that much when flirting.
/r/seduction11/05/25 01:25 AM
9

He focused on her and the moment, a lot guys especially beginners care about numbers
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:32 PM
1

Why did you get downvoted so much lol.
/r/seduction07/05/25 09:38 PM
3

The first point change my dating for the better forever, but it's not static if you are actually physically attractive
/r/seduction07/05/25 05:08 PM
147

The fact you didn't get her number but just focus on closing is a huge point people will miss
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:24 PM
3

Yeah I don't get why people hate sweatpants especially with cool versions like joggers
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:02 AM
2

Yeah this is the best answer from someone that actually goes out. I have literally stole girls by accident this way a good mindset to have is just focus on her and that this guy is below you. Like it's crazy but so much of game goes back to just being cocky
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:44 PM
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This happened a lot through out my life. Ignore him /act like he doesn't exist Move the girl Mindset: You should think you are better than him and focus on the girl
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:40 PM
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Basically
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:33 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction04/05/25 10:27 PM
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It's reddit
/r/seduction29/04/25 11:55 PM
1

You can just combine 1 and 2 honestly
/r/seduction26/04/25 12:57 AM
1

Has happened to me a bunch. So I made a new rule for myself 2 times max to make your move
/r/seduction25/04/25 06:34 PM
1

The taller dudes are busy with the short women
/r/seduction24/04/25 06:52 PM
1

Yup coming from a short guy (5'6) 5'4 and up is golden
/r/seduction24/04/25 06:51 PM
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See this is a post by a guy that actually goes out, because that bratty girl is definitely a thing
/r/seduction22/04/25 03:16 PM
2

I been debating it but it seems pointless
/r/seduction21/04/25 11:30 PM
0

You know I been debating making a detail post to actually insight break some of the dumb shit guys say or think but idk if it's worth it sometimes.
/r/seduction21/04/25 11:29 PM
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Tf ? It takes less than 5 mins
/r/seduction21/04/25 05:17 PM
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This isn't easy at all and if it is it's for women mostly
/r/seduction18/04/25 04:06 PM
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Being a mix of both is the key, but being a asshole does help 80% of the time
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:44 PM
2

Yeah I had learn you don't need to go to clubs to get girls, it's actually made game a lot more fun. If you have any questions just ask
/r/seduction17/04/25 06:20 AM
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My favorite type of girls are nerdy, quiet, and alternative. Shit my friend even said I have a built in radar because I have been able to find them in clubs full of hundreds of people. Here's a list Online, Book stores, comic book stores, drive bars, mental (alternative punk etc ), bar, library, pubs, colleges, target, Walmart, anything to do with art or fashion etc Honestly you can base your whole game on these types of girls and always have options
/r/seduction17/04/25 05:23 AM
1

Yeah it's throwing darts at a sign while blindfolded
/r/seduction11/04/25 01:37 PM
6

Yeah I get where you coming from. Girls that actually even remotely give a fuck about you will always remember, but they are rare. Best bet is to break down her traits and interest and find more girls like that, my friend dates a teacher and she cares a lot about him despite him being pretty shitty lol idk about the sex tho. Likely I found what type I like and what type likes me
/r/seduction11/04/25 01:30 PM
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No not really. Really depends on how the girl feels about you and being highly sexually attractive to them also helps. Outside of that idk, shit I met girls with high body counts but aren't run at all , while other girls in the single digits that are fun asf.
/r/seduction11/04/25 01:17 PM
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It's hard for a lot of dudes to wrap their heads around instant dates because they just met the girl
/r/seduction08/04/25 12:43 AM
6

It's more like every day
/r/seduction06/04/25 02:49 AM
1

Yeah the gap is huge. This may not like it, but guys went from easy mode to max difficulty and our dad's and grandparents obviously can't help us So now you need something to actually offer a woman but it's different for every woman and you start usually at a disadvantage
/r/seduction04/04/25 11:42 PM
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Yeah this is basically it, it's "bums" get a lot women they don't care about being bums
/r/seduction04/04/25 11:37 PM
1

Because "society" carries dudes most the way or at least has been Seriously most dudes just fall into having a relationship especially if they are even remotely good looking, or maybe something like family or religion gives you a push. Today guys aren't as social and honestly seem straight up scared to tell girls they like them
/r/seduction04/04/25 10:51 PM
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I've missed out on so much lol
/r/seduction03/04/25 02:28 PM
0

Yeah it definitely gets you sharper , I can read people almost like a superhuman and know what to say to hook a girl
/r/seduction31/03/25 12:41 AM
4

Because people are trolling or selling a dream
/r/seduction30/03/25 05:16 PM
10

The once every 3 months and self rejecting is so true
/r/seduction29/03/25 11:08 PM
0

This has never happened to me. I have did this shit for years
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:13 AM
1

Same thing happened to me, but I kept the luck around
/r/seduction27/03/25 09:00 PM
1

I swear this is the one, I got more girls being my weird self
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:48 PM
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Seriously tf lol
/r/seduction27/03/25 07:47 PM
1

Basically this but to be fair women don't understand each other and I don't understand modern men so hey ..
/r/seduction26/03/25 11:12 AM
1

I always have a problem closing, but it's mostly because I didn't realize how fast women to do. The PUA and dating stuff gets in your head. How did you learn to close fast
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:25 AM
1

It's literally a con flip
/r/seduction23/03/25 09:05 PM
3

What about Instagram
/r/seduction23/03/25 08:51 PM
1

What about Instagram?
/r/seduction23/03/25 08:49 PM
0

How did you meet them
/r/seduction22/03/25 03:14 PM
2

It's because of your accent lol
/r/seduction18/03/25 03:14 PM
3

Coming from a guy that is 5'6 and was 260 lbs. You really just gotta maximize your personality and realize women aren't gonna do it first because you aren't on that looks scale. I have 2 friends that legit could be models and girls stare at them and come up to them all the time, but only one has a real strong personality and he sucks at keeping them for more than a week
/r/seduction16/03/25 02:14 AM
3

Exactly this, I had and have to remind myself also their is no perfect time you have to go for it
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:15 PM
1

If he hasn't had success he wouldn't even know where to look in the first place
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:41 AM
3

Yeah You can tell by the "wall/attitude" woman put up, with good game and the fact not everything or most of the time nothing starts out perfect you gonna deal with resistance but through experience you learn where it comes from
/r/seduction15/03/25 04:40 AM
1

In the future I will
/r/seduction12/03/25 01:13 AM
1

4-6 or 7 Get approached a lot. They are also gonna be the most stuck up 7,8, and 9s barely get approached
/r/seduction12/03/25 12:06 AM
9

That clueless guy has definitely been me. This all happens because women don't make moves
/r/seduction07/03/25 08:21 PM
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24
/r/seduction03/03/25 12:36 PM
6

Oh he's hot lol. Nah I completely believe you, I have a friend that looks like Jason moma that drives a taxi, lives in he's dad basement, and has dog shit social skills. The shit I have seen is pretty crazy and shits on most the stuff you seen online
/r/seduction02/03/25 02:11 PM
1

How does he meet them?
/r/seduction02/03/25 01:34 PM
4

How was he able to support himself?
/r/seduction02/03/25 01:33 PM
1

What the fuck did I just read. You didn't get with a girl that was giving you signs and you knew about it , because you was thinking of other girls and some other dudes date. You randomly offered to film and live off some porn fantasy with a random couple.
/r/seduction02/03/25 05:12 AM
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It's so rare for women to come across guys they are physically attractive, that they will completely throw out stuff like age differences
/r/seduction22/02/25 11:26 PM
4

Lmao some do it for the whole relationship. She'll only stop when take it to far
/r/seduction21/02/25 10:56 PM
1

That's good volume and I know places in Brooklyn if you up to go. But I'm not coming out for another few months we can follow each on Insta if you want a wingman
/r/seduction21/02/25 01:50 AM
1

Yeah I'm from NY also although the suburbs. How often do you game or what does it normally look like
/r/seduction21/02/25 01:03 AM
2

It's really both. I'm from NY as well.
/r/seduction21/02/25 01:01 AM
2

From what I seen yup. Most dudes fail or not trying at all (if the study counts for them). I can go on for a lot reasons why it wouldn't work but I'm not really in this category to be fair. You said you live in NYC?
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:59 AM
1

Yeah I believe that. If you a single guy it's gonna be hard to get girls that aren't in groups, or you gotta have the skills to talk to groups which I think has actually gotten harder. You also have to go on a good night. Although bars are usually good for me but I live in NY
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:40 AM
1

Yeah I believe that. If you a single guy it's gonna be hard to get girls that aren't in groups, or you gotta have the skills to talk to groups which I think has actually gotten harder. You also have to go on a good night. Although bars are usually good for me but I live in NY
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:40 AM
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Yeah I believe that. If you a single guy it's gonna be hard to get girls that aren't in groups, or you gotta have the skills to talk to groups which I think has actually gotten harder. You also have to go on a good night. Although bars are usually good for me but I live in NY
/r/seduction21/02/25 12:40 AM
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Get a social job
/r/seduction19/02/25 07:09 AM
2

I've been seeing woman complain for years about this. Overall tho the "type" of men women want are getting hard to find and I think the few that are getting with women are playing the field heavy
/r/seduction19/02/25 07:08 AM
1

Honestly I just can't do apps they feel so weird and fake
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:34 PM
-2

Yeah it's the definition of a fuck boy
/r/seduction14/02/25 08:01 PM
-2

Once you approve yourself physically and learn people skills, there's nothing else you can do. And this is coming from a guy does way better than he's league
/r/seduction13/02/25 06:10 AM
0

Yes
/r/seduction07/02/25 08:58 AM
2

Why are you being down voted? This is true
/r/seduction03/02/25 01:24 PM
1

Just ignore her text one day
/r/seduction03/02/25 06:14 AM
8

Yeah looking happy is more important than be actually attractive sometimes (in less you are extremely unattractive)
/r/seduction02/02/25 01:18 AM
1

Price, COVID, Dating apps, isolation
/r/seduction01/02/25 03:37 PM
12

"least 15 guys tried their shot at my friends (there were 2-3 girls in the group)" I saw this happen in NYC in 2020 and similar still to this day. It's why I think it's funny when people complain about dating apps like the shit happens in real life, tbh it's still possible to get these girls but you should fine a better strategy or bar
/r/seduction01/02/25 12:52 PM
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I have been called way worse. The secret to club or bar game is to literally just start talking to people, as long you not just standing around and looking at random shit you'll be fine. Take it from someone that use to just stand around and look at the TV
/r/seduction28/01/25 12:53 AM
1

Sure but that's basically the rules in general in game, like damn near every comment is talking about how Instagram isn't worth but many guys get laid from it
/r/seduction25/01/25 10:27 AM
6

I feel like the success rate wasn't that high because usually when women say they have a boyfriend it's to get rid of the dude and it's not much else,
/r/seduction25/01/25 09:49 AM
5

Did the girls that say they had a boyfriend go anywhere outside a number
/r/seduction25/01/25 08:20 AM
2

You need someone to watch your approaches and look over what you are doing. That's literally it
/r/seduction23/01/25 04:30 PM
1

Vegas is 1 overall for game
/r/seduction23/01/25 12:06 AM
-1

2020 was the easiest year for game What happened was everyone lost stuff (family, jobs, social skill) It's never gonna be that easy again
/r/seduction30/12/24 03:40 PM
6

Lol that last part goes for night game in general
/r/seduction30/12/24 10:26 AM
6

And tall
/r/seduction30/12/24 10:24 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction29/12/24 08:35 PM
1

The test is getting shit without paying
/r/seduction28/12/24 09:28 PM
1

Yeah I remember when I got one for just walking up and saying how much I like her makeup and another for her voice.
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:57 PM
1

Strippers are the only one that can actually enhance your game everything else is a negative
/r/seduction28/12/24 08:53 PM
1

This is why you have to be cocky and learn from your wins when you get them
/r/seduction28/12/24 12:46 AM
2

Now it's look good and have a decent personality. Money is for you Oh and approach them
/r/seduction23/12/24 01:02 AM
1

How you do it?
/r/seduction18/12/24 09:18 PM
3

I plan on going back
/r/seduction09/12/24 11:10 PM
3

Yeah. You basically just going up to girls and finding one that likes you, not making her like you. Sure you can have a type of game but the type you use won't work on every girl
/r/seduction29/11/24 05:18 PM
1

"Sometimes you'll pull the first girl of the night, other times you'll take 10 L's easy." Shit that's the truth l. Social status offline or online is the only way
/r/seduction29/11/24 05:16 PM
1

I don't
/r/seduction24/11/24 04:27 AM
3

Nothing that warms my soul more than a goth/alternative girl
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:29 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction16/11/24 05:41 PM
1

Post online
/r/seduction16/11/24 05:38 PM
9

I feel you brother
/r/seduction15/11/24 11:25 PM
1

This is definitely me
/r/seduction15/11/24 11:25 PM
4

Yes
/r/seduction15/11/24 10:01 PM
2

" pretending to be something they’re not." Lol no they don't people overestimate this way to much. Act like a fuckboy 80% of the time
/r/seduction15/11/24 09:02 PM
2

Small Towns or Country
/r/seduction13/11/24 09:46 PM
9

You don't actually show that you want them
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:39 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction11/11/24 11:44 PM
2

Why are you telling this to me like I'm the one that said not to approach at your job lol
/r/seduction11/11/24 11:23 PM
-2

Outside of NY, Cali, Florida, and probably Texas you aren't gonna find that many attractive women. Nashville maybe different
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:36 PM
0

Honestly sounds like my type of place lol. But I don't expect them to be that attractive
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:34 PM
3

Expect Hospitals and Restaurants.
/r/seduction11/11/24 08:31 PM
13

I actually have had this problem for awhile it's my number one. I just get shocked how fast it happens or they want me to go for it
/r/seduction10/11/24 03:06 AM
40

I would actually say it's the most important to the point that others don't matter.
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:48 PM
4

I have seen some shit like this happen in real life and it completely blew my mind
/r/seduction08/11/24 02:49 AM
3

Do you have a nice insta?
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:16 PM
9

Most guys have problems getting matches and definitely don't get open first. So this overall was like 70% done but building something is also good. Alternative girls are great didn't expect Finland to have them, also which app?
/r/seduction31/10/24 05:47 PM
7

You won't trust me
/r/seduction31/10/24 05:40 PM
4

Yeah guys will act interested all the time, it doesn't work always
/r/seduction31/10/24 12:42 AM
0

"Sexier photos" no but people talk all the time about bad photos or how some people don't look good in photos but better in real life.
/r/seduction28/10/24 03:44 PM
6

They could have also be better dancers
/r/seduction28/10/24 01:57 AM
1

You have the Instagram and look of a business/regular guy
/r/seduction27/10/24 08:53 PM
2

I never thought I would hear Psl God on here lol.
/r/seduction27/10/24 08:52 PM
3

Your business card? That's a old one. Where do you meet most of them irl
/r/seduction27/10/24 08:51 PM
1

Yeah this is kinda a advance topic. Shit sometimes you don't even need game funny enough
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:35 PM
1

Online dating works mostly because it's so damn versatile and time saving
/r/seduction20/10/24 01:22 PM
2

At most she starts to cheat and something on the side. It's not going anywhere else
/r/seduction20/10/24 01:12 PM
15

Damn
/r/seduction20/10/24 01:42 AM
2

Work for me. Literally just went on a failing spree got insane exp and have a much better win %
/r/seduction19/10/24 04:38 PM
3

Wait so you didn't get anything? I'm confused by this post
/r/seduction19/10/24 12:07 PM
2

Lol I love that everyone knows about Target somehow having a crazy amount of attractive women
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:40 PM
1

College Concerts/shows Online (this doesn't just mean apps) Work force/training Bars/Clubs etc
/r/seduction18/10/24 07:44 PM
2

Daytime parties? Really? Never heard of them how did you find them ?
/r/seduction18/10/24 07:42 PM
6

Lol seriously bars are packed already with friend groups. My social skills are good so I can get into one pretty easy (if the dudes aren't weird). But yeah good look finding a girl above a 6. You basically have to think outside the box a little to find hotter girls
/r/seduction13/10/24 10:02 PM
5

Yeah seriously I been doing cold approach for awhile but I stopped because I got busy and the time invested isn't worth it online has always been quicker. You have to find a good area to actually even approach in the first place as well and usually those areas are busy asf. Bars, clubs or events make this easier but some of those are basically irl dating apps
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:16 PM
21

Why does everyone always say this on this sub? You get rejected a lot through cold approach and flake rate is still high
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:13 PM
1

Or high top sneakers that plus hair will make you look at least 3 inches taller
/r/seduction11/10/24 03:07 PM
1

Lmao seriously and what's worse is you put more time and energy in the irl girl
/r/seduction11/10/24 02:25 AM
1

One of my friends get constant IGs and said I should get more or ask why I never get girls Insta Answer? They never answer lol, you have to do everything in the moment in less she really likes you
/r/seduction10/10/24 07:43 PM
5

Get in good shape Post/Take pictures on events you go to Spread across social media
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:26 PM
1

Coming from a nice guy. You are scared of failure
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:25 PM
1

Clubs are probably the most superficial place I ever seen lol. Bars and Online is a lot easier
/r/seduction10/10/24 06:05 PM
1

It's also the most time consuming method as well that requires a very good size to even do
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:25 PM
2

How does he normally do it?
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:29 PM
9

This sub likes Cold approach to much
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:13 PM
9

People don't check that lol, especially if the place looks nice
/r/seduction06/10/24 06:12 PM
4

Cities are kinda overrated in less you find niche places. You also have to find the right city because it be mostly men as well
/r/seduction06/10/24 03:56 PM
21

This is actually the main reason dudes wait
/r/seduction05/10/24 04:53 PM
0

Get money first
/r/seduction05/10/24 04:50 PM
1

Adding on they are also bipolar
/r/seduction05/10/24 11:05 AM
2

My favorite type of women
/r/seduction04/10/24 04:45 PM
6

If you don't someone else well
/r/seduction29/09/24 12:53 AM
13

Yeah especially the younger generation (mine) , social skills are going down all around so being verbal helps. Also getting a no is better than a awkward attempt at a kiss sometimes
/r/seduction27/09/24 01:39 PM
2

Because everyone is scared of attractive girls. They make guys and girls act weird so they developed a more down to earth mentality, but they have confidence issues usually
/r/seduction23/09/24 06:22 PM
7

Bruh they would shame a 60 year old like crazy
/r/seduction23/09/24 11:04 AM
0

Go to places where you can talk
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:41 PM
1

It's mostly comes from odd out of date black and white relationship tv shows
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:23 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction17/09/24 06:05 PM
3

This is also true in America especially highly populated states like NY and Cali
/r/seduction15/09/24 08:59 PM
2

I'm surprised know one else has mentioned that if you are hot you can actually be a simp and get girls.
/r/seduction13/09/24 11:13 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction13/09/24 02:32 PM
2

Wanna follow each other?
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:59 PM
2

Yeah I'm currently just building mine up more, working on my brand , and appearance. I'm more selective of when I go out, because I know what type of girls I usually get. Build a Twitter also, that and TikTok are next for me
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:46 PM
1

Follow girls base on your interest or that you think or pretty. Make sure your account has something on it Respond something funny to her story and make a date
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:26 PM
2

I'm 25 and have been cold approaching sense like 18. It's definitely good for personal development but honestly if you actually even good half in on social media the later is the better option at least for me. Girls in real life also ask for your social media especially IG , shit I don't even have to ask for a number anymore I legit haven't in like 2 years because I built or am correctly building my IG in a way for the type of girls I like. When it comes to effort and time it's not even close So…
/r/seduction12/09/24 04:25 PM
1

Because this sub and Reddit especially has basically a anit-social media and pro real life approach to dating and meeting people. Which is funny as hell because girls date dudes off insta all the time. I like it much better than cold approaching
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:31 PM
2

Yeah I think clubs are overrated. I legit rather get girls at a library lol
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:27 AM
1

A dude I know with over 100 bodies and currently 3 girlfriends , I saw get rejected by a whole bar/club. So simply don't give af and stop when she says no or ask her if she's ok if something feels off
/r/seduction11/09/24 11:37 PM
7

Fat girls still get sex tho. These guys get nothing
/r/seduction09/09/24 03:51 PM
1

Maybe 4 or 5. Y
/r/seduction07/09/24 06:08 PM
1

Where was the small town? It depends on what you are comparing
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:29 AM
11

This is the first post I seen where someone is actually praising Toronto lol
/r/seduction05/09/24 11:28 AM
12

Lol. I got girls easier self-improving then doing actual "game" As long you actually go up and talk to them and close is all that matters. But Self-Improvement will make them come up and overall easier.
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:22 PM
-1

Especially if you suck at texting
/r/seduction27/08/24 11:00 AM
1

Yeah dude really has ran out of shit , he's been making the same stuff for years and has went way to into the masculinity shit
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:13 PM
1

Be attractive
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:34 PM
3

This is the first post I ever seen that actually talks about how much a pain in the ass night game is. Day game it's easier to find where women are, shit you might just meet some by mistake. On top of all of what you said 1. Less to no cockblocks 2. No shield the girl puts up 3. Better chance of actually knowing her
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:20 PM
29

This is basically it, one of my friends can be a male model but dude has low standards and he's been able to have at least have 1 fwb for 6 years constantly.
/r/seduction25/08/24 10:51 PM
2

It's one of the reasons women have a shield up when you go to a club
/r/seduction24/08/24 05:32 PM
9

I have loss track the amount of times set's have been ruined because of some random guy just fucks it up. It legit feels like they fuck you over so no one can get anything I seriously don't understand it
/r/seduction24/08/24 03:27 PM
3

This is proving my point all the middle is gone
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:56 PM
1

Where are you doing it? This plays a important part and how good and attractive you are another
/r/seduction24/08/24 12:55 PM
3

I always find it funny that no one mentions what they actually said to get laid
/r/seduction24/08/24 11:44 AM
5

Real life works better for everyone in less you are traveling or kinda famous The guys that do go on dating apps , would do good in real life but they have bad approach anxiety. Online gets through a lot of this bullshit pretty fast tho But the environment and mood you are in when you are out plays a gigantic part some dudes will do terrible at a club but amazing at a bar or festival.
/r/seduction23/08/24 03:14 AM
5

Yeah everyone will say big cities are easier but it actually seems to be the opposite in less you stand out
/r/seduction22/08/24 06:05 PM
1

How long was you doing day game?
/r/seduction22/08/24 06:04 PM
1

The women in the nursing homes or the workers?
/r/seduction21/08/24 09:53 PM
2

This is something that I find very interesting Dudes like me that are introverted do amazing online, but put us outside it takes us forever to get comfortable or some never do. Anyway Go to small more quiet bars and one"s with music you like Try School or Work environments. Also Supermarkets Stay away from clubs How tf you get to 100?
/r/seduction18/08/24 03:52 PM
1

Where did you meet most of these girls?
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:54 PM
1

Same
/r/seduction16/08/24 04:53 PM
3

How would you make your kino less friendly? Kissing is a bigger step
/r/seduction13/08/24 09:44 PM
13

I feel like this is how a lot of girls are in popular cities
/r/seduction12/08/24 08:39 PM
6

Yup lol
/r/seduction12/08/24 03:35 AM
17

Yeah this is what I see all the time. More attractive dudes with average to even ugly girls than the other way around. And attractive dudes with attractive girls
/r/seduction12/08/24 02:01 AM
1

You can't do any of this without out some level of looks
/r/seduction10/08/24 09:42 PM
2

Yeah honestly I got tired of " gaming" women instead of just going for nerdy,gym, or alternative girls I don't get the average but it's better than nothing and a lot more fun
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:45 PM
1

A lot of people have short attention spans
/r/seduction06/08/24 07:59 PM
1

Women love skinny dudes they just never admit it. Most of the hottest guys or pretty boys to girls are closer to being skinny than anything else.
/r/seduction06/08/24 01:37 AM
4

Basically the same besides the fact that NY is easier to move around and has more women depending on where you are NY is also the modeling hotspot
/r/seduction05/08/24 07:10 PM
4

Probably a good Idea, you'll definitely get laid
/r/seduction02/08/24 09:22 PM
1

Yeah most girls that are into me are either alternative, nerdy, slightly into working out or healthy or just because of a fetish. I don't have any tattoos and never getting any but I do dress like alternative or more"dark". But actually don't think I can get a normal girl in less it's off my looks lol. I guess that's the trade off
/r/seduction02/08/24 05:56 PM
1

I did. If you have any questions ask
/r/seduction02/08/24 05:42 PM
1

Lmao. I probably should at this point because I just hate taking to normal girls or can't get them (well rarely,more of). But anyway they kinda love teasing and push-pull. Also have bands in common and go to concerts
/r/seduction02/08/24 05:40 PM
2

I feel like at this point I'm better at getting them then normal girls
/r/seduction02/08/24 05:29 PM
3

Yeah literally just be her type and you win most the time. Just add don't say stupid shit and you are good
/r/seduction01/08/24 12:51 AM
1

Are you overall positive when you around women, especially when high energy?
/r/seduction31/07/24 10:14 PM
1

Honestly when I accepted this I got better results. The only thing is you won't know if a girl is actually "game" or into in tell you make a move. You also have to do this multiple times
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:37 PM
4

Most girls are no girls bro
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:34 PM
2

I think it's more of the fact he was around and chill enough. He didn't say anything stupid or annoyed her so it was enough for him to get through.
/r/seduction31/07/24 06:31 PM
1

Jack Harlow
/r/seduction28/07/24 11:19 PM
4

You don't have to be a good person to get women, shit it's almost the opposite
/r/seduction28/07/24 11:17 PM
2

I'll start with the one's you couldn't do anything about. Set 5 : Nothing Set 3: Nothing Set 4: Just changed topics but you probably got caught off guard Set 2: If you start indirect you have to make it direct or give amazing contact and you might feel something "change". Set 1: Wasn't a compliance issue, even if it was you don't stop at just one try another. But also was your first set
/r/seduction28/07/24 03:49 PM
5

Adding on You could also just move to a different state. I live in NY and all my friends who have visited other states did amazing. If you live in NY, Miami, and LA I can see the bar being to high
/r/seduction27/07/24 01:43 PM
2

Where you find them?
/r/seduction26/07/24 01:43 PM
7

The last one is definitely true. It's odd idk what to call it
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:16 PM
1

Yeah cause Emo/goth girls love getting love bombed. They are more damage (sometimes) than regular women. The problem I usually see is if you get them it's hard to get normal girls and vice-versa
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:17 PM
-1

This also
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:08 PM
9

Dudes in Paris, so honestly yeah
/r/seduction25/07/24 04:08 PM
8

We'll I know where I'm moving
/r/seduction25/07/24 01:58 PM
2

We literally just have different styles and when we are together get nothing, it's a waste of time
/r/seduction24/07/24 08:18 PM
2

They suck as well
/r/seduction24/07/24 07:58 PM
3

It's kinda crazy and sad how hard it is to find good wingman's.
/r/seduction24/07/24 05:14 AM
1

Yes a lot of not most
/r/seduction19/07/24 04:11 PM
2

Most guys will still never realize or accept this
/r/seduction15/07/24 08:16 PM
0

Yes, this is why you gotta focus on money first
/r/seduction15/07/24 05:58 PM
2

This is why I don't mind if dudes pay for sex. Of course it's not game or anything, but if you don't feel like playing the "game" and don't just wanna give women bad experiences I don't have a problem. Overall tho increasing your attraction and reach can make it much much easier
/r/seduction15/07/24 04:07 PM
1

Yeah most guys aren't that attractive they can just go for it, even they are it can be hard to tell how into you she is
/r/seduction13/07/24 11:03 AM
13

I really wish people just said that escalation is just a second rejection. Like the approach is the first
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:22 PM
1

You probably better looking in pictures or on camera
/r/seduction11/07/24 08:06 PM
2

Why I hate NYC
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:12 PM
1

Nah living here sucks so expensive, hustle attitude drains people, homeless out of control etc If you have money or visiting like you was sure it's not that bad, but if I had money to comfortably live in. NYC I could live in other places probably even better. The girls here also get approach like nothing else from homeless to pickup artists etc .
/r/seduction08/07/24 10:51 AM
12

I mean it can suck for one person be great for another. For ex I hate NY everyone here hates life
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:07 AM
1

So it's not the age but the opportunities and resources you can give her
/r/seduction05/07/24 06:12 AM
1

I have always gotten better results going out alone even when I'm talking to groups of girls
/r/seduction04/07/24 03:00 PM
2

Wait you met her on the Internet like Tinder or something?
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:30 PM
2

This definitely works
/r/seduction01/07/24 03:14 PM
6

Lol me too. Wtf is this , I'm thinking it's the location at this point
/r/seduction30/06/24 05:31 PM
10

This guy is literally a noob and here you are talking about catching bigger fish
/r/seduction27/06/24 06:35 PM
76

Yeah this is where game fucks guys over lol. This has happened to me a good amount of times and by the end of it you just lose her or even worse she straight hates you lol. When a girl likes you or interested in you better make a move.. Overall don't beat yourself up about it
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:38 PM
0

Go for the alternative
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:15 PM
2

My friend who gets girls pretty damn easy always says it's just confidence while also telling me people say he should be a model lol. My point is looks are underestimate still
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:13 PM
-3

My friend doesn't believe me but I haven't been wrong at this point I know when a girl isn't gonna text me back or meet me lol. Storytime I met a girl like a week ago in a club. First open I did and was just about to go home, but saw a tattoo on her arm and made a comment, got into a great convo and energy so I tried to move her to the dance floor but she said she had to find her friend first, she gave her info to me and we ended bumping into each other 10 minutes later and she said her friend w…
/r/seduction27/06/24 02:25 AM
7

That's a part of looksmaxxing lol
/r/seduction26/06/24 01:46 PM
1

Yeah it's something I realized in the last year. After doing some self-improvement I realized I got some issues, but I'll openly tell girls and they seem to actually like me more cause of it...
/r/seduction20/06/24 05:09 PM
1

Some girls love it, but they usually have some type of disorder
/r/seduction20/06/24 02:40 PM
3

It means you have terrible calibration I have a friend just like this and he gets laid tho a lot
/r/seduction19/06/24 03:17 PM
4

Did you make a move when you met her at the bar?
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:31 AM
3

Yeah it's why a lot guys only go for high interest girls
/r/seduction12/06/24 10:27 PM
6

I have to agree. First impressions basically rule everything else
/r/seduction12/06/24 08:49 PM
12

Finally someone said this. I wish this could be posted on a mega thread
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:06 AM
8

There's 2 types of hot girls The standard model and stuck up one's And The low confidence and aren't fully sure they are hot. The average guys you see usually end up with the 2nd one.
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:58 PM
2

This is good
/r/seduction10/06/24 05:10 PM
13

A lot of dudes don't care if they fuck someone's girl, but would be heart broken if it happened to them or they think it's not possible. It's one of the many reasons people look at this community negatively.
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:42 AM
3

But a girlfriend isn't? Lol
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:38 AM
16

You are the only one that suffers from not going after what you want.
/r/seduction08/06/24 05:58 PM
2

It's Miami. Regardless we have a insane wealth gap
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:25 AM
1

Women sleep with their friends all the time, she's just not physically attracted to you
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:52 PM
2

That's probably gonna be the biggest problem for you because most LTR happen young or 20s
/r/seduction30/05/24 07:04 PM
1

A lot of things could effect this Looks, Race, Weather, Dating Culture , etc
/r/seduction30/05/24 02:43 PM
0

How old are you?
/r/seduction29/05/24 11:44 PM
9

If a girl is hot and cold even after you been direct, just leave bro
/r/seduction29/05/24 06:05 PM
4

This is it 100%
/r/seduction26/05/24 07:45 PM
0

Women get jealous easy , especially if they had type of feelings for you before. All you do is mention that you are talking to this girl or have a story with a girl etc. It helps that it's actually true
/r/seduction25/05/24 03:32 PM
5

Lmao
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:21 AM
12

Does he just ask for sex?
/r/seduction24/05/24 09:01 PM
7

•Be in the top 10-20% attractive • Know what bars to go to and when is the best time • Find out what type of girl you attract
/r/seduction24/05/24 06:26 PM
3

Not gonna lie I know how you feel lol
/r/seduction22/05/24 05:34 PM
2

Body language
/r/seduction17/05/24 05:52 PM
8

Learning not to take shit the hard with girls is in it's self it's own task
/r/seduction17/05/24 04:26 AM
8

Some women are incredibly straight forward as long as you are. But you have to know what you want, which subconsciously you actually don't
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:12 AM
1

Your second paragraph is really important. Dudes have to realize the moment you start to make it More than just friends is where you get rejected the most
/r/seduction15/05/24 08:59 PM
2

Yeah the logic behind why Instagram is safer than a phone number on all grounds has never made sense to me and in general. Because it's literally not lol. But this is how women see it.
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:24 PM
1

My eye contact is good especially with women while in a set My flirting is good Although I don't lead much , I kinda just try to go for a make out or something after I felt it's going good, could be rushing it
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:14 PM
2

Build tension? Aka flirt?
/r/seduction13/05/24 05:06 PM
2

What should you do when you have high compliance out the gate?
/r/seduction13/05/24 03:37 PM
1

These types of approaches are always in the middle for me. The overall best thing is showing persistence and that can work out when done right. The other is well is this even worth my time? I basically had to do the same with this girl I met at a party recently had a friend for my friend and everything, but eventually I was like this isn't even worth it..
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:18 PM
22

She's just looking for attention
/r/seduction11/05/24 01:06 PM
5

I don't see that happening people getting more anti social
/r/seduction11/05/24 01:05 PM
8

Yeah. I will add a lot of people here are depressed and on edge, most because of financial reasons and the hustle culture. It's one of the reasons I'm moving. But if money isn't a problem dating wise it's great which why it well also always be my home base.
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:39 PM
6

Yes Coming from a dude that lives in NY.
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:09 PM
1

Honestly from what it looks like yes. It seems to be so common I don't know if dudes are just be cucks or these women just lying
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:46 PM
1

This is actually gold
/r/seduction09/05/24 03:05 PM
2

"Do you find this very likely?" Eh maybe, some girls are more honest than others. "Whether he does it or not is not really relevant to my romantic relationship" The discussion was including your friend and you can't trust him for basically the same , only difference is you guys aren't in a exclusive romantic relationship but the idea of trust is clearly broken on he's end as well.
/r/seduction09/05/24 03:05 PM
2

"If he doesn't do it someone else will. " 100% "But then I won't find out." In less she tells you "I'm not in an exclusive romantic relationship with him. So it's 100% her fault." I don't agree with this. Your boy could have just told you that your girlfriend tried to make a move on you or has been giving him looks also depends if he's the one that started the flirting (but you may not be told that). Overall it's your life and you live it on your own turns but I wouldn't trust either again.
/r/seduction09/05/24 02:46 PM
5

I don't see how you can trust one of your friends that hooked up with your girl. Like if she told you instead of him would you trust her now? It's betrayal either way
/r/seduction09/05/24 02:25 PM
6

This also means you can't trust your friend
/r/seduction09/05/24 02:00 PM
5

On top of all of this when was the last time you heard a women say "I met my boyfriend walking to Starbucks, in the middle day"
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:42 PM
4

The older I get the less I see the point of randomly approaching. You need some undertone to help you.
/r/seduction06/05/24 06:32 PM
1

What do you normally open up with in person?
/r/seduction03/05/24 04:26 AM
3

This is pretty accurate Bad social skills or just straight up anti social.
/r/seduction03/05/24 04:23 AM
-1

You kinda asking for it man
/r/seduction01/05/24 05:49 PM
12

" When a woman says "guys just wanted sex on the 1st date etc" it doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't want to have sex with you." I love when women do this type of shit
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:45 PM
2

I agree but the first dude is also simping
/r/seduction29/04/24 11:48 PM
8

Even as a dude that can fight, this is what I hate about night game
/r/seduction28/04/24 08:52 AM
5

If they are in public you can
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:36 AM
1

Yes and it works. I live in NY and one of my friends carries around a camera because he's a photographer, but also he'll stop girls like it's for a photoshoot. Would I call it game? That's a different conversation
/r/seduction27/04/24 03:42 PM
6

This girl is doesn't know what she wants, or more of she's fighting her head vs heart and horness. But yeah most the time when a woman say they " don't want a relationship right now" it means with you, shit happen to me like a year ago and same thing in highschool granted I got the one in highschool. Keep it friendly and casual that's it , if you want a dirty and "dark trick" you can tell her what's new in your life like new women or potentially meeting someone.
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:58 PM
1

Fuck No wonder I get BPD girls lol l.
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:18 PM
1

" Asked her if she wanted to get drinks" .....
/r/seduction25/04/24 06:33 PM
-1

Ah move to a different state something south and go near college places
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:56 PM
3

How did you have sex and relationship with these women if they you think you are ugly? Either they are lying,sluts, or you are great at talking
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:13 PM
4

That's NY for you we have the most but also highest standard of women
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:12 PM
4

Really depends on the girl. I trouble with this for years But some girls you can make out with and even sleep with them the very first time you meet them. Others you gotta take on a date. Overall you should be constantly flirting and adding in something is special about her whatever besides she's hot
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:47 PM
1

This is it Just keep flirting
/r/seduction22/04/24 09:44 PM
0

The last paragraph contradicts it's self
/r/seduction22/04/24 02:54 PM
29

I seen women cry over a boyfriend that died and sleep with another dude later that same weekend after he's death.
/r/seduction21/04/24 11:51 PM
1

Pickup/Dating Coaches literally say the same shit
/r/seduction20/04/24 05:41 PM
0

What do you think this group is for lol.
/r/seduction19/04/24 05:36 PM
15

Scenario A is actually really good and the only friendzone I put myself in
/r/seduction18/04/24 06:58 PM
7

This guy seems more dumb than anything
/r/seduction17/04/24 01:18 AM
2

Not only do women give horrible hints it's also different for every girl. You gotta just go for it at the end of the day
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:11 PM
14

Nah I'm black
/r/seduction15/04/24 06:55 PM
1

Would he do the same for you?
/r/seduction09/04/24 10:23 PM
2

Good looking+ a lot of comfort
/r/seduction09/04/24 06:26 PM
2

That would make her a hoe lol
/r/seduction08/04/24 08:41 PM
4

Having Muscles, Money, Social Statues, Looks women in general will throw themselves at you doesn't matter if you are in college
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:01 PM
1

You never met a women that cheated on her boyfriend?
/r/seduction08/04/24 02:59 PM
2

Everything comes back to life set up
/r/seduction07/04/24 10:53 PM
2

Lmao this is the funniest comment I ever seen on this sub
/r/seduction07/04/24 10:52 PM
2

V-taper Low body fat with some muscle, shit some times just being skinny is a turn on because you can see more features Sometimes being buff is a turn on,but even than being lean is still better
/r/seduction07/04/24 09:37 PM
5

You have a nice body, so they are sexually attractive to you, it doesn't happen that often because most guys don't have the type of body girls like
/r/seduction07/04/24 07:17 PM
14

Tbh dudes aren't doing in person either they just say fuck this dating stuff
/r/seduction06/04/24 04:26 AM
1

Play the side dude position
/r/seduction05/04/24 11:09 PM
4

The last 4 girls that I did anything with all wanted to add me on Instagram faster than a number. One girl I knew met her boyfriend on it and this girl is antisocial asf (for a women). It's definitely work but it seems worth it
/r/seduction05/04/24 09:11 PM
17

Hoping the best for you
/r/seduction03/04/24 02:09 AM
1

I actually knew a girl like this her boyfriend broke up with her and it completely destroyed her. She hasn't really been that attached to a guy sense than. These types of girls only fall in love like once in less you are like almost a copy of the first dude
/r/seduction01/04/24 10:54 PM
1

I think it's because money/career is always in the back of there head and becoming to dependent especially emotional scares them
/r/seduction01/04/24 10:50 PM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:25 PM
2

Yeah strong eye contact usually means the person is into you or it's just the way they talk. That's why I was confused when she looked away but apparently women do that when they are nervous.
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:20 AM
3

I think he was trying to show interest. I end up looking down or at my phone once the girl did that because I wasn't sure. Tho I probably should have just asked looking back
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:10 AM
1

"I got shy and broke it first, looked down/away," A girl did this to me while we were flirting and I thought she was losing interest
/r/seduction01/04/24 01:02 AM
10

Add on. Everyone has strength and weaknesses. I largely was terrible in social circle game but this largely because the people I was around and being antisocial. But when it came to cold approach and specially online game I did much better
/r/seduction31/03/24 08:04 PM
1

What looks better with a little bit of a mix of what i like. Girls and YouTube have actually helped find my style
/r/seduction27/03/24 12:13 AM
5

I think because at one point tattoos just all blind together/ look the same. Placement I think is the best
/r/seduction26/03/24 05:39 PM
9

Honestly considering the way rappers be getting killed yeah it's not a good career path.
/r/seduction26/03/24 10:46 AM
6

1 or 2 that's it? It should be a majority in common. In this is like the exact opposite advice we give dudes on here
/r/seduction25/03/24 11:10 PM
1

The times I focus most on game is when I did the wrost If girl follows your lead it's usually a sign she likes you.
/r/seduction25/03/24 04:09 PM
2

Yeah better match making
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:45 PM
3

Yeah Instagram is better for longer game style Also a lot girls go on dates and text dudes from Instagram.
/r/seduction25/03/24 01:07 PM
-5

Don't pay
/r/seduction25/03/24 12:01 AM
2

Aren't most relationships come from starting as friends or like coworkers?
/r/seduction24/03/24 04:25 AM
3

It really depends Work? Over time Friend group can honestly be both depending on the vibes You have to fuck up and test it
/r/seduction23/03/24 04:58 PM
-11

This is not true
/r/seduction23/03/24 04:56 PM
1

That actually makes a lot sense now, why I do better when idc even when it's actually really stupid
/r/seduction21/03/24 09:45 PM
1

Ah good vibes/energy.
/r/seduction21/03/24 08:08 PM
1

How you be more of the 2nd one
/r/seduction21/03/24 07:50 PM
1

18-25 is good for man The lower you are the more muscle you need
/r/seduction21/03/24 05:06 PM
1

No spark means no physical or emotional attraction
/r/seduction20/03/24 02:03 AM
8

Lol I have heard multiple times in the pickup community and this sub for guys to flirt or just "stay sharp" while in a relationships
/r/seduction19/03/24 01:43 PM
1

Lol same like I get no looks or anything from black girls. But white girls of almost any back ground look at me like I'm a model, even one's that don't like black dudes sometimes. Shit I face time one like a week ago and got called a 8.
/r/seduction19/03/24 12:34 AM
1

Lmao same here but I'm overweight but got a good amount of muscle. But I swear us short black dudes be killing it sometimes
/r/seduction19/03/24 12:28 AM
5

How do you stop over flirting?
/r/seduction17/03/24 04:24 AM
1

As much as I love game and pickup, real world experience and like one coach has showed me that women can actually be pretty straightforward you just gotta go for it. But it comes to your past girlfriend could be just as simple as that you was a chilled dude that didn't stress her complete shot in the dark
/r/seduction15/03/24 06:35 PM
5

Or they just get drained from dating that's another one I see when they just settle.
/r/seduction15/03/24 05:14 AM
1

You have to go for a instant date than. Because in the city it's more likely she'll forget about you. Rural and Suburbs are slightly different
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:58 PM
1

Are you doing it in a city?
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:13 PM
1

Daygame is post to be better than night game at getting dates
/r/seduction13/03/24 12:39 PM
2

True, but when you can find another option easier why work on something else
/r/seduction13/03/24 12:36 PM
2

Time/Money Not even joking if it wasn't for this I could probably pull like every 2 weeks
/r/seduction13/03/24 12:05 AM
3

2 girls isn't enough to test this. From what I seen girls don't have a problem with nice guys as long you not fucking bugging them all the time and think they are a Disney princess. Like was the 2nd girl actually your girlfriend?
/r/seduction12/03/24 12:51 PM
1

Yup. People seem to like to talk about especially on this sub, but honestly I'm happy I know this, and I had to try way less Granted I have gotten with girls that aren't into my type but that's what game especially long term can do for you. But I honestly think it's not worth it.
/r/seduction08/03/24 05:27 AM
1

You can turn basic questions into flirting conversations easy. It really doesn't even need to be sexual or more of just slightly sexual
/r/seduction07/03/24 12:18 AM
1

Lmao absolutely
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:13 AM
1

This basically why you keep a roaster at the beginning
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:10 AM
2

If she fits what you are looking for: Girlfriend If not : Roaster
/r/seduction06/03/24 01:09 AM
7

Because they don't understand that, the girl just wanted to let loose.
/r/seduction05/03/24 05:26 PM
1

They can still be a creep with IG.
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:25 PM
8

Holy shit seriously. I know so many girls shit on dating apps or even cold approach but are quick asf to date on Instagram. It blows my mind lol
/r/seduction05/03/24 12:14 AM
1

When you are black or just a minority in general you have , automatically are put in a space some women won't like you, don't care, or just straight up lust you. You can also do this with your style from a classic look to a more edgy/rockstar look.
/r/seduction04/03/24 05:09 PM
2

Found out last summer I'm attractive, kinda wish I knew earlier I wouldn't have been so insecure. Also I'm black 5'6ish overall we have niche appeal. Start taking care of myself even more and I get looks almost everytime I actually go out, at least from one girl. Actually like 2 weeks ago me and my friends just finished sparring and I had a mark on my face with dirty clothes . Didn't stop the cashier from checking me out lol. Haven't been called ugly in years lol.
/r/seduction04/03/24 08:35 AM
18

"don't go looks, attractiveness anymore" Lmao
/r/seduction03/03/24 05:04 PM
13

Everyone on this sub talks about flirting, but no one talks about what to do after 😂. Overall tho from what I tested, you gotta make a move in some way
/r/seduction03/03/24 05:56 AM
12

Welcome to the club brother. Missed opportunities is wrost than rejection
/r/seduction03/03/24 05:53 AM
1

Yeah it's not gonna be good at all. The "romance" is I think only for the the women that want the emotional support.
/r/seduction02/03/24 07:39 AM
4

Men being useful to them is basically how women see men in general. If you can't provide her with something or take to much away, she doesn't value you. But from what I see this is a large and mean large area, it can go from emotional to physical and of course financial. Women tho are cold towards guys that can't provide any tho.
/r/seduction01/03/24 09:16 PM
1

The fact this is true is so funny and sad
/r/seduction01/03/24 09:06 PM
2

When you find out please tell me. But besides that I think you should change your appearance towards the girls you want to get better satisfaction
/r/seduction01/03/24 05:55 AM
7

It's not about convincing girls to like you. It's about putting yourself in front of girls who will like you. Learn this recently and it has helped my game a lot
/r/seduction25/02/24 08:13 PM
3

See this fucking proves that saying simp shit isn't bad
/r/seduction23/02/24 05:57 AM
2

Honestly what ever keeps your sanity that gets hard for every dude.
/r/seduction23/02/24 05:54 AM
4

This is the worst definition I ever seen for seduction 🤣
/r/seduction18/02/24 08:47 AM
16

Ehhh. It's a good side gig on the weekends if you can get off the books
/r/seduction17/02/24 06:15 AM
4

I seen a good amount of attractive dudes have some of the worst social skills possible and still get women
/r/seduction08/02/24 09:41 PM
4

Online and real life
/r/seduction08/02/24 09:41 PM
2

Sense you are not the main dude in her life you hold very little power , like you could call her out but it would do much in tell.she has feeling's for you. I have been in this situation a few times, if I like her I'll keep her around if not end it.
/r/seduction07/02/24 06:46 PM
0

Good
/r/seduction02/02/24 09:38 PM
1

Nails I understand but Jewelry has/seems like a good one
/r/seduction01/02/24 08:38 PM
11

I agree physical location actually matters as well, meeting her at the club is different than in a supermarket
/r/seduction29/01/24 07:11 PM
2

Your second to last paragraph is honestly the best thing of this whole thread. Man or woman you don't know anyone in tell you need them but the problem is you a terrible state by that time.
/r/seduction27/01/24 06:11 AM
1

It also a culture thing
/r/seduction26/01/24 11:46 PM
1

The way I see it is Keep your core beliefs and standards but realize some shit just works better than others and you can chose to absorb this into your current personality/life while balancing out who you are
/r/seduction26/01/24 11:45 PM
3

Tf is your friends doing to get that reaction I have said some wild shit and never close to that
/r/seduction16/12/23 07:25 PM
2

Lmao
/r/seduction01/11/23 08:54 PM
0

You can see it with pick up artist and dudes that get laid a lot (with different women)as well
/r/seduction24/10/23 12:42 PM
1

That's why I said damn near. They add to your facial aesthetics.
/r/seduction06/10/23 08:40 PM
9

Rogaine. I'm gonna start it soon for my eyebrows
/r/seduction06/10/23 07:57 PM
4

From what I heard from women and dudes that take appearance very serious. Eyebrows are extremely underrated but can you damn near into a model.
/r/seduction06/10/23 07:57 PM
93

Yeah this one is good because you don't wanna seem worked up
/r/seduction06/10/23 07:55 PM
1

I remember when I first got into this and I wanted to learn all the terms. Definitely held me back. Also I have heard of "negging" or just mean teasing working but never actually seen it work even with guys with game. So I gotta agree it's outdated
/r/seduction03/10/23 04:16 PM
10

Isn't this just teasing?
/r/seduction03/10/23 01:59 PM
12

Girl still getting shit ton of matches too.
/r/seduction20/09/23 10:34 AM
74

I know dudes that are complete bums and have gotten a good amount of women. I also know dudes who are well off and have gotten women because of money/connections At the end of the day women sleep/date who's around them. Money is for you, her and your kids future
/r/seduction10/09/23 10:15 PM
13

This mostly because socially confident guys get to pick.
/r/seduction05/09/23 04:47 PM
22

tried to NOT meet I hate when men and women say this shit,but hey whatever. The problem here is that not every women is this open or nearly this aggressive, shit most are extremely shy when they like a guy to the point you don' know
/r/seduction01/09/23 09:49 AM
0

Learn or don't go to clubs
/r/seduction29/08/23 05:46 PM
2

Yeah to be fair tho, shit didn't happen in tell a little after/ at the end of high school I basically was one of those kids that got called ugly but became attractive later on lol.
/r/seduction12/08/23 02:51 PM
3

I get called cute and handsome by women at least 1 time every 2 or 3 months. It just means they find you attractive it's a good thing.
/r/seduction12/08/23 10:54 AM
1

bmw Yeah and go broke
/r/seduction10/08/23 08:36 PM
2

This doesn't surprise me considering how much I see dudes in this sub and real life talking about trying to fuck someone's girlfriend.
/r/seduction02/08/23 06:47 PM
2

I think it depends how far back you start
/r/seduction18/07/23 11:42 PM
5

As a white guy who mostly prefers Black women, it’s definitely not a go-to for me. Ahhhhh I can see that. Also this is funny as hell because I'm a 5'7 black dude that prefers white women.
/r/seduction16/07/23 10:58 PM
3

That's very true. They get logical
/r/seduction16/07/23 10:55 PM
3

I meant just assuming. Not going hard into the topic
/r/seduction16/07/23 10:52 PM
1

I literally hooked up with a girl one time because we had an argument/ I teased her about liking something from The Dark Knight shit last time I went out I almost closed because I made fun of this girl for not being able to remember something from the Flash. I think entertainment/media can definitely work but you need the right demographic.
/r/seduction16/07/23 10:49 PM
6

Guessing race/ethnicity is a great one also location.
/r/seduction16/07/23 10:40 PM
3

Entertainment/Media What's wrong with this one? Isn't this like a great way to tease her?
/r/seduction16/07/23 10:36 PM
1

I'd rather just masturbate than go below my standards.
/r/seduction13/07/23 11:37 PM
5

I swear dudes have fucked up the rating system A 7 is hot. A 5 is average 10 is perfect which is why they don't exist
/r/seduction13/07/23 11:36 PM
6

Lol seriously. This is the most crazy post I have seen on this sub in months
/r/seduction04/07/23 05:03 PM
1

Yup older women usually complain the most about not getting approach
/r/seduction31/05/23 10:06 PM
1

Any standing variation?
/r/seduction14/04/23 11:13 PM
322

Standing close Coming from a guy that has always asked himself " does she like me" and has missed many chances but learned from friends and experience. Standing/sitting close is the number 1# sign she likes you. If a girl doesn't like you she'll make it clear by walking away, turning her back, and lack of eye contact. It's actually easier to tell when a women doesn't like you than when she does.
/r/seduction14/04/23 06:01 AM
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