Badside Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Using the sexual success of Psychopaths to prove the redpill This is the first time I read the term 'Beta Game', and googling only leads me to video games that are still in beta... Where can I read more about this? I'm guessing it is roughly simulating beta traits, albeit in a retained calculated manner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/14 07:49 PM
4	Living alone becomes much more interesting once you start making more money! It's very easy to fall into the procrastination trap when you're living alone. That's a whole other issue which you need to work on by yourself. Do not let the dishes and dirty laundry pile up, pick a time for the gym and stick to it, etc. Nobody will do it for you! But if you're the type that hates being told what to do, being able to do it solely for yourself might help.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 07:28 PM
23	We are the Cock Carousel For a low engagement deal, single mothers are great! They don't have much time to go out, but they need their cock stuffing like everyone else. For little time/energy investment you can be their sole provider of semen. But going LTR is a high risk job, especially if the bio father is out of the picture, cause then you become the de facto father figure and dumping the mother means dumping the child too. It's a whole other world. But as long as you never meet the offspring, I've done it and will d…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 07:22 PM
8	Living alone becomes much more interesting once you start making more money! It doesn't happen overnight, but the lesson is: never rely on someone else for money! As someone else put it, be frugal. Co-living is a very easy trap to fall in, but who wants to be sadder in a bigger house?	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 07:05 PM
8	Sex as a self-centered performance? My ex was the most honest one I've had: she literally wants to feel that I can't control myself anymore because of how much desire I have for her. But most will tell you "no, I want it gentle with little kisses and butterflies and bla bla bla". Someone posted the "surprise party theory" recently. Dead on!	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 07:04 PM
14	Living alone becomes much more interesting once you start making more money! And thus begins the downward spiral into full on BP behavior. He just wants her to be happy, so she will be into him like she was in the early days, but the more he tries to please her by abiding to her rules, the less he's attractive to her. The risk is when you plunge into a new place together that neither of you can afford alone, or worse when you buy a house together. By having your own very decent place you can place the burden on her: she moves in, but you still make the rule, and you can …	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 06:57 PM
7	We are the Cock Carousel Marry a woman young and this is bound to happen, one day or another they want to use their last years of high-SMV to make sure they aren't missing anything. And they won't come back to you. I'm in the minority here, but I prefer girls who "had their run" and are looking for something meaningful. Call them post-wall if you will, I call them girls who know what they want.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 06:54 PM
15	Living alone becomes much more interesting once you start making more money! This is true, but IMHO: you can either be mad about it, or use it to your advantage. I'm not driving a BMW either though, but I have a very decent almost new car, and don't buy my clothes at Walmart. It all helps!	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 06:08 PM
19	Sex as a self-centered performance? I've noticed that women tend to enjoy themselves way more when I fuck them like I don't give a damn about them. Even in a LTR where the girls cares about you, I fuck her like she's a RealDoll and she comes even harder! It took some getting used to, but once you get the hang of it it's amazing! You get better sex out of it, and they come back for more. And this has been tested with multiple women. Those that don't react well to it are often those who want to treat you as a beta anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 05:45 PM
4	Always, always maintain frame in a LTR Depends, the prostitute doesn't give a damn whether you come off as beta or alpha. Your SO on the other hand...	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 05:42 PM
11	Always, always maintain frame in a LTR We could say them asking about your feelings is the ultimate shit test. And it's a tough thing cause sometimes you do want to discuss some stuff, and men don't tend to do that between themselves, but clearly your LTR is not the person for that. Must be why so many men pay prostitutes just to listen to them talk...	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/14 02:21 PM
1	Do you trust the opposite gender? If I feel I can't trust someone I won't date her. She'll remain a plate at best. As mentioned, I stay away from the bar crowd. The most innocent chick can turn into something wild with alcohol and a bunch of guys hitting on her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/14 03:08 PM
1	Do you trust the opposite gender? Distrusting a whole gender? Makes no sense. If you want to generalize based on gender, you agree to receive the same treatment. That said, I have witnessed cheating by women a lot more than by men. And they care so little it's scary. Then again that was in the bar crowd. I wouldn't date a girl who's always out drinking with her friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/14 02:53 PM
0	If TRP is about biological realities, why isn't it more international? I know a few guys who married Filipino women around me, the relationship dynamic is SO MUCH different than typical westerner unions. But in all honesty you are right, I couldn't comment on their sex life. No idea how fulfilling that is. Many of the TRP teachings allow you to keep a more exciting dynamic in a LTR instead of falling into boring routine. It's all about dosage, and not hating all women like some do...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/14 02:33 PM
5	If TRP is about biological realities, why isn't it more international? Some cultures still have "traditional gender roles". The " I'm a princess and treat me as such" issue is a very western thing. Not saying AWALT either, but it's more prevalent here. Especially near big cities... IMHO	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/14 01:56 PM
9	Rollo Tomassi AMA Thanks a lot! I think this is key: You MUST be absolutely okay with her walking away. It's amazing how a woman can suddenly turn into the best girlfriend ever once you decide you want to end it. I've decided I don't want my life to depend on someone else (e.g.: not buying a house unless it's under my name only and I can pay for it myself)., and I don't want someone who's depends on me to be happy/successful. Now the hard part, when I'm okay with someone walking away, it often means toying with t…	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/14 04:37 PM
13	Rollo Tomassi AMA I understand you are not against LTRs and marriage, unlike many people here (which is fine, to each his own). So I was wondering if you have any comments on how to establish the proper dynamic at the beginning of a relationship, without feeling like you are intentionally "gaming" that woman you care about. For example I read about soft dread on your website, that is the kind of stuff I'm interested about. But mostly, it happened too often to me in the past that a girl fell for my "alpha" ways bu…	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/14 04:11 PM
2	From r/relationships: Behold the glorious shitstorm that occurs when a woman asks for an honest physical assessment from a man and a man is dumb enough to give it to her. Two things: 1- he really meant "I pictured you as a 8 and you're more of a 5 or 6", 2- who the hell loses interest once the clothes are off? I mean I've seen many boobs that were way less exciting than I would have liked, but to stop for that? Worst case do the deed and then don't call back. Never be THAT honest with a woman.	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/14 03:49 PM
2	Well that girl took me out of the Denial phase, feeling stuck in the Anger phase now Lol, thanks! Totally read that as GTFOW which I figured meant get the fuck out of the way	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/14 01:24 AM
2	Well that girl took me out of the Denial phase, feeling stuck in the Anger phase now Well, not insistent as in begging for it. But I took the first LMR act too seriously and figured I'd wait until the next date, and then the next, and then the next, not picking up that she only wanted her good old plausible deniability intact. She wanted me to convince her, that much is clear now that I think about all the little signs. Lots of stuff make sense when you look at it with hindsight.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/14 06:58 PM
5	Well that girl took me out of the Denial phase, feeling stuck in the Anger phase now Of course I'd like to be able to have something genuine going on with her, as I said: believing and accepting are two things. Part of me still wants to put her on a pedestal, fight to ignore the signs that she is really just another CC rider, I've been reading the side bar stuff all day long. My eyes burn from seeing so clearly for the first time. I WILL not call her back, WILL not text her back.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/14 06:45 PM
2	Well that girl took me out of the Denial phase, feeling stuck in the Anger phase now That checks out! I let some anger out by fucking my FWB hard and good yesterday night. And I just set a date for tonight with a new "plate" that I had put aside after meeting Miss Youre-So-Nice-I-Wont-Fuck-You. So much easier to keep frame and stay "alpha" when with a girl I have no LTR interest with. Either I stop believing I can ever have a successful LTR, or I have to work my confidence up so I can keep frame even when the girl is in that top 5%.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/14 02:46 PM