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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Alimoney concern		Bakodo14	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 02:32 AM

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1	Alimoney concern 9 years of marriage, in NC I would have to pay 4.5 years of alimoney, as per my lawyer judges try to be fair and keep a similar life style for the person that makes less money, however child support would be around $1200 for 12 years, but she wants me to pay 2500, she at this point is not claiming alimony bc I believe she is including it on the child support At first i agree with u but them i though why i going to pay $2500 for 12 years Thats 360k my kids will need use that much money till they …	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/24 05:04 PM
1	Alimoney concern Update: here is the current settlement option she proposed, $2500/month plus half of my retirement 401k, however i suggested that in the event she move in with a partner we need to reevaluate the $2500 as the kids alone will not spend that amount, and her expenses will be cut in a half, she did not like that part	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 10:31 PM
1	Alimoney concern That sounds extreme, is hard to come down, but is something go think about, also a judge will see that as evasion	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 10:22 PM
1	Alimoney concern Thank you, yes we are working on an agreement, hopefully is fair for both and the kids	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 06:13 PM
1	Alimoney concern Definitely helped, I think we are close to a proper agreement for both of us, lets see how it goes	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 06:07 PM
1	Alimoney concern Wow, this is crazy, I really appreciate everyones input, which allow me more perspective of how things might go	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/24 06:05 PM

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