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Balefirez/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/06/21 12:40 AM
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It's Anita Sarkeesian. Is this a surprise?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/25 01:26 PM
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I wasn’t prepared for that. Contrary to popular (apparently) belief, most men don’t like a pound of makeup on a woman’s face.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/24 11:32 PM
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“I possess all of the qualities I am looking for.” Great. Now try possessing all (or even some) of the qualities HE is looking for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/05/24 03:21 AM
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Is God the name of the guy you cheated on your husband with? It’s funny that she wants to find religion now that she got exposed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/24 09:54 PM
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Wow. The audacity here. Dude worked hard, and when he took a day off to catch her cheating, she blames him. What a piece of work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/04/24 09:50 PM
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This is why they say things like, “A drunk woman can’t consent.” They constantly treat themselves and other women as children. They are the acted-upon, not the actors.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/03/24 03:25 AM
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Ah, of course. My mistake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/24 03:14 AM
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She contradicted herself. At first she says she doesn’t sleep with anyone she hasn’t dated for years. Then she complains that men just use her for sex. Which is it? I guarantee those men don’t date her for years just for the chance to have sex, then leave.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/24 01:59 AM
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This question has been answered a thousand times and a thousand more. We tell them the exact answer and they refuse to listen. I would pity them if it weren’t willful ignorance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/23 01:10 AM
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They think about themselves, but what about the guy she would theoretically be with? What dude wants to sit at home knowing that his wife is being screwed by 10 other dudes? She certainly isn’t going to want to come home and then have sex with him and he’s not going to want to have sex with her, knowing that she just got ran through by 10 other dudes. You made your choice, now you get to live with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/23 05:54 PM
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Wall adds +1.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/23 01:38 AM
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Yup. You don’t hold onto old messages like that years after you break up with someone without good reason. She is just bitter and angry and wanted to wait until he had found happiness without her to try and ruin his life. Absolutely zero other reasons to release “bad” messages multiple years after you break up with someone. She planned to do something like this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/23 08:27 AM
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I can guarantee she isn’t an actual fan of Marvel, just the movies. I worked in a bookstore for nearly 20 years. I’ve got a friend who used to own a comic store. As a rule, women do not buy super hero comics. Not even the crappy modern ones that are geared towards “modern audiences”. There are always exceptions to the rule, but they are very few and far between. There’s nothing wrong with liking the movies, but she needs to be honest and say that. However, seeing as how this is a trap to get men…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/01/23 12:50 AM
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46 and just now looking to settle down? Why would you be looking for this at that age? I pity her more than anything else. Why would the guy you are looking for want to settle for you when he can have a younger and more fertile woman? She made the choice to build a career and wealth at the expense of a family. It’s delusional to think that any guy of the type she wants is going to want her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/22 09:22 PM
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Her: He needs to be at least 6ft tall, in ridiculously good shape, rich, but be the kind of rich that allows him to spend inordinate amounts of free time with me, at least an 8, have an 8 inch dick, be willing to do everything around the house because I am barely qualified to take care of myself, and be willing to accept my three kids by three different guys because I couldn’t be bothered with birth control during my “wild” years. Him: I prefer Asian women. Her: How dare you you misogynistic, ra…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/22 02:04 PM
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Profiles that already have kids always remind me of a line from Futurama: “Sir, have you ever thought about adoption?” “No.” “It’s a good way to have a kid without having sex.” “Really?”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/22 12:53 AM
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A line from the movie Hook fits well here: “Me Me Me! Mine Mine Mine! Now Now Now!” Nothing but absolute selfishness and entitlement. Looks like she’s a real winner. I see this mentality more and more. Instead of giving first and getting in return, all these women take what they can get and to hell with everyone else because they get theirs. They make the excuse of, “Well guys do it, so it’s ok for me to.” Maybe if all the men you are in relationships with do it to you, you should take a look at…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/10/22 10:14 AM
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Is that tat on her chest supposed to look like a cock and balls?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/22 05:29 AM
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The “I’m the prize!” mentality of full display. Someone who makes that kind of cash has choices. Why would he choose you when he could get someone who doesn’t have the attitude problem? Wish I could say this type of garbage surprises me, but this is just par for the course now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/09/22 05:28 AM
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They are learning, yes, but learning the wrong lesson. Instead of learning to stop riding the CC and instill that value in the younger generations, they’re learning to start the relationship based on a lie, then asking for forgiveness (more probably demanding you be fine with it) afterwards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/22 01:12 AM
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Every time I see, “We are a package deal” I just shake my head. Usually “package deal” means you get more for less money. Single MotherTM package deals are less for more money. Used car value for new car prices. Act fast, quantities are limited!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/22 01:30 AM
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Makes you wonder who she thinks she is to consider 6’2” “short”. I’m 6’4” and I don’t consider 6’2” short. Oddly super specific profiles send up all sorts of red flags.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/22 05:29 AM
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Every time I see one of these shocked pikachu face posts where women say, “But my past doesn’t matter!” I just laugh. They know their past matters. That’s why they at the very least don’t bring it up or at most actively try to hide it. They know it matters. They just don’t want men to think it matters. Now, if what she experienced was actual sexual abuse, I feel bad for her and she needs to seek counseling for it. However, you need to be up front about your past. Get in front of it, as I was alw…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/22 09:16 PM
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Exactly. It’s sad, but true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 01:04 AM
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The problem with this is that too many people realize they have crappy communities (that they created, by the way) and so they are coming to more traditional communities and bringing their politics with them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/22 11:22 PM
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Stoicism is the cure that will help save our hyper-emotional society if people wake up and realize that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/22 11:16 PM
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Because they don’t think like men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/22 08:56 AM
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Ah, another article telling men that they just have to accept something that a woman chooses to do. You don’t HAVE to sleep with all those guys. That was something you CHOSE to do. Actions have consequences. The fact that you don’t like that doesn’t make it go away. Also, gotta love the hypocrisy of judging men then turning around and telling them they can’t judge you. Stay classy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/22 11:29 PM
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I’m a queen and need to be treated like one. So tired of that attitude. You going to treat me like a king? No? Relationships are a two-way street sister. Get back to me when you realize that there are other people in this world and you aren’t the center of the universe. Not going to hold my breath, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/22 08:04 PM
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Why in the world would a guy with a Ferrari choose you over any of the legitimately hot women who would make themselves available to that level of money? You’re a landwhale with the attitude of a world famous supermodel. What I wouldn’t give to be a fly on the Wall when she finally hits it. Of course I’d probably be crushed, but it’d be worth it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 05:54 AM
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This smacks of the type of person who dangles meat in front of a dog and then laughs when it drools. I don’t care what they say, women don’t dress sexy to “appreciate themselves”. They do it for the attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/22 05:46 AM
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Well, they’re women. They can’t honestly be expected to be held accountable for their own actions. Responsibility for your actions is a tool of the patriarchy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:24 PM
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I do still live with a long term “partner” that has wasted 16 years of my life. Let me rephrase that for you: I’m looking for someone better than what I currently have, so I can swing on to the next guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:21 PM
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Yeah, I don’t think too many men think, “Damn, she’s articulate!” when looking for a girl to sleep with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/22 09:11 PM
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She only wants a boy and a girl. I guess she’s going to toss them out the window until she gets one of each?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 12:52 AM
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Every time I think I’ve read the craziest list of demands on a dating profile, some other strong, independent woman goes, “Hold my wine cooler!” I guess it pairs well with a word salad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/22 10:14 AM
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Also looking for someone to help me make by dreams come true. Not that I’m going to help with yours, though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 02:31 AM
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When I was passing 6’ tall, I had a female family member tell me that it was good for men to be that tall because women want to feel petite. Also, people who are over 6’, and who aren’t super skinny, appear tougher than the average person under 6’; not that they are, just that they appear to be. They want to feel safe. That was back in high school, and I don’t think you’d hear that piece of truth nowadays. Although I fail to see how a woman who is obese will ever appear petite, no matter how tal…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 02:28 AM
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I’m 6’4” and I totally agree. Constantly banging my head and knees on stuff. People always ask my help to reach things they can’t reach. Flying in airplanes just sucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/22 02:19 AM
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I agree, the logic is very stupid. The argument always seems to be that the boys “want it” and the girls don’t. When I was in middle school, we had this really attractive male teacher. It was no secret among the students that ALL of the girls thought he was super hot and would have willingly had sex with him. Since they all wanted it, had he decided to pursue any of them, would it have been seen as “different”? Nope. He would have been labeled (correctly) as a pedophile.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 08:34 AM
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She built her career off her looks (which is a terrible idea). Scratch that. Her career WAS her looks. Everything she has, she gained from her looks. It wasn’t gained through a skill, or a talent; just her looks. She now realizes this and is complaining about it. Try and defy it all you want, but sexy grannies is a niche market. It’s the nature of the beast. This is why you don’t build your life on something so fleeting. This is why a lot of sports players build skills outside of sports now. The…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 10:50 PM
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My goodness, what a mess of a woman. Read the entire article. She did the “I’ll wait for you to calm down” thing multiple times. It wasn’t until he mentioned divorce that she realized there were consequences to her actions. Her mindset is still “how can I save this?”. It’s going to be a rough day for her if he decides to go through with the divorce (as he should). As it should be. She chose to ruin her marriage and her relationship with her husband and children. Every step was a choice that she …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/01/22 12:20 AM
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Gotta love the ol’ sharpie instead of eyebrows look.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 10:18 AM
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She says she came to Reddit for help, but in reality, she came seeking validation that what she had already chosen was correct.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/01/22 10:09 AM
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Yup. Literally the only reason she lists as the reason for her dating/marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/22 07:14 AM
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UNAPOLOGETICALLY This man does not exist. NO EXCEPTIONS.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/21 02:50 AM
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Also, the only species the world wants to pretend doesn’t exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 09:22 AM
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I get you. Been mugged twice. It’s something that sticks with you.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:09 AM
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Yep. Apparently she thinks men get jumped and we just think, “Well, that’s just a Tuesday night for me. Oh well. Guess I’ll tell Dave to take it easier next time; got a bruise forming.” Idiot. As far as being believed, all you have to do is take a casual look through media to see that women get believed FAR more than men. Must be nice living in a different reality.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 01:08 AM
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I also think there is a taunting mentality as well. Trying to play on a guy’s pride and anger at being disrespected. She wants to be put in her place, and it’s can’t be done gently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 07:10 AM
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Here’s an answer to her question: stop saying yes when they ask to hookup or be fwb. Simple answer. If you sell yourself short, no one is going to raise your price. It’s really not difficult to understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 04:21 AM
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Who honestly adds swimming from a yacht on their dating profile? Most people would enjoy that. The fact that she added it means she’s looking for that. “I enjoy” actually means “you must be able to provide me with”. If I had a yacht, why would I choose you over someone who is orders of magnitude more attractive than you, and probably more fun, to boot? No thanks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/21 02:38 AM
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Yep. She could totally be into it in the moment, but come the next morning she regrets it and you’re suddenly a rapist.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 03:07 AM
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I can’t upvote this enough. The media is doing serious damage. It has been doing this for decades. If they aren’t portrayed like idiots, men are being portrayed as violent. Every now and then there is a decent male role model on tv, but for every good one there are dozens of bad ones. It’s one of the main reasons I don’t really watch tv anymore. She didn’t even know you, but because of media portrayal, you are automatically a violent man.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 01:31 AM
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I used to believe that good honest women sometimes made bad choices. Now, I know that is not true. This may be true for a very few, many more women pretend that they don’t want shitbags, but years of their choices are evidence to the contrary. Shitbags choose shitbags. Exactly. I know some legitimately good women. They didn’t date Chads or sleep with dozens of guys. They married legitimately good men. They choose these type of guys. I don’t feel sorry for them and won’t pay for their mistakes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/21 03:20 AM
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I was assuming that it just mentioned one in one article and then another in a different article. Nope. They were both mentioned by different names in the same sentence. It was done on purpose. Whoever wrote the article was explicitly saying boys can’t be raped. Imagine going to trial for this and the judge says that by law, boys can’t be raped. What was done to him was no different than groping someone in the eyes of the law. Absolute garbage.
/r/MensRights19/12/21 03:11 AM
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I know it’s small consolation, but you’re not alone. Also, please don’t start thinking that you are what they call you. If you do that then they win. My recommendation: surround yourself with like-minded people. If there isn’t anyone like that in your life, then you’re certainly welcome here.
/r/MensRights12/12/21 01:14 AM
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Shocker! Men have standards. This surprises no one on this sub. I’d be mad too, if I had been lied to for decades and am only now realizing that there are consequences to my actions.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/21 12:25 AM
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Exactly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/12/21 04:52 AM
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Bet she’s lying about the weight gain. 60 pounds is a lot of weight to gain in 3 years. Could it be true? Yes, but I kind of doubt it. Probably just looking for an excuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/21 03:49 AM
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What is it that these women always say? “If he doesn’t want me at my worst, then he doesn’t deserve me at my best.”? He wanted you at your worst and now you still say he doesn’t deserve you at your best. What a piece of work. I honestly don’t see how these women can’t see why men have stopped marrying. Guess if they didn’t have double standards, they wouldn’t have any standards at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/21 04:05 AM
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I read this book years ago, when it came out. I was interested in seeing an outsider’s perspective. She brings up a lot of points that you wouldn’t even think of as a man because it’s just part of daily life. It’s an interesting book and worth a read.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 03:37 AM
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Despite the fact that he would be a legitimately good person to date…err…I mean be friends with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/11/21 12:55 AM
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So who is left? I notice criminals weren’t on that list. I guess that’s ok? Gamers: hard pass. Rapist: I’m sure he was just misunderstood and is a good guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 07:55 AM
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Huh. I guess beggars can be choosers. I’ll graciously bow out and let a Democrat have this one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 07:44 AM
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Wow. This is a textbook case. You couldn’t ask for a better example. I wonder how long it’s going to take for her to throw away the best thing that’s ever happened to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/11/21 07:29 AM
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Imagine eliminating a large swath of humanity simply based on when they were born. “Ooh! You’re attractive and we have a lot of common, but you were born 1 day too early/late. Sorry! Better luck next time!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/21 04:18 AM
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What if he’s sexy but only really attractive? Or gorgeous but not sexy? I guess that’s a “no thank you”? “9.9 out of 10; not interested.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/11/21 02:04 AM
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It’s the same for me. I was raised to basically revere women. Men were supposed to put women on a pedestal and break themselves for the sake of women (essentially being a white knight before that term was around). I acted that way until my late twenties. I then looked around and saw what I was getting for my trouble. It took me the better part of a decade to undo that programming. I still have several friends who are stuck in that mentality and get angry if you try and break them out.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 09:49 AM
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They do it because they want support and they want to be seen as being for equality. Anyone who isn’t “in charge” can and should be encouraged to overthrow the oppressors. If they can get disenfranchised men to do it for them, so much the better. When the revolution is complete, they will be tossed aside as having outlived their usefulness.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 09:21 AM
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There have been several women who have been sentenced to death. As a total of all death sentences, it’s less than 1%, however. Also, all of them (that I could find) were mourned as having come from broken homes, or were abused, or were otherwise psychologically damaged. We are supposed to feel sorry that society “failed” these women. Rarely were men given similar treatment, although there have been a few examples where a man’s extreme psychological past was taken into account. The fact is, the s…
/r/MensRights09/11/21 09:16 AM
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Posted this elsewhere, but it fits here, as well. Worth: what other people are willing to pay. That super-rare Babe Ruth rookie card is valuable because other people are willing to pay for it. You might think your fifteen-year-old Honda Civic is worth a million dollars, but is anyone willing to pay that much? Not on your life. I’m so tired of that phrase: “I know my worth.” If you were actually worth what you think you are worth, you would be married in a happy relationship right now. The fact t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 02:15 AM
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Worth: what other people are willing to pay. That super-rare Babe Ruth rookie card is valuable because other people are willing to pay for it. You might think your fifteen-year-old Honda Civic is worth a million dollars, but is anyone willing to pay that much? Not on your life. I’m so tired of that phrase: “I know my worth.” If you were actually worth what you think you are worth, you would be married in a happy relationship right now. The fact that you aren’t demonstrates that you have priced y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 02:02 PM
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Could it be maybe that men are constantly being told to sit down, shut up, and let women lead? How about when men are told that looking at a woman is rape? Or that appreciating women is objectification? We have corporations literally telling men that being masculine is bad. No more being a traditional male. Now that this is disappearing, women are complaining and blaming men. Men are disappearing and you wonder why it’s happening? Every time a man interacts with a woman, he has to be careful. He…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 01:00 AM
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“Studies show there is no actual average penis size.” What? No quotes on those non-existent studies? Consider me shocked. This is just her way of getting out of having to admit that she wants someone who is above average. If you pretend there is no such thing as averages, then anything and everything is equally possible/probable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 02:19 AM
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Back in the “bad” days, when women “didn’t have any choice”, the default was “no until married”. There was no pressure for women to say no because society already said no. Those kind of women were protected. Feminists wanted to get rid of that, but I don’t think modern women are ready for that conversation yet.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/11/21 08:13 AM
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She says that she’s not married because she knows what it takes. That means she can’t or won’t do what’s necessary. Yet, she’s still on a Stronk Wymyns dating app looking for someone who she can lord over while she goes and grabs some dude for a quickie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/21 01:01 AM
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Filters are an immediate “no thanks” for me. They are used to hide the truth about how rough they look. It’s like putting sawdust in an engine. Sure, it might hide how rough the engine runs briefly, but in the end, it just destroys the engine. A filter might hide things for a short time, but in the end, the truth comes out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 04:43 PM
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I can only imagine what the outcome would have been had the headline read: “NYPD male officer found guilty of plotting to kill his girlfriend and girlfriend’s daughter.” I am certain that he wouldn’t have gotten 48 months…
/r/MensRights30/10/21 10:17 AM
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She says exactly what modern women think a man is: an ATM. It’s not about love or loyalty or anything like that, she’s after one thing: his resources. The reason she would get mad if she found out he cheated is not because he’s disloyal. It’s because he now has to split his resources with someone other than her. I really hope men look into the women they date. When they see posts like this, it should send men packing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/10/21 01:07 AM
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Absolute proof that even when a good man (better than she deserves) probably quite literally bites her in the ass, she still can’t see it. Her dad more than approves of him. Since she brings him up and asks his opinion, it seems like she thinks highly of him and his opinion. She still needs the “Yass kween! Slay!” opinions of random women online who are worse off than she is. I bet you anything she’s going to toss him to the curb and go looking for more abusive assholes, all the while questionin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/10/21 01:07 AM
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I think I’d just rather toss my money in a fire.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/21 01:28 AM
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Women want a traditional man but want to be a modern woman. This. Exactly this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/21 11:28 PM
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I hate that mentality from modern women: sex is just like a handshake until you want to get married; then it’s sacred. It’s just like you said: it’s either sacred or it’s just another action between two people. The thing is that they know it’s a big deal. That’s why they try and keep it secret. In public forums, they try and feign ignorance and pretend like it’s no big deal, all the while intentionally hiding things because they know it is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/10/21 04:10 AM
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“Positive discrimination” Anything to keep from being the bad guy. “What I’m being sexist? The good guys can’t be sexist! Let’s change language to make sure I’m not sexist…. There, see? I’m not sexist, according to the definition that I just changed.” Garbage.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 10:52 PM
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“My standards are extremely high.” …clearly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/10/21 05:40 AM
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This has been the reasoning for centuries. Men have certain roles and women have certain roles; you know, those evil gender roles that everyone hates. According to society, women had an innate value, that of childbirth. Men had the responsibility to protect house and home and by that, their offspring. Men (according to this philosophy) had no such innate value. Their value came from what they could provide, and nothing else. This included death, if need be. So the Feminist is making the argument…
/r/MensRights15/10/21 04:46 AM
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That’s because it’s cultural now. It’s “ok” to shame, disrespect, and humiliate men. It was helped along with tv shows where the husband/father is portrayed as the bumbling idiot at best and the mother/wife is the long-suffering capable one. We hear that men need to show their feelings more and be more emotional. Then when we do, we’re mocked. It’s garbage.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 03:41 AM
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This is an example of why I never try and explain to women where all the good men have gone. There is an experienced woman in the chat telling her what’s coming down the pipes and she’s just, “Nah. It’ll be fine.” All of them, every single one, believes that they are special and it won’t happen to them. Can’t wait to see the tears she posts in a couple years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 01:58 AM
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So, men, no photos of cars, but her on a jet ski in every single photo is ok?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 01:52 AM
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Unless this was done in public (which I wouldn’t put past her) where anyone could film her, I can almost guarantee this is what he’s got going on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 06:54 AM
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I laughed at the part where she said she was in a dark place and needed some healing. She thought healing would come from Dr. Johnson, MD, apparently.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/10/21 06:52 AM
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This could have the added benefit of making women think before pulling crap like poking holes in condoms and falsely claiming fatherhood. If there was an actual chance of men not being forced to be fathers, women might be a little more choosy. It could also lead to a decrease in single motherhood, which I believe most people can agree is less-than-ideal. Unfortunately, however, because this gives men a choice, I’m not holding my breath for it to be adopted.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 12:29 AM
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Completely agree. I can see this being a crappy thing to do if you’ve been together for a couple years, but only after a few dates? Just get over it. Been ghosted plenty and I just moved on. I don’t see why this is such a big deal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/21 11:42 PM
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This is one of those things that you take a look at and think, “How in the world can anyone actually believe this?” Its even more frightening to look at her and ask, “How could you come up with this?” Right up there with the mindset behind the Holocaust. Evil. Period.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 06:04 AM
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You are more than welcome! This is an issue I am always telling people about. Most just don’t care or don’t want to hear about it, unfortunately. I agree and I wish more people would read books like it. I hope you find some good quotes to put up and I hope this guy finds the help he needs.
/r/MensRights26/09/21 12:21 PM
12

Totally agree and considering engagement rings are a grift by DeBeers to begin with… Once read a study (wish I could remember where) that showed that the happiest and longest lasting marriages tended to be those where the ring cost between $500 and $1000. Point is, if she is looking for a $5k+ ring, she isn’t going to turn around and be happy with McDonald’s. She’s telling you up front that she’s expensive. If someone is willing to be with and support you when you have nothing, that proves they …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/21 07:35 AM
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There is an excellent book on this topic called “The Campus Rape Frenzy” by KC Johnson and Stuart Taylor. It highlights numerous cases just like his. It’s not just done by women, either. One of the cases in the book is about a gay man accusing this guy of misconduct. He was only one semester away from graduation (and had hard evidence of his innocence) but the school kicked him out anyway and he committed suicide because of it. Garbage like this happens a lot; schools do nothing about it and the…
/r/MensRights25/09/21 12:17 AM
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Stories like this present a strong case for voluntarily wearing body cams. Might be a bit paranoid, but I’d rather be paranoid than spend years/life in prison for a crime I didn’t commit. No, it might not happen much, but the fact that it does happen and is laughed off by society just means you have to take passive self-defense seriously.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 11:50 PM
20

“Single mummy. Must respect and appreciate that.” No. No, I don’t.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 09:04 PM
2

I should clarify that I believe abortion is an option in the case of rape, incest, or the life of the mother being at risk. That being said, I could flip that around and ask you why you believe in infringing on that person’s right to life simply because the woman decided to have casual sex? By ending that person’s life, you are preventing every choice they will make in the future. Denying the world of all the good they might do. You are denying them the joys of love and friendship. You’re denyin…
/r/MensRights17/09/21 02:07 PM
6

She says she was in a string of toxic relationships. Seems to be what most women say. Either there is a large percentage of men that are toxic and these women then choose to date them, there is a small percentage of men who are toxic and women just get extremely unlucky and gravitate to them, or toxicity is becoming a word that is being used to describe actions they don’t like. I’m beginning to think it’s the third option.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/21 10:16 PM
2

Because I don’t like setting an arbitrary line of personhood at birth.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 08:19 PM
2

I’m pro-life.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 11:01 AM
1

The woman in the post is saying that she wants sex but implies that she doesn’t want to deal with the consequences. She doesn’t want to deal with the consequences to such a degree that she believes in forcing men to get a vasectomy. She pretends to care by saying think of the children and demands men take responsibility for their actions. I was saying that if she really cared about the children, don’t have sex. Don’t blame this on the men and demand they take drastic action. However, on the othe…
/r/MensRights16/09/21 10:31 AM
2

And you’re not interested in having an actual conversation. Just shout down people whom you think disagree with you.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:54 AM
2

You also didn’t understand my point. She wants to have sex while avoiding the consequences of her actions to the point of forcing (and blaming) men to get a vasectomy. She veils this behind a desire to protect the baby. I was saying if she really cared, she wouldn’t risk it in the first place. Women have many options for birth control.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 07:27 AM
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I fail to see how I’m a feminist because I believe in actions and consequences. I’m saying this to both her and the men in her life who decide to sleep with her.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 07:19 AM
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Actions have consequences. So tired of the, “I want sex but not the responsibility” mentality. If you honestly didn’t want to take the chance in getting pregnant, then don’t have sex. There are numerous contraceptives. No, they aren’t 100% effective 100% of the time, but you know what is? Abstinence. It’s the same for both men and women. If you are honestly worried about getting her pregnant, don’t have sex. If not, both parties need to accept the fact that there is a chance she will get pregnan…
/r/MensRights15/09/21 09:54 PM
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This guy’s totally out of touch with reality if he genuinely thinks Christian men are actually not dating because of these reasons. Guarding her heart? Seriously? So you asked some random Christian guy why he wasn’t willing to ask this random Christian gal on a date and his response was, “No, because I have to guard her heart.” I do not believe that for a second. Also, she now has to date non-Christians? I don’t think she “has” to do anything. It’s a choice. You are choosing to date non-Christia…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/21 09:38 PM
4

“How do we get men to stop treating us like objects?” Easy answer for you: 1.) Stop only choosing men who treat you like objects. 2.) Stop presenting yourself as an object to be used. Problem solved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 01:55 AM
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Well, it’s clear she isn’t known for making good life choices. She’s on Tinder looking for a role model for her son. You’d have better luck finding edible food in the landfill.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 01:52 AM
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I can’t stand to keep my own company so now I want to have a child to keep me company. For the child’s sake, I really hope she doesn’t go through with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/21 12:12 AM
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“You are responsible for you own happiness. If you expect others to make you happy, you will always be disappointed” How much you want to bet that she expects her boyfriend to make her happy and leaves him when he doesn’t?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/21 05:42 PM
9

Going on Tinder to find nice guys is like going to McDonald’s to find health food. Prepare to be disappointed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/21 05:39 PM
1

Gotta love how this is just an anti-Islam screed. They will publish garbage like this, then turn around and say, “# not all Muslims.” They are fighting against “misogyny” but refuse to do it where it would matter most: where actual rape culture, systemic sexism and patriarchal rule exist. They do it from the safety of a society wherein they don’t have to worry about being beheaded, stoned, or thrown off a building for speaking out.
/r/MensRights02/09/21 12:44 AM
8

Don’t know how well she can cook, but she can sure whip up a mighty fine word salad!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/09/21 12:12 AM
1

I think the same way. I’m 6’4” and it really bothers me that women like this who are so fat she has a tidal effect think that men who are under 6’ aren’t real men. “I know my worth.” Right. What a disgusting person.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/21 10:14 PM
2

Intent might be good, but this is a good way to kickstart an anorexia boom.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 11:45 PM
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Ruining a perfectly good song in the process.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 11:38 PM
18

Yep. This is the level of delusion in modern women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 10:12 PM
15

Well, he shouldn’t have planted that tree in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/08/21 07:47 AM
5

Makes sense that people who study a science that is inexact at best aren’t the most stable individuals.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 09:24 PM
1

I joke around and say that there aren’t any men that could match with her, but this time I honestly don’t think there are any men who meet that standard. I don’t know what type of man she is looking for. Maybe she should try women on for size. They might be a better match for her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 01:12 AM
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Exactly this. She had been giving him what he wanted for 8 years. He made up his mind after the first year that she wasn’t marriage material. She has only herself to blame when he decides he doesn’t want to start paying for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 12:55 AM
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Astrology: (n) the usage of random patterns of stars in the sky by people (especially women) to excuse their bad behavior. Ex: “I’m a bitch but because I’m a Leo, I expect you to deal with it.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 11:49 PM
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I’m sassy! bitchy! Don’t think I’ve ever heard a guy ever say they were attracted to a woman because she was sassy…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/21 10:22 PM
1

She just outright tells you. You are not going to be having sex with her. She has a shelf full of (Chads) for that. Introducing the New and ImprovedTM “Relationship”! Now with none of the sex you want and all of the garbage you don’t! Call now!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 04:50 AM
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Ah, the infamous basement-dwelling incel strikes again. Emerging at night to force women to face the consequences of their actions. You know what would keep stuff like this from happening? Being honest about your past! Or better yet, not doing it in the first place! Unfortunately, you did neither and are now forced to confront what you tried to hide.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/08/21 09:46 PM
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Those are going to be some messed up kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 11:08 PM
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He’s not only involved in his daughter’s life, it seems to me that she is happy to have him (and approves of him) in her daughter’s life. That doesn’t strike me as someone who isn’t a good person. I could be wrong, but if he’s a legitimately bad guy, she probably wouldn’t want him near her of her daughter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 12:07 AM
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Waiter, I’d like a word salad, please. With extra entitlement, if you would. After all, I’m trying to find someone to provide for me and my child since I won’t do it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 02:16 AM
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That’s what I was going to say. At least she admits she is, emotionally, a child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/21 01:37 AM
4

Huh. Didn’t know there was such a thing as a human red flag.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/21 05:45 PM
3

She gets bored doing the same things day after day. She wants new adventures. I give any relationships with her 3 months before she swings to the next guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/21 11:58 PM
19

“I’m going to shame you into doing what I want and then turn you down because I don’t date guys like you.” How about I save both of us the trouble and ignore you while I have some actual fun doing things I enjoy. That way you can continue looking down on the plebs, all the while wondering why men aren’t throwing themselves at your feet. Have fun with your cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 05:00 AM
2

And yet…here she is coming back for more.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 07:15 PM
1

This is a level of delusional that I can’t even begin to wrap my head around. I would normally expect to find this type of mindset in insane asylums where people believe they are Napoleon or the Virgin Mary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 11:34 PM
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I really hate that word, “thick”. Women will do everything they can to avoid saying they are fat because it allows them to live in their fantasy world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/07/21 11:30 PM
8

Video games: pay for it once and enjoy it the rest of your life. Women: enjoy it once and pay for it the rest of your life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 08:25 PM
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Honestly that pic of her chugging booze just screams trash. Couldn’t agree more. They put stuff like this in their profile because they legitimately dont know what attracts men anymore. They just think, “He must want me to be one of the guys.” If we wanted “one of the guys”, we’d marry a dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/06/21 01:24 AM
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So many women just like her think the same thing: “I want to be found attractive. What is attractive to me? Well X is an attractive quality to me, so I will display X as a quality.” In different circumstances this wouldn’t necessarily be a bad way of looking at something. The only problem is that men and women are not the same. We do not find the same things attractive. Women find success attractive because it feeds the primal need for safety and security. Men could not care less how successful …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 11:17 AM
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The psychology of this is bad. She “drowns herself in work to minimize the time spent alone.” She’s obviously not happy being by herself, which means she’s never going to be happy in a relationship. So many people think that if only they could be in a relationship, then they would be happy. That’s not the way it works.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 12:22 PM
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“Let’s be spontaneous and do something.” Pretty sure that’s how you wound up with 5 kids at 23. Might want to put on the brakes and think for once in your life.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 12:15 PM
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Yeah, I agree. I call BS on this whole post. Too many things don’t add up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/06/21 03:46 AM
1

This isn’t old fashioned. Old fashioned isn’t “give me everything while I supply nothing but the occasional sex once every couple months because I’m feeling generous.” That’s called being a sugar baby and a leech. I’m so sick of these entitled princesses who are complete non-entities with the personality of a crouton who think they should be worshipped.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/06/21 11:26 PM
1

I’m sure she has an oven and dinnerware at home. She can do dinner herself, as well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 06:30 AM
2

Not interested in divorced men? That’s fine. I’m not interested in single mothers. The difference? The man may not have had a say in the divorce (especially since 85% of divorces are initiated by women). The woman ALWAYS has a say in childbirth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 10:29 PM
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Well, when you sell yourself for cheap, no one is going to raise the price. You get f-boys because you already gave yourself away to them. No one is going to come in after you have raised the price on used goods and be okay with a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 12:45 AM
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Sadly, I agree. That’s how they get this mentality in the first place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/05/21 12:29 AM
5

“If you don’t like moms, swipe left.” Okay. It’s sad that I read this line so often on these profiles. They think so highly of themselves that they think guys are going to be scared to say no. Let me break it down for you: YOU’RE NOT WORTH THAT MUCH! Why would I choose you when I can get a woman with zero kids? Why is that so hard to understand?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 07:11 PM
2

Bet she gets angry when he cheats on her. She expects you to have a life of servitude and then expects you to be grateful for it. Sad thing is, this is par for the course nowadays.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/05/21 06:24 PM
3

She’s looking for staff, not a partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/21 09:27 PM
2

It’s times like this that I wish I could find the guy and show him that this is the girl you are dating. She thinks you are perfect and that’s still not good enough for her. Women today have a mental disorder.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 05:08 AM
10

Except for the fact that she’s not fat and unattractive (presumably, since I can’t see her face), she basically epitomizes everything wrong with women today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 12:27 AM
9

Agreed. I doubt many things on her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/21 12:22 AM
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I’m the same way. In some cultures they mean something. In ours, though, they make someone look kind of trashy, in my opinion.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 11:14 PM
1

Height standards for friends mean she’s looking for “friends” in the same way a prostitute working the corner is also looking for “friends”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 03:02 AM
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Not only does it mean that she’s made a lot of bad choices, you don’t know what this implies. It could mean that she was abused, but it could also simply mean that she didn’t always get what she wanted. She didn’t get the expensive jewelry or trips to exotic locales. To her, this could mean not getting treated right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 02:51 AM
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Apparently, the only thing worth noting on her dating profile (the thing used to sell yourself as a dateable person) is, “don’t hit me if you’re jobless”. That’s it. That single quality is all she advertises. That’s like posting an ad and saying, “Buy this. It’s a spoon.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/21 12:11 AM
8

You want to find a good guy? Try going back to using English instead of words like “trynna”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/05/21 12:22 AM
1

She bought into the idealized fairy tale version of marriage. That every day should be birds singing and having your heart go all a-flutter. She ended what was, by anyone’s standards, a happy and successful marriage because it wasn’t a Disney marriage. That is every bit a fantasy as Lord of the Rings is. I bet that in less than 5 years, she starts pining for what she lost.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/21 09:01 PM
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Funny. I know zero men who would do that. So either: a.)I exist in an area where all the good men are hiding, or b.)She chooses all the bad men and then assumes all men act like that based on the men she has chosen. I’m going to go out on a limb and say it’s not the first option...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 11:04 PM
2

“Looking to get wifed up. Mom of two.” Wasn’t the man or men who gave you the two kids good enough to marry? If not, why not? Why procreate with them if they aren’t good enough to marry? If they are good enough for you to allow them to spread their genes, why aren’t they good enough to marry?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 05:19 AM
6

I hate that phrase, “Everything happens for a reason.” It implies that things are out of your control. “I didn’t want a baby, but everything happens for a reason.” Yep, and sometimes that reason is you made poor life choices and now you have to deal with the consequences of those choices.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/04/21 06:12 PM
2

TLDR: I’m only interested in divorcees and widowers. Also, I have a life that you can’t be part of. Now, I demand a HVM date worship me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 10:24 PM
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She throws all this in men’s faces, yet who was it that told her to do all this? Was it men? Or was it the messed up beauty industry (aka other women) that says that unless you look perfect, you are nothing? “It’s literally the least you can do.” No, literally the least I can do is not even bother dating your entitled ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/04/21 08:24 PM
6

A while back I watched a video clip of this woman just beating the hell out of this young (6-8 year old) boy. He’s terrified in the corner trying to protect himself and she is just wailing on him; sometimes actively going for his privates. There is absolutely nothing on God’s green Earth that is young boy could have done that should have provoked that kind of a response. It was all caught on tape and I doubt anything happened to her. This boy is undoubtedly going to be damaged in some way. It ma…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 04:27 AM
5

“Ham planet”. I’m going to have to start using that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/21 09:21 PM
2

How much you want to bet she doesn’t have standards for herself regarding anyone stupid enough to date this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 10:30 PM
6

So, she asks advice and is tactfully given advice. She, then, is a bitch back. There was no cause for that response. Maybe if whoever gave the advice was a dick first, then there would be cause, but they weren’t. This just proves that they don’t actually want advice. They want platitudes that validate their feelings. She wanted someone to come in and tell her that it will be alright. That her choices were right and that some dude with 6-pack abs, six feet tall and a six figure bank account will …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/21 10:00 PM
4

That’s like saying if I don’t commit crime, I’ll “miss out” on prison time. No thanks...no thanks....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/21 01:19 AM
4

This is absolutely insane. There might be one, maybe 2 men in the entire world who fit this bill. However, I can guarantee that they will want nothing to do with her based on this list alone. Having to chose between this entitled creature and any woman who doesn’t have a laundry list wouldn’t even require a second thought. You know this type of behavior wouldn’t stop after dating/marriage. She is going to die alone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 09:02 PM
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I like the last part: “If you know me, swipe left and mind the business that pays you.” Meaning people who know her know about her and she doesn’t like that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/21 09:48 PM
7

She is one of the many who want to pick the action and then pick the consequence. In doing so, she also wants to dictate how everyone else is supposed to act and feel, all the while hating when people tell her how she is supposed to act and feel. She wants nothing less than to change culture so that she can feel validated in what she is doing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 08:36 PM
5

Let me fix that for her: “I chose to sell my body for luxury. I resented keeping up my end of the bargain, though.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/21 06:08 PM
3

This makes absolutely no sense whatsoever. She has someone who would happily have sex with her, to her heart’s content, but instead she goes and finds someone that she doesn’t love to bang and leave her lover high and dry. Then again, if you look at it from the standpoint of she is using each for personal gain and each has its own use, I guess it makes a sick sort of sense. Each ceases to be a legitimate relationship at that point. She’s a parasite. She takes what she wants from each, giving lit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/21 04:47 AM
9

Huh. I had no clue this was supposedly written by a guy. The tone didn’t even make me think “male”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 04:26 AM
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I love how in one reason, she bashes on men for being “intimidated” by powerful women. When we aren’t leading or providing or protecting, we feel (in her mind) like less of a man and so it’s our fault. She then turns around 2 reasons later and says men are driven by biology and have a strong desire to lead, provide and protect and basically encourages them to support that. Which is it? You can’t trash it in one paragraph and then support it in the next. Articles like this are garbage. Just anoth…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 02:12 AM
8

I wish I believed in the zodiac so I could blame all my bad choices and character flaws on something other than myself. That way I wouldn’t have to try and better myself. Just demand that people accept me the way I am.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/21 05:29 AM
12

This basically sums up what has happened to our society since the “Free Love” movement and Feminism happened. Women (and sadly some men) don’t understand how to build healthy relationships anymore. This was something that was passed down, but never overtly so. Kids watched their parents. Now, they can’t do that anymore. Since the “better” way came along, the ability to build a relationship is gone, sadly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/21 01:49 AM
8

Dumb. He told her exactly what he was about. He could have lied about who he was and what he wanted. Instead he told the truth and she decided to disbelieve him (or at least decided she could change him by just being herself). In the end: tears. She has no one to blame but herself.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/01/21 07:07 AM
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That because it’s easier to blame someone else than confront your own problems. It’s easier still to blame an faceless, person-less force because you will never win against a foe that doesn’t exist and has no actual presence. Therefore, the fight will always continue because there is no defined foe. Anytime something bad happens, just blame it on the mysterious evil force that is keeping you down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 11:54 PM
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The funny (and sad) thing is that it’s not men screwing over women, it’s women screwing over women. Starting with the 60’s, each generation has told the younger generation of women that they can act like men and that they will get what they want and be happy. They do just that and end up stealing (or damaging) the guys the older generation would date. When that generation grows up, they teach the next generation to do what they did, and the cycle continues. It’s the younger generations who are s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/21 10:51 PM
3

No matter how many times I read these, it’s always staggeringly arrogant they are. “I have zero (literally zero) good qualities, but I want you to be Mr. Perfect.” How can someone be that blind in their self-awareness? Maybe that’s just something that I will never understand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 10:45 PM
3

The story in her mind: “I hereby call to order the 1278th annual meeting of the International Order of Men; also known as The Patriarchy.” “Hear, hear!” “Order! Order! As you all know, we have it great. We get to do all the hard work, pay for everything, protect the women and children we are with, and have sex with any women we want.” “Don’t forget the abuse! We get to abuse them any time we want!” “Oh, right. I wouldn’t want to forget that privilege. Thank you. Anyway, as I was saying, things a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 10:32 PM
4

She could have saved everyone the time and just used the last line for her bio: “Turns out I’m quite picky for a chubby cunt with a kid.” Nothing more needed to be said. That covers all the bases.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 09:57 PM
3

So...she needs $20, but she is perfectly willing and able to travel to where you are for a meet up? That’s not suspicious at all...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 08:11 PM
10

No, they aren’t oblivious. Women have been told for 60 years that you can live your life and make choices like a man (get the best degree possible, sleep around with multiple partners, become a successful CEO, etc) and that this will attract men because it attracts women. They have also been told that they can’t really be happy in life unless they achieve these things. All women in the west have been affected by it to some degree, it’s just that women like this have bought into it wholesale. The…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 08:03 PM
9

If she times it right, she and her son can graduate college at the same time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/12/20 09:34 PM
5

I can also think of better things to spend $50 on.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 01:37 AM
1

I just laughed at this. The only thing she cares about is his “third leg”. That’s fine if that’s all you care about, but don’t be surprised if he has absurd standards in return. It’s not wonder she hasn’t been able to keep a relationship. The only thing she cares about gets old really fast. Then, suddenly, all his glaring flaws come out and she realizes she’s made another huge mistake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 05:56 AM
1

Gonna need some dressing for that word salad she just made.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/20 05:18 AM
1

Not so much a tramp stamp. Someone used a paint roller back there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/20 11:43 AM
6

Not me. I want mine to be an absolute bitter human being. None of this laughing nonsense. If you are laughing and having fun, you aren’t doing life right.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/20 11:34 AM
100

She hates the “Pence Rule” so much but look what it has gotten him: one of the few in Washington not accused of any sexual misconduct. He’s not doing it because he’s scared of the wahmens, he’s doing it because he is protecting himself against those who would seek to do him harm.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 01:21 AM
4

So...stop rewarding men with sex for basic human decency, but reward them with sex for lack of human decency...?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/11/20 01:01 AM
1

What I wouldn’t give to have been a fly on the wall when she read the response.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/10/20 06:26 AM
19

I like how she says it’s not enough for them to want a traditional relationship, they also want YOU to want those kind of relationships. It’s a relationship. Unless you are both going in the same direction, it’s not going to work out. “I want a traditional relationship.” “That’s fine. I don’t though. I want to have regular, uninhibited, exploratory sex with as many people as I can. Why can’t you support that?” Life doesn’t work that way. That’s like expecting bank tellers to support bank robbery…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/10/20 09:30 PM
3

Face tattoos and a word salad profile. That’s all I need to see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/20 06:59 PM
1

I’m fine with preferences so long as they are fine in return. If they have a preference for 6’+ guys or black guys or what have you, then they better be fine with me not having a preference for obese women or women with kids. The instant they aren’t ok with my preferences, they can take theirs and go pound sand.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 03:47 AM
5

This looks like someone who is shopping for a dog to begin breeding for Best in Show. Perfect or nothing for this princess, tyvm. I sense many cats in her future...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 10:12 PM
3

She loves her apostrophes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/09/20 06:39 AM
2

I enjoy this show, but to quote someone else: “So he’s simping over this egirl who is simping over this nerd and he has to fight off seven evil simps all while an asian chick is simping over him.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/08/20 12:35 AM
6

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: why do women think this will sell? “I don’t need you. Now tell me why I should allow you in my life.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 08:32 PM
3

I cannot stand this woman. She plagiarized a song, which she then destroys. Her music just sounds so entitled. The epitome of a 3 (maybe 4) demanding a 10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/20 08:28 PM
14

“Looks ten years younger than her age.” No. No she does not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/20 09:35 PM
1

Or maybe they just don’t want to get her all worked up. All men, by its nature, means ALL MEN; including the men she listed.
/r/MensRights21/08/20 06:26 PM
1

I love how people are all onboard with nature and doing things the “natural” way until safety/security and life/death/survival of the species are brought up. Then we are supposed to be human; be above the animals. I.E. Corona - if we are doing things according to nature, people who died of it were clearly too weak to survive, therefore it’s a good thing that the weak were culled. Bring that up, though, and you are reviled. You can’t side with nature when it suits you and then ditch it when it’s …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 06:24 PM
24

It’s sad that I can’t tell far too often whether these women are non-native speakers of English or they just don’t understand or like the concept of grammar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 05:11 PM
6

Why in the world would someone look at that graphic and think: “Yup! I want that permanently on my body. Final answer.”?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 01:07 AM
38

Let me sum it up in a tldr: “Guys, let us have our fun and you can have our leftovers. You should be grateful for the opportunity to buy the used cow.”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/20 07:44 PM
5

Sees (but doesn’t realize) that she’s a dime a dozen. Totally self-unaware.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/20 10:30 PM
8

I want to be vague, but not too vague. Just vague enough to make it seem like I am open-minded and not-vague enough to make it seem like I know what I am looking for. Both of which, of course, are absurd. What it comes down to is I both know and don’t know what I want. All I know is you’re not it...unless you’re hot or make millions, then you’re totally it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/20 10:20 PM
35

Was thinking the same thing. If she had multiple opportunities to find a guy and only accepted sex buddies, that’s on her. She has to deal with her life choices. However, if she legitimately found no one in over 22 years, she might need to take a long, hard look at herself and realize that the problem is her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/20 01:44 AM
11

Age appropriate relationships? Age appropriate relationships are the ones two consenting adults approve of. If both are ok with a 20 (or more)-year difference, why should the age difference be inappropriate?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/06/20 09:55 PM
3

“Bet I can out-drink you.” I am 100% certain that you can, but why is this something to be proud of? “Bet I can get cirrhosis of the liver faster than you! HA!”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 09:06 AM
32

Exactly. If you want what your grandparents had, you have to do things the way they did them. Things like putting effort into the relationship. You will eventually lose the “new car” feeling with your significant other. It then becomes about putting in the effort to keep loving them. So long as they can just swing branch to branch, they will never find “The One” because they put no effort into it. They will forever think that maybe the next one I grab onto will work.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/20 06:41 PM
3

My first thought was, “She looks like she’s been on 200+ first dates...”.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/20 10:28 PM
3

Jumping through hoops in a trial that Hercules himself couldn’t have overcome? Sign me right up!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/20 10:24 PM
1

The epitome of masculinity is working with the sole reason being giving all your money to a woman for her to selfishly indulge all her desires? Sign me up for that!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/20 10:57 AM
7

I wonder what percentage of these profiles say the phrase, “My ride or die”? Gotta be pretty high.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/05/20 05:21 PM
2

My experience to a “T”. I get bored and stop talking to them because I’m the one carrying the “conversation”. More like me just asking questions. Then they get angry because I stop talking to them. If that is what I get from someone who is supposedly interested in me, what can I expect down the line when things get more serious? No thanks...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/05/20 05:32 PM
2

To boldly go where at least 127 men have gone before...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/05/20 03:02 AM
3

Posts like this (and the multitude of others) are a prefect example of why this message of, “Your past doesn’t define you. Do what you want when you are young. Anyone who brings up your past is a (insert your favorite -ist/-phobic word here)” is not only pants-on-head-stupid, it’s dangerous. Actions have consequences; ALL actions. That’s why every single therapist/ counsellor/ psychologist that I have spoken to or heard speak say get in front of your past. It is never a good idea to hide what yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 09:32 PM
77

“Don’t be dishonest. I’m a Scorpio and I hate that.” I guess that means that everyone else is okay with it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/04/20 04:57 AM
15

The part that really gets to me is when she admits to making him feel bad about being bothered by her refusal. Like he is just supposed to be robotic about the whole thing. “The person that I love is rejecting me. Meh. I guess I’ll just go back to my mindless repetitive task.” I would think that someone would be bothered by the fact that their rejection was met with apathy. It’s a strange, sad and maddening dynamic.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/03/20 08:16 PM
47

This isn’t just a picture on how women inadvertently redpill men, it’s a picture on how actual equality isn’t wanted. There is no equality here. She is very clearly the dominant and he is very clearly the subservient. He has zero say in the relationship. “You want sex? Too bad. Like we talked about, I’m the one who is supposed to initiate. Not you.” She is the one driving and he’s in the back seat. Such a toxic relationship that she is the cause of and she thinks he is to blame.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/03/20 05:44 PM
13

For decades, women have been told to give themselves away. Place no value in sex; except as something to get whenever/wherever you can. When you give a product away for decades, then try and sell it, no one is going to want it. They already had it for free. There is no reason to buy it. Why is this so hard to understand?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/20 05:26 PM
18

I was thinking the exact same thing. How in the world can you work part-time job with 2 kids and own your own home? She either had someone else pay for it (parents, ex, taxpayers, inheritance, etc.), or she has a part-time job where she gets paid $300 an hour.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/20 11:12 PM
20

“Here we see the Dumpster Fire’s natural reproductive cycle. This cycle will continue for 10-15 more years until the fuel burns out and the Dumpster Fire realizes it is no longer sustainable. Then the Fire cools and begins looking for a reliable (but less desirable) source of fuel.” A true miracle of nature right here folks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/20 05:37 PM
10

It isn’t just about height. They make the same face when a guy is obese. How many of these women specifically mention that they want a guy who is in shape despite routinely chowing down on vats of Crisco as a midnight snack themselves? This is about them wanting Mr. Perfect while demanding that guys accept them as Ms. Less-Than-Perfect. Women like this can go cry into their brick of baker’s chocolate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/01/20 07:23 PM
6

I love how the picture talks about how hard it is to find deep, complex people blah blah blah and literally, the first line in her bio is, “As shallow as it may sound...”. I want to see the mental gymnastics it takes for her to untie herself from that knot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/20 04:14 PM
3

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Why would anyone choose to have that in their life? Toxic as hell, massive superiority complex. He/she/it/whatever is on a dating app where presumably you want to find a relationship and sees nothing wrong with outright hostility and saying, “I will treat you as the inferior I think you are.” Why would anyone read that and want that level of toxic waste willingly brought into their life??? I think it would be less painful to just jump into a septic tank…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/19 05:25 PM
2

I want to know who gets these pregnant? What guy looks at that and goes, “Yeah...I want to stick my dick in that...”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/19 10:18 AM
7

Or, a more likely event: Men begin to get murdered. Men look to the cause of the murder: women like her. Men decide, “Yeah...that needs to go away...” Men stop getting murdered.
/r/MGTOW08/10/19 08:59 AM
6

This is the sort of thing that really bothers me. Men are constantly having their actions and behaviors compared to the female “standard” and told we are “broken”. When you measure something with the wrong standard, then of course it will be wrong. Men express themselves differently. Why is that so bad? Growing up, I was never told, “Big boys don’t cry.” There just came a point in my life where I realized that crying did me no good, so I stopped. I was never told not to over-emote, I just never …
/r/MensRights03/09/19 07:00 PM
9

What kind of man would read that profile and think, “Yup. I need that in my life.”? Also, why in the world would she think that such talk would attract anyone? “I hate you, but because reasons, I need you. Love me despite my complete loathing of you.” Asinine.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/19 11:57 PM
2

How arrogant and entitled can you be? A couple of lesbians want a kid (shocker...something you need a man for). Then they realize how expensive the thing will be and sue the guy who had no part of the relationship (aside from his sperm). They wouldn’t even be able to have a kid without science. This kind of stuff makes me sick.
/r/MGTOW29/08/19 07:49 AM
3

Sounds almost like borderline personality disorder: “I hate you! Don’t leave me!” Who wouldn’t want this prize?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/08/19 04:09 AM
5

This is the exact thing I was thinking. She says she was, “living her best life”. She then makes it very clear that her “person” wasn’t a part of that. That necessarily means that she will no longer be living her best life. She’s quite literally saying, “I’m now ready to settle.” I guess she figures guys will be too dense to notice this.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 09:05 AM
1

Huh. Sounds like a personal problem to me. Looks like she needs to become a strong independent woman in a hurry.
/r/MGTOW08/08/19 05:37 AM
1

I actually firmly believe this quote. If you want something said (taught), ask a man. He will teach you. If you want something done, ask a woman. She will nag and whine and bitch and complain and cry to a man until he gets so sick of it that he gets up and does it just to shut her up.
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 12:06 PM
2

I like the whole “and beyond” part. She clearly didn’t think that one through...
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 09:09 AM
15

What an absolute sucker.
/r/MGTOW15/07/19 01:47 AM
1

My goodness. It’s a wonder why this woman is still single. Looking for the Mr. Perfect and calls herself “picky”. I have two or three things I’m looking for and that’s called unrealistic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/19 12:43 AM
1

“Don’t swipe right for a hook up because it’s not happening.” The fact that you have (soon to be) three kids means it happened at least three time before...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/07/19 12:11 AM
3

I’m 38 and still a virgin. I’m proud of that fact. All my friends and coworkers know. I’ve had the opportunity to have sex. Had women offer and turned them down. I go to bed at night and wake up every day secure in the knowledge that I will never have to be in the position to pay child support or be accused of rape when it was consensual (and you can, as well). The shame you feel is society telling you that you should feel bad. Which is sad because that same society used to praise being a virgin…
/r/MGTOW08/07/19 01:07 PM
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