Ballazabula Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Is game any different with girls that you know from a lot?	Ballazabula	/r/seduction	24/09/17 02:30 PM
3	Hitting on multiple girls in a group?	Ballazabula	/r/seduction	29/05/18 09:17 PM
2	DiCarlo Excalation Ladder very useful, but one fundamental passage is really tricky for me...	Ballazabula	/r/seduction	14/09/17 10:40 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Need a little advice for a text approach. I'm assuming attraction, mate, I wouldn't even write her if I didn't. But the point is, we literally just exchanged a joke and few lines. Expecting she will definitely want to see me would just setup a letdown.	/r/seduction	18/05/19 06:45 PM
1	Need a little advice for a text approach. Yeah I know small talk would be useless, my intentions would be clear right from the moment I write to her, so it's better to be direct and bold. I was also thinking about something align the lines of "creepy zuckenberg", kinda like your suggestion, I like your line though. The only small talk I would make would be to ask her what she studies (something like "do you study economy?" I saw her books, after all), mainly to understand the city she studies in. We live in a small city, the university …	/r/seduction	18/05/19 05:52 PM
1	Need a little advice for a text approach. I'm not expecting anything, honestly.	/r/seduction	18/05/19 05:45 PM
1	The odds are good, but the goods are odd. As a 22 years old virgin (almost kissless too) with pretty high standards, i tend to date women that i don't really like or that i don't feel a connection too simply for a matter of experience. I've always had high standards and refused to go out with girls i didn't like: when i finally dated a woman that i felt a real connection to and liked, i screwed up cause i did not have enough experience.	/r/seduction	12/12/18 08:45 AM
–	I realized the importance of eye contact... without even talking to the girl. Just a question, is there something as excessive eye contact? I'm bad at seducing but have no problem with eye contact, i don't know why, probably it has to do with the fact i have really pretty eyes (that's the best part about me) and so i just feel very confident when i know people are watching them. However, eyes are also the part i like the most about girls, coupled with the fact i like to look people in the eye when i speak this means i'm watching a girl eyes like 90% of the time and i noti…	/r/seduction	17/07/18 01:17 PM
1	Hitting on multiple girls in a group? Yup i understood. It's a mixed bag, on one side as you said no girl likes to be the second choice, on the other getting closer to a girl might get the other girls to sort of subconciously trust you, plus some girls could get jealous of another, which increases attraction. I guess it largely depends on who you do it, how the first girl reacts to you and obviously on the nature of the girls and events. Anyway, i'll get more specific on the situation that is making me think about such mechanics: i …	/r/seduction	31/05/18 04:55 PM
–	Hitting on multiple girls in a group? Rule 1: no personal attacks or shitposting I don't see how this falls in any of the two things... Rule 2: overly broad/beginner topic Well this is a broad situation but doesn't happen too often. Also i couldn't find much talk on the matter so...	/r/seduction	29/05/18 09:41 PM
5	Seducing a girl you have already established as a friend? and first let her have some time to get over her ex. This totally depends on the girl and on the previous story though. If the previous relationship ended abruptly, he was the one that left her and stuff like this, she will need some time. If the previous relationship slowly died down because it became too boring or passion wasn't there anymore, the girl will be craving for a man, so if you don't act, another one will appease her need.	/r/seduction	22/10/17 02:18 PM
2	High energy vs low energy in nightclubs? Your strategy is more "safe", you are actually socializing and flirting once you already sure to have a decent % of success, however it's time consuming and requires social awareness from you cause you have to understand if a girl likes you or not. His strategy instead is quickier because he just stands there, watch for girls that are looking at him an gesturing, which filters out all the girls with a boyfriend/not willing to talk or flirt much with boys that evening, without even having to spea…	/r/seduction	24/09/17 06:58 PM
–	Is game any different with girls that you know from a lot? So basically, i don't have the mysterious guy factor in my favour, but i can also flirt harder and in a more sexual way cause she knows she can trust me.	/r/seduction	24/09/17 05:11 PM
1	Advice for a girl (not a one-itis) The alpha-beta stuff wasn't to say "i'm alpha", but rather to say that before, when i knew her, i was basically an idiot and that now i know how to handle women way better. It's not oneitis for sure. I had oneitis for like 5 years, i know it well and i won't make the same mistake again. I'm seeing 3 girls right now but one is a bit fat and doesn't interest me sexually a lot, i'm just seeing her for practice. The second has an impossible temperament but she looks good so i'm just trying to fuck h…	/r/seduction	27/07/17 12:51 PM
1	How do I approach this cute girl in my class? Also, don't let her be the only girl you speak to in class. Speak with other girls, expecially if she isn't watching. If shows her you are not a creep and other females are cool around you.	/r/seduction	27/07/17 11:46 AM
1	Complicate situation advice Actually i'm trying to pick up other two girls right now other than her. I just don't like the mindset "do it to make her jealous". I'm just trying with them 3 because there is nothing wrong until it gets serious with another girl.	/r/seduction	17/07/17 07:25 AM
1	Complicate situation advice Thank you.	/r/seduction	17/07/17 07:16 AM
–	Complicate situation advice I don't like he last line. I tried that in the past but it just ended up with me not enjoying the time with the other girl, something i don't like.	/r/seduction	17/07/17 07:15 AM
–	Where do you fuck if neither person can be brought back home? Or just lock the door. If they try to open it, you can try an excuse. Even if it fails, you still avoid direct embarass for everyone involved. You will find that most parents are actually extremely fine with sex and such when it does happen.	/r/seduction	16/07/17 08:32 PM
–	Complicate situation advice I already thought about that, but here some things that make me wonder about the possibilities: She told me various times she strongly believes the man needs to move first. She told me that she wants to try new things. She told me, in another context, that "things are different now that when we were teens" Other than this, the thing is that there is basically no backdraw to trying. I already tried several times in the past, i stopped trying when she found a boyfriend. Our friendship always survi…	/r/seduction	16/07/17 08:14 PM