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Well I think something like that may well exist or have existed and either it wasn’t acknowledged or it hasn’t been discovered yet. Let consider serial killers for a moment. Even today there are few acknowledged women serial killers. The easy answer is to just say it’s a male thing. However that’s no fair assessment. We’ve only really started looking for, acknowledging and categorizing serial killers since about the 1960s and even today the entire judicial system and process is very hesitant to …
/r/MensRights03/03/26 06:11 PM
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Eh, even then… eye witness testimony has been proven in a multitude of studies to be horribly unreliable. Even in my own life I’ve heard some really off the wall stuff about events I have witnessed or been part or know people who have been at.
/r/MensRights03/03/26 05:00 PM
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Amen. It’s not about the property or ‘fatigue’ it’s about the abysmal, horrible, terrible, lowest-common-denominator writing, acting and lack of any functional story. It can’t get better till they start hiring and promoting for best work and they currently can’t do that. No one in Hollywood can anymore. Even the Oscar’s have so many stupid rules for even being considered genuine good films will not win awards unless they are by happenstance. The biggest mystery to me is why nobody in that pipeli…
/r/MensRights25/02/26 01:05 AM
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Read a couple of articles and there are definitely things that don’t add up nobody is asking about. And maybe they have answers but are not saying but… something’s fishy here. She says she left an abusive husband and her family says she would have never left her kids. But she did leave the kids and never contacted them even after they were adults. Never checked on them, never let them know mom was alive and well. In the least what kind of parent is that? It says he husband beat her and left her …
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:12 PM
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Ah the ol’ ‘crone claw’. They’ll say veiled shit too just on this side of ‘ok’ enough for your reaction to be called an ‘overreaction’ and put down to being a teenager. It’s creepy grooming bs is what it is but it’s not likely to be dealt with in any way except by yourself. Stay away from her is the best option really.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:38 PM
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Y’all ever notice that in most of these mugshots the women never look contrite or like they realize they did something wrong. They look angry, and like they are about to scream something like: ‘Why would you ever charge ME with something so stupid? He wanted to!’
/r/MensRights05/05/25 08:30 PM
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Besides money, which is always a motivator, I think there is allot of concern about just how disenfranchised they now realizing men, especially young men are. So I think this is (a little) of what may have happened: There’s been the undercurrent for a while, they’ve heard above it but not seen it… til now they are starting to. Trump wins. Not just by a little but by the majority vote and most of that swing is from men, especially young men. People suddenly realize something big is swaying this d…
/r/MensRights05/05/25 01:43 AM
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Too true… I’ve been all around most mainstream areas of the ‘manosphear’… well except tiktok and 4chan… who has time for that crap. Are there random dark posts from time to time or one or two people spouting off hateful shit comments on the rare occasion? Yeah a few, but not that many. Not nearly as many as these articles and news programs and other sources make them out to be. You know what is the most consistent message? Disengage from women when possible, go to the gym, do things to make your…
/r/MensRights03/05/25 07:06 AM
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Well here’s my thoughts. I think you are attributing too much moral superiority to a group of politicians who largely only support the interest of their primary donors. And that’s true of either side of the aisle. Whichever party you want to look at the agenda is set based on whatever leavers they think get more money out of their chosen base. Are there a few higher minded people in the mix? Maybe. Are there a few really, really corrupt people? Most definitely. And everyone else from either side…
/r/MensRights31/03/25 07:30 PM
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And nobody seems to give a shit about the fact that she broke the law or the real moral implications. She joins a mentoring program with a religious organization only to take advantage of a boy with a difficult home life. You know, like serial predators do… looking for the lost and disenfranchised. Then after he’s been in the child’s life for a year, even being there for the birth, decides she’s going to dip for another dude and doesn’t allow any visitation, but takes his money for support. This…
/r/MensRights21/03/25 06:09 PM
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My wife love to pay lip service to mental load or stress. She’ll say things like ‘I totally support you’ ‘I’ll be there for you’ ‘you should quit and find a better job, I’ll take care of things.’ But… she’ll only listen to a few times before she’s snapping at me and telling me not to talk about it. Then, of course, come the obligatory ‘quit complaining and get off your ass and do something about it’s’ soon after…. Never mind our family health insurance, which is through me, cannot lapse or that …
/r/MensRights11/02/25 07:45 PM
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Only a feminist could write an article about women quitting their jobs for more artistic and relaxing pursuits and not mention who’s going to pay for it for the first half of the article. That would be the first question out of a man’s mouth; literally ‘How would I afford to live?’
/r/MensRights07/02/25 05:26 AM
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I have no idea why but my wife thinks I’m having a grand time at work and that I owe her time away when I go on work trips. She seems to think I had some sort of vacation working a 18hr day, driving or flying long distances, eating bad food and having to get up early the next day to rush home because I have either more work to do at the office or don’t want to have to ‘make up’ more time taking over with the kids so she can go out to relax. Also, if I try to use how hard her work day was in comp…
/r/MensRights07/02/25 05:17 AM
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Why now? That’s probably a confluence of things. Men’s issues are getting more attention and traction both positive and negative. These problems have been likely in process for a long time. The proportion of male to female teachers has tilted badly in recent years, not that it hasn’t been since the 70s but it seems accelerated. I counted the other day, including administration there are only six males in the school to 85 females at my kids school. Political talking points. Whether you agree or n…
/r/MensRights03/02/25 07:04 PM
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You’re brief statement more says you are more of a ‘traditionalist’ in values not a chauvinist… though you could also be that as well depending on how you express yourself. There are women out there that want that. You’ll just have to find one, which is tough. I’d love to be able to have my wife stay home with the kids and be a homemaker, she’d love that too, but it’s not feasible with the cost of living and two children. We do ok the two of us working but we would have to give up allot, includi…
/r/MensRights23/01/25 05:07 PM
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Which further contradicts his / her (honesty the trans thing and self referrals in many different ways just confuses the shit out of me) later point that women don’t have access to as much wealth as Men. That’s not the case at all. They have access to that wealth they just don’t work to create or earn it…. That’s man’s work.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 04:45 PM
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Wow… they commit multiple crimes and then nobody, including the us government, can be bothered to do a damn thing about it. Mostly, it seems, cause the victim is a guy and it just doesn’t count as rape if you’re a guy.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 04:00 PM
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Well I don’t know about weapons or military contractors but in the construction industry it’s very common place to have ‘women owned business’ that are involved to take advantage of the incentives and contracts. The federal mandate also creates a state set of complementary boards and organizations as well as local municipal level ones, for sufficiently sized cities, all with money earmarked and flowing down from federal tax dollars. They are often run by the most corrupt ‘brother in law of the m…
/r/MensRights10/12/24 04:16 PM
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Well this is the right of it but let’s expand a little further. How was a statistic or reported number arrived at? Was it phone surveys, national crime data, investigative reporting, university studies? How you arrive at a number greatly affects the number you get. So there are a few ways the numbers are generated and all of them fall very short on capturing a good number for this particular issue. Phone and in-person surveys are good at polling a large number of people quickly but often inaccur…
/r/MensRights12/11/24 10:17 PM
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Forget TikTok have you seen and heard the outpouring of outright, blatant and overt hate from the mainstream media and pundents, many of them male as well, towards white males, hispanic males and even some black males (despite their large numbers voting democrat)? It’s frankly horrifying how much has been said live on-air and recorded towards males of all stripes about how we must be ‘misogynists’ just become more than half the country did not tow their party line. Look I’m middle of the road / …
/r/MensRights12/11/24 09:56 PM
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I have a Webster's college dictionary from the early 90's. Here is how it described fascism: 1. A philosophy or governmental system marked by stringent socioeconomic control, a strong central government usually headed by a dictator and often a belligerently nationalistic policy. 2. Oppressive dictatorial control. Strange eh'? No mention of right-wing anything. No mention of conservativeness or racism or any of the other BS they are trying to stuff into the word these days. In-fact I would think …
/r/MensRights09/10/24 09:25 PM
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While I agree to some of this there are plenty of 'dudes' that couldn't give two craps about getting a good job or achieving at sports. I do think around that time in high school is also where the training wheels come off for men, though. Maybe its that they have already given up then knowing that there is not a spot for everyone at the table like we were led to believe as children? I distinctly remember when my father stopped automatically hugging or kissing me like I when I was a child. It was…
/r/MensRights09/10/24 05:33 AM
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…“The one thing that all these places, all these cases, have in common is that these individual predators have had a billion-dollar, multibillion-dollar corporation that’s conspiring with them and helping them cover up the abuse,” DiPietro said.” No. The one thing all these perpetrators, institutions and government bodies have in common is that so many, many men and boys are victimized because nobody takes sexual violence against males seriously. How many thousands incidents need to happen for j…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 08:17 PM
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Ah yes, the ole’ ‘why don’t you solve it yourself!… Wait, no, not that way; that’s wrong. Solve it the way we want you to!’
/r/MensRights08/07/24 05:07 AM
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What posts? My feeds have been suspiciously clear of Father’s Day posts today. The ads on the radio, restaurant and retail deals, etc. leading up to today have all been focused on pride month. Only one from Macy’s has said anything about Father’s Day (that I have heard in my area, mind you). There have been few news stories I’ve seen and I have seen only one restaurant acknowledgement and that wasn’t a deal just an ad to come in for Father’s Day. As far as I can tell it seems pride month is far …
/r/MensRights16/06/24 09:15 PM
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“DailyMail.com discovered that 25 female teachers had been arrested in 16 states in only the last 12 months - and it is feared to be merely the tip of the iceberg as there appears to be no centralized data collection to track this disturbing trend.” Well of course there is no national tracking. I mean, if the public were to suddenly be able to easily notice that many thousands of rapes were occurring a year under grooming, drugs, alcohol, or blackmail then the backlash might threaten current soc…
/r/MensRights12/06/24 11:20 PM
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Ahh but don’t forget the nice throw away line above that as well to add the cherry on top: “Though she named her child Colette, she spent little time with her daughter, preferring to voraciously consume life’s experiences to inform her fiction.” So she was also a child abandoning ho-bag on top of being a grooming rapist. And we’re supposed to love this person’s work and admire her because she wrote some quirky books about it when it wasn’t socially acceptable for her to do so. Nevermind that it …
/r/MensRights03/06/24 02:58 PM
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While that particular scenario is not likely to happen I do think you’ll see a ton more tracking, specifically for men in all areas of life. Ai systems may monitor you’re cell phone search history, photos, audio and location in proximity to females and this will be especially true in ‘simi-public’ spaces that have fewer protections for a right to a fair trial or fair use like a college campus, work campus or shopping areas. ‘They’ (Government, NGOs, workplaces, advertisers and tech companies) ar…
/r/MensRights29/05/24 04:43 AM
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All that speculation in the article for her to reach the same unsurprising, low effort, catch all conclusion that all feminists do for everything they can’t easily explain or dismiss. Zoinks, it was ‘The Patriarchy’ all along Scooby!
/r/MensRights29/05/24 04:27 AM
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Nah, easy ways around that: Plumbing, electrical, welding, iron work, manufacturing, lineman, etc… many of them do very well, and no woman is beating the door to get into those professions.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 03:27 PM
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It just speculation but consider that you can’t work a profitable full time job from prison so she’d have a case for alimony. By keeping her out he might stand a better shot at not being a ‘economic slave’ for her forever.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 03:04 PM
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To be fair I think this is a ‘both and’ situation. Are there more men at extremes on violence? Yes. But are there a larger than currently known amount of women psychopaths getting away with murder and / or abduction? Also yes.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 02:44 PM
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Please guys, read the article. She raped two boys and got pregnant with the seconds child. There is no further follow-up on her history but if this were a male they would say it’s probable she raped others. They won’t investigate any further and he’ll probably have to pay child support.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 08:49 PM
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There was a post here a while ago from an attorney that had examples of this from something like twenty states and multiple incidents for many. Four such incidents from my own. I wish I had a link to that.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 08:42 PM
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More accurately ‘A 30 year old serial rapist teacher rapes latest two victims; get pregnant with one’s child. Investigation into other rapes still ongoing.” …At least that’s what it should read.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 08:40 PM
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Hahahaha… I just got out of a Public sector meeting in which the client said they needed spaces for three assistants to division chiefs but was a lamenting about the extra money it would cost because ‘none of them do any work anyway’. I have to agree having spent weeks measuring the building, asking questions and observing work tasks. Nor is this close to my first public project. I can tell you most of the ‘assistants’ spend 75% of their time filing their nails, surfing the web, playing phone ga…
/r/MensRights09/05/24 08:56 PM
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Apparently all the flak from her unhinged articles was too much, since about 2017 or 2018 she’s scrubbed all her media profiles, substack, threads and personal website of all this content. I doubt she’s not still a psychopath or narcissist but she’s seems to have tried to go underground with it since making her sons want to kill themselves.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:09 PM
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That sub is a toxic hell-hole. All these people justifying their hate for children and parents by spewing half-assed ‘reasons’ and complaining about people around them doing what all animals are programmed to do. Why it’s a majority women is an interesting topic. I have heard from a few mental health discussions that anti-social, psychotic and sadistic women often target children. Kids are weak and not able to fight back, they trust women more easily and women are unlikely to be punished severel…
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:23 PM
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Feminists… years ago, before widespread internet. Just listen or read a feminist speech or two and the hate for men of all walks and types are patently obvious. Wider society, that’s more recent. Generally I think most of it is either historic disposability, learned and / or unconscious. However the more you look for it the more you see. There is no widespread notice of the dismissive attitudes towards male pain and suffering, towards male opinions but these days you have an added layer of activ…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 07:10 PM
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I’ve designed many BKs and many restaurants of many sorts. The accessibility code requires you to either have them in both or have them in none. Building and Plumbing codes don’t require changing tables at all. Many owners elect to leave them out and a select few will install them either later in both or only the women’s. We can’t control that and neither can the city because it falls under the threshold for a permit to be necessary. Personally I would never use one of those at a fast food place…
/r/MensRights01/05/24 06:57 PM
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I suggest you do more research on the so-called pay gap. It’s been widely debunked by many academic sources once your control for hours worked and choice of job field. I also suggest you do more looking into the grade gaps in school. Several recent studies say that boys make lower grades despite equivalent performances and that they draw more frequent punishment for similar behavior.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 12:50 PM
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Sounds to me like he’s conflating then many viewpoints we often seen in MRA spaces including MRA, Traditional Conservative, New Conservative, Redpill, MGTW and others. Op you need to understand that, while all these viewpoints may have overlap in areas, non of them are formal organizations with a dedicated belief system, written goals, etc. There may be some formal groups here and there but most MRA spaces are loose affiliations of many viewpoints. We generally agree that men need more formal ri…
/r/MensRights20/04/24 04:25 AM
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Your mileage may vary on who ‘gets away’ with what. I have a cogent personal story. I have a twin sister and my parents tried hard to keep things equal between us until about middle-school. At that time she was suddenly getting away with lying allot easier than I, she was getting better grades across the board and she got in trouble at school less. Now I don’t begrudge her on some things because she was a much more dedicated student than I BUT it wasn’t till years later in college that we starte…
/r/MensRights20/04/24 03:50 AM
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You ever wonder what all the male workers, grips, production people in the studio listening to this crap think? Especially the ultra-left guys buying into all their other viewpoints when they suddenly turn back to attack them too? You know deep down where they ask those hard questions like ‘what the hell am I taking this for?’
/r/MensRights19/04/24 04:16 PM
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I saw a recent YouTube video from a relatively well known Counselor/ psychiatrist / psychologist (no idea which, and it’s not Jordan Peterson). He was stating that the statistics, and in his experience, that the motivations for male suicide and loneliness are usually NOT purely or even mostly mental health problems; but are actual problems for the men. Things like lost jobs, divorce, injury, financial instability, loss of friends, alienation and addiction. He was pointing out that these things c…
/r/MensRights17/04/24 04:01 PM
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Yes that is true at the best case but all those systems require constant maintenance and oversight. Any unmonitored failure could cause a cascading failure no matter how many fail-safes are in place. My source are the five Nuclear scientists and twenty odd people I know who work or worked at our large, local nuclear power plant.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 03:38 PM
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…Nuclear meltdowns, since plants are monitored and controlled by 90% men…
/r/MensRights16/04/24 02:51 PM
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Designated parking is a bit of a gray area under US codes. Parking is only government controlled in-so-far as they set minimum code requirements for its arrangement, numbers of spaces, size of spaces and number of handicap spaces. If it is public property the city, state or county might define some designated spaces BUT there are generally none other than ‘handicap’, ‘loading zone’ and ‘emergency vehicle only’ defined in most places. They could pass a law to define more but that would have to be…
/r/MensRights15/04/24 01:11 PM
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It’s also situationally dependent as well. For example: You go to the gym and see your buddy working out with a trainer. This trainer is telling him ‘he’s a pussy, he needs to get his shit together’. But you also have another friend beside them who uses the same same instructor. To that person he tells him to ‘keep going, he’s doing great, he’s a real man.’ To an outsider is this toxic? It could be. But to the person who knows other people and those clients of his they probably also know that he…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 04:33 PM
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I don’t understand this ‘we pay to look good for you’ nonsense. So you don’t get hair appointments normally? Do you often get a special appointment for one date? If so: this is not a black tie event, why would you do that? I’d be happy with it in a ponytail. Same with nails and makeup. So you bought a new dress? Ok, that’s nice, I bought new pants and a sport coat and you don’t hear me whining. It seems like women are trying to use regular expenditures on their part to justify holding this opini…
/r/MensRights25/03/24 03:10 PM
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It should come close to matching every other survey of distributions of human behavior. That is, roughly, the breakdown of male-to-female sex: 45% male to 55% female +/-. Most everything broken down by sex should be something approximating half of each sex and this is true for many, many areas of statistical study. If something does not follow that trend it should raise red flags. For example, when you account for female on male rape by folding in the ‘forced to penetrate’ numbers those numbers …
/r/MensRights17/03/24 08:47 PM
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I was actually pondering this the other day. There is a true crime podcast I really like but the host rarely covers crimes committed by females. They often comment how ‘women don’t usually do things like serial offending’. But how true is that, really, and how much is it the result of the fact that women are often not considered as suspects at all? Just consider that it’s incredibly rare to find a serial offender, often due to the fact that they often offend without connection to their victims. …
/r/MensRights10/03/24 12:17 AM
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How interesting… especially considering international women’s day started as an event organized by the socialist party of America and was first made a holiday by the USSR.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 08:19 PM
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What in all that is holy. This women tried to kill her child, wrote down her crimes, filmed it and is not only not jailed but allowed access back to the child.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 10:39 PM
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You can’t make this any more stupid. An all female board talks about representing females in a female run paper at a higher education institution with a majority female staff and female student population. So if we men are already the minority and not participating (or not allowed to participate); then who are they talking about or to? Who has the least representation here?
/r/MensRights27/02/24 05:11 PM
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The whole ‘maintaining a spouses lifestyle’ through alimony has never made sense. If there are kids I get the reasoning for child support, even if I don’t fully agree with how the system is administered. However, if you are getting a divorce (and let’s remember that’s mostly women starting that) then by definition you are changing your lifestyle. It shouldn’t be up to the ex to keep your income stable. You wanted a change so take it; it’s not up to the other spouse to keep you afloat because you…
/r/MensRights22/02/24 07:21 PM
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Help, help I’m being repressed! Sorry too good a setup.
/r/MensRights18/02/24 01:11 PM
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Those of you who think this isn’t happening in schools today because ‘it wasn’t when I went to school’ I’ve got bad news. I live in a deep red state and have two kids and can tell you flat-out it is happening and it’s not subtle. My kids have come home with assignments to study public figures with particular emphasis on their ‘positive support for feminism’. They have discussed the ‘pay gap’ in class. They have celebrations of international women’s day, they celebrate breast cancer awareness all…
/r/MensRights15/02/24 04:10 PM
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Like when she gets the equity and the rest of the house…
/r/MensRights09/02/24 07:16 PM
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I’ve got a former friend I still follow on social media like this guy. I find him throughly amusing. He’s extreme left wing, loves to threaten friends with ‘unfollowing’ based on any support they may show for any middle-to-right topics but rarely follows through. Reposts lots of feminist crap. Loves to pontificate about how good and great the ultra left company he works for is, nevermind most of their money comes from government contracts and exploiting customers in the healthcare system who hav…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 09:50 PM
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I’ve got to be honest, the more I learn about how sweeping and binding EU legislation is and how it encumbers member states the more I understand why Brexit happened. From the outside it seems to me that they are working towards a central governmental setup even more empowered than the US federal government while making members into local puppet regimes. They seem to allow anybody with a sufficient number of ears of a few members to pass widely sweeping legislation much more easily than having t…
/r/MensRights08/02/24 04:33 PM
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Yet another slanted study. Remember people, context is king. The byline even tells you: “Women may have more difficulties with their mental health during a separation later in life than men, a new study examining antidepressant use has found.” Note that this is based on antidepressant use. Not actual rates of suicide, mental health contacts, surveys of divorced individuals, court filings, bankruptcy or any other relevant metric. That means more women than men sought and received pills post divor…
/r/MensRights07/02/24 07:08 PM
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Enlightening sub. It’s amazing how deep the double standard for sex acts goes. I recently saw an AITAH sub that was attacking a recent ‘ex’ because he started dating his ex wife when she was a 17y/o and he was 20 and they had a kid born when she was 19. They were all on about how he was ‘exploiting her’ and ‘a predator’ because she was underage when they started dating. Nevermind that they whet to high-school together and had known each other for years before dating. And were a grand total of th…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 05:06 PM
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More startling and distressing is that, in many states and countries, if you are going any amount over the speed limit and get involved in a car accident with loss of life, no matter if you are at fault, you can be charged with vehicular manslaughter and go to prison for a year and have to pay fines at a minimum. Think about that. You don’t do drugs, you don’t blame anyone else, you aren’t doing anything unusual, you don’t use a conventional weapon or intend harm. And you still could get more ti…
/r/MensRights25/01/24 08:11 PM
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As a note: FLMA does not apply to every job…or even most jobs since most businesses in the US are small businesses. 99% of all businesses are small with 100 or fewer employees. 89% of those businesses have fewer than 20 employees. For FMLA to apply a business must have 50 or more employees.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 07:49 PM
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You are not human to them. You are a meme, an archetype, a shadow of human shape that they can dump any type of behavior, trauma, desires etc. into. They don’t know you, want to know you nor will ever be bothered to know you. To some extent we all do this by making assumptions and judgements about the people around us that we haven’t met and don’t know. However, women have had unique license to dump any and all bad behavior they perceive into men as they desire and be believed. You add a generou…
/r/MensRights25/01/24 07:13 PM
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You ever notice how leftest women love to say we males ‘objectify their bodies’ and want them naked but the moment they organize to do just about anything as a group: protest, art pieces, girls night out, etc. they often end up nude? Especially if there are news cameras around?
/r/MensRights04/01/24 01:57 PM
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I actually wouldn’t say it’s getting worse but more public and acceptable to do / show / talk about in public. As such some women, who might have been cowed by public standards of decency are now given a pass to engage in similar patterns of abuse just because they know it’s now publicly acceptable.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 09:32 PM
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You’re Probably right, so let’s make some educated guesses. The US population is around 332 million. Of that roughly 125 million are between 15-74 (a rough estimate of the most viably sexually active). If we take the historic perspective that only 20-40% of men get to reproduce (therefore have sex) then that means between 75 ~ 100 million of men do-not get to reproduce. For ‘accuracy’ let’s add a generous additional 50% to each number that get to have sex but not reproduce or do not wish to repr…
/r/MensRights27/11/23 05:04 PM
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That argument is a fallacy anyway. Are you not paid to be at work? ‘Unpaid work in the office’ would imply you are not paid for some portion of time you are working. If you’re hourly then you’re paid per hour, if you’re salary then you’re paid per an agreed contract. If you are putting in some portion of time you’re not paid for then you need yo renegotiate or quit. However just because you don’t like the work you are asked to do doesn’t make it unpaid labor. That holds true no matter if you’re …
/r/MensRights26/11/23 06:21 AM
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‘Anti-democratic’ has just come to be code for ‘conservative’ to most media these days.
/r/MensRights23/11/23 02:55 AM
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Interesting take and not without merit but it takes two to tango. You’re putting all the onus on ‘the man’ to provide excitement, variety and direction here and I don’t think that’s fair. After initial pushback she’s got to buy-in as well and come to the table with some ideas or changes otherwise it’s not a partnership.
/r/MensRights07/11/23 08:53 PM
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I have less experience with a woman trying to condescendingly or helpfully explain stuff but much, much more experience with women generally indicating with looks, words and attitudes how incompetent they think I am. This is usually from small easily corrected mistakes (even when I am approaching for the express purpose to find and correct such items) or when I don’t do things the same way they do them even if the result is the same and the process is less complicated. This is also accompanied b…
/r/MensRights07/11/23 02:30 PM
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Right, I can barely follow this.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 09:03 PM
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That’s not the way I’ve heard it. What I’ve seen it’s ‘counting’ sale prices as ‘money you saved’. So as an example ‘girl math’ would be: ‘Hey babe, I want to buy a new shirt for this party but shirts were on sale. Normally one shirt is $150.00 BUT I’m awesome and got a discount of $50.00 so they were only $100.00. Isn’t that great babe; I bought four and saved $200.00!” So she ends up spending $300.00 more than she would have or $250.00 more than her original budget but is counting it as ‘money…
/r/MensRights02/11/23 04:41 PM
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Not exactly. My parents never forgot when I was a kid but they have several times since I went to college and became an adult. Mostly they just say ‘Oh, well we thought you’d be too busy to talk’ and then promptly forget about the whole thing. The kicker? I have a twin and they forget theirs too. They only have two children and one birthday between them to remember. We usually call one another and compare notes and guess if they’ll call either of us without prompting these days. We’ve each had t…
/r/MensRights27/10/23 05:42 PM
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And as a corollary, many of these are the same 80% of men who are invisible to most women. The same guy they didn’t want to date. So what’s wrong for a guy to get one of these if he wasn’t going to get a real girlfriend anyway? If it’s not hurting anyone and making him happier, then what’s the cost? Does this suddenly make those 80% of men women didn’t see or want attractive and desirable?
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:36 AM
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Dude, you’re just being obtuse as this point. I took a look at the site. Most of the ‘debunking’ is very edited and cherry-picked. There are lots of scientific studies that go lots of different ways but the majority say that fathers are essential to good childhood development and outcomes. Yes you can find studies that say otherwise and you can find different hypothesis for why that is. But the TDLR is that fathers are good and important. If you want to know more I suggest you get a subscription…
/r/MensRights06/10/23 07:42 PM
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To be clear this law has a few caveats, including that if the couple is married then the test is not required and that is it only really required if paternity is disputed during child support decisions. However it is a step in the right direction. I also find some of the comments about the limited spread of these laws are because many people outside of the US have a limited understanding how our law and political system works. Not that it would be expected otherwise, cause we’d be lost in your c…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 06:01 PM
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I still don’t understand why any school willingly opens themselves up to the liability of adjudicating a criminal matter instead of immediately turning rape and assault allegations over to the police and putting both students on leave. It makes no sense whatsoever that they even want to be involved. They insulate themselves from all sorts of benign issues that could even faintly cause a lawsuit but not this? We couldn’t even have a scavenger hunt in university because it ‘could be considered haz…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 08:22 PM
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Ah yes, and here we are again: ‘Men, you’re doing it wrong, try harder.’ Or the ole’: ‘I know I asked you to do that, but that’s the wrong way!’
/r/MensRights17/09/23 07:39 PM
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The comments, lord the comments. 80% of them from people complaining ‘taxpayers shouldn’t foot the bill’ and 19% from dudes who think it would have been great to get laid with a teacher. This from a state willing to allow all theft crimes worth less than $5000.00 and drug possession crimes go unpunished. Never-mind this state could be recovering millions in drug money, or lost tax revenue from theft and also could be be saving lives by stopping these things. Instead, let’s bitch about the kid wh…
/r/MensRights11/09/23 08:24 PM
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There was an article about a year ago about women charging their dates up to 3k as ‘a d-bag tax’ for a ‘wasting their time’ with a bad date or no show. This is just men turning it around with actual receipts.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 07:06 AM
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I’ve looked for some fiction and media as well that is aimed at tackling some men’s rights issues. Very, very little is out there, especially directly linking it to male issues (and never the MRM). The most you might find are movies and books tackling innocent male imprisonment (a la The Fugitive) or anti-war stuff from the 60s on. Precious little is ever said on false accusations, the disparity of the courts, divorce, male disposability, child custody or the like. However lots and lots can be i…
/r/MensRights28/08/23 04:32 PM
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Besides the many apt comments here note the sex of the ‘commenters’ even in this comic. Women seem to be the most judging and widely misinformed of the bunch. I also don’t see how the other males asking first about other things than his kids is a problem. It’s not like we don’t talk about our kids, we often do. It’s just that a loose tooth and schoolwork make less exciting lead-ins to a night-out than a spectacular touchdown pass. I’m also not that close with my barber, we talk about sports and …
/r/MensRights28/08/23 04:13 PM
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As an Architect in the US; bathrooms are where they are because that’s where they fit best in the layout. No more, no less. There’s no cultural significance to where we put anything in a bathroom other than it fits and meets our many codes and regulations. The biggest difference you might see is some women’s restrooms are designed with better finishes, a sitting area (for waiting.. though this is rare) and maybe a place to put a purse in stalls.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 03:41 PM
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This is simple. Men and women (but most often women, usually teen and 20s women) have been using code language like this for years and years to disguise relationship motivations even from themselves. What she’s saying without saying so is that he’s not somebody she’s physically attracted to, just Mr. Safe who gives her validation and support. She’d have sex with someone she’s attracted to; that persons presence alone would put her in the right mental state. He’s not that person. He’s probably ‘a…
/r/MensRights24/08/23 10:03 PM
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She spent years in Dubai as a ‘social media editor’ and had a ‘chic studio apartment’. I know it’s crass to say but nobody wants the town bicycle much less some other towns bicycle.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 06:17 PM
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Surely this will keep them safe from serial killers and ne’er-do-wells! /s
/r/MensRights12/08/23 04:02 AM
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‘Never work yourself out of a job’ as some of my coworkers used to say. Generally at any job you take you need to look around and evaluate the level of work each employee is doing and decide how much you’ll get done. You do slightly more than the average level and that makes you more productive (you are, just not to 100% of your ability), you then earn good evaluations and raises (more or less). You do too much and they’re not going to pay you extra for that, they’ll just pile on more work. When…
/r/MensRights05/08/23 11:32 AM
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What utter crap. The judge basically blamed it all on him. Clearly the violence was reciprocal and they’ve involved police multiple times. The judge even seems to solely blame then man and keeps emphasizing ‘why were you there even though you weren’t welcome’. They don’t explain if he lived there (a good reason), only briefly mentioned the two have children together (another good reason), or if he was invited over and then assaulted by her. They even admit there is a high probability of her atta…
/r/MensRights02/08/23 03:08 PM
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Doesn’t that only apply in a private two party conversation? If they are part of a group and and in a public place not expected to be private (a library for example) isn’t that a communal setting and not subject to party consent?
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:16 AM
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Exothermic reactions aside that’s an interesting take that men only impose hierarchy on other males and social deference and sexual opportunism on females. That could be a really interesting avenue of study.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:11 AM
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Here’s a more local source than the UK… https://www.al.com/news/2023/07/carlee-russell-admits-there-was-no-abduction-or-baby-on-i-459-apologizes-to-hoover-police.html Don’t ask why, some people are crazy. Though I wouldn’t be surprised if the PD slaps her with a charge for wasting public resources, no idea if she’d actually have to pay it.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 12:39 AM
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Just do a google search. She also talked about this on Oprah and the dismissive language is so bad. They frame it like it’s ‘her truth’ of a traumatizing sexual encounter. It’s rape. She even admits it.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 02:44 PM
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I’d like to see them try the male curfew thing and watch them scramble to try and figure out how to keep the world running when they’ve done it. Can you imagine? - Sorry l, can’t make that produce delivery tonight, male curfew. - Sorry wife, I can’t go get diapers tonight you’ll have to do it, male curfew. - Sorry girlfriend I can’t go to that movie tonight, male curfew. - No boss, I can’t come in to cover that shift at the power / water / sewer plant, can’t be on the roads cause of the male cur…
/r/MensRights28/06/23 01:49 PM
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I’d say it’s strikes me that this is the opposite side of the same coin. The ‘unknown’ man is to be feared, especially if you’re in a disadvantaged position. The known man is to be dismissed. Especially since she is in a position of power. In the first position a woman is supported by the media telling them that this is right. And if so desired she can play the sympathy supported damsel if she wants attention. She can discourage those she doesn’t want and can encourage those she does all by body…
/r/MensRights26/06/23 05:50 AM
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I’m not MGTOW but I very much understand the thinking. If I had been 10 years younger I might have ended up that way. It was hard dating when I was younger but I can’t imagine now that dating apps have caused amplified chaos. I particularly liked the sub here before shutdown and have watched Better Bachelor for several years, though I’m not onboard with several of his cohorts in the space. I will say MGTOW is very misrepresented in all the news sources that ‘report’ about it. Most of the mainstr…
/r/MensRights26/06/23 03:13 AM
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Don’t know why, it used to be common knowledge among guys. Same as ‘don’t put the pussy on a pedestal’, ‘don’t be overly emotional’, ‘don’t let on quickly if you actually like her’, etc. You’d get told in middle school or high school and it took a couple of women to reject, burn you, cheat or some guys sensitive girlfriend to start invading your club / hang time before you would start taking the advice seriously. I swear people forget the internet wasn’t always and thing and we once talked to on…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 03:03 AM
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Don’t know why you’re being downvoted. This is very true. The best luck I ever had with women was when I wasn’t looking and just living in the moment; women are attracted to that sort of thing. Of course long term that’s not a great life strategy; to be glib about everything and never think about the long term, goals or the future. That’s why your marginally attractive and charismatic pot-head friend, having no job and no plan and no future, can still get all kinds of action. They don’t stay wit…
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:47 AM
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Why complicate something simple?: ‘Ship’ is just a shortened word for ‘Relationship’. It’s originally from the FanFiction community and is used in story descriptions to indicate who the author plans to pair together. Japanese terms such as ‘Yaoi’ and ‘Yandere’ often get mixed into these descriptions by people which is why he probably mentions them.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:22 AM
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Twenty years ago I joined a service fraternity that had nationally been all-male and had decided to allow chapters to go co-ed if they decided to. This was due to decreasing numbers of members because early morning service projects and fraternities had become a hard sell on liberal campuses. So our chapter looked around and observed for several years. And we noted that once chapter hit about 30-40% women the slide was irreversible and that they would go 100% female within and semester or two (wi…
/r/MensRights24/06/23 03:51 PM
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Well, do tell.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 03:02 PM
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I actually like Better Bachelor while I can’t stand most of the others, even his ‘mentor’ Greg Adams is a hard pass for me (he seems like an adult edge lord). BB mostly seems to push the message that you need to chill and be cool with yourself and not put yourself in a bad position when there are better options. He likes to make fun of feminist and hard left wing-nuts owning themselves but don’t we all.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 06:49 PM
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Ah yes, the ol’ ‘what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine’ can now be cited in a study. But wait! I can’t even read the most of the article but it only takes the first few sentences for it to be ‘women most affected’. How original.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 01:56 AM
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As far as I can tell men are just supposed to find comments about their body either ‘motivational’ or come across as joke no matter what they are. It also seems to me the closer people are to men the more they feel entitled to say things to them about their body without regard to any feelings. The things my family has said to me that they think are ‘funny’ have neither a punchline or humorous situation that I can see. Now I’m fairly self deprecating in my humor (which is probably a coping mechan…
/r/MensRights14/06/23 02:12 PM
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Another liberal writer being a sensitive liberal writer. I don’t pretend the conservative side has nearly all of it right but at least they are not constantly pontificating that men ‘just aren’t trying hard enough’ at every turn no matter how much progress, change and glitter-sprinkled, soy milk, no-whip, iced lattes are drunk.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 04:13 AM
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Well this is an interesting though exercise and yet another ‘chicken or egg’ scenario. I think trans men should be part of this discussion because I think the very nature of their transition allows them a perspective that a born male or female has very little hope of experiencing. It’s a good for discussion and for pointing out the things that society does to each gender that are not equal or helpful. Do I think a FTM trans person is a man or a MTF a women? No. I don’t think they are, nor can th…
/r/MensRights13/06/23 09:02 PM
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Nah man, get on the bandwagon. That was yesterdays liberal stance for climate change. Today’s is that population reduction is a terrible thing that will lead to a new dark age. /s
/r/MensRights09/06/23 02:32 PM
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I was allowed my vacation time and sick leave and if I wanted up to four-weeks non-paid leave. That’s it and that’s all most employees have to give in the US. It’s bs if you ask me. At least give us two weeks paid on top of our vacation!
/r/MensRights09/06/23 02:28 PM
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I agree here. I’ve heard a lot about this case after hearing about it on a podcast several years ago and looking into it. She wasn’t just convicted on the fact that she had four kids that died. He behaviors, contradictory statements made to the police, statements to her husband and her diary were used at the trial. They leave all that off here. Yes there was no direct evidence because their would not likely have been with suffocation of a child that small. The genetics give a another small slive…
/r/MensRights08/06/23 06:44 PM
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I’m not gay but biased on things I’ve seen online and heard in-person from gay men they are being run out of ‘LGBT…’ organizations and pride month in droves too.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 07:46 PM
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We did a small tour of London, Paris and Amsterdam when I was in high school. I’ve never been so embarrassed as to watch my father try to speak English to a French only speaker. This was long before smart phones and such so we were trying to ask directions after getting separated from the tour group. He didn’t get the guy did not speak English (or very little at any rate) and kept trying to slow down, speak louder and more clearly to get the guy to understand. I finally had to step in and pull h…
/r/MensRights19/05/23 02:30 PM
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As I understand it that’s true across all professions for women. I’ve heard it’s especially problematic in the medical fields because 76% (see the cdc) of all healthcare workers are female. Consider that they drop out of the workforce in more than double the drop rate of males. You can see why we have, and may always have, a doctor and nurse shortage since that is the case. Law firms too, they beg to promote women to top positions and pay handsomely for it but the same women are retiring or drop…
/r/MensRights18/05/23 03:44 PM
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I would agree I stress my wife out more than she does me. Of course my mere presence is, at times, enough to stress her out, some of the reasons for which I’m still trying to decipher after many years. Of course there are also the things she chooses to stress over. Thing like the dishes, which I do the cleaning for. Laundry, which I often help with (though that was her trade off for the dishes). And the list seems endless. Most of it is mindset on what you choose to stress over and who you peg a…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 08:36 PM
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Yep. And honestly once you get older you should be able to look at picture like this and realize this static image is just a tiny part of any story. This doesn’t tell us what her personality is or what was said and done. I’ve met plenty of attractive ladies that come on way too strong and freak you out. Ones that are crazy, clingy and say disturbing things. You don’t get that from a picture. Additionally you start reading later interviews with many of these boys that are raped and in many of the…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 12:42 PM
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That distribution… it reminds me of a line from Shakespeare and the Eagles…
/r/MensRights27/04/23 05:42 AM
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How it affects the child. In 1987 he was 12 and she was 16 when she started her manipulation of him. He was 13 when the child concerned was born. The child support suite first went to court when he was around 15 in 1991. It went to the Supreme Court of Kansas in 1993 when he was just 16 or 17. He wasn’t even legally an adult during the entire process. Where was the court on protecting him as a child?
/r/MensRights05/04/23 05:58 PM
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aLL bOyS DrEAm oF haVInG SeX witH tHeir teacher. “The district has spent millions on civil lawsuit settlements, and two (former) students have committed suicide. There are at least 50 victims of sexual abuse within RUSD,” Stewart said, adding that Whitehurst was among the worst of the perpetrators….” Good lord, how can people think sexual assault of boys by women can be excused boggles the mind. I realize most of us had these fantasies when we were kids, myself included, but thank God they didn’…
/r/MensRights31/03/23 02:34 AM
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Oh that isn’t the only one either. CharGPT also has had various people calling out a number of biases that have started to crop up in the system, as well as its propensity to start making things up. An AI modeling a wife is going to derive from all sources available not just your responses. This is the same weirdness we encounter, sift and filter through online everyday. Just imagine someone so literal that they take all the crap and truth and judge the world based on the ‘most votes win’ perspe…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 05:28 PM
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Clearly there’s allot of context missing here but just based on this brief snippet you need to stay as far away from this ‘lady’ as you can get. It is BS that a court is blaming you but don’t invite that on yourself by continuing to interact with this level of crazy.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 04:04 PM
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Ahh, good old Vox still full of bull crap. Of course they say ‘now women now have to worry about home and work’. As if men never think about both. As if we never have housework to do or kids or social lives or everything else going on that everyone has. The cognitive dissonance they display is often astounding.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:02 AM
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His dad and brother might be asshats but the more they talk the more it sounds like his family was trying to snap him out of it and think before he married her, then had kids and then let her dictate what they did.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 07:10 PM
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That sub has turned into mostly women talking about their low libido men. It used to be a relatively even split but I tried commenting a couple of years ago and was permabanned for suggesting that a guys girlfriend was cheating. Seems they got some new mods… and you know the same old song.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:14 PM
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I feel ya on this. I had my first surgery recently in which I was put under. I was very nervous, not just by that, but what they might find and my health in general. I expressed my fear to my wife. Her response? ‘I don’t have time to deal with your freak-outs right now, I’m anxious enough as it is.’ Now I understand it was a stressful time in our house. We both had allot going on, but an acknowledgment and a bit of support would have been helpful. Had I pulled the same it would have been days in…
/r/MensRights16/03/23 05:47 AM
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Yes, about half the meals we prepare. What’s your point?
/r/MensRights09/03/23 12:57 AM
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There are some interesting and thoughtful points raised in the books but they are far outweighed by the many, many assumptions, conjecture and outright ranting at other points that seem unhinged. Worth a read but also worth reading with an eye at thoughtful picking it apart and taking the good items out and leaving the rest.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:46 AM
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What is it with women and food… that’s probability the #1 topic that my wife and I fight about. With male friends or kids it’s a 5min discussion and everyone is happy.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 06:44 PM
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I’m at a similar place with my two girls as well. My oldest swears that mom is the one in-charge. I have asked why she thinks so and she points out that mom makes the schedule and ‘does all the stuff at home’. She thinks that only because mom gets her up and to the bus in the morning and takes care of school ‘stuff’ (teacher appreciation day and such; which I’ve been told I’m not allowed to because ‘you have bad taste’). She says this despite seeing me do half of everything for them and the hous…
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:31 PM
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I don’t want my daughters or their partners to be perfect. Not that they are by any means. They are wonderful and spirited but they can be hard to deal with at times like any kid. I want them to be loving, kind, patient, good citizens, active and involved parents and take on all the heartache, anguish and crap the world throws at them with a positive attitude and a realistic outlook. I want them to have a solid and direct moral compass and I hope they put Christ at the center of their life. I wa…
/r/MensRights23/02/23 05:03 PM
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Sadly this affects most fathers in the western world. I wanted very much for my older daughter to join scouts (girl scouts or a girl-troop in scouting USA). We found out quickly that male leaders are not allowed unless there is one or more female leaders present at all times. That includes family camp-outs, mom (or a female guardian) must be present for every family. For Girl Scouts they require two female leaders and I was made aware it would be ‘strange’ for a dad to want to be a leader. Basic…
/r/MensRights21/02/23 07:43 PM
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This ‘study’ and it’s interpretation are so very flawed it’s not even funny. And this is the state of science these days… we can expect dark times ahead once the bitch hunts / manquasiton starts.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 12:55 PM
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If I remember correctly a psychiatrist / psychologist analyzed that study (or a similar one) somewhere on YouTube and found it was very flawed / incomplete.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 10:42 PM
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The fact that they felt uncomfortable should have clued them in that they were saying something wrong and untruthful. They just doubled down, as extremists are want to do, because they think they are right and if they just ‘do this harder / better’ then everyone will see their ‘correctness’ and be convinced.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 03:30 PM
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You know I find it very telling that when they define STEM for an argument like this they conveniently leave out Healthcare and all Medical fields. You know, cause that might give you a real picture since 60-95% of most health occupations are female. Pretty sure those fields all involve science, technology and engineering on different levels.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 12:27 AM
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It’s not reported by major news sources or websites, and if it is they quickly bury it so it doesn’t remain on from pages. The only place you see these things are places like here. And we know how positively men’s rights areas of the web are reported on.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:15 PM
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How nice that they wrote this article in such a way as to get you to see her as a sad sack which all these horrible things that happened to, and not because, of her own actions. Nevermind she has a violent history of self harm, attempted stabbing, stabbing a previous boyfriend and being a drunk. And presumably many more indicators of abuse and violent tendencies and outbursts.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 04:01 PM
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We too had a miscarriage before our first child was borne. It was much earlier than yours, six-eight weeks. My wife was, of course, devastated but it also took me very off guard how much grief I experienced. We had been trying and invested in having a child and to loose our little one even before we could meet them was very hard. No one from my family, most of my coworkers or friends, really asked or (most likely) thought I had any trouble with it. Or if they did no one ever said anything or ask…
/r/MensRights30/11/22 06:08 PM
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That article it poorly written. It’s mostly just a collection of quotes from various involved parties that tell us very little of the actual legislation and passage dynamics. Cases like this expose the vast system of monitory servitude men are born into and expected to uphold. We are expected to support tax money being used to put these systems into place and then when it’s proposed they change the vast mass of ‘pro woman’ organizations turn upon them. Not having to pay your ex after they have e…
/r/MensRights22/11/22 03:35 PM
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Spot on. Girls have been allowed in Boy Scouts here in the US for a few years now and we’ve started to hear about girl troops beginning to modify and grumble about the program areas. So first it was ‘we want to just participate’ now it’s ‘eww… all you do is camp and build fires, we need to update this.’
/r/MensRights17/11/22 08:22 PM
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She doesn’t even have her own Wikipedia page and they don’t treat her like any other spree criminal or killer I’ve ever seen. Everything in a quick search seems to gloss over not just her crimes but the victims and her nature.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 01:23 PM
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I’ll never understand why feminists and some conservatives believe that us men are completely ok looking into our future seeing that most of what awaits us is a lifetime of work. That’s not what I want. I want to retire. I want to spend time with my children. But, as the larger breadwinner, I have to keep making money. Inflation and my (poorly chosen?) career ensure it’s unlikely I will ever be able to retire with enough time to enjoy life for any significant length of time. Do I enjoy my job an…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 03:37 AM
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So here’s a mind bender of a thought exercise: If he were to transition to a woman would she be free to go with her record expunged?
/r/MensRights28/10/22 05:21 PM
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The reality is actually worse. First, she will never serve that long. She’ll be out after half that time, tops. Second, Read the judges statement. They didn’t send her to jail for lying and ruining her child’s fathers life. They sent her to jail for wasting public funds and causing harm to his mother and underage brother. They could care less what happens to him. They don’t even bother to mention how she got the child back after abandoning her on his mothers doorstep or how custody will go. You …
/r/MensRights22/10/22 03:16 PM
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I prefer the circular theory. You go far enough left and you end up at the same place as the far right. Here’s an image description.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 02:29 AM
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Another interesting thing in there is the age breakdown of single parents. Millennials are the majority of single parents but that’s going to be mostly for kids between 1-12ish. The number flips for gen-x. To me that suggests something very interesting because in many states starting at 12/13 is when you can tell the court who you would prefer to live with and they will actually consider it. Can’t say that is a sure-thing but it’s a possibility.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 03:23 AM
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So… I’m taking that, for women, anything goes? Just do what you want, screw-all and none of it has consequences. That’s the message I’m getting at least.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 03:40 AM
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It’s also frightening how many of them were assaulted by older girls and women and with drugs. The especially disturbing ones are the pre-meditated ones where the victim is a grown man looking to actively stay a virgin until married. These women premeditate and then carry out a rape, use a possibly deadly drug and then often feel they even have the freedom to turn it around and threaten the victim with rape allegations if they report and / or make them the recipient of active public shame by ann…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 03:14 AM
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This has been posted before but that line about a ‘skills gap’. It’s amazing how many arguments, complaints, and criticisms of men (in and out of marriage and no matter their history, intelligence or level of achievement) boil down to: ‘Improve yourself, you are not working hard enough.’
/r/MensRights15/08/22 06:44 PM
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Now, now, let’s be fair; that’s 90% of all professors.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 10:07 PM
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Last I checked Jordan Peterson strenuously advocated for marriage and children. He’s often said ‘life looks pretty bleak if you make it to 50 without kids’. So… hard to be MGTOW saying things like that. Personally I’m married with kids but I very much understand the motivation and reasoning. As for Peterson. I like him overall but I think his reasoning gets twisty sometimes and he’s relying on the same research for everything too much. There’s only so far you can stretch some of that and he’s ig…
/r/MensRights09/08/22 01:15 PM
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When we first got married my wife tried the ‘sexual favor thing’ but not delivering with promises and she also tried the bartering thing. I followed along at first but it didn’t take long for me to realize was it a raw deal and too many false promises were being made and that it was a demeaning. Now I didn’t handle it as calmly as I should have; we started fighting more and eventually I got mad and screamed at her about making false promises and how wrong it was that she was trying to trade for …
/r/MensRights07/08/22 07:34 PM
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This is what we were commenting on a few days ago. You are divorced by your wife. She (seemingly) gets the lions share of your liquid assets but is still doing poorly and probably resents you and is probably saying how ‘unfair’ it is you are doing well. What no one tells these women, and many don’t seem to figure out for themselves, is that they took two incomes and separated them. What was one big pie is now a little pie and a bigger one. They may get half or more of yours but the half you stil…
/r/MensRights05/08/22 03:27 AM
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You wound me by calling it ‘old’… The Marshal Mathers LP just came out last week right? That’s what it feels like to me.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 02:26 AM
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Its just like how the definition of fascism changed a number of years ago from ‘a totalitarian form of government usually controlled by a dictator and not allowing for dissent or disagreement.’ To ‘an extreme right-wing form of government.’ Hitler was fascist. He was also a socialist. Most importantly he wanted total control and didn’t really care how he got it.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 09:38 PM
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Well the study is correct, after a fashion, but it doesn’t take into account all variables. Let’s say your a 40yo man who gets divorced. Pre-divorce you made $90,000 a year and your wife made $40,000. Total that’s $130,000.00 a year. You have two kids. Out of that pot you and she pay all the bills and have some left for leisure. Over the years you built-up assets. Hard assets such as the house and cars and soft assets such as clothing and furniture. You’ve also put the sweat equity in by doing h…
/r/MensRights31/07/22 08:55 PM
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I can’t say much more than has already been said but I will say if your child’s birth was recent it can take a long time to get ‘back to normal’. There are all the usual things like exhaustion but have you also had a conversation and doctors visit about complications? With our first child it took a year for my wife to just be able to have sex without it being very painful. We weren’t even allowed for six months after but even then it was so painful she just couldn’t. It took several doctor visit…
/r/MensRights30/07/22 03:28 PM
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Are we sure this isn’t satire? I mean it’s a band named ‘The Muslims’ openly talking about hating straight males. Have they never met an actual Muslim? Are they trolling badly? It’s also funny how ‘the system’ or ‘the man’ used to be government. Now that government bureaucracy is mostly left and far-left leaning they transitioned to us run-of-the mill regular ‘straight white males’. I wonder who it will be in another 60 years?
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:41 PM
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You certainly get judged in school as a child and young adult and I’d say men get the harsher of it because it’s harder for us to think about the social implications first before sharing a passion. Girls think about that constantly since that’s how they interact. But I don’t know that this is that extensive once you’re out of school and in a job as an adult. It’s less likely people will care and most people either learn moderation or are forced into it by finances, space and demands of career an…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 02:29 AM
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But the numerous comments painting all males as perpetrators are. One in particular, that is awarded, basically goes on and on along the line that ‘this is not ‘our’ problem, men just need to step-up and solve it themselves’. As if this is a ‘only you’ problem that all men are going to suddenly rise up and solve on their own. Maybe we should; our other halves certainly don’t give a shit to help out with much, unless they directly benefit, anymore.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 07:24 PM
2

Our girl was dared to hit a boy in the balls at camp one summer. It was unprovoked and this kid was just lying there in the sun waiting for his parents. She did not like the results when she had two weeks of grounding, a spanking, no treats and had to write a written apology she was forced to read to him in front of other campers.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:39 PM
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This is going to sound a bit strange but it’s not just boys who are hurt by these policies and expectations. Both our girls are ADHD to varying degrees and they also have problems staying engaged with subjects they don’t like or sitting still. They are not as destructive as boys tend to be but otherwise are also loud and energetic can be wildly moody and will not try at something if uninterested. As early as two we have gotten phone calls and reports about our ‘misbehaving’ children who won’t si…
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:30 PM
1

I’m an Architect and spend a lot of time on job sites. In the US there are actually a lot more women in construction than that statistic would lead you to believe (nor do I think it is accurate at all). First, there are many contractors now owned by women. It’s mostly so they can apply for minority status so they can work on government jobs. Some of them are great and involved; some are ‘in name only’. I know what your going to say. ‘How can that be legal, it’s discriminatory?’ It is discriminat…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:38 AM
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Hmm… that whole ‘keep it in your pants or use a condom’ thing doesn’t sound so good now does it. Welcome to the club ladies. Keep your fly zipped or use one of your many forms of birth control.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:34 AM
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Hmm, that percentage explains all the wildly inaccurate and strange portrayals of males in anime then. And possibly the obsessive focus on ‘feminine’ males that look like they belong in a boy band. Of course we have them too which can be found if you read Fan Fiction and all the female authors obsessed with gender bent versions or making hereto characters gay. And they say men are obsessed with lesbians…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 05:55 PM
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Maybe I just haven’t been informed enough but I am still struggling to understand how these things are not passed off to the actual police for a full due process investigation and trial as they would be in the rest of society. Aren’t most of these accusations actual violations of law (if they actually happen)? Menacing, assault, rape, etc. are all actual criminal offenses last I checked. Shouldn’t administrators be handing these to the police and washing their hands of the liability of being jud…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 05:45 PM
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With the many ways a could be a prank could turn ugly fast I’m surprised they want to take on the legal liability. There are so many scenarios that could leave a man exposed, even if in good fun with no I’ll intent and even if through mesh or panels he’s holding up. Any one of them could lead to a situation in which he’s charged with indecent exposure and ends up on the registry.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 04:28 PM
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This is true and were the circumstances similar that would be a very valid point. However there are a few mitigating factors to consider. In many of those cases the women are ‘trusted adults’, often teachers or bosses at part time jobs. He was not, nor tried to be at a place that put him in contact with school age children. She was, according to her own account, at an ‘adult only establishment’, a bar with the intent to be served as an adult. She admitted to having a fake ID, proving her intent …
/r/MensRights22/06/22 06:26 PM
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Just to be clear ‘The Girl Next Door’ is not a Netflix produced movie. It came out 2004 and was a box office release. Long before Netflix produced their own content (which was 2013). It’s still another mark in the ‘double standards’ category of media but doesn’t speak to any bias on Netflix produced shows.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 03:15 AM
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That’s is asinine ‘partner’ thing that has swept all media lately. My wife likes calling me her husband and I like calling her my wife. You can call your significant other what you want; just don’t tell me what I ‘need’ to do.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 02:42 AM
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I’m still unclear as to why different pronouns are preferred. Wouldn’t the ultimate goal of trans person be to become the opposite gender? To in every way be identified as the way they ‘feel’ so that no one should or would question that? If them being their ‘assigned gender’ and needing to change that is causing trauma wouldn’t demanding the use of a different pronoun and announcing it to the world prolong that trauma and cause it to be magnified?
/r/MensRights20/06/22 02:22 AM
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And why do we need that? The same media that’s now telling us that we ‘need more people’ is also the same media that says ‘too many people are killing the earth’ and that all of our jobs will be replaced by AI and robots in the near future. So which is it? We need people or we have too many?
/r/MensRights18/06/22 03:44 AM
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This is something is I’ve said for years. I even had a female coworker once who would get so mad about it (every time too) that she would come out and announce that the lid was up and blame someone. We all started putting the lid totally down. She didn’t like that either but couldn’t complain. My wife and I have also have had this argument often. Her argument is that at night she doesn’t want to turn on a light thereby waking herself more and if it’s down she ‘doesn’t need to see’. I’ve pointed …
/r/MensRights09/06/22 02:00 PM
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Where the heck do you work, a feminist convent? Somebody seriously has a chip on their shoulder if you got written-up for ordering a 9” Sausage Pizza at a Pizza place… that’s just twilight zone stuff.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 02:25 AM
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You know I would be interested to know are there any legitimate cases in which a step mother or girlfriend has been forced to pay child support. It happens to men that take on a ‘fatherly role’ what about women they take on a ‘motherly role’?
/r/MensRights21/05/22 02:50 PM
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What is going on at this school? You got multiple teachers arrested for the same stuff…
/r/MensRights21/05/22 02:20 PM
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I concur on the second fiddle thing. You should have seen the face of the nurse when I signed my older child’s paperwork instead of my wife in the hospital. She’d come by twice and had timed it while my wife was in with the doctor first and then in a lot of pain in the restroom second. She clearly was anxious to get it signed so I just asked ‘Am I allowed to sign it?’ It took her 10min and a call to ask before she let me and looked like she sucked a lemon when it was done. It was just two signat…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 03:16 AM
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Look again, most of those were deleted by mods and bots for being ‘off topic’.
/r/MensRights08/05/22 02:09 PM
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Don’t forget, later she, or other women, will ask / complain why he can’t open up and share his feelings.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 10:21 PM
1

You know this is an interesting thing. I would think trans people would not want to ever have to identify themselves as such worry about pronouns or explaining. That the ultimate goal would be to be the gender to which you aspire to be, assumptions and all and not have to field questions about it. By having to fragrantly announce it seems counter productive and, a bit, smacks of a ‘look at me’ mentality.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 02:48 PM
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I’d be interested to read that, link?
/r/MensRights02/04/22 01:02 AM
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Interestingly I had a scoutmaster long ago tell me that the phrase ‘man up’ was not meant to convey that we should not have or display emotions but that it was the rebuke men use to say to one another ‘now that you feel this what are you going to do with it and about it?’ Thus he would say something like: ‘Man up, get going, and use that to accomplish something because crying never solved anything.’ I don’t think that’s what everybody who says it means but it’s always been a helpful thought to m…
/r/MensRights23/03/22 04:24 AM
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She who wields the dollar wields a mighty stick… and since women control 80% of the average family / couples purchasing decisions there you have it. Perhaps more subtle control but control no-less.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 03:53 AM
2

What an odd worldview. You’re far left economically, so a communist, but a middle of the road social person. Normally I’ve heard this the other way around. Advocating for fiscal responsibility and smaller government while advocating for government controls on things like pollution and abortion choice. I’m not sure things are viable in that fashion because to get tight government control you have to have for economic control means either a willing populace or a controlled populace. That’s usually…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 01:56 AM
1

Same could be said for Encanto as well… if you’ve seen that.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 03:27 PM
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Yup. They will tell you you get ‘brownie points’ and ‘if only you did more we would have sex more, I would be happier’. Bullshit. All of it is bullshit. I do most of the chores, half the cooking and most of the cleaning and half the childcare. She even agrees we have split things ‘evenly’ and we both work full time. None of it matters. None of it makes her anymore amorous, none of it makes her happier or sleep better. I don’t get to slide on something just because I let her have the afternoon of…
/r/MensRights15/03/22 04:39 AM
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Not necessarily even that. There was also a recent study that said that only 30% of the male population accounts for all of modern DNA which means that 70% of males never got to reproduce or didn’t produce viable offspring.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 04:17 PM
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He’s also still on the sex offender registry in NY. What the hell? He was exonerated, spent 16 in prison for something he didn’t do AND now he can’t get off the registry. That’s disgusting.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 03:35 PM
1

Besides comments in forums like this there is precious little out there about the female version. Are there these people, sure, but I don’t know enough about them to make any statements. My point is that making a blanket statement about ‘incels’ saying they are more prone to something so out of the norm of normal human behaviors that the percentage of individual involvement from any group they might belong to is infinitely small and is neither helpful, enlightening or useful. I was once an avid …
/r/MensRights21/02/22 01:05 AM
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That’s interesting but I wonder how hard you’d have to look to find a surrogate. I’d imagine most of those women interested in helping a man are mostly in it for the gay community.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 05:06 AM
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People with mental health problems commit mass murders. Being an incel doesn’t mean you are automatically mentally unstable. I’d wager a good portion have struggles or develop mental health problems over time and isolation. However, as many have noted before, correlation does not equal causation. Just because you are an incel doesn’t mean you will commit a mass murder or that the average incel does. That community really needs compassion and help more than they need further hatred, snide comment…
/r/MensRights20/02/22 04:51 AM
1

Canadians should have nothing to do with enacted laws in a different country and state. The elections were public and fair and the law was passed with a state constitutional amendment passed by the majority of the electorate. Residents of the state who disagree, and there are many, were welcome to vote as much as any other. Keep in mind this isn’t a presidential election so the votes tallied are 1 to 1 and there is no electoral college for constitutional amendments in Alabama. You want to be unh…
/r/MensRights18/02/22 05:31 PM
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Why are there none? To be blunt: because men are generally realistic. I’m overweight. I own a mirror and can see it. I’m not happy about it but it’s my fault and I don’t do enough to correct it. I don’t need somebody saying that it is ok because I know that I’m at risk for all sorts extra problems and that I’m less attractive. I know the reality and I don’t need someone to wispier sweet nothings about something that is clearly, in the long run, damaging and mostly my fault. It’s the same reason …
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:43 AM
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Don’t forget he was also gay. Probably was dragged in as the ‘gay best friend’ and, wrongly, felt like asking wasn’t ‘out of line’. Clearly even being gay is now no longer a protection. If you have male equipment you are fair game, actual interest or not.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 09:35 PM
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Hmm. Strange. I guess that’s a local or individual doctor thing. I was asked quite forcefully if we were sure we were done having kids and if I was being coerced into it. Other than that it never came up again.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 05:54 PM
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This distresses me very much as an Eagle and a friend of more than a few life long scouters who now work professionally with the BSA. Scouts was a very big part of my childhood. I am not an athletic male; my pudgy, socially awkward self made it nearly impossible to find acceptance even as a friend of that crowd. But Scouts offered lifelong friends, a wide range of life experiences, and strong, faith filled, and humble men leaders on which I could rely as well as bonding opportunities with my own…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 05:35 AM
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Exactly. Here is the actual story: https://amp.azcentral.com/amp/14951737 And the mentions in the article of other cases, if you dig are much, much worse. A 17year old with a 12 year old. She was CONVICTED of rape. The state still went after him, and not even once he was of age. If I recall right he was 15 when he stared paying BACK child support. Back child support from when the baby was born and he was 13. Can you imagine telling your high school fiends. ‘No guys I can’t afford sr trip or coll…
/r/MensRights07/02/22 06:39 AM
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It’s crazy and scary how much is redirected and censored in search. Try searching for ‘male rape victim forced to pay child support’ on Google or here. You’ll get nearly nothing and what you do find is about female Justice. I mention this because I read a current article about this very topic a couple of months ago. I mentioned it to a friend who couldn’t believe that a victim who was underage and didn’t even know he had a kid could be forced into massive debt this way. The article even referenc…
/r/MensRights07/02/22 04:56 AM
1

This is not going to be popular (or on the internet in general) but have you considered your relationship with your faith and belief system? As I have started to come into middle-age my belief system has became much more important to me and the more I involve myself the more I understand about myself and the nature of happiness. More importantly I understand we, as a species do not do well trying to ‘generate’ happiness and fulfillment from our lives. They are not something you are handed, or ca…
/r/MensRights07/02/22 04:33 AM
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First, here’s a link for a more local news source than ‘fingerlakes1’. https://www.al.com/news/2022/01/birmingham-pilot-program-will-guarantee-375-monthly-for-single-moms-heres-when-to-apply.html Second, they’ve flown this under the radar in a major way locally because the city is broke, the county is broke, both have been and are being sued for corruption in multiple ways and it’s a very open secret that multiple mayors (including this one) and hangers on have been on the take for years. So I’m…
/r/MensRights05/02/22 04:15 AM
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This. I am not and life would be easier if I was. I gave getting the surgery very serious thought when I got out of college and my own medical plan. I spoke with a number of doctors and did a bunch of Reseach. It’s a much more risky procedure once you are an adult and the benefits drop after the teenage years. It’s similar to tonsil removal in some ways in a risk sense. Generally I hated being ‘different’ in the locker room and the ‘giggles’ I would get from girls. That was less of an issue as I…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 02:25 PM
2

My wife thinks I’m lazy because I like to sleep late and pickup my socks with my feet instead of bending over. Doing all of the yard work, 50-60hour work weeks, doing most of the cleaning, 3/4 of the cooking, taking care of all home and car repairs, paying the bills and helping at least half of all the kid stuff (diapers, lunches, baths, putting to bed, getting up, doctors appointments, cleaning, homework, etc.). All of those things that cause me to stay up late just to get one hour by myself to…
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:36 PM
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Pretty sure that’s rape. Don’t get me wrong. I’d be chuffed if my wife woke me by climbing on top but the rest.. not so much.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:24 PM
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He got lucky then. They are NOT meant to be reversible and the longer you go the less chance it can be reversed. The doctor was very clear about this when I got mine and I did the research prior to the procedure.
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:17 PM
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