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1

This shit is class. Rock on bro
/r/askTRP29/10/20 04:49 AM
2

Buh bye
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:11 AM
8

Don’t go see her man. Forget and move on
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:24 AM
16

Her life, her problems. Send anonymous flowers: “Feel better you triflin’ bitch”
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:09 AM
1

Amazing
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:05 AM
3

Scarcity mentality. Try focusing on yourself
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:03 AM
22

One can have different goals at different points in life. Constant focus on “her actions” inhibits personal progress. You and I agree that she will branch swing—transcendence is accepting that fact and staying true to what’s best for me. Not sure what you’re so angry about
/r/askTRP24/04/20 04:02 AM
8

Because they like to try to feel once in awhile too
/r/askTRP22/04/20 07:31 AM
28

Any advice? Yeah. You are convoluting a bunch of NON-issues into one fucking mess of an anxiety-ridden post. No one is judging you. Absolutely no one can think beyond themselves to even begin to consider what’s going on in your life. Turn the focus inward—quit worrying about anyone else. You’re 6’4”. You don’t know it yet, but you’ve already won. We live in car culture. Not having one doesn’t make you an exile. Get a bike and turn your commute into fitness. Get off Tinder and talk to some girls …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:08 AM
1

You laugh and say, “Haha totally.”
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:58 AM
6

Depends on the amount of alcohol. If stopping alcohol causes you physical symptoms (shakes, sweats, nausea), going cold turkey could kill you. Please detox with the help of a doctor
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:58 AM
3

I’d say quit being a dumbass and find new girls
/r/askTRP17/04/20 08:53 AM
2

Do NOT ask. Be easy and stfu. By everything you’ve written here she enjoyed herself and will get in touch
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:52 AM
3

Your excuses, not mine
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:42 AM
1

100% this
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:08 AM
4

It’s very convenient You’re too comfortable. At 22 you need to be out living free and easy, spreading seed, not tied to some chick because she makes you mac and cheese. Next
/r/askTRP11/03/20 04:05 AM
3

Well there’s your problem. Smash more, less porn
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:57 AM
0

Do you want to see her again? Let her know. Do you not? Then don’t. Don’t make it hard
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:56 AM
1

That’s two people you’ve asked. That’s oneitis. Forget her. You sound like you know what you’re doing: So approach and polarize
/r/askTRP11/03/20 03:54 AM
1

So give her a nickname
/r/askTRP10/03/20 04:05 AM
1

“No worries”
/r/askTRP08/03/20 05:50 AM
2

"Lucky you"
/r/askTRP08/03/20 12:44 AM
18

This is exactly the type of guy who has an asymptomatic STD
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:58 PM
26

Don’t fall in love with a garden tool
/r/askTRP04/01/20 05:18 AM
5

The most baller thing you could do is insist you're still a virgin
/r/askTRP08/12/19 05:49 AM
97

Exactly. No reason to resent them for it or be upset, that’s just how it goes. Work hard, take risks, succeed in your mission, and you’ll be much more satisfied overall
/r/askTRP02/11/19 02:54 PM
1

Turn the focus inward and work on yourself
/r/askTRP24/10/19 03:35 AM
1

You lost. You gave an ultimatum. She should understand implicitly that lying means the end of you two. Saying it out loud screams, “I’m scrambling to have some power in this relationship.” And why get into that conversation anyway? It’s lose-lose. No one wants to see how the chicken nuggets are made, just like no one wants to know why someone is good in the bedroom. Yes, you’re right, her count is probably much higher. If that’s a problem for you, leave. Don’t bait the poor girl into lying and t…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:19 PM
1

It’s the talk, just in a softball kind of way. She gave you a shot over the bow—next time it will be a little more pointed, a little more aggressive. When it does inevitably become aggressive, I’ve always erred on the side of honesty (Yes, I’m seeing other people. No, I don’t give out exclusivity). Girls that stick around appreciate it
/r/askTRP16/10/19 03:07 AM
1

Lol have him wing for you. He can’t leave with more than a couple each night anyway. Let them bounce off him and try their luck with you instead
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:31 AM
1

You’re already exhausting and I’ve been on reddit for ten minutes tonight. Maybe provide links to relevant reads if you’re going to try and contribute. Otherwise go away and actually use your infinite knowledge of women
/r/askTRP24/09/19 03:50 AM
1

Marry her and raise those kids man. It’s the true love thing to do
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:30 AM
1

I’m not marrying these hoes. Their poor impulse control is great for me. Quit being an old man about it
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:32 PM
1

Decreased ability to pair bond? Feeling empty? Not that I have a conscience or anything when it comes to sex, but ONS always left me feeling like shit
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 05:18 AM
1

First, INFP, and allow me to retort: TRP doesnt apply Bullshit. TRP is a success strategy for life, not just chicks. TRP always applies. TRP is not “tricks.” TRP is finding satisfaction in yourself, building success, and the rest of life falling into place, pussy included. You’re young and naive. You’re not comfortable in your own skin yet. You need to talk to 10,000 people so that you become okay with silence. You need “conversation threading.” You need to hit the gym and feel the swole in your…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 03:59 AM
1

Should probably propose to her since she’s got you by the balls anyway
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:42 AM
1

Based on what you’ve written here, you (1) Are never going to get in her pants, and (2) Have a long way to go. Stop responding to her, read the sidebar, hit the gym
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:27 AM
3

Lip gloss, hair ties, underwear, rings, earrings, necklaces, belly button rings, glasses, IDs, coats, sweatshirts, hats, ... Whatever they’ve got on hand, basically.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:01 AM
1

I’m cracking myself up thinking about going to the gym for one exercise and then leaving. How many reps
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:21 PM
1

Please don’t take your scabies to the gym.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:15 AM
1

The only way to win is not to play. I wouldn’t even respond
/r/askTRP26/08/19 03:24 AM
1

This is called a shit test. You should read the sidebar
/r/askTRP26/08/19 01:45 AM
1

That’s not in line with current recommendations. Do you have a source?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/19 01:27 AM
1

... You’re engaged. Presumably that means you’ve found your “one,” so not sure why some girl from your past is making your head spin. You definitely skipped the sidebar. No advice for you. Good luck with all your big decisions
/r/askTRP18/08/19 12:57 PM
1

Words are not the message. You can say you’re seeing other girls, but neither she, nor I (nor you, apparently) believe it. You’re actually broadcasting “I have no other girls,” and you’re a liar. You are all bark and no bite.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:38 AM
1

Dodged my question, pussy. Your behavior screams “There’s only one girl in the whole world that pays attention to me.” If I can read it through text, she can read it interacting with you. That’s why she shit-tested you. It was a ‘safe’ move on her part, and she already knew the outcome: You’d cave. You’re getting caught up in “the right thing to say,” when you need to become your own man, so that “whatever you say is the right thing.” So forget about this bitch for a week or two, go hit the gym …
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:33 AM
1

When you told her you were seeing other women, were you lying? If you were, then you need to make good on that and go find other women. If no, you need to go see those other women.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 04:21 AM
1

cut out ... weed, WTF Says the guy shopping for drugs on the internet
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:39 AM
1

I was saying you’re right, the hands have muscles, and like your arms have muscles named biceps and triceps and anconeus, your hands have muscles called lumbricals
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:40 AM
1

They’re called “lumbricals”
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:33 AM
1

You think too much. Write back, meet up, put it in her
/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:52 AM
1

You’re orbiting. Try caring less
/r/askTRP27/07/19 02:47 AM
1

*Devil's advocate: She's a highly desirable woman to many men, and he has what she's looking for. She's post-wall and wants to settle down. So does he. Is this really that bad? If a girl I was considering for an LTR had to sit down with all my prior fucks, she'd laugh in my face. There are uggos, big ones, small misshapen ones, a bunch of weirdos... A veritable trail of destruction. I'm just saying, if the tables were turned, and it was me, a high n-count male looking to settle with a "simple" g…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:48 AM
1

They will give a bluepill ... strategy therapy is not affordable These are excuses. I am suicidal This is an issue that needs treatment. I don't want to hear from some shrink And that's your choice, but be aware that with "asktrp therapy" you get what you pay for. Best of luck to you
/r/askTRP30/06/19 04:47 PM
1

Why ask if you don’t want the answer. BD necessitates therapy. Put yourself first and take care of it
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:58 PM
3

Girls want to be led, because they know they have no fucking clue what they want. Don’t deny them that.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:19 AM
1

Don’t go into pharmacy. If you want to be in medicine, be a PA: Prestige, good pay, even better hours.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 06:15 PM
1

This right here, OP. You’ve already made up a future for yourselves in your head which is silly. Personal anecdote: I recently experienced “complete incompatibility” in the bedroom. It was glaring. Glad I’m not spending any more time on her
/r/askTRP29/06/19 11:12 AM
1

I’ll concede busy, but naming a day frees her to say, “Cant that day, but other day instead,” driving the interaction and screening all at the same time. Asking “Hey when are you free,” is being too available for my liking, but whatever works for you, I guess Maybe we can compromise on “Are you free Thursday or Friday?” A fork, if you will
/r/askTRP28/06/19 08:28 PM
4

Thereby firmly placing yourself in her frame. Be a man and pick a day. If she can't make it, her loss
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:16 PM
1

You're too concerned with your performance. It tends to exacerbate with the same chick because, "I want to show her that last time wasn't me." Downward spiral. Not a lot to do about it except game other girls and build self-confidence. And relax about it. This isn't some "BAD FUCK" brand you have to carry for life. Also go to the gym.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:11 PM
14

Exactly. Why complicate things? It's as simple and straightforward as you've said here. Dress well, feel good, get good feedback.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:59 PM
1

Completely normal. A job will bring purpose, but in the meantime focus on new hobbies—stuff you always wanted to do but schooling got in the way. At 26 I hadn’t found my career, and was only beginning to develop my most cherished interests. And get used to going it alone. Friends come and go: they get married, have kids, disappear. Learn to be depend on yourself, since you will remain the only constant in your life.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 12:32 AM
1

You’re bitter because she has other dudes, while you have no other options. Find yourself other options. And hit the gym. You sound like you haven’t been around one in quite awhile
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:28 AM
1

sarcasm Then you don’t have permission to attempt sarcasm anymore. You text for logistics only, nothing else. Otherwise we can’t help your big mouth and nice guy attitude
/r/askTRP12/06/19 06:47 AM
6

You go meet other girls
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:45 PM
1

Lol, bruh relax. So you bit off more than you can chew. Just remember this for next time. Definitions of “side chick vs. fwb vs. plate” won’t help you now, that’s logic, and it doesn’t work for women. Fighting it will only make it worse. All you can do is ride the wave, hold frame and let hoes ho
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:13 PM
1

recently found out You said it yourself. The rules of engagement have changed. So if you don’t want to cut her out, wait and see. This will be a good learning experience for you. And don’t go out without a fight, but be ready to lose both of them, because you might
/r/askTRP11/06/19 06:02 PM
1

No positives listed there. Sounds like you want to break up. Spare asking her anything, spare her the “reasons why” and just end it
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:11 AM
1

Some ho from your girlfriends past got in your head Come on man. Why do you care
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:04 AM
1

5 weeks? She’s moving you to orbit. Move on
/r/askTRP06/06/19 05:32 AM
1

Now you’re just splitting hairs
/r/TheRedPill03/06/19 05:10 PM
1

I love it. Facts, then on the back end: Fear mongering and shame. Glad you’re not my doctor
/r/askTRP02/06/19 07:24 PM
1

HSV1 on his genitals. HSV1 was classically associated with the lips (cold sores), while HSV2 was classically associated with the genitals. There’s been so much crossover to date that it’s a complete wash. Both serotypes infect both locations.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 05:09 AM
1

No, there isn’t. Both serotypes infect both locations.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 05:07 AM
1

You waited eight months and asked for her number on her last day. To continue orbiting, I guess? Maybe go find her on instagram, follow and like all her pics for the next three years too. No wonder she gave you a funny look.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:55 AM
1

“Let’s get together on Friday night and watch a movie.” Hang out. Escalate. Put it in her. At 17 everything seemed so difficult, but it’s really not. She knows what you want, because she wants it too. Don’t try so hard. Be easy. Chicks dig that
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:15 AM
1

Huh, shoulda read the sidebar. Shucks
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:35 AM
1

When* Go meet other ones in the meantime
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:03 AM
1

Reciprocate 2/3. It works
/r/askTRP27/05/19 03:45 AM
1

Roughly 3-4 days for symptom control, but you’ll be contagious for a week. Quit wishing that it’s not Chlamydia, because it most certainly is. Dysuria ten days after unprotected sexual encounter with unknown-status partner? It’s pretty slam dunk, even if the urine test comes back clear (which it might, since you saw the doc early on). As far as “morality,” the only way to a clear conscience is full honesty. Maybe try “Hey I caught a bug, I’m taking pills. Condom is safe tho.” Let her make the de…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 04:52 AM
7

They make thin ones? But yeah, you’re right. Just quit and live in a basement for the next forty years. Goddamn cry about it
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 10:45 PM
7

Condoms are not an option Any advice? Yeah. Wear a rubber fool. Unless you’re with some girl whose activities you’re absolutely certain of (which, at 19, you shouldn’t be, and truthfully, probably never can be regardless of age). STDs are no joke. Chlamydia seems harmless until you learn about Reactive arthritis that can haunt you for life. HPV is a fast road to penile cancer. Syphilis—if you miss the initial, painless lesion—can lead to neurodegeneration and lifelong disability. Why screw aroun…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:22 PM
1

Here we go again: Guy looks for love on Tinder, gets burnt. More at 11! Come on, man. You banged. That’s better than like 83% of the dudes in this sub. Why you gotta get all “oh my god but we’re meant for each other!” With this mentality, you’ve already lost! She’s already controlling you! Wake up bro
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:37 AM
2

“Damnit this isn’t my email”
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:31 AM
1

In med school and I just realized I need a vasectomy pronto
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 03:26 AM
3

Ah, perfect. Just what we need: More of you.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 03:25 AM
1

My n-count is much lower Your problem isn’t with her. Your problem is with yourself and your insecurity is palpable
/r/askTRP18/05/19 04:33 AM
1

My n-count is much lower Your problem isn’t with her. Your problem is with yourself
/r/askTRP18/05/19 04:25 AM
1

My n-count is much lower Your problem isn’t with her. Your problem is with yourself
/r/askTRP18/05/19 04:25 AM
1

My n-count is much lower Your problem isn’t with her. Your problem is with yourself Comparison is the thief of joy
/r/askTRP18/05/19 04:25 AM
1

My n-count is much lower Your problem isn’t with her. Your problem is with yourself
/r/askTRP18/05/19 04:25 AM
1

My n-count is much lower Your problem isn’t with her. Your problem is with yourself Comparison is the thief of joy
/r/askTRP18/05/19 04:23 AM
1

My n-count is much lower Your problem isn’t with her. Your problem is with yourself Comparison is the thief of joy
/r/askTRP18/05/19 04:22 AM
1

I get so tired of reading this woe-is-me shit on trp everyday. I’ll pose a question (it’s rhetorical, which means “don’t answer, think about it”): What would you do if you knew you could not fail? And then go do that. Life is too damn short to piss it away with your pity party
/r/askTRP17/05/19 09:32 PM
39

Just jealous you can’t do a backflip
/r/askTRP17/05/19 09:23 PM
1

Cmon dude. Too easy You’re infatuated because she’s got “bro-y” qualities and consequently isn’t like other girls, so hanging with her is easy. She’s non-committal because she’s not certain she’s straight I don’t think I would bring it up since it doesn’t change anything, except enlightens you. But I noticed you conveniently ignored “Do you have other girls,” yesterday. I think you’re putting too many eggs in this basket. Combined with the fact that you brought up the talk... man, you’re gonna g…
/r/askTRP17/05/19 05:17 PM
9

Tell her you’re done. No reasons, no explanations. Lots of other girls out there
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:58 AM
3

Great news! There’s 4 billion other ones
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:49 AM
1

Wait wait wait. I reread your OP. She has one really close female friend, hangs out with older women, and works out excessively? Bro, you might be the side stick in a lesbian relationship.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 11:17 PM
1

Since you’re so sure (I’m not), I guess I’d wonder what it is about you that she doesn’t want. At 26, women generally are: Wanting to get married. So why doesn’t she want to lock you down? Considering children. Has she hinted interest in them before and you balked? Why isn’t she pushing for bareback, or poking holes in your condoms? Embarking on a career. Is she planning a physical move? Self-confident. Does she have a terribly low opinion of herself and thinks a relationship is going to fail? A…
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:44 PM
1

There’s always other dudes
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:28 PM
1

She’s got other dudes and you caught feelings. You could stfu and keep sleeping with her, or keep opening your mouth and watch her disappear. She’s dreading you, lmao
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:21 PM
1

Oh come off it like you’re some psychoanalyst. This is reddit for fuck’s sake
/r/askTRP16/05/19 10:14 PM
1

I’m sure you’re gainfully employed, but I have this inkling you’d do well in psychology.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:20 AM
1

And the real issue comes out. If you hate yourself, how can you expect anyone else to like you?
/r/askTRP15/05/19 02:44 AM
1

You need a job and purpose. The fact that you’re 30 and still waiting for women to make you worthwhile is pitiful
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:55 AM
1

Do yourself a favor and get tested, please. Some shit can lie quiet for a long time
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:09 AM
1

Exactly. Game other girls
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:06 AM
1

That’s called rationalizing, and it’s something women do. The only answer here is quit the focus on women and turn the focus inward. Work on yourself
/r/askTRP27/04/19 08:11 PM
2

It comes down to not caring if you work out or not
/r/askTRP27/04/19 06:19 AM
4

Yeah sounds like if you could just fix those eyes you’ll conquer the world
/r/askTRP27/04/19 02:16 AM
3

This is poetry bro. Props
/r/askTRP27/04/19 01:58 AM
6

Don’t sweat it homie. Plenty of life ahead of you. This is not even a blip on the radar
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:08 AM
1

“Lol nah” maybe? I think “No” was fine. This chick wants to use you as a meal ticket. Avoid as much as possible.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 04:03 AM
5

She doesn’t like you. Move on
/r/askTRP18/04/19 12:07 PM
1

Inappropriate in this situation. Move on and game other chicks. If she likes you, she’ll get in touch
/r/askTRP17/04/19 12:07 PM
4

There’s no evidence it does anything beneficial, but there’s likely no harm in taking up to 4000IU of D3 a day. Anecdotally, I feel it makes me a happier person, and I recommend it to my friends a lot.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 12:03 PM
5

If you’re happy orbiting, sure. But why? Snap is boring. Girls think it makes them interesting. To me it just outs them as basic.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:55 AM
1

Well, it's not super encouraging^[1]. The takeaway should be: If kids are still on the table for you, don't mess with your stones at all.
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:50 PM
2

It’s not funny, it’s try-hard
/r/askTRP07/04/19 02:02 AM
51

You put yourself first. Always. Your career is second. She is a distant third. You never say “I love you” first. You withhold attention when she isn’t doing something to please you. You have other options. Actively explore these other options. Don’t be a pushover. Don’t be a provider. Say no. Treat her like a child. It is simple. This is “dread,” and it is all available on the sidebar. I don’t know where it’s from, and I’m too busy to search, but “she must never feel as though she ‘has’ you.”
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 05:48 PM
12

You’re not getting a lot of help here and that’s frustrating. It’s natural to grieve a loss. You may experience a lot of different emotions: I would lookup and be familiar with the Kubler-Ross Model and understand that you may experience some, all, or none of those feelings and in any order. It may take a long time to feel over it, and that’s okay. You may think you’re progressing and find yourself back at square one. That’s okay too. I would encourage you to seek talk therapy if you feel it wou…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 10:18 AM
1

Lol, nice, but I think it should be restated: Explicit. Doesn’t. Work. Women need implication, need to wonder. It’s akin to putting an unwrapped present under the tree—where’s the fun in that?
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:05 AM
1

You can literally just say, Okay sure guy
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:39 AM
10

I’m with you. Pussy is plentiful. Quit acting like you’re starving
/r/askTRP01/04/19 04:24 AM
5

She sounds unstable man. You dodged a bullet
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:39 AM
3

Don’t you guys get it? She’s either a “fuck yes” or a “no.” If you propose a date/time and she ‘can’t’ and doesn’t counter, she’s not interested. You’re a man, act like one. Or at least try to appear like you have other stuff going on. Your text says, “I’ll bend to whatever schedule you have”
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:14 PM
2

First: Don’t ask, tell. Your “giving options” steps firmly into her frame, and paints you as the guy who’s willing to wait on her. Why? Because you literally have nothing else going on. Second: You can propose another day if you like, but the outcome isn’t going to change. Truly the best response is, “No worries.” And go meet other chicks
/r/askTRP11/03/19 03:24 PM
1

/u/AwakenedSovereign See what I mean
/r/askTRP07/03/19 07:51 AM
1

You said it yourself: Despite this I like him more because he’s more laid back
/r/askTRP06/03/19 03:26 PM
2

A combination of two things: On your end: Dread. Intentional or otherwise On her end: Doesn’t think she can do better/Lack of confidence 2x/week The less you see her, the more you could be seeing other girls. That’s passive dread
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:25 AM
1

You say that all over this board like it means something, and yet there’s no actionable advice in it. Provide additional constructive criticism or stfu
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:38 PM
1

This cracks me up. Caverject is literally giving yourself shots in the dick, OP. But you do you
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:36 AM
3

You didn’t ever learn how to approach, so you die with the app
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:28 AM
13

Shit’s changed man. In her world you were slaying chicks on every side and she was winning just a part of your attention. Now you’re available, predictable, and you haven’t kept her guessing at all. She’s not ready for your providership, but she only knows how to describe that as “feeling not good enough.” She’ll either branch swing, or you’ll double down and buy her a ring. Probably both. There’s not much to do now except hit the gym
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:24 AM
3

I weep for the species Me too bro, but saving focus for those parts of my life I actually have control over has made all the difference in my mental wellbeing. Best wishes
/r/askTRP04/03/19 10:06 PM
5

Medical intervention begets risk. TRT is no exception: Erythrocytosis leading to hypertension, MI, stroke; progression of pre-existing, subclinical prostate cancer, etc. What’s the major risk of not undergoing TRT? If you have symptoms, get tested. If you have low T, get the treatment. Otherwise, I think this place becomes an echo chamber for young 20s males who are quick to blame testosterone for problems with psychological and societal origins, which I see as an extension of “victim culture” a…
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:07 PM
5

And in case you’re not being intentionally dumb: Yes, they’re lying to you. And if it makes you feel any better, they’re lying to themselves too
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:06 AM
5

Quit listening to the shit that comes out of their mouths. It’s not reality. You should be on the offensive. It’s not creepy, it’s going for what you want. Let her tell you no and quit disqualifying yourself
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:56 AM
1

I just thought it was funny to wander into a thread and see something I wrote earlier today being parroted by someone else. Must have made a big impact on you in the last eleven hours lol
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:38 AM
1

Interesting. Do you have any thoughts of your own on the matter
/r/askTRP04/03/19 06:32 AM
1

So don’t be exclusive with her. This is called “sunk cost fallacy.” You’re hurt because you feel you put in effort and “deserved more consideration.” This was your mistake. Women don’t owe you a thing, and it’s good you’ve learned this now
/r/askTRP04/03/19 05:05 AM
1

What commitment? You were seeing other women and she saw a dude once? So now you drop her because of... what exactly? What do you want from this poor girl? Sounds like you need to get your own shit in order
/r/askTRP04/03/19 04:38 AM
9

A word of caution: Life is short and then it’s over forever. Only you have control over what you do in that short time. When you’d like to quit living in perpetual regret, grow a pair and approach
/r/askTRP03/03/19 08:01 PM
16

It’s really too bad that you despise yourself. Successful people love themselves first. That’s the part you need to work on, not getting laid.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 05:44 PM
1

no saving You told her goodbye, yet today you’re still in contact. Just wanted to point that out
/r/askTRP02/03/19 06:39 AM
1

Just because you’re hopeless, doesn’t mean OP is
/r/askTRP27/02/19 01:56 AM
1

Bruh, uproach? Lmao
/r/askTRP27/02/19 01:55 AM
1

Since you’re now reformed, her family wants you to stick around and take responsibility for her. They are grooming you to be the provider. Get out as soon as you can
/r/askTRP26/02/19 05:06 AM
1

You didn’t get her a soft enough landing after her big branch swing, so she’s upset. Fuck that noise. Ignore. Laugh about it socially. Move on
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:53 AM
1

Do what you want, but I wouldn’t even waste my time with this crazy ho. Hard next Honestly bro, what is she bringing to your life, besides second-guessing yourself and wondering about “what she means?” Her demeanor screams low quality
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:40 AM
1

You’re a validation rag. Move on
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:37 AM
1

You take control of the situation by sleeping with other women and not participating. It’s funny: She’s trying to move you backwards to orbiter territory—even after fucking you—and you’re actually considering it! Which tells me you have zero other prospects. You’re being a doormat because she gave you access to her holiest-of-holies. Go find other girls
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:32 AM
4

Practice makes perfect
/r/askTRP26/02/19 04:26 AM
68

Who among us isn’t just playing a role? “Sidebar works” is proof enough for me
/r/askTRP25/02/19 04:58 AM
1

You’re totally right, man. In my thirties and more confident than ever
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:31 AM
1

You can’t recover from this with her. That’s ok. You’ll get over it
/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:17 AM
1

Don’t worry dude, there are like 3.5 billion girls out there, and only one of them saw this side of you. Time to be better and move on
/r/askTRP22/02/19 05:09 AM
1

If she wants to bang you she wants to bang you. If she doesn’t, she doesn’t. It’s funny how simple that sentence is, and yet so much of my day is spent thinking about which way she’s (they’re) leaning, and how I can get her (them) to lean towards “banging me”
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:37 AM
1

If they’re asking for dick I give it to them, otherwise ignore. No prob
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:32 AM
1

asking her if she was free Don’t ask, tell. You blantantly advertised how she was on your mind, and she hadn’t given you a second thought. You need to care less. I suggest you don’t put any more thought into a future response that will probably never come to fruition. You’re flirting with oneitis here and need more options
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:52 AM
1

This reeks of victim mentality. “Lithromantic” is some feminizing psychology bullshit. Quit reading Seventeen magazine and pull yourself together
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:46 AM
1

she opened it at like 1AM She was getting laid. You were advertising being home alone. Always strive to make plans a couple days in advance. Looking for something “same day” appears desperate. Yes, next. She may still get in touch tho, so be open to that
/r/askTRP18/02/19 01:37 AM
1

I believe my comment history stands for itself. Philosophy does play a part in the RP journey, but your attempt to derive new paradoxes about females from Nietzsche is at best, navel-gazing, and at worst, hinders the pursuit of self-improvement. There are plenty of males around here susceptible to such learned helplessness (“it doesn’t matter anyway so why try”), who would like nothing more than for you to provide excuses for them not to approach women. If you so badly want to help, you’d do wel…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:46 PM
1

According to the sexual attention I get, I am on women’s minds. Sounds like you need to read the sidebar and get a gym membership before you post
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:00 PM
1

Okay so don’t go. Not going to argue with you. You want to be a big boy and sleep with women? Then have the balls to deal with the consequences
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:24 AM
1

Not sure, but you could always request to pay cash and not go through insurance
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:19 AM
1

Azithromycin, actually, but I agree otherwise. OP, go see Planned Parenthood, pee in the cup, and be glad she felt comfortable enough to tell you at all
/r/askTRP16/02/19 01:14 AM
1

With 3 I was having sex every day, sometimes twice a day with two different plates Bingo. At some point (three to four) servicing plates becomes a full time job, and I’m not making any money on that shit. There’s more to life than lots of pussy. And I know you know this, but this is great time to hammer home the point
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:45 AM
1

Four is exhausting. I’ve tried it twice. Cannot stomach it for more than two weeks. Even three is tough, but I go to school full time, so that eats up a lot of my time. Plus, I get really tired of doing sheets. To your question: Approach. Be attractive. Relax. Don’t feel scarcity. Life is good. If you’re not spinning plates you should be working on yourself.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:38 AM
1

No worries. It will come back around again. I’m convinced testosterone has a cycle like any other hormone, but that we just haven’t learned to maximize it yet. When I’m on, I’m on. Girls be all up on my shit. IOIs across the room. The whole thing. When I’m off, can’t even get eye contact. When it’s not working for you, spend time working on yourself instead. Makes the times “on” that much more satisfying
/r/askTRP14/02/19 05:17 AM
1

I used to worry about missing out. Not anymore. I make my own fun. I used to envy others’ lives. For what? My life is great. I used to think other people had their shit together and were living to their full potential, now I know it’s just the “insta-face” people put forward. Behind the scenes people are simply insecure. It’s not real. Social media is to actually socializing as masturbating is to sex. (I’ll be honest: I keep a snap because girls love to send nudes, but) Once you separate entirel…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 05:00 AM
1

Best thing I ever did was drop all my social accounts. But I’m over 30 and in grad school and have cool shit going on that satisfies me for me. So maybe if you crave external approval then think twice about cutting your lifeline.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:07 AM
2

Aight. Bye There’s a zillion hot chicks out there
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:13 AM
1

Call her bluff by walking and not looking back.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:28 PM
1

I’m a psychiatrist in training No, you aren’t
/r/askTRP11/02/19 02:56 AM
1

You sack up and end it like the man you want to be. Yeah, it will suck, but not nearly as much as waiting and languishing in how much you want it to be over
/r/askTRP10/02/19 01:53 AM
5

This is a silly metric. She doesn’t count down upon meeting you. She counts down when she meets someone better
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 04:38 AM
1

So you’re an introvert. Me too. Do what works for you. If you can’t stomach going out, don’t.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 04:23 PM
1

You made the claim, so you’re responsible for backing it up. I won’t go proving your point for you. It’s never too late. For anything. You’ll probably figure that out on your deathbed though. Bummer
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:17 AM
1

What research? Cite your sources. I don’t believe you. Your cousin’s a doctor, huh? And he’s a defeatist prick, too? Must run in the family. You (different usernames, but obviously same dude) come here every week with some new shit about how you could never improve because it’s too late. I honestly feel really sorry for you. You really could improve yourself but your mental state will always hold you back. You need intensive psychiatric therapy. Good luck.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 04:09 AM
1

I’m a master at one night stands Look how gentlemanly you are, sparing her. Behold! This nice guy!
/r/askTRP05/02/19 10:21 PM
1

Fair. Problem is, some people on here are actually sick and receive some shit advice
/r/askTRP05/02/19 04:26 AM
1

That’s actually not the definition of MDD in the slightest. You’re trying to describe PTSD or Adjustment Disorder, but mashing them together. You’re not a doctor, don’t try to act like one
/r/askTRP05/02/19 04:14 AM
1

Ignore it is definitely the right answer. You’re a man. Don’t like it? Don’t deal with it.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 04:03 AM
17

I’d take it as, “Thanks for having the balls to ask, most guys don’t.” She probably has a lot more respect for you now. And your response should be, “No worries. See you around.”
/r/askTRP02/02/19 08:26 PM
1

Is Erik gay? If not this sounds like he thinks you’re a “safe” bet for some girl he’s orbiting, and through you, he can spend more time with her. Apart from that, you’ve already developed oneitis for a girl you haven’t even met. So the game is already lost, in my opinion. I guess if you insist on pursuing this, get her number, get Erik out of the picture, text her yourself for a 1-on-1, rather than in a big group over food
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:50 PM
1

Sure they’re called psychiatrists. But I also think your problem is far north of your dick
/r/askTRP02/02/19 07:13 AM
1

No new girls in your life huh
/r/askTRP02/02/19 06:58 AM
1

See a doctor, would be the advice There are people accessible to you who are experts at this. They’re called doctors. Go see one. This is reddit
/r/askTRP02/02/19 06:46 AM
2

Eye contact and conversation threading are all you need to succeed
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:46 AM
1

You still have oneitis. Quit being a pussy and go meet other girls
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:19 AM
15

Who gives a shit what she thinks? You do you
/r/askTRP30/01/19 10:46 PM
1

Pinging you so you can read it and enjoy another laugh She said a restaurant so we went there Lol what are these guys even doing
/r/askTRP28/01/19 03:36 AM
1

That’s enough that you could probably stop keeping track. It’s time for you to find purpose apart from pussy
/r/askTRP28/01/19 01:03 AM
1

Start by not apologizing for shit that doesn’t matter
/r/askTRP27/01/19 02:27 PM
1

I didn’t mean nice in the Reddit convention, more that you care more than you need to. I know this because you think too much. You’re applying logic to a situation which is completely visceral. Stop thinking and just go with the flow. Girl texting you, pays for you —> assume attraction and dick her down. There’s no reason to ask advice, your body knows what to do, correct? My success with women went up dramatically when I just stopped giving a shit. Stopped wondering if they’re going to text me,…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:57 PM
1

If she paid not out of obligation, she likes you. You sound really “nice” though, so maybe quit stalling and invite her over to yours for a drink
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:31 AM
1

It’s 100% laziness. Who can do this for you? No one. Your inaction is the only thing standing in your way. Pull it together
/r/askTRP26/01/19 10:53 PM
1

You’re missing the point. Completely. You’re spending so much valuable energy thinking about some girl who hasn’t given you an ounce of consideration in months. And no wonder she hasn’t: You don’t bring anything to the table except an inside joke and picnics where you debate about whether she wanted you to kiss her or not (she didn’t). You don’t lift weights. You haven’t pushed to develop yourself at all. You don’t provide her feelings (you’re her friend). You’re completely predictable. Forget a…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:20 PM
1

Okay, semantics. You texted (#2) after a call (#1). I’m sure you’re able to see how it’s effectively the same thing as double-texting regarding ‘leaving space for attraction to develop and her mind to wander,’ yes? You’re already intent on ghosting her because you’re butthurt she didn’t get back to you. That’s bullshit. Get over it. Why should you care? You’re a fun guy, correct? With plenty of options, yeah? Apparently not, or you wouldn’t be spending all your time waiting on a reply from some …
/r/askTRP24/01/19 07:07 PM
1

I think “insane neediness” is probably overstating it. Yeah, you double-texted. We’ve all been there. Don’t do that. You’re a high-value man, you have shit going on. You gave a call, she didn’t get back, all good. Nothing left to do now but 1. Wait for her to contact you, 2. Game other women.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 06:53 PM
1

You want a recipe to follow, but I think it’s time you learned to cook. Sidebar
/r/askTRP24/01/19 03:30 AM
1

Seems like she’s using you for attention. And you’re here asking how you could give more of it lol
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:40 AM
1

Crazy how much this mirrors my experience at 31. We’ve succeeded at lots of stuff, but we’re not sinking our time into “wives and kids,” so then, what? In med school, so it’s not like I’m some lackey, but damn, feel like I’m finally starting to figure this life thing out.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 07:27 PM
5

Nowhere does it say those are incompatible goals.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 02:53 PM
3

Sidebar. One of the oldest shit tests in the book
/r/askTRP18/01/19 11:16 PM
1

She won’t follow it up in-person
/r/askTRP18/01/19 11:08 PM
1

Correct. Ninety-one percent (95% credible interval [CI], 90%-92%) of prevalent HPV infections at enrollment cleared within 24 months. Although virtually all HPV infections clear within 2 years, the remaining infections have a high potential for persistence and, by implication, progression to precancer and cancer. Plummer M, J Infect Dis. 2007;195(11):1582. Epub 2007 Apr 16.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 02:19 AM
1

Yeah, better to not even try. Good approach
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:40 PM
1

McQueen, for sure. Gandy looks try-hard to me.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:14 AM
3

She wants a baby, dude. Either doesn’t know how to talk to you about it, or has her own reservations about it. Bring it up
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:48 AM
1

Not much of an answer, more of an anecdote: I recently visited my parents in my hometown (left 13 years ago), and saw a guy I grew up with (cub scouts thru high school). He is: Fat as I’ve ever seen him Drunk nearly every night Living in the pig sty he’s made of his home Treating his 14 month-old son like a dog Bitching about the restraining order baby momma put on him Conditioned to putting on “Boss Baby” for his kid, watches the whole thing multiple times a day I got out of there quick. You ar…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:09 AM
4

Sometimes I think the fact that I’ve got my shit together is a beacon for leeches. Start playing it closer to the chest
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:11 AM
3

Thanks for saying this. Spot on. OP, you’re being a tool
/r/askTRP01/12/18 06:47 AM
7

You want to dig through the trash? Come on man
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:45 PM
1

Run. Find another one. And work on yourself. If they’re all flaking, the problem lies within
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:36 AM
1

Mind keeping me posted on what you learn?
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:33 AM
1

I didn’t read any of that. Move on
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:00 AM
3

You’re failing to take into account the huge percentage of guys who fall to marriage and obesity.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:04 PM
1

You say hi
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:21 AM
1

You’re not fully formed yet, and that’s okay. Two things: Forget this chick and find newer and hotter Med school is rough. Be absolutely certain that this is what you want
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:27 AM
1

I put up with less bullshit. Don’t sugarcoat anymore. Am straight up with things I say. Could care less what others’ impressions of me are. Again, I’ve changed considerably. Sexual strategy and dating have not.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:57 AM
1

I’m 31. I do fine. Especially with the 24,25,26 crowd. I don’t do social media, except Snapchat. Of which I only receive, never send. It’s funny to see you say “older men,” and know you’re referring to me, cause in my mind I’m still 23.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 03:44 AM
1

Maybe she wants you to use her. Maybe she wishes you were more concerned with your own affairs than spending time meddling in hers. Take it for what it is: A drinking buddy who’s interested in hanging with you. Maybe you hit it, maybe you don’t. What’s the problem?
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:54 PM
1

Bruh if she wanted it, she would have let you know. Move on
/r/askTRP10/11/18 03:27 AM
1

Yeah. Chill out. Relax and enjoy the ride
/r/askTRP10/11/18 02:41 AM
6

It’s all rooted firmly in “Stop caring so much.” Outcome independence trumps all, i.e., Who gives a shit what she (or anyone else) thinks. Say things that make you laugh. Be amusing to yourself. That’s what your buddy is doing different. And it just so happens to be like crack to women.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 02:37 PM
91

I'll let you hit it raw Don't do that
/r/askTRP20/10/18 05:13 PM
1

She’s trying to get laid. You’re overthinking it.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:21 PM
2

need opinions No, you need options. Move on
/r/askTRP18/10/18 04:22 AM
1

How many of those things have you accomplished?
/r/askMRP18/10/18 04:12 AM
8

Try suggesting that the two of you “get together,” or “hang out sometime.” Those are a lot less pressing than “go on a date.”
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:23 PM
1

360° huh. Pretty street smart are ya?
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:28 AM
1

Sounds like you’re making excuses.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:26 AM
3

Their age has nothing to do with how you're not speaking their language. Try caring less about pussy, and caring more about yourself.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:27 AM
1

Your precipitating factor was smoking, not gum disease.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 11:46 PM
1

Im never interested in closing Agreed. Apparently you're interested in being a phone book instead
/r/askTRP07/09/18 04:26 AM
1

Maybe not by themselves, but they are catalyst to improvement.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 12:35 AM
1

solved problem ever-changing landscape These seem incongruent to me. Can you please explain the latter?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 01:49 PM
1

After reading all this I’m wondering why she’s sleeping over. You’re rewarding the behavior. Stop doing that
/r/askTRP09/08/18 04:11 PM
1

You're doing this to yourself. They're all the same. Quit building them up in your mind and start keeping your expectations low. Let them seduce you for a change.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:31 AM
1

Hang out with her one-on-one, and when the conversation has a lull, move in for the kiss That's about it. Don't make it more complicated
/r/askTRP21/07/18 02:39 AM
1

I think Freud was onto this first: The first man she ever loves is her dad (or not), either way she craves that father-daughter relationship. Talking to her like a child just brings those feelings out.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 04:24 AM
1

doesnt have any stds That she knows of. What's done is done. At this point all you can do is cross your fingers for no disease, and get yourself tested when the opportunity arises. No need to dwell on it. Likely everything will be just fine
/r/askTRP12/07/18 07:30 PM
1

Lmao, you dog. You met at a kfc after bobbling the intro and you still hit it! Let this be a lesson to you: If she wants to fuck, NOTHING will stand in her way. Time for you to work on recognizing the opportunity. Wear a condom next time. You expressed concern about STDs last night – meeting one night stands on tinder and NOT using protection is playing with fire. Otherwise keep hitting the gym
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:46 PM
1

No. Get her address. Get an uber. God, this is silly. Good luck kid. I'm outta here
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:59 AM
1

Go shower with her, dummy
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:52 AM
1

Your fear is unfounded. Plus, an STD isn't even close to the end of the world. At least you're going to the gym...
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:47 AM
1

Why are you on tinder if you're not interested in getting laid?
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:37 AM
1

Why look here for approval? Try it and see what happens
/r/askTRP04/07/18 03:09 AM
4

BTW - she is interested in LTR No kiddin'
/r/askTRP26/06/18 03:20 AM
2

A buddy of mine recently came to me whining because he found out his girl had been with a guy familiar to him, but prior to their relationship. I wish I had given him this answer.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:30 AM
1

Your man cycle is peaking.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:35 AM
4

Then find girls in the city you're in. You got one Snapchat (actually zero, she got yours) and you're far too invested in a single female. Go out and meet other girls.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:15 AM
1

You're doing fine. This is an adjustment period. There's such a thing as "situational depression" brought on by big life changes. Feel it out for the summer. If it isn't working, reevaluate. These anxieties tend to come out in the wash. If anything, living with your parents and away from your girl means more time at the gym.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:49 AM
1

Relax. "Don't do it again," is an ultimatum and she knows you don't have any recourse. While you came off as emotionally invested, you're learning, and that's important. So give yourself a little credit. Better next time. You need to cultivate a mentality of "water off the duck's back." When life is a game to you, nothing she says could possibly slow your stride. The "right thing to say" comes easily when your mind is right. Hit the gym – it helps
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:40 AM
1

FWIW, I think you're mature beyond your years. You write well, and if that reflects on how you carry yourself, no wonder she's throwing everything she's got at you. I also think this will turn into little more than a curiosity for you once it's run its course. Glad to see guys doing well
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:01 AM
2

Spot on
/r/askTRP17/05/18 01:46 AM
1

Quit drowning in your pity party. It's unattractive. We all are narcissistic. That's why we're maximizing life for ourselves. We're all anti-social. Once you see what the majority is about, it's not super intriguing: Fat. Dumb. Depressed. You need a purpose and hobbies. If you mentioned lifting at all, I didn't see it. Set some goals in the gym. Write a book. Run a half marathon. Just quit being such a wet blanket.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:36 AM
1

OYS at home takes his kids away daily for Daddy time Seems everyone here missed that OP is a surgery resident. I bet he works 6a–7p, 6.5 days per week, while wife is at home with the kids. Things might get better in the next couple years for him when he's Attending, but for now? She runs the ship. He goes to work.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 03:53 AM
3

This is TRP in a nutshell right here. Thanks
/r/askTRP29/04/18 01:09 PM
1

repairing your cells with essentially pure collagen This would induce fibrosis, which is a bad thing.(https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2693329/)[^1] If you have a source on "four day bone broth ... reduces inflammation" I'd sure like to see it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 05:57 PM
1

start a new life elsewhere The thing about people who run from their problems, they tend to find the same problems wherever they run to.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 02:59 PM
1

If you want any hope of returning, taxes and child support are still due. Unless you want to renounce citizenship completely, which I'm told is actually quite difficult.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 01:00 PM
1

single dudes in their late 30s have a few screws loose Bummer you're shaming them. Seems to me they've got it figured out.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 12:57 PM
1

What if Quit making it up in your head. Just dive in and try. You're going to screw up sometime. We all have. Learn from it. You'll feel much better once you find you're still intact afterward.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:27 AM
1

Bro they make new 18 year-old girls every day. You'll be fine if you quit dwelling on the past
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:35 PM
1

You’re going about this wrong. The real question is, “What do I want?” If out there is where you’re happy, then seek out your happiness. Nothing should come before that. And definitely not thoughts about some fictitious woman who’s interested in shopping and new furry boots and makeup and omggg city nightliiife who you haven’t even met yet.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:07 PM
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only two possible etiologies Incorrect. I also study this, and think maybe you need to study harder. See your doctor. And if you can't deal with the consequences, then start wrapping it up.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 05:58 PM
2

If she offers the number, use it.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:57 AM
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If they're interested they'll make themselves available. Exactly. Nothing stands between a girl and something she wants. When it's you, you'll know.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:53 AM
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Sure there is. It's called, "Wait and see." But OP should get tested.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:00 AM
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never had a girlfriend in high school No, but I bet you have parents that care.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 07:30 AM
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Here's a summary that suggests that soy is not feminizing. But soy was feminizing in this man, and caused him to have gynecomastia, though the symptoms resolved after he quit drinking soy (he was putting down nearly a gallon a day). Finally, here's a study that followed kids raised on soymilk that seemed to turn out just fine. I think don't sweat it, fellas.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:42 AM
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Of course you're building a young social circle. What other option is there? You think you're just going to ignore your classmates for years? I'm in a doctoral program in which the average age is 23. I'm 30. I get a lot of "old man / 'Okay, Dad' / osteoporosis" jokes, which is to be expected, but the age difference is really only an issue if you make it so. And you've just been thrust into a world where every female is in the prime of her life. Take advantage of this opportunity bro. Have a grea…
/r/askTRP08/01/18 12:29 PM
1

Willing to share that motivational speech series?
/r/askMRP27/12/17 06:26 PM
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I’ve had her blocked ... I assumed we just moved on from each other? This line is so unintentionally alpha. If you didn’t mean it that way, alpha is already in you dying to get out. You did fine. Forge ahead.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 08:03 PM
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Needed to hear this today. Thanks
/r/askTRP19/12/17 09:55 AM
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Thank you. But this is far too rational and level-headed... What sub am I in???
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 03:38 PM
1

Just out of curiosity: How did you pick Elk River?
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 08:54 PM
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If you think she's special, you're both going to wind up disappointed.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 05:36 AM
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It's not just you bro. I hear you. Truth is: We all know, deep down every female is the same. You're not receiving the same validation from the quick smash like you used to. You were proud of that once, but diminishing returns have run their course. Wish I had an answer for you, but the best I can offer is: Turn inward and challenge yourself. New hobbies. New locales. New hurdles. New goals. The tail will always be there, and now that you've learned to fish, you'll always be able to pick up your…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 04:29 AM
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Simply put, "women" is not why I'm here.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 11:16 PM
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Get over it. I'm 30. I'm an M1. Average age of my class? 23. I was taking my prereqs with 18 year-olds just over a year ago. At some point you become the sage with plenty of life experience. I can party harder than my classmates. I work out harder than my classmates. I study longer than my classmates. Why? Because of my experience. "I know why I'm here. Do you?"
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 04:05 AM
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Agreed. Do not compromise your health for some tail. That's ridiculous. As far as working out, I guess I'd suggest yoga.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 05:11 AM
2

autistic homosexuals Unnecessary. You can be a man without playing that game.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 04:55 AM
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she left me ... Swore I'd never ... Oh, so you lied to yourself, and went back. And you're clamoring to tip the balance of power back in your direction? And she's still out looking? It's not working dude. She doesn't respect you, and frankly why should she? You're not even true to yourself.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 04:22 PM
2

You're leaving your health in the hands of this chick? Go to the damn doctor for yourself!
/r/askTRP01/06/17 04:37 AM
2

If I'm in for a penny, I'm in for a pound: I am physically unable to let myself have one, because I'll be buying a log within the hour. It sucks, but strength of mind is more important to me. But I'll kill you if you try to take my coffee away.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:52 PM
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Are you serious? I just told you, like, a second ago.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:08 PM
2

Flawless delivery.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:07 PM
2

I haven't had a dip in four years, but it's been a rough week, and a nice chew has been on my mind constantly. That monster in the cage may sleep, but every once in awhile he wakes up and rattles the bars a bit. Stay strong.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 07:01 PM
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Something to be practiced in every moment.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 05:01 AM
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These people just want to see others as miserable as themselves: indoctrinated and unable to think independently. Be happy that you have the ability to see the truth.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 08:18 PM
1

Hey Zaitzev, I'm interviewing at a big-name medical school this session, and they've only given Monday and Friday as options. I feel the same way you do about these days of the week; any insight as to which would be preferable for both interviewer and interviewee, and give me the best foot to start from?
/r/RedPillWorkplace31/07/16 11:57 AM
1

Rather, a rebound following the sympathetic (fight/flight) response. In preparation for action, our body moves blood to skeletal muscles and away from the digestive system and core, but this is unsustainable for long periods (not to mention taxing on the brain, because of increased response to stimuli) and is compensated by movement of blood to the parasympathetic (feed/breed) system, towards the core, leaving the extremities and surface feeling cold. It's easy to notice in yourself: say if you …
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:08 AM
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I look forward to more of your posts. I've always (and often!) appreciated females older than myself, and would enjoy hearing more about your LTR tactics.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 04:40 AM
1

Post-baby scramble, more mature, know what they want. Once 'tummy tumor fever' has subsided, they're quite pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 04:38 AM
1

I also shake, though mine is upon intention, not at rest. I can't do tiny things–like thread a needle, or draw really straight lines–without bracing my hand, so I've learned to adapt. I also work in medicine. Your information on beta blockers seems to be misfounded; I would recommend more research. They are not a death sentence, nor a cure-all. And you're correct, you need to work on self-confidence first and foremost, before you start talking surgery. Surgical intervention is another ball game …
/r/askTRP30/07/15 11:04 PM
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Who cares if the IT guy sees what you do at work? Also, he might learn something...
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 03:36 AM
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Today (just today, to mirror your situations, and show how small potatoes these are...) with women at my workplace I: Was scoffed at by a female patient who asked to "speak to a girl," -- I laughed about it with my coworkers Visibly screwed up -- Laughed along with my coworkers, and poked fun at myself Wore bright orange boxers that the women would catch a glimpse of (not one of them let it go unmentioned) -- Laughed and asked if they would like to see my traffic cone Life is fun, man! Girls wan…
/r/askTRP17/05/15 02:31 AM
1

Legal misrepresentation.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 02:14 AM
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Say you're an RN. That helps.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 02:14 AM
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Honesty and being up-front from the start, I would imagine.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:26 PM
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I recently used a woman's sewing machine to bling out some work pants. It's my thing, I did it, I can talk about, I'm not ashamed of it. Here I'm illustrating fashion sense, independence, free thought, and a little creativity, and prowess with what is generally regarded as a female craft. The women I work with, unsurprisingly, eat it up. And they love to use it as an excuse to touch my butt. Even though you got downvoted, I agree wholeheartedly.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:06 AM
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One time I met a foreign chick on a bus. We were talking about future plans when I told her I'm applying to medical school... The "cha-ching" cash register noise that accompanied her dollar-sign eyes, and my sudden understanding of AWALT were simultaneous.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:33 AM
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Break off the 'lazy' task into minute intervals or chunks that move you closer to the end goal, e.g.: "Okay, I'll study, but just for five minutes," "I'll just put my workout clothes on to be comfortable," "One sentence will get me started on the essay." I've found that's simply enough to get me past the lazy inertia. Now, what advice have you got for me for my passive aggression?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:25 AM
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because you are not going to jump through hoops to convince her of a goddam thing Thanks for this.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 04:16 AM
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Nothing helps you forget about old pussy like new pussy.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 06:25 PM
5

There is no test besides "Wait and see."
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:58 PM
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The fact is, you are at risk. You already have some form of HPV, whether or not it develops into cancer remains to be seen. Give us an update in 20 years.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 05:14 PM
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Bit beyond the scope of this board, but yes, one still ejaculates, though the emission is devoid of swimmers. And yes, sperm is still produced, but it is either stopped by a cauterization of the vas deferens, or never reaches the seminal vesicle due to the proximal cut of the vas being left open. Either way, swimmers are reabsorbed into the body.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:31 AM
1

You are a true Casanova. Thanks for the informed response.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:37 PM
1

Amazing post. Very relevant to my interests, and you've done a great job of explaining it in an eloquent way. Will you please comment on the in's-and-out's of dropping a plate? Seems you've been at this long before text/cell phones even; how much history must elapse between the two of you before a meet-up becomes necessary? Does it ever? How often does a simple phone call end it? Do you ever push-pull until she has to make the decision to not call again, effectively making it her decision? On wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 10:51 PM
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Because in the face of all the societal changes we experience on a daily basis, biology has changed minimally.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 11:06 PM
1

Personally, I feel this is a side-effect of self-confidence. If one is happy enough to rejoice in their own accomplishments, others' praise or recognition is secondary (and pales in comparison). In short, become the person you've always wanted to be.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 05:22 AM
1

Some of those girls are insufferable! Oh man! I don't have time for those negative vibes!
/r/askTRP08/03/15 05:51 AM
2

Yikes, OP. Reality check.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 05:40 AM
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"Now text me your address and unlock the door."
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:12 PM
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"I bet we can find an activity we both enjoy... nudge nudge"
/r/askTRP06/03/15 09:11 PM
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I like your conclusion, but not your assumptions. My friends didn't all die at thirty. Who are you people hanging with?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:25 AM
2

Jealousy is a ugly color on you.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:15 AM
2

You're the shit, bro, but not as much as me! Keep that optimism rolling.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:04 AM
1

Ha. Better rev up that optimism, pard'ner. You'll be there before you know it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:01 AM
1

A follow-up: She was into me. Then I got into her.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:46 AM
1

I respect and admire your strength. Best wishes to you and your family.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 09:27 PM
1

Bitches who are into you are willing to pay for themselves. Went out with a girl last night who pulled out her wallet when the first drinks hit the bar. I told her to buy the next round. She did. Kissed her throughout the night, but I'd say she's more lukewarm than hot for me. Interesting thought-provoker though, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:54 PM
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I appreciate you sharing what you've learned. I'm learning, too -- keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:43 PM
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You'll begin to see the beauty in them soon. It's natural, man. You're grieving a loss -- for years you've held onto this idea that simply doesn't exist. Prognosis is bright. Start by becoming happy with yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror and love the person looking back. Love that person more than anyone else. Build up that hard exterior (and lift, of course). Let no one through. You are stoic. You are a rock. You are immovable. Nothing phases you. Stop seeing the world for what you expec…
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