Banblue Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
34	[FR]: Seducing HB6 after dancing class + detailed strategy to get her interested	Field Report	Banblue	/r/seduction	06/04/13 11:05 PM

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2	[FR]: Seducing HB6 after dancing class + detailed strategy to get her interested There is this little theory I'm testing in all my interactions with women: they love it when you 1) have lots of girls wanting you and 2) you don't make a show of it because 3) for you it's just something natural and funny. Sometimes a girl teases me about how many other girls I'm seeing. I just smile and tell her that I have lots of girls, but right now I'm most interested in just one girl: she. This kind of answer always creates attraction, and the girl feels important because you have many ch…	/r/seduction	07/04/13 02:38 AM
6	[FR]: Seducing HB6 after dancing class + detailed strategy to get her interested Thanks! I'm going out solo in a few minutes. Let's see if I get something to say on my way back :)	/r/seduction	07/04/13 02:31 AM
7	[FR] Practicing 'Talk to Everyone' When people start touching you back you're doing kino the right way. That's the whole purpose of kino: getting people to open, to relax and be more comfortable in your presence. If you are an introvert like myself, you probably are a good listener and can quickly understand what motivates people. If so use it to your advantage and keep alcohol to the minimum (usually you don't want to stay 100% sober while other people are drinking or they may tease you for not joining them). However, if you are…	/r/seduction	07/04/13 01:18 AM
1	[FR]: Even failures feel fucking good. Ridiculous # close attempt! This direct and somewhat silent approach doesn't work for me. I would go to her, say she is very cute and then try to entertain her and her friend (in case he is present). Just after leaving I would ask for her number with a smile on my face. Anyway you're doing great! Do what works for you and never give up.	/r/seduction	06/04/13 11:24 PM
1	How can I become a better conversationalist? Excellent advice! This is what has worked for me.	/r/seduction	02/04/13 11:58 PM
1	When facebook is the only means of contact, what's the most effective message to send? It all depends on how well you managed to get the girl attracted to you. If you have received some IOIs just message her something like "Hey, just found out that I don't have your number! Text me: xxx-xxx-xxxx". It shows interest, confidence and it's not needy.	/r/seduction	02/04/13 11:51 PM
1	Just starting out and finished "The Game" and some other materials. I have one serious question. That's correct. Being a bit taller (6') than my country's heigh average, I always try to run most of the conversation in a sitting position. It's more confortable for both parties, less threatening to girl and helps me build rapport faster.	/r/seduction	27/03/13 11:39 PM
1	A quick tip on determining whether or not she/he is into you. You should attack the real problem: your approach anxiety (AA). Like you, I have always been proud of how I could grasp someone's personality after a few minutes of observation. Even so it didn't help me with the ladies because a girl never looks for someone who understands her. She wants adventure, fun, some taste of life. Understanding is for long term relashionships. So keep it, but don't count on it when picking up a girl you feel attracted to.	/r/seduction	06/03/13 03:28 AM
2	The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real! For sure! It's quite rewarding when you see yourself doing things you thought impossible a few months ago. My last year self would never approach such a girl, any girl lol	/r/seduction	27/02/13 01:39 AM
8	The Importance of Eye Contact and Being Real! I just recently started to check my eye contact powers and it's amazing what you can achieve by just looking a girl in the eyes. A few hours ago I was at the gym when this HB8 came over and passed right beside me. I didn't think a second before calling her "Is that your perfume?" The girl had a soft, flowery and seductive scent all over her. She looked puzzled before answering "Yes. Is it too strong? Is it bad??" I dismissed her fears by praising her choice of fragrance while at the same time ho…	/r/seduction	27/02/13 01:30 AM
64	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. That's key. We live in a culture of passive ostentation. Everybody wants do display their expensive cell phones, branded clothes and hyper tech gadgets for all to see. Putting make up (be it social or otherwise) is a female trait. If you want to be the man (and you must when it comes down to seduction) you must not wait for the girl to come to you because you shine like a Christmas tree. Take the initiative. Go over there and talk to her. Don’t be passive. In seduction the man must always take t…	/r/seduction	26/02/13 06:31 PM
2	45 YO (M) Give you my perspective on "the game" and seduction. She wants a man, a guy that's confident, charming and knows what to do. Unfortunately as long as you keep living in the past (brooding over last month hurt feelings) you will never be that man. From your comments it looks like you're more interested in excusing yourself into living a shit life. Dude, I have been there for many years and it really sucks. I'm a good guy, well read, intelligent (my mom says so lol) who used to feel quite inadequate around women. Until I decided to fix that fault I …	/r/seduction	25/02/13 10:37 AM
1	45 YO (M) Give you my perspective on "the game" and seduction. Dude, it only means that your problem is not looks, status or money. Girls are not so aroused by looks as guys do, but having good looks makes things easier when it comes to approaching women. Anyway you have to address your problem: low self-esteem. Maybe this book will help you. It's not about techniques or canned openers. It is all about knowing what takes to be man, how to display confidence (or fake it if necessary) and acting accordingly. It helped me to improve my inner game. Hope it help…	/r/seduction	25/02/13 02:20 AM
2	45 YO (M) Give you my perspective on "the game" and seduction. You don't filter out the bad experiences. You just don't recognize them once you have the right mindset and get rid of your low self-steem issue. This is the path I'm taking (hope it suits yourself): 1) Find out what bothers you and work hard to improve. I figure out that my main problem was being too shy and defensive. So I begun doing presentations for the company I work on and paying close attention to the way sales people fluently engage in random talking at lunch time. They have great conve…	/r/seduction	25/02/13 12:02 AM
1	45 YO (M) Give you my perspective on "the game" and seduction. Oh man, that was awesome! Thanks for sharing.	/r/seduction	24/02/13 08:10 PM
1	45 YO (M) Give you my perspective on "the game" and seduction. pushygalore, what is your technique for getting into the "JUST DON'T GIVE A SHIT" mode? I have always been a very self conscius guy but I'm quite managing to get over it by focussing on the girl and the delightful task at hand (seduce her).	/r/seduction	24/02/13 07:32 PM
6	45 YO (M) Give you my perspective on "the game" and seduction. GoodInfection, I also had a background of poisoned experiences and I found out that the only way to get pass them is by focusing on the good experiences (even creating them, which is better). You may not be aware of it but your life is full of good experiences. You just haven't noticed them.	/r/seduction	24/02/13 07:21 PM
1	Succeed or fail, going out there and practicing is an immensely rewarding experience. Read your blog posts and looking forward to more revelations. I'm kind of going the same path. I'm older than you (32 y.o) and have dated a couple of girls and been in a serious relathionship for almost 4 years. Now that I broke up with my girlfriend I started to apply the knowlege I accumulated in the past two years reading pua material. So far so good!	/r/seduction	24/02/13 07:02 PM