Here is my first field report (kind of long, but I wanted to include as much detail as possible).

My Background

Brazilian guy, 32 years old, computer nerd, lost virginity at age 25 after online dating a 40 years old married girl. Two years later (after reading Robert's Greene's "The Art Of Seduction") I slowly managed to overcome part of my shyness and got laid three more times (all lonely and LSE girls). Finally, after 3 years into a relationship that deteriorated into fights, I broke up with my girlfriend in December 2012 and then decided to apply the techniques I've been reading here and elsewhere for the past year.

The Seduction of Jane

After 3 weeks into taking dancing lessons in order to improve my body language and give me an extra advantage when approaching at clubs, I spotted this HB6 blonde (let's call her Jane) during the interval between classes. While still suffering from AA I have no problem in talking to people in my own social circle, so since we would eventually attend the same classes I started talking to Jane about something I can't quite remember (openers don't matter as long as you look confident and relaxed). After some kino (to set the interaction frame) I got her Facebook and left. I wasn't quite interested in her so I didn't ask for her number.

One week later I spotted her again. She was coming out of the zouk class and then all of a sudden I knew I had to date this girl. She had a beautiful smile on her face, had her hair set loose for the dance and was wearing black clothes that fitted her body perfectly. I walked straight to her without paying attention to anyone between us and told her, while holding strong eye contact and at the same time gently stroking her hair: "Hey, you just look amazing! And by the way I love your hair". She said "Thank you!" and I slowly moved away knowing that I had sparkled her interest.

That same night I sent her a message in Facebook: "Just found out I don't have your number... Send it to me? XXX-XXX-XXX". She gave me her number and we exchanged more messages on Facebook during the next two days. I clearly flirted with her and managed to get some rapport. I also invited her to have pizza after the next class without letting it very clear if it was a date or not. This was all part of my strategy since I planned to invite other people in order to show her that I was not so much interested, or at least not so eager to date her. She would have to pursue me otherwise she could take me for granted since I showed lots of interest online. After class I invited a girl and a guy to join us and by the dismayed look in her face I knew I got her hooked. Yes, she was expecting a date not a social gathering.

During the pizza I sit right next to her and she immediately started kino-ing me, going as far as to rest her hand on my thigh. I complied and kino-ed her back (arms, hands, thigh and small of her back). After pizza I took her home expecting to finish the night with a k-close, but she got a call from a jealous roommate who also wanted a ride back home. Since we all live next to each other I complied while mentally holding back my plans for the k-close. Her friend got in the back seat and I entertained the girls for about 30 minutes (10 minutes driving them home and the remaining time we just spent in the stairs in front or their home talking about nonsense). All the while I maintained a relaxed mood, always light and briefly touching the girls in the arms, hands and knees when the time was ripe. Finally I hugged the girls good bye and went home.

Next day, at 10 pm I texted her: "Wanna grab some snacks? Very hungry here". She asked where and I told we would go visit a nearby fast-food chain. She agreed and 30 minutes later we were animatedly talking over hamburger and fries. I planned to take her to my place, so I started talking about my last trip to Mexico and the superb tequila I had bought there. She said she never tasted tequila, to what I replied "OK, so tonight will be tequila time!". She laughed and we changed subjects. I touched her hands a lot since this is my preparation for the k-close and also because there were no other way to kino her since the desk was quite large and we were sitting at opposite sides of it with no other way to get close (here I failed miserably since I should have chosen a better place to take her).

Anyway, every time I touched her hands under some pretext, she squeezed back my hand showing that she was willing. Soon I paid the bill and took her to my car, leaving the place with my right hand around her waist. With no jealous roommate in the way I knew exactly what would happen. I drove her to my place while talking about amenities in order to distract her and low her defenses (I clearly sensed that she was willing to go to my place and make out, but she was not willing to have sex tonight, so I assured her - through my relaxed tone and light mood - that I was not going to force it). We dropped at my place and when she put on a puzzled look I just grabbed her hand and pulled her to the door while laughing out loud "Now it's tequila time!". She followed me without resistance.

Inside my place we listened to some music, danced a little, got a shot of tequila and made out for many minutes. I was always relaxed and in control. I didn't hurry up to get the k-close. Just enjoyed our time together and gave her the space she needed to relax in my presence. It was right past 1 am when she got very horny and we almost had sex, but as I suspected early in the night, when things became very hot (shirts off, mutual masturbation) she quickly raised up her ASD and urged me to get her home. I obliged and took her home. We made out for a few more minutes standing in the stairs which lead to her place. When I left I was sure I was just one more dating away from the f-close. But I was wrong for the first time in this seduction.

Next day, I phoned her and we planned a date for the same night at 11 pm. I would get some food and we would watch some movies at my place. Later in the night she phoned me and asked me to meet her at her friend's house and then we would move back to my place after midnight. I sensed a trap. She was delaying sex in order to make me pursue her further. Moreover, she was taking me to unknown territory in order to test me. So I put on a slim-fit red t-shirt, bathed myself in my most sexy perfume (according to the girls I dated it's Hugo Boss Just Different) and headed to the address she gave me.

The place (a big house rented by her cousin) was full of people she knew (colleagues, family members, lots of friends and her jealous roommate). I successfully managed to charm almost everyone and navigated through all the shit tests I was gave. Example: during the course of the night one of Jane's male friend brazenly asked if I was a "professional dancer" implying that my clothes made me look gay. As an answer I laughed out loud and grabbed Jane by the waist pulling her hard against me without breaking eye contact with whoever dared to ask me such nonsense. After that I took her to some reserved place in the house garden and we kissed passionately.

It was almost 2 am when we left the house. I urged her to go to my place, but she said she was not ready yet. Again I complied while in my mind I devised a new strategy. I took her home and again we made out for several minutes in the stairs. Just before breaking up, when she was most horny, I told her "Tomorrow I'm going in a 3 day trip and I will only be able to see you when I come back." She looked alarmed: "What trip is this you didn't talk about?". I replied in a soothing voice: "Don't worry. It's just a romantic trip I've planned two weeks ago. Too bad we didn't meet a few weeks early, otherwise it would be me and you there". Surprisingly she didn't slap me for telling her I was going to meet another girl. I didn't lie to her either. I had been dating a busy Japanese HB5 who I somewhat convinced to spend time with me visiting some beautiful waterfalls.

I got back home and next day I was driving to the waterfalls with the Japanese HB5 by my side. Fast forward, 3 days later when I came back after spending a wonderful time visiting the waterfalls and f-closing the petite Japanese girl, I checked my phone and Jane had texted me several times. She was sad, she was feeling jealous, she wanted to meet me as soon as possible. I called her, ordered some food, took her to my place and she practically threw herself naked into my arms. My plan had worked to perfection. After this first night together we have been spending a lot of time exploring each other bodies. Let's see where it takes us.

Lessons Learned

Below is a list of the ideas that most helped me in this seduction. Please feel free to discuss it further:

  • Focus on attraction, not sex: by following this advice I was able to look more outcome independent which automatically raised my value before Jane's eyes. Also, having two more dating options (see below) was a big confidence boost.

  • Game several girls at the same time: during the seduction of Jane I was already gaming two other girls: 1) a petite and introvert Japanese HB5 girl whom I texted from time to time and 2) a very chatty HB4 who showed interest in me after I started kino-ing her "just for fun". These two leads (which turned out to be f-closes) gave me the confidence I really needed to keep the game going on.

  • Be forward: don't hold yourself. If you like something about a girl, tell her. The more sincere the compliment the more she will appreciate it. Seduction starts with you showing deep interest in the girl. Caveat: if the girl is too hot you have to calibrate your interest since she will probably misinterpret it as another AFC compliment.

  • Connect : I really see my targets (despite this somewhat de-humanizing word) as living persons with expectations, dreams and soul. I refuse to game a girl who I can't get genuine rapport with. Obviously, this makes my game more sincere and produces a more healthy relationship.

  • Girls love sex as much as I do: despite all appearances, every time I f-close a girl I find out she is way more horny than I thought at first. Keep this in mind while moving forward. She only need a good excuse to drop down her ASD.

  • KINO early and often: I cannot stress how important it is to use kino early on the seduction. I have blown up many opportunities by not kino-ing a girl I desired. It's better to miscalibrate your kino (sometimes I still do it) than to avoid kino for fear of rejection.

  • Take care of your appearance: I really love dressing well. I'm kind of skinny, so it took me some time to find out the clothes that fit me properly. But by dressing well I manage to appear more sexy, interesting and good-looking than a lot of guys I know of (and many girls just come to me to tell how well I'm dressed!). And don't fool yourself: if you want to get a HB9 or above you probably have to improve your looks.