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I feel this so much. No, I’d say I’m not attracted to most women. Probably 1 in 20 like you said. And I’m just an average looking guy- so logically why should I have an above average looking girl? Idk but like you said I really have trouble performing with girls I’m not attracted too. People tell me I need to find ways to be attracted to girls in ways that aren’t physical…. I’ll be honest that just makes no sense to me.
/r/seduction03/09/22 01:29 PM
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Yeah so the average girl your going to find on a dating app is a <6
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:04 PM
1

I’d do the same thing
/r/seduction01/08/22 12:03 PM
112

I’ve concluded that really hot girls don’t need to be on dating apps because some nice good looking guy is inevitably going to hit on them in person. The only reason they have profiles is for the ego boost.
/r/seduction01/08/22 01:59 AM
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It was awesome! Great time.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:41 PM
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Yes it does. I lived in the suburbs with my parents from 24-25 and I didn’t want to admit it, but it ABSOLUTELY does. Find a way to get out and move to the closest big city.
/r/seduction18/07/22 02:39 PM
3

Dating is hard everywhere but I’d say NYC is probably the best place for it.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:33 AM
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Yeah I recently stopped believing in this. The men I know who get the most sex are really honest and forward about their sexuality. Not hiding it.
/r/seduction04/07/22 05:34 PM
1

That’s a good point. Didn’t think of that. Thanks!
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:28 PM
1

Totally the opposite. Hate day drinking. The entire day is fucked then. I can’t be productive. What beach do you go to?
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:36 PM
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Yeah no I agree
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:52 PM
3

Yeah honestly… the morning after I’m starting to think “Is it that I feel too old to be here, or is it that I just don’t want to be here?” The problem is it’s the only place you’re going to find half naked girls who are dtf.
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:26 PM
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I think you’re right
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:44 AM
2

That’s a good one 😄
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:43 AM
1

Lol that’s hilarious. Laugh it off and keep pressing on dude!
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:39 PM
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I went out to a really hoping bar with my roommates last weekend. They were being lame and left at like 11:00pm. I stayed out and ended up in a group with girls until 1:00am. I’ve had success with it in the past as well.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:42 AM
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For whom the bell tolls, ride the lightning, enter sandman. Very good ones.
/r/seduction22/06/22 02:58 PM
2

Thanks for posting this. I've heard it a hundred times but still need to see it.
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:56 PM
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I like Ryan Goslings character in Crazy Stupid Love a lot.
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:15 AM
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It all kind of varies per person. It works for me that’s what i can say. And yes it does really look real. Look up hair systems on YouTube and there’s all the detail you can find.
/r/seduction19/04/22 01:06 AM
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Idk. I estimate (maybe self servingly) that it’s as much as women spend a year. Having hair, for me, is just invaluable.
/r/seduction18/04/22 09:16 PM
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Usually the only solution is a hair piece, or the more nuanced term “hair system”. I’ve been wearing one for 3-4 years now and I love it. It’s just like my real hair and I don’t have to risk my health with sketchy drugs or expensive ineffective surgerys. Highly recommend looking into it.
/r/seduction18/04/22 05:20 PM
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This is a good point
/r/seduction18/04/22 04:02 PM
2

This is somewhat reassuring to here at 25. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction15/04/22 12:59 PM
1

I really don’t think height is as big of a set back as people think. I knew a guy who was 5’5” who was a total player. Got laid from hot girls all the time. And if you really feel like you need height, wear elevator shoes from Don’s Footwear.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:27 AM
1

That’s great. Wish I had thatZ
/r/seduction13/04/22 10:57 PM
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I used to know a guy who was like 5’5” and he got more ass than the toilet seat.
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:10 PM
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That’s awesome. Good job 👍🏻
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:02 AM
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You’re a good looking dude. You should take some solace in that at least.
/r/seduction13/04/22 03:27 AM
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Yes. I really recommend it. I’ve gone out solo twice now for the exact reasons you mentioned and last time I actually managed to take a girl home. I’m hardly an expert but my tips are: • ⁠Go out with zero expectations of anything happening so you don’t feel disappointed after, whatever happens. • ⁠If someone asks who your here with, just say you’re either waiting for your friends to get there or that your friends left but your still having a good time and decided to stay for another drink. • ⁠if…
/r/seduction13/04/22 12:12 AM
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Good post. I’ve gone out solo twice now for the exact reasons you mentioned and last time I actually managed to take a girl home. I’m hardly an expert but my tips are: Go out with zero expectations of anything happening so you don’t feel disappointed after, whatever happens. If someone asks who your here with, just say you’re either waiting for your friends to get there or that your friends left but your still having a good time and decided to stay for another drink. if you’re not driving, pre-g…
/r/seduction12/04/22 06:52 PM
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It doesn’t get you high is what I’m saying. It’s sold legally. I think the acronym I meant to use was CBD, not THC.
/r/seduction12/04/22 05:13 PM
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Give it a shot then!
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:50 AM
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I mean do what you want if it makes you happy. But kind of a bad look. The first thing I think when I see a street performer is that they don’t have job and aren’t independent.
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:33 AM
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When I was 15 my first girlfriend wanted to have sex with me, but I told her no because I wanted to wait for someone more special. I ended up not having sex until 5 years later with a girl who to this day is the most intimate person I’ve ever had a relationship with. My regret is not taking the chance when I was 15 to just get it out of the way. You’ll wake up the next day and realize that there’s nothing special about it. You’re the same exact person in the same exact body with the same exact l…
/r/seduction10/04/22 10:33 PM
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Buddy…. We’re only 25. How can that be too late? You think you become a master pick up artist at 18? Haha
/r/seduction10/04/22 09:37 PM
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I’ve always considered the gym to be off limits for approaching. Your sweaty and gross and listening to music, trying to focus on working out. But I just had the realization that maybe this is just an excuse I tell myself not to approach. I don’t mind when strangers talk to me at the gym, and frankly if I did I would work out at home. People go to the gym because they want to get out of the house most likely. Some people might be more open to it than others, but I say go for it. I’m going to sta…
/r/seduction09/04/22 08:36 PM
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It’s better to try and fail then not to try at all. Good job dude 👍🏻
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:12 PM
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Uh I think I’m like 5’9’’ or 5’10’’ maybe. Not sure, I haven’t checked in years
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:58 PM
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Nah I don’t really care honestly. I can’t wear them all the time like at the gym or on a walk. I only wear them when I’m going out at night for a little boost. No big deal either way.
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:58 PM
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Yeah I started to notice this like 2 years ago. That I was shorter than most men but only slightly taller than most women. It’s not a huge deal but I started buying elevator shoes from Dons Shoe Shop online (look it up), and I love them. They give me a two inch boost which is perfect and they’re comfortable and stylish. Expensive tho, but I highly recommends
/r/seduction07/04/22 02:45 AM
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Good job man! That takes courage. Happy for you 👍🏻
/r/seduction07/04/22 12:30 AM
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All of my hobbies are mostly insular in nature as well, but that’s why I want to try and get new hobbies. Yoga, surfing, volleyball and that stuff. Idk I think one of the best spots is the grocery store tbh.
/r/seduction07/04/22 12:14 AM
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Good post. Keep it up 👍🏻. Thanks man.
/r/seduction06/04/22 06:31 PM
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Good job man! That takes courage.
/r/seduction05/04/22 09:06 PM
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Ah, probably not. No.
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:38 PM
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That’s a little crazy. Try elevator shoes from Dons shoe shop before that.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:42 PM
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A girl told me this once too. That “I look like a ken doll” and I was so perplexed how to look more edgy. Now I don’t give a fuck. It’s just her opinion and I like the way I look. Don’t change yourself because of what some random chicks say.
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:51 PM
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I think you look good
/r/seduction03/04/22 02:08 AM
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I see cute girls at the grocery store sometime. I think that's a good spot, there's also a lot to comment on your surroundings.
/r/seduction03/04/22 01:57 AM
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Get some elevator shoes
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:11 AM
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"love is love is love is love! - (except when it's 20 year olds dating 30 year olds, then I don't like it)"
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:06 PM
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Then read it again dammit
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:02 PM
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Damn that’s cool. Props to you bud
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:48 PM
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Read models by mark manson
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:21 PM
0

He’s probably into you. The only way is to ask him. Rejection sucks but you’ll live. Scroll through the all time top posts of this sub to get some courage and then just do it. Hope it works out!
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:15 AM
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No, that's true. I don't doubt some people do have success on it. But I think the ones that do are the outliers not the trend sadly. Or maybe it's just me which is even more depressing ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:37 PM
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Exactly! When it first came out I think it was actually just randomized swiping on people in your area. Now the algorithm scores you based on how many likes you have. It's a bummer. Every update it just gets worse and worse.
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:11 PM
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There you go!
/r/seduction30/03/22 10:35 PM
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Please see a therapist
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:41 PM
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Actually tinder released some internal data on this showing that the average man only matches with 1% of the women they like. Bumble and hinge probably aren’t much different. https://twitter.com/stevestuwill/status/1441432248054599683?s=21&t=ZJpRbkUzOvguH5WQRhTGwA So yeah seems like a bit of a time waster.
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:35 PM
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Oof how bout it buddy.
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:31 PM
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I think if you’re really attractive as a man it will work well for you. If your an average looking guy you’ll just get left swiped into the void.
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:39 PM
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Humans don’t have naturally occurring pheromones, unless you count BO. Wear cologne and deodorant bud
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:18 PM
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Nice, congrats man
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:06 PM
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I wish brother
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:37 PM
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I just asked this a few weeks ago on here. I think Instagram has to be really bad for your mental health but I also agree that it’s probably good for meeting. I don’t know, I’m really against using it.
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:42 AM
1

If you’re too nice and always telling them how pretty and amazing they are I think that’s a real turn off. I struggle with this problem.
/r/seduction29/03/22 10:30 PM
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“Competitive basket weaving” 😄
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:04 PM
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Amen to that brother 🙏
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:54 PM
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I am actually reading it now and it’s become my new Bible so far. I’m about half way through.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:19 PM
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No I agree, but it will naturally come up in conversation with anyone. Not just girls.
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:56 PM
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Fuck that’s brilliant. Thanks bud 👍🏻
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:55 PM
2

Not even necessarily seduction but just generally. Thanks for the advice 👍🏻
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:09 PM
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What Elipwnsyou said basically. There is no magic line to say to get a person to start engaging with you if they don’t want too. And actually a better way to look at it is that they’re probably just too awkward to realize that they’re not being a good conversation partner. I know I have that problem once in a while, and I think a lot of people do. You either have to endure the awkwardness or find someone new to talk too. That’s all any of us can do pal.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:42 PM
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Ask open ended questions about anything. If they give you a one worded response and don’t ask a reciprocating question (as a lot of people do) then it’s on them not you. Conversation goes two ways- it’s not an interview.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:37 PM
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Yeah that was my suspicion
/r/seduction27/03/22 10:01 PM
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Went great. Amazing. This is the light.
/r/seduction27/03/22 08:48 AM
1

Interesting. I’ll give it a shot.
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:16 AM
4

Please watch the movie Crazy Stupid Love
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:58 AM
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Nice! That’s awesome. Congrats man, that takes courage. I’m about to do it myself right now for the second time. Wish me luck man 🙏
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:56 AM
1

Does 40 second elbow planks every day really work?
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:52 AM
1

I wish buddy.
/r/seduction26/03/22 10:20 PM
1

I’ve been in this situation. If I could go back I’d tell myself to either just shoot your shot or give up. If she was actually interested in you she’d prioritize responding. Sorry guy. Hope I’m wrong.
/r/seduction26/03/22 09:34 PM
1

You make out with more than 20 girls in 1 night? Sounds fake.
/r/seduction26/03/22 08:09 PM
1

Take yoga classes
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:06 PM
1

No that’s what I was asking. I didn’t know if you had to bring a partner with you or something.
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:56 PM
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Congrats man! That takes courage. That’s great.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:32 AM
1

Who are the women that do it with you?
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:38 AM
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I tried going out alone the other week and I’m going to try again this weekend. I actually had a lot of fun and I didn’t talk to anyone. Sat at the bar, nursed a drink, enjoyed the buzz and just tried to look open and friendly to anyone coming by. I think the secret is to go out there with absolutely zero expectations and to just have your own fun.
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:24 PM
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Oof guilty. This is probably why its a good idea to go out alone. Your not deterred from approaching by the comfort of your friend group.
/r/seduction25/03/22 08:05 PM
1

Eye contact and smiling are the best way I think :)
/r/seduction25/03/22 01:34 AM
1

Have to say I’m really enjoying models so far. Thanks buddy!
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:19 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:19 PM
1

What’s IOI?
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:04 PM
6

I really appreciate female advice and presence in this community! Thanks for sharing, and please stay involved 🙏
/r/seduction23/03/22 07:46 PM
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Thanks for posting this. I’ve been in a low period right now and for roughly the past 3 weeks or so and reading this was comforting. Thanks!
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:52 PM
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You know that’s a good point.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:23 PM
1

Yeah no that’s not on the table. Appreciate sharing though.
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:23 PM
1

I prefer giving her your number. That makes her more comfortable if she’s not actually interested in continuing the interaction and maybe implicitly shows your confident that you don’t care if she is or not.
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:44 PM
1

This is a really interesting comment. I’ve never heard of David Buss but I’m very interested now to learn more. I actually just finished Mansons SAONGAF and have to say I wasn’t to impressed with it. There’s a lot of good stuff in there but it’s a bit cringey at some points. I think I’m going to read Models next though. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:58 PM
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I’m also into weight lifting and have been trying to be vegan/vegetarian the past few months. Can I ask what you eat to get enough protein to build muscle? Peanut butter sandwich is my go to, but anything else?
/r/seduction20/03/22 05:32 PM
1

I read Neil Strauss’ stuff back in college. Is it the same as that?
/r/seduction18/03/22 08:26 PM
1

Yes, but not a self help book…. Which this was the first self help book I’ve ever read.
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:56 PM
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Let me get 1 first, then we’ll talk about 2-3.
/r/seduction16/03/22 10:22 PM
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I’m sorry people are being mean to you for this. Love, life and happiness are complicated and people on here should be more aware of that. I don’t have any particular advice on this situation your in, but hoping for the best for you.
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:38 PM
2

Unfortunately I have the same problem. And guys who don’t smile don’t get girls 🤐
/r/seduction10/03/22 12:30 AM
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I think a lot of guys here claim to have this happen. I’m trying to myself. It really seems doable, just stay active on this sub and follow the advice.
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:17 PM
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Except Reddit. Reddit is amazing.
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:52 PM
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I’ll keep an eye out for it. Hopefully I’ll be able to do the same for myself.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:58 PM
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I think just generally it’s good to have a balanced gender participation rate.
/r/seduction07/03/22 04:10 AM
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Oh yeah, me too. It happens. But i hope you’ll stay an active member of the sub!
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:06 AM
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This is a great post man! Very inspiring. I was thinking of doing the same thing. It seems like you do statistics, and if you do, i would suggest recording data on these approaches so you can see what your actual success rate is. That’s what I’d like to do. Not for any reason other than that it’s interesting.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:24 PM
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I’d like to think those people are a fringe minority. For the most part I think we’re all here to help each other and be respectful, and supportive. And if someone is being mean and negative about it we just have to show them that’s not true :)
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:14 PM
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Yeah, I see what you mean. There’s definitely some unfortunate negativity on here, although for the most part I think this sub is pretty supportive and optimistic. And, in my experience, most men aren’t here to post misogynistic bs like some other internet spaces. Let’s keep it that way :)
/r/seduction06/03/22 07:12 PM
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I think I was the one who gave you that advice- and it makes me so happy to see this! That’s awesome man! When you go out just to have your own fun and not expect anything it’ll always turn out better than a night of sitting around by yourself. Although now I’m jealous because I was going to head out by myself last night too but then got really tired and decided not too Haha.
/r/seduction06/03/22 06:50 PM
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Thanks for sharing man! Very happy for you. Hoping to do the same myself.
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:06 PM
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I think the key is to go out with absolutely 0 expectations. If you go out with that mindset “I’m just here to enjoy myself and idgaf what happens” then you’ll have a good night.
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:04 PM
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Thanks for sharing! This sub needs more input from girls.
/r/seduction06/03/22 01:54 PM
1

What do you mean men peak in their mid-30’s?
/r/seduction06/03/22 04:03 AM
1

A little late I guess, but I think the most important thing is too have absolutely no exceptions going into it. Other than that just hang loose, nurse a drink, enjoy the buzz, and strike up conversation with someone interesting.
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:31 AM
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So I would suggest first trying to approach girls who maybe you aren’t as attracted too? Like I know we all see the smoking hot 10 and want her but maybe go for a 4 or 5 at first just to get comfy with it if that helps. This is what I’m trying to do. In other words, you should try fishing for Sunny’s in a pond before you go fishing for tuna in the ocean.
/r/seduction05/03/22 09:27 PM
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That’s a good point. I mean other guys approach me at the gym ( to ask question or make comments) while wearing headphones and I don’t care at all. I actually like it as a potential to make a new friend. You could be right, but I think the girl also could take her headphones out between sets if she was more open. Idk, it all goes back to everyone is different and it’s hard to generalize on this stuff ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:40 PM
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Thanks! I’ll check all of that out. I love Seinfeld too.
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:37 PM
3

What the hell is this blue, red, black pill stuff?
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:45 PM
4

How’d you turn things around so fast?
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:43 PM
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I don’t think it’s ever a good idea to approach a girl when she has headphones in. That’s a pretty clear sign she doesn’t want to be bothered.
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:58 AM
1

Congrats man!
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:23 PM
3

East coast PA.
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:22 PM
5

Eh idk I’m skeptical of that
/r/seduction04/03/22 01:38 PM
0

That’s interesting. Although I think the northeastern rudeness you’re referring to transcends gender. It’s all of us that are rude.
/r/seduction04/03/22 01:37 PM
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There’s no beaches in Pennsylvania
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:31 AM
3

Yeah, he’s weird. Something’s not right here. Sorry I was wrong.
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:05 AM
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Thank you for writing this. It needed to be said. Some guy was just complaining to me about “the chads” or whatever on another post. I really like that the men on here respect women and it’s not filled with misogynistic bs. Let’s keep it that way.
/r/seduction04/03/22 04:03 AM
1

I don’t think there’s much response variance through different areas of the US. What is your cold approach?
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:39 AM
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Nope. Nope to all that. And I can already tell this toxic narrative is part of your problem, and I’m not going to entertain it.
/r/seduction03/03/22 08:03 PM
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Uh- no. As I said, I’m not good with girls but that doesn’t mean I’m going to pay for them.
/r/seduction03/03/22 07:00 PM
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Very inspiring. Keep it up brother ⭐️
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:11 PM
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Look man, I don’t have any great advice for you other than to affirm what you said. I’m 25 also, and I’ve done it with exactly 1 person, and let me tell you it’s nothing special. The day after I was like “huh I’m still the same person. Nothing changed”. I wouldn’t pay for it tho. Try to follow the advice they’re giving on this sub and it will happen.
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:32 PM
2

Come on man, why would the guy be trolling. He clearly wants help.
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:17 PM
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Congrats! That takes balls man. Although for the future I wouldn’t tell someone they’re shy. That’s a bit condescending. I’ve been thinking of trying to approach this girl who works at my gym desk but still working on finding the balls to do it. I’m sure she gets approached all the time, and honestly I hate to do it at someone work. But maybe these are just excuses I’m making up to stay in my comfort zone ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:49 PM
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You know, this is a good point. I just got back from a night out with a group of guys today, and we started chatting up these girls. Of course it became a contest between me and the one other guy I was with who could get the cutest girl’s number. Neither of us got it, but still I don’t think either of us could even ask because of this. I plan to start going out on my own, but it’s nice to have a group to seek refuge in if you get denied rather than just sitting back down by yourself.
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:22 AM
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respecting women is good actually
/r/seduction01/03/22 03:57 AM
1

Please see a mental health professional who can speak to you and provided targeted assistance to help your situation. People care about you, including everyone in these comments.
/r/seduction01/03/22 01:10 AM
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Good job! That takes courage and every rejection is a learning experience
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:28 AM
1

You’re gonna be fine kid. Maybe start hitting the gym and lifting weights. That’s what I did at your age and it totally changed how girls saw me.
/r/seduction28/02/22 05:22 AM
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First, congrats on approaching. That takes courage and really is the hardest part. I know at 15 it feels like it’s the end of the world, but I promise it’s not. You’re going to be fine. Part of life is getting rejected, and as others mentioned, you should hope it happens more so you can learn from each experience.
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:23 AM
2

Interesting. No worries, thanks muchacho!
/r/seduction28/02/22 01:20 AM
1

What’s your last sentence supposed to say? Assuming it’s a typo
/r/seduction28/02/22 12:43 AM
3

You sit there, nurse a drink, watch tv, look at your phone (not too much), keep open body language and strike up conversation with anyone who looks interesting. I just did this myself for the first time the other day and I actually had a lot of fun.
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:38 PM
4

Why do you say go to bars during the week?
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:35 PM
3

Nice! Very inspiring.
/r/seduction26/02/22 11:00 PM
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