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As a german I'm "slightly" offended by this...
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 09:14 AM
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No, really. Where did I write that? Consent is always mutual. Else it can't be consensual. Mentioning that consent can only be given from women and/or men, for me, makes no sense. All involved parties have to give it. But, you may object, in this case I'm really interested in learning your definition.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 12:15 AM
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Ok, then we are fine. Mostly. :-) If some guy really only thinks of women as objects, then the philosophical side of my brain says: "He should work on that. Can't be healthy for forever." (Likewise for women.) BUT If he/she only thinks that way and performs no action, verbally or physically, that expresses this view. And he/she only thinks so in his brain.. Feel free. As our law is based on actions you commit against someone. Not thoughts. And as our society lacks telepaths they can only assume.…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 02:04 PM
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Uhm.. Ok, first: I thought we are speaking about sexually objectification off men/women through actions. Not about thoughts, fantasies, whatever. That was how I read your thread in the BDSMcommunity subreddit. As in your headline, nor in the 1 sentence long explaination you provide no reason to make me think that you limit it only to thoughts. And I guess most of the people that replied read it the same. Sadly it is very common for women to be greated with messages like "Hi my little fuckpet, ar…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 12:01 PM
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As a BDSM and TRP lurker: They are right. It's all about consent. And that's one of the things that bother me with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:12 PM
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Well, it has many advantages to meet online. Like I'm into BDSM. So for me it is crucial to know "Is she a bottom or a top? Does she like X, Y, Z and is turned on by A, B, C as much as I am?" online sites can save you countless hours here as you can specify what you search for, can search specifically for people that have this in their profile, etc. Basically I've rather bad experiences with talking to girls in the real life and when it gets closer asking them if they are into BDSM. Most are too…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:04 PM
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Ha! Great! Me too. So I'm banned there also. Funny is: I read TRP mainly to get other impressions on how one can react/behave. Like: To get inspiration. To challenge my own views. To deal with other peoples views. It's not said that I believe in everything TRP. In fact I have many opposing views and don't like some stuff that TRP preaches, like "Why do you constantly should have so many women to sleep with?" I'm in my local BDSM community, so having some simultaneous playpartners isn't new for m…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 05:38 PM
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I would have kept the nazi stuff out. It's called "Godwin's law". Google it. Your arguments are true, but the nazi stuff totally ruined it. Nothing is really comparable to the holocaust, despite the holocaust itself. And in our modern, oh-so-well-educated western world, there are enough examples you can use to fortify your argumentation.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 05:25 PM
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That's true. Couldn't have said it better.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:56 PM
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Didn't know this one. Listening to it now. It's hilarious!
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 02:46 PM
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And from what little I know about Japan, China, etc. you have way more personal freedom in western countries as the pressure by the society how you should behave, etc. isn't that strong. Of course, this can lead to "swinging sticks and stones" like you described above. But than again, that's the personal responsibility of each person. And I don't like trading in my freedom just for other people being less shitty. I prefer to learn how to deal with them and keep my freedom.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 02:37 PM
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Haha, actually I was on a barkeeper training as I always thought of this as an alternative to working in IT. But I learned: Much work, many stress, so low income. Not worth it. And when thinking of a username that wasn't taken BarServer came into my mind, and it was free. Germany. - As written in some of my comments :-)
/r/TRPOffTopic01/07/15 03:40 PM
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Well.. I tend to believe it's somewhat on an upper-intermediate level. In fact, there hasn't been a single day since I was 14 years old, where I didn't read, think, write or speak english. On most days it's 3 out of 4, at least. Thanks to my hobby (computers) and later working in IT.
/r/TRPOffTopic01/07/15 03:06 PM
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Oh f... Yep you are right. My bad :-( English is not my native language :-)
/r/TRPOffTopic01/07/15 07:43 AM
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Second that. If something makes you really feel bad, don't push you into it. So, morale aside, if you don't enjoy sleeping with girls that are in a relationship - just don't do it. After all you should be able to enjoy it. However.. Many girls will far too easily forget that they are in an relationship if they want to fuck and lie to you. Even if you tell them that you don't like to have sex with "bound women". And I can hear them say again: "I'm not guilty, the feelings.." - "Right, so the feel…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 07:10 PM
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Have to second this. 5% = 3500 woman. Dude.. Really? I mean.. You may get a lot. But that would be like "A different woman every day." if you really leave the city in a few years. I doubt that you will hit that goal, or to say it different: Don't worry. Also you are missing one part: Women also leave the city, new women come. Some are just visiting.. Most will forget you. So that lowers your "I think I know that guy.." rate drastically.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 06:59 PM
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Decided for this. Told her that: She then should stop mentioning it, as she doesn't want to do anything to solve this (either with or without my help) If she keeps mentioning it constantly I will be nerved and probably cut contact to her as I get annoyed by people that constantly complain but don't do anything to change their situation. Still not sure though if I passed it. But she agreed to come over today and sleep here, despite telling me she has to work. So I think it's a "You've passed."
/r/askTRP17/06/15 01:04 PM
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So that's https://www.youtube.com/user/CultOfBlackPhillip/videos and https://www.youtube.com/user/TheBeigePhillip/videos ?
/r/askTRP17/06/15 10:00 AM
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emotional tampon That wording made my day. I used "emotional toxic waste disposal plant" when referring to such relationships as you mentioned. But yours is way shorter and better :-)
/r/askTRP17/06/15 09:29 AM
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Looks like I have a new answer when my mum asks me again when I plan to get married. Ha! :-)
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 10:38 AM
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Or "It's okay for you to not use a condom, I'm tested." ?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 12:40 PM
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I also think so. I mean, he is still studying. Getting a job that pays for a family can still be hard depending on your country, job, background, etc. So if she wanted to know this because she wanted to start a family, than this question was asked way too early. And even if he would have answered, the answer wouldn't have any relevance as, again, way too early, there is still too much time to pass. (I assume OP is around age 20-22 and still has a few years studying before him..)
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 02:10 PM
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