I'm cutting her off.

Grifter32 · 2015-06-17T02:42:56+00:00

You don't need to talk to her to do this. Just cut contact. Radio fucking silence. You know who craves exit drama? Women, not you. If she's not doing anything for your life, drop her unceremoniously.

fnordsnord · 2015-06-17T05:06:26+00:00

Why the fuck do you want to say "I'm not going to be your friend anymore?"

Where's the win for you? What do you get out of it?

I can see the inside of your soul from here: you want her to realize what you mean to her and beg you not to cut her off.

Hollywood has lied to you. That shit does NOT happen in real life.

The kind of scene you have in mind does not end well for you.

Yes - you are a beta orbiter.

Yes - she is using you for validation and goodies.

So just stop.

Unfriend her on social media. Delete her contact information. Move on with your life.

When she contacts you, and she will, just say, "Been busy. How've you been." Then cut the contact as quickly as you can.

JanLul · 2015-06-17T02:53:30+00:00

Don't tell her shit. If she contacts you, be polite whilst unresponsive. Or just plain unresponsive. Trying to explain things aren't going to work out well for you in that situation. You don't owe her an explanation anyway.

RPSigmaStigma · 2015-06-17T02:11:11+00:00

Good job bro. Some more anti-orbiter fuel for you: Patrice O'Neal, time ho.

RPmatrix · 2015-06-17T07:03:43+00:00

Mate, Fantastic post and I really want to thank you from the bottom of my RedPill heart for making it and sharing all that great stuff with everyone especialy 'all the other lurkers here'

I also want to sincerely welcome you to TRP, now that you've come down from the bleachers, so to speak and joined us here IRcyberL hehe! (sorry I'm a bit stoned right now, it's very nice but slightly affecting my responses, so Pro Tip, don't get baked and txt girls you want to hook up with - IMHO)

Back to your post mate, It's guys like you who are without any doubt My favorite new OP's. You're being honest about how things both have been in your past and are changing now due to the application of some RP basics, which is exactly what 'we' (or at least 'I am') hoping you younger guys will get out of this place.

What some fail to see is that RP ideology as based on well established and proven, sound psychological 'truths' (for want of a better word) which are often applicable to All situations in life, things like 'improving your SMV by lifting and eating well, getting into doing rewarding activities with your mates etc etc are all great advice in general that everybody should do (if they can) to have try and have a better life and benefits thereof

And especially being always open to learning new ideas -- this, IMO is possibly The most important trait you younger RP guys should embrace to 'swallow the Pill' in the easiest way. The less resistance it has 'going down' (from your mind) the easier it is/will be to swallow these new RP ideas -- and it takes time, so don't sweat it if you haven't got to the point of spinning multiple plates after a few months, or even a year!

However, once the essence of Red Pill has been absorbed, you will find yourself living in a whole new world which "finally makes some sense!" and that, my brochaho is the way to the roads of happiness and peace of mind! (and limitless women and the sex for free!)

Another thing I really like is how you have really cut to the heart of TRP ideology so well and so quickly, esp for a 'lurker' who hasn't been asking direct questions, but from what I've been noticing over the past few years is how incredibly together and switched on you younger guys are.... that is, when you want to be! lol

Bro, it's guys like you who are the "Avante Guarde" or literally the 'advanced guard' aka as the 'cutting edge stage 2.0 Betas in RP development' on their way to being released in the wild! You guys are also in the position to start re-writing the rules for every player of this Game, esp the 'sexual strategy' side of things, for I have a dream of a day, where men and women can live in unity and happiness without the social bullshit and contrivances forced upon us by the greedy mainstream media with shows like the Bachelo/ette selling marriage syndrome whilst the Disney company sells Princess Syndrome and IMHO the girls are almost as confused as the guys are at your age! Honestly, I'd HATE to be a 18-20yo HB8+ in today's society, esp the US. It can't be easy on them!

Anyway, I think I've raved on enough but rest assured my new RP bro, /u/LouieBulk (who I now will call Bulkybro) you've been tagged as what you are, "a cool young guy learning TRP ropes and doing fine" and you can feel free to ask me anything here in the open or via pm, anytime mate -- I'm a 48yo Aussie guy just to give you some idea

Tl:Dr: Nice Opening Post, thanks for sharing it and a big hearty welcome from RPM and askTRP Bulkybro. Keep up the great work and keep askTRP in the loop with your progress, we're rooting for you and with a bit of luck, you'll be reporting on your rooting in the future! Nice!

cheers RPM

p.s. and something I'd also noticed is that you're not hiding behind some beta ass throwaway, but using your (I'd guess) main account, which shows you're accepting responsibility for yourself, mate, IMO you're rockin this shit!

BarServer · 2015-06-17T09:29:06+00:00

emotional tampon

That wording made my day. I used "emotional toxic waste disposal plant" when referring to such relationships as you mentioned.
But yours is way shorter and better :-)

Title	I'm cutting her off.
Author	LouieBulk
Upvotes	14
Comments	23
Date	June 17, 2015 1:35 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3a40rl/im_cutting_her_off/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/im-cutting-her-off.150153 https://theredarchive.com/post/150153

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