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It's going to depend on your budget, but my advice would be to go to the mall. Try on all the jeans you can afford. That's the only way to find the ones that'll fit you well.
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:10 AM
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Words to live by. A real alpha has the confidence to be ok with not getting the girl.
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:04 AM
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You sound like me. I'm so thankful for trp. It helped me climb out of a dark place, and taught me that nobody can make me better except me. I don't visit it much anymore though. Too much complaining about women. A lot of negativity. I never had any anger toward them. Only at myself for being so weak. TRP made me strong so I'll always be grateful for that.
/r/seduction22/02/16 12:46 AM
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It's not letting your emotions control your decision making. It's holding frame, and not letting people see weakness. I want to say it's like an IDGAF attitude, but more like being ok no matter the outcome of any given situation.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 04:49 PM
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I hooked up with 25-30 girls over summer from Tinder. I agree with everything you said except the opener of "hi". If you can come up with something clever that'll always be the better than "hi". I'll try out your way of setting up the date, but I usually invite them to do something I'm already going/wanting to do. I tell them, "I'm going to grab lunch at whatever at 1pm. Come with me". I tell them. I never ask them anything. If they can't make it then I don't reply back. I'll try again in a few …
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 11:37 PM
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You have to own it. I'm 5'9". Went on a date a few nights ago with a woman that's 5'8", and she wore 6" heels! Towered over me. Didn't matter though. I told her I have no problem climbing that tree. I had her laughing her ass off the whole date, and I was kinoing hard. When we said goodbye I pulled her in for a strong hug, and lifted her off the ground like it was nothing. She giggled, and I could see the tingles in her eyes.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 09:50 PM
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Somebody might have said this already, but you fucked up right out of the gate by putting her on a pedestal. An HB10? Those don't exist. The whole time you're keep mentioning how hot she is, and I'm sure she was. You have to believe you have higher, or equal SMV as her though. If you had treated her like all your other tinder dates I believe you would have closed.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 04:19 AM
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It said they were going to the same College
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 03:48 AM
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Haha I meant for arguing with you, and not seeing the truth for myself. I was thanking you for the advice. Not everything has some deep seeded meaning. I don't need anyone's validation.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 01:54 PM
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Fuck man. I have to apologize. You were right about everything. After clearing my head at the gym the fog of oneitis lifted. This 32 year old is still on the cock carousel. She's a slut. Lol I can't believe I didn't see that until now. I was going to plate her, and cut all calls until next month when she comes to see me. Fuck her all weekend and then next her. Now I can't even do that cause the thought of how many dicks she'll take next month grosses me the fuck out. She's getting nexted today
/r/askTRP30/07/15 06:58 PM
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After hitting the gym last night, and clearing my head...you are absolutely right. I'm soft nexting her today.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 06:55 PM
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You know nothing, Jon Snow. TRP isn't a cult. Far from it. When you swallow the people it's a journey you begin alone. Nobody can help you improve yourself, but you. Nobody can make you successful, healthy in mind, and body except YOU. Nobody should hate women after they've swallowed the pill. There's the anger phase, but we get over it. Most of us... And why shouldn't we be bitter for a little while. We got fucked over by the women we love. Now I like women, and TRP taught me how to do that wit…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 09:07 AM
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Damn, I never thought of it like that. I'll cut down on the calls, and be more distant.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 12:13 AM
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Thanks. Yeah that's pretty much what I've been doing. She always trying to see how I feel, and I say as little as possible or nothing at all. As far as I'm concerned the other guys can kiss her ass. I don't even pay for her food when we go out.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 10:34 PM
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Thanks. I like this idea. I'll probably end up meeting her by the end of the month, but let's see how this goes.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 09:59 PM
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Ticket purchased. Can't wait
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:11 PM
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No way. All I ever talk about is fucking her, and when she comes to visit how I'm going to have a sex swing installed. There are no emotions in her conversations. In fact, the reason I like talking to her is cause it's a lot like talking to a guy. She has her own shit going on, and so do I.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:05 PM
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Oh for sure. I'm not disagreeing with anything you've said. I'm saying I have it under control. She does have abundance mentality, and is a little alpha. It doesn't mean shit to me though. Her bringing up those guys is her way to get an emotional response out of me, because image knows I'm fucking a lot of women. She wants to see if I care about her more than them. She even fished for it during that convo by asking what she is to me. She wanted to know if she was a booty call like the others. I …
/r/askTRP29/07/15 06:02 PM
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Haha yeah the oneitis has been creeping up, but I have TRP now. I'm in control. I'll always be #1 in my life from now on. She's 4 hours away so nothing will ever come of this. Plus I'm probably moving soon, and it's even farther away. I'll definitely have to next her then, but for now I'm going to have my fun.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 05:07 PM
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Yeah I know. What I meant was I don't cater to her emotional needs. The other guys she seeing does. I'm the only one that's a challenge for her. She's looking for a BB, and knows that's not me. So it's just us having fun for now.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 04:45 PM
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Oh I totally care about her, but I can still walk away at anytime. She's text me twice since last night, and I haven't responded. Radio silence for a few days is a good call
/r/askTRP29/07/15 04:43 PM
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If I fed her ego I would agree with the emotional tampon part, but I don't cater to her at all. I've only bought her breakfast once when all her other guys wine and dine her. I enjoy the calls. We click. That's all there is to it. I know AWALT, but occasionally we do meet a woman who isn't a colossal pain in the ass. Yeah, I screwed up there. I definitely showed that it bothered me, but I didn't know how not to. That's why I made this post.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:28 AM
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Wish you lived in Vegas. I would love to pick your brain.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 07:07 PM
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They don't. It's not about pussy at all. I'm so tired of everyone focusing on getting laid when it's such a small part of TRP. Monk mode is for getting your head right. Getting through the anger phase. It's your time to revaluate your life's choices, and focus on being the best man you can be. That means get healthier(gym/eating), learn some skills/hobbies, and focusing on your career(get paid). Woman are a by product of living a good life. They aren't the end game. They're a commodity that make…
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:57 AM
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She's gone. If you chase her you will look weak as fuck in her eyes. It means you have no resolve. She's deleted you from her life like you should have done. She's been more alpha about it than you. Focus on yourself. Gym, career, and mental state. Become stronger. Become a man who gets what he wants.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:51 AM
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This is the only way to do it. Out of sight; out of mind. Don't even creep on her FB. I did it recently, and it was a terrible idea. Focus on yourself. Stay busy. Talk to more women.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 12:44 AM
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I only get shit from guys who are out of shape. They seem to fucking hate me. I get respect from anybody who works out. They understand the time spent preying at the Iron Temple.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 03:47 PM
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I kill it on Tinder where I can lay out the ground work without any pressure. When it comes to cold approaching I'm a fucking train wreck. My frame goes to shit. I worry if I'm going to get shut down to the point that my face turns red, and I feel like I could almost pass out. I need to go hang out with someone that'll make me go talk to women.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 03:42 PM
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You sound like me. Same age, and everything. I think the trick to finding a good LTR is to find a woman who meets your strict standards, and thinks similar to a guy. Just don't forget AWALT. We aren't going to find a decent woman in this Netflix and chill sluts. Don't get me wrong. I love banging them, but usually only once. There's one I really like that I met through a friend. She lives 4 hours away though. We talk on the phone almost everyday, and it's not a chore. I actually enjoy it. She un…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 10:32 PM
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I think it depends on how BP you were before, and how much effort you put into changing. It's a marathon. Not a sprint. Self-improvement never stops. I've been drowning in pussy for a few months now, and today I thought it would be a good idea to check out the Facebook of the girl who sent me off the deep end. What a mistake that was. The oneitis reared its ugly head, and I felt like I got hit by a truck. So as you can see; swallowing TRP takes time. Lots of effort.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:52 PM
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I think you're fucking up already by calling her a HB10. That's a unicorn, and they don't exist. Take her off the pedestal. She eats, and shits just like you.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 12:48 PM
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I agree with your first part, but don't give advice on steroids. You obviously don't know as much as you think.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 04:33 AM
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You're the same height, and weight as me. We're not that small. That's just your body dismorphia talking. Although, I don't know what your Bodyfat % is. My advice: go get a physical. Get blood work on everything. Especially cholesterol, and testosterone. If your test is low you can get TRT, or start doing your own dosage. Most importantly DO YOUR FUCKING HOMEWORK. Everybody is different. You can take a ton of steroids and have barely any sides. Other people take it for a couple weeks, and get gy…
/r/askTRP24/07/15 04:31 AM
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Exactly this. I'm in construction. Everybody got laid off a month ago. Haven't found a new job yet, but I'm drowning in pussy. They're all on my schedule. I tell them when I'm working(I'm not), and when they can see me again. Nobody really asks about my job, and when they do I'm mysterious about it. OP might think it's amoral, but I never lie to anyone. I'm honest about my intentions up front. I dress nice, and my house is nice. They don't give a fuck what I do. It's all about appearances.
/r/askTRP24/07/15 04:24 AM
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I really appreciate the input. I'll look into it. I'm definitely going back to school.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:49 AM
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This hit close to home. I'm in construction which means I'm always working myself out of a job. Always working for someone else who's making a load of money off of my time. I'm dying to change professions, but I'm 33. No idea where to begin. Multiple incomes is the way to go. I love this post.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 12:42 AM
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One of my best friends is a gay black guy, and we talk about TRP everyday.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 12:48 AM
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Enthusiasm is exactly it. I met a chick off tinder a few days ago who absolutely worships the cock. If you find a girl that loves getting fucked in the throat you better plate the shit out of her. Ducking this girl was like being in a porn.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 04:48 AM
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You should visit r/fitness
/r/askTRP16/07/15 05:55 AM
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I disagree. Blood doesn't make them a good person. I don't care if you're related to me, or not. If you don't benefit me, bring me down in any way I'll cut you out like the tumor that you are. Ignore the cousin. If you see her at family functions be civil, but emotionless. You have your own life. Your own circle of people that bring positive energy into your life. Ignore the train wrecks.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 05:54 AM
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Our greatest asset is the ability to walk away. I know it'll cut you deep if you find out she cheats, but you have to be the alpha here. Bury those painful feelings, and next her. There's a million other women waiting to worship your cock if you keep working on yourself.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 05:45 AM
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Never plan anything so far in advance! Two days away tops. Also I'm seeing a hint of oneitis. You need to put that in check. Where's your abundance mentality? Don't tell me this is the only chick you're talking to.
/r/askTRP16/07/15 02:38 AM
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Pretty much, but the unfollowers site cost money to do over 25 a day.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:01 PM
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Creating a new account was my first thought when he said unfollow everyone to 0
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:57 PM
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I went through 14 women in the last month. All good fucks except the last one. The last one was a wake up call. I couldn't wait for her to leave, and she didn't leave right away. Now that I think I've gotten it out of my system(the need to bang random women). I want to find two women that I enjoy, and possibly LTR one. Never getting married though.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 10:30 PM
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It's the oneitis. Our worst enemy. I'm sleeping with plenty of women, but occasionally one will come along that raises my oneitis levels. Luckily, I found a pill for that.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:39 PM
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By not giving her all your attention. This goes back to holding the room. Talk to all the girls. Abundance mentality. Let the one know you're interested, but never lose frame.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:08 PM
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I read something in the main sub that helped me with this same question. They said always aim for the 7,8,9's, but don't be afraid to litter your list with 5's and 6's.
/r/askTRP02/07/15 08:04 PM
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Everybody should lift. That goes without saying. My point is don't use your height as an excuse. That's weakness. Overcome it.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:37 AM
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Eh, i would say a 6 or 7. He was skinny. Not muscular at all. Just a normal kind of good looking. Trust me, if you saw him you would think he's pretty average.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:21 AM
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Agreed. Height doesn't matter as much as a lot of men think. If you have confidence women will notice. It's like an aura you put out that signals their pussy that the biggest dick in the room just walked in. When I was in the military this guy that was 5'4" ended up marrying, and knocking up one of the prettiest girls I've seen. The guy was cocky, and never let his height hold him back. It's all about your state of mind my friends.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 06:00 AM
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You basically just said it's ok to act like women. TRP is about being better than them. About being the best man you can be.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 11:18 AM
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I feel the same way. If I hide who I am, and what I think then that goes against my giving zero fucks about anything. I don't go looking for conflict, but I won't run away from it either. I believe part of being alpha is standing your ground. If I was OP, I would have looked that guy dead in the eyes. No emotion, and said "you're an idiot".
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 11:13 AM
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Those winky faces made me cringe. As soon as she demanded you take her out I would have went radio silent.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 10:58 AM
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If they need scientific proof just go to a Justin Beiber concert. Those girls go fuckin nuts. They want that guys dick more than they want oxygen. Then go to any female musicians show. How many straight men do you see there? How many of those straight men went, because they're hoping for a chance to fuck said celebrity? Men don't care about social status. We just want to fuck hot women. She could be from the ghetto for all we care. I live in Vegas. I've seen guys get a blow job from a cute homel…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 10:47 AM
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Agreed on the strip clubs. If you're in decent shape, and it shows you can usually pull a few numbers out of there on a slow night. These women dance for slobs 80% of the time so when Chad comes through they are giddy as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:18 AM
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I had the same problem. It comes mostly from post wall women. Telling the truth didn't work. Crashed, and burned. Now I tell them "I haven't met a woman yet that makes me want to believe in marriage". It's still the truth, and they eat it up. It becomes a challenge for them.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 12:11 PM
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Same here. Tinder is a numbers game. I have 315 matches, but I've probably only been out with 40. Fucked maybe 15. A lot of this was before I swallowed the pill though. Now I've closed on 4 in the last 2 weeks, but 6's aren't something to tell my friends about.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:33 PM
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She got there a minute before me, and bought her own coffee. So that worked out. I'll do the muffin thing in the next date. Love the equal opportunity bit haha! I'll do that on another date I have tomorrow night.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 01:54 AM
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Exactly what I wanted to hear. Thanks👍
/r/askTRP24/06/15 12:32 AM
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That's what I was wondering. That list had train wreck written all over it, and how do you fuck a smelly pussy for 5 months.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:19 PM
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Plus the best part about text is that you have time to think of something good to say. I think a lot of guys feel they need to respond right away which is a terrible idea.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 02:40 AM
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Don't beat yourself up. You're only 20, and you don't have any stds since you're a virgin. That's an upside. Don't get in a hurry. Like the guy said work on yourself. The ladies will come. Next time you get flustered by a cute girl remember she's only that. She didn't create the fucking wheel, or pioneer the reach around. Remember that she blows up the toilet after eating Taco Bell just like you. Take a deep breath, and think of something to say that's just casual chit chat. She's not going to b…
/r/askTRP20/06/15 05:05 AM
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Yup. Tell him about lifting, and how it breeds confidence. That it's therapeutic. Don't drop any trp on him. He has to find his own path.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 07:33 PM
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Exactly. He said she only drinks once or twice a year! So she chose their anniversary as one of those days? She doesn't respect the LTR, or him. I want to know what she said the next morning about it.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 07:22 PM
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This whole thing sounds like the oneitis talking. I know how you feel. You want to fuck that chick that got away. You need to shut that feeling down now. Do not give her any attention. You need to stay aloof. Keep doing your own thing. If you see her out that's cool, but you still better be flirting with other chicks. If she invites you out say you'll probably be in the area, and tell her to just keep an eye out for you. If she's decides she wants to go home with you DO NOT Get attached. Fuck he…
/r/askTRP17/06/15 07:13 PM
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I think he was secretly hoping to get a response out of her. Hoping she would say "don't leave me!" Which never happens. Those are still Beta dreams.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 08:51 AM
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There's other things besides lifting to increase smv. Read, pick up an instrument, learn to cook, dance, etc. Think of a skill you've always wanted, and learn it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 06:20 PM
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I like this. I'm not going to reply to her for a while. I know she's into me so I'm going to let her sweat it out. When she does I'll use this.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 08:18 AM
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I haven't replied to it. Probably won't.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 10:43 PM
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She accused me of mistaking her for the other girl I was talking to. Then she said I should call her to come over instead. I said "I would but she's at work" she really was. She said "that sucks for her. I'm in bed all cuddled up" Me "ya, but you're not in bed cuddled up with me" Her "you have to earn that"
/r/askTRP10/06/15 10:21 PM
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At first I told her to come over for breakfast, and she was all about that.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:18 PM
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Sorry about that. I didn't actually say it in those words
/r/askTRP10/06/15 05:16 PM
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I live in Vegas. I have room for a few people.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:05 PM
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This. You want her too bad. It's clouding your judgement. If she is adamant about not fucking you then cut off all communication. Soft next.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:34 AM
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I've met short guys with bad bitches. Remember that there's girls that are super short too. There's also women who don't care if you're short if you're built like a brick shit house.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:26 AM
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Ya, in hindsight that was stupid. While being honest about my intentions I forgot to play the game.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 01:48 PM
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/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:03 AM
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Word. That's what I figured.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:59 AM
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Go to your doctor. Get blood work done. If your T is low request TRT. If the doctor is not wanting to help then go the other route...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:20 AM
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Neo went searching for the matrix. Morpheus took notice, and gave him 2 choices as we all know. So I agree with both of you. Don't talk about trp, but if you come across a brother who's searching for answers then you should put him on the path. Let him walk it alone though.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 11:11 PM
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I agree with all of this. This is the problem though. She's coming up one day only. Sunday and leaving Monday. I live in Las Vegas, and she's in Phoenix. I'm not trying to plate a girl in another state. She's basically told me she wants to see me when she comes up, but I'm unsure of her motives. A lot of people who come up here want me to hook them up at clubs and shit. I'm just going to do like the other guy said. Show up, escalate, make my intentions known. If there's a guy there she's with al…
/r/askTRP29/05/15 08:14 PM
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I like this. You're right in that I don't care either way. I just don't want to waste my time which is valuable. So I'll go. Access the situation, and decide from there. I love the eye contact, and bailing if there's a guy. That's such an AF move.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 07:45 PM
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Yeah, sorry. I didn't want to make a wall of text so I kept it brief. I'm pretty sure she's single, but may be seeing a guy. She is definitely NOT with her husband anymore. He's beta, and she's AWALT as they come.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 07:43 PM
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Exactly, and chicks love giraffes. Source: Dated a chick who loves giraffes
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:31 AM
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This hits close to home. There's no reason I should fear approaching women, but it scares me to death. I work out, have a good job, my own house, etc etc. Yet approaching a woman is my biggest fear. It didn't used to be like this. I don't know what happened.
/r/seduction05/03/15 03:43 AM
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You're thinking too much. Stand up straight, chest out, and shoulders back. Repeat in your mind that you are important, and you have confidence. Basically, create a mantra that you can repeat in your head that makes you feel like the most confident mother fucker in the room. Stop worrying about what other people think about you because they don't control your happiness. You do. It's going to take practice, but eventually hanging out with women will become as easy as hanging out with your boys. W…
/r/seduction24/02/15 09:40 PM
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Something I've always tried to do is to just remember that girls are people too. If you treat them like you would anyone else, and just be yourself(be cool) then a lot of times they'll see that you have confidence. Which will peak their interest, or at the very least take the stress off of you so everyone can have a good time.
/r/seduction24/02/15 08:34 PM
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I agree that looks are a huge part of getting attractive women, but when you're a 6 or 7 it's possible for confidence to make you an 8. Unwavering confidence is an energy/pheromone that women can instinctively pick up on. It's amazing how far it can take you.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:07 AM
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That's fuckin brutal. I feel your pain
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 03:25 AM
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I am on mobile, and went out of my way to the desktop. Still couldn't find.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:07 AM
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This. I looked at the sidebar, and couldn't find it.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:05 AM
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Thank you! Much appreciated!
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:03 AM
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Awesome! Thank you for the help. Couldn't find on sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:03 AM
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New to the sub. What's AF and BB?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 09:44 PM
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This was amazing! Thank you for posting it. I wish I could have seen it a month ago.
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:03 AM
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You made me laugh (high five)
/r/seduction10/12/14 01:50 PM
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I know it sucks, but you have to leave the ball in her court at this point. If she never responds then fuck it. You have to hold your value high. So when you see her at the bar again treat it like it was a one night stand, and you e moved on.
/r/seduction08/11/14 12:22 AM
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This was my first question too haha!
/r/seduction08/11/14 12:17 AM
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