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| 2 | On the methodology of walking | Barabbas- | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 04:55 AM |
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| 24 | Do you want to go back to my place?Cheesy or not, the idea is to circumvent ASD by providing a reason to go back to your place with plausible deniability. Pretty much anything will work as long as it does not specifically imply sex. So a good invitation might be something like: "You want to come in for a nightcap?" Whereas a bad invitation would be like: "Wanna check out my bondage collection?" Basically, she wants things to feel like they happened naturally and spontaneously. It's your job to set a scene that allows her to feel … | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 09:49 PM |
| 10 | Unpopular hot take: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but we're under pressure to make moves or else we'll be friendzoned.Physical contact is a huge component of every relationship, from romantic to platonic to professional. Hugging, kissing, shaking hands, etc. All of that is language, and if you don't know how to speak the language, you probably wont get very far. As someone who did not receive much physical affection as a child, I was very uncomfortable with touching as a young adult. It wasn't until my my mid/late 20's that I made a conscious effort to change. One of the first things I did was force myself to t… | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 07:25 AM |
| 2 | 10 basic yet unorthodox tipsAny planing is manipulation, and everyone hates manipulation. Never plan what youre going to say. Minor caveat on this point: "Rehersed" lines are lame and transparent, but I generally keep a few tried and true stories/activities in my back pocket that can be worked into a conversation or transitioned to easily. Its also not a bad idea to survey your date spots in advance looking for secondary and tertiary locations. You always want to have a "plan" to change things up if the timing feels right.… | /r/seduction | 04/10/20 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Maybe a girl is not meant to be our soul mate. Maybe as a guy, we are meant to have a group of guy friends as our soul mates, or soul tribe. This makes us less needy on girls, which is more attractive to them.well, yeah, in a way it most certainly is. | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Told a girl no todayThe virus has already spread across the entire country. There are confirmed cases in every state, but the numbers we're seeing are maybe only 1/10 of the actual extent of the virus. Now, the focus needs to be on keeping the rate of spread down. | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Told a girl no today...we're only taking these precautions to prevent an situation where there aren't enough beds to support those affected. Which is already happening and we're not even near the apex of this crisis. The only thing changing is the amount of time our businesses remain closed, people are going to be out of jobs, and the economy remains fucked. You're right, the economy is fucked. But the way to bring it back is by taking this seriously now and not waiting for it to blow up even more than it already h… | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 02:55 PM |
| 11 | Told a girl no todayset a certain threshold of the percentage of the population of each state before certain measures are taken You want to wait until people start dying to take action? Are you fucking serious? NY got hit hard, and they'll likely be over it pretty soon As someone who is currently in NYC, let me tell you: no we bloody wont. The death toll keeps increasing. There are lines around the block at hospitals/testing centers, and refrigerated semi-trucks parked at the loading docks to cart away the bodies. … | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual woman....there are women who love a bumbling shy guy or a clean cut office worker type. One of the things that is often reiterated around here is how seduction is largely a numbers game. Dudes often come here asking: "how do I make ___individual girl I have crush on___ like me", to which we usually respond: "you don't, move on." The question this sub is designed to answer is: "how do I make myself appeal to the largest possible audience". So while there probably are some women who go for bumbling, shy… | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?Right. I mean, I understand it on an intellectual level... I was more commenting on how it's weird that a person can be simultaneously secure in their platonic relationships and insecure in their romantic one(s). | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?At least, they're no less stable than mono relationships. Have you seen the divorce rate lately? | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else simultaneously want to make a deep connection with one girl but..also want to bang many hot girls?So at the end you still had to hide something? Not necessarily... u/theosambahama and his partner may have had a mutual agreement not to discuss their outside relationships. Some couples are 100% open with each other. Some are open, but prefer not to hear details. And others have "don't ask, don't tell" policies. Every relationship is different and they often change over time. ...deep down you have a favourite one and it hurts when he her or it has some sex with someone else. This is generally t… | /r/seduction | 11/11/19 11:33 PM |
| 2 | It all comes down to this!Whatever happened to the mystique of coming across an honest, open book? What do you mean "mystique"? A person who broadcasts each and every one of their intentions is not mysterious. Mystery implies not knowing; which, I might add, is entirely different from deception.... I guess what I'm trying to say is seduction and honesty are not necessarily contradictory. Robert Greene's books are like manuals on what makes people tick, but they are agnostic when it comes to the ways in which one chooses … | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 11:59 PM |
| 11 | When girls flake it's usually not your fault and as a newbie you will get a lot of flakes because you have still not learned the art of making her chase you real hard. Don't get demotivated and keep on taking massive action.The girl this guy is talking to is 19. She has no idea what she wants and definitely doesn't understand the motivations behind her actions. In 10 years, after she's had more experience dating and had her heart broken a few times, I would expect a lot of these responses to be different. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:15 PM |
| 0 | Do you find abstaining from masturbation before going out at night or on dates useful?That's really dependant on a number of factors: Age, Testosterone, Excitement, Comfort, etc. I'm in my 30's and at this age if I fap before a date, I'm probably not going to get very excited unless she's an absolute freak. The longer you've been around and the more shit you've tried, the wilder things need to be. At the same time though, stamina increases with age. Last year I spent 4+ hrs satisfying a girl in London after a week of no-fap and came 6 times. | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Online dating, 2019.This comment feels like a feeble attempt at plugging your red-piller blog... ...And that post reads like it was written by a House Cat with a superiority complex; looking down on it's human masters, smugly content in it's own ignorance. | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl on dating app wants to meet up but do I look different on the pics? U.K.You posted the exact same question with the same photos 3 days ago under a different username. r/quityourbullshit | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on “Seduction” from a book regarding actingDon't take life advice from people who literally pretend to be someone else for a living. | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 04:03 PM |
| – | As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars?No, I'm pretty sure that wouldn't work regardless of location. Most people raised in "the west", be they male or female, operate within a socio-cultural framework that frowns upon that level of forwardness. Each of us subconsciously subscribe to a host of expectations regarding social interactions. While it is true that people who deviate from those expectations call attention to themselves (This is where the idea of peacocking came from), it IS possible to deviate too far. For example: there wa… | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 09:33 PM |
| 92 | Some Motivation For My Fellow Seductionists/Creators Out There! 👊Yeah, this doesn't even sound like him... "Victim mentality" is not something he ever talked about, and the "I'm not locked in here with you..." quote is from Watchmen (which came out 36 years after his death). | /r/seduction | 07/03/19 08:26 AM |
| 7 | Over ~3mo I taught myself to give her 6x orgasms during sex. It was a huge pain in the ass, but here's what worked the best.It's not... The thing is most guys don't know how to please a woman whereas most women at least have a pretty good idea of what to do with a guy. This is why the overwhelming amount of sex advice is targeted toward men. When I'm with my girl, I'm usually in control and I already do most of the stuff in this article, but sometimes my girl will grab me by the tie, pull me into the bedroom, push me down on the bed, and go to town. A relationship is all about balance. If you do the same thing over a… | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 05:51 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation?I spelunk for the city Bruce? ...Is that you? | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 05:29 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when you still miss someone years after seperation?Distractions will help you get through your day, but eventually you'll need to allow yourself to grieve. This process is different for everyone, and even the same person may experience grief differently over different relationships. I've been in a number of relationships and most of them have ended with an initial sense of relief followed by a long, low-intensity period of depression that tapers off over time. The one exception to this was a girl I only dated for 6 months or so. We started havin… | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Hit me like a truckOk, let's say that's true. Even so, you have a significant advantage in that she's comparing you - a guy she's already met and obviously likes considering you managed to close her somehow - to a bunch of faceless resumes. | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 04:00 PM |
| 7 | Hit me like a truckOP's post doesn't definitively identify his methodology. u/doriangreat, on the other hand, is specifically talking about approaching, which - ya know - is what we do. There's a reason for that: Texting/dating apps are like sending a resume when applying for a job. If you look absolutely amazing on paper, you'll probably get a few offers. Unfortunately, not everyone looks good on paper, and even those that do are competing against hundreds of other equally qualified candidates. Now imagine if the… | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Hit me like a truckWhen you text a girl... Texting =/= Approaching | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 03:01 PM |
| 6 | How do I show her I care while maintaining attraction? (Relationship)Yeah, it's a little needy, but my point is that neediness isn't an entirely bad thing. It can be used as a seductive tool when appropriate. Neediness is just another word for investment. The problem is that guys have a tendency to invest way too quickly; and demonstrating a disproportionate level of investment is what breaks attraction. Seduction is a game of push and pull. You demonstrate a little investment and then you take it back by acting disinterested. One of my favorite things to do when… | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 09:51 PM |
| 179 | How do I show her I care while maintaining attraction? (Relationship)Seduction will help you get the girl, but it won't help you keep her, my friend. TBH, this is probably not the right sub for your particular situation. Pickup is like fishing. Dating is like preparing the meal. You dont let fishermen cook the fish and you don't send chefs to catch them. Maintaining a relationship requires a completely different set of skills and "acting like you don't care" isn't one of them. Of course, you don't transition into a relationship overnight. The length of time you'v… | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 07:59 AM |
| 20 | My friend got asked out by my crush and it hurtsYou don't seriously believe he's dated 5-6 people at age 16, do you? I mean, 6 chicks isn't really enough to have lost count already, lol. The real answer is he's probably never dated anyone. He probably hasn't even had his first kiss yet, and that's TOTALLY NORMAL for someone his age. No offense, OP, but you're not even out of puberty yet... When did you even first realize you were attracted to women? 12? 13? If you've been pulling a new girl every 6 months for the past 3 years then you're alre… | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).I don't know what kind of "sexual attraction" could last for 3-5 years because this terms exist for short term desire within few days at most. So you've never been with anyone who held your interest for more than a few days... And I'm supposed to believe you're an authority on this subject. Gimme a break, man. If that's true, you need to raise your standards considerably. I base my knowledge on science instead of experience. Ding ding ding! And there we have it, folks! Yeah, unfortunately pickup… | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).kids should obey their parents. Same way a woman should obey to her man Children need to obey their parents because sometimes parents know what's best for them due to life experience. Are you suggesting that fully grown women aren't capable of thinking for themselves? This is one of the reasons why in more traditional societies divorce rates are very low Yeah... Except no. Divorce rates are low in "traditional" societies because it is stigmatized and/or downright illegal. When US states adopted … | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).If you want relationships where you could just relax then you need a woman who would completely follow your terms and your rules, accepts her subordinate position Holy shit, bro. That mindset is fucked up and downright dangerous. No wonder you think pick up is all about chasing girls fresh out of high school... Any woman with an ounce of life-experience and the self respect that comes with it would see right through you. There's a difference between being confident and being an arrogant prick: A… | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Criticism to PUA (My friend seems crazy).Who would want to get woman of same age when he is himself in his forties? I'm 30 and dealing with 18-25 year old girls can be pretty insufferable already. As you get older, your interests change and you stop caring about certain things that were very important to you when you were younger. College-age girls live in a completely different world, and frankly, I can't see a 40-something man giving a shit about anything they consider relevant. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How you all text girls? Im boring at texting......and that, right there, is why you're a socially isolated virgin who can't figure out how to text women. Seriously, grow the f*ck up, man; and take responsibility for your life. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 01:54 PM |
| 9 | How you all text girls? Im boring at texting...OP, all I see in this thread are excuses. There's a ton of advice in here already, so I won't add to it, but I will say that you need to change your perspective. Instead of coming up with reasons for why you CANT do something, spend your mental energy trying to figure out a way to put it into action. We've led you to water, but you're the one who has to drink. Even in Iraq, you have control over the reins of your life. Stop coming up with excuses and use the power you have to make positive chang… | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 06:10 PM |
| 4 | How you all text girls? Im boring at texting...Lmfao, if that's true and it's impossible to talk to girls in person, then the only way you could be getting numbers is through online dating. ...But if there's no opportunity to meet up, then what's the point? Uninstall the app and stop worrying about how to text girls because you'll never get anywhere with it as long as you live wherever you are now. You need to be focusing on getting away from wherever you live by whatever means possible. Not just so you can succeed with women, but so you can… | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some good hobbies/tricks to improve your game?I can't disagree with any of your points. What I'm trying to say is I don't think MM works out of the box. It's far more beneficial to read it after having gained at least a little experience. I've seen guys go straight to MM right after reading The Game and come out with some pretty warped ideas of how pickup works and how to treat people. I believe Models is a better starting place for anyone just getting into pickup and/or self-improvement in general, which I'm kinda assuming is the case with… | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 05:56 AM |
| 1 | What are some good hobbies/tricks to improve your game?MM gets singled out because it's specifically marketed as a catch-all system for guys who lack any sort of game whatsoever. Mystery himself makes bold promises in his book that if you follow his advice you're guaranteed success with women, when the reality is that even mystery can't get a girl to stick around because he's a completely one dimensional person. I'm not saying there's nothing of value in MM. I certainly learned some things from it, but it was at a time when I was already having succ… | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 02:37 AM |
| 1 | What are some good hobbies/tricks to improve your game?MM is just a formula that enables you to break social conventions in order to stand out from the crowd. This concept is sound; however (as taught by Mystery) the formula is tried and tired... It only really works on women who haven't had anybody use it on them before. If they have, they'll see right through your pickup attempt. And remember, it's been around for 20-30 years. There was even a freaking reality show at one point. People are familiar with it even if they can't name it specifically. … | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What are some good hobbies/tricks to improve your game?Pretty much. Mark Manson I think presents one of the most well rounded and healthy approaches to pick up out there. I highly recommend "Models" to anyone who hasn't read it. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 04:32 PM |
| 4 | What are some good hobbies/tricks to improve your game?Oh for sure. There are definitely aspects that work. But the fundamental problem with pickup, as Neil later came to realize (read his second book... even though it's not as good), is that it functions as a sort of mask. If you can get anyone you want, but you have to become somebody other than yourself to do it, then what's the point? I think a lot of people are drawn to this sub and pickup in general because they're unhappy with themselves. The external validation you get from pickup definitely… | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 04:27 PM |
| 11 | What are some good hobbies/tricks to improve your game?While "The Game" is a great book, you have to keep in mind that Neil was writing about his experiences during the 90's and early 00's, when the entire idea of pickup artistry was completely unknown outside a very small circle of people. This was 20+ years ago. Reddit didn't even exist, never-mind this sub. Like everything else, the field has evolved beyond many of the central concepts that resulted in Mystery and Style's success. Anyone religiously following the Mystery Method today will likely … | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 04:14 PM |
| 2 | 100 Women in 50 Days, Day 5: Two Solid ApproachesI would like to know this as well. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Approaching 2 Girls at the Same Time - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 2I would just like to commend you on going about this whole project in such a wholesome manner. Nobody gets hurt (yet), and you brighten a few girls' days. Keep it up. I love reading these. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Asking out my Yoga Teacher - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 1That's fine, just don't sleep with a person if you value your current relationship... If OP's favorite yoga place, the one he could never live without is where girl 1 works... Lessons might get awkward after they get nasty one night and he forgets to call her the next morning. | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Just got out of almost 9 year relationship and I'm lostLol, thanks for that. | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Just got out of almost 9 year relationship and I'm lostYes, those are big milestones that you need to pursue, but the harder part is transforming your life on the micro level. To become the person you (I'm projecting here) want to be means stopping to chat with that cute girl walking her dog instead of just strolling past her. It's in learning to change your behavior in these little every-day occurrences that you start to become comfortable with being uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 08:32 PM |
| 27 | Just got out of almost 9 year relationship and I'm lostThis is very similar to my situation roughly 3 years ago: I was 27 years old when I ended a 7 year relationship because I did not like the person I had become and marriage was beginning to materialize into a very real and imminent life event. It was time to "speak now or forever hold your peace". In truth, it took me falling for a co-worker to realize how boring my life was; and that my relationship was holding me back from pursing my interests. Sometimes people (like me) enter into relationship… | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Laughing Yogahaha | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 11:41 PM |
| 27 | What makes a girl think "I want to fuck this guy." ?A lot of people here are confusing "What attracts a girl to a guy" with OP's original question. Yes: confidence, good looks, intelligence, wealth, and humor are all qualities that make someone attractive (i'd argue this is not necessarily gender specific), but at best they will simply get your foot in the door. To take things to the next level, she has to feel comfortable with you. It doesn't matter how attractive you are, if you fail to make her feel comfortable, she's not going home with you. … | /r/seduction | 05/04/17 06:58 PM |
| 2 | The loneliness is crushingYou don't need to have a mental illness to speak with a therapist. There are a lot of high-functioning, socially-normal individuals (myself included) who semi-regularly see a therapist to help them deal with high-stress jobs as well as the many challenges life presents. There are lots of different kinds of therapists: from Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHC's), to Social Workers, to Psychologists. Within those categories, they are usually further specialized in some way (usually by demograp… | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting LaidExample A: When visiting a city, I'll rent a hotel/AirBnB in the same neighborhood as where I intend to go out. Not because I'm always expecting to bring a girl home (though it sets me up for success when I do), but because it's just way more fun to see where the night takes you without having to worry about extending your parking meter, catching the last train, etc. Example B: In my home town, let's say I'm getting drinks with some girl from Tinder. She's under the impression that it's a casual… | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 07:13 AM |
| 1 | If a girl w/boyfriend flirts with me, is it worth my time?My GF? Nah, she had no idea seeing as we were long distance at the time. We had been making plans to move in together. I knew that once we made that jump there would be no going back; so when the moment of truth finally came, I wasn't able to go through with it. I told her we needed to take a break. That day was the second to last time I saw her. A couple nights later I got dinner with my co-worker and spilled everything. "You're fun, and I love hanging out with you." she said "...but I don't th… | /r/seduction | 14/10/16 03:43 PM |
| 8 | If a girl w/boyfriend flirts with me, is it worth my time?Yeah, except I ended a long-term relationship in order to be with her. Now don't get me wrong, I'm glad I did it, but the way I went about severing ties was rushed and inconsiderate. I ended up really hurting someone I once loved because I was selfish. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 06:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Wed - small bar -just 1 setI think the part you lost it was when you asked for the number. Comes off as "WAIT, PLEASE DON'T GO! PLEASE!" Instead, you could have said "Awesome, if he/she is as cool as you two, I want to meet them too!" and just start walking with them... Follow up with "...but I can only stay for a few moments before I have to get back to my friends." The artificial time limit takes the pressure off the situation. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 04:29 PM |
| 33 | If a girl w/boyfriend flirts with me, is it worth my time?This. I made the mistake once of asking an office-crush out. Suddenly, I was no longer the flirty, harmless, off-limits co-worker; and she basically dropped all contact. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Committed to changeYou don't need to start by asking her for her name. Just ask what the time is. It's a completely harmless question that will break the ice and buy you time to think of something else to say. "Excuse me, you wouldn't happen to know the time would you?" "Uh, sure, hold on." proceeds to take out phone "By the way, that jacket/shoes/earrings looks great on you. So you're a bit of a fashionista, huh?" Or make some comment about your surroundings. It can be anything, really. After you've struck up the… | /r/seduction | 04/10/16 06:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to do a 30 day pickup challenge any advice?Find and confide in someone, preferably a friend, who will join you and/or at the very least hold you accountable. Give them $100. If you falter, you lose the $100. If you go the 30 days, you get it back. | /r/seduction | 04/10/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | On the methodology of walkingI respectfully disagree. I've been a martial artist for 10 years and when I was first starting out, my kicking technique was terrible. Slow and sloppy. Through repetition, your body internalizes the movements. This is what we call "muscle memory". I don't need to think about all of the tiny nuances (foot pivot, hip twist, leg rotation, etc) involved when throwing a round-house kick anymore. Now I just "do it" and all of my muscles work together to achieve the desired result. Walking is extremely… | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 04:21 AM |
| 1 | On the methodology of walkingNever heard of chi-walking till now. I think the chi-walk (arms bent 90 degrees, slight lean forward) looks pretty silly, but it's this level of analysis that interests me. The chi-run looks pretty natural to me. The stuff about avoiding heel strikes is great as it's a common mistake a lot of non-athletes make when running. Never thought of applying it to walking though. | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 03:54 AM |
| 1 | On the methodology of walkingMaybe this is the wrong sub for discussing stuff like this. You're assuming the intention behind studying the way I move is to get girls. It's more about self-improvement. I go to the gym not because I'm trying to get laid, but because I like to better myself. I dress well not because I'm trying to "trick" a girl into sleeping me, but because I genuinely enjoy looking good. | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | On the methodology of walkingIt's certainly not vital, but it's something to keep in the back of your mind as you're going about your day. In the same way that a marathon runner or cyclist can change their form to increase performance, eventually you just internalize the movements. | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 08:11 AM |
| 1 | On the methodology of walkingI don't see how paying attention to the way you move could interfere with having a "genuine interaction with a woman". I've talked with a couple female friends regarding this exact subject and they've responded saying girls pay close attention to the way they move and they find it surprising that guys typically don't. | /r/seduction | 24/09/16 08:00 AM |
| 5 | [Serious] What do you say when a girl calls you hot?"Respect" -Neil Strauss | /r/seduction | 11/09/16 07:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I close?Kino. A successful opener engages her. Successful midgame gets her to invest in you and the conversation. At the same time, however, you need to begin escalating kino so she gets comfortable being physical with you. Start slow and build. At a certain point, the kiss will just happen naturally. Remember, women require plausible deniability in order to disarm their ASD. She needs to be able to tell her friends: "one thing led to another and it just sort of happened". If you just go in for the kiss… | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Too unsocial for any of this.You don't see how being in a walkable city where you are forced to be around other people 24/7 would be an advantage over a city where you have to drive everywhere by yourself? | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Advice on having sex with a virgin?Definitely be extra careful. My last long-term girlfriend was a virgin and when we had sex for the first time I was slow, deliberate, and open to feedback. 6 years later she was still bringing up that one night. | /r/seduction | 17/05/16 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Night game during the week?As long as you follow Rule #1 & Rule #2, you'll have no problems! | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 05:01 AM |
| 1 | I need an adviceI think you're looking at the language barrier as a disadvantage when you could very easily turn it into your biggest asset. I can tell from your post that you have a strong grasp on English. You write better than many native speakers, so you're probably picking up more than you even realize. You need to take charge of the conversation. Open with an intriguing question or comment that will elicit a response and then lead the conversation from there. If you don't understand something, just smile,… | /r/seduction | 09/04/16 03:21 AM |
| 8 | 4 ways you can be better at sex right away...Great reference; but this guy actually does fuck, which is directly contradictory to said reference. | /r/seduction | 03/04/16 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Is this what you call a flaker?When is the date? Text her the day of: "We still on for tonight? Looking forward to seeing you later." If she doesn't respond, she's probably flaking. | /r/seduction | 31/03/16 05:21 AM |
| 8 | How to kiss? (Clueless girl here)Male here. 27. Been in two long term relationships and I've slept with two different women in the last two days. Both told me I'm an excellent kisser and it's not particularly unusual for me to hear that. Basically, you want to tilt your head slightly so that your noses don't mash into each other and then you just interlock your lips. By interlock I mean: your lips should wrap around his top lip which will cause his lips to wrap around your bottom lip (and vice versa). There are 4 basic kissing … | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Date ideasIt is a deep, dark hole from which no man can escape. One where she depends on you emotionally and financially. Your time is spent picking her up from dates that went horrifically wrong, which you secretly delight in only because it perpetuates the delusional idea that some day you'll be more than "best friends". | /r/seduction | 29/03/16 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Date ideasWhat city do you live in if you don't mind my asking? Take her to an upscale desert place (think creperie, not dairy queen) and sit at perimeter table with a banquette. Motion for her to take the banquette seat and pretend like you're going for the chair. At the last moment, change your mind and say something like: "actually, let's people watch together", and slide into the banquette next to her. Make sure you follow this move up by immediately springing into a conversation so you're not just si… | /r/seduction | 29/03/16 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Date ideasIf you're trying to pick her up, stay away from coffee shops and fast food joints in general. The atmosphere is usually way too casual for you to build intimacy. Not saying it can't be done, but you're making life harder for yourself. I almost always arrange my dates at night (or at least in the early evening). Now, maybe it's just me, but during the day I project a friend-vibe by default, which is good for keeping women around (I'm a great companion), but not so great if my intention is to even… | /r/seduction | 29/03/16 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Just a quick question for womenNo. Just don't advertise that fact. Most people associate cars with mobility and independence. Get an Uber or friend to drive you around until you develop some reciprocity... It's not a big deal unless you let it become one. | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Once you've confessed your feelings and you are stuck in the friendzone - is there any way of coming back? How to establish kino now?No way dude, it's totally normal. In fact, I'd argue it's actually healthier than wanting to sleep with anything that moves. When I was younger I used to be the same way as you. I was interested in building deep, genuine relationships, so I didn't feel comfortable sleeping with someone I didn't really know yet. I've since switched sides after getting out of a super serious relationship. I have no interest in jumping back into another so I'm all about no strings attached now. | /r/seduction | 08/03/16 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Telegraph: "Air conditioning in your office is sexist." No, they don't mean men toiling outside in the heat while women work in offices. They mean patriarchy sets the temperature on the thermostat!Precisely. If you're cold, put a jacket on. If you're warm... well... sorry? My office is kept at a toasty 78-80 degrees in the summer. I wear a shirt with tie and slacks to work, so I am usually sweating around noon. A female colleague of mine suggested I wear sleeveless shirts to work. I didn't even know what to say to that. Last I checked, they don't make sleeveless dress shirts for men. Edit: I stand corrected | /r/MensRights | 04/08/15 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Found in my girlfriend's dormThere are lot's of people with asthma who have to think about breathing quite often. CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE, normal breathers! Other people need respirators to breath and think about breathing ALL the time. CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE, asthma sufferers! Still others will occasionally choke on large chunks of food and cannot breath at all. CHECK YOUR PRIVILEGE, respirator users! | /r/MensRights | 27/01/15 08:25 AM |
| 2 | All men are real men- can't shame us to servitude.Or just avoid walking alone at night... Even I don't feel comfortable walking in some places at night, so I simply choose not to walk there. | /r/MensRights | 22/11/14 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Mother Jones Editor tweets #GamerGate: "It would be funny to play pinata with the bodies of white straight men who hung themselves"*literally | /r/MensRights | 01/11/14 06:33 AM |
| 3 | I need men's rights cause I had to stop a murder last nightThis is one of the reasons I'm involved in the martial arts. When violence is incorporated into your daily routine in a (relatively) safe and controlled manner, you're way less likely to go "looking" for violence in the real world. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/14 09:53 PM |
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