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Upvoted for your edit. There's a lot of, lets say it nicely, shallowness in this sub.
/r/seduction12/02/20 03:19 PM
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Just relax, you're young as hell, and you're only going to have an awkward or embarrassing story to tell if you have sex too early. Worry more about getting your own shit in gear and doing you regardless of what other people think. Normally people struggle with that for a while, and even when you think you've got it you'll realize you don't. Things get more fun, faster, later on
/r/seduction29/06/17 04:31 PM
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Rest your hand on him a bunch; knee, thigh, hand, w/e. Then ask him out in the 5-10 minutes you have sans interruption, and (if he says yes) hang out together and sit close to him when you guys watch netlfix, a movie, etc... It's like really slow dating
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:29 AM
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Seriously, by the end I almost fist pumped the air
/r/seduction22/06/16 03:14 PM
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College is a fresh start, a way to escape the stigma of a lot of your past mistakes, and a place where cliques dissolve a bit more than in high school. Also, you're usually opened up to sets with women outside of college. But in the end, it is what you make of it. In my experience, but my college was huge, word doesn't spread about people very far or very fast, so there's that too.
/r/seduction17/06/16 07:27 AM
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Dude, I thought you would look like Gollum from what you said, you look fine man. I'd even say you're on the better side of handsome.
/r/seduction03/05/16 01:47 PM
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Where to bump into them I can't really say, I was a little bit of a late bloomer and really took off in college, but I suppose if you have a nearby university then going to some games, or maybe bars that allow you in if you drive (and depending on the legal drinking age) to play some pool. A good wingman can go a long way here, since you can kill 2 birds with one stone, going out to shoot some pool and then hitting up any marks that come through. But again, I really took off in college, and was …
/r/seduction10/02/16 04:45 AM
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I'd say you're probably at the point where it's already a little emotional for her, even if she just sees you as a friend, she cares a tad much (just a tad). I wanna say get her something, but that will likely make the eventual divide between you two harder, particularly for her (and you sound NICE, so it won't be all giggles for you either). But then, I don't know the whole situation, just the iceberg tip you posted, and I'm closer to her age than yours (at least I hope, getting older blows).
/r/seduction09/02/16 10:46 AM
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I'd say to try that as a last resort... Especially if you're worried about being forward. In High School (for me) word spread like wildfire, and you may want to be conscious of the kind of reputation, and habits, you pick up during some formative years. You're really young, like someone said, and everyone has a nuance to their game and this is a perfect time to fuck up and refine whatever yours is. I would follow Jeffffffffs advice, practice makes perfect. Aside from that, make sure you Kino, an…
/r/seduction09/02/16 10:26 AM
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The girl I finally walked away from told me to tell her to leave her boyfriend for her, and I was crushing on her HARD. I told her I couldn't do that, and to be honest, she should probably take time being single and being ok with that. It sucks, but it's likely better for both of you
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:24 PM
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It's how I've handled dungeons and dragons, every girl I've told I had to go to play that has always asked me if it was fun, and what it was like. Not something you'd expect, unless you say it right. It helped that spending a night drinking beer and eating shit with my friends is actually higher on my list of priorities than some strange girl. But I always gave them the same description; it's like writing a story where your friends are the protagonists, and it's a ton of fun. Lo and behold, the …
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:14 PM
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Plenty of fish in the sea, and plenty of study partners in this world. Maybe she gets her shit together, but it's likely she won't. The way I see it, it's not even a seduction thing, you don't want to enter into a relationship with someone who's that.... I don't have the right word, and fickle isn't quite right but it's close so we'll go with that. You wouldn't want someone that fickle, game notwithstanding, I've been down that road twice and I made a different decision each time and it worked o…
/r/seduction05/02/16 10:09 AM
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Before I clicked on the comments I was thinking I would have just said OK, and then started talking to other people. It means I won't get bogged down and when she sees she's lost my attention usually she'll do a 180. But just texting when? That's pretty damn good, and I can't believe I've never done it
/r/seduction26/07/14 12:26 AM
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dinner plus flower may be a bit mush, yes, that sounds like an anniversary to me. Looks like if you manage to get a serious relationship though you won't have any issue when it's in full swing
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:10 PM
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If you do want to give her a flower, here's how I would do it: During a date, say walking through a mall or what have you, and you come across flowers I would buy her ONE, a single flower. This is accompanied by a shrug, smile, anything to make it look as casual and nonchalant as possible, but just ONE flower. No bouquet to wield, or psuedo-rosebush to carry. Try to do this towards the end of the date, you don't want her to have to hold onto a flower at a fair or a movie while doing anything els…
/r/seduction08/05/14 04:35 PM
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That's cool, I'm not jealous
/r/seduction14/04/14 12:45 AM
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Ha! You are charming, if yu want to have some real fun (and I know this isn't seddits thing) see how ludicrous you can act and still get a kiss. If anything it works for your fearlessness on approach
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:16 PM
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I would assume the same thing, but maybe their's something obvious and charming OP does without picking up on it.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:07 AM
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still fun though, look at all the comments of people sharing what they came up with. I'd say it's a good use on a date, but maybe not an opener.
/r/seduction05/03/14 03:09 PM
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you can tweak game to get better service at restaurants and bars, as long as your SO isn't the jealous or insecure type. And you can really tweak it to get past a bouncer or male bartenders. But always tip well
/r/seduction10/11/13 06:47 AM
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No, I get postivie feedback later on, and it's usually something intangible. I get told, for example, that I'm cocky WAY more than I get told I'm confident. You'd think it's a bad thing, but being cocky without being an asshole is apparently a plus. Besides, plenty of things don't have any market value and get sold regardless, and I'm sure you can think of some examples. You don't have to be james bond, you just have to know that you are worth their time, it's only a question of whether they are…
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:17 AM
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Oh man, that's no good. I know a lot of people preach outcome independence, but it's easier said than done. I have literally always been shot down on approach, and every girl I've slept with has popped up later to get my attention. There is a grace to getting shot down, and that doesn't necessarily mean the game is over. You have night game and day game, but there's long game and short game too. One good way of not becoming ill from AA is to do something else you're afraid of (at least it's what…
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:31 AM
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That is true. Were I you though, I wouldn't get so stressed about disagreements, more for your sake than anyone elses. It'll help smooth out your character, and keep any tensions from rising in other settings. Keep believing whatever it is you believe, but don't let others rile you up buddy ;) Just my two cents
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:01 AM
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Man, you must be killer at parties. If this is how you reddit, I think you missed the entire purpose of this sub
/r/seduction03/07/13 12:50 AM
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Too long of a game, if you can't talk I wouldn't bother with the number. You need to grab her attention quickly and effectively, THEN once you've intrigued her enough you can get her to a quieter area and get her number/take her home and sleep with her/mug her/ etc... Kidding, about the mugging, if you're strapped for cash you should be looking for a job, not going to a club.
/r/seduction25/06/13 04:46 PM
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FRs from women are always so interesting
/r/seduction04/04/13 07:50 AM
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I'm no expert, but here's what I would do: Respond, but much later, be cordial but to the point. Responding later means you were busy, not ignoring her, and it'll clue you in if she's needy or crazy. Cordial and to the point to gauge how much she initiates conversations with you, without coming off as dismissing her.
/r/seduction13/02/13 04:50 PM
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I saw it as reaching for a silver lining, tbh
/r/seduction11/02/13 05:04 PM
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There was a post in /r/funny lemme find the thread. But basically a lot of women have insecurities that I find appalling Edit: here: http://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/183m8u/curb_your_enthusiasm_xpost_from_rcurb/
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:51 PM
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Thanks bud, lets try some depth, but I think I might have already come off as a womanizer to her.
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:30 PM
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Yea I hear ya, and thanks that's what I'm going to do is add depth. But that comment I posted was literally out of context. I thought it was someone else replying to me about an argument I have on another thread.
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:22 PM
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LMAO. Man I have been getting attacked by women all morning because of smiling thing, and I thought (out of context) that you were one of those comments I'm sorry. Disregard my comment, I thought you were a girl telling me to say this to her instead of saying smile. Sorry for the confusion.
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:13 PM
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What do the flowers mean?
/r/seduction08/02/13 06:33 PM
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Yea, I usually start my conversations with Hi. I think you're jumping ahead. Let's try this then: I'm wrong, by virtue of the general will, I don't believe I'm wrong but that is not what the karma shows. So, if I were to approach you, and you are having a shitty day (lets also assume I look like/am dressed like/smell like a hobo to get vanity out of the way) how can I go about making you feel better.
/r/seduction08/02/13 06:12 PM
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I do everything to keep em laughing, so lets try some depth, got it. I kinda have a crush on this girl, and I seem to have developed a reputation in college. So depth it is
/r/seduction08/02/13 05:11 PM
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Dude, WHAT I'm kind of tired of FWB, and I'm trying to get a relationship, and I keep on getting hookups instead. Lol, wanna switch? What do YOU do?
/r/seduction08/02/13 05:49 AM
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I'm with you buddy, I've been getting the same deal everywhere I look here in Miami. But I do what everyone here says, I go in whether there's a bf or not, if she bites then oh well. Thing is, a girl with a bf can become a wingman or single down the line, so I try to figure which is going to be which via slow progression IE; frozen yogurt instead of movies, drinking with friends at a bar, not a club, if she can play pool it gives you a one on one that can go friendly or further and you can alway…
/r/seduction07/02/13 05:32 AM
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Lol, that's why I said it. So sit her down and explain what's up, she's not the only girl you're working on so it doesn't matter if you lose this one (don't tell her there are others). But if you care about how she feels and her ex pops up a couple of more times then I would say drop the game and man up to her before you dip out. Leave her with some food for thought, it's all you can do
/r/seduction04/01/13 05:00 PM
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A lot of times a majority of women will assume we're trying to talk to them just to sleep with them. I have a sister, so I know not to assume anything and if you do, don't say something to mess it up (like Mr. Show-me-your-bedroom). So I try and stick to casual laughs. Now all I need is a girl who can read to use that moby dick line, lol.
/r/seduction03/01/13 10:54 PM
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so what would you say to a pickup artist who's trying to learn how to find a girlfriend? I'm sure there are people on this sub who know the game but are looking for something a little (emotionally) deeper. Here we are taught to target a specific girl, with a specific tactic, with a specific result, and a specific alternative within a specific time. How do you relearn all of that and go from catching a thousand fish with your net to one man looking for his moby dick, sans vengeance. Because I've …
/r/seduction03/01/13 09:33 PM
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The best advice I could ever give a guy is to roll with the punches, what's your view from a female stand point though? I don't think I've ever been able to one to one with a girl about this game we play, and I've never had a girl wingman that was worth her weight in salt either
/r/seduction03/01/13 08:40 PM
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Dude, Bravo You were perfect on the set, and dare I say a gentlemen in bed. Fucking awesome
/r/seduction03/01/13 08:38 PM
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You'd be surprised the women I've run into then, but there are also 17 year olds here on reddit, so it can go either way (I'm not condoning a 17 year old doing anything with a 14 year old though... that's gross) But typically I like to talk to a girl and see if she's playful, because if she's playful she probably has a good sense of humor, and we can turn playful teasing into sexual teasing pretty smoothly. If she isn't into my approach, she probably won't be into me, and I don't want to waste m…
/r/seduction03/01/13 08:11 PM
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I've used this, and the best response I've ever gotten (took me a second to get my bearings) was her smile at me and say "define sex" The smile it brought on she liked though
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:56 PM
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What. The. Fuck No offense to your friend, but that is NOT how I wingman. If my bro is having a shitty day the skirts can go fuck themselves, I'm buying you drinks! Hell I wouldn't have gone to a club, I'd have played HALO or some shit
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:54 PM
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Let her make her own decisions, if you just want to sleep with her you shouldn't worry. But if you want to actually GIRLFRIEND her then you have an issue greater than mentioning her ex (which was definitely a screwup) Some girls want you to make a decision for them, verbally or otherwise, and this shows that she can't make a decision for herself. In this case that decision is her ex. He is playing with her feelings and you won't get a solid and honest base with her as long as he's around. She ne…
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:50 PM
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buy her a rum and coke, make hers with coke zero
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:33 PM
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here's what I've learned: A man can pull any girl he wants, really and truly, but in the end you won't be able to stomach girls you don't get along with. Girls always have a guard up, because the world has made them that way, remember that we all began as fun loving kids. So in the end, you really only want to pull the girls you will get along with, and if he finds it clever then the girls will find it clever too will suit him better. I don't like it, but I would probably find the girls who do t…
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:33 PM
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Dat username
/r/seduction13/12/12 09:23 PM
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Can I quote you on that? That was amazingly well put
/r/seduction09/12/12 11:40 AM
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Even stateside, some cities the girls will see right through that and it won't go well.
/r/seduction04/12/12 03:44 PM
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No, she felt bad and we were already sleeping together, so I guess she was trying to make the best of a bad day
/r/seduction19/11/12 08:43 PM
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Lol, that reminds me of a girl I was chasing near a pool when I slipped and landed on the back of my head. She said she knew I was alright when I yelled "FUCK" at the top of my lungs I told her I wouldn't be mad if she bought me a 6 pack of Guinness, so she did, and then she told me we had to stay up all night so I wouldn't go into a coma. I thought she was just trying to set up a reason for sex, until I asked my mother (who is a doctor) whether that was true. She said yes, someone with a concus…
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:02 PM
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Also, if you're big and she's tiny, put a hand behind her head and "pull hair" or something so there's something in between the back of her skull and concrete (in my case it was concrete)
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:34 PM
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Actually, I said it as I was leaving, because I didn't like the way she said it (I in NO way am or have ever come off as a nice guy). With the friend: I found her later on at my University in line for a smoothie, so I cut in front of her and when she called me out I acted all shocked "HEY, you're the girl with the stuck up friend, what's up?" Her: "She's not stuck up, you're just not her type" Me: "I'm everybody's type, let me know when you want to find out" I just try never to sound too investe…
/r/seduction13/11/12 06:37 AM
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Another good one, and the reason why I come to seddit
/r/seduction13/11/12 06:28 AM
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Man, that IS good, can't believe I didn't think of it. Thanks bud
/r/seduction13/11/12 06:17 AM
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I once had the best shit test ever from some girl in College who was from Ibiza, she told me "You seem like a nice guy, and I don't want to break your heart" "Well if you're going to break my heart you're going to have to go out with me first" It didn't hook her, but it hooked her friend, and I'm cool with that
/r/seduction12/11/12 03:51 PM
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maybe she doesn't want to lead him on. She DID say yes
/r/seduction11/11/12 05:35 PM
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I was implying she was fat
/r/seduction09/11/12 08:43 PM
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c'est la vie
/r/seduction09/11/12 05:47 PM
1

Good, I was thinking of seeing it
/r/seduction09/11/12 03:11 PM
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"two rum an cokes barkeep, but make hers with a diet" If you want my money, you better have something up front
/r/seduction09/11/12 03:11 PM
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Miami here, there are entitled girls here too. I was actually thinking Canada for some more "down to earth" types. Looks like I'll have to find a new place?
/r/seduction09/11/12 03:09 PM
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Maybe, depends how old she looks. I had a girl once ASSUME I was going to buy her a rum and coke, so I told the bartender to use coke zero. She threw the drink in my face, the bartender gave me a free drink. She was good looking too, but I work for my money
/r/seduction09/11/12 03:08 PM
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If I were him, it would always work! Lol
/r/seduction09/11/12 03:06 PM
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To the question "Buy me a drink?" my response would be "only if it's coffee tomorrow morning" If she doesn't get it, or is offended, I hope she isn't the only girl there
/r/seduction09/11/12 04:39 AM
2

Indeed
/r/seduction04/11/12 08:29 PM
4

vaginal intercourse
/r/seduction30/10/12 06:59 PM
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Apparently she's moving out of his place, so I'm that guy
/r/seduction30/10/12 01:46 PM
1

No problem, try it out and see what works for you.
/r/seduction30/10/12 01:46 PM
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Movie ratings, PG means there's no nudity or violence.
/r/seduction30/10/12 01:46 PM
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if you have a moral thing, then don't do it. I don't do one night stands, and being uncomfortable with a situation is going to get noticed and it won't be turning them on anyway. Going after a girl with a bf isn't necessarily a waste of time though, it depends on her age. I say, if she's still studying, chances are her relationship isn't as permanent as she thinks it is. For your situation though, I find it odd they gave you their numbers, in that case I would play a very patient game. Never bef…
/r/seduction30/10/12 06:10 AM
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Lol, by all means
/r/seduction30/10/12 12:31 AM
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I once told a girl that we should get some ice cream. I live in a city where good looking women are plenty, and I'm in college, so I like to gauge whether or not we would actually get along or if I would have to put up with her. She told me she had a boyfriend, and I told her something along the lines of 'well, I don't know how you eat ice cream, but I was thinking of something pretty PG' She laughed and apologized and agreed to go out with me, and NOW (2 weeks later) I'm seeing action. So I gue…
/r/seduction29/10/12 09:00 PM
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entirely, I know I'm one of those that gets bored easy, so I try to work that into the way I flirt to give girls interested in me a leg up
/r/seduction24/10/12 04:19 PM
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Im_a_rapist, you put it so well I'm quoting you on facebook, but I need something other than your username if you please
/r/seduction24/10/12 04:01 PM
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I don't know about the whole approaching thing for everyone. I know I like a chase, and if a girl approaches me she needs to keep me guessing.
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:59 PM
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Man, you sound like me years back. I just keep telling myself that one girl will actually keep up with my game, play it back, and once I know she can keep up then she's a keeper. Never find a girl to settle down, find one that can keep up, and happy hunting
/r/seduction10/10/12 12:32 PM
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Well, I've been the other man a couple of times, slept with a boss, and a lesbian couple off the top of my head. Which one do you want? Also, each one has a lesson, don't fall for a girl who's taken (leave as soon as feelings settle in), don't shit where you eat, and nothing is an automatic disqualifier.
/r/seduction08/10/12 10:21 PM
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Oh man, I'm flattered, GO GET EM! But seriously, everything can be spun into a positive, and I'm full of stories to prove em
/r/seduction08/10/12 03:47 PM
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2 actually, but that's a story for another day, apparently they didn't like each other and when they found out a big clusterfuck formed. Not that I cared, that night was great
/r/seduction08/10/12 03:48 AM
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Nothing, and I wasn't expecting to, I was paying for a badass birthday and a ton of memories. Definitely got them
/r/seduction08/10/12 02:53 AM
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and what made it all work was $600 in free liquor. Course, it was out of me and my friends pocket (his birthday too) but we're giver like that
/r/seduction08/10/12 12:41 AM
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trying to piss me off by being half dressed with her new boyfriend more than likely, no one invited her, but I would rather turn the tables than turn her away. No one has that power over me, and turning her away would have validated her action. Ignoring her, and getting him to ignore her, well that's the greatest insult of all
/r/seduction07/10/12 09:00 PM
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I was throwing an underwear party for my 21st birthday, where the women were required to be in lingerie and guys in boxers. $600 in free liquor, and people were eating ice cream off of each other and doing body shots and the like. Every guy has to bring a girl if he's invited, and every girl has to bring a girl. Well, my ex shows up in lingerie (and man she looks good) with her new bf in tow. My friend brings it to my attention and I tell them to let them in. I stumble up to the guy half drunk w…
/r/seduction07/10/12 07:02 PM
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not long, although I swim weird. I don't do it for sport, more for survival, but once you get comfortable in the water it's another world. All of these things have the added benefit of making you socialize with whoever is teaching you. If you want to get past the social anxiety, remind yourself that you're there to learn to do said thing (swim shoot, etc) and not there to socialize
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:39 AM
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Well I hope you're landlocked! But all joking aside, going out and building yourself up is a huge step forward and provides an outlet when your social life gets rocky. I wasn't able to swim either, but with that done I started saving up money for a diving license. So even if you have a bad week socially, you can put your mind to diving, piloting, shooting, etc... And all of these things are skills that you can proudly say you possess and that pride comes in handy
/r/seduction05/10/12 02:29 AM
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Crossfit classes, and other gym classes like that, tend not to be as bad as people think. Everyone there is there for the same reason, and some of those sculpted bodies started out as land blubber. Rock climbing is a lot of fun, something you CAN do on your own, although it's best to have someone else with you, and it's a great workout. Can you swim?
/r/seduction04/10/12 02:38 AM
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Do active things in groups of people. Join a crossfit class, go rock climbing, set goals for yourself. This will help you socialize as it gives you people to meet and things to talk about without having to go out to a club or bar right off the bat with the idea of meeting someone. One trick of mine is: if I don't have work or a family event and someone asks me to go to something, I'll go
/r/seduction03/10/12 04:03 PM
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If they're about to have sex, and she's really comfortable with post all that kino, I can see her quipping back "Oh you figured me out, I've been using you this whole time" Or something to that effect, it's happened to me
/r/seduction29/09/12 05:31 PM
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mix curiosity and excitement. If you can inspire both of those, then you're doing a good job
/r/seduction28/09/12 07:27 AM
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so it's a yellow light? Or a red curfew light? Stop/slow down, check if all clear, proceed
/r/seduction10/09/12 01:11 PM
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I agree man, this lack of subtlety is way too aggressive. You want her to come to you, insulting a bf, even if she IS the cheating type, is a sure fire way to screw yourself over
/r/seduction10/09/12 01:10 PM
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