BatavianGeneral Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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5	Social Anxiety Problems I'm not good at switching into seduction mode after meeting in a friendly setting either. I do not think you are looking at it the right way. There is no such thing as ''seduction mode''. All you have to do is act like yourself, whether there's an attractive lady around or not. You should go ''guns blazing'' wherever and whenever possible, regardless of your environment.	/r/seduction	12/11/15 11:22 PM
2	She had brown eyes, I prefer blue Your life, your decisions. Personally, I think it's already attractive in itself when a girl shows interest in me (they'd have to make it blatantly obvious for me to notice, takes confidence on their part). Such initiatives often lead me to ignore the minor physical ''flaws'' they have from my point of view. If you aren't interested in a girl because she doesn't have blue eyes even though she does have a great body and personality, then that is perfectly fine. You know what kind of woman you are…	/r/seduction	12/11/15 10:45 PM
3	Picking Up Women at the Gym - Field Report Amazing read and appropriate username. I'll be hitting the gym for the first time ever tomorrow and I already have someone to look up to (you). Looking forward to more field reports!	/r/seduction	12/11/15 09:59 PM
2	I've put women on the back burner: what should I be doing right now to fulfill my life potential? Oh, it will. Trust me, my man. Life can truly be beautiful, you just have to allow yourself to see it!	/r/seduction	09/11/15 09:44 PM
2	I've put women on the back burner: what should I be doing right now to fulfill my life potential? You, like many other things in life, need time to reset every now and then. There is nothing wrong with living day-to-day for a while. What you need to do is meditate to get your priorities straight and rediscover yourself. Forget about everything and only focus on yourself. You demonstrate that you have some idea of what you want to be doing in life. Good, absolutely wonderful. However, now is not the time to strike. Take a step back, reflect on your life. Get yourself geared up. Focus on your …	/r/seduction	09/11/15 07:21 PM
1	That Elusive Feeling What I got from you is to seek after more victories. The feeling of victory will radiate through my system and help me flip that switch perhaps w/o even knowing it. Exactly, well-put. Life is all about scoring victories. They fuel us. That is why it is important to get yourself geared up before going anywhere. I used to be pretty neglective of myself when I was younger. I've learned to love taking care of myself mainly because of this guy. He made me realise that looking good is more beneficial …	/r/seduction	07/11/15 10:37 PM
8	Struggling. Just turned 24 Whenever I have no idea how to continue, I simply start focusing on myself and forget all else. I focus on my mental health and my physical state. I treat my body like a kingdom, that is literally it. Eventually, I will reach a point where I feel satisfied with myself. I will start focusing on people around me from a fresh perspective, and it usually seems as though girls like the ''new'' me. The best part is that the whole self-meditation thing can be done in just a few weeks, repeatedly. Every…	/r/seduction	07/11/15 08:05 PM
3	That Elusive Feeling In this post, you've provided us with a list that explains who you are, what you have achieved and what you are still looking for in life. Understanding yourself is a great start, nice one. What impresses me most about your post is the disclaimer you put up. It is spot-on. In fact, I believe it explains why (you think) your game is off most of the time and why you find it hard to ''flip the switch more reliably''. Whenever I feel successful in life (could be for the tiniest reasons, like having …	/r/seduction	07/11/15 07:52 PM
3	How to subtly flirt Well, he is your housemate. You should be able to spend quite some quality time with him until the lease is up. I'd suggest doing exactly that. For instance, organise movie nights together. Start off by simply sitting next to one another on the sofa. Get yourself a blanket during the second session, and share it with him during the third or fourth session. Then, start fondling and messing about if the mood is right. He is already teasing you, which is good. You have time, take advantage of it. B…	/r/seduction	07/11/15 11:27 AM
4	Am I texting girls in all the wrong ways? I personally believe being slightly sassy is a good thing. Even though it is often defined as rude or impudent on the internet, many consider it to be a synonym for words like cheeky or bold. They therefore tend to use it in an endearing way. As for your specific case, you haven't provided us with enough context for us to determine if the women you've been talking to called you sassy in a positive or negative way. It is always good to be a little playful, but you can also cross the line.	/r/seduction	06/11/15 10:57 PM
26	"Approach random girl, don't give a fuck" works, guys!! It fucking does!! Huzzah! Reading this actually made me smile, I'm so happy for you. Successfully interacting with cute girls like that is amazing and the confidence boost you consequently get will last for a good while. Enjoy your victory, my man.	/r/seduction	06/11/15 10:43 PM
3	Is there such thing as overconfidence? What are the signs? Good point. From my experience, cockiness is appreciated to some extent, but it will put women off if displayed too frequently.	/r/seduction	05/11/15 02:49 PM
8	Feeling Awkward After Rejection That guy was just being a good boyfriend. I'm sure he would have accepted your request had he been single, you can't help it. In fact, you should be proud of yourself for having the courage to ask people out! Kudos to you for that.	/r/seduction	05/11/15 02:44 PM
2	What is wrong with me? ''Death is nothing; but to live defeated and inglorious is to die daily.'' -Napoleon Bonaparte That's what came to mind when I read your comment. Nice one.	/r/seduction	04/11/15 10:57 PM
3	Is there such thing as overconfidence? What are the signs? I'd argue that it's never a good thing to take things to the extreme. Not even positive traits, like confidence. So yes, I do think there is such a thing as overconfidence although I have no clue what signs of overconfidence would be in the whole seduction scenario. However, I do know that we cannot control all the things in life. You might be rich, smooth, highly attractive and well-educated, but that does not guarantee that every girl will be interested in you. I think people who are overconfi…	/r/seduction	04/11/15 10:53 PM
3	What is wrong with me? The way I see it, transforming from a guy who oftentimes passes up his opportunities into a courageous lad who seizes all of them is a huge step that many, many other men are struggling with. It almost seems like there is some sort of invisible wall or barrier preventing one from becoming that guy. Sometimes I break things. Well, it is now time for you to break that darn wall/barrier. Sure, you might get injured in the process (rejected, humiliated, whatever you are afraid of), but that wall nee…	/r/seduction	04/11/15 10:41 PM
1	Is silence ok? I have to say, I am very surprised by all the positive remarks made on here about silence in a conversation... I always go blank when I talk to this one girl I know and I feel like it is a missed opportunity to show my personality and thus impress her, lol.	/r/seduction	04/11/15 08:35 PM
2	Being a gentleman/alpha male guides? In this case, alpha m. is your man. He has produced numerous videos in which he explains how to be the ultimate alpha male.	/r/seduction	29/10/15 08:51 PM