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Nice piece to pump me up. I'm beginning to realize that you only ever rub elbows with high status males when you focus on achieving your own personal goals. Thus, for the most part men are on their own. I only ever meet other males I respect when I am more focused on my own things. Laziness, distraction, apathy, lack of responsibility. These traits are rampant all around you. It's weakness. It's a culture supported by it's collective inability to act, power in numbers. It's a loss of frame. "Fri…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 03:35 PM
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I came here right after reading that post hoping someone else saw it....thank you sir.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 04:31 PM
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Fred Flintstone, cuz I'm goin' caveman.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 04:46 PM
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I want to chime in here and mention that Dictatorships are the epitome of centralized state control. Perhaps Cincinnatus was an exception in his virtue. The thing is, one person just cannot effectively run a population past a certain point. Perhaps at 10,000 it is manageable, but when we start reaching millions we're talking major shaftage for certain citizens. Geology and culture are so varied across lands, as they should be. Thus I believe super-local small scale strong-men are more versatile …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/13 04:31 PM
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I like to think about it as access to resources rather than money personally. If there is one thing that many successful leaders (read: gina tinglers) have in common it is that they can mobilize others, get resources for projects, have weighted words in public, and do this all in an adaptable manner. Money also brings these things, but there is a difference between being WHO you are (your behavior and mission) and accessing these resources versus WHAT you have (money and toys) and obtaining them…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 12:31 PM
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I would consider myself to be just pragmatic, whatever the fuck works man...in reality not in peoples fucked up heads. The red pill has opened my eyes to following nature and evolutionary psych and science. All of these political views stem from exploitation, the environment, lower classes, other countries. I'm for whatever is sustainable, so I can teach my progeny to keep red pillin that shit for generations.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 10:48 PM
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Meditate/think deeply and figure out where your energy should be focused in life, find your mission, what it is you feel in your bones you are here to do on this planet. Everything else will fall in line. Take everything good and bad as a lesson that you're now better for learning. Have zero expectations. If you're going to do something...do it all the way, or don't even do it at all. Expose yourself to everything, new situations, new people, take any invitation as an opportunity, you will learn…
/r/seduction15/05/13 11:55 PM
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Of course it works in the long term, it's about creating habits, and habits are for the long haul. It not a technique or idea as much as biology. Think about starting something new...anything, its foreign at first, difficult, you're not too good and that's sometimes embarrassing. When I first started longboarding I felt I looked like a chump, but then it becomes natural. Nothing is natural until it becomes comfortable, I'm sure people who naturally have good body language grew up with that, so i…
/r/seduction12/05/13 04:07 PM
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This... early and often, especially early. And yeah even if she shoots the escalated kino down, it at least will communicate to her your desire for her...which is always a good thing.
/r/seduction12/05/13 01:26 PM
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Absolutely go with the date idea, straight up ask her in person after work on a Friday or something, then you can part ways and keep your date mentalities until you meet again for the date. Also don't mention that d-bag haha only you exist, he no longer exists. You also don't have to call it a date, you can, but it's not necessary, if you guys are going somewhere and doing an activity together its a date! If things are going good on your date, you're close, and you see her looking at your lips, …
/r/seduction12/05/13 01:24 PM
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Have you watched the video man? I feel as if you're coming on here and being all sandpaper-like without checking this stuff out first. You can't just tell someone 'be more confident' but you can tell someone 'use body language like a confident person' because one is real and the other is an idea. I've said before that it has been scientifically proven to raise testosterone and lower cortisol even when you only do a power pose for 2 minutes! But then again...I can't change your opinions, all i kn…
/r/seduction12/05/13 01:09 PM
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Thanks for sharing! That is seriously awesome. I'm glad this information was able to help out your friend, it can help everybody. A funny moment occurs after watching her video...it's almost as if you want to covet the knowledge from those who aren't aware. But then something else happens and sharing it seems more helpful than keeping it to oneself. Powerful, rich, people have been utilizing knowledge to keep others oppressed for millenia, and now we can balance that out.
/r/seduction12/05/13 12:57 PM
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The one I am referring to is Definitive Book of Body Language, but read both haha...why the hell not?
/r/seduction12/05/13 02:34 AM
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So dry.
/r/seduction11/05/13 06:48 PM
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Whats fPUA? haha What's an x-post? I don't mind, the more people know the better!
/r/seduction11/05/13 05:15 PM
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I understand your point of view here...but reading body language is typically poor if you are looking at isolated things like pupils, usually there are clusters of different things that happen. You're right, it is hard and it must be constantly worked on, but then it becomes internalized, it doesn't take years, but it will last for years. Just keep in mind that the closed, poor body language that people are already communicating will further be ingrained if positive body language isn't worked on…
/r/seduction11/05/13 05:14 PM
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Ahh excellent, I shall acquire a copy as soon as possible! It is essential for us seduction enthusiasts to be aware of body language and it's profound effects and implications.
/r/seduction11/05/13 02:37 PM
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I like to put my hand over the phone and say "who are you texting all of your friends are here" or just don't hang out with those kinds of girls, if you're worried about being an asshole or needy, don't. That kind of phone stuff is rude. I mean...they are either nervous or uninterested right? Cutting to the chase solves both, or makes the distinction clear to you.
/r/seduction10/05/13 01:21 AM
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Even if there are easier and better ways for short term things...there are easier and better ways to build a house, and it will work for awhile. But you've built a shitty house to live in. Instead of short term, think of short sighted instead, words betray. Those with far sight succeed. The point is if you can make yourself be ready for something long term, you can deal with anything lesser than long term relationships. It's not like focusing on long term positive meaningful relationships affect…
/r/seduction29/04/13 01:48 AM
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I'm glad to help! Some other people have mentioned book of pook...I'm reading it now, just as close to reality, but with a real writing flair. People who are vulnerable are naturals...interesting statement, I like it.
/r/seduction27/04/13 12:48 AM
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I don't think those girls really are much different than any other girls. I mean...the guys 6'3 and 205 lbs...pornstar hot girls probably wanna jump on that, and his disinterest extrapolates that. I think he errs on the side of no with those girls because the outside modifications might reflect on inside insecurities. And of course sex doesn't mean a relationship, but it still might cause you more problems to go for those with insecurities than those who don't have as many blatant ones. I don't …
/r/seduction26/04/13 01:52 PM
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I would recommend it to any aged guy.
/r/seduction25/04/13 03:45 AM
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This.
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:22 PM
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I'll have to check these books out! Thanks!
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:22 PM
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Because they are different? This isn't English class, I could care less how you personally view the word confident or vulnerable. I (and Mark) use the word vulnerable because that's what it is...being vulnerable, sticking your neck out in a place to get chopped off. Which displays confidence...no fear. Obviously its poor practice to be THAT open from the get go. Vulnerability, it's not pouring your heart out, its putting yourself in a position to be rejected...and not giving a shit about being r…
/r/seduction23/04/13 07:13 PM
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As for 'results', I feel that is the wrong term to use. I actually just finished the book, and my mind was blown, he literally answered questions I thought of as I read it, in the same sentence. So I really haven't had the chance to put the new things into practice. However, it's more or less the best reasons for ending your current AFC behavior and developing more positive behavior that women find attractive. Pick up artistry, according to Mark, is shallow. You can take a person and give him li…
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:54 PM
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Vulnerability by itself probably won't get you laid, however as an aspect of a non-needy male who is attractive, vulnerability is a definite part of the process. If we look at sex as the ultimate vulnerable act as a woman, then it would follow that women desire a man who can be vulnerable. Vulnerability, for all intents and purposes is probably the key concept of this book. If you're willing to put your neck on the line, that takes courage. People frequently do whatever it takes to not be vulner…
/r/seduction23/04/13 04:40 PM
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I've just read the first few pages and damn...this book has some comprehensive stuff.
/r/seduction18/04/13 11:27 AM
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Okay I couldn't read these without putting some other input in... First...tell them whatever you want, the honesty will be appreciated, it's never a bad thing. They might even want nothing as well, like you. Have sex with a girl like that. Yes, it totally gives them an excuse not to fuck...but seriously...if a girl wants to fuck you, won't she? Regardless of what you say? Trying to change bad boys anyone...? It can be used as a tool by women, it's part of their realm of control, it can be used t…
/r/seduction10/04/13 04:01 PM
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[M/20] Text game is something wholly different from anything else. Sarcasm is pretty hard to get across, conversations are difficult to keep going strong and kino is impossible. The idea that it will run yourself into a wall or that it's shit is defeatist and pointless. It's another avenue, walk down the street if you want to, there's gold at the end. You will learn what works and what doesn't...I've messed up so many things trying to learn the text game. Typically, now, I try to be funny, and c…
/r/seduction08/04/13 03:01 AM
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Damn...damn, top notch. In the mems bank now.
/r/seduction21/03/13 10:05 PM
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I suppose the answer in your question lies within the success of your messaging, that one was hilarious, especially the handsome part. She answered back...so yeah seems like its working so far, if it was too awkward or douchey I doubt she would respond, right? Also, the sites are awesome for gauging responses, I've thrown some gold and some coal around and the only way to know is to experiment. Protip : Put up pictures of yourself on a dating site...that's like, the first thing.
/r/seduction19/03/13 06:52 AM
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This is some masterful stuff you've dropped here man, I definitely second the recommendation for classes. Classes WILL help tremendously, some are more sensual than others, I'd love to take salsa some day soon. Girlfriend material? Going over in my mind how pensive this makes me about the past.
/r/seduction16/03/13 11:21 PM
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Mad waste of energy, but then I sleep pretty well. But I'm sure your undulation movement is natural and unparalleled!
/r/seduction16/03/13 11:12 PM
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Oh wow, I saw the title of this and I just had to jump on it. Dance more, dance by yourself. Dance in your room with the music blaring when no one is watching. Think of corny dance moves and do them (the sprinkler, the lawnmower etc.) do them over and over, now abstract them, add different movement to them, stabbing, fluid, swinging. Look up Laban's eight movement efforts. Close your eyes, let the music consume you, move with the drum beat, bounce your knees, your body to this beat. Watch videos…
/r/seduction15/03/13 03:11 PM
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The kick reference totally reminded me of a Bruce Lee quote:"I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times" I understand what the point of using these lines are...the end goal isn't the girl as it is internalizing what kind of things work and what do not. Each line has a theme, joke, specificity, and if it works, there must be something to it, something inherently awesome that can be taken and used off the cuff in the future. W…
/r/seduction15/03/13 02:43 PM
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Yeah good point, that's why it's good to set ground rules for it as well, restrictions etc, always stay essentially you, and the alter ego is always just a reference point, never to take over. Good point!
/r/seduction15/03/13 02:18 PM
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An Inner Game technique. Creating an alter-ego/ building an archetype. The brain is a powerful thing, and so is intention. It is much easier to build a perfect seductionist in your head that is not you. Who do you want to be? Build that person, every detail, give him supernatural powers, he is infallible as you will strive to become. Write it down. Then absorb this person, intend to emulate him, and surely you will begin to. Develop what would blank do? inner monologue to get pumped. You take th…
/r/seduction15/03/13 06:00 AM
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You're welcome man, I'm glad I could soothe your conscious a bit. Perspective is so powerful. I'd hoped this FR would give a different one. My job on seddit is done. Future FR's will belong to a journal, I want to see how far this one can be taken.
/r/seduction13/03/13 01:07 PM
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What an interesting concept! I am actually not quite sure...I think I might need some more life experience before I can say for sure. For example, my previous partners I was quite affectionate to and though 'love' is a loaded word to apply to all of them, I did strongly want what was best for them, even if that wasn't me. Often times it wasn't, contrary to their opinion. I hope, more or less, that I leave women better off than before. (Perhaps sub or unconsciously I felt that this moment would n…
/r/seduction12/03/13 08:33 PM
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I hoped it would be helpful to at least one person! This makes it all worth it.
/r/seduction12/03/13 06:04 PM
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I find that viewing it as a game as much as possible really helps...but not a board game like monopoly, where losing is painful and winning is essentially pointless...but like Diablo 3 or something...always leveling up, on to the next boss, grabbed another skill, learned about a pitfall, put on some new gear...and that's winning in of itself. It's powerful, having life smack you in the face and truly knowing that you will never fail at a moment like that..next time will be different. Seduction, …
/r/seduction26/02/13 05:40 PM
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