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| 4 | Do RP and BP (men and women) have drastically different ideas about what constitutes a healthy relationship?I have noticed that red pill ideas of relationships tend to revolve around the man always "winning," RP probably believes the BP perspective is that the woman has to be winning. BP: "Stay at home dad is good, Traditional marriage is bad because imbalance of power." Wait a minute... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 11:33 PM |
| 7 | David Buss and flaws in the Dual Mating Strategy hypothesisi don't believe that is the madonna/whore complex, it is not rooted in picking a wife they are not attracted to, it has to do with their inability to maintain sexual arousal in a committed relationship. The men who suffer from this do not represent the majority of men, the majority of men can respect a women and also feel sexual desire toward them. And no has ever claimed that it does represent men in general desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:45 PM |
| -1 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.Everyone is faking confidence. Confidence=safety. If you think about it, what is behind most lack of confidence is fear and usually that is fear of social judgement. How does the Mammalian brain interprets this? Social judgment= being socially outcasted which would result lack of survival and loss viability to mate and reproduce. You don't need to worry about sabertooth tiger or being socially outcasted from the tribe, you are safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Men's self worth and general perception in society is tied to their success with women.This is also true for women. Ones mating and reproduction viability is placed a great deal on it. Heck even the court system can't avoid it; one with high mating potential are given less sentence, cases dropped more likely, etc. People in society have evolved to take care of people with high mating viability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 01:10 PM |
| 0 | Is it hypocritical for an experienced man to want an inexperienced woman?No, men and women are different, so it is quite common wanting traits or features that differes from you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadConfidence is largely faking it, and everyone is faking it. The difference between the person who is genuinely unaware of it that their confidence is fake and the person who believes they are pretending or being an imposter if they act confident is self esteem. People with high self esteem are unconsciously faking confidence, while those with self esteem believe needing large amount of evidence from themselves, which they may never meet based on their self esteem. Give yourself the permission to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadlol same thought i had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLived in Fayetteville while in the Army, god that place sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah. I have also known men who complain about their wife being a SAHM, proving they are a bad fit to be a breadwinner. The shoe has to fit, or they will resent each other instead of seeing the value each add to their family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah one has to see the value in it or have the desire for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread"Does paying for everything excuse your from chores?" LOL at that thread, most women on PPD are career oriented and have little interest in spending time with their kids. They make being at SAHM as hell, which certainly can be for them since they are terrible fit for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Does paying for everything excuse you from chores?Yes, with the exception of having a newborn. Sheesh some of you make it sound like it is the 1920s, with modern technology it is not that hard to do household chores. You know you could also get your kids to do chores, they have so much darn energy. Get them to do work, less time bothering you about being bored and while learning valuable habits and discipline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Does paying for everything excuse you from chores?Honestly, I don't know if this is satirical or not but... It is not, you are projecting and ill fit to be "Person B" For the person who actually wants to spend time with their kids and prioritize their kids over career they have completely different perspective. Same way some people could be a terrible fit to be "Person A", they wouldn't want a partner that adds no income to the house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 04:00 AM |
| -2 | Q4M - Why do some men look down upon women who are single and child-free?Or hear me out maybe because it is unusual and unordinary. Women also look down on them. Truthfully outside of when this topic is brought up here on reddit, hardly do my mind ever thinks of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:57 AM |
| 19 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesI only come to this sub to make fun at men. You know this says more about you right? And it is quite sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 11:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou are still asking women out putting yourself out there, but you are detached to the outcome. Because you still have purpose and enjoyment regardless of any women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 11:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread"TRP advises men to wait until they are 40 and find a 20 year old virgin." Advising a man to focus on his career, physical, and other self improvement. Does not mean he should wait years or decade before dating. The idea is that having a purpose and enjoyment in life will attract women. The biggest thing that will kill any guy attractiveness is one who comes off needy and desperate. A guy who enjoys his life and has a purpose is neither needy or desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 11:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGood thing they don't advise that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 10:29 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen have they ever said that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 10:06 PM |
| 0 | What advice should be given to kind traditional men who seek relationships do in this dating world?Cooking or cleaning once in a while does not make them traditional. Never mind the level, attention, and care it was put into it. Being traditional wife, means this is what they desire doing and proud of the role and service they are doing for the family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Is the Red Pill something you would recommend to someone who wants to improve their dating experience?I think the major or the biggest focus of RedPill is correct. Seeing the dating marketplace through the lenses of values and resources. Game, money, status, and gym. Be more valuable and become more attractive vs your competition will increase your dating prospects. As other have pointed out most of the RP material on social media should be avoided, it is more for entertainment and i believe it creates unhealthy attitude toward women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 03:32 AM |
| 9 | Guys and watching pornYes that is the position of the group "decriminalize sex work." I am not doubting their position. Decriminalizing sex work but not buying has been adopted in Canada and other feminist countries like Sweden, Norway, Iceland, France, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 03:35 AM |
| 10 | Guys and watching pornhttps://www.wmtw.com/article/maine-to-become-first-state-to-decriminalize-prostitution-only-for-selling-sex-not-paying-for-it/44581287 One example of a state decriminalize selling sex, but not buyers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:50 AM |
| 5 | Guys and watching pornMaybe you are right, but i don't think it is common say a woman(who doesn't do OF) may think other women who do OF/digital prostitution as empowering or most likely reserve his judgment of them. But see men who watch porn as low status or look down upon them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:20 AM |
| 15 | Guys and watching pornIsn't a popular belief among feminism to punish or criminalize men who seek prostitutes, but not necessarily punish women who go into prostitution. They tend to hold similar views toward digital prostitution. Tend to judge the man and see it as exploitative, but see the women as victim or being in a unfortunate situation to making a living. I think the OP is alluding to these type of people rather than your example. They are definitely a group of people who think porn are bad, but don't judge th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 01:49 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost people argue to push their world narrative rather than arrive at the truth or understand the other side perspective. RP(or any other group for that matter) don't ignore they resist, because the other side arguments are not effective only push them further to the extreme. This is why stated it radicalizes RPers more than any RP influencer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 01:18 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot sure how you arrived at that conclusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 12:19 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have been away from this sub for a little while, i actually find myself less red pilled. I always had this theory that this place will radicalize or turn more red pilled than any red pilled community could. Makes sense since the majority do not like to have an agenda pushed down on them. The more you push the more people resist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you think anyone's opinion will change?I know what the world is not, but i can't say for sure what it is. I leave that door open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 10:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNovelty and unique experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 04:34 AM |
| 9 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.I don't know why these guys think that, and they are in for a rude awakening. If they think poor girl is some naive and stupid women, they are going to be in for a surprise when they learn that harsh life has made her street smart and jaded. And that she comes from a society where the male figures are quite masculine. She is going to be comparing every men to the type of men she has always known. Education doesn't make you smart, most women overseas still go through an education. there is a reas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:11 AM |
| 7 | If men cared about a woman's money, then women would fight against poor-shaming.Those girls are indeed poor, uneducated and thus can be easily fooled. Plus the grooming smell of the situation. Where is this belief coming from? Women in the US and other rich nations who come from a much more privileged country are much more impressionable and easier fooled. Those women in poorer countries don't believe in love or any of flowery thing. They weren't feed that Disney fantasy their whole life like girls from privileged countries. As someone who has come from a poor country and h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:32 AM |
| 14 | Do you think society is more hostile for women now?But as you said, when you zoom out the past 50 years or so are a tiny fraction of human history, which is why most complaints about female privilege fall flat. If you zoom out and look outside of your gender identity this male privilege was nonexistent. The only privilege that has ever existed is class privilege. Male were either subjected to war or hard physical labor. Life was difficult for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is not frame. https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 05:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBro "The Notebook" was also written by a man, it is much more of a male fantasy. Rich girls/women and lower class boy/men is not actual dynamic. It is BP and Disney fantasy. He would have never dated her in the first place, second he would have been forgotten about in a second. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 04:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat is not RP advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 03:58 PM |
| 2 | "Men would still have sex with an ugly woman" is a shitty consolation prizeDating profiles for example. Women fucking know exactly how to push men's buttons, while men are so fucking clueless on what women want to see and read on a profile. Looking stoicly into the distance like James Bond? NO! THat's a male power fantasy. Bond is written for men, not for women. Its not necessarily women are good at it; self advertising is natural for a woman, advertising their looks and physical features they do all the time. The issue is men thinking they can do the same would work. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What is up with the term “tingles”?They you go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 11:21 PM |
| 2 | What is up with the term “tingles”?I think the RedPill also has a similar word for a man falling in love and forgets rationale, the word escapes me right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 08:29 PM |
| 24 | Do you think people are naturally attracted to people that look like them?At a subconscious level we tend to like things that are familiar to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 05:05 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAndy Griffith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 11:11 PM |
| – | Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fearThis is only true, if you think it is an accusation and from a place of emotion. Rather from a place of logic and a statement. Most women are vastly desired for their looks, their options dwindle as they age. This is a statement the vast majority of people would agree on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMovie has a lot of example of fake confidence; i am speaking from experience in sales, negotiations, and behavior research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadwary and defensive when they see signs of aggression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo it is not. Its neither aggressive or passive. Aggressiveness turn others off in dating, sales, relationship, etc. It makes people defensive. Humans are conditioned to be wary of aggressive behaviors; it signals danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe one that is based on behavior research. The one that has been studied from cult leaders, political and business leaders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue confidence is not aggressive; aggressiveness is usually posture to makeup for confidence. True confidence is composed and cool, it is contagious to the other party. They also feel confident from the interaction. While the other makes the other party unconfident and small. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Do you think you can actually sense misogyny?Im just wondering if you gals really think you can "sense" the "virgin men" and the "sexist men"? Human opperate on evidence based; they have no idea on your past; the only thing they to base you on is what is in front of them. Your body language, movement, confidence, etc tells us a lot about the person in front of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 09:35 PM |
| – | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.Primal level? looks only is that what you are suggesting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:47 AM |
| 12 | In what ways is porn addiction damaging for men, and why?it is much easier to get the dopamine effect from watching porn, keep getting that effect very easy rather than go meet meet women and do the work of achieving actual sex. After orgasm men lose desire for sex temporary. Sex is a primary motivation, if you can get that that similar effect instantly. Ultimately it is not fulfilling, because it is not the same thing. Virtually all addiction is usually a product of something below the surface that one is avoiding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:41 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWas this response intentionally obtuse or you do t know the RP concept is informal which you find on PPD jargon tab? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Telling men that "improving" their "personality" will improve their romantic and sexual results is like telling a politician or a company that honesty and quality will get them successHuman are emotional beings, there is no doubting that. The statements men are logical, and women are emotional are not quite true statements. There is a dimorphism between male and female brains that is well studied in science. There is also studies of behavior differences. You could see the difference in profession both genders choose to go into, even in countries like Sweden. Men are emotional too, but how their process is different. Men instinct is first understand, then use emotion. Women pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt was your word by justifying your argument. You are the one who projected that everyone who cares about n count are illogical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 11:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am saying people have different reasons for caring about n count, and the only argument to have is insecurity is illogical. People have different motivation for caring about n count. The psychology of an a guy who had little success with women is different to a guy who had success with women and from a place of abundance. For the later it is about standard, for the other own could be insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 11:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe could have a low n count and still keep having sex with Chad, chad often keep women around for sex purposes too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 11:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadassuming everyone you disagree with is irrational, sounds very healthy lol. The only thing you are proving with poor arguments, is that you are irrational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 11:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadN count does not equal how many times she had sex, why does higher n count equal to having sex with chad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 11:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe all have different standard, i personally do not judge random people and their n count. If i am not evaluating a person for potential dating, i do not care who they chose to sleep with and so forth. For example if a poster here says her body count is 500, i do not care It has nothing to do with me. Caring about n count does not equal to weaponize it against others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 11:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI always say everyone is insecure, and insecurity is due to not knowing or not feeling secure. There is plenty of good reasons not be secure in some situations. Is insecurity bad? well it depends on the situation, you could be foolish for being secure when the situation is not secure. Insecurity is a negative buzzword around here. My argument regarding n count doesn't mean it has anything to do with insecurity. It is a lazy argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 11:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA lot of BluePill/women their go to argument here if you care about n count is due to your insecurity and worrying about being compared to her past sexual partners. Logically that makes no sense. low body count does not mean she had worse partners or less sex, she could be in long term relationships and had a great sexual partner. Logically follows if she continues to be with him it was likely for a good reason and it was satisfying. Higher sexual partners, likely mean she has not found one wort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 10:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean isn't that perspective if you believe the women in your country are higher tier, are US women for example higher tier? If so based on what metrics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 10:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere is a lot of people here do not care for debate or intellectual discussions. There was a thread asking the woman why they are here. I only saw 1 poster said to discuss and debate. Every other response "boredom, craziness, junk, fun, etc. If you made a similar thread, you would probably get similar answers from men that has nothing to do with genuine discussions and debate with the other side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 06:37 AM |
| 2 | The reason why tall men are seen as more attractive is because height is a wealth signifierWhy do you think that theory holds better than dominance and physical protection which is the popular belief? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 05:24 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSorry for your loss. But the argument has always been when emotional vulnerability is bad in the sense, when the women feels she can't count on the guy for protection and support. Based on what you typed he was someone you counted on and provided support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy mean most men will forever be undesirable.Agreed men preference varies to a certain extent, just saying the preference is a feeling and instinctual not logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy mean most men will forever be undesirable.It is the same way men attraction to bigger tits and ass, it is an instinctual arousal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:03 PM |
| 5 | I think womens lower libido is what makes dating so hardMen see sex as a low investment, women see it as higher investment it has to be with a particular person. A lot of men can have sex with 17 different women on the same day, and he will be fine. Same scenario for women with men, the vast majority of women will have trauma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 06:32 AM |
| 6 | Age gap only matters if you’re not her first optionI don’t there is any or should be any disagreement that is rare. Typically those men have to be exceptional. Maintain their looks and body, majority of men can’t do that either due to poor diet or/and genetics. If a guy is attractive, charming, well off, etc he is going to attract those women. Age is not stamped on his forehead and attraction is not logical it is emotional. We feel it, we don’t run a thorough logical approach. I don’t think anyone believes(hopefully) the guy that looks his age a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 06:18 AM |
| – | Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat".Who said it was supposed to be a threat? Most men value looks, and as you age so does looks that is just reality. We are here to discuss and debate here, not to make threats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:38 AM |
| – | Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat".In fact, 45% of women either make more or just as much as their partner. In comparison 83% of men either make more or equally. 55% are the primary provider. Standard of living have gone up, while wages have stifled. Women still need to pair up to make ends meet. Some of you are really not in tuned with current state of households in America and the economy. Also a man not having 50 women in his DM does not mean he has no options, most men have to go out there and initiate and prospect for option… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 10:22 AM |
| – | Telling women that looks fade isn't much of a "threat".Any guy speaks in absolutism like this is projecting hard that every men is a loser like him. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost women here claim such women do not exists, so they are completely oblivious of sluts and trashy women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanSure, personally not a believer in small micro social ques as indication of interest. A bit of tangent, I think guys need to know that women you find attractive are always trying to disqualify a guy, she may have showed interest at one point, but based on what you say or come across she may lose attraction based on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 07:13 PM |
| 9 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanSo you are agreeing with the OP that approaching is necessary, since there is always possibility with of mixed signals. I swear some of you say things, without having a clear logical argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanYou know you are contradicting yourself, if there is no fool-proof or clear social ques, regardless of your social awareness ability you have to approach, mixed signals is sometime part of the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Asking modern women to treat all the men they date equally is illogical.Can we stop with these "women should" threads, it defeats the purpose of this place, we are here to discuss and debate dating behaviors not that people should change their behaviors. The whole AF/BB is to navigate dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.How was attractiveness measured? How was it determined if they overrated or underrated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | So who is really trying to fool themselves? Red or Blue?RP is framework on attraction is based on that relationships are transactional. General statements can be true they don’t need to be “all”. If the statement can match up to close to 80% then the statement is true. It is no difference on many Nobel peace winning theories in economy. Women are attracted to looks, status, wealth, and social skills. You become more attractive in these departments your options will grow. It is that simple, does that mean it will attract every single person or every i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | So who is really trying to fool themselves? Red or Blue?Some of you bunch are going to be surprised how much development science and social science have reached understanding human behaviors. You don't need to understand things with absolute certainty to make general assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | So who is really trying to fool themselves? Red or Blue?Do you want to settle for not being exceptional? RP acknowledge that regular people live happy life, i always say the happiest people are average people who are content with being average who don't desire more. To achieve happiness it is to reach deep inside and find contentment. Happiness is a state of mind. Some of us are not willing to accept that. Fuck the steak knives, i want to win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | So who is really trying to fool themselves? Red or Blue?RP framework is based on that relationships are transactional, the principals used matches with game theory and many principals we see throw economy, trading goods, socials and so forth. The Redpill is uncomfortable because humans are emotional beings, we want to believe our relationships are altruistic not self interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:06 PM |
| 7 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesWomen are concerned upfront, men are more concerned in the backend. The dynamic is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:52 PM |
| -1 | Men are so afraid to be settled for because they know they are settling themselvesAF/BB is a myth. It's red pill propaganda so all the average guys who are in relationships are still losers in the end, and the incels who propagate the af/bb lies can feel superior to their looksmatched peers who do have sex and relationships. TRP is a dating strategy. The AF/BB is a concept for those guys who subscribe to TRP to be aware of and understand women duel mating strategy, so they can get into optimal relationships. AF/BB is not meant to be weaponized against others, make others feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 01:19 PM |
| 3 | AF/BB is true and it's a rational strategy for womenDoes the AF/BB model not assume women’s desires don’t change however? It assumes that women continue to desire A and simply settle for B, when could it not be possible when they age they desire B instead? Women desires do change from the perspective needing to meet a biological need and a diminishing SMV which is why they end up with BB. But AF is what get her off more sexually, she trades sex to B for resources. While sex with A is validation. The AF/BB does not say there is no sexual attractio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 01:03 PM |
| 3 | AF/BB is true and it's a rational strategy for womenAnd the modern “male support for dating scene” as epitomised by the redpill and lesser blackpill are basically weed killer to men’s confidence. It doesn't have to be confidence killer, RP is supposed to raise a man standard. A man who has standard and is selective is usually traits of a confident men. People who are willing to accept anything, usually get the minimum or nothing. Women grow up and are endlessly told of the danger man posses, most men put women on a pedestal. Women can also take a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 12:11 PM |
| 2 | AF/BB is true and it's a rational strategy for womenMen that believe it’s just woman wanting to settle are using this fantasy for their own insecurities that once they get to this age surely a woman will finally want him because her female instincts will be telling her to reproduce and find a mate and he can either reject her to punish her for not accepting him earlier in life or use her for sex, either way, the “female” will want him You had to go deep into the emotional deep there didn't you? Some of you are incapable differentiating between ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:31 AM |
| 10 | You can't say you we're lied to.The lie is not what women do, the lie is what women say. Do what women say aligns with their actions? Obviously not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:41 AM |
| 9 | You can't say you we're lied to.Women do position themselves as being less shallow than men, when they talk about what they are attracted is little to no mention of looks. Ask a man what he is attracted to, it will be majority of physical description. Everything about women nature is a lie and indirect. Don't listen to what a woman say, pay attention to her actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:32 AM |
| – | Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished placeThe cost of living has went up while wages have stiffed or lagging significantly since women have primary entered the workplace. A single provider in the past could provide for a family, now needing duel income. So women still need a man capability to make ends meet. Most people live paycheck to paycheck. Nothing has changed. I work in sales and most guys who are also top performers are men, and entrepreneurs makeup the wealthiest people in America and if they are self made they are men. Men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:59 PM |
| – | Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished placeI am always amazed how terrible feminist understand history; they really think the modern economy and jobs were always available. It wasn't law, it was the advancement of technology that lead to woman in the workplace and rights. Any privilege and rights men had throughout history was only because they were more capable than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:26 PM |
| 2 | What Metrics “Should” Women be attracted to?"should" is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 05:58 PM |
| 2 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingWomen are aroused by a man that can attain resources too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 02:52 PM |
| -3 | I think having a generous personality as a man is more important than being good lookingA guy that can provide by itself doesn’t make him Beta Buck, women are attracted to a man that can provide. Women are aroused by competency and a man that can attain resources. There is much more information and needing to show a duel mating strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Why is drama so widely appealing / why is being level-headed often considered boring?People who look for drama and excitement primary through relationship don’t have much going in life, on the flip side people who have passion and ambitious see relationship as an accessory to a good and exciting life they already have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:37 AM |
| 34 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!Dating for a man is like being salesman, while dating as a woman is like being a cashier behind a counter. A salesman needs to put in a lot of work and skill to get the sale, a cashier just needs to show up, accept or decline the offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 08:46 AM |
| 1 | How important is “virginity” to men?In the US the vast majority of women are not virgins early in adulthood. There is no expectation of them being virgins, so which lead to most men not caring. Countries and Cultural more traditional they care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 12:33 AM |
| – | Why do people vilify emotions and feelings?Everyone has insecurity, it has become a negative buzzword. A good amount of insecurity is good, why would you feel secure in a relationship or situation when you don’t feel secure in it. if you are living pay check to pay check should you really settle for that? Or romantic partner that has burned you? Insecurity is not always bad, you are just a fool or low standard if you are willing to accept anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:33 AM |
| 5 | There is a active push to limit the scope of socially acceptable venues to approach a womanHowever, I know that I'd be miserable trying to fake an interest in something I really don't care about Change your mindset, rather thinking you are faking your interest. Think you are open minded and trying new things and experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?Okay lets put that to test. There are men here who have trouble with attracting women. How would you go about approaching a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?Should a women take advice from men on how to wear their makeup or how they should dress to attract men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:54 AM |
| – | Men, have you, or have you seen, a man actually protect a woman/child from a predator?I feel Well that could be trouble, how you feel is how you feel. If we are operating on an emotional level, we can't have a debate. Can't have a debate on a emotional level, since i can't invalidate how you feel. There have been much studies and social experiment done; that men are more likely to help a stranger, especially women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:41 PM |
| – | Men also care about heightWhat percentage of women does he disqualify? less than 1%? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:11 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadKinda weird seeing posts by some people looking down on people here and their beliefs; my question is why are you even posting here? I definitely disagree with many here, but doesn’t mean i think they are all insane or unhinged, they have a reason for believing such things. Right or wrong they maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you have your phone or other screens near your bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPart of being an alpha is being respected and admired by your fellow people and seen as a leader. From little i know of Logan Paul is that he has previously dated pornstars and OF girls, so her finance is an upgrade from that perspective. I have seen maybe a few clips there and there where he encourages his guest to do OF. Because how much money she can make, and it would be stupid no to capitalize on it. That is his mindset. If Logan Paul is your “alpha” hero that says more about you and your v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLogan Paul a degenerate and a scammer, how would he destroy all of the “alpha chad myths.” Imagine thinking Logan Paul is an alpha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 04:59 PM |
| 8 | Why do guys hate when women withhold sex if she likes the guy, when guys do the same thing to women as well?Because a lot of the guys don’t think of woman as people who thinking about her love life in terms of when she wants ti be serious or not Why you reached that conclusion? Is it possible the dynamic between men and women is not symmetrical? They think of them as fuck objects that can’t control their “female nature” so when they fuck a guy straight away, it’s cause she was soo instantly attracted him, she couldn’t control herself. When she makes a guy wait, it’s cause she’s not that attracted to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:53 AM |
| 4 | What is the evolutionary reason that a woman finds verbally asking for sexual consent (e.g., kissing) to be a turnoff?Evolutionary psychology is worse than pseudoscience because it's impossible to go back in time or replicate the exact conditions that might have caused a specific trait to be selected for. Evolutionary behavior is not pseudoscience, you can't believe in evolution without believing the behavior that accompanies it. It is like believing that Giraffe has long neck, but no behavior accompanies. How insane and stupid that sound. It is already established that humans are not a blank slate. It is alrea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Which city has the most good looking men?Not sure about men, but as women goes i would say Miami. I am assuming you are asking in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 01:09 AM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Those "guys" would be the men who you just a minute ago claimed needed to be motivated to raise their standards by being told that others will view them as cucks and losers. I didn't say they need to be, it can be. I didn't say how others view them as cucks or losers. How they view themselves. Most men know it is a bad deal to raise another man offspring, and not prioritize your owns. Most men have a conception of what a cuck or loser is. Just like calling someone fat can motivate them to get in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 09:27 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Not sure what the point of that was, we go from talking about Stepdads to whatever that was just a bunch of assumptions and accusations. Not sure who these "guys" are, i don't speak for others or TRP. Seeing your post history, seeing a pattern where you don't actually engage with others, seem more interested creating image of other person and attempt them to defend a perspective they have not expressed. Nope not interested in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 08:35 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?It is not about shaming other men, it is about raising the standard of the men that watch the content. I give another person advise to avoid women with Bipolar disorder, does not mean i am shitting on women with Bipolar disorder or the man that date them. In some way you have to internalize that raising another man is low value behavior, so the person watching the content would avoid it. Just like one has to acknowledge loser and broke behavior so they can raise their standard to better than tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:12 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?For example, someone might have the option of an attractive person they'd be happy with who's childless, but the single mother they like is even more attractive and likable to them to such an extent that it outweighs the complications. Still prove my point though, he can't attract those type of women he want without the baggage. In a sense most people have choices, but they don't register as choices because it doesn't meet their attraction level. He is compromising. It's arrogant for "TRP" t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:18 AM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?No dude, that is your fantasy. Single mothers is far ideal situation; Most likely real father still in the background; imagine a scenario where he attempt to parent the kids one way and the father says another, and they take the father side. Would you want to be in that situation? They will likely still consider their biological father as their real father. Regardless of how much more you invest into these kids, they will likely still never consider you as their father. If the relationship goes … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:59 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost todays artists is definitely not worth it, they neither sing or play real instruments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 01:15 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was listening to classical music, opera, classical rock, folk music, foreign music, etc in my teen. I was never into hip hop and country, still i am not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 09:07 PM |
| 3 | The only reason you hear so many women say that men overrate their appearance is because they are projecting, as any balanced individual can clearly see women do this infinitely more than men.Exactly. What men and women find attractive is not symmetrical. There is a whole bunch of other things women look for beside physical attractiveness. While for men it is just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 11:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGorilla mode supplements is the one i bought, their pre workout is the best i have ever had. I have tried many. I agree you shouldn’t buy something because of a YouTube channel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have bought supplements, i was in the market for a supplement anyway. I am guessing so was your BF, he didn’t start drinking coffee because of the channel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe content creators i am thinking about and you are thinking about are completely different. You are not forced to buy the product, and it has nothing to do with the information they give. Reddit? You can do that, but i wouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCynical take, the content i consume are helpful and it always comes down to you applying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTall women are my niche, 5‘8-6‘0. I don’t think i have come across any women anywhere near that height(6’4) or even at my height 6’1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPeople call some of these YouTubers grifters because they advertise products, i see nothing wrong with that they(not all) provide insightful information for free. Nothing wrong trying to make money while helping others. You don’t need to buy anything if you don’t want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQuick link to a video that explain this, i don’t know anything about this channel or anything but covers a lot of things that i have gathered from books and body language. Body language is extremely important, most of our communication is nonverbal. Remember language is something new, for most of history we relied on nonverbal communication. https://youtu.be/W9JqJNmYPY0?si=TUxeY3I5Lb78m7qN | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour body language can help you look more attractive or vise versa; for example how you walk and your posture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP make of the fact that so many women selflessly take care of their Ill and disabled husbands?You are looking at one side of the coin, who is more likely to initiate a divorce after loss of income or employment? Who is more likely to initiate divorce after mental health issues? TRP is not interested who is better men or women, you are mistaking that men think like women. Women see their gender as a group they have to defend, men do not. Men are less of collective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 04:01 PM |
| – | What does TRP make of the fact that so many women selflessly take care of their Ill and disabled husbands?If women were as ruthless and opportunistic as TRP says then surely we wouldn't be seeing so many cases like these No one has claimed that. This is like a guy claiming "If women are all good and angels as BluePill say then why do you see women leaving their ill and disabled husbands?' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:15 AM |
| – | Why is redpill mostly full of men?Conventional beauty standard and not being promiscuous is the equivalent of TRP for woman. Most women can not live up to that standard, which is why there is anti slut shaming and body positivity for woman in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:55 PM |
| 12 | A few of my observations in the medical field as a guy with the male/female ratio being 1:10Or that money and success made women horny? If it wasn't the case why doesn't male models have higher SMV than celebrities, athletes, and musicians. Woman lust over the latter much much more than the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?I never quite understood how some men could genuinely be surprised by this. Like look, I’m fairly blue pilled for plenty of reasons, but are there seriously people who believe women have 0 sense of physical attraction? That we could fall for just anybody if they’re nice enough? What did he say that implied he was lied to about physical attraction? I thought he was going the route of women attraction toward assholes traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:13 AM |
| 0 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.The thread frames there is a double standard exists against men for their preferences. Those who believe(women/women ally) such standards doesn't exist are incentivized not to criticize your preferences, to prove the the OP wrong. Invalidate such claims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 02:32 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd honestly I dont know if I can go on like this, Im so tired of this loneliness. Have you even tried? If so what have you tried? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:11 PM |
| 6 | If you plan on having multiple simultaneous sexual partners, you should disclose that fact to all of themHe is not sociopath, that is the game. If a women withhold information, the guy is going to be blamed for not reading the room or not being sharp about social norms. Nobody cares that you were mislead. What is the guy supposed to do, be a sheep among wolves? You I’ll only get taken advantage of and be a sucker. The game is the game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:22 PM |
| 2 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)To quote OP: “If a 5 has never been interested in you, chances are you're not a 5.” That’s what I was responding to. It’s a true statement for a man or a woman. That’s indisputable, so let’s move on. Yeah let’s move on, i think i know what you are trying to say. Yes if i took that statement from a logical standpoint, does not mean the inverse of that statement is the same. I think that differentiation you are going for. The guys in my frat were no better off financially than the campus populatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:15 AM |
| 6 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)No one has to think this way lol. Genuinely, I'm just sick of men thinking that being overly fixated on sexual pasts is normal, because in most urban centers it is not. I have never liked the word normal tbh, being normal is not a affirmation to me. Women who sleep around do so for the following reasons: (1) High sex drive (2) Don't want to commit (3) they didn't find someone they liked enough to date (4) untreated mental illness if it's impulsive and unhealthy/trauma. #4 is treatable. Men with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 05:39 AM |
| 2 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)It’s true for both men and women. If a woman can’t pull a 5, she’s not a 5. Same is true for a man. You keep flipping OP’s point. No one ever claimed you are a 5 if you can pull a 5. From the OP: The dating market tells you what you are worth My argument is it can inflate your perspective. I am pointing that out. This definitely isn’t true. Over the course of college, I watched dozens of guys in my frat hook up with girls above their level. It’s not like most girls they pulled were above their l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)My inner circles have changed, it is always evolving to the level i want to reach. So can’t say i have experienced your examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:18 AM |
| 10 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)What makes you the authority that everyone should have the same belief as you? I have no issue if you don’t. I've also never met a man irl that was overly fixated on his gf's past sex life that didn't have a host of other issues To the contrary i have never meet a high count women that didn’t have a lot of other issues. Most women reject a man upfront based on many factors, a man has much higher criteria when it comes to long term relationship. Women want to vet a man upfront before sleeping wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:07 AM |
| 1 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)I may enjoy those foods on some cases, but generally they would be the exceptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:50 AM |
| 2 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)The dynamic is not the same for woman though which is what i was pointing out, for a guy a yes that is true. A guy can not pull up above his level. rare case may happen. But a man will date lower but not commit to her, women have access to higher level man. She may think these man her level. Because man standard for LTR and casual/situationship or keep her around for longer but will not commit. A man will keep a woman around for access, and from her perspective she may think they are in a relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:46 AM |
| 1 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)I grew up poor and now have money. Guess what i choose to eat what the rich eat every damn time. So what would the majority of people. Nothing to do with taste, just what is available. That is like thinking the poor would not want to drive the same type of cars wealthier people drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:09 AM |
| 0 | dating issues we can all agree on (i think)The dating market tells you what you are worth. If a 5 has never been interested in you, chances are you're not a 5. Of course, this isn't only about looks. It's about your prospects and personality as well. So many issues in the dating world happen because average women blow off average men, without realizing they are also average, or grossly obese, weird man only feel they can go after models they have nothing in common with. Unfortunately, a lot of you are worse in more ways than you think. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:48 AM |
| – | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.No, it really isn't lol. You don't know what you don't know. "locking a door." lets just say it was as unintelligent response i can think of. You know you don't need to be an redditor and think you know everything, it is okay not knowing everything. You are just robbing yourself of enlightenment by planting your foot when you are wrong. i feel bad for such people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:25 PM |
| – | CMV People that dont have real life Experience/functioning Social Life should not talk about Dating Strategy, it is just annoying how deluded those takes are.I have never read TRP talk about child custody that is more MRA shit. Seen your other post; you keep confusing RP with MRA,Blackpillers, incels. Most of the men posting here are not RP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:06 PM |
| – | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.Through women's shared experiences and knowledge. If you have any evidence that supports a different conclusion, please share. i have not made the claim it is or not,, i am asking why they think it is. Your instinct is not always correct, you just proved it, you emotionalized my comment and treated as a threat. And resorted to fight mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:08 PM |
| – | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.Why would i give instruction? i don't give a shit, i am trying to understand why you think indirect a flight approach is safer or more effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:56 PM |
| -4 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.Your emotions is clearly clouding your judgements. It was a genuine question asking if her response would have made a difference. The assumption here is that indirect method is safer and deter escalation, but why? What evidence support this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.Yeah sure, i was asking why is the assumption avoidance is a safer method? Your instinct might tell you to run away from a dog you perceive as threatening, but in reality not really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.I think you are making huge and false assertions about which method is safer. It is definitely not like "locking the door." I don't think you understand, the behavior is flight or fight mode. It just indirect way to deal with the conflict rather than direct way, doesn't mean it was safer. Most people will go into a flight mode when encountering a bear, but it doesn't mean their instinct was right to run away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:38 AM |
| -3 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.I'm in my 50s. I can't think of any of my female friends or family members that didn't have AT LEAST one experience of a pushy, stalker-y male that didn't give a shit why she said she wasn't interested and proceeded to creep on her anywa How do you know if direct or non direct rejection method was used? My second question ho do you know if those situations could have been avoided by her response? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:17 AM |
| -1 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.How so? I am failing to see how one method is less or more likely to lead to violence. If a guy is pushy all those answers is no to him. Is there anything to suggest it will deter violence? Those responses is triggered by flight or fight, it is what their instinct believes to be the more appropriate response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:57 AM |
| – | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyI can't imagine there will be many straight men who will want to bottle feed, raise & clean up after a baby on their own. If we can get artificial womb to existence, we surely can get robotics to do that. Female AI can be the surrogate mother. There is definitely a path, where human females are replaced by humanoid females. I actually see government using it more if population becomes an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:18 AM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe thing about the n count is that the dynamic for men and women is different. Men and Women have different view of sex. That is the reality. Men will have sex with women what they perceive to be lower than their level or across from their level. Women tend to engage in sex with men they perceive equal or higher. Men are more likely to engage in casual sex or fuckzone with a woman who they perceive to be lower than their level, we men tend to give relationship to the woman we perceive to be mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:04 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADthere are a couple of studies concerning n counts with different buckets for n counts. The CDC is the one that keeps being reposted again and again, so no it is not being collaborated as i pointed out a flaw. For a community that is driven to find truth by science, i am really shocked at how red pill is actually more an ideology where people believe rather than a truth. For a guy claiming to be science pilled, you sure do miss obvious critical reasoning skills. Your accusation became as useless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:16 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can't seriously believe i wasted my time why BetaBux is not in the best interest of a men. I had to explain this to a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOn one hand i think it is kinda late if you are married you have disagreements about how she is dressed, shouldn't wife her up. Poor mate choice has already been made. You can try to communicate it, it is only controlling if she is unwilling to do so and you demand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 10:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you don't believe in communication? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey cost like $300 so idk Which one? the pro is $200 on amazon, and max is $477? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadnever..never? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 08:58 PM |
| – | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceWhy you think so? Due to pregnancy women evolved to allocate their love based on priority. Doesn't mean women are less capable of love, in fact i would say the opposite. Men tend to have higher intensity of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:49 PM |
| – | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceI am speaking in generality, not every men or every women. Men generally are harder at giving their love, but when they do it tends to be more intense. Women tend to love easier, but doesn't reach the intensity a man does. Everyone has different love languages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Men get destroyed by divorce because they view it as a moral failing. If men adopted the mentality "she's not yours, it's just your turn" they wouldn't get devastated by divorceYou are not weakening his argument his argument men love more deeply, you are arguing men have less love for many things. You are arguing quantity of love, not quality of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:10 PM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?Anger is stupid, lets just say i am bothered by the fact women preferences are accepted while men preferences are shamed. I think they should both be accepted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:58 AM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction? In their minds, men don't discriminate like women do. But men DO. It's just them who don't discriminate, since literally ANY kind of female attention would be better than having none. They completely disregard how men are brutally selective with their long term partners, and women fight a heavy intra-sexual war over who is more desirable to men, in order to attract the most desirable man they can get. Men do obviously, the average men is definitely not brutally selective, above average men are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:46 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYup, Side piece don’t have mobility in the relationship, kinda like a guy who has been friendzoned. He is not moving up to BF, and for the other women they will not move up to wife material. If the man and wife get divorced, he will look for other candidates tor the position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 10:20 PM |
| – | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADbody count is not how many times they have had sex, is how many different partners they had. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 09:26 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWhat nobody addresses is: the n count men state is corroborating that of women as being close to the true value. And men are said to correct their n count upwards. So there is no way women are having way more bodies on average than what the surveys confirm time and time again. How did you reach that conclusion? The CDC stops counting after 15+, so how do you know it is being corroborated? 15+ could mean literally any number. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm I don’t thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 09:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPretty sure those women in those situations because they rather be a side piece to much higher valued men, than be the main girl with a lower valued men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:42 PM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?He is clearly speaking from a mental standpoint, look at the amount of mental and addiction that plagues society. For him it seems death is better than just mere existence. Men need purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:34 PM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?Not from a mental standpoint. You cited war, which the OP clearly thinks is a better alternative than now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:26 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOkay cool i don’t know you personally, just saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 05:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou should probably mention, they would want a guy to be capable doing Ogre type shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 05:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you sure about that? i have seen your posts they are notably self loathing and victimhood. That is not masculine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 05:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou have to be very masculine though. You can’t just look like an ogre. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 05:31 PM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?How many women do you think are having children with shitty men? Isn’t the biggest threat to a women is her domestic partner statistically? Divorce rates are lower than ever No it is not, it is declining though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:40 PM |
| – | The idea that man whose 30 looks "visibly older" than guys in their early 20's to women is a mythNormal women age worse...much more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 02:27 AM |
| – | The idea that man whose 30 looks "visibly older" than guys in their early 20's to women is a mythIf you look at instagram, top women physical genetics and they take care of themselves you can clearly tell the difference between an 20s influencer and one ending her instagram thots days nearing 30. Heck even with the makeups and the filters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 12:25 AM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Seriously wtf is wrong with you? you proposed an impossible hypothetical scenario, of doctor asking the husband of choosing between the wife and child. We all play your stupid game, now you arguing my hypothetical is fiction? That is the whole point of hypothetical scenario it is fiction. A mother is never asked to choose between herself or the baby, doctor will not ask it or never mind the husband. oh btw more deaths are caused by fire than maternity. Most of maternity deaths are due to the wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:59 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Definitely would not want to marry a women who would want to prioritize her life over her baby. It is incompatible with my belief about family, having kids mean prioritizing your kids over yourself. Same goes for the husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:07 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?I think alot of women would choose their child, it feels like it’s biologically engrained in us mothers to put your children’s safety over their own. I am not sure about that assumption, just read the responses here. Definitely not among pro choice women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:01 PM |
| – | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Huh? Let me paint a the picture, the point is a similar dilemma between choosing your child or spouse. One life or the other, fireman comes outside tells the wife “we can save one life or the other, equal chance we could save the person, your husband is passed out he can’t survive without assistance.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?For me it doesn’t and many others. Say a one day born baby in burning fire, so a one day difference changes that much worth on that life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Therefore it’s far easier for you to announce you’d be fine dying in childbirth therefore women should be too I said in a burning fire I would be fine if my SO picks the baby over me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:49 AM |
| 0 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?One life has to override one or for the other, that Is dilemma you proposed. There is no right answer, but I know what is the right answer for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?What are you talking about? No one here has been in that situation, what is easy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:25 AM |
| 31 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?No i do not, everything equal women would still have it easier. Too many simp and desperate men out there. A man that has worked on himself and added self value for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Husband and I talked about it and he said he'd choose me and asked whether I agree with it. Yes, I agree with it. If I survive, we can grieve and try once more or go another route. If I die and he's left with a baby, there's no second chance for us. There is no chance for that baby either, having another child is another life. It is not the same life as the previous child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Would you choose your wife or baby in childbirth?Definitely the child. Honestly if I(male) was in a burning fire if it was me or or my child I would want them to save the child. No question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:01 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQFA: Do we love less after heartbreaks? I would think the answer would be yes, would think one would become more weary and guarded. Basic human survival mechanism, humans are primary motivated by avoiding pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:23 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDon't watch particularly watch much anime, but i have always seen dubbed. When it comes to movies/tv show sub all way, not negotiable because it sounds awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:13 PM |
| – | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.Like i said you base this on marriage, the people who claim hypergamy will rightfully find weakness by arguing that sex is the better evaluator of mating preferences. Your argument has many weaknesses including that women have a duel mating strategy of seeking sex requiring low investment with a higher tier men, while seeking LTR with men closer to her SMV but requiring higher investment. AF/BB. The average age of marriage is 30 and keep climbing, weird to discredit mating preferences before tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:51 AM |
| – | CMV: All women will aim for the absolute highest value male within reach first, then work their way down. Men don’t do this.How does this negate hypergamy? Because the studies look at marriage, women maybe hypergamy doesn't mean they can achieve it though. There is an obvious supply and demand, no shit. Women can be as hypergamous as they wan't doesn't mean they can achieve those results. Male are the gatekeeper of relationships, male tend to want to marry female who are closer to their own mate value, which backs up the OP position about men. When you look at the dating trends. Women preference is to marry when they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Most women with green flags are boring and men don't actually want them.This is old, hope this can explain. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pInk1rV2VEg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Most women with green flags are boring and men don't actually want them.Men are attracted to beauty, the hotter they are the crazier they tend to be. Refer to the hot and crazy scale. They don’t want the red flags, the red flags is not what attracts them it is the look. The red flags is the untended consequences. Most guys would want the boring with the hotness, most men would be completely fine with feminine and agreeable women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Men are projecting the whole 'alpha widow' thing.Alpha widow is based on wanting or failing to get commitment from a man they want. Either she was fuckzoned or the man did not see her as LTR material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 01:02 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEveryone favorite topic is themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | What exactly do RP men want?How you reach those conclusions? The RP explains woman nature, and explains how one could benefit. Some guys want traditionalism, but most don’t. There is a lot of stuff on how men can win in the modern dating. Avoid monogamy with modern women, avoid marriage where you are investing in a depreciating asset(women) Traditionally women got married early didn’t sleep around, in exchange men had to stay loyal when she got older and less attractive and stay monogamous. ‘Marriage is bad investment for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:14 PM |
| – | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.You are just making statements hoping something stick. People views and beliefs aligns with what they think benefits them individually. People are self interested. Conservative and religious people tend to be more on the the right economically, yet they are more likely to give to charity and volunteer in the community to help those in need. Like I said socialism and economic left is selfishly driven not morally driven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:10 PM |
| – | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.where does the money come from? From others, taking resource from people who worked hard for it. It is forced. women are economically on the left because it is for their own selfish needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:40 PM |
| 5 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.Kinda funny how women are much much left leaning on economy and socialist, yet many of us feel the same way about taxes and social programs. It is a direct conflict with our autonomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Don't mistake a man's lack of options for better moralsRelationship between two people are more likely to be successful when both parties mate value are roughly similar. When one party has a much higher value than the other person is more likely to neglect, cheat, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 01:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe germs argument is BS from most of you, most of you trade saliva with your pets after they were licking their assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 08:02 PM |
| – | The red pill imagery really resonates with young men and fathers should consider adopting it to get through to their sonsGoober father is probably getting bitch slapped by the wife and is a fucking embarrassment, sorry excuse for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:24 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Insecure is shaming language toward men though, its completely acceptable for a women to be insecure. This is why you and other women are using the term insecurity so much. You don't see men calling out women for wanting a much taller men insecure, it is viewed as her preference. Anyway the label is useless, it only has powers if you allow it. Things change. The need for purity isn't needed anymore as we have contraception, abortion and paternity tests. The overwhelming majority of men do not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:28 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Doesn't make sense. I am a confident man and i don't enjoy the cuckold kink at all. Those are very different things, but as is usual with your kind of man, this "cuck" attack is thrown out because you can't deal with the situation argumentatively when there is no cuckolding involved. Come on now don't resort to victimhood, you started with "Please do not project your insecurities onto confident men." Oh yeah the reason why i call you a cuck is because you keep using feminine tactics, "insecurity… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:12 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Please do not project your insecurities onto confident men. Please do not project your cuck mindset onto confident men. A confident and successful guy doesn't want the town bicycle because he is not confident, he doesn't want it because it is not valuable, everyone else had their ride with her. Its the same reason people want high end luxury items, people prioritize things that are rare and valuable. If suddenly everyone had rolex watches and diamond rings, those things would not be considered v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPotato is more masculine as a carb imo. Boil it and ready to eat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat is up if you think certain female celebrities is mid, average, or not highly attractive then you would get certain response about you being mid yourself or most likely below average yourself. That makes no sense regardless how unattractive one might be doesn’t mean they can’t be objective. That is like me think Kirk Cousins is mid as a QB, yet certainly no one is questioning my ability as a QB. Most people who give their opinion are nowhere near as good as the professional athlete. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Women aren't attracted to confidence, they hate confidence in men they don't find attractiveWomen are attracted to confidence, the issue with such posts here is thinking women attraction is like men. Men attraction to women is visual, women attraction is like a combination of things Looks, money, status, social skills, intelligence, etc. Confidence is by proxy a signal of resources and competency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: successful men do care about womens’ careersWhat is the field? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbro Florida man is something else. Florida man arrested by Coast Guard for trying to cross Atlantic in human-sized hamster wheel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadKinda crazy how these people think saying he is not better than MJ is hating on Lebron. Saying there is maybe 1-3 players better than him that ever played the game is not hating on him. He is definitely in the top 5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShit take, permitter defneding doesn't even exists in the NBA more, Jeff Hornacek with hand check is a much better defender than the modern NBA player. Also the paint was much better defended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMJ is a superior version of Kobe, we already know how great Kobe in this area. MJ would be still dominate the NBA in fact he would be even better with todays rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:57 PM |
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