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Personally believe returning with kindness and love. My ego loves a false sense of moral superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:05 AM
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Oh, okay. The description sent me in a another direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:59 AM
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I don't see it, the left just has smaller tits. Hardly dressed any differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:49 AM
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What do you want me to clearify? The OP stated other factors often supersede superficial traits. Which you highlighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:44 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSsPfbup0ac This is very good social experiment video, not only it shows the bystander effect. But also how appearance and gender play a role.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:34 AM
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My response was in scope with your reply and what you highlighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:26 AM
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Saying something is "reality" based on another BluePiller perspective without any data but only antidotes which may or may not be true. I do think RedPill undervalue common interests and values, but the world is much more superficial than the BluePiller believe to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:18 AM
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Hands down my biggest pet peeves on PPD, is people using the word projection. Do they realize they are also projecting themselves? I guess it gives them a false sense of superiority, that others are projecting but they themselves are seeing reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 02:06 PM
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This. Also a lot of these steams from content creators who are in the business of clicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:44 PM
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I have noticed that red pill ideas of relationships tend to revolve around the man always "winning," RP probably believes the BP perspective is that the woman has to be winning. BP: "Stay at home dad is good, Traditional marriage is bad because imbalance of power." Wait a minute...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 11:33 PM
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Opinion varies and perspective. An alpha is not based on position, many who are high on those ladders are leaders because of their position, not because of their traits. Humans are the only animal to follow unstable leaders. RP have a terrible understanding of alpha, the majority they consider alpha are fake alphas. The best example of alpha in tv imo is Andy Taylor from The Andy Griffith show. But again opinion varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 07:30 PM
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Of course. The thing is whenever PPD talks about money, is that they don't realize that money is logical. But in real world application is much different. It is fun, enjoyment, competency, power, etc In your OP you stated about CEO. The average age of CEO is 59. Yeah who would be attracted to an image of a 60 year old, ugly guy, +money. You also don't imagine any positive traits to that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:58 AM
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Bezos and nearing 60s CEO grade too low on looks to have higher SMV than a guy who is top tier in looks. Celebrities, musicians, athletes, etc on the other hand run circles and have a much higher SMV than male models which would be your equivalent of the "most handsome guy in the room."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:49 AM
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I am not following completely. But from the sound of it you are adding money to an image of an very ugly guy and no redeeming traits. You compare that to a very attractive guy who has no negative traits. But in real life it doesn't work that way. Btw RP doesn't say Money>looks. Everything equal looks. They do say a combination of looks, social, status, and money. Some women will be more attractive to some traits than other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:42 AM
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Women like to have fun. And fun costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 04:11 AM
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My confusion about blackpillers, A lot of average or below average looking men know if they want to attract the type of women they want they have to standout in some capacity. Many men have done so, but Blackpillers refuse to standout in other capacity. Am i missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:44 PM
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Nah, most women know the deal if he is not trying to get in her pants than he is not attracted. I had female friends, throw themselves at me, women will do that if they feel comfortable with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:31 PM
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Thanks for sharing, economic status is another signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:08 AM
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Does it? if you showered and are clean, your sweat will smell good. If not, it will be just BO.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:05 AM
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Why was that if you don't mind sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:03 AM
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maxing hygiene is probably one of the best and easies(takes no skill) to do. Also at an unconscious level it signals attractiveness, competency and moral cleanliness. Without thinking about it we assume one thing we do, is we do everything else with the same attention and quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 12:54 AM
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Probably the best thing you can do for your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:23 PM
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What is the one advice you think you could give someone that would change their life or the best advice you could give? Mine would be that every human being is suffering and insecure, they hide it behind a mask. Which not only should raise your empathy for others, but also for yourself that you shouldn't feel shame about your owns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:12 PM
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"You are projecting" Yes so are you becuause so is everything even you the sound and sights you hear. see so many post about others projection. Wherever you learned this, you didn't learn the most important part that you yourself is also projecting. It is easy to identify in others, because that is the default of the ego to believe you are right and others are wrong. But questioning your own projection, it takes humility and courage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 03:13 AM
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Take more pictures, so your brain gets more comfortable. The brain doesn't like the pictures because it is not familir to the image sees in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:20 PM
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i don't believe that is the madonna/whore complex, it is not rooted in picking a wife they are not attracted to, it has to do with their inability to maintain sexual arousal in a committed relationship. The men who suffer from this do not represent the majority of men, the majority of men can respect a women and also feel sexual desire toward them. And no has ever claimed that it does represent men in general desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:45 PM
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Or travel back home, my gym is packed with college kids. The blessing is it has made me go back to my very early gym hours. They are not waking up that early.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:29 AM
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Haven't been to a Target in a long time, but i have heard better looking people shop there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:22 AM
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RP describe Pill Blue as the unconscious, unaware, or vague of how dating works. BP view dating can not be simplified, random, or there is a special person for everyone, etc . RP view dating through the lenses of being a marketplace, there are values and things can be simplified. Which is why they talk about looks, money, status, and social game, They tell men this is the game and this is how you can win. A lot of RP also want what normal people want; some want traditional relationship which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:18 AM
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Yet you see your perception as the only real one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:35 PM
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Broadly speaking everything is perception, even the colors you see it is just perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:10 PM
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A= First, primary, etc B= follows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:55 PM
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Reality doesn't exist, it is all perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:53 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:48 PM
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The concept of Alpha and Beta, have generally been used outside of whatever you are talking about. Alpha=leaders, Beta=followers. That as simple as i can make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:34 PM
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Oh for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:21 PM
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Thanks for reply, yeah that i was asking, something along you personally disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 11:16 PM
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Just asking if there is something you disagree with that some or popular among TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:05 PM
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QFRedPill: What is your biggest criticism of the RP or disagrement you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:55 PM
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"Society lied to men about looks not being important." No they didn't; even if you didn't get out much and notice who the girls were crushing on, didn't notice how the vast majority of hollywood leading men being attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:52 PM
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Isn't caricature of a guy in friendzone is that the women does not see him as a man, lacking the assertive or masculine features to spark sexual energy. I thought that was the direction he was going.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:48 PM
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A lot of red/black pill guys seem unable to understand the difference between "looks aren't the only thing that matter" (mainstream view) and "looks don't matter at all" (crazy fringe view). How you reached that conclusion? OP said nothing about looks, or that looks don't matter. So you think the only reason a guy ends up being friend zoned is wasn't physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:30 PM
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I don't think i have come across a man that his biggest issue from attracting women was that he was not nice or decent person. On the other hand i know guys who jerks that had no issue with getting women. Obviously being an asshole is not a prerequisite to attracting women. But i kinda get why so many men here hate the "personality and decent" argument/advice, because they can't find evidence that support and help ones outcome with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:17 AM
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Two people who are wrong on internet arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:49 AM
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“Maximus was my model for self-control, fixity of purpose, and cheerfulness under ill-health or other misfortunes. His character was an admirable combination of dignity and charm, and all the duties of his station were performed quietly and without fuss. He gave everyone the conviction that he spoke as he believed, and acted as he judged right. Bewilderment or timidity were unknown to him; he was never hasty, never dilatory; nothing found him at a loss. He indulged neither in despondency nor for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:43 AM
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Anyone heard about Chase Hughes? probably some of the best material on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 12:33 AM
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Everyone is faking confidence. Confidence=safety. If you think about it, what is behind most lack of confidence is fear and usually that is fear of social judgement. How does the Mammalian brain interprets this? Social judgment= being socially outcasted which would result lack of survival and loss viability to mate and reproduce. You don't need to worry about sabertooth tiger or being socially outcasted from the tribe, you are safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:14 AM
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This is also true for women. Ones mating and reproduction viability is placed a great deal on it. Heck even the court system can't avoid it; one with high mating potential are given less sentence, cases dropped more likely, etc. People in society have evolved to take care of people with high mating viability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:10 PM
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Women preference is taller than the medium height for men though, the average men height is 5'9 here in the us. That is not preferable, the preference is taller than average. The point i am making here, that women prioritize height. This is imbalance of power from a physical standpoint, if imbalance of power was to be avoided then women would prioritize average or shorter men. But it isn't the case. As i stated in the OP i don't believe their preference is based on wanting to be abused, it is si…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:44 PM
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Read the OP, i never stated i agree with it. I said it is faulty argument similar to the age gap argument. ​ In most cases men wanting younger women is because it is what they find more physically attractive. Similar to women liking tall men, it is because they find them more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:11 PM
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Are you being obtuse or being serious here? Is women preferring taller men over average height men news to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:52 PM
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indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:39 PM
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Women seeking tall men, it is a imbalance of physical power.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:36 PM
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Some people here argue that age gap is predatory or imbalance of power. Yet none of those people would ever argue that women preferring men who are 6feet/tall or significantly physically stronger are seeking relationship to be abused or something along that line. In most cases men wanting younger women is because it is what they find more physically attractive. Similar to women liking tall men, it is because they find them more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:27 PM
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No, men and women are different, so it is quite common wanting traits or features that differes from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:58 PM
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Confidence is largely faking it, and everyone is faking it. The difference between the person who is genuinely unaware of it that their confidence is fake and the person who believes they are pretending or being an imposter if they act confident is self esteem. People with high self esteem are unconsciously faking confidence, while those with self esteem believe needing large amount of evidence from themselves, which they may never meet based on their self esteem. Give yourself the permission to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:43 AM
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lol same thought i had.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:27 AM
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Lived in Fayetteville while in the Army, god that place sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:01 AM
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A very basic research suggests that men are more likely to have a hidden account.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:55 AM
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the most common form of secret bank account though which usually involves enough money to make it to safety without having had to beg, hitch hike, sleep rough or use homeless shelters on the way. How did you reach that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:46 AM
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Yeah. I have also known men who complain about their wife being a SAHM, proving they are a bad fit to be a breadwinner. The shoe has to fit, or they will resent each other instead of seeing the value each add to their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:57 AM
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Yeah one has to see the value in it or have the desire for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:53 AM
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"Does paying for everything excuse your from chores?" LOL at that thread, most women on PPD are career oriented and have little interest in spending time with their kids. They make being at SAHM as hell, which certainly can be for them since they are terrible fit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:31 AM
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Yes, with the exception of having a newborn. Sheesh some of you make it sound like it is the 1920s, with modern technology it is not that hard to do household chores. You know you could also get your kids to do chores, they have so much darn energy. Get them to do work, less time bothering you about being bored and while learning valuable habits and discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:20 AM
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Honestly, I don't know if this is satirical or not but... It is not, you are projecting and ill fit to be "Person B" For the person who actually wants to spend time with their kids and prioritize their kids over career they have completely different perspective. Same way some people could be a terrible fit to be "Person A", they wouldn't want a partner that adds no income to the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:00 AM
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Or hear me out maybe because it is unusual and unordinary. Women also look down on them. Truthfully outside of when this topic is brought up here on reddit, hardly do my mind ever thinks of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:57 AM
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I personally love cleaning. It feels good, it is quite peaceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:32 PM
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I only come to this sub to make fun at men. You know this says more about you right? And it is quite sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:24 PM
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You are still asking women out putting yourself out there, but you are detached to the outcome. Because you still have purpose and enjoyment regardless of any women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:17 PM
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"TRP advises men to wait until they are 40 and find a 20 year old virgin." Advising a man to focus on his career, physical, and other self improvement. Does not mean he should wait years or decade before dating. The idea is that having a purpose and enjoyment in life will attract women. The biggest thing that will kill any guy attractiveness is one who comes off needy and desperate. A guy who enjoys his life and has a purpose is neither needy or desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:01 PM
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Good thing they don't advise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:29 PM
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When have they ever said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 10:06 PM
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Cooking or cleaning once in a while does not make them traditional. Never mind the level, attention, and care it was put into it. Being traditional wife, means this is what they desire doing and proud of the role and service they are doing for the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:25 AM
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Depends, if you just want to just check mark them. Sure Actual parenting is hard work though, kids need a lot of attention, patience and activity. Giving them an tablet or let them watch tv for significant amount of time is not the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:57 AM
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I think the major or the biggest focus of RedPill is correct. Seeing the dating marketplace through the lenses of values and resources. Game, money, status, and gym. Be more valuable and become more attractive vs your competition will increase your dating prospects. As other have pointed out most of the RP material on social media should be avoided, it is more for entertainment and i believe it creates unhealthy attitude toward women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:32 AM
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I don't downvote, unless it is the top upvoted comment and i disagree with sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:24 AM
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Possum is definitely trolling. The longest troll job on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 06:05 AM
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Yes that is the position of the group "decriminalize sex work." I am not doubting their position. Decriminalizing sex work but not buying has been adopted in Canada and other feminist countries like Sweden, Norway, Iceland, France, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:35 AM
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Not religious, but there is so much wisdom and knowledge in religion. My self growth mastery has led me to killing the ego and staying in the present. Much of these revelations and enlightenment have been known in religions for thousands and thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:23 AM
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People in unsatisfied marriages probably had those thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:10 AM
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https://www.wmtw.com/article/maine-to-become-first-state-to-decriminalize-prostitution-only-for-selling-sex-not-paying-for-it/44581287 One example of a state decriminalize selling sex, but not buyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:50 AM
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SNL is occasionally good when they have someone say like Chappelle. But overall SNL is not funny, a good clip there and there on Youtube once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:27 AM
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Maybe you are right, but i don't think it is common say a woman(who doesn't do OF) may think other women who do OF/digital prostitution as empowering or most likely reserve his judgment of them. But see men who watch porn as low status or look down upon them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:20 AM
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Pretty sure the women in the comments were offended probably. Maybe they didn't think those sex dolls were ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:09 AM
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Isn't a popular belief among feminism to punish or criminalize men who seek prostitutes, but not necessarily punish women who go into prostitution. They tend to hold similar views toward digital prostitution. Tend to judge the man and see it as exploitative, but see the women as victim or being in a unfortunate situation to making a living. I think the OP is alluding to these type of people rather than your example. They are definitely a group of people who think porn are bad, but don't judge th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:49 AM
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Most people argue to push their world narrative rather than arrive at the truth or understand the other side perspective. RP(or any other group for that matter) don't ignore they resist, because the other side arguments are not effective only push them further to the extreme. This is why stated it radicalizes RPers more than any RP influencer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:18 AM
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Not sure how you arrived at that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:19 AM
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I have been away from this sub for a little while, i actually find myself less red pilled. I always had this theory that this place will radicalize or turn more red pilled than any red pilled community could. Makes sense since the majority do not like to have an agenda pushed down on them. The more you push the more people resist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:01 PM
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I know what the world is not, but i can't say for sure what it is. I leave that door open.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:30 PM
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Typically all self improvement is geared toward men who are below average or men who want to self improve to attract higher quality women and improve their options. If you are average and content being average, than such advice is meaningless it probably doesn't even register your attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:27 PM
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Asking for consent communicates lack of confidence, experience, and previously rewarded(pre-selection).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:09 PM
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"stop chasing women and focus on career and life" This is a sound advice. It really means focus on a independent, fun, and healthy lifestyle for yourself first. If you have a lot or things going for you, women will be a byproduct of that. It also doesn't mean you have to reach a final destination before dating, usually on the journey that will attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:02 PM
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yup, further into what you said. It depends on the city, if you are in a rural or less populated area probably around 100k. If you live in say Miami probably around 250K and up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 05:51 PM
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Novelty and unique experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 04:34 AM
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I work in sales and i generally do well. Lately my anxiety makes me very avoidant of doing the activity i need to be doing. I have heard muscle relaxers prescription like Robaxin or beta blockers can be helpful. I probably need to see a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:44 AM
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Most people are also conscious of what their family or friends would think or consider the ramification on their kids potentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:33 AM
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The idea behind the wall; is that women hit peak SMV in their adult life, men do not. They remain their SMV, if it is low likely it will continue low or have a gradual increase until it tappers off. For a man to hit a wall, there has to be a wall to hit. That guy in your pic didn't have a wall to hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:29 AM
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You don't have free will, the moment you are born so much has been passed on to you from genetics and ancestors. Early period of a child plays a huge role in your development. How much free will do you have at that point? And than you have all these events that occur in your life that shape you, some out of your control. Like i said in another post i have a strong internal locus of control, believing i have control, but i can't explain why if anything i am the program i am. I didn't choose this,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:23 AM
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I don't know why these guys think that, and they are in for a rude awakening. If they think poor girl is some naive and stupid women, they are going to be in for a surprise when they learn that harsh life has made her street smart and jaded. And that she comes from a society where the male figures are quite masculine. She is going to be comparing every men to the type of men she has always known. Education doesn't make you smart, most women overseas still go through an education. there is a reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:11 AM
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Reframing it seems easier to me, than trying to calm your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:22 AM
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Anyone dealing with anxiety? Something that has helped me is to rethink it, rather than i am anxious. I think i am excited. Your body doesn't know the difference, your symptoms are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:03 AM
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Those girls are indeed poor, uneducated and thus can be easily fooled. Plus the grooming smell of the situation. Where is this belief coming from? Women in the US and other rich nations who come from a much more privileged country are much more impressionable and easier fooled. Those women in poorer countries don't believe in love or any of flowery thing. They weren't feed that Disney fantasy their whole life like girls from privileged countries. As someone who has come from a poor country and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:32 AM
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Indeed, also looking forward to watching victor wembanyama this season. Looks a player made out of a NBA video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:06 AM
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Get them to relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:00 AM
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I have a strong belief in internal locus of control and self determination, but i know my path and the way i think, who i am meant to be is out of my control. Humans are not a blank slate; we come to this world with a draft of the external world. Somethings easy to learn and others hard to learn. There is also factors of parents and events that shape our belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:57 PM
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Do we have free will? https://www.nytimes.com/2023/10/16/science/free-will-sapolsky.html I agree with Sapolsky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:42 PM
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Combination of Jeff Buckley and Mazzy Star mostly, and random there and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:35 PM
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But as you said, when you zoom out the past 50 years or so are a tiny fraction of human history, which is why most complaints about female privilege fall flat. If you zoom out and look outside of your gender identity this male privilege was nonexistent. The only privilege that has ever existed is class privilege. Male were either subjected to war or hard physical labor. Life was difficult for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:56 PM
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That is not frame. https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:04 PM
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Bro "The Notebook" was also written by a man, it is much more of a male fantasy. Rich girls/women and lower class boy/men is not actual dynamic. It is BP and Disney fantasy. He would have never dated her in the first place, second he would have been forgotten about in a second.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:12 PM
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That is not RP advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:58 PM
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Dating profiles for example. Women fucking know exactly how to push men's buttons, while men are so fucking clueless on what women want to see and read on a profile. Looking stoicly into the distance like James Bond? NO! THat's a male power fantasy. Bond is written for men, not for women. Its not necessarily women are good at it; self advertising is natural for a woman, advertising their looks and physical features they do all the time. The issue is men thinking they can do the same would work. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:50 PM
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They you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:21 PM
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I think the RedPill also has a similar word for a man falling in love and forgets rationale, the word escapes me right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:29 PM
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There is an overlap , but narcissist also make women feel comfortable and at ease. Competency does not make one comfortable by itself, social proof is the best indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:12 AM
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extremely submissive sexual energy There is no such things as energy it is just your body language. Walk around for a few days at the speed like you are underwater in a pool. See much difference that makes. Think about a rottlewiller and Chihuhua. A bigger dog for example movement is slow and are not easily reactive. A chihuahua on the other hand all the way from blinking fast, very reactive, and moves fast in normal condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:56 AM
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Most say confidence is important in dating but they don't say why. At a subconscious level it communicates social proof or pre selection. Humans are uncomfortable in new situations, if you come off confidence you are showing that you have been rewarded before by others. Women do not have superpower or senses, but they tend to relay on subconscious communication much more and are more intend to such things. It maybe due to being physically weaker sex or due to pregnancy. Obviously for millions we…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:34 AM
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Blackpillers believe looks is the only thing that matter or close to it, TRP states looks are important, money, status, game(social competency). I think this is more accurate. If you look at the most highly desirable men who are they? celebrity, athletes, musicians, etc. They generally are good looking but they have other attributes. If blackpill were right wouldn't male models have higher SMV? Also from an evolutionary standpoint; the reason humans evolved is because intelligence was also chose…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:19 AM
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BB tends to looksmatch and the equivalent of her mate value.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:49 AM
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Yeah it is confusing why Blackpillers here even talk about AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:21 AM
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At a subconscious level we tend to like things that are familiar to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:05 AM
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I am not saying it is all of your problems, i do see so many men here who are stuck in the past and hold so many regrets of what they didn't experience compared to others. This is not uncommon generally too many people have regrets and unmeet expectation. The bad news is that the more you are prisoner to your past, more time flies by. You don't need to keep comparing yourself to others, you maybe on chapter 1 while others maybe on chapter 10. Remember the moment you meet anyone new or in public,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:30 AM
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Andy Griffith
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:11 PM
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This is only true, if you think it is an accusation and from a place of emotion. Rather from a place of logic and a statement. Most women are vastly desired for their looks, their options dwindle as they age. This is a statement the vast majority of people would agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:51 PM
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Movie has a lot of example of fake confidence; i am speaking from experience in sales, negotiations, and behavior research.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:09 AM
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wary and defensive when they see signs of aggression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:06 AM
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No it is not. Its neither aggressive or passive. Aggressiveness turn others off in dating, sales, relationship, etc. It makes people defensive. Humans are conditioned to be wary of aggressive behaviors; it signals danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:46 AM
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The one that is based on behavior research. The one that has been studied from cult leaders, political and business leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:41 AM
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True confidence is not aggressive; aggressiveness is usually posture to makeup for confidence. True confidence is composed and cool, it is contagious to the other party. They also feel confident from the interaction. While the other makes the other party unconfident and small.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:21 AM
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Sounds like you assume they support terrorism by default. Personally i would need more information to draw that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:13 PM
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Do they support hamas or your reached that conclusion because of criticism of Israel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:52 PM
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Im just wondering if you gals really think you can "sense" the "virgin men" and the "sexist men"? Human opperate on evidence based; they have no idea on your past; the only thing they to base you on is what is in front of them. Your body language, movement, confidence, etc tells us a lot about the person in front of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:35 PM
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The #1 indicator for general health is............ Shinny and clean eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:06 PM
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I would agree it is the most thing, but humans are also very impressionable. Ever wondered why confidence is important? Confidence on a subconscious level means this person has done this before or been rewarded before 1000s or more time. This how our brains work. Humans are not confident in new experience, if you can project confidence you can signal a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:56 PM
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sigh. You can't stop millions, millions, and millions years of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:45 PM
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Improve it; get in better shape, dress better, hygiene, etc. Also it is not the only thing you are being judged as a possible mate choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:38 PM
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The world is shallow, there is nothing you could do about it. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:29 PM
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Sounds like you are comparing yourself to others, you are comparing your chapter of your development or path to theirs, we all don't develop at the same rate or have the same path. Comparing yourself to others is your ego, unfortunately the ego doesn't develop past the age of 9. Would you listen to a 9 year old for advice? You are secretly ashamed of not measuring up to others and feel inferior to them. I believe you need to change how you think, currently you are judging your life compared to o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:08 PM
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Blame? People tend to be very closed off and not suggestible when they feel judged. From my experience, blaming others doesn't seem healthy because i am carrying the negative emotion. It also doesn't mean i don't attempt to influence their behavior to another outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:45 AM
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Few things i am certain of you have at one point been bitten by a bug or mosquito, and i am certain at one point you have been upset or angry at another person. You didn't blame(hopefully) the bug for bitting you, but why are you upset at another person? They were both programmed. Most of us see a bug as a program designed to do what what it does. The other person is no different, he is who he/she is because of reason. From his ancestor, reward+punishment as a child, to his life experience. We a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:29 AM
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Act in a way that a quiet kid school shooter wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:25 PM
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What is behind that shame? Why do you feel shame because you start having sex at 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:01 PM
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There is a good exercise from psychology, i think it is from Carl Jung's shadow theory. Anything you bring up from darkness to light has no power and you relieve yourself of it. As soon as you can say it to yourself "I am secretly ashamed of________." You purge it and bring it into the sun to wither and die.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:23 PM
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The #1 cause of depression is unmeet expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:13 PM
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Are they the same people? I see so many AI girlfriends or something similar threads on PPD, you have to be extremely lonely and defeated to think that. It also could be that they see AI as facts, something that has no ulterior motives or wronging them. No one likes being felt wronged.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:35 AM
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Are you meeting women? if you are not meeting women, i am sure you know your chances are zero since the possibility of non existence is zero. Just understand women are not like men; women could see you attractive, but doesn't mean they want to have sex or form romantic relationship. Majority of men see something attractive they know they want to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:21 AM
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What if they believe themselves to be awkward or not social?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:25 AM
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True, for me control, killing my ego, and self mastery is when i feel most happy and powerful. Also "Just be yourself" is also not helpful, because many have limited beliefs about themselves. So not helpful if one thinks they are not social or other beliefs that is holding them back. People can be surprised of how one can change their mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:21 AM
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I never have liked the saying "just be yourself." I don't know who i am truly, does one truly know. I am many different person, depending on the job or situation. I always think who is the best person i need to be to help this person or for this situation. Your focus is on others, not yourself. In return i feel less anxiety and detached.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:40 AM
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I’d say my interactions will be a lot better haha. What would that look like? They approaching you as you walk across the street? If you are 6'3 and 5/10 face. You should not be a virgin, the next thing i am going to say is going to sound harsh. You are probably lacking or below average in other areas, or you standard is too high based on your value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:25 AM
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How do you think your interaction would be different with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:02 AM
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You have truly never loved anyone or anything, the only you have ever loved is serotonin and dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:48 AM
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Reminds me of basic training. Not love or hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:56 AM
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Primal level? looks only is that what you are suggesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:47 AM
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it is much easier to get the dopamine effect from watching porn, keep getting that effect very easy rather than go meet meet women and do the work of achieving actual sex. After orgasm men lose desire for sex temporary. Sex is a primary motivation, if you can get that that similar effect instantly. Ultimately it is not fulfilling, because it is not the same thing. Virtually all addiction is usually a product of something below the surface that one is avoiding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:41 AM
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Was this response intentionally obtuse or you do t know the RP concept is informal which you find on PPD jargon tab?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:58 PM
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Nonverbal communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:23 AM
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Human are emotional beings, there is no doubting that. The statements men are logical, and women are emotional are not quite true statements. There is a dimorphism between male and female brains that is well studied in science. There is also studies of behavior differences. You could see the difference in profession both genders choose to go into, even in countries like Sweden. Men are emotional too, but how their process is different. Men instinct is first understand, then use emotion. Women pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:13 AM
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It was your word by justifying your argument. You are the one who projected that everyone who cares about n count are illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:47 PM
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I am saying people have different reasons for caring about n count, and the only argument to have is insecurity is illogical. People have different motivation for caring about n count. The psychology of an a guy who had little success with women is different to a guy who had success with women and from a place of abundance. For the later it is about standard, for the other own could be insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:45 PM
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She could have a low n count and still keep having sex with Chad, chad often keep women around for sex purposes too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:38 PM
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assuming everyone you disagree with is irrational, sounds very healthy lol. The only thing you are proving with poor arguments, is that you are irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:27 PM
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N count does not equal how many times she had sex, why does higher n count equal to having sex with chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:13 PM
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We all have different standard, i personally do not judge random people and their n count. If i am not evaluating a person for potential dating, i do not care who they chose to sleep with and so forth. For example if a poster here says her body count is 500, i do not care It has nothing to do with me. Caring about n count does not equal to weaponize it against others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:07 PM
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I always say everyone is insecure, and insecurity is due to not knowing or not feeling secure. There is plenty of good reasons not be secure in some situations. Is insecurity bad? well it depends on the situation, you could be foolish for being secure when the situation is not secure. Insecurity is a negative buzzword around here. My argument regarding n count doesn't mean it has anything to do with insecurity. It is a lazy argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:00 PM
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A lot of BluePill/women their go to argument here if you care about n count is due to your insecurity and worrying about being compared to her past sexual partners. Logically that makes no sense. low body count does not mean she had worse partners or less sex, she could be in long term relationships and had a great sexual partner. Logically follows if she continues to be with him it was likely for a good reason and it was satisfying. Higher sexual partners, likely mean she has not found one wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:40 PM
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I mean isn't that perspective if you believe the women in your country are higher tier, are US women for example higher tier? If so based on what metrics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:21 PM
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There is a lot of people here do not care for debate or intellectual discussions. There was a thread asking the woman why they are here. I only saw 1 poster said to discuss and debate. Every other response "boredom, craziness, junk, fun, etc. If you made a similar thread, you would probably get similar answers from men that has nothing to do with genuine discussions and debate with the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:37 AM
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Why do you think that theory holds better than dominance and physical protection which is the popular belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:24 AM
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Sorry for your loss. But the argument has always been when emotional vulnerability is bad in the sense, when the women feels she can't count on the guy for protection and support. Based on what you typed he was someone you counted on and provided support.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:16 AM
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Agreed men preference varies to a certain extent, just saying the preference is a feeling and instinctual not logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 08:21 PM
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It is in your head, not saying taller men are not preferred. But it is not fatal, you just have to be above average in other areas. It is not like taller men, are above average in other aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:50 PM
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that is not BB. You have to buck. Women are attracted to money, one could pump and dump or whatever. A beta or chump is a chump/beta not because of resources/money. Just like a simp is a simp because he is getting unequal return, not because he is doing favors for his women. Attracting women with money doesn't make you a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:45 PM
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Are you suggesting based on that information he is a BB?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:35 PM
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It is the same way men attraction to bigger tits and ass, it is an instinctual arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:03 PM
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Men see sex as a low investment, women see it as higher investment it has to be with a particular person. A lot of men can have sex with 17 different women on the same day, and he will be fine. Same scenario for women with men, the vast majority of women will have trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:32 AM
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I don’t there is any or should be any disagreement that is rare. Typically those men have to be exceptional. Maintain their looks and body, majority of men can’t do that either due to poor diet or/and genetics. If a guy is attractive, charming, well off, etc he is going to attract those women. Age is not stamped on his forehead and attraction is not logical it is emotional. We feel it, we don’t run a thorough logical approach. I don’t think anyone believes(hopefully) the guy that looks his age a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:18 AM
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Who said it was supposed to be a threat? Most men value looks, and as you age so does looks that is just reality. We are here to discuss and debate here, not to make threats.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:38 AM
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In fact, 45% of women either make more or just as much as their partner. In comparison 83% of men either make more or equally. 55% are the primary provider. Standard of living have gone up, while wages have stifled. Women still need to pair up to make ends meet. Some of you are really not in tuned with current state of households in America and the economy. Also a man not having 50 women in his DM does not mean he has no options, most men have to go out there and initiate and prospect for option…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:22 AM
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Any guy speaks in absolutism like this is projecting hard that every men is a loser like him. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:43 AM
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No, but that is why i am saying you should do it for yourself. We all do altruistic acts, motivated by self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:06 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXDD1dO5O3E Interesting perspective from the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:53 AM
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Okay fine, you are wrong and a coward. Ghosting is conflict avoidance mechanism, when in reality an assertive text can be a better resolution. How was that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:48 AM
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Look you could do whatever you want and don't owe anyone anything. I mainly do it for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:41 AM
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I think ghosting is cowardly, and i do not want to think of myself as a coward. So i don't ghost as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:34 AM
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Finished reading Napeleon: A life, he was kinda beta toward his wife Josephine. Who clearly did not love him, and succumbed to her manipulation and mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:27 AM
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Empathy is not really a choice, is mostly understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:10 AM
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Women have it hard in dating too, and there is unfair double standards. But around here, you get accused of revenge fantasy. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:06 AM
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You mean sympathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:02 AM
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Is it just my observation the hotter a woman is and secure she is of her physical looks, the less she cares about a guy looks. Not saying she wants to date a guy who is ugly. But she is willing to trade that for other above average qualities in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:52 AM
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"the quality of women has gone up while the quaility of men hasn't risen up to meet the new standards the modern women has?". A lot of the quality they think of, men do not care for. Men are very much care for looks. In no way are women today more physically attractive; as shown by obesity and overweight statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:36 AM
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Good for you. I work in sales, most people think i am a great conversationalist and pleasent to talk to you. I have actually recorded my own sales calls and meetings, i do not say shit. I ask a lot of questions. Most people don't care about you, only want someone to listen to them. Be a good listener and take interest in them, if you do that you are way ahead of everyone else as social skills go.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 03:26 AM
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Yes these cultures are very family oriented; in large most daughters and sons have have input, they also trust their mothers and fathers input. It is not something they fight against, and see it the way you see it as being forced. There is a reason Asian Americans are largely exceptional in American societies. When it comes to education, income, and low crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:34 AM
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That too, basically don't overthink all this shit. Approach and be ready to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:10 AM
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In your own word, you used "tolerate". Not all most women who have access will trade some in the looks department for a man who has his shit together. Women primary mating strategy is AB, wanting both looks and competency.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:06 AM
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Education means nothing tbh, because a lot of dumb people are educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:01 AM
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agreed, this is a response to a thread about women sending mixed signals. I am explaining there is possible explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:52 PM
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Agreed, this is the classic AF/Bb, because women usually do not want to settle with these type of men long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:50 PM
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Yup, the only thing i would argue there is a distinction between western white women and other white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:17 PM
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Not white American women, lived in some major cities. You could see the clear contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:13 PM
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Women typically say they like ambitious and driven guys, how do you interpret that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 11:05 PM
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What guys need to understand is that even if she gave you signals or cues of attraction, sometime was mixed singals on the other hand it could be she lost interest. Women do go throw a process of disqualifying guys at the front end due to more information, most guys don't do that at the beginning they tend to do that when it comes to LTR and relationship,.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 10:46 PM
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All of the popular kids in HS came from money i thought it was a big factor. Not to say money was all it needed, but it was perquisite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:07 PM
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Most women here claim such women do not exists, so they are completely oblivious of sluts and trashy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 08:51 PM
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Sure, personally not a believer in small micro social ques as indication of interest. A bit of tangent, I think guys need to know that women you find attractive are always trying to disqualify a guy, she may have showed interest at one point, but based on what you say or come across she may lose attraction based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:13 PM
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So you are agreeing with the OP that approaching is necessary, since there is always possibility with of mixed signals. I swear some of you say things, without having a clear logical argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:51 PM
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You know you are contradicting yourself, if there is no fool-proof or clear social ques, regardless of your social awareness ability you have to approach, mixed signals is sometime part of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:49 PM
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Can we stop with these "women should" threads, it defeats the purpose of this place, we are here to discuss and debate dating behaviors not that people should change their behaviors. The whole AF/BB is to navigate dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 04:57 AM
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How was attractiveness measured? How was it determined if they overrated or underrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 02:03 AM
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Those are quite inexpensive, my go to jeans is from Brooks brothers they are around $100. Which is normal prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:27 AM
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RP is framework on attraction is based on that relationships are transactional. General statements can be true they don’t need to be “all”. If the statement can match up to close to 80% then the statement is true. It is no difference on many Nobel peace winning theories in economy. Women are attracted to looks, status, wealth, and social skills. You become more attractive in these departments your options will grow. It is that simple, does that mean it will attract every single person or every i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:19 AM
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Some of you bunch are going to be surprised how much development science and social science have reached understanding human behaviors. You don't need to understand things with absolute certainty to make general assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:52 PM
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Do you want to settle for not being exceptional? RP acknowledge that regular people live happy life, i always say the happiest people are average people who are content with being average who don't desire more. To achieve happiness it is to reach deep inside and find contentment. Happiness is a state of mind. Some of us are not willing to accept that. Fuck the steak knives, i want to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:17 PM
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RP framework is based on that relationships are transactional, the principals used matches with game theory and many principals we see throw economy, trading goods, socials and so forth. The Redpill is uncomfortable because humans are emotional beings, we want to believe our relationships are altruistic not self interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:06 PM
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Women are concerned upfront, men are more concerned in the backend. The dynamic is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:52 PM
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7/10 is his scale though, it is not objective it is in his mind. Men do not date or sleep with any women they consider below a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:31 PM
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AF/BB is a myth. It's red pill propaganda so all the average guys who are in relationships are still losers in the end, and the incels who propagate the af/bb lies can feel superior to their looksmatched peers who do have sex and relationships. TRP is a dating strategy. The AF/BB is a concept for those guys who subscribe to TRP to be aware of and understand women duel mating strategy, so they can get into optimal relationships. AF/BB is not meant to be weaponized against others, make others feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:19 PM
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Does the AF/BB model not assume women’s desires don’t change however? It assumes that women continue to desire A and simply settle for B, when could it not be possible when they age they desire B instead? Women desires do change from the perspective needing to meet a biological need and a diminishing SMV which is why they end up with BB. But AF is what get her off more sexually, she trades sex to B for resources. While sex with A is validation. The AF/BB does not say there is no sexual attractio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:03 PM
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And the modern “male support for dating scene” as epitomised by the redpill and lesser blackpill are basically weed killer to men’s confidence. It doesn't have to be confidence killer, RP is supposed to raise a man standard. A man who has standard and is selective is usually traits of a confident men. People who are willing to accept anything, usually get the minimum or nothing. Women grow up and are endlessly told of the danger man posses, most men put women on a pedestal. Women can also take a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:11 PM
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Men that believe it’s just woman wanting to settle are using this fantasy for their own insecurities that once they get to this age surely a woman will finally want him because her female instincts will be telling her to reproduce and find a mate and he can either reject her to punish her for not accepting him earlier in life or use her for sex, either way, the “female” will want him You had to go deep into the emotional deep there didn't you? Some of you are incapable differentiating between ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:31 AM
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The lie is not what women do, the lie is what women say. Do what women say aligns with their actions? Obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:41 AM
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Women do position themselves as being less shallow than men, when they talk about what they are attracted is little to no mention of looks. Ask a man what he is attracted to, it will be majority of physical description. Everything about women nature is a lie and indirect. Don't listen to what a woman say, pay attention to her actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:32 AM
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The cost of living has went up while wages have stiffed or lagging significantly since women have primary entered the workplace. A single provider in the past could provide for a family, now needing duel income. So women still need a man capability to make ends meet. Most people live paycheck to paycheck. Nothing has changed. I work in sales and most guys who are also top performers are men, and entrepreneurs makeup the wealthiest people in America and if they are self made they are men. Men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:59 PM
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I am always amazed how terrible feminist understand history; they really think the modern economy and jobs were always available. It wasn't law, it was the advancement of technology that lead to woman in the workplace and rights. Any privilege and rights men had throughout history was only because they were more capable than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:26 PM
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"should" is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:58 PM
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It doesn't necessarily has anything to do with looks, he is likely a looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:04 PM
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Women are aroused by a man that can attain resources too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:52 PM
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Most of you don’t understand the AF/BB concept, most of you reduce it to AF=looks only, BB=everything else. That is not how it works, that is a black pill slant to the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:02 AM
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A guy that can provide by itself doesn’t make him Beta Buck, women are attracted to a man that can provide. Women are aroused by competency and a man that can attain resources. There is much more information and needing to show a duel mating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:54 AM
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People who look for drama and excitement primary through relationship don’t have much going in life, on the flip side people who have passion and ambitious see relationship as an accessory to a good and exciting life they already have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 10:37 AM
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Dating for a man is like being salesman, while dating as a woman is like being a cashier behind a counter. A salesman needs to put in a lot of work and skill to get the sale, a cashier just needs to show up, accept or decline the offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:46 AM
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I hear people say this but what does it mean? It’s spiritual in one sense, whatever journey follows after death you take it by yourself. Death and mental struggles is very individual and you go through alone. It is an individual journey. If you view that as being alone since they are the only one experiencing it then literally everyone is alone all the time because we all live in our own head, which is a stupid statement. If I only read the whole post before responding I wouldn’t even bothered w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:09 AM
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In the US the vast majority of women are not virgins early in adulthood. There is no expectation of them being virgins, so which lead to most men not caring. Countries and Cultural more traditional they care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 12:33 AM
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There is other explanation why a man would care about n count and sexual past, the fact you think it can be only due to insecurity and being compared to past sexual partner says everything about you. Let me give you another explanation. From a man perspective a women with a high body count is considered an easy women, a woman willing to give up sex easy to anyone. From his perspective she is not worth committing to, because she has lower value. You really think most guys with standard not wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 07:11 AM
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Everyone has insecurity, it has become a negative buzzword. A good amount of insecurity is good, why would you feel secure in a relationship or situation when you don’t feel secure in it. if you are living pay check to pay check should you really settle for that? Or romantic partner that has burned you? Insecurity is not always bad, you are just a fool or low standard if you are willing to accept anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:33 AM
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However, I know that I'd be miserable trying to fake an interest in something I really don't care about Change your mindset, rather thinking you are faking your interest. Think you are open minded and trying new things and experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:11 PM
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Okay lets put that to test. There are men here who have trouble with attracting women. How would you go about approaching a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:58 AM
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Should a women take advice from men on how to wear their makeup or how they should dress to attract men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 04:54 AM
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I feel Well that could be trouble, how you feel is how you feel. If we are operating on an emotional level, we can't have a debate. Can't have a debate on a emotional level, since i can't invalidate how you feel. There have been much studies and social experiment done; that men are more likely to help a stranger, especially women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 11:41 PM
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What percentage of women does he disqualify? less than 1%?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:11 PM
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Kinda weird seeing posts by some people looking down on people here and their beliefs; my question is why are you even posting here? I definitely disagree with many here, but doesn’t mean i think they are all insane or unhinged, they have a reason for believing such things. Right or wrong they maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:38 PM
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Do you have your phone or other screens near your bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:28 PM
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Part of being an alpha is being respected and admired by your fellow people and seen as a leader. From little i know of Logan Paul is that he has previously dated pornstars and OF girls, so her finance is an upgrade from that perspective. I have seen maybe a few clips there and there where he encourages his guest to do OF. Because how much money she can make, and it would be stupid no to capitalize on it. That is his mindset. If Logan Paul is your “alpha” hero that says more about you and your v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:21 PM
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Logan Paul a degenerate and a scammer, how would he destroy all of the “alpha chad myths.” Imagine thinking Logan Paul is an alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:59 PM
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Because a lot of the guys don’t think of woman as people who thinking about her love life in terms of when she wants ti be serious or not Why you reached that conclusion? Is it possible the dynamic between men and women is not symmetrical? They think of them as fuck objects that can’t control their “female nature” so when they fuck a guy straight away, it’s cause she was soo instantly attracted him, she couldn’t control herself. When she makes a guy wait, it’s cause she’s not that attracted to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:53 AM
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The question is not about people caring about random people sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:23 AM
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Evolutionary psychology is worse than pseudoscience because it's impossible to go back in time or replicate the exact conditions that might have caused a specific trait to be selected for. Evolutionary behavior is not pseudoscience, you can't believe in evolution without believing the behavior that accompanies it. It is like believing that Giraffe has long neck, but no behavior accompanies. How insane and stupid that sound. It is already established that humans are not a blank slate. It is alrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 10:51 PM
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I think inexperience would have been a better word by the OP rather than youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:50 PM
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I disagree, the reason this place exist is because Bluepillers come here because they are offended by TRP and statements. They can't separate their emotion from logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:37 PM
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What does that have to do with TRP ideology? Based on the chart so at some point that was true, whatever random person you are referring to need to update their information. Wonder what caused the shift from 2018-2022. Covid?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:25 PM
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very sad seeing people ruin their body and face due to body dysmorphia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:39 AM
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The “revenge” part is that somehow women will snap to and start changing/lowering their standards for a man once the hit “the wall”. That can be explained by the biological clock and eggs running out. She sense she needs to settle if she wants kids. She will no longer entertain the guys she was going for, who keep the relationship in unknown territory. No longer wanting to play the games she was willing to play because time was not a concern. The other common component is assuming that older wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:55 AM
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You are young bro, once you reach your late 20s. It will be the same for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:45 AM
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I am guessing you are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:36 AM
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All women age, some women age better than other. They are still agining, and less attractive to their 18 year old version of themselves. Men continuously find women between the age of 18-25 to be most attractive, more women turn 18 everyday. Those will get the more attention. Age is not the only factor, also biological clock and time running out to have children. The point is these concepts have been known for ages; revenge fantasy has become a buzzword for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:18 AM
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Not sure about men, but as women goes i would say Miami. I am assuming you are asking in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:09 AM
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Dumb PPD women: The wall is a revenge fantasy. Women have been insecure about their age for ages; every guy at one point has been told don't ask a women what her age is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:04 AM
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Those "guys" would be the men who you just a minute ago claimed needed to be motivated to raise their standards by being told that others will view them as cucks and losers. I didn't say they need to be, it can be. I didn't say how others view them as cucks or losers. How they view themselves. Most men know it is a bad deal to raise another man offspring, and not prioritize your owns. Most men have a conception of what a cuck or loser is. Just like calling someone fat can motivate them to get in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 09:27 PM
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My favorite today (or maybe yesterday) was the post with the influencer who talked about all of the DMs she gets. So many guys in the thread section were saying she was unattractive. Freaking hilarious. She said that men should be lucky if a women likes them; is there anything wrong with finding someone with that type of behavior unattractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:53 PM
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Not sure what the point of that was, we go from talking about Stepdads to whatever that was just a bunch of assumptions and accusations. Not sure who these "guys" are, i don't speak for others or TRP. Seeing your post history, seeing a pattern where you don't actually engage with others, seem more interested creating image of other person and attempt them to defend a perspective they have not expressed. Nope not interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:35 PM
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It is not about shaming other men, it is about raising the standard of the men that watch the content. I give another person advise to avoid women with Bipolar disorder, does not mean i am shitting on women with Bipolar disorder or the man that date them. In some way you have to internalize that raising another man is low value behavior, so the person watching the content would avoid it. Just like one has to acknowledge loser and broke behavior so they can raise their standard to better than tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:12 PM
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For example, someone might have the option of an attractive person they'd be happy with who's childless, but the single mother they like is even more attractive and likable to them to such an extent that it outweighs the complications. ​ Still prove my point though, he can't attract those type of women he want without the baggage. In a sense most people have choices, but they don't register as choices because it doesn't meet their attraction level. He is compromising. ​ It's arrogant for "TRP" t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:18 AM
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No dude, that is your fantasy. Single mothers is far ideal situation; Most likely real father still in the background; imagine a scenario where he attempt to parent the kids one way and the father says another, and they take the father side. Would you want to be in that situation? They will likely still consider their biological father as their real father. Regardless of how much more you invest into these kids, they will likely still never consider you as their father. If the relationship goes …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:59 AM
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Most todays artists is definitely not worth it, they neither sing or play real instruments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:15 AM
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I was listening to classical music, opera, classical rock, folk music, foreign music, etc in my teen. I was never into hip hop and country, still i am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 09:07 PM
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It is possible i guess, why would you? But that is instinct. If someone love is fickle, how secure is that bet on that person? Men seem to care more about the act of sex. Which is why when there is infidelity a man usually ask if she had sex with him(the guy she had sex with). While women usually ask if he loves her(the other women).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:42 PM
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Exactly. What men and women find attractive is not symmetrical. There is a whole bunch of other things women look for beside physical attractiveness. While for men it is just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:03 PM
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In some way we all value exclusivity, if a women been through a lot of men. How valuable is she? Same way if a man gives his love away easily how valuable is his love?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:55 PM
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RedPill is nuance, no claim is made it is black and white. It is more in the lense of more or less likely. It is how interpret if you lack any nuance or understanding than all you will see is black and white. And in defense of BluePill, there is no defining it. I always interpret it in the lense of female centric viewpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:39 PM
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Gorilla mode supplements is the one i bought, their pre workout is the best i have ever had. I have tried many. I agree you shouldn’t buy something because of a YouTube channel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:51 PM
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I have bought supplements, i was in the market for a supplement anyway. I am guessing so was your BF, he didn’t start drinking coffee because of the channel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:35 PM
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The content creators i am thinking about and you are thinking about are completely different. You are not forced to buy the product, and it has nothing to do with the information they give. Reddit? You can do that, but i wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:31 PM
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Cynical take, the content i consume are helpful and it always comes down to you applying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:27 PM
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Tall women are my niche, 5‘8-6‘0. I don’t think i have come across any women anywhere near that height(6’4) or even at my height 6’1.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:22 PM
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People call some of these YouTubers grifters because they advertise products, i see nothing wrong with that they(not all) provide insightful information for free. Nothing wrong trying to make money while helping others. You don’t need to buy anything if you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:15 PM
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Quick link to a video that explain this, i don’t know anything about this channel or anything but covers a lot of things that i have gathered from books and body language. Body language is extremely important, most of our communication is nonverbal. Remember language is something new, for most of history we relied on nonverbal communication. https://youtu.be/W9JqJNmYPY0?si=TUxeY3I5Lb78m7qN
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:12 PM
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Your body language can help you look more attractive or vise versa; for example how you walk and your posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:31 PM
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You are looking at one side of the coin, who is more likely to initiate a divorce after loss of income or employment? Who is more likely to initiate divorce after mental health issues? TRP is not interested who is better men or women, you are mistaking that men think like women. Women see their gender as a group they have to defend, men do not. Men are less of collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:01 PM
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I didn't claim they were not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:37 AM
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Doesn't mean they will, are they more likely or less likely? I would argue more likely. Humans are capable of acting in selfless manner, but mostly act in self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:20 AM
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If women were as ruthless and opportunistic as TRP says then surely we wouldn't be seeing so many cases like these No one has claimed that. This is like a guy claiming "If women are all good and angels as BluePill say then why do you see women leaving their ill and disabled husbands?'
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:15 AM
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You need to call the Talk Shit Hotline.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:27 AM
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It is probably because ugly people tend to grow very self conscious about their looks, and avoid human interactions. Also men also judge other men, they may not fuck them but tend to make fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:53 AM
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Most sex workers absolutely hate and disgusted by the people they serve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:41 AM
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Here is how i would phrase it. "Not sure if you have noticed and probably not since you have a lot of students to account for, over the last few classes either i was skipped or out of time. I know this is not intentional, i would also appreciate your valuable feedbacks like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:16 PM
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TRP acknowledges looks are important, just not to the extend that BlackPill believes so. Blackpillers believe it is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:49 PM
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A lot of the men here claiming to be RP are actually much closer to BlackPill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:00 PM
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Conventional beauty standard and not being promiscuous is the equivalent of TRP for woman. Most women can not live up to that standard, which is why there is anti slut shaming and body positivity for woman in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:55 PM
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Or that money and success made women horny? If it wasn't the case why doesn't male models have higher SMV than celebrities, athletes, and musicians. Woman lust over the latter much much more than the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:21 PM
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I never quite understood how some men could genuinely be surprised by this. Like look, I’m fairly blue pilled for plenty of reasons, but are there seriously people who believe women have 0 sense of physical attraction? That we could fall for just anybody if they’re nice enough? What did he say that implied he was lied to about physical attraction? I thought he was going the route of women attraction toward assholes traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:13 AM
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The motivation to be social can be difficult. The skills to be social is easy for me. I work in sales, and i do very well. Easy to be social for my job since there is a clear incentives and motivation, outside of that there are many times i have very little desire to be social and hear people talk, talk, and talk about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:48 AM
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The thread frames there is a double standard exists against men for their preferences. Those who believe(women/women ally) such standards doesn't exist are incentivized not to criticize your preferences, to prove the the OP wrong. Invalidate such claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:32 AM
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open to consensual non-monogamy. Open on both part?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:21 AM
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And honestly I dont know if I can go on like this, Im so tired of this loneliness. Have you even tried? If so what have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:11 PM
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He is not sociopath, that is the game. If a women withhold information, the guy is going to be blamed for not reading the room or not being sharp about social norms. Nobody cares that you were mislead. What is the guy supposed to do, be a sheep among wolves? You I’ll only get taken advantage of and be a sucker. The game is the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 07:22 PM
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To quote OP: “If a 5 has never been interested in you, chances are you're not a 5.” That’s what I was responding to. It’s a true statement for a man or a woman. That’s indisputable, so let’s move on. Yeah let’s move on, i think i know what you are trying to say. Yes if i took that statement from a logical standpoint, does not mean the inverse of that statement is the same. I think that differentiation you are going for. The guys in my frat were no better off financially than the campus populatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:15 AM
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No one has to think this way lol. Genuinely, I'm just sick of men thinking that being overly fixated on sexual pasts is normal, because in most urban centers it is not. I have never liked the word normal tbh, being normal is not a affirmation to me. Women who sleep around do so for the following reasons: (1) High sex drive (2) Don't want to commit (3) they didn't find someone they liked enough to date (4) untreated mental illness if it's impulsive and unhealthy/trauma. #4 is treatable. Men with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:39 AM
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It’s true for both men and women. If a woman can’t pull a 5, she’s not a 5. Same is true for a man. You keep flipping OP’s point. No one ever claimed you are a 5 if you can pull a 5. From the OP: The dating market tells you what you are worth My argument is it can inflate your perspective. I am pointing that out. This definitely isn’t true. Over the course of college, I watched dozens of guys in my frat hook up with girls above their level. It’s not like most girls they pulled were above their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:54 AM
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My inner circles have changed, it is always evolving to the level i want to reach. So can’t say i have experienced your examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:18 AM
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What makes you the authority that everyone should have the same belief as you? I have no issue if you don’t. I've also never met a man irl that was overly fixated on his gf's past sex life that didn't have a host of other issues To the contrary i have never meet a high count women that didn’t have a lot of other issues. Most women reject a man upfront based on many factors, a man has much higher criteria when it comes to long term relationship. Women want to vet a man upfront before sleeping wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:07 AM
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I may enjoy those foods on some cases, but generally they would be the exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:50 AM
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The dynamic is not the same for woman though which is what i was pointing out, for a guy a yes that is true. A guy can not pull up above his level. rare case may happen. But a man will date lower but not commit to her, women have access to higher level man. She may think these man her level. Because man standard for LTR and casual/situationship or keep her around for longer but will not commit. A man will keep a woman around for access, and from her perspective she may think they are in a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:46 AM
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I grew up poor and now have money. Guess what i choose to eat what the rich eat every damn time. So what would the majority of people. Nothing to do with taste, just what is available. That is like thinking the poor would not want to drive the same type of cars wealthier people drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:09 AM
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The dating market tells you what you are worth. If a 5 has never been interested in you, chances are you're not a 5. Of course, this isn't only about looks. It's about your prospects and personality as well. So many issues in the dating world happen because average women blow off average men, without realizing they are also average, or grossly obese, weird man only feel they can go after models they have nothing in common with. Unfortunately, a lot of you are worse in more ways than you think. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:48 AM
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Sure, just hit the gym. Biceps and Triceps are small muscle groups so harder to grow, triceps are a bit bigger. Ultimately some come down to genetics, that is why you see some people have disproportional muscle groups. Quads, Back(delts+traps), and chest are bigger muscle group it is better focus on them if you want to gain muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:59 PM
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Okay so you could go through some body recomposition if you eat at maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:17 PM
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Men value looks primary though. Women value looks too, but studies have been done regardless of age men always find women in their early 20s to be the most attractive, for women it goes up as they age. Women also become more desperate because of the biological clock, men don't feel the same fertility pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:10 PM
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This, if you if you have some fat and eating calories maintenance you could have a body recomposition. If you are skinny and don't have calories to gain muscle you will not gain muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:56 PM
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No, it really isn't lol. You don't know what you don't know. "locking a door." lets just say it was as unintelligent response i can think of. You know you don't need to be an redditor and think you know everything, it is okay not knowing everything. You are just robbing yourself of enlightenment by planting your foot when you are wrong. i feel bad for such people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:25 PM
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I have never read TRP talk about child custody that is more MRA shit. Seen your other post; you keep confusing RP with MRA,Blackpillers, incels. Most of the men posting here are not RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:06 PM
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You guys take everything so seriously, quite sad honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:10 PM
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Through women's shared experiences and knowledge. If you have any evidence that supports a different conclusion, please share. i have not made the claim it is or not,, i am asking why they think it is. Your instinct is not always correct, you just proved it, you emotionalized my comment and treated as a threat. And resorted to fight mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:08 PM
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Why would i give instruction? i don't give a shit, i am trying to understand why you think indirect a flight approach is safer or more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:56 PM
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Your emotions is clearly clouding your judgements. It was a genuine question asking if her response would have made a difference. The assumption here is that indirect method is safer and deter escalation, but why? What evidence support this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:40 AM
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Yeah sure, i was asking why is the assumption avoidance is a safer method? Your instinct might tell you to run away from a dog you perceive as threatening, but in reality not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:58 AM
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I think you are making huge and false assertions about which method is safer. It is definitely not like "locking the door." I don't think you understand, the behavior is flight or fight mode. It just indirect way to deal with the conflict rather than direct way, doesn't mean it was safer. Most people will go into a flight mode when encountering a bear, but it doesn't mean their instinct was right to run away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:38 AM
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I'm in my 50s. I can't think of any of my female friends or family members that didn't have AT LEAST one experience of a pushy, stalker-y male that didn't give a shit why she said she wasn't interested and proceeded to creep on her anywa How do you know if direct or non direct rejection method was used? My second question ho do you know if those situations could have been avoided by her response?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 07:17 AM
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How so? I am failing to see how one method is less or more likely to lead to violence. If a guy is pushy all those answers is no to him. Is there anything to suggest it will deter violence? Those responses is triggered by flight or fight, it is what their instinct believes to be the more appropriate response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:57 AM
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I can't imagine there will be many straight men who will want to bottle feed, raise & clean up after a baby on their own. If we can get artificial womb to existence, we surely can get robotics to do that. Female AI can be the surrogate mother. There is definitely a path, where human females are replaced by humanoid females. I actually see government using it more if population becomes an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:18 AM
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The thing about the n count is that the dynamic for men and women is different. Men and Women have different view of sex. That is the reality. Men will have sex with women what they perceive to be lower than their level or across from their level. Women tend to engage in sex with men they perceive equal or higher. Men are more likely to engage in casual sex or fuckzone with a woman who they perceive to be lower than their level, we men tend to give relationship to the woman we perceive to be mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:04 AM
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there are a couple of studies concerning n counts with different buckets for n counts. The CDC is the one that keeps being reposted again and again, so no it is not being collaborated as i pointed out a flaw. For a community that is driven to find truth by science, i am really shocked at how red pill is actually more an ideology where people believe rather than a truth. For a guy claiming to be science pilled, you sure do miss obvious critical reasoning skills. Your accusation became as useless …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:16 AM
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I can't seriously believe i wasted my time why BetaBux is not in the best interest of a men. I had to explain this to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:38 AM
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What? I don't need luck anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:09 PM
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I guarantee you the vast majority of men here don't spew any of these things they say in real life, because women can't handle the truth. None of the things here being said to a women will help getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:34 PM
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Those anecdotes credibility is questioned all the time around here. Claims men make about a woman doing wrong to a man, is called ragebait. But women claims is the truth. i want nothing to do about questioning someone story, don't know you and lets leave it at that. It is a manipulative way to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:39 PM
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Very infuriating when one talkes about the topic SA/Rape and statistics, and they makes it personal and talks about her story which may or may not be true. Don't make things personal an attempt to claim credibility via vicitmhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:06 PM
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“Heard joke once: Man goes to doctor. Says he's depressed. Says life seems harsh and cruel. Says he feels all alone in a threatening world where what lies ahead is vague and uncertain. Doctor says, "Treatment is simple. Great clown Pagliacci is in town tonight. Go and see him. That should pick you up." Man bursts into tears. Says, "But doctor...I am Pagliacci.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:06 PM
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On one hand i think it is kinda late if you are married you have disagreements about how she is dressed, shouldn't wife her up. Poor mate choice has already been made. You can try to communicate it, it is only controlling if she is unwilling to do so and you demand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:07 PM
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So you don't believe in communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:56 PM
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They cost like $300 so idk Which one? the pro is $200 on amazon, and max is $477?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:13 PM
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never..never?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:58 PM
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The type of men you would want to be wifed up by?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:50 PM
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A simp will never change his stripe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:43 PM
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I already explained this in the reply before that. That men smv increases than decline, men gains value by what he brings to the table this happens with his social and economic status. The decline happen with when he his looks value decreases, some guys happen earlier some later depending how they take care of themselfs. Women's value decreases linearly? Have you ever heard of the fucking DROP after child bearing age? You being obtuse, when you can't defend your positon you resort to it. Obvious…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:30 PM
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Not me, although i do think about my military days though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:57 PM
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Why you think so? Due to pregnancy women evolved to allocate their love based on priority. Doesn't mean women are less capable of love, in fact i would say the opposite. Men tend to have higher intensity of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:49 PM
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Where are you going with this? Okay that says a lot about you and the people you surrond yourself with and focus on. Men are more capable of violence and inflicting damage doesn't mean anything about them from a moral standpoint, but research shows women initiate more domestic violence and men under report. She may spit on him, he will smack her and inflict more damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:21 PM
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I am speaking in generality, not every men or every women. Men generally are harder at giving their love, but when they do it tends to be more intense. Women tend to love easier, but doesn't reach the intensity a man does. Everyone has different love languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:01 PM
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You are not weakening his argument his argument men love more deeply, you are arguing men have less love for many things. You are arguing quantity of love, not quality of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:10 PM
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\What makes you think these are the type of men who will commit suicide? You only painted a picture of men who likely arrive to a early death, not by mental issues but by health issues. I am sure there are man child out there, but typically what i have seen is ungrateful women who don't appreciate their husband and what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:57 PM
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The average man ends up with an average woman as a longterm relationship partner. He is rejecting all women who are below his desirability level (like all men do). Undesirable partners are not choices. The average man has all average women to choose from. Higher tier men don't want those women and lower tier men are not wanted by those average women. Average women are the most numerous, you find them everywhere and all the time. Doesn't get easier to find an equal level partner than to find an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:06 PM
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There is nothing to get over, life is a one way road, with no turning back. Every moment you hold on to the past, more time is wasted. Why not get a master degree if you really wish to have another opportunity at it, it won't be the same but as close you will get.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:51 AM
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Idk i was getting a creepy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:42 AM
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Bro why is your avatar not wearing any clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:16 AM
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Anger is stupid, lets just say i am bothered by the fact women preferences are accepted while men preferences are shamed. I think they should both be accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:58 AM
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​ In their minds, men don't discriminate like women do. But men DO. It's just them who don't discriminate, since literally ANY kind of female attention would be better than having none. They completely disregard how men are brutally selective with their long term partners, and women fight a heavy intra-sexual war over who is more desirable to men, in order to attract the most desirable man they can get. Men do obviously, the average men is definitely not brutally selective, above average men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:46 AM
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Yup, Side piece don’t have mobility in the relationship, kinda like a guy who has been friendzoned. He is not moving up to BF, and for the other women they will not move up to wife material. If the man and wife get divorced, he will look for other candidates tor the position.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:20 PM
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They might know it, but doesn’t mean they will apply it.Self awareness is hard. N Count discussions is not about slut shaming not from my perspective anyway, i really do not care about the body count of others that i am not interested in forming a romantic relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:50 PM
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Why do women shit on their exs or previous sex partners? Usually the loudest are women with the highest body count, because it means more failures and bad experience with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:36 PM
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body count is not how many times they have had sex, is how many different partners they had.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:26 PM
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What nobody addresses is: the n count men state is corroborating that of women as being close to the true value. And men are said to correct their n count upwards. So there is no way women are having way more bodies on average than what the surveys confirm time and time again. How did you reach that conclusion? The CDC stops counting after 15+, so how do you know it is being corroborated? 15+ could mean literally any number. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm I don’t thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:03 PM
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Pretty sure those women in those situations because they rather be a side piece to much higher valued men, than be the main girl with a lower valued men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:42 PM
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He is clearly speaking from a mental standpoint, look at the amount of mental and addiction that plagues society. For him it seems death is better than just mere existence. Men need purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:34 PM
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Not from a mental standpoint. You cited war, which the OP clearly thinks is a better alternative than now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:26 PM
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Even in the west, women prefer men who are not "out of their league". And is that objective or subjective?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:02 PM
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Okay cool i don’t know you personally, just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:49 PM
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You should probably mention, they would want a guy to be capable doing Ogre type shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:47 PM
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Are you sure about that? i have seen your posts they are notably self loathing and victimhood. That is not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:42 PM
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You have to be very masculine though. You can’t just look like an ogre. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:31 PM
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Marriage statistics is a supply and demand, most people would want to pair up evnetually. People claiming hypergamy, are not claiming women will achieve their hypergamous goals. It is just not possible because there is not unlimited # of these men to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:28 PM
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How many women do you think are having children with shitty men? Isn’t the biggest threat to a women is her domestic partner statistically? Divorce rates are lower than ever No it is not, it is declining though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:40 PM
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Provide your disproving evidence, because what evidence are you seeking? No point talking about evolutionary basis for example if you don’t believe in it and wasting others time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:15 PM
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Those men will find their league very early, men get rejected up front, reality hits them hard. swift rejection and the attention they get from the type of women, will tell them the league they need to be in. There is no but and ifs. Women get rejected in the backend, not to say they don't get rejected upfront they do if they are shooting way above their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:51 AM
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Normal women age worse...much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:27 AM
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Most women like fun, stupid people are more fun. Generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:39 AM
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If you look at instagram, top women physical genetics and they take care of themselves you can clearly tell the difference between an 20s influencer and one ending her instagram thots days nearing 30. Heck even with the makeups and the filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 12:25 AM
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Seriously wtf is wrong with you? you proposed an impossible hypothetical scenario, of doctor asking the husband of choosing between the wife and child. We all play your stupid game, now you arguing my hypothetical is fiction? That is the whole point of hypothetical scenario it is fiction. A mother is never asked to choose between herself or the baby, doctor will not ask it or never mind the husband. oh btw more deaths are caused by fire than maternity. Most of maternity deaths are due to the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:59 PM
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That is your pussy interpretation lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:43 PM
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You are talking to a guy who has no standard, thinks all Men are as desperate of a loser as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:35 PM
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Definitely would not want to marry a women who would want to prioritize her life over her baby. It is incompatible with my belief about family, having kids mean prioritizing your kids over yourself. Same goes for the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:07 PM
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I think alot of women would choose their child, it feels like it’s biologically engrained in us mothers to put your children’s safety over their own. I am not sure about that assumption, just read the responses here. Definitely not among pro choice women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:01 PM
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Huh? Let me paint a the picture, the point is a similar dilemma between choosing your child or spouse. One life or the other, fireman comes outside tells the wife “we can save one life or the other, equal chance we could save the person, your husband is passed out he can’t survive without assistance.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:55 PM
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For me it doesn’t and many others. Say a one day born baby in burning fire, so a one day difference changes that much worth on that life?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:54 PM
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Therefore it’s far easier for you to announce you’d be fine dying in childbirth therefore women should be too I said in a burning fire I would be fine if my SO picks the baby over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:49 AM
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One life has to override one or for the other, that Is dilemma you proposed. There is no right answer, but I know what is the right answer for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:35 AM
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What are you talking about? No one here has been in that situation, what is easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 07:25 AM
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No i do not, everything equal women would still have it easier. Too many simp and desperate men out there. A man that has worked on himself and added self value for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:46 AM
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Husband and I talked about it and he said he'd choose me and asked whether I agree with it. Yes, I agree with it. If I survive, we can grieve and try once more or go another route. If I die and he's left with a baby, there's no second chance for us. There is no chance for that baby either, having another child is another life. It is not the same life as the previous child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:13 AM
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Definitely the child. Honestly if I(male) was in a burning fire if it was me or or my child I would want them to save the child. No question.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:01 AM
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i was watching this Tv mini series one of the major streaming service, long story short the husband cheats, she planned on killing the husband accidentally kills the mistress. In the end he is pinned for the murder. The shows justifies actual murder, he deserved because his moral failing. ‘Tells you a lot about how sick society is justifying woman action, she was wronged so she was justified enacting even worse and actual crimes. It doesn’t bother me that me justice was not served or the ending,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:45 AM
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QFA: Do we love less after heartbreaks? I would think the answer would be yes, would think one would become more weary and guarded. Basic human survival mechanism, humans are primary motivated by avoiding pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:23 PM
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Don't watch particularly watch much anime, but i have always seen dubbed. When it comes to movies/tv show sub all way, not negotiable because it sounds awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:13 PM
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Coming off as detach, calm, not caring about the outcome, light flirting, escalate if she is receptive. Aggressive is not good, it triggers flight or fight response. That is just human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:38 PM
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He was a shitty salesman too, resorting to such tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:53 AM
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Asking women for direction, is like asking a retard how to use a calculator.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:37 PM
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Game is social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 04:18 AM
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You are being ridiculous, if you are pretending women in general are extremely secure. Just last week this co-worker slept with this guy, and rumor spread about her being a slut. She has not come back to work since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:36 AM
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Women place a lot of their self worth on their looks; endless amount of things you could attack their insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:16 AM
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fat is subjective, pretty much everyone feels like they can lose a few pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:14 AM
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Beside being a male fantasy of heroism, fighting against an overpowering empire, seeking justice for love and family. Willing to sacrifice for ones honor and belief. Basically it’s masculine asf boi. Great acting, legendary score+music.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:09 AM
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If you don’t think that is a good movie, you are beta cuck. Movies like this and Braveheart is what Fifty shades of grey is to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:58 AM
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Like i said you base this on marriage, the people who claim hypergamy will rightfully find weakness by arguing that sex is the better evaluator of mating preferences. Your argument has many weaknesses including that women have a duel mating strategy of seeking sex requiring low investment with a higher tier men, while seeking LTR with men closer to her SMV but requiring higher investment. AF/BB. The average age of marriage is 30 and keep climbing, weird to discredit mating preferences before tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:51 AM
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How does this negate hypergamy? Because the studies look at marriage, women maybe hypergamy doesn't mean they can achieve it though. There is an obvious supply and demand, no shit. Women can be as hypergamous as they wan't doesn't mean they can achieve those results. Male are the gatekeeper of relationships, male tend to want to marry female who are closer to their own mate value, which backs up the OP position about men. When you look at the dating trends. Women preference is to marry when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:22 PM
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This is old, hope this can explain. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pInk1rV2VEg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:31 AM
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Yea that’s kinda BS. Amal Clooney met George Clooney at 35 I doubt she dated anyone better than a handsome multi millionaire movie star before him. If you believe this is the norm… i don’t really know what to tell you. Generally woman are not meeting their high SMV men at 35 or past 30. Women upgrade all the time. Also we are talking about dating in general. Even going by this SMV ranking there is no reason a woman who is 24 needs to be hung up on some guy she dated at 18. Lol it’s totally possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:13 AM
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Men are attracted to beauty, the hotter they are the crazier they tend to be. Refer to the hot and crazy scale. They don’t want the red flags, the red flags is not what attracts them it is the look. The red flags is the untended consequences. Most guys would want the boring with the hotness, most men would be completely fine with feminine and agreeable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:46 AM
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Because women experience their highest SMV in their peak years which is somewhere between 18-25. As they age down goes their SMV, they are not attracting the same caliber of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:40 AM
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They are probably holding out false hope that it is not the case. Emotions can lie to you, They believe that is not the case, they hold out for the hope the other person can change their mind. I have only experienced adolescent unrequited love, i think it all comes down to investment the more your invest your emotion into it the harder it is to let go and face reality. I am at a loss at guys who have been friend zoned, don't understand that behavior. Love is just an emotion at the end of the day…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:14 AM
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Do you really think people who feel unrequited love consider that or feel that to be the case? why would he want her to be sentenced to a life with a man she isn’t interested attracted to and has no romantic interest in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:49 AM
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If you don't want to be accused of lying, stop resorting to personal stories to back up your argument. It is your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:27 AM
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Okay what would you want me to do with that information? If you are looking CMV, if everything comes down to how you feel or your subjective reality, how can anyone change your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:18 AM
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Alpha widow is based on wanting or failing to get commitment from a man they want. Either she was fuckzoned or the man did not see her as LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:02 AM
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Women do not need resources, protection, status from men. When is the last time you touched grass bro? The vast majority of people are living pay check to pay check.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:09 PM
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Men are naturally more violent and aggressive so it’s valid for women to fear/dislike them. Not really, you are mistaking women lack of ability to inflict damage and being weak for being less violent and aggressive. Women intimate more domestic violence and men under report it. Men have greater ability to inflict damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:34 PM
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it is never fuzzy and warm, in reality human mating is transactional. Women do age and they become less attractive that it’s just a fact, a lot of men do have this notion that women lose value with higher body count. They call it “easy woman”. Dude I am doing fine dating, I don’t think I would want a 18 year old virgin, marriage Is too much of a responsibility and so is monogamy. I don’t think think I can stay attracted to a woman long term. Modern dating is fun, just avoid the social pressure. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:50 PM
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Everyone favorite topic is themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:56 PM
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How do know your friends don’t have it. I don’t think every men has this ick, just like all male can not be dominant. If every male was dominant they would get themselves killed, some males are supposed to be submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:34 PM
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The disconnect is that men value sex, the more work and investment they have to make to get sex shows it is greatly conditional on things he has to do. The guy who got casual sex, he made little investment was awarded sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:34 PM
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How you reach those conclusions? The RP explains woman nature, and explains how one could benefit. Some guys want traditionalism, but most don’t. There is a lot of stuff on how men can win in the modern dating. Avoid monogamy with modern women, avoid marriage where you are investing in a depreciating asset(women) Traditionally women got married early didn’t sleep around, in exchange men had to stay loyal when she got older and less attractive and stay monogamous. ‘Marriage is bad investment for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:14 PM
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You are just making statements hoping something stick. People views and beliefs aligns with what they think benefits them individually. People are self interested. Conservative and religious people tend to be more on the the right economically, yet they are more likely to give to charity and volunteer in the community to help those in need. Like I said socialism and economic left is selfishly driven not morally driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:10 PM
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where does the money come from? From others, taking resource from people who worked hard for it. It is forced. women are economically on the left because it is for their own selfish needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:40 PM
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Kinda funny how women are much much left leaning on economy and socialist, yet many of us feel the same way about taxes and social programs. It is a direct conflict with our autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:08 PM
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That is because man are more capable of violence and physical damage, that is what the government cares about. If only you had a few more brain cells.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:40 PM
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How blind are you? Women are constantly complaining about dating, relationship, and marriage. Just go to any other sub. Women are less happy now they were in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:37 PM
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Relationship between two people are more likely to be successful when both parties mate value are roughly similar. When one party has a much higher value than the other person is more likely to neglect, cheat, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:16 PM
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Welcome to The Red Pill, which they state all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:40 PM
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When it comes to body count, generally it is not about insecurity it is about investment. A guy will generally care less about a woman body count for short term or when it is casual, he is okay with her past he is putting in low investment. When it comes to long term, the guy care more about sexual past because he is investing more into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:46 PM
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low level comeback, reminds me of my nephew who just repeats everything i say as his comeback. What is your excuse old lady?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:37 PM
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The germs argument is BS from most of you, most of you trade saliva with your pets after they were licking their assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:02 PM
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Goober father is probably getting bitch slapped by the wife and is a fucking embarrassment, sorry excuse for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:24 PM
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Do you fear that a potential partner had better sex with other men in the past than with you? Do you fear that your penis doesn't measure up to what she is used to? Do you fear that you will constnatly think about how other men have touched what you need to yours exclusively for jealousy reasons? No, because i have never ever thought about this in short term or situationships. Every partner i have been i have focused on meeting my own needs, if they felt their needs were meet cool if not too bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:09 PM
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Insecure is shaming language toward men though, its completely acceptable for a women to be insecure. This is why you and other women are using the term insecurity so much. You don't see men calling out women for wanting a much taller men insecure, it is viewed as her preference. Anyway the label is useless, it only has powers if you allow it. ​ Things change. The need for purity isn't needed anymore as we have contraception, abortion and paternity tests. The overwhelming majority of men do not …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:28 PM
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Doesn't make sense. I am a confident man and i don't enjoy the cuckold kink at all. Those are very different things, but as is usual with your kind of man, this "cuck" attack is thrown out because you can't deal with the situation argumentatively when there is no cuckolding involved. Come on now don't resort to victimhood, you started with "Please do not project your insecurities onto confident men." Oh yeah the reason why i call you a cuck is because you keep using feminine tactics, "insecurity…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:12 PM
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Please do not project your insecurities onto confident men. Please do not project your cuck mindset onto confident men. A confident and successful guy doesn't want the town bicycle because he is not confident, he doesn't want it because it is not valuable, everyone else had their ride with her. Its the same reason people want high end luxury items, people prioritize things that are rare and valuable. If suddenly everyone had rolex watches and diamond rings, those things would not be considered v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:12 PM
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In case english isn't your first language, that sentence is clearly talking about someone being overly attached early in the relationship. There's simply no other way to read it. I was talking about the initial impression and early on. You extended out to clinginess and after she has slept with him. Most men are not deterred by a women that is down to fuck, the less work and investment most guys would be happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:31 AM
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We aren't talking about what people prefer. We're talking about how neither men or women likes it when a person is overly attached early in a relationship. Stay on topic. No one made that claim, you made the goalpost shift from from emotional attachment to overly attached/clinginess. You are not staying on topic. Yeah that must be why you're on a 6 day old alt account and you keep deleting your comments, because you're secure lol. This is actually my first real account, i delete it so i don't ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:46 AM
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It's the same thing dude. A woman acting like that is a turnoff. No it is not, women prefer a guy that comes across that is aloof and indifferent. For men that is not what they want in a woman. No, terminally online dudes who don't have any success with women SAY they do, but the average guy doesn't. Men are attracted to a women that is agreeable and do simps for them. That is literally the textbook wifey material. I am pretty secure of myself, the opinion of a anonymous redditor means absolute …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:04 AM
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But I certainly agree that being clingy early and unequally is a turn off. For both men and women. It is not women preference are men who come across as aloof and not attached, men want the opposite. Men don’t want clingy if she is not LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:17 AM
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This isn't exclusive to women at all. It's been an extremely common idea in popular culture about women being too attached too early to men. No it’s not, Never heard guys complaining women being down to fuck too early. What you are describing is a guy wanting things to stay casual who doesn’t see LTR with that women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:06 AM
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No, because the dynamics is different. Women are much harsher at the front end, and judge men on many factors before they decide to sleep with a guy. Women judge a man love count at the start, because they want to avoid sleeping with such men. This is why every guy that successful with women knows coming off strong and being emotional attached early is an ick to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:38 AM
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Ignorance is a bliss? I have never believed that or find that comforting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:56 AM
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You are a woman though, you are not a man to understand this. Men have a higher sexual jealousy, women have a higher emotional jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:48 AM
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Potato is more masculine as a carb imo. Boil it and ready to eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:07 PM
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What is up if you think certain female celebrities is mid, average, or not highly attractive then you would get certain response about you being mid yourself or most likely below average yourself. That makes no sense regardless how unattractive one might be doesn’t mean they can’t be objective. That is like me think Kirk Cousins is mid as a QB, yet certainly no one is questioning my ability as a QB. Most people who give their opinion are nowhere near as good as the professional athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:05 PM
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The thing is though that seems very relative. The most mid guy i have ever known probably had the most bodycount, and always spinning plates. But those women were not quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:24 PM
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You acting like working like a slave to provide for wife and children is some kinda privilege. What you guys are doing is “What about ME” which is extremely obnoxious regardless of which gender is doing it and I wont entertain it. The world does not revolve around you. The irony and how self unaware you bunch are is hilarious. Feminist acting like grandpa that worked on the mines, killing himself was actually the one privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:05 PM
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Women are attracted to confidence, the issue with such posts here is thinking women attraction is like men. Men attraction to women is visual, women attraction is like a combination of things Looks, money, status, social skills, intelligence, etc. Confidence is by proxy a signal of resources and competency.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:40 PM
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Can someone explain these weird terms like Chad and Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:24 PM
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Im sorry, you believe places with child brides and women being beaten/mutilated/murdered for speaking out against her husband or walking without a male accompanying her is advantageous to women? The issue here is you are not considering the challenges men faces, advantageous does not mean perfect. If you see the issues as a whole that men and women faces, you would see how it would be advantageous. Women situation not being ideal does not mean it is not advantageous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:19 PM
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What is the field?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 12:04 AM
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It is fine you don’t want to have children, in fact you are doing society a favor. I think having kids is mostly negative and it's more selfish. Plus the damage to the female body can be shocking, it's not taught enough. More selfish? You know this is a lie, and your post only states the negatives. Ultimately you are forgoing parenthood due to not wanting to sacrifice your time and resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:38 PM
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often times when ppl here refer to the wall, they actually refer to "motherhood" No they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:28 PM
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Did he have money?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:29 AM
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He didn't even ask fir change This put the whole story in doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:25 AM
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They are trying to get into your pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:20 AM
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Did you give him some change?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:16 AM
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Thanks for the perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:13 AM
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Outside of family members, i expect all those other things to be temporary. Is that how you see it, just temporary?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:07 AM
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QFA: So i have been with one women in a relationship my whole life, and we are still together and 2 kids. Question for those who have had multiple romantic partners at some point, how do you go from being intimate with each other, and than one day out of each other lives, you do this again and again. How do you move on from someone you deeply care, like it was nothing at some point in the future. It is like a different language to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:53 PM
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You are changed the wording and topic now. There is a difference between knowing having knowledge and being taken seriously. They might not be taken seriously, but doesn’t mean they are wrong. This is not conversation i want to continue, have a nice day. I need to get back to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:51 PM
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People are so retarded complaining about bullying, go on social media fishing for likes and attention, yet wanting the unintended consequences of criticism. This is victimhood mentality is very alien to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:05 PM
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One can give you the knowledge and blueprint on how to build muscle and lose fat doesn’t mean they will apply it and do the work. One can have the knowledge and the know hows how to build a business, will he apply it? etc, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:56 PM
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Nothing puzzling about it; you may have the knowledge to get laid, but it doesn’t mean you have the looks or using those knowledge to applying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:47 PM
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I have been here for a few days, i can’t think of anything more useless than spending time on here and discussing gender dynamics with women. Men for a long time have realized it is useless trying to use reason with women, you may as well talk to a wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:41 PM
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If she is good looking she will get match, those guys are going to smash and dash.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:56 PM
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Most of academia is run by liberal activist, so you have to read between the line. Where they state women are more empathetic and higher emotional intelligence. They will state it only in a positive light. They are stating women are more emotional but won't state it directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:37 AM
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It’s an interesting idea I suppose but the birthrate statisticians would probably freak out. Those people who worry about birthrate are being silly, men will always find a solution to everything. If men have to build a artificial womb they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:58 AM
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Would most men want their 18 yr old daughter to be with a man twice her age, or to date her classmate that is 19? Which one would men want for their daughter and why? Depends on the 19m or 36m character obviously. I am not ageist. characterizing the older guy to be a terrible fit or character based on age doesn't make sense logically. There are terrible and good men at 19, 29, 39, etc. Reducing someone character based on age is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:43 PM
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Female are evolutionary wired for self preservation and their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:31 PM
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bro Florida man is something else. Florida man arrested by Coast Guard for trying to cross Atlantic in human-sized hamster wheel
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:20 PM
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Kinda crazy how these people think saying he is not better than MJ is hating on Lebron. Saying there is maybe 1-3 players better than him that ever played the game is not hating on him. He is definitely in the top 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:10 PM
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Shit take, permitter defneding doesn't even exists in the NBA more, Jeff Hornacek with hand check is a much better defender than the modern NBA player. Also the paint was much better defended.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:01 PM
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MJ is a superior version of Kobe, we already know how great Kobe in this area. MJ would be still dominate the NBA in fact he would be even better with todays rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:57 PM
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