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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:47 PM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:09 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:34 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:35 PM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:11 PM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:39 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:50 PM
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BeanNCheeze/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:17 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP16/10/19 02:56 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP09/11/19 12:51 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:25 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:28 PM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP28/11/19 12:09 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 09:10 PM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP08/07/18 09:38 PM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP08/12/19 03:54 AM
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BeanNCheeze/r/askTRP15/09/19 10:42 PM
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Dude who gives a fuck what she thinks. You had a boundary and she broke it. Don’t fuck with people that break your boundary. Have some self-respect.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:50 PM
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We should stick to the topic and try to answer the question of how to get out of the mentality in order to become a better man.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 04:42 AM
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I’ve regressed but one thing I did learn that stuck with me. Everyone’s different. What works with one person won’t work with another. So play around and see what is most comfortable FOR YOU that also works FOR YOU.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:28 PM
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Your body only consumes so much protein for muscle regeneration until it starts storing it as fat because of excess. Your not on roids.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:13 PM
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Yes Research and watch youtube video's for lifting all you need is on the internet.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 07:08 PM
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Ask your family if they can help you with a gym membership. Now. Then follow what everyone else recommends
/r/askTRP28/11/19 05:34 PM
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Edited the post lol. Still the same applies to people. Damn though your right
/r/askTRP28/11/19 12:26 AM
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Talk to the teacher about how to deal with the situations and how you feel it should be dealt with. I’ve been in your situation before. I had to confront the kids and talk to the ones that acted out. The ones who acted out HAD to get some form of punishment. No exceptions. Don’t respect me, you get no respect + punishment. Respect me and you get respected. But also don’t be mr. killjoy.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 11:59 PM
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I like dog training and reef keeping. When I’m not at school or working I like learning and building things. Right now I have a couple wood working projects and tech projects. I plan on becoming a web developer so my focus is completing college and going to a 4 year university and graduating in 2 years once I join. In the mean time I’m self teaching myself web development. I can cook and bake, I also lift 5 days a week. In the future I hope to have a home with land as well as some properties. I’…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:45 AM
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I just read your title. That’s disrespect.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 08:42 PM
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Doing cardio will strengthen your cardio vascular system (heart and lungs) it’s beneficial for that reason.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:25 PM
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I discuss success with my friends. We can’t deal with the bullshit of not growing and becoming something more. Get better friends.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 05:31 PM
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I believe it’s a variety of factors. • lack of male presence From experience - my dad worked and mom raised me. So I picked up lots of her behavior and have had no/little male role models. Misbehaving and rough housing got my ass beat by mom. this can be seen to a greater extent in pre-school to high school. What percentage of teachers are male? male presence has depleted in critical periods of child development. • societies view on men through social media. Male traits have been looked down upo…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 11:14 PM
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It’s a mix of both. I sound more nervous then I am. Reflecting it’s me being disconnected from the moment and not knowing how to react, becoming awkward. So... you could say nervousness. I haven’t. I work retail right now but I’m the back room for most of the time.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:01 PM
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You’re doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 12:43 AM
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Is toast masters good for someone of a younger age (20-25)
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:30 PM
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I don’t date anymore. But when I did openers id open with something that interested me about there bio or pictures.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:24 PM
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This. It’s the simplified version.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:21 PM
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It’s a first date. You don’t know the chick yet. How do you even know she’s your type? Talk to her and get to know her a bit. If you feel chemistry then escalate. Go in with the mindset “is she good enough for me?” No chemistry? Not worth your time or fuck.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 04:59 AM
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Charisma is how you say things through body movement and vocal tone. Your actual words mean little to nothing. How to achieve this I do not know.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 03:54 AM
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It’s been proven that once you sleep below 6 hours a night after a couple of days you begin to have problems with retention and drowsiness. I wonder how you managed this sleep schedule and managed to retain the info well
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:18 PM
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A good podcast about sleep with Matthew Walker a Professor of Neuroscience and Psychology at the University of California and Joe Rogan goes in depth about sleep, what makes good and bad sleep and the reasons on why it's good and bad and how to get good sleep. It's a good listen and I'm considering reading his book on sleep. Ya'll should give it a view.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/19 06:59 PM
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I was paying at the register when she commented this. Idk if any of these would be a good cal lol
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:12 PM
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Nah
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:11 PM
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I didn’t realize
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:11 PM
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I’ve been going defensively lately. This is what I needed to hear.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 09:11 PM
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Because I want to improve my social skills and the way she said it was bitchy
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:24 PM
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She was average-slightly above average. But how would you respond regardless. I wasn’t interested at all.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 11:01 PM
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How have you achieved your mission? How are you deciding what gives you value. Pm me I'm trying to better myself by lifting, setting goals but nothing's working. Lost that life energy I once had.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 11:24 PM
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There are really no excuses. I don’t want to get huge but if I get fucking built in happy. Gym hasn’t really done anything excessive in my happiness. I’m way better then I was 2 years ago but I was also happier then.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 04:14 PM
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Didn’t read this shit. To fucking much. Just take her out on a date and see if you like her somewhere where you can talk to her but gives you an out if it doesn’t work out. Coffee shops are good. Don’t pay for her shit. You just met her. Talk to her and get to know her. If you like her ask her to go out and do an activity with you. Public places where you like to have fun. Go to the movies if you want. At this point you should be comfortable enough to get comfortable. If you don’t know what to d…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 04:00 AM
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Done
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:00 AM
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Whatever I do don't what? ​ Thanks for the advice - I've cancelled my gym membership and applied for another near where I'll be living. Got a credit card ready to go for building my credit score. Budgeted out things for rent/groceries/school/etc. ​ I'm forgetting all the essentials of building myself up as a person and making myself valuable. I think it's the cause of me losing my confidence and becoming anxious.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:53 AM
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I don't give a shit of what people think of me. I know what I am and peoples opinions aren't shit. If someone says something that isn't truthful why even give a damn what they say. ​ I've found that interacting with everyone else in the social circle while purposely ignoring them to fix the issue. Once they see that I'm talking to everyone except them it usually ends up with them trying to talk to me. Don't talk to them until they fix their shit. Not worth your time.
/r/askTRP14/09/18 12:39 AM
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“I don’t fuck people I barely know without condoms.”
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:02 PM
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Damn, this is good OP
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:55 PM
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Tailor it to there pictures or bio. You really think a girl isn’t going to have success on tinder lol
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:49 PM
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Time will fix those issues. Talk to other girls on tinder. What you are feeling is normal. It’s part of the grieving period. Once you hit 1 month it’s been awhile... You’ve been recovering for long enough, get back in the game.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:26 AM
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Don't think there is one. Personally, I want to get close to Brad Pitt in "Fight Club" physique.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:58 AM
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• Confidence boost. • You look better in clothing. • People respect you more. • You look better in general. • You have more stamina to do... things. • You have a strength most women can’t achieve. • There is literally no downsides to lifting at all. Here’s something I learned. Just because someone is better then you at something with seemingly not doing work doesn’t mean you will get the same results by mimicking them.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 07:20 AM
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Sounds boring
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:35 AM
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I never thought of it from the Pavlovian perspective, interesting
/r/askTRP18/08/18 04:34 AM
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So you should never do beta behaviors? Even if she asks for it. Like she mentioned flowers once. Then like 2 weeks later I randomly appeared at her place, gave her flowers, and left to lift. She wanted me to stay but I said I was busy.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 10:18 PM
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Emotional rock in the side bar? I’ve been putting reading the side bar and putting what I read to action so I haven’t finished it.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 10:17 PM
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Seems to be what’s happening in my situation. Wants going beta, is it possible to get back the lost attraction? If not whatever. Note: she’s been gone over the summer. So I’m coming off beta because my games ass through text. Once she’s back I’m going back to gaming
/r/askTRP17/08/18 10:14 PM
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Compare yourself to your past self. Aim to be better then the person you were yesterday. Fuck everybody else. Who gives a fuck if Chelsea is partying with all the fuckboys. Or if Pablo is having the time of his life for a day. Do they affect your mission? No. Get your shit in gear by becoming better then your past self and don’t give a fuck about others.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 06:13 AM
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It is wrong to still live with mom, yes.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:25 AM
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How do you feel about “you don’t know someone until you lived with them”
/r/askTRP12/08/18 03:55 AM
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Where the fuck are people like you around me. I’m in the same boat but have 2 friends atm that are just as busy as I am.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 11:05 PM
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Assuming I had bags and got called out how should I have reacted. Oh, and it was families
/r/askTRP08/07/18 11:20 PM
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Like ?
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:20 AM
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What’s your numbers on squat, bench, OHP, deadlift.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:40 AM
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Your hairs going to fall off
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:44 PM
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A pedo is a complete different ballgame than a guy that’s staring at my girl...
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:45 PM
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jesus christ
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:34 AM
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Eh, more of a if someone calls me weird idgaf. Just won’t talk to them and will to everyone else
/r/seduction28/05/18 03:07 AM
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Bravo. Bravo.
/r/seduction28/05/18 02:10 AM
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Personally I’d ignore these women and talk to everyone else. Don’t have time for people that don’t know me.
/r/seduction28/05/18 02:10 AM
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1 high quality prostitution or multiple low quality bough?
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:00 AM
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Bro drop this chick lol do you really want to date someone that is probably going to consider you as a fall back plan? Have some self respect lmao
/r/seduction27/05/18 10:30 AM
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All my dates have been great! Then again, I usually only went out with people I had tons of things in common with or they had things that complemented my life. Also we did fun shit. Idk bro, taking initiative and vetting if she’s a good potential for a LTR is what makes all my dates great imo. Not just random banter. Annnnnd just realized your a girl, I think? I can explain how it was fun if you care. Keep in mind. I’m a introvert that considers splitting a McChicken at McDonald’s as a date. I a…
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:10 AM
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What do you lose if you do have sex with her besides your virginity.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:24 PM
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Out of curiosity. How should he have handled it
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:28 AM
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I personally wouldn’t. I’d like to know if I had chemistry with the person in person before even planning on doing a activity together. Such as this.
/r/seduction07/05/18 06:35 PM
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Right. I guess it’s a form of shock to me. I just realized how easy it is to get plates after working on myself the past year. The fact that I’m suddenly getting attention and seeing multiple people at once felt... odd. So I went this path to look for a LTR since I felt uncomfortable plating. TRP has helped a ton though.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:29 AM
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Understandable. The majority of women with them do seem to fit the bill.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:48 PM
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What’s hamster mean? P.S. if she breaks up with me I’m prob going to be fine and vice versa. This is just my view on it
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:33 PM
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🤷🏻‍♂️ works for me. You might be onto something though. Because with the first girl I brushed my hand against hers and just grabbed it she was kind of shocked but didn’t deny me shit. Later she’s like “yea I like it when they ask permission before they do something I find it sexy” but I went for a kiss without asking lol.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:27 PM
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I’m dating someone I want a LTR with. Each tattoo is small and has a story behind it. If she got one just for the hell of it fuck that.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:40 AM
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Lmao I planned date #2 at the end of the first one. Usually at the coffee shop I gauged if I was interested in her. If i was then I’d check if she was interested in me. If mutual interest was shared I’d invite her somewhere. Almost always I’d handhold super soon. Once I knew we were both interested and where driving to the destination I’d somehow pull off handholding super smooth depending on the convo. “Yea, I’m looking for affection in a relationship. Nothing to bold like within an hour of mee…
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:13 AM
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Depends on the situation I guess? Personally I know myself more then anyone and can spot bullshit. And if someone says shit idgaf because they don’t know me. If it’s someone I know or if it’s effecting me socially I shut it down. Usually when someone talks shit they don’t expect confrontation and back off real quick. This doesn’t really happen anymore and was more prominent in HS and middle school
/r/askTRP04/05/18 09:34 PM
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If it doesn’t effect you just dgaf?
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:03 PM
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I think it depends on the situation. A girl called me a nice guy on the first date. It was 11:00pm. In a cinema parking lot. She had a sundress on. It was a colder day. O the math what happened next.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:59 PM
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Yea brother that’s usually how it is in hookups xD One person only cums usually. Intense feeling of I need to GTFO. Don’t have regrets. This was a learning experience. Analyze why it went wrong so you don’t make the same mistake.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:12 AM
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You weren’t attracted to her. This is my case. Anyways.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:06 AM
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Car. I can’t do parking lots so I got another location she knew of. It was late at night at a beach. Pitch black. Except for the stars lighting up the night. Perfect. Best case scenario; you talk to your parents and they let you have privacy
/r/askTRP21/04/18 11:40 PM
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Looking back it does sound weird af. Tbh had a laugh at your earlier comment lol
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:55 PM
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I'm still learning like you. At that moment I had other things I had to worry about. I had family things to do in the morning. I had work in the morning as well. My dog I had to take out in the morning. I didn't go to the gym that day so I said something stupid like (I'm probably going to the gym rn since I haven't gone all day) I don't recommend saying that lol. Again, I'm still learning. Still reading the sidebar. But for now I think actually being busy and HAVING to go home is good enough rea…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:31 PM
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For dates I get from apps I go to Starbucks and see if we’re compatible. If all goes well I say that we should get outa there and go do “x” I’m 19 and this has worked so far. I’d wait and see what am endorsed contributer says.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:57 PM
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She just moved out of her parents place and wanted to start from 0. I don’t see her anymore because tbh she had no drive and other reasons. But my main point still stands
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:32 PM
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I was in a similar situation. Except I said “hey, let’s watch a movie at your place when your off your shift.” I went over and she showed me her pup. I pulled out my phone and went right next to her and showed her my dog. Felt tension so I said fuck it and tilted her head to face me and began making out. Fucked. She invited me to sleep over and tried many different ways to get me to sleep over. But I held my ground and said I was busy blah blah blah. It was 1am. Now I’ve never done this. But I’m…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:56 PM
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idgaf
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:21 PM
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I did this at the gym without even thinking about it. Was finishing my reps and was really struggling to finish those last few reps. I get this “let’s fucking do this” face, which is a bit of a grin showing my teeth which I’m proud af of because their straight and really white. my eyes/demeanor looked focused. Once I was done I realized a couple women catching looks. The guys did not.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:07 AM
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What’s wrong with g lol My music low key needs work but g’s my go to
/r/askTRP07/04/18 12:53 AM
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Muse, hip hop and rap (Justin Timberlake, The Weeknd, Kanye West, G-Eazy, Post Malone)
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:04 PM
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This is how I would handle it. I’d continue talking to her but other girls as well. Why? Because she obviously is not exclusively in a relationship with you. Is that what you want? Then search for a relationship! Talk to other girls. Make connections until you find someone you click with
/r/seduction25/03/18 08:47 AM
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Idk. Here’s an example my friend did. He was at Safeway and saw a girl browsing cupcakes. He walked up next to her and said “hey those are almost as sweet as you” She blushed like crazy. Does it follow the rules of flirting? Idk but it worked.
/r/seduction25/03/18 01:12 AM
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Different styles for different people 🤷🏻‍♂️ I’ve kissed a girl that was VERY aggressive when we kissed for the first time. She immediately went for lip biting and aggressive tongue. I didn’t feel my lips once we stopped kissing. Not a fan of that when it’s brought on cold turkey. Maybe with build up... yea probably not. Personally, I slowly just let our lips touch. No sucking. Just direct kiss you know with that smooch sound at the end. It feels amazing when the girl reciprocates and doesn’t go …
/r/seduction23/03/18 04:25 AM
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This has a couple outcomes Fucking Being labeled a creep Physical assault
/r/askTRP21/03/18 01:48 AM
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This guy got it. She’ll most likely value this more then a paid gift
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:45 AM
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I view friends as a thing all parties should benefit from. Both should be able to have each other’s back if it comes down to it expecting nothing in return. I have a couple friends I can rely on and they sure as shit can rely on me. We are social creatures. Being able to talk to a friend about things that you wouldn’t tell a SO, family, or stranger is something I value
/r/MGTOW19/03/18 02:25 PM
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Goals. When I first started dating I always felt bad because the relationship never lasted. I realized I wasn’t interesting enough for her. That then turned into not being interesting for me. So I fixed myself not to get girls but to make ME happy. Now if a girl flakes on me or anyone really I know how to make me happy and it took awhile to figure that out
/r/askTRP19/03/18 01:27 PM
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Texted her a third time. School related. We fucked
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:23 AM
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I messaged her a third time. She responded. I was more direct with my intentions on the forth response and she was game. Wtf? Does this usually happen? Literally said "want to fuck"
/r/askTRP18/03/18 05:24 AM
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Happy cake day
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:44 AM
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Holy fuck, I think I know her! She looks like she went to the same school as me (in my school only like 25 graduated. So It was pretty small) she hasn't responded yet and thinking of hitting her up tomorrow saying "wtf? I think I know you, (insert school name here)?)" if I even remember. I'm fairly sure I know her I'm saving your comment! Currently finishing up a document with goals I want to accomplish like lift numbers steady increments, improving in soccer, joining college soccer team, instru…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 01:07 AM
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Going to have to read up more on the side bar 💪🏼 should I just drop tinder and go full monk? My SMV is low
/r/askTRP17/03/18 11:21 PM
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I still have a lot to learn
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:45 PM
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This 100%. I'm fit af now, eat healthy, getting my shit together. My SMV is just low
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:17 PM
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I sent her 2 messages. First saying "ok" Next one saying "let's do tomorrow, same time" No response yet. If I do get a response then I'll see how it goes. If I don't the following Thinking of sending a third message at night saying "P.S. a curvy girl is my type, if you still want to meet hmu." since a guys comment got my head out my ass and got me pushing to work on myself. Or I'd probably hit her up rn
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:15 PM
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Fuckin rest day and I already said it. Fuck, lesson learned.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 06:28 PM
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I'm new to TRP, barely swallowing it. Applied some principles in my life and it's changed for the better. Life wise I was starting monk mode since my SMV is low but decided to do tinder before I entered it. She was down, I was down. Date. Then she canceled and said sorry. All I said was ok , we should do tomorrow then, sametime
/r/askTRP17/03/18 06:11 PM
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It went decent actually, setup a date for later today. I just think I could have handled it better. She seems to have lost a bit of interest. I'm guessing because My flirt game was a little weak towards the end of the text
/r/askTRP17/03/18 10:02 AM
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Best case scenario - you buy something and during checkout make small talk and make her laugh. Quick small talk with a emphasis on a topic, make sure something she says catches your attention, let's call this topic "x". Then if no one Is in line ask for her number cause you want to chat more about x. If people are in line it will be harder to pull off but it's possible if your smooth af I mean, this doesn't even have to be applied to just women. If I want to expand my social circle with guys to …
/r/seduction17/03/18 09:24 AM
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Working on it. Saving up money for rent in a savings account. Anything I can do now that can help me
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:04 AM
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So it's fine to be treated like this
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:03 AM
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Tbh it depends on your voice. My voice is moderately pitched so I like singing to Ed Sheeran and Justin Timberlake. Only in the car alone or with friends/ family though lol Even on dates I sing or hum in the car. Idgaf
/r/seduction22/02/18 06:18 PM
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Tl;dr Always get slim fit
/r/seduction22/02/18 06:16 PM
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