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What do you think “wife material” means? I don’t think I will be a wife material to anyone, ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 03:25 AM
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Interesting. I’m a EU and SEA couple too, I’m gonna ask my boyfriend to watch this show together and see what he thinks about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:46 AM
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My current partner is showing so many green flags. I adore him for his values, morals, he has the kindest heart. I never have to ask to be respected, he’s always showing me that he loves and cares about me. I started dating him a few months after I found FDS, it’s been two years now and it’s only getting better. I’m always vetting though, I have this side of my that is paranoid after my last relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 11:40 AM
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Mine spent a lot of money to see me and we don’t even have sex. Like around $3k each visit. He’s non-religious and has had sex before, I’m non-religious too but I wanna wait until marriage. According to him, sex is not everything and what he want is to build a connection with me and to get to know me. Also, we will have plenty of time to do it once we get married. He respects my boundaries and is my best friend. So yes, I think men will be willing to wait if he wants more from you. If he’s looki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:17 AM
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My last ex dumped me, insisted on being friends but soon found out that I don’t dig the “friends with benefits” idea so he begged to ask me back. My dumb ass accepted him :( As soon as he found someone else, he dumped me again. That was 2 years ago and I still can’t forgive myself for being desperate lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:59 PM
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This one guy said that women, especially single mothers have nothing to offer except for a used kitty. I then proceeded to ask if that’s how he feels about his mom, and he went on saying how his mom is a good woman who raised him alone without a father. Please make it make sense lol what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 05:31 PM
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Everytime I open tiktok and see posts like these it makes me sad. Why do they hate us so much :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 07:43 AM
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Yeah. Most of our women are with husbands who treat them poorly, cheat on them, some don’t even provide at all. We’re taught that if our husband doesn’t provide we ‘just’ have to make our own money, it’s a sin to demand. Also, it’s normal for men to have sex outside due to their ‘needs’, as long as you’re still a lawful wife and they come home to you. Most of the women will leave their abusive husbands once their kids are stable enough to support them, yet society condemn them for ‘leaving their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:13 PM
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You’re very right. I’m going to have to think about this tonight and make a decision accordingly. Thank you sis! If not for you, I might just settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:27 AM
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Ah my bad! I like to progress slowly and for me I think I need at least a year to get a full grasp of someone’s personality, so for me it’s still starting. We’ve been together for almost 11 months now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:08 AM
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Yeah, this is what I told him and I’m not gonna be a live-in unpaid maid lol. Actions over empty promises. Thank you sis 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:49 AM
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Because staying with me for a long term requires a marriage (I’m in his country with a work visa that may be terminated once my contract is over), and it will be beneficial to me. But that’s that. Your comment made me realized that even though he is going to marry me he has no sentimental value whatsoever towards marriage, which is something I have to reconsider. I’m going to see it as something sacred whereas he’s gonna be like meh. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 04:45 AM
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This! This is what I told him too. If you live together with someone why is getting married such a bother? I think most men suffer from this fear that 50% marriage ends in divorce nowadays, and that a wife can divorce a husband for no particular reason and the husband will get fucked (as in, having to divide assets into half and still pay for alimony). Most men I talked to will say that the court favors women, and that’s why men nowadays are scared to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:35 PM
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Almost a year now, and nope. He’s looking into getting a mortgage so I can move in though. He’ll usually say stuff like this when we’re having a discussion (we love to debate lol), he thinks that’s okay for other people but as for him, he wants to get married. I have expressed that dating for me is to find a marriage potential even though I never pointed that it would be him, and never pressured or convince him into proposing. He was the one that bring it up first. It still bothers me why he can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:30 PM
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That’s not the point tho, I wasn’t looking to change his mind? It confuses me that he told me he would like to get married but also thinks you don’t have to be married to prove a commitment. Is he just saying that for future faking purposes then? I’m kind of slow in this area. A friend of his let it slipped that he’s choosing a ring for me so I am utterly confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:03 PM
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Thank you for this post! I’ve been thinking about this for a long time. My current bf is amazing, puts most of the effort in our relationship and understanding me. He held me with utmost respect and cares about the little stuff (what I’m currently reading, etc). I’ve made myself clear that I’m dating for marriage and he said he would like to get married too one day. However, we have some occasions where we would discuss about marriage and he thinks it isn’t necessary especially if it doesn’t off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:40 PM
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Oh no, I need comebacks because we love discussing stuff and one of it is about marriage. Even though he said he would like to get married one day, he thinks that you don’t necessarily have to be married to be committed to each other. I’m not gonna convince anyone to marry me, it’s either fuck yes or no. I don’t accept mediocrity and I hope I will have the strength to walk away when I have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:19 PM
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Well he told me he would like to get married one day but I’m not gonna convince him to choose me, plus we just started seeing each other (almost a year). We like having discussions though and one of it about my view towards marriage and how it is the ultimate commitment. That’s when he’ll say that he would like to get married, but that doesn’t mean couples out there who aren’t married aren’t committed to each other. That marriage is just a paper that makes you controlled by the government, and c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:15 PM
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Wow, TYSM for this! I’m always at loss with comebacks. I’ll start saying these next time. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:52 AM
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Hi, can you please educate me the right reasons to be married? My boyfriend keeps telling me that you don’t have to be married to be a family or to be there for each other, that he knew couples out there who are not married but are happy together. Just because you are not married doesn’t mean you’re not committed to each other, in his words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:08 AM
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How do I forgive myself for stooping so low? :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 04:30 AM
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I exhibit these signs to a tit but I don’t think I am codependent, in fact I am quite avoidant. Still trying to understand myself. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 07:29 AM
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Yeah the way they described their ex and what happened between them says a lot. Them trash talking their exes and not taking account of their own part is a massive red flag. Even though things ended between them he should still respect her like a human being. If he’s trash talking his ex now he’s going to do the same to us too, not that we should care tho lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:47 PM
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Yup. Men’s personality and character are deeply influenced by his friends and environment I think. I found out my ex is in this group chat with his friends where they would share any nudes they came across to, or them and their exes’ private intimate videos after they broke up. He promised not to share mine to his friends and I believed him. Biggest and hardest lesson learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:41 AM
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Beautiful!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:35 AM
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OMG this is so true! Recently there’s a surge of a trend for asian women to date these white men that they only met online, especially women from my country. What’s even worse is that they claimed white men aged 40 and below are usually not ready to settle down, so they’re teaching other women to find white men who are 50 and above. The girl who said this is married to a 66 yo guy and she’s only 25. This is really scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:23 AM
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The guy I’m currently seeing literally just told me this last night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 08:07 AM
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This is especially true within my ethnicity and culture, I’m close to 30 but people still mistake me for a middle schooler lol. That confused me why most of the males I knew wanted someone much younger than them since most of us already looked like a child, so I asked my ex this and he said that’s because younger girls are easier to control and they’re more likely to be submissive to an older man. He also wanted a wife that is 10 years younger than him to match his ‘sexual timing’. My other male…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 07:14 AM
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That’s why, my friend, you will be old and all alone. Do you think your friends and family will be with you forever? No. They have their own families as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 05:06 AM
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This took me back to my last relationship where my ex claimed to be too busy for me, and that he’s willing to sacrifice everything for his career. I cried and cried again. I believed him and decided not to make any demands to support him, and guess what he dumped me and started seeing this other girl. I’m so mad at myself for not standing up for myself 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 04:55 AM
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I think someone replied to me but somehow I can’t see it? Anyway, it’s not that us women can’t take care of ourselves, but dating in my culture is mainly aimed to find a potential husband. Women here are more than capable of providing for themselves while also taking care of their home (I’m talking about cooking thrice a day kind of thing) so we wouldn’t want a husband that can’t enrich our live even more. I mean or course you can pay for your meal yourself, but the purpose of this is to see if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:09 PM
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Yes, I accepted him back after he begged for me (even though he was the one who dumped me), and dumped me again haha. Even worse he replaced me right after. I was there for him every time without fail, wrote his homework and half of his dissertation, helped him build his business, took a side hustle so I can visit him ( we were in LDR) and he ended it because he needed someone closer. Mind you, we were just an hour flight apart and flight ticket is super cheap and he earned 10x more than me. We …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:09 AM
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Maybe it’s my culture but nobody does a walk date here. And if you take a woman out, they should not be starving at the end of the date because that signifies your capability to take care of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:37 AM
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I seriously don’t get men who shows up on a date expecting not to spend any money. Like, isn’t it against their masculinity? 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:35 AM
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This was my last lesson. I tried to play the 50/50 cool girl as I have always been proud of my independence but I got dumped instead. Still trying to move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:11 AM
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Thank you! For now I’m trying to reach financial stability so I can start my own family one day. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 07:03 AM
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At this rate I think I’m going to be single forever. I want a family though. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 03:35 AM
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In my culture the men prefer girls who are ten years younger than him because younger women are submissive. Even my ex told me he will marry a girl who is much younger than him just to match his sexual timeline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:12 AM
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Sis, we’re still thriving here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:03 AM
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Don’t’ mind those clowns! What you did was right, I wish I was so confident and self-assured as you are when I was in my 20’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:54 AM
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I fought with some of them in this post 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:42 AM
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So glad I found this sub!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:37 AM
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I think it all comes down to culture and what men are taught to expect from a woman though. He’s a good person overall but he will not make a good partner in LTRs because he has this outdated way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 08:20 AM
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They were never a simp, because once they have me it was always me putting the effort and sacrificing for the sake of the relationship. Usually this happens after a year though, after the honeymoon stage ended? My first ex proposed to me expecting me to, I will quote him, “be a maid and clean the house, work and earn your own money because I won’t give you any, take care of our kids because it’s the woman’s job, cook for me everyday, be my sex slave at night.” Yeah he really said sex slave. I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:52 AM
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I’m struggling with boundaries and self-worth in general, all of the men I dated only stay to get something out of me. Hopefully the one that I’m currently dating is genuine because I’m tired of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:29 AM
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Dated this “nice guy” who chased after me for 7 years. Turns out he’s super misogynistic. Dated another nice guy who took a year to get to know me, I thought this is it!! Yeah he dumped me less than a year later. Gave this guy who is 3 years younger than me a chance, because he treated me real good. Supported him for 1.5 years and then he left for some other girl. As it turns out, just because he is a good person doesn’t mean he will make a good partner as well. Currently dating this nerd who is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:19 AM
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I found this sub when I was lurking other subs, and people keep commenting how this sub is so awful and full of self-entitled women. I checked FDS and I discovered that this sub has the same values as mine, so I was really confused. I’m lurking here everyday to improve myself even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:50 AM
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I’m currently having this discussion with my man and I don’t know how to about it. He disagreed that women do more stuff in a household. He said in a 50/50 relationship men work and do half of his household chores, and also take care of the children. Men cook, clean, and do laundry as well. He will always say that his sister is married with two kids, and still managed to work and take care of the kids. Once he even told me that in this modern world women refused to cook for their men so why woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:15 PM
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