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Of course I look for long term, never pumped and dumped before But the same applies back, some girls in the city are only in the city for the summer or going away after grad school. Was seeing two girls in february that I knew would only be here till April, but I’m still in touch with one and we’ve actually become pretty close friends.
/r/seduction02/07/25 06:44 PM
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I mean do any of us ever have to really do? I do want someone to take on fun dates with that I can call a girlfriend. But I’m open to just spending time with interesting girls even if the doesn’t see like we’ll go the mile But my friend told me not to put long term open to short. She says it comes off as just looking for someone to f*ck
/r/seduction02/07/25 06:30 PM
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putting "long term" or just removing dating intentions altogether
/r/seduction02/07/25 05:34 PM
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It’s not insecurity as much for the sexual aspect as much as for not having as much as experience concerning body count
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:02 AM
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Makes sense. I guess it isn’t the sex part that gets to me as much as my insecurity about my body count compared to others
/r/seduction11/06/24 07:18 PM
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100% assertiveness and directness can be incredibly sexy, especially if she's already fun. When she's doing it to pick fights and try to prove something, then I get frustrated and annoyed. Talking to a lot of friends, I think that's why many guys hate the "particular" type of feminist who confuses consistent arrogance and needless aggression as feminine confidence
/r/seduction14/06/23 06:45 PM
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A good method is using more statements and assumptions rather than questions AKA cold reading. Heres an example. Question: "Are you having a fun night?" > yeah > "why are you having fun?" > I don't know (flat, boring, no way to build tension, depends on her being receptive from the jump to have a good interaction) Statement (Cold Reading): "You look like you're having an excellent night" > yeah, I'm really having fun > "I'm guessing it's just cause you're a fun person > true, I'd like to think I…
/r/seduction24/04/23 09:07 PM
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Truth! I know that it’s the same for both guys and girls, but I had the stupid mindset for a while that women were all precious, and to treat that like a good guy while ignoring the fact that girl are inherently skilled manipulators and can use your insecurities against you in you’re not careful. That’s not even some incel shit and I’m not bitter about it, but I no know that women aren’t earned love or care just because they are women and have to earn that first.
/r/seduction27/10/22 10:17 AM
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I’m talking about the internal conflict within men or from culture in general. Not from girls. I wouldn’t go as far as saying slept with 30 guys, but the one thing from my experience girls used as a measure of a guy is whether other girls want him too aptly named social proof It’s in part because of competition and perception of value, but ironically it’s because of an air of “safety” aka “is he safe or is he crazy and can harm me?” I have a female friend who phrases it that if a guy already has…
/r/seduction22/10/22 09:16 PM
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I think it’s more because there’s a societal shame for men to have their virginity for a certain amount of time or even just not having an active sex life. We’re conditioned through media that if we don’t have enough hookups under our belt, then women are not attracted to us and thus there’s something wrong with us. How that becomes a problem is we internalize that understanding, and unconsciously become “desperate” and “less polarizing” for who we get with, because to society it’s not about the…
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:59 PM
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Yeah…. If it’s the FIRST time you meet in a club or a bar and you’re trying to get with her. Not the SECOND date when you come with them there. That’s mad disrespect. That’s like if I take a girl to a casual lunch on the second date and start flirting with the female servers. That’s not a shit test, that’s just being an asshole.
/r/seduction14/10/22 07:26 PM
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Even better museum bingo. You each make each other a bingo sheet for things at the museum (sculpture that looks like a celebrity, painting that is objectively terrible, painting of the "bruh" face). You make the squares as funny, interesting, and charming as possible. Loser pays for the late night ice cream afterwards
/r/seduction29/09/22 08:51 PM
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Because we're on Instagram to see people's posts/stories and about 50% of said people happen to be female
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:39 PM
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Its instagram, not onlyfans There's nothing wrong with following girls on social media to see someone's posts/stories, if you are doing it for the sole person of trying to get that girl's attention and getting laid then that's something you need to rexamine fro yourself.
/r/seduction15/09/22 05:09 PM
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No one called you misogynist, incel, or anything, but I think you really need to work on that bleak mindset. You seem to have a very shallow view of the world, thinking looks are everything.
/r/seduction28/08/22 11:46 PM
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Ok. Clearly, you have a lot of heated thoughts about this, but I won't try to unpack it all. To make another assumption, I'm guessing you are Asian and have had a lot of trouble with dating. If I'm right, I do genuinely hope things level off. But to answer you, yeah, symbolic contracts are bad. When you go on dates, OF COURSE, you want sex and to go on dates. But if you don't act with intent and say your expectations, then how is the girl supposed to know where you stand? Everyone has different …
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:47 PM
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No. I disagree. The definition I use for nice guys can be attributed to nice girls too. Having a symbolic contract and that getting passive aggressive because the guy didn’t answer on that symbolic contract. You can be a “nice guy or girl”, but if you don’t say what you want in order to appease the other person and avoid rejection then get upset when they don’t give that same “kindness” back, then it’s for lack of a better word, it’s entitlement. Being considered nice is excellent, but being nic…
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:57 PM
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The problem that comes to mind with nice guys is that they hold a "symbolic contract." Whether intentional or unintentional, when they do something kind, they hold in their mind that they deserve that type of action back. The basic concept of an exchange. The problem though is that most people, in this case girls, are not aware or even agree to this contract. If a guy gives unconditional care and love, the girl will likely not act that way back just because YOU have the expectation that that is …
/r/seduction27/08/22 08:18 PM
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Think of dating like a martketplace and both men and women hold currency. Men's main currency is commitment and women's main currency is sex. Women don't feel comfortable giving it away so readily or else men are the only ones with the power of commitment. Even when women want sex actively, besides just wanting to know they are not having sex with a psycho, they don't want to give just so a man can take it without providing anything in return. That's why a lot of women say they feel cheated when…
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:50 AM
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I think it depends on where you’re going. If you mean hotspot places for Latin dance then yeah I could agree, but in regular clubs or dance bars I disagree. I’ve found you can dance to really anything if you experiment with different moves on the fly. Plus I feel critically it helps with the approach, you take a girls hand teach her to dance, then motion her away to go to the bar to have a conversation. You’ve already broken the ice with dance which gives you something fun to talk about it. Your…
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:58 PM
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I think the key is whether or not you're kinda going with the flow to have fun or you're just using salsa as a way to grind up on a girl. I don't know on what scale I can be considered attractive to women, but what helps is being natural and genuine with your intention to have fun and flirt while dancing. Girls can pick up if you are masking something you are doing just to get laid. Having more focus on having fun while being confident and cool with your attraction if you are with a girl where t…
/r/seduction14/08/22 07:33 PM
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Same. I had a pretty big crush on a friend of mine in high school. She rejected me and I could tell she felt awkward. I eventually moved on and we were still friends for 5 more years. Although we weren;t close enough that we texted each other all the time of course.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:14 PM
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Juggling is actually a really fun and rewarding activity. Plus some jugglers you meet can do some of the coolest things you've ever see are such open people. Not a bad time for friday night, and it does become a cool party trick in your back pocket to juggle 5 balls.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:24 AM
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Most people who do salsa aren’t there to get laid and just want to learn. Most classes I’ve taken have mainly been with women, but there’s usually a good mix and you’re constantly switching partners too
/r/seduction11/08/22 10:39 PM
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Night biking may be good for self-amusement, but you find the most interesting things in areas, especially in cities. Ex. Met people who were having a bonfire in the park, an impromptu rave, a literal "herd" of black cats walking down the streat, and people playing Mario cart on a giant projector on the side of an abandoned building. Women always hear guys with the same boring stories about sports, work, and tv. It is fascinating to women when you have interesting and also funny stories of exper…
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:30 PM
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I know lots of guys love blaming women for everything but come on. I said people, as in I know both girls and guys who do this. This is just a common occurrence of miscommunication in texting that I see in the game of dating.
/r/seduction11/08/22 05:25 PM
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-Take a salsa dancing class (girls find it hot) -Go indoor bouldering -Join a weekly juggling group -Go on Facebook events and find a free silent disco night or apple pie fest (there are actually some super cool local gems on there, definitely look through them) -Go to a wine and art night -Go night biking -Go to a jazz night at a music hall -Go to a local music concert of local talent, some concerts are like $20 -Go to an arthouse theater to check out a french film you've never heard of -Go to …
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:39 AM
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Then I guess the question is whose the one that usually initiates the conversation? If one person is seemingly the one whose constantly texting first and has to pull the conversation with less than conversational answers than they can to think the other isn't interested if they never initiate themselves. I've known people who are the ones to start the conversation and do all the leg work with less than usable replies like one word answers. Then the person never messages them first with a "Hi" or…
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:29 AM
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Legit! Cold approaches have always been kinda fun for me. I mainly just get a really fun interaction with a girl who may just become a friend. -I've met one of my closest friends now from doing it -made out with a girl during a concert -took a group of three cute girls on a night on the town (no sex, but had the most fun night of the last 5 months) -made a friend whose also into design through whom I got a great side gig, -had an impromptu date in the park -met a dancer who flirted hard with me …
/r/seduction05/08/22 12:06 AM
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and likewise because girls get so many more swipes, there’s nothing topping them from only picking their precieved best of the best and not even getting THEM any effort since 1/2 swipe rights for them is usually an instant match Guys not being more picky and selective is part of how the apps got so bad in the first place
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:21 PM
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My roommate used tinder gold for a little bit cause she was curious. We live in a big city and her profile isn't that good and she's decently attractive. She had 6,500+ likes. Others I know had 7,100+, and 5,000+. Guys are so horny that they swipe right on everything.
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:38 PM
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Don't wait for the feeling of being confident before going up up. Waiting to get hyped up or confident before saying hi can keep you standing all night and by then she will have walked away. Confidence come with the action not the other way around Just go up and say hi. Keep it simple and be genuine about yourself. What you say at the beginning really doesn't matter as much as you think. Just make an observation around you and you can even say something ridicous to get a laugh. Don't take reject…
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:43 PM
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I was around 23 when i first used this approach.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:54 PM
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I disagree a little but. I've found that being upfront for your nervousness but not making excuses for it helps you feel confident in the moment because you were genuine about yourself from the jump. Simply saying "I was super nervous" is certainly better than saying "I was super nervous. I know I'm probably bothering you, i hope you aren't bothered by me" and so on. Just short and sweet. You want to be upfront with your intentions ("I wanted to ask, if you are you single") and how you're feelin…
/r/seduction07/06/22 05:15 AM
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Best advice I can give for cold approach is just outing yourself from the beginning. I'm always nervous during cold approach so I simply don't pretend. I go up and say, "Hi, I just wanted to come up and talk to you. I was feeling super nervous but your dress was super pretty and I knew I would kick myself later If I didn't try to say hi" It takes SO much pressure of yourself and has alot of success because girls usually have their raders on high alert ( for safety) so being honest ironically sho…
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:41 PM
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One thing you do is that you speak subtly as if things are sexual even if they aren't. In a carefree mood. Speak as if theres a little joke between th two at times. Say it in a sultry way with your humor. Subtly making things sound sexual when they in context aren't in a smooth way makes the girl more comfortable to say something sexual to. Watch Craig Ferguson to see this in action masterfully. Another point thing I do is a Takeway. The moments you have chemstry and she joining in for these "jo…
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:37 PM
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