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1

This is what we call “rationalising a shit idea” to justify going to the strip club 😂
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:14 PM
1

Okay so what you just did, do it another 20 times in different places. You’ll have 5 girls on a rotation and come back to read this post and realise you just lacked abundance
/r/seduction18/05/26 08:35 AM
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I’ll tell you exactly what happened because it happened to me. The girl went out with you because she liked you. She wanted to see if she liked you enough to want to be intimate. She realised she doesn’t want to fuck you but likes the energy you’re giving her and the constant validation. She’s playing with you my bro. What I did in this exact situation was pulled back completely. Acted like she didn’t exist until she initiated conversation then I would politely respond but keep it brief. Eventua…
/r/seduction11/05/26 05:27 PM
10

You’re overthinking. You can have a life outside of work 🤣 if it’s such a concern, go out of your town to experiment
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:18 PM
10

Watch more standup comedy and you’ll build this muscle. Max Amini is someone who I think nails this. But obviously you have to balance the playfulness with seriousness because you’re not a clown
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:06 PM
1

When I realised she’s never met any other version of you except the one you bring that night.
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:07 AM
1

lol no one is out of your league, your insecurity just shows and it’s holding you back. I guarantee if you walk up to them with the confidence of “oh she’ll defo want to date me” she’ll say yes
/r/seduction03/09/25 11:34 AM
-1

I guess we’ll see tonight when I meet her if it was clickbait or if I’ll hook the bait 😏
/r/seduction30/07/25 04:24 PM
1

Yeah that’s my first instinct 🫡
/r/seduction27/05/25 11:52 AM
48

Go on insta Find the cafes that all the girls are posting at - these are the classy cafes/bars that tourists go to put on your best shirt and slacks, clean up and go take a seat find someone you like open with “excuse me miss, some guy on Reddit told me this is the place to get laid?” get slapped across the face make a shitpost on this subreddit for my amusement Simple.
/r/seduction05/05/25 09:18 PM
20

Nice. Usually the approach I take if I know I want to get in the zone for cold approach is warming up the social muscle. You wanna get all the stutters and discomfort out of the way before you cold approach. Do this by striking random convos with people you happen to be around. For example, if you’re on your lunch break, go to the local park and sit on a bench have a convo with a stranger. Have a convo with the person you’re sat next to on the bus. You’ll become fluid
/r/seduction25/04/25 12:53 PM
9

Ask her out asap to set the tone. Don’t fall into the friendzone
/r/seduction20/04/25 10:11 PM
3

You’ll be surprised at how easy this seduction shit is. Focus on your cfa now bud, post again saying you passed in a few months then we’ll guide you to become the notorious finance bro you were born to be
/r/seduction20/04/25 08:43 PM
19

lol you failed when you started playing this silly game of giving presents to random strangers 🤣 Now to erase the shame, you must go buy your mum a gift of the same price and surprise her
/r/seduction20/04/25 08:12 PM
5

I mean ideally you shouldn’t be getting up, just taking off your headphones and she should be within talking distance
/r/seduction19/04/25 09:10 PM
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So I was just in a cafe, I tend to do life admin and side hustle stuff on Saturdays, and I rotate cafes in a high end area of my city. I always leave having met a new girl or multiple that day. Here’s my exact routine: - go in and get your deep work done first. - once the main chunk is done you can chill abit and get to meet some people - I take headphones off and get up. Ask the girl I want to talk to “you mind watching my stuff real quick” - she of course says yes then I’m gone to piss and fre…
/r/seduction19/04/25 07:08 PM
3

They do and I’m living proof of it. There’s this stunner I met in the gym, classic push pull method on her then I went ghost (career got hectic so genuinely had to cut her off). She randomly calls me checking in and seeking my validation which is weird because I haven’t seen her in months. I even asked her why she hasn’t moved on and she said “I tried to but I can’t seem to find a guy like you” - bare in mind I’m your average joe but I will say I laugh girls into bed
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:45 PM
1

I did the same thing but dug myself out of the proverbial hole. Brought a stunner to the gym to train while that is my “orchard” as one other guy put it. But once I noticed the vibe switched with the other girls, I addressed it head on. I saw one of them in the sauna and causally said “you’ve been acting off ever since I brought [her name] that time, don’t tell me you’re jealous”. With this, even if they were never jealous they’re now on the defensive. You now casually laugh it off and they are …
/r/seduction05/04/25 07:11 PM
1

Well said
/r/seduction29/03/25 07:13 PM
1

True , I was thinking this tbh
/r/seduction21/03/25 04:23 AM
3

Cus i wanted to see her again before the shenanigans
/r/seduction21/03/25 04:23 AM
2

Ahaha interest was the least of my concern, my freedom was number one priority 🤣
/r/seduction21/03/25 04:22 AM
1

Strike the iron will it’s hot. Go see her in her state for a weekend. What will end up happening if you don’t is you’ll become a pen pal, she’ll move on and eventually it’ll die out and reduce to acquaintances that watch each others stories on insta.
/r/seduction15/03/25 05:05 AM
2

I think it’s good to watch some of their cultures movies to understand what is socially acceptable and what isn’t. I know a few Asian girls and some detest cold approach as it’s too confrontational. I’ve seen people have success with them through social circle or (surprisingly) a brief friendzone period then making it out. The latter is what their culture considers the norm
/r/seduction15/03/25 12:33 AM
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If you wanna become a good seducer, watch a lot of stand up comedy. Steal the comedians lines and tonality. You’ll become good
/r/seduction07/03/25 04:53 AM
7

It’s a question to frame the situation. Every girl knows you’re horny but when you play hard to get it subconsciously triggers her to start looking for your approval. It sounds stupid like it’s not supposed to work but it’s worked for me. An example from my life would be at the gym. There’s this hot girl everyone tries to get with but she’s very selective. I would go up to her, build suspense then ask her standard gym stuff like “how many sets do you have left”. One day randomly she had her hair…
/r/seduction05/03/25 05:09 AM
2

Stop putting women in weird boxes. Every girl is dtf but if you’re asking if she’s dtf you’re not ready yet. Go into every conversation asking yourself “why should I let her fuck” and watch your results change
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:39 PM
5

One thing I do on my social media is limit my face exposure. Every story is from my POV and every highlight I have is something incredible (skydiving, flying a military jet, snorkelling etc) but from my POV. There’s about 1-2 highlights where my face is fully visible. Even in my pictures I’m either not directly looking at the camera or I’m wearing shades. This seems to work well for me as girls that don’t know me in real life get confused because the energy i bring on text is confident and somet…
/r/seduction04/03/25 05:48 AM
7

This is the only answer. Appreciate your time for writing this out champ!
/r/seduction27/02/25 01:49 PM
3

Very possible. I’ve dated models and I’m an average guy who says audacious stuff sometimes. I watch a lot of comedy and steal the lines I’m ngl to you guys. Like one is “I don’t really care about the external stuff I care more about what’s on the inside” - she’ll be like awww that’s cute and you say “yeah so what size are those , C cups?” She’ll die laughing and boom you’re in
/r/seduction16/02/25 06:06 PM
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Imagine if she beat you at that arm wrestle, her next question would’ve been “you ever been done with a strap on” 🤣🤣
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:24 AM
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Girls like a man who knows what he’s doing and where he’s going
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:21 AM
3

I prefer cold approach because no one does it lol. I stand out alot more than if I was to meet the same girl at a bar. Girls love a story they can tell “oh this guy came up to me at a coffee shop” sounds better than “we met in a nightclub or tinder”
/r/seduction11/02/25 12:14 AM
1

lol the day I had a crazy one night stand come to my workplace and try to causse a scene was the day I started giving out a pseudonym to girls before I’ve fully vetted them. You should do the same
/r/seduction02/02/25 01:58 PM
2

Mario kart at your place after work?
/r/seduction29/01/25 06:01 PM
6

You’re viewing this whole seduction thing wrong. It’s not about which app is the best it’s about your pipeline of leads. You could be getting leads from dating apps (warm leads because they met you on a dating app so they know you’re looking to date) or from any other app (Instagram, TikTok, whatever app that has active women profiles heck even from reddit I’ve scored). You need to be warming up these leads and eventually closing them by asking them out. A mistake most of you will be making as b…
/r/seduction28/01/25 11:14 PM
2

If you went broke would she be down to go the barbers and pay for your haircut. If the answer is yes, you’re delusional. If the answer is no, well my friend her nails, her money. (Unless she’s actually your gf or wife)
/r/seduction25/01/25 07:16 PM
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Where do you strike the balance though? Or maybe im looking at it wrong but I always assumed if you invest too much into your profile it looks like you’re trying too hard. I may be wrong here btw but the most success I’ve had was when my pictures were decent but not overly professional.
/r/seduction23/01/25 12:28 AM
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Yeah so she’s probably being a friendly colleague and didn’t expect you to actually follow through. You ready to speak to her dad and get married? If the answer is no then yeah just remain work colleagues and keep it amicable. If you are, well then you need to become a Muslim
/r/seduction22/01/25 03:19 PM
5

She’s a twin so your gf looks the same lol
/r/seduction22/01/25 09:09 AM
343

Tip for your next post, tell us alternatives in each situation
/r/seduction18/01/25 05:19 PM
1

Buddy you’re not gunna get rich saving half on dates 🤣 go make some money and cover the full tab nothing is more masculine than that
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:09 PM
1

I’m working on a big write up, bear with me. I’ve got like 15 guys dm me the exact same thing lol
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:47 AM
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I don’t date every week I’ve slowed it down a lot recently to focus on my money. Hence why when I do date it’s someone I’m actually intrigued by and willing to spend some money on
/r/seduction08/01/25 07:35 AM
1

Exactly!
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:00 PM
7

Buddy you shouldn’t judge a man by the pussy he gets but by the pussy he turns down
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:59 PM
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To each their own but I may have a slightly different approach to dating than you
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:48 PM
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Ahh to clarify , when I say “pick her up” it’s never from her doorstep. So yeah, beginners that are reading this, never do that - that’s like dating 101. I usually pick girls up so we can break the ice on the drive to the spot, it also helps that I drive a nice sports car. Wrt how I get them to a casino , you have to read the room obviously. If a girl is apprehensive, making her comfortable and feeling safe is paramount. But yeah that’s the basics I’m sure the sub is tired of hearing the basics …
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:44 PM
4

Ahh I forgot to mention, when I say “the dates on her” I don’t expect her to spend $100. But yeah going back to mine costs nothing 👌🏽
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:40 PM
76

Quite the opposite actually. It depends how you word it and your tonality but if you make it more like a spontaneous, fun night then they’re more than comfortable. Once adrenaline kicks in they’re alot more comfortable aswell
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:38 PM
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I mean it’s a no brainer if she knows basics statistics 🤣
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:27 PM
7

Yeah I work a stressful desk job so I need something to do like once a week on a Saturday to just remind me of what life has to offer. Examples I’ve done recently: - off-roading cars - indoor ski slopes - airbnb somewhere off the grid - nice spa day - helicopter ride - overnight train to a new city There’s plenty of bucket list things you can do but yeah it usually recharges my batteries before Monday
/r/seduction03/01/25 03:36 PM
17

This worked for me a ton when I was younger and actively into seduction but with great power comes great responsibility. I’m assuming you’ve met a new girl and done enough of the right things on text (different post needed for that tbh) to eventually secure a date. Now for the first date I would usually do something she’s probably never done before. Hit the indoor ski slopes, orchestra, race sports cars on a race track. This was my weekly thing regardless if she was there or not, I have a budget…
/r/seduction03/01/25 11:27 AM
1

What I usually do is put my number in their phone. If they’re interested, they’ll text me out of the blue. If not, I forget about it and there’s no message I look back on
/r/seduction15/12/24 10:17 PM
1

“Your bf is such a lucky guy”
/r/seduction24/11/24 11:23 PM
177

There’s alot of watches out there but Rolex still has a waitlist…
/r/seduction25/09/24 09:21 AM
3

Ha Gayyyyyyyyy
/r/seduction24/09/24 11:44 AM
11

Stealing that “open doors for old ladies and various kinky activities” line , fire
/r/seduction20/09/24 10:09 AM
1

So you don’t vet a girl you’re falling for before falling too deep? What if she has a history you’d want to know about?
/r/seduction19/09/24 02:13 PM
2

Well said , this hit the nail on the head 👌🏽
/r/seduction16/09/24 04:04 PM
2

I’d buy you a drink but I don’t get paid till next week
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:36 PM
3

Never knew this, thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:34 PM
74

True, I do want someone I can love and actually start building with. Something interesting someone told me the other day was “how can you expect to find a wife when you’re not acting like a husband” 🤣
/r/seduction16/09/24 11:07 AM
3

Interesting, what sort of cool things do you out of curiosity
/r/seduction13/09/24 04:22 PM
3

When you’re dealing with extremely good looking girls, they have been wine and dined so many times they’re tired of it. She literally said so herself. Then at the end of the night, she said “this was the most fun I’ve had in a long time, I wanna see you again”
/r/seduction13/09/24 01:17 PM
4

This is the way.
/r/seduction23/08/24 08:14 PM
-1

Point 3 is very solid advice, works a charm 🤞🏽
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:12 PM
1

I don’t know about the rest of you but when the chase isn’t there I don’t feel super motivated. So if you do express interest, still make him work for it. This might just be me but guys reply to this so I can see if it’s a me thing or a general thing
/r/seduction10/08/24 01:39 PM
90

The thing you’re not getting is that most people on dating apps don’t get success but they get addicted to the apps. These sex workers prey on these guys who will willingly pay for some action
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:51 PM
37

“I thought my grandma was lying this whole time”
/r/seduction03/08/24 04:31 PM
3

Fire
/r/seduction03/08/24 04:30 PM
7

So most guys conversations with new women follow the same structure. Name? Occupation? Age? Etc. You need to stop doing that. Instead start the conversation off in a playful manner like “so what’s got you fighting demons in here on a random Thursday?” She’ll say “ahh just work” which you will reply with “hmm let me guess what you do for work”. So you have now turned the question from “what do you do for a living?” to something different that is essentially going to take you to the same answer af…
/r/seduction03/08/24 04:30 PM
3

🤣🤣 he did not
/r/seduction03/08/24 04:21 PM
90

Okay I have the perfect example for you that happened last week funnily enough in the sauna of my gym. I walked in, sat down for a few minutes to sue the vibe in there. There was 1 good looking girl and 2 guys. I read the room and worked out they both wanted to talk to her but didn’t know how to. I too found her attractive and I’m quite extroverted so I started a conversation. It was flowing well, she was laughing a lot and I was just dropping casual chit chat no game at this point. One of the g…
/r/seduction02/08/24 08:19 PM
1

100? Those are rookie numbers. I approach 1000 a day
/r/seduction01/08/24 03:41 PM
5

Usually how I play this “well <insert her name here>, your man is a very lucky man and I hope he reminds you of that everyday” Girls crumble at this icl especially if they’re with their friends, her friends will respect you and she will respect you more. This could lead to you spending the rest of your night out with the group if you want because you’ve shown you can respect boundaries
/r/seduction28/07/24 11:24 AM
2

Yeah my bad I thought he was being sarcastic but here’s an example. Post workout date you go to one of those trendy coffee shops that have protein shakes and stuff. Grab a protein shake each and go for a walk with the protein shakes and say it’s your daily cardio to get your steps in. Along the walk you get to know her and this part is important because she’s trying to figure out if you’re a playboy or not. Btw the walk should be somewhere, not a walk through alleyways at night but I’m not going…
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:14 PM
-11

Do you want me to teach you how to fuck her aswell?
/r/seduction25/07/24 12:10 PM
2

True that
/r/seduction25/07/24 11:06 AM
11

How many sets you got left on this machine? Her : 2 more You : wait around until she’s done Her : I’m all done You: I see you here quite abit, I respect the dedication. How long you been coming? Her : oh about a year seriously and you? You : yeah got into a good routine recently and sorted my diet out but around 2 years now, what cant you tell ( laugh ) Her : ahaha no you’re in good shape I can tell Proceed to have a normal convo. Don’t close the first time. But you need to end convo before she …
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:44 AM
11

You need to read the room obviously. If you’re getting done for sexual harassment you need to figure out where you went wrong, either to sexual in the opening or just didn’t create a good vibe
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:55 AM
5

Yeah bad idea. Don’t do it. Leave the girls for us guys who don’t think it’s a bad idea
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:43 AM
-16

The numbers slowly increasing but I’ve started conversation with a few and over time I’ll escalate. If I see them everyday there’s no rush and if you do rush into it it looks needy
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:19 AM
-24

Agree with you point, it’s just how you read the room. For my personality, giving advice doesn’t come off as if I’m trying to 1 up her, it’s on a more friendly joking around vibe. Different openers work for different people
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:17 AM
2

So let’s say you’re at a bar. You’re both having a drink and getting to know eachother, nothing unusual here. Once the drinks kick in for me, I just naturally get funnier and start teasing her. This would usually just naturally mean I’m touching her at this point and once I see she’s okay with it you just escalate it until eventually you’re kissing
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:46 PM
11

Bring flowers, lay out a red carpet and make sure you hire a mariachi band. That’ll surely impress her
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:49 PM
40

No he is building a report to present to stakeholder, come on mate keep up
/r/seduction29/04/24 12:52 PM
5

You challenge him to a duel on your uni campus
/r/seduction27/03/24 03:23 PM
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