| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Dating app date issues/advice | Beepbeepclick | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 02:19 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Escalating with date when I am definitely competing with other guysMove on. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to get to the next step on dating apps.Glad to hear! | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Did my first approach today. Failed :(“Did my first approach today, failed” Cool. Try again. Failed again? Cool, try again, this time let’s try something different because X and Y aren’t working. Failed again? Cool Z didn’t work, lets try A and B. | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on how to get to the next step on dating apps.I found the best method is to be quick on getting a number then use texting to set up dates. Basically start out with a hey how’s your week/day along with a comment on something I found interesting on their profile. One or two messages back and forth then if she is still replying by then, just ask her for her number to properly ask her out on a date. Has literally always worked. If she doesn’t give you her number, move on to the next. The less time you spend on dating apps talking to each other … | /r/seduction | 11/05/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Dating app date issues/adviceIt turned really bad, got in the heat of the moment, and she said she wanted to be my girlfriend. On the 2nd date. I told her I don’t know her enough to answer that, and she got extremely depressed and sad saying how she put herself out there and got rejected. I think she wants to move really fast and I told her I didn’t, and she said she gets attached very very fast. I don’t think I can give her what she wants. But I don’t know how to let her down without completely devastating her. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Dude looks like Owen from RSDI’m just confused at how the beer came that fast from that high up. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 03:04 AM |
| 0 | Simple tips for newbiesRule 1: be attractive Rule 2: don’t be unattractive | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | God damnit I wish I found this sub soonerI wish I knew that in college, would have saved me 2 years of heartache | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 03:00 AM |
| 3 | How to date girls every day on a low budget?Inception them into thinking that they thought of the idea to pay your food and theirs as their own original thought and not from you during dinner. Then spin a top. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 01:40 AM |
| 2 | I'm meeting girls tomorrow, any tips?It’s all instinctive, built into your dna. Fucking is mindless, doesn’t take any thought, your body sort of just “knows” what to do. Like a baby bird flying, they sort of get thrown into it and just know (or die). Use a Johnny and always remember, flick the bean. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | God damnit I wish I found this sub soonerReiterating the reiteration: don’t have crushes. They make you do fooling things for a one sided hope. Most of the time crushes are one sided, with the other side being oblivious or just using you. I crushed hard on a girl in college, and it almost cost me friendships and my sanity. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Dating app date issues/adviceWe have a place and time, had a place on the day I asked, time was made today. She called me out of the blue double checking the plan, I’m going to pick her up from her place. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 01:29 AM |
| 3 | How to seduce the man I babysit forGet “caught” in an innocent position like a skirt + bending over with your back to him and gauge his reaction. Touch him while talking (like if he says something funny and you are standing near, grab his arm while laughing). Gauge response. If you just want to bone, say goodnight and go to his bed. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Dating app date issues/adviceYa possibly, I mean it was 1 day between when we set up the date and she saying she hasn’t heard from me. Plus I have class where I can’t have my phone out, work where I can’t have my phone inside, gym where I am trying to focus, all on that day. I think things are good now, date is still on but I am going to go forward with caution. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Best way to deal with rejection?If you fail a test at school, how do you go about fixing it? You learn from what you made mistakes on and used that to do better next time. Dating is the same, you fail the test(rejection) and learn what you did wrong and correct it. Just text and if you don’t hear anything, move on. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Salvage line for when she doesn't respondIf she didn’t respond, she is either busy or no longer interested. Move on. If she texts you back eventually, play it off like you were busy as well. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Kissing IssueDon’t worry about it. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:30 PM |
| 3 | My female friends try set me up with their attractive friends, is this an indication that I am better looking than I think?For girls, looks aren’t everything like for guys. They typically form attraction over style, confidence, how you present yourself. Just set it up and act the same as you would around your friends because they found your demeanor to be potentially compatible with this other person. Don’t fear rejection, and if so don’t make it awkward between the friends. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:29 PM |
| 2 | I'm going on a second date to cinema. Any advice?Pro of cinema: forced to sit next to each other, very easy to touch, hold, snuggle, kiss. Con of cinema: can’t talk, can’t create an emotional bond with words connected to feelings to cement a feeling of attraction. What I did when I first started dating was do dinner AND and movie (movie first). So that during the dinner you can talk about the movie if things get stale. But really, movies are really bad. Find something active to do, like ice skating, zoo, museum, where you move, can converse, t… | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What's a good middle ground between "you look nice today" and "how are you doing today?"How are you looking nice today? | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Girl responds a day later what should I do?Think it through. You text, she doesn’t respond, makes up an excuse for not doing. You know this is false. She owes you nothing though, she doesn’t have to tell you what she was up to. That’s her personal business. I see Two paths: Confront saying you know she just lied, which makes you seem creepy and clingy. She can tell that you watched her snaps (or at least back a few years ago it said who watched stories). Ruin any chances forever. Ask her out to prom. But underneath you know she is a liar… | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:22 PM |
| 11 | Did I do something wrong?You sound like you are being real clingy. She took your vCard and it’s natural to feel a strong attraction to the person that did it. Possibly just a pity f-close. Move on, there will be others. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 02:28 AM |
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