So I often go through dating apps, when I find someone I’m attracted to that isn’t your typical HB6+ (just recently broke up with Gf, moving on) I message them and pull a # on the same day, usually within a few messages. The one I had previously ghosted the hell out of me on the day of our date. Oh well happens, moved on.

Got a new #, cute girl, set up a date the same week. Talk a bit on the day I get her number, the next day I had class, work, and gym, so not really any chance to chat (and wanted to put some separation between text convos). I get on the dating app to get more prospects and notice she deleted her account. I think I’m getting ghosted again. She texts me yesterday asking if we are still on, I say yes and she responds saying that she wasn’t sure because I hadn’t talked to her. I reassure, she texts me her pic for contact, I reciprocate. I go to the gym again and go play cards with buddies, she texts me asking what’s up. I reply and she asks me if I am even interested, and that she doesn’t want to put work into pursuing someone that’s not interested. I reassure but I feel like this isn’t stuff you should be experiencing before the first date, not even the second.

She crazy or am I just really unconsciously I’m being a jerk by not texting her every day?