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Then it's out of your hands. In the meantime, keep approaching.
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:11 AM
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Keep her number and put her on the bench. Just hit her with the, "hit me up the next time you wanna hang out." Or something like that then don't message her. If/when she breaks up with her guy she'll likely contact you. Till then, leave that one alone.
/r/seduction14/08/21 10:23 PM
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continue my improvements. Keep improving yourself, as far as finding out if a girl is attracted to you or not what you should do is approach. Always assume attraction and approach. You may have to go through a 1000 "no's" before you get a "yes" just keep pushing.
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:20 PM
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You've had women attracted to you before, you either didn't notice, didn't act on it, or lacked the skills to realize that this was the case. Continue to better yourself, empower yourself with knowledge and use those new skills in the real world to attain the goals you are looking for. Always be improving.
/r/seduction14/08/21 01:57 AM
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Much appreciated, glad to help.
/r/seduction13/08/21 03:09 AM
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You got it.
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:18 PM
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I have access to a cottage not far away I wouldn't do this, your relationship with her is still too fresh for her to feel comfortable going someplace secluded like that with you. She likely doesn't feel safe enough for something like this. Invite her over for dinner or netflix in chill then escalate. Keep it simple, but fun. Don't overthink this OP use your feelings.
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:18 PM
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To get out of this situation you should hit her with the classic "Netflix and chill" something obvious and dumb but fun enough to be misinterpreted that you just want to do something interesting. You need something that will grab her attention, a concert, some sort of event, hell go skydiving or something. Anything that will get her heart racing. Just grab her attention then escalate from there.
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:49 AM
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Forgive me for being blunt, but what it sounds like to me is. You're playing it too safe and it's boring. Three dates and all y'all did was kiss a bit? No sexual tension? No adventurous stuff? Fourth date is dinner, not at your place? She lost interest cause there's no excitement. Women are emotional beings, you seem very calculated and logical. When seducing a girl do away with that, lead with your heart. When dating, it's also safe to assume that she is being courted by at least 2 other guys. …
/r/seduction12/08/21 08:36 AM
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OP, I'll say this. Seducing a stripper is a bit advanced. There are a ton of factors you need to consider, on top of that do you honestly believe she's only talking to you right now? I'm not saying "don't do it" I'm saying proceed with extreme caution and be on your guard until you're certain of your standing with her. You can't play this one like you normally would. Yes, this is me speaking from experience.
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:48 AM
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That's simpish behavior and shows a lack of abundance. Plus if she starts to give him attention over you in the middle of a conversation, not only is that disrespectful but it shows a lack of interest on her part. You'd be better off letting her go.
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:37 PM
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they pretend to be on the phone to look busy. Yea cause they don't want to be approached at that time....Gotta learn to take "no" for an answer man.
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:43 AM
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I disagree
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:03 AM
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If she is on her phone or has headphones on leave her alone. There is a reason for them. There will be other girls you'll take interest in that are more approachable. Learn to read the body language, it tells you most of what you want to know before the approach.
/r/seduction11/08/21 04:03 AM
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I don't really care at this point. Start caring or you may get stuck in this cycle. Respect yourself more.
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:58 AM
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This conversation seems kinda boring and the girl sounds kinda boring too. Are you sure you even wanna turn this convo around??? If you do then start planning a day for the date with her. This is Tinder, don't invest too much time or energy into it.
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:40 AM
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she would bring her friend with her No 2 weeks have passed She isn't interested, move on. Don't message her anymore.
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:38 AM
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I've said this before years ago but I'll say it again. Most of the YouTube PUA stuff on youtube is absolute bullshit. A lot of it is either clickbait or literal paid actors/actresses. They need views and clicks, so they feed you a ton of bullshit. Come off as "successful" and typical are trying to sell you a boot camp or a book. Sometimes both. Avoid these! The actual good advice videos are few and far between.
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:36 AM
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You'd be surprised, it's the sweetest most "innocent" girls that are the freakiest.
/r/seduction10/08/21 08:11 PM
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You don't really want to throw salt in another man's game. So you can either bail, or stay out of it. This is just my opinion as this situation can be complex.
/r/seduction10/08/21 07:10 PM
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No, I highly disagree with this. Attraction can come before or after an interaction. It's how we humans are built. People initially find other's attractive all the time. It's how we spot cute girls or girls spot guys to begin with. How they're dressed/etc.
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:22 PM
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Move on, she might hit you up. She might not. Don't take it personally.
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:20 PM
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Body language videos, learning how to use hooks in conversations and something called "cold reading"
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:52 AM
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Sure, opening a group set is difficult but it teaches you game extremely fast. Plus, if you earn their approval you are basically in with the girl you're interested in.
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:27 AM
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I studied body language a lot more and I do something called pre-screening. If you get good at pre-screening you will significantly improve your chances. The girl you're interested in tells you about 70% of what you need to know about her before you even approach. Her body language Her openness to being approached Her marital status Her hygiene Does she have kids? Does she work out/stay fit Her friends circle You can learn a lot in 3-5 minutes of observing. Oh shit I might be seen as the" pickup…
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:26 AM
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Don't even bother with chicks that make you play where's waldo in their profile pictures. There is a reason they do that, all of which spell trouble for you in the future. Avoid them.
/r/seduction10/08/21 04:03 AM
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Did you ever come back from the cold feet cutoff? Unfortunately no, once they caught cold feet that was it. One time a girl did hit me up late on a Saturday randomly. I think her normal hook-ups fell through. We smashed once, then I never saw her again lol.
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:47 AM
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You didn't really do anything "wrong" per se. She just got cold feet due to the perceived distance. I've often had that trouble back when I lived in Baltimore. One thing you must remember about girls that are looking for a hook-up/FWB. Very rarely are they willing to travel more than 10min. These types of girls typical make very low, investments to save them time and gas/effort to get to you. It's really as simple as that. I've had better luck with FWB/hook-up situations when I have already met …
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:42 AM
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3:30am timestamp was telling me to save it for another time. I hear that! Recently I almost did the same thing, then she texted me to "come over" right when I got home lol. It's doable is all I'm saying! Either way, great work sounds like you are going to have a good time.
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:34 AM
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would have to be to a woman in her mid-20s, never married, no kids, attractive, and submissive. The cool thing for us men is, our stock tends to go up as we age. As you said, you make close to six-figures. Have a seemingly stable career (especially important during this pandemic) and offer experience. A girl in her 20s can also give you children if that's what you wish. Guys don't start shooting blanks until their 50s, even then there is treatment for that. thought about going to Lebanon to find…
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:31 AM
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Nice OP! Glad you had a good time! You likely could've closed with that girl but either or, sometimes its nice to go out and simply have a good time.
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:25 AM
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I’ve been with close to 60 girls (I’m now 43) I'm not here to judge, but there is a time and a place to finally cash out of the game. Meaning marriage, kids (if you want them) and then actual adulting. It's good to realize that you are looking for a relationship but your experiences and your style of game got locked into the whole "hook-up" culture. It's good to get laid and get temporary girls but it doesn't land you anything long term. I’ve been with 4 dozen escorts It's time to curtail this..…
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:20 AM
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DMs are very low investment low commitment. If the interest is gone after initial contact it's best to move on.
/r/seduction09/08/21 04:07 AM
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wear sweats most of the time Change that up a bit, changing your wardrobe works some serious wonders. Ever try a sun dress? Or my favorite tights? Show some leg. although my bum isn't glowing as much as I like Good that you work out loads, hit the ass blaster up. I spend the most time in the gym/court. You're fishing for sharks in your local pond. You'll never find one there. Go to the mall, the clubs, local bars. Set line in the areas that contain the fish you're looking for. Basketball can be …
/r/seduction09/08/21 03:20 AM
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You didn't build enough tension and anticipation. You need to make her want to look forward to meeting up with you. A breakfast date is typically not the way to do that. You want a late lunch date or even better a dinner date. Breakfast dates are for girlfriends and girls you smashed the night before. she wasn’t interested or was going to flake she should’ve told me yesterday and leaving me on read was silly since it was a simple question. Don't ever do this, it comes off as real needy/clingy. I…
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:16 AM
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If I were in your position I would go with light-weights. Like 30-40 pounds. Nothing too heavy and Cardio. You are looking to do something called "cutting." Do some research on that and you'll find the routines you need.
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:14 AM
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she isn't emotionally available to be in a relationship. Translation: I want to have sex with you but I don't want you getting all clingy and make me feel guilty about ghosting you.
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:12 AM
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How can you love others if you don't love yourself?
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:11 AM
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Ok, well since you posed the question: What is your weight? How do you typically dress? Are you clean and well kempt? Do you dress feminine? Do you stay fit? (Go to the gym regularly) Are you in area's where there are single men usually around? (Clubs, Bars, Volunteer events, Popular parts of town)
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:10 AM
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It's good that you got that out of your system, but as you have said. She's and "old friend, like family." You already knew the answer to your question. It's all good though, better to ask to know than to wonder forever.
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:08 AM
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None of these. If you're looking for knowledge I wouldn't bother with courses unless you are in dire need of help and have absolutely 0 experience. I recommend the following books. [The Art of Seduction] and [3% Man]. The best course you can take is the free course called "going outside and practicing" literally go out there and try different techniques, find out what works for you and tailor. Push through the rejections and blown out nights and you will find success. You either win or you learn…
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:06 AM
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Practicing game and seduction helped me learn the areas which I lacked and to be honest and upfront with myself. Once I started honestly accepting myself I found success.
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:04 AM
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I mentioned to girls that I'm a middle eastern refugee Stop mentioning something so deep/personal so early. Leave that for actual GFs and long-term GFs. Just messing around with girls you gotta keep it light and fun. Some topics are too heavy, your past is one of those heavy topics. Leave that for later.
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:03 AM
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Yep, rejections don't even phase me nowadays. Nice OP
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:02 AM
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I don't mind the average looking girl. If she excels in other areas then that more than makes up for physical attractiveness. You can be hot...but everyone gets older eventually.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:10 AM
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Pretty much! You got it!
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:06 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction07/08/21 06:51 PM
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You only want to resort to violence if you are defending yourself or your mate. Not a girl you just met, in the future it'll just be better to walk away. You don't want a girl that is surrounded by that kind of drama anyway.
/r/seduction07/08/21 06:50 PM
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Nah, she isn't interested. Let this one go and save yourself the trouble OP.
/r/seduction07/08/21 06:46 PM
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Try indirect approaches, far easier and more fluid for some people. Indirect approaches work best from me when I get nervous or don't know what to say. Use the indirectness of the approach to segue into the actual approach or use her response to hook into the conversation.
/r/seduction07/08/21 07:42 AM
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"Good thing I'm a man [angel smiley emoji]"
/r/seduction07/08/21 07:32 AM
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Sexual tension is your friend, college is a different world of flirting and approaching girls entirely. It's honestly on your side, to a huge extent...if you play your cards right. The first, the very first thing you need to do when you meet this chick is be clean, smell nice (basically just got out the shower) and great eye contact. Be fun, be enjoyable, be yourself! Secondly, when you guys are running around touring campus show each other your dorms and introduce roommates and stuff. Like gene…
/r/seduction07/08/21 07:06 AM
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No, subtle flirting could work out. It often does work out, but one bad day and now your ass is marching down to HR trying to explain the sexual innuendo you made to your co-worker in the printer room. Tread carefully... To clarify, "Do you need this job?" If yes, then be cordial, be kind. But keep it business.
/r/seduction07/08/21 06:18 AM
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Nice OP, it's amazing what can happen when you are comfortable in your own skin!
/r/seduction07/08/21 06:17 AM
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No point regretting a past you can't change. Take it as a lesson and move on to the next.
/r/seduction07/08/21 06:16 AM
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Plug for weed. Don't simp out and become her free weed plug.
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:18 AM
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was not the most conventionally attractive person I ever dated. Confidence and being comfortable with who you are as a person goes a very long way lads.
/r/seduction06/08/21 03:21 AM
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Very solid write-up! I basically agree with all your points! I like to call this "Firing on all cylinders" when I'm ready to start dating again I not only approach daily but I make an online dating profile (it was okcupid that was the leader back in the day, now it's Hinge) and start hitting it hard!
/r/seduction06/08/21 03:18 AM
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I like to kiss at the venue, kissing at the venue has worked for me about 90% of the time. Then again I like to take chances and do things that get her heart pumping. Girls operate on emotions, so I play to that.
/r/seduction06/08/21 01:08 AM
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That's pretty much all it is in the most simplest of terms. Of course as things escalate, say for instance, she doesn't reject you. Then additional variables come into play.
/r/seduction06/08/21 12:02 AM
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"Hope" is a bad strategy. Plan things out a bit better than that. Be a leader, set the date up in such a way that going back to her place seems the natural thing to do. If that's not viable maybe do some research and find a pub equidistant between you and her. Maybe grab some nice wine, go to an overlook (weather permitting) and have a chill drink with some music. User your head!
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:57 PM
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I haven't hit the gym in 3 weeks since i've been recovering from a cold and a back injury because of straining myself too much AT the gym lol. A break is ok, just know when you're ready to jump back into it!
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:54 PM
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slight discreet Discreet, sleek, sexy. Preferably with mood lighting. Typically the more hipster bars have this setup by default. Remember low pressure and fun. She already knows what's up! Don't talk yourself out of it.
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:51 PM
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Meet at the pub, maintain sexy eye contact, triangle gaze, kino then, go in for the kiss. Raise the tension further and keep the kissing sexy and intimate. Offer to head back to your place for a nice glass of wine.
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:38 PM
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With a FWB or potential FWB you gotta keep things fun at all times. Have light drinks in your crib ready to go. Have some snacks/food and just always be "the chill spot" that she can "escape" to etc. Make if very comfortable and relaxing. Typically this leads to her wanting to get naked with you as well. Just keep things fun and escalate as usual. Eye contact, light touching, etc.
/r/seduction05/08/21 11:19 PM
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Some universal truths i've learned Girls love free food Girls love free weed If it's after the second or third date and you know they blaze. Offer up, you'll be glad you did. Just don't make a habit of it accidentally become her simp plug.
/r/seduction05/08/21 09:23 PM
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Breaking up with someone is a pretty serious occasion as such I personally find it very disrespectful to do it via text. Every girl i've broken up with i've done it face to face. It wasn't easy but if you are going to break someone's heart, have the courage to do it to their face. Of course people are different, but this is a huge disrespect item for me.
/r/seduction05/08/21 06:40 AM
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Only 32?? I've had hundreds and HUNDREDS of approaches and probably close to something like a thousand "no's" But the ones that gave me that awesome "Yes!" Whew lad! Anyways, look at your situation as a whole OP. You have no previous marriages, no kids and you aren't on drugs. That puts you ahead of about half the pack of dudes all vying to get a girl same as you. Secondly, you know the areas where you lack, so get to work on those areas. None of the good shit in life is Free OP. A girl isn't go…
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:50 AM
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For starters, relax. You'll be alright. Just hit her up in a day or so, keep things low pressure. She probably feels the same.
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:13 AM
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How old is this chick??? Bail man too much drama with her. Also You've never met her in person. Absolutely BAIL
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:12 AM
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I've been there. I'll say this, anything is possible. HOWEVER: Some caveats She broke up with you via text....Super disrespectful, she couldn't be assed to tell you to your face or at least call you. Remember the season; we're coming up on the end of summer, winter is right around the corner and there is potentially (hopefully not) another covid lockdown coming up. 🎶"It's so coldddd in the D" 🎶 no one wants to be alone during lockdown or winter. Do you seriously believe she didn't try other opti…
/r/seduction04/08/21 12:55 AM
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Nice! Agreed! It's time to gtfo of there. Get it OP!
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:16 AM
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Do you need this job? If you do then don't mess with her. Just leave it alone.
/r/seduction03/08/21 04:33 AM
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Everyone plays games, the ones who "don't play games" (guys and girls) are just giving you the game on easy mode. The seduction game is the proof we show others, or others show us that we are willing, able and capable enough to mate or partner with. The exact same thing happens in nature. Certain girls indeed are a waste of time, others aren't and are playing coy. Building seduction skills allows us to spot the truth of the situation early on and then make the decision to proceed or move on. Jus…
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:04 PM
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Indeed, something I learned that helped me is that "nothing good in life is easy"
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:01 PM
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Bring a friend, get them to introduce themselves to each other. Eavesdrop.
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:52 PM
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You have the life that you're willing to accept. You can change anything around at your age, you have plenty of time. If you're willing and motivated.
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:47 PM
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Nice work!
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:30 PM
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Really good!
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:29 PM
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Gone are the days where women play hard to get, act coy, or feign disinterest Highly disagree with most of this, specifically, in my experience this has increased. We are in the social information age. Girls can get sex simply by swiping right on their smart phones. They play hard to get and coy because they can literally get it whenever they want. This has always been the case throughout history however the ease of which they can now is even higher. It is key that men understand seduction and b…
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:25 PM
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Playfully flirting with older ladies is fun as hell. They are so chill!
/r/seduction31/07/21 06:15 AM
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Whats the aura you're putting out? Is it 'open'? Is your body language allowing for others to approach you and talk? Also, where are you hanging out at? You won't cash any fish at a dry pond. Change the usual spots you go to, maybe go to a different part of town/city and check out the bars and clubs there. It's difficult for a woman to get approached if she is constantly surrounded by 3 of her friends. You gotta single yourself out sometimes and leave yourself open to being approached. Try the c…
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:21 AM
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Everybody's gotta start somewhere, nice work!
/r/seduction31/07/21 01:16 AM
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Walk before you run, go out more, be more active in social situations. Bars, clubs, outdoor events, etc. Get comfortable being around people who you don't know that well. Start there then work your way up. You will get approached, with each interaction you will improve. It'll take time.
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:17 PM
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Excellent OP this was a fun read lmao
/r/seduction30/07/21 09:08 PM
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That was a situation which required to have a wingman. You got blocked. Nothing you can do when the girls friend blocks you out like that. It happens sometimes. They were also loving the attention, this is a lesson in screening before hand. You can totally open with multiple women but I like to screen the group for a couple minutes to see the power dynamic, their openness and what they are actually there for. In this case, they just wanted attention. Any girl that actually showed interest in you…
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:57 PM
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It took a lot of effort, for starters (and I think the hardest part) is that I had to accept, and I mean fully accept, that it was over. The girl I loved was gone and I needed her to leave. I lied to myself about her for a long time because when you're in love everything is seen through rose colored glasses and you miss out on the flaws and the red flags that tell you things won't work out. It took a little over a year to truly accept where I was and admittedly I had to get those emotions out of…
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:48 PM
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I found this sub after breaking up with the girl I was considering as a long term GF/wife and I was very down in the dumps in a bad way. After being here for a few years, tightening up my game and learning just how valuable I really am. I'm in a much better place now.
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:17 AM
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Exercise, eat better, stay fit and healthy. Be active. Masturbate in moderation. Drink more water.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:30 AM
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Just don't want her to think I'm a player That's a problem us guys have, we are so set on being honest and straightforward that we come off as the boring "nice guy." The term Nice Guys finish last exists for a reason. You can still be a kind man and a gentlemen. You don't have to tell her your life story to accomplish this. I agree, the game is tiring but its indeed a game. If you want to win you need to play it.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:05 AM
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Always assume attraction. Also, don't worry about her thinking you have a GF. This is actually a good thing! Guys often get this wrong but, girls want a man that's in demand. Have you ever seen how girls treat men with a ring on his finger?? (aka married) Seduction is much easier if you have a girl by your side or presumed to be in your presence. Counter intuitive but there you go... Don't broach the topic with her, let HER bring it up, assume attraction and start flirting with her/plan a date w…
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:24 AM
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My dog ran up to her and her dog Impromptu doggie date, classic I leaned back into my elbows in the grass with my legs out instead of closed off crossed legged Excellent body language, you made yourself "open" so are we going out tonight or what? I like your style man! Set the time, exchange numbers and I walk off. Here you could've walked around the park a bit with your dogs or simply change locations. With same day lays i've noticed that when I switch locations once or twice the girl becomes w…
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:21 AM
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I have years of experience in online dating (also known as OLD) and I can't tell you that the process is about the same regardless of the match. When you intially match with someone it's best to message them back same day since sites like Hinge typically prompt you to "start the conversation." (only initially) Make sure your initial message includes something that you've seen in their profile or reference something you saw in their photos. This lets them know that you put in a modicum of effort …
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:02 PM
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I used to post more field reports but over time every day has basically turned into an FR and there have been a load of successes. I've definitely improved, but I don't have the time anymore to post all of these FRs that i've been having. As such I've taken a step back to provide more advice to others. I do hope it helps though.
/r/seduction28/07/21 10:42 PM
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Eh, you're at an age where it doesn't really matter. If you have friends that go to the university in question or have a reason to be there then you're fine.
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:55 PM
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She’s super busy with work If a girl is interested in you, she WILL make time. Schedule the date, confirm the day before the date then show up for it. If she plays games or is flakey between now and then do yourself a favor and bail. Make sure you flirt and schedule stuff with other girls between now and then.
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:53 PM
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You're a man, let her know your intentions and that while you're interested in sex with her. You will not waste your time on the constant teasing. Once or twice can be cute but repeatedly is wasting your time. During all of this make sure you are pursuing other woman and remember, attention for girls is like sex for men.
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:43 PM
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Like someone else has said, it can be a combination of things. Disinterest/shyness/intimidation/etc. Look for other IOIs if the eye contact isn't there. Eye contact is indeed one of the most important ones though.
/r/seduction28/07/21 09:40 PM
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Just to jump into this thread, I agree! A girl wants to feel "comfortable." Taking a chick you just met back to a hotel if you're not on vacation or something is a bit sketchy and can come off that way to her. You have to build a ton more comfort with you. That means more interaction and more physical teasing. For example, what do movie trailers do? Tease you, incite you, into watching the full movie. No one wants to go to a movie that gives up the goods during the commercial of the trailer.
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:04 AM
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I promise You don't have to convince me man, i'm just trying to save you from heartache. But you seem dead set on it. Good luck then.
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:49 AM
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Family health issues I had a friend who also lived in Florida, not only was she getting her doctorate, she had family health issues, personal issues and was going through a financial crunch. She STILL made time and spent the money to come see me. hmm maybe/sure Are you only worth a "maybe?" All of your efforts, your hard work, the attention and time and effort you're giving her. That's worth a "Maybe?/sure?" bc the guy she’s seeing is visiting from 2 hours away Now you are simping, that's a big …
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:32 AM
2

Just a random question, if you guys are so into each other how come she hasn't offered to move back to you? Or go to school where you are? Or asked you to move to her? Or at the very least make time to come see you for a weekend or take a mini-vacay to see you? There are a million ways she could have put in the effort to see you. It seems like she isn't as interested as you believed her to be. Really think about it OP, what efforts could she have put fourth but decided not to? If she really want…
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:17 AM
1

Here you go OP!
/r/seduction27/07/21 03:02 AM
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every time one of her friends gets engaged she feels the need to text update me Cause she feels lonely and is seeking attention validation through you. Just to be blunt, that's what it is. Honestly, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. It really does work! You are chasing this girl and validating her with attention but getting nothing in return. This is vicious cycle OP and you must break it. Least you turn into a guy just orbiting her with the slim hopes that you get t…
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:57 AM
1

She’s due to move to another country I would let her go, its my opinion that long distance doesn't work. Even if you manage to seduce her you'll have distance to contend with.
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:33 AM
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She is setting up the excuse to come over and have sex with you. Take it.
/r/seduction26/07/21 11:39 PM
1

You're thinking about this chick wayyy too much. Be happy that you had sex with her and move on. Let her go.
/r/seduction26/07/21 11:33 PM
7

low quality bait
/r/seduction26/07/21 11:10 PM
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Close out the message she sent, keep it simple "No worries, I understand." Then you play the waiting game, she might hit you up, she might not. Either way don't pause your life for her.
/r/seduction26/07/21 10:54 PM
10

If you were sleeping with 2 or 3 other girls right now would you still message her?
/r/seduction26/07/21 10:51 PM
1

8 hours?! Save those mega epic dates for when you two are actually bf/gf. Dates should be 1-2 hours max. All good OP, you learned something. Onto the next!
/r/seduction26/07/21 05:01 AM
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This one is tricky, I've had girls wanting me to initiate and they came back to my place. I've had others want me to go back to theirs. What I've started saying is "Want to get out of her?" Once she answers I let them know where I live (basically how far away in minutes). Typically they agree or suggest theirs if they are closer. The simpler you keep it the better.
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:32 AM
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Nice work OP! Don't forget, getting a girls number is like playing the lottery. Game her up while you are there with her and close that night (if that's what your looking for) for better success.
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:31 AM
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the margin for error on these apps is super thin I agree, it's stupid. I am also bettering my text game but this is what i've learned. Hope it helps. I think I'd have better luck just walking up to a girl I do lol.
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:10 AM
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This is seduction, not a lesson in morality. You are going to win or learn OP. 99% of guys are bad and cringy at this Easy to be bad at something that you have no practice at. The only way to get better is to do it. When you become half-way decent at approaching you are now more successful than 99% of guys. Nothing good in life is easy.
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:00 AM
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you gotta lower your standards. As a man, this is simply bullshit. Go for what you want, the common demoninator in this equation is YOU. The reason why you keep attracting the same type of woman is because of YOU. There is something you are doing (something you are) or the places where you are looking for girls that you wind up with the same types over and over. I was in the exact same boat, what I realized was that I needed to work on myself more and fish in different (higher class) ponds. Noth…
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:56 AM
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This community has grown so much since I joined up years ago. The growth has been incredible and I'm happy to have more people at least lurking on here learning new things. Applying seduction techniques and geniunely disconnecting from the swipe culture to actually go out and talk/flirt with each other like humans. Very good write-up OP, great tips in here as well. Desperation/clinginess is not attractive.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:48 AM
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ehhhh, sort of. Typically only text back the amount she texts you. Don't come off as over eager. She texted you twice in a row, so then you respond in kind. "Nice, Japan is my fav :)" "6 PM Next Sat let's link up 😇" Simple as that.
/r/seduction26/07/21 03:43 AM
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I like this style of FR writeups. Keep it up! The lady with the R8 sounds fun. Hit her up for a ride around town......a few rides...
/r/seduction25/07/21 11:58 PM
2

You are putting a ton of pressure on yourself. You are simply interacting with strangers. Treat it like that and keep trying, you'll get better with time and experience.
/r/seduction25/07/21 11:39 PM
2

Nope, let her go move on. I advise that you do NOT delete the number as she may hit you up in the near future randomly. I just put a little ghost emoji next to their names. I have had multiple girls that have ghosted me hit me up months later and then were down for coming back to my crib. Never get rid of the number.
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:04 AM
1

You're a grown adult, tell her like adults that you would like to have sex like adults do. Let her know that you are done with car hookups. Unless they are her fetish or something, even then still let her know! Worse case scenario tell her that you're getting a hotel for the evening. I had to do that a few times before myself.
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:03 AM
1

I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just think of it as two ships passing in the night. That's how hookups go sometimes..
/r/seduction24/07/21 01:01 AM
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Don't shirtless photo on any dating app. Literally every single guy does this and you get swiped left real quick. No fishing photos, no bathroom selfies, no photos with you and 12 of your friends.
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:42 PM
2

Thats happened to me more than once lol. At least you had the courage to approach!
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:39 PM
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What you have is a scarcity mindset. Start thinking (even if you have to fake it) in abundance mindset. If it doesn't work out with that one chick you have literally millions of others. Keep that in mind and you'll do better.
/r/seduction23/07/21 05:53 PM
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what should I do to make sure things start out well For now a warning, do not think too far ahead with this girl. It's the first time you guys are going to college and people change the second they hit campus for the first time. I'm not saying in a bad way. I mean your life will literally change, college campus is a bubble. Your options (you AND her) will go up exponentially. Nowadays college freshman are not looking to lock down with a relationship right away. There is just too much partying an…
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:52 PM
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A couple of things to digest here. The first, you must demand respect from others. No man should be threatening you from the jump. Sometimes you have to say "let's take this outside" or something. At least put off the vibe that you will defend yourself if necessary. Secondly, girls like that love the drama. Once she said that the guy simping after her was at the club it would have been better to stop talking to her. You never want to get sucked into that. Not saying you did the wrong thing, just…
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:23 PM
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I was writing a long response to this but i'll keep it simple. OP, she isn't interested and she completely lacked putting in effort for you. Value yourself and bail on her. Onto the next! Yeah there wasnt any chemistry Sometimes it happens! Keep trying! I should've showed more intent from the beginning Big no there, she told you exactly how the date was going to go when you saw her show up (20 min late/wearing work clothes). In the future end the date right then and there. I've had this happen t…
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:28 PM
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say that they look cute Girls know that they look cute, be specific. What about them made you go up to them? You don't have to be pervy or disgusting with it either just let them know the specifics. "The way the sun was catching your catching your clear skin lured me over here.." It also helps to invite them to do something fun with you, if they are playing frisbee maybe ask them to throw you one. Or offer to play with them. The beach is for relaxing and having a good time, so for sure do that. …
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:22 PM
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but I’m afraid of the baggage One thing my father taught me that sticks with me to this day is that sex is never "Free" you will PAY. Be it your time, your money or otherwise (baggage). If the baggage isn't worth the sex then you should bail. She has crazy ex bfs and 3 kids she has to take care of No way, it's time to bail. That situation is far above and beyond sketchy. I have my own priorities to take care of You are #1 never forget that.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:17 PM
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I've only read a bit of that book but it's a good starter to get primed for social interactions and maintaining good social connections. Nothing beats actually doing it but the book is helpful. If you have the time to read it I absolutely recommend you read it.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:15 PM
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Dating is amoral There is absolutely nothing about that statement that is seductive. A major part of seduction is being true to what you want. OP does not want to be with this girl. Therefore he needs to be upfront and honest with his intentions. A confident MAN states his intentions. OP sees no future with this chick not even a sexual relationship. Therefore there is no reason to continue the relationship. If OP only wants sex, then he should still be upfront about his intentions. It will save …
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:08 PM
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You need to be upfront and honest with your intentions. You may hurt her feelings but you need to brace yourself for that. Each day you wait is an extra day she gets led on and an extra day she gets even more attached.
/r/seduction23/07/21 02:32 PM
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You're making it hard for yourself, give her some solid eye contact then. If you don't know what to say, just give her a simple hello and some seductive eye contact. She'll stare back, giggle or something, then you laugh too and go from there. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself OP. Enjoy the moment.
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:01 AM
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Then just tease them until they give it up or kiss you. You can also change topics. If they get that mad and threaten to bail, let them. Onto the next.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:59 AM
2

If she is willing to go out on a date with you while having a busted knee she is REALLY into you. Just invite her over for a movie and a light drink or something. She knows whats up. It's the third date OP... Gonna bring snacks a Bluetooth speaker and a nice blanket for us. I personally would skip all this BS. That's BF/GF crap, it's cute sure. But she said she wanted to keep things casual. So just keep it simple. Invite her over, get her comfortable, use protection. Enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:56 AM
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What has worked for me (literally each and every time) when we get to the age question I try to guess theirs first and I always jokingly come up with whatever number. Sometimes i'm serious, when they ask mine I say something along the lines of "I'll tell you if you kiss me~" with a smirk or a wink or something dumb. Just keep it light. I save the age stuff till when i'm ready or about to close. That leads into the kiss which typically goes well then it's off to the races lol.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:54 AM
3

At that point you will by association get more attention from women. That's how you use money to get women. Not by spending it on them and tricking it all off.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:52 AM
2

Dress well, invest the rest of the money to make MORE money.
/r/seduction23/07/21 03:48 AM
2

Be very cautious before you pay thousands upon thousands of dollars for bootcamp style training. If you are up for the research I recommend finding someone local and not as well known as what may be suggested here. Simply because you have to remember some of these dudes are running a business first. Your success is second.
/r/seduction22/07/21 09:26 PM
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Firstly, PoF is terribad. Get off of there immediately, Hinge/OKC/Bumble should be your mainstays. Secondly, try looking into "hooks" girls love talking about themselves. Ask them questions about things in their photos, things they've said, things they're wearing. When they answer a question or go into a story use hooks from that into something else.
/r/seduction22/07/21 09:17 PM
5

If it's anonymous always assume there is a dude on the other side....or a dog. Nowadays you can get pics of anyone/thing and "appear" to be a girl.
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:45 PM
5

Nowadays you gotta be careful who you send pictures of your rod to. It may be used against you in the future if the chick is out of her mind or something. Always allow for plausible deniability. Also, if she is sending you all these pics, why not just invite her over for some ughh...movies?
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:41 PM
2

Short answer NO! At MOST you send her a bulge pic or something. Us guys need to stop sending dick pics and videos. Make sure your face isn't in it as well.
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:38 PM
8

Yup, running into those girls that you "click" with is rare. But when you do, literally every move is the right move.
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:03 PM
7

With the right one, the true you is the right move.
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:01 PM
3

You should look like the photos you take. However I highly recommend paying some money or whatever to get some professional candid photos of yourself to use. Remember, you have to catch their attention and their interest in a couple of seconds. A topless bathroom photo of you, or you holding a fish or being drunk with your friends is not going to do that. As long as you aren't straight up catfishing, I.E posting thin photos of yourself then you show up really overweight you should be fine.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:26 PM
2

As a man I like it when a girl that's approaching me actually put in some sort of effort. Like her style of dress, her attitude (a good one) and she helps carry the conversation when I run out of things to ask or if there are awkward silences. The easier she makes it for us to interact the better. I also appreciate it if she actually shows interest and doesn't play too much hard to get/ignore me. If this is the initial approach I like it when they compliment me, a general compliment works perfec…
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:21 PM
1

It depends on the girl, it can vary wildly. My advice, avoid girls with low self esteem. Remember to value yourself above everything else first! YOU are the prize and as a man you must have standards and a code.
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:02 PM
1

When i've done this it was all in America so I believe it would be the same but there indeed is an added language barrier. The good news is, woman are woman so the general rules should still apply.
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:43 PM
2

Typically in this type of situation, you would get your wife to "pick up" the girl for you. When you guys go out, you are the scout and she does the heavy lifting for the most part.
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:36 PM
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College campuses are EXCELLENT places to meet people. Make new friends/acquaintances and go to parties, you'd be surprised. I learned most of game while in college. It's how I got good cold approaching girls initially. Everyone is in the same environment and open, it's a bubble of "openness." On a college campus it doesn't matter where you approach just go for it or be approachable. Don't be a creep and obviously read the social cues/mood in the process.
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:34 PM
1

Very polarizing replies in this post. I'll say this, like it or not OP is right in her tips. It's what I do and it DOES indeed work. I agree it's frustrating and dumb, but that's how we guys think (logical) girls think (emotionally) and if you read these tips it's all based on emotion. Which makes sense, this stuff works fellas. The compliments thing is also very important. Think of the "why" you are complimenting her. She KNOWS she is hot/sexy/cute whatever. She wants to hear what MAKES her tha…
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:12 PM
6

It happens, like you said a summer fling. At least you had her, move on to new pastures OP. Don't think about "what" the situation was, just move on.
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:51 AM
2

Depends on the DJ but i would just check the vibe of each. Most of them don't have a cover to get in. You gotta explore, feel it out.
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:20 AM
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It's likely blowing up in your face because you are expecting it to blow up in your face. You attract the vibe you are giving off and if you lack the confidence in yourself to have a healthy relationship/convo with women then that's exactly what you're going to get. You are in the upper tiers of dudes. You already know that, start acting like it too! Put off that energy and stop bowing down to women. Be a leader, take charge. Girls are going to reject you, some may even laugh. That's just part o…
/r/seduction21/07/21 04:10 AM
2

You are doing really solid! The best way to get back into the dating game is to leap in head first. To start with be honest with what you're looking for. Are you looking for a couple of hookups then a serious GF? Or just the GF part? Or you are just having fun and hooking up as much as you can. First find out what you want and be honest with yourself. The second step is get out there and approach. You gotta keep your skills up, and if you're a bit rusty the only way to improve is to get out ther…
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:41 AM
2

The bars closest to the McDonalds on that side of Adam's Morgan, but typically things on Florida Ave/U-Street. Dupont Circle is your speed as well in terms of age.
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:30 AM
1

At least she was nice about it. Drop her and move on.
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:27 AM
3

POF is absolutely the bottom of the barrel trash in terms of Dating sites/apps. Try Hinge! Hell, I'd go back to Ok cupid before shitty ass POF. get off of there OP. Loads of bots on that too.
/r/seduction21/07/21 03:25 AM
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Bingo
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:49 PM
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get the number and move to the next bar. I recommend not going with this method. If you are already talking up the girl and things are going well why leave? Think of it this way, numbers are worthless. They are likely to ghost you anyway and nothing beats in person communication. Once you get the number, if things are going well keep talking and keep the vibe going if you're having a good time.
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:41 PM
1

Oh yea totally experienced this before! The way I handle it is very cordial, I am still pleasant, I simply thank them for showing up and maybe even converse for a few minutes. Then I just let them know that I don't want to waste their time and I feel as if this wouldn't work out. Then I bail, takes about 10 minutes or so. Some dating app advice: If they take photos that are only close-ups of their face or of their friends assume they are overweight. Photoshop is INSANE nowadays, always look for …
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:56 PM
3

For me it's: Not feeling bad about being assertive, people instantly respect me a ton more it's crazy Being "Kind" not "Nice" thanks Style OG Dressing better, changed my whole wardrobe...AGAIN Carrying myself with pride Moving with purpose Invest financially
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:07 PM
1

hmm, that's kind of a weird thing to bring up when you first talk to someone. For me that is a red flag. Like others have said, change the topic. Keep it light, flirty, seductive.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:02 PM
1

Yep, you got it.
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:44 PM
3

Raise your self confidence a little, the gym and leadership training can help with that. Secondly, the shotgun method gets you to talk to a lot of girls but doesn't produce much result most of the time simply because you are just spraying and praying. Screen the girls better before hand, get a read on them before you approach, then make your move. It will save you time in the long run. Other than that, keep at it OP. Don't be disheartened, at least you are trying to do something about your situa…
/r/seduction15/07/21 04:28 AM
2

The body language usually comes after opening the set The body language is actually occurring LONG before you talk to the girl. She KNOWS you're checking her out and more often than not knows you're about to approach. Get good at reading body language and learning the non-verbal signals. It will save you a ton of time. check out some books or videos on body language, they teach you a ton on how to pick up on someone's mood. Their openness and their attraction to you. It's extremely helpful.
/r/seduction15/07/21 03:10 AM
1

You'll never succeed in life without taking risks. Just how it is, take a risk and if you get embarrassed it sucks but you're still alive. Just keep pushing is all.
/r/seduction15/07/21 02:22 AM
2

Sometimes you can't save yourself from embarrassment. Comes with the territory, just keep on dancing and having a good time for YOU.
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:52 AM
3

Eh, I would keep them in there. But for my system I have their number and an emoji to go along with their "status" for me. A chili pepper or flame if they are "hot" as in they are actively texting/talking/sleeping with me and a ghost if they've ghosted. Dating app girls are the only ones that get emojis in my contacts so it keeps things simple. You don't wanna be in a situation where a girl that's ghosted hits you up for a booty call. I've had that happen but had her number deleted. Freaking fac…
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:39 PM
2

Nice OP
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:33 PM
1

That's why you get a nice large bed that has a SOFT frame lol. I've never missed my dude.
/r/seduction14/07/21 09:28 PM
1

Be wary about that one, cats are seen as feminine so a girls reaction will vary. When I say talking to them I mean chat them up for a bit, over the course of a day or two. Don't sit there talking to them for weeks about nothing. Talk to them about whatever for a few days then let them know you're interested and would like to take them out. Guys often get caught in the trap of becoming these girl's penpals.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:35 AM
4

Just start dancing, they typically form like a circle around you then just dance with one of them.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:22 AM
1

She locks eyes with you, points her feet in your direction, her posture "opens" up a bit, she uncrosses her arms, spreads her arms or uncrosses her legs. She "prunes" her hair or makeup. Laughs more with you around or at your jokes. Brushes up against you when she has plenty of room to go around, touches you "inadvertently" Stuff like that
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:20 AM
5

Have REALLY good pictures, get a professional photographer if you can. Dress well, have photos of you doing activities with friends. In the text part of your profile show that you have some form of a personality. Show you have ambitions, direction and a purpose. No fishing photos, No topless photos in your bathroom mirror, no mirror selfies in general (your mirrors are usually dirty as shit and there is some crust on the sink my dude lol), no photos of you being sloppy drunk or you with your dog…
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:17 AM
5

The gym is for gains. But if you must shit where you make gains, be sure that she is throwing you "choosing" energy. if she is then just introduce yourself. Don't make it harder than it needs to be.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:13 AM
4

It's not that "you're fucked" it's more of you are losing your chances. Girls naturally shit test guys they are interested in. In my opinion, the only response to a shit test is to agree and amplify. If you fail it for whatever reason make sure you pass the next one.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:11 AM
2

Pick her up, literally sweep her off her feet and take her to my bedroom. Then throw her on my bed. Been doing that for years and it never get's old, it's way too much fun.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:09 AM
1

Solo-game is playing on hard mode but with time VERY doable. It works great for me after years of practice. Some tips: Be open, talk to everyone, maintain a confident posture, buy yourself a drink. Actually go somewhere where YOU will have fun. Again, talk to everyone.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:05 AM
1

Super late to the party but yea pink.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:02 AM
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A lot to digest here but for starters. Screen better. You are using the shotgun method which does indeed work. But it requires talking to damn near every girl that you have even moderate interest in. Learn to screen better and read body language when you do these approaches. It will raise your success rate and save you all of that wasted energy.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:01 AM
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If a girl is interested, she will make time for you. If she doesn't show, she wasn't interested. If she doesn't show AND she doesn't tell you ahead of time that is extremely disrespectful. Drop her and move on.
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:12 PM
2

Up to you, but keep the suggestion just a suggestion you have to be heading to her place for "something else besides sex" so she doesn't feel slutty. It could be anything, a drink, after party, listening to music, making out. Anything.
/r/seduction11/07/21 07:16 PM
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disgust face Oh that's nothing, wait until you have a group of girls laugh in your face. You'll be alright OP, onward and upward!
/r/seduction11/07/21 06:33 AM
3

Yes, the way I do it is if we are making out or something I just say something along the lines of "You wanna get outta here?" and when she agrees I tell her where I live, if she is closer then we just go to her place. It's either or. The simpler the better.
/r/seduction11/07/21 06:32 AM
8

I don’t know if I’d be comfortable yet Nope, bail on her. Stop texting her and move on. do not tolerate that BS.
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:23 AM
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She’ll text me for a while and then just leave me on delivered. Attention for girls, is like sex for men. She is hitting you up when she is bored or one of her other hookups didn't pan out. Thus she hits you up since you are sure fire going to respond and give her attention and validation. I’ve had a friend over for the past couple days so I’ve been away from the phone. I'm sure she did... Part of me feels like she’s iffy about me She isn't iffy about you OP, you are an attention giver. Not tryi…
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:00 AM
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You have a "staying power" issue which I still have, however the difference being I figured out one of the problems, that being, sexual tension. You had fun with them and had a great date but you didn't present yourself as a sexual partner. Just a friend, at best a friend to talk to and check in on maybe. The only way to build sexual tension is eye contact, physical touch and sometimes just plain ol' talking about sex. In her emotional mind you need to qualify as someone she is able to safely ha…
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:57 AM
1

Tldr; where do you find girls? Food shopping at grocery stores, like Whole Foods, Wegmans, Trader Joes. Places like that. Also out and about in the more busier parts of town. Typically the more wealthy areas of towns with the designer brands. Local parks that have scenic views/etc.
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:33 AM
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You being nervous is just a survival reaction. It's just our bodies trying to protect itself from physical harm. But the thing is, your body/survival part of your brain doesn't understand one thing. Context. What is the WORST she can do to you? She can say "No" that's it. remind yourself that interacting with her won't physically harm you. You are safe, the worst she can say is "No" once you accept that, approaching becomes much easier.
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:31 AM
3

This subreddit is a good start, I recommend reading "The Art of Seduction" and "3% Man"
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:14 AM
2

Yes I am! I'm much closer to DC now but if you look at my FRs from about a year or so ago I was in Fells Point, Hampden and around Baltimore.
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:12 AM
4

10's also fart.
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:26 PM
1

Wow these are some BIG FACTS!
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:21 PM
2

She kept telling me that I am too touchy/pushy but I didn't calibrate What did her body language tell you? Shall I text her No, she already ghosted. Onto the next.
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:20 PM
4

Pretty common, don't think about it too hard.
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:13 PM
11

Personally, screw perception. Meeting new people, It's how we interact with one another. Humans are naturally social creatures. How the hell else are you supposed to find a potential mate? Sure you can use the internet and dating sites but we shouldn't rely on solely that. Absolutely be respectful when you approach, no cat calls or dumb shit like that. But don't be afraid to talk to someone you're interested in. If she takes offense to you presenting yourself as a potential partner then she was …
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:11 PM
3

Girls have a tedenecy to give lots of signals but us guys are too dense to pick it up most of the time. Learning seduction helps open ourselves up to these "choosing" signals. For example, girls who give you good eye contact, smile excessively at you, giggle at your obviously stupid joke, brush up against you when they had plenty of room to get around you (especially in the clubs) and finally body language. I personally believe that body language is the most important as there are more than a fe…
/r/seduction10/07/21 10:08 PM
13

BAIL run for the hills OP, run and don't look back.
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:34 PM
1

One of you has to see the other in person, right now all you're giving her is attention. Someone's gotta make the move to get physical.
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:38 AM
1

Not really, just stop emotionally investing so much, your life should be full enough without a girl giving you approval. Yes, sometimes you do go hang out with a friend. Do what you want, be happy.
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:36 AM
1

Why do bears shit in the woods? 🤷🏾‍♂️ They just do! lol
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:46 AM
1

As others have said, just relax you're good. Maybe she got busy and forgot, maybe she went on a date or something. You're good though I don't see anything wrong.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:42 AM
1

How can I avoid become too caught up in my head and just focus on being expressive and fun? Stop caring about what she thinks of you, simple as that. Just stop caring. Become outcome independent.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:37 AM
3

I've done this and it can work if you screen them properly first. But keep in mind a lot of these "REAL STREET COLD APPROACH WITH F CLOSE AND VIDEOOOOO~!!!!~" are fake as hell and the girls are in on it. Not saying it can't work, just understand your subject before you approach them and say some shit like that.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:36 AM
5

Yep, ignore her dude. Girls that do this shit are NOT worth your time investment. Trust.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:34 AM
15

Im not texting her for 90 days and focusing on myself and other girls Change 90 to 365. She blocked you cause she wasn't interested or didn't respect you enough to tell you what the problem was up front. She is playing games for your attention. Just bail dude.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:11 AM
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Coffee place, pull her from there. If you try to date at your crib from the get go she will come up with an excuse to say no. Unless she is 100% down with that.
/r/seduction10/07/21 02:03 AM
1

We're non exclusive Men hold the key to relationships, if you want to date this girl then I suggest you let her know. If not, when she goes off to college she will be "interacting" with a lot of OTHER men. So make your position known or prepare yourself to let her go. You also seem to have a ton of interests and hobbies which is good, keep doing those things. If she initiates wanting to see you then absolutely go for it. Just don't be up under her ass all the time without her initiating.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:40 PM
2

Light touches on the shoulder and brushes against her hand.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:38 PM
3

Answer is simple, you need more practice. More approaches, more attempts. Start Kino and good eye contact. You are on the right path. Girls are flaking after you meet them because you did not build enough rapport with them. You do this with eye contact and kino (among other things).
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:28 PM
1

You're a MAN dude, take charge, lead. Plan the next date and tell her the day and time.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:22 PM
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Like, my heart hurts when she's not around You need hobbies and other things to keep you busy. Early on in the relationship, depending on the girl, this could back fire. Try not to smother her from the get go. This is likely coming from a place of scarcity as well. Now that you have abundance with this girl in your life you are clinging to it and doing too much to soon. Imagine you are in the desert and you've been in this desert for awhile. You're thirsty, dying and need water. You find an Oasi…
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:18 PM
10

Gym too!
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:56 PM
2

Big facts
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:55 PM
2

You should escalate with her friend, here is the thing. When a girl asks you "if you like her friend" it's because the girl already expressed interest to her friend in the first place. She KNOWS where this other girl stands on the side of the fence in regards to you! Girls tell each other EVERYTHING. Literally every little detail, BF's, sex, interests, whatever. She already knows but was asking you to confirm for her friend. Since that is now goofed up, you should escalate with the girl you're i…
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:45 PM
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Make them "Comfortable" you are a safe person to be around and they already trust you. So make them more physically comfortable with you. It's called "Kino," but it does work. Light physical touches here and there. Maintain amazing sexy eye contact. Look up triangle gaze and apply it! Good luck OP.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:41 PM
2

simply stop following a script. I can't blame you for doing that with text game though. I've never understood text game and really don't care for it. If this is the case for you, simply use texting to set up the next meetup or call. The script probably works too! But looks like some girls catch onto it and then call you out.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:39 PM
15

Nice
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:36 PM
12

Everything in moderation, try using the good ol imagination if you need to get one out.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:36 PM
1

Tomboys tend to appreciate guys being more direct. So you should be fine. However as others have said, confirm this chick actually exists.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:34 PM
1

She was leading the conversation to dating because she is interested in you. When you reach out, refer to it as a date but keep it low pressure. Girls don't like to feel pressured.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:33 PM
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OP you are way too hard on yourself. Just have fun with this stop focusing so much on sex.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:37 AM
1

This is another consideration. Lot's of catfish overseas OP
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:57 AM
1

encourages men to be authentic with women by connecting with them Depends on the girl in particular the mood and the overall vibe. Lots of factors to consider. There have been times where I was super direct with women and times I was very indirect. Depends on your natural style of game and you personally. My natural game is "indirect" but sometimes I can be authentic and simply go for it.
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:55 AM
2

Honestly OP it doesn't look good, but see her plans for next weekend. Hit her up next Monday and try to make plans for the following Friday or Saturday. If she is still flakey or unresponsive, respect yourself enough to let her go. Don't even say anything back if she starts acting like that. It means she isn't interested.
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:52 AM
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Well a couple of issues here, the first is. Are you planning to see her in person anytime soon? If not, you're wasting your time. The other thing is, just talk and engage with her. She is obviously into you, I have a thing for tomboys as well. They tend to be much more straightforward than your standard girl. Just talk to her and be moderately direct with your intentions.
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:48 AM
1

Depends on your body type and the weather, but the short answer is a big fat NO. First date you gotta peacock a little bit, just a bit not much. Wear some decent gear, decent shoes that are CLEAN. No one wants to see a dudes busted feet on the first date. Assuming you're gonna wear flip flops or something lol. Wear a watch at the very least and a tiny bit of cologne, have good eye contact and you should be good. Just as a quick edit: Try some casual wear from express, that stuff fits me perfectl…
/r/seduction09/07/21 12:38 AM
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he won’t let it end I mean if it's just sex let him know that y'all had some good times but you're moving on. It's that simple. women control access to sex Men control access to relationships Stop having sex with the dude and find another, should be simple for you.
/r/seduction08/07/21 09:00 PM
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Go someplace where you can actually talk, like a coffeeshop or a dinner spot or something. Maintain good eye contact, take a shower and dress well before you go. Enjoy yourself, don't be a kiss ass and ask her questions. Try to keep your speaking style open ended and use her hooks when she says something to expand the convo and keep it going.
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:48 PM
2

She asked me how my dating life was "Please flirt with me" We should go back to our old happy hour place sometime. "Would you like to go out on a date with me?" Here is where you have to man up OP. Let her know that you would like to take her out on a date. If she rejects you then that's your answer move on. Beating around the bush with these kinds of things is situational sure but she is obviously interested. Just move on in. If she isn't done you saved yourself some time.
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:36 PM
6

he calls a dude and asks if she can come over? Just smoked my weed then left lol That's disrespectful as hell. Move on OP, respect yourself more and move on.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:57 PM
6

Oh well, onward and upward!
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:56 PM
2

This keeps them on the hook so to speak for those slow nights when I don’t feel like putting in any effort and just want to fuck. I don’t feel remorse for this This is indeed a part of seduction. But my question is, is karma ever a concern? Depends, personally I believe in Karma so I try not to knowingly screw people over. If I were in your position I would be honest with them.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:14 PM
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In a description about me, I wouldn’t say I’m super attractive, more average looking Nothing wrong with average looking girls, it's how they carry themselves. Do you come off as feminine? Are you hygienic? Are you dressed cute? Guys have a very logical brain and these are the things that we subconsciously look for. If you look like you take basic care of yourself and made the attempt to look attractive we are likely to talk to you. Being friendly helps, but being overly friendly to a guy you're …
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:09 PM
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someone can relate You were literally me a few years back. This feeling happens when you don't have abundance. Even if you have to fake it always have something to do (sometimes literally). Never put all your eggs in one basket with anything, let alone girls. It's all good though OP, take this as a learning experience.
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:15 PM
3

Life is short, when you die the world keeps on spinning as if you never existed. You gotta make your mark on this reality somehow so you might as well say "fuck it" do what you want, have a blast doing it and take chances.
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:42 PM
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I’m not a particularly attractive guy Doesn't matter I need game more than ever to communicate my value As a man you inherently have value, your stock also goes up as you age (typically). Increased income, home, car, can provide for yourself, etc. simping is ineffective Not only is it ineffective, simping too hard is actually risky to your health and the stability of your life! It's not "low investment." The point of focusing on yourself and making sure you do better is to not only get you to fe…
/r/seduction03/07/21 09:41 PM
9

Not at all, it's called "The Game" for a reason. Everyone has their respective reasons to want to learn seduction.
/r/seduction29/06/21 10:14 PM
1

Back in the crush-days I ended up pretty much in her friendzone. OP you're the rebound dude. If you just want to smash and move on go for it. If you want to actually date this chick I would be very careful about her intentions.
/r/seduction29/06/21 10:12 PM
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I look at it in a similar way as well. Also add some value to yourself. THEY missed out on an amazing person. Oh well! The other part to it is, think of rejection and being rejected like flavors on a soda machine. I am feeling like I want sprite today, doesn't mean I hate coca-cola or hate Dr. Pepper. It's just that today I want Sprite.
/r/seduction22/01/21 05:00 PM
1

Cold approaching a girl by just walking up and telling her you noticed her and that you want to get to know her or talk to her more (Direct) Seeing a cute girl at a bar or something and making a comment about her drink or an observation about something happening nearby to just start a "random" conversation (Indirect)
/r/seduction22/01/21 04:58 PM
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Approach types varies by person. Indirect works best for me.
/r/seduction22/01/21 01:54 AM
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They don't put in effort, they start getting lazy, or they are too submissive.
/r/seduction22/01/21 01:54 AM
1

PUA and seduction are two different things
/r/seduction22/01/21 12:10 AM
2

I would never cut them loose, I would just cut contact. Set the date, then leave it alone till then. If they're down good, if they flake then whatever. If you cut contact completely and hit you up in the future (which they typically do) you don't have their number and it makes things awkward when they text lol. Girls usually do this cause they have other dates with other dudes set up and are getting those out the way first or you are on the backburner so you don't get prioritized. If a girl is i…
/r/seduction21/01/21 11:17 PM
1

Nah, that's just bad physical compatibility. It happens, it's shit, nothing you can do about it. Happens to the best of us.
/r/seduction21/01/21 10:48 PM
1

I have been in a similar boat, i'm attractive but have "no game" at least that's what I thought at the time. I used to make that joke when I was flirting with girls that I had no game and they seemed to like it. Essentially just enjoy yourself in a convo. Talk more about the girl's interests, let her do the talking ask her questions find out more about her and talk about those topics. To help with nice guy syndrome, try not to focus on pleasing her so much, enjoy the moment and go for what you w…
/r/seduction21/01/21 10:47 PM
1

People (especially girls) love talking about themselves. Ask them more about themselves, learn what they're into. Just have fun with it!
/r/seduction21/01/21 10:37 PM
0

I would leave that one alone, with dating apps you gotta escalate or at the very least have solid conversations. It should feel easy to you. If there was some convo and no touching then I would say you guys are a bad match for each other. No big deal, onto the next.
/r/seduction21/01/21 09:19 PM
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If you are pursuing a woman you are doing it wrong. When she is truly interested it will be mostly effortless. Guys lead, girls chase (typically). If you have to bend over backwards to plan an outing together or keep a conversation going, have enough value in yourself to take a step back and give her some space, even leave all together and cut contact. There are thousands of other girls out there willing to work with you and be effortless with you. Don't stress yourself out over one chick that i…
/r/seduction17/01/21 12:29 AM
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Use texting to schedule in person meetups/dates. Don't rely solely on texting to build attraction with her. Assume that she is talking to 3 additional guys at the same time. Don't get so emotionally invested so early.
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:56 PM
2

Nice work OP!
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:55 PM
1

Pics of you doing stuff, enjoying life, getting fit, animals. The usual BS you would put on a Tinder profile just ad Infinitum
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:49 PM
4

Great start, lots of room for improvement. Keep getting back on that horse and move forward!~
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:48 PM
3

This is a good take away from the book 3% man. Similar to as you said, the first is to pull back then let her reach out within a week. If no contact ping her once. If she flakes again let it go until she pings you. After that drop her all together. Would like to reiterate. IF SHE IS INTO YOU, SHE WILL MAKE TIME!
/r/seduction16/01/21 04:42 PM
1

Stop caring so much, don't worry about fucking up. Be funny, be controversial say something sexy.
/r/seduction13/01/21 11:28 PM
2

In my experience, the best way to "seed" is to build attraction. It's easiest for me to do via eye contact and the triangle gaze method. Works extremely well. Try doing that and build some attraction then give her an excuse to hang with you. "Want to watch a movie with me?" "Want to come over and play some music?" pretty much anything at that point after you've established physical attraction.
/r/seduction13/01/21 05:04 PM
2

damn dude, great explanation.
/r/seduction01/12/20 03:17 PM
1

How do I stop being the shy guy? Stop giving a fuck. Seriously, the worst someone can say to you is "No" Just go out and talk, something, anything. Just move.
/r/seduction01/12/20 07:09 AM
3

You have just learned to start loving yourself and being appreciative of what you have. This in itself, is an attractive trait.
/r/seduction01/12/20 07:08 AM
1

Do you need this job? If you do, don't shit where you eat. If you don't, then go get lunch together on your break.
/r/seduction01/12/20 06:54 AM
3

Pretty much my college experience in a nutshell, haven't been able to put it into words before. Nice job OP! I don't agree with all of this but I agree with most of it.
/r/seduction25/09/20 09:47 PM
1

Escalate, try a bit of Kino. Touch her while talking, maybe brush your shoulder against hers. Be playful, always assume attraction!
/r/seduction25/09/20 09:01 PM
1

Get her comfortable with your presence, that's typically accomplished by hanging out with her. Just go on date somewhere or generally hang out with her. Once you have some comfort with her have her come over for drinks or a movie. In college it's a bit easier since there is so much to do naturally. You're meeting people the whole time anyway so you should be fine. Just have fun.
/r/seduction25/09/20 08:59 PM
1

She’s probably just stringing me along with the sexual texts. Attention for girls is like sex for men.
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:31 PM
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I would bail, girls that are interested will make time for you. If you already did the do and she is being this much of a pain to hang out again then she isn't interested in you. There is a difference in "chase me a little" and "omg why is this guy still texting me" unfortunately this is the latter. This was a one time hook up, move on OP.
/r/seduction24/09/20 06:38 PM
1

Abundance mentality. It's always good to have more than 1 option.
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:07 PM
8

This is completely wrong, sure good looks might get you through the door but there is way more to seduction than good looks.
/r/seduction24/09/20 05:02 PM
2

If she is interested in you, she WILL make time for you. In this case OP, move on.
/r/seduction02/09/20 11:50 PM
8

This is one of those "above and beyond" posts. Great work OP! I will enjoy reading this more than once!
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:49 PM
2

Thats good! It's a great start to valuing yourself!
/r/seduction31/08/20 08:19 PM
2

Doesn't seem like much from what you stated. I would ignore, also she is married. So off limits
/r/seduction31/08/20 05:36 AM
3

Wait until level 1 like you did before. No reason to give yourself another barrier to entry. Focus on the personal health of yourself and those around you, then once it's safe go for it again. Also remember, girls like sex too. Be sure to be on sites like tinder and bumble to up your chances. With the pandemic there's been an obvious increase in users.
/r/seduction31/08/20 05:20 AM
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Nothing crazy strong and don't bathe yourself in it. Basically don't smell like body odor and you're good. I've been on dates with girls I was planning on sleeping with, but they smelled like BO. A complete turn off.
/r/seduction26/08/20 06:10 PM
1

Nice!
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:29 AM
5

That is an inner game issue. If you think you're too thin, then do what you can to bulk up. Or at least work out to get a bit swole if able. You can't change your height, so you best come to terms with it and love who you are.
/r/seduction26/08/20 01:49 AM
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Doesn't matter, the girls that say it does aren't worth your time. In my experience even the ones that say it does matter to them break their own rules for the right guy with the right confidence.
/r/seduction26/08/20 01:43 AM
3

Always assume interest.
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:49 PM
1

Maybe theres a reason. But if you just want to have a decent convo, look into open hooks. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:37 PM
1

I think you understand my point :)
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:33 PM
3

I use to deal with that, still do to an extent. Just remember, you can't change the past. Something happened, it's now outside your control. You have to move forward. It's all about learning to let go.
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:32 PM
1

Remember that girls run on emotions, cater to her emotions. Her: "How are you?" OP: "TERRIBLE!!" Her: "Woah why?!" OP: "Theres a bottle of wine i have that has a cork in it. I have no clue how to open it, debating smashing the bottle. This sucks!!" You'll illicit a laugh or something else to continue the conversation. Convos don't have to be serious. Just talk about bullshit and raise some emotions, good emotions preferably, but any emotional response would be good given the situation.
/r/seduction25/08/20 09:30 PM
1

Why are you freaking out? I flirted with plenty of my TAs back in college. Happens all the time. Just leave it, if she never messaged you she probably isn't interested. All good, move on.
/r/seduction25/08/20 07:24 PM
2

As long as you can talk to her and get to know her anything is fine really. I typically go out to a cafe that we can chill at. If I think the date is gonna be boring then I pick an activity.
/r/seduction25/08/20 06:05 PM
2

I have yes, girls don't like flaky guys regardless of the reason. I mean no one really likes flakes in general so this one makes sense. To keep them interested I stick to the schedule I set and continue to lead an interesting life, with or without them. You really gotta set and keep the dates you create. The rules are unfair and not in the guy's favor. But that's the game.
/r/seduction25/08/20 04:27 AM
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When i learned this i really felt like i had a magical power for a few months. It is insanely powerful, I suggest all men learn this and use this tool carefully. Once you master this gaze you can pretty much do whatever.
/r/seduction25/08/20 04:00 AM
1

Don't do that shit. Leave her alone and move on. You keep stalking her stuff because it's what you're familiar with. It's time to move on OP, let the past go.
/r/seduction24/08/20 08:33 PM
2

For transitioning it should be natural as you escalate. Making out on a couch can be uncomfortable, she's gonna want to go with you into your room anyway by then. What I typically do while kissing/petting/touching for a bit I get up and lead her by the hand to my room. I typically don't say a word, communicate with your actions. Once you're in the bedroom you're pretty much good to go so at that point you can close the door. However be sure not to lock it.
/r/seduction24/08/20 05:54 PM
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I’d say forget overthinking all this shit As an avid poster here, i say this all the time to newcomers. Just put yourself out there. Forget all the technique to start with, then as you learn and improve you can add the rest. It gets better with time and practice as with all things.
/r/seduction24/08/20 04:25 PM
5

Sometimes you have to go through a thousand "No's" to get that one "Yes!"
/r/seduction24/08/20 06:58 AM
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His booty well has run dry as such he went into desperation mode and started blowing up your phone because he obviously has a shot with you. It's not a bad thing, it's just how guys are. Most girls get turned off by this kind of behavior which makes sense. The booty well, always runs dry eventually. Remember that lads. Some guys also want what they can't have. So this is another variable.
/r/seduction24/08/20 05:57 AM
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It's absolutely possible. Just remember a few things. You can never go back to the way things "were" with her. So throw that right out the window. Be prepared to have your heart broken all over again. Not saying that it will happen, but you must be prepared. Remember, she is your ex for a reason. Respect that, and understand what it means. If you're willing to accept the risks then go for it. As far as escalation and everything else, it will happen naturally but just escalate as you would any ot…
/r/seduction23/08/20 06:46 AM
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Find another, what you're doing now is having oneitis simply because of your scarcity of women/hobbies. find another girl or get back into your hobbies/bettering yourself.
/r/seduction23/08/20 06:37 AM
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My text game needs work as well. What has helped me was respond with the same cadence that she has. Keep the proper tempo. She sends a couple, you send a couple or one, then you send one. Simply back off, live your life and do your thing. If she hits you up great, if not, you should have been doing your own thing and talking to other girls anyway.
/r/seduction23/08/20 06:34 AM
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Kinda interesting to listen to. Loads of seduction stuff in here. She talks a lot about how he looked at her and the tension they had. Extremely important! Very good tips about having sex to, just gotta be yourself and relax.
/r/seduction21/08/20 02:18 AM
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Obviously yes, but the question is she wants a BF or a FWB? Just be honest with what you want from her and then go for it. Don't make it complicated.
/r/seduction20/08/20 08:33 PM
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Could be any distance, i've personally done it from all distances up close and kinda far away. Like 8 feet or so.
/r/seduction18/08/20 09:35 PM
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Cuddle with her while watching the movie or just get inside her personal space a bit. A small touch of the shoulder, or your shoulder touching hers. It doesn't take much, also eye contact. Build some sexual energy.
/r/seduction18/08/20 07:02 PM
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It means that she knows she's hot in that dress. What about that dress on her makes her look good. Better yet, tease her about it. Instead of a compliment. Like every single dude she's ever known would send her, be different, make her feel something emotionally. Be controversial if needed. Girl: Sends sexy pic Guy: "Is this the part where i send my PP?" Girl: "lol ewww, what's wrong with you 😂" Guy: "Heh, just messing with ya. The design on that dress looks nice, makes your legs pop! 😍"
/r/seduction18/08/20 05:21 PM
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Sure, my current career. It has jumped up by leagues and bounds ever since implementing seduction techniques. Took about 4 years but I am now at an extremely comfortable point career wise in my life. I have also "aced" interviews/presentations that I was honestly not the best choice for simply because I was viewed as a good speaker or a people person.
/r/seduction18/08/20 04:22 PM
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The art of seduction of course, among other numerous audio books on social engineering and the like. I've read a lot of books so I recommend google searching some and reading the abstracts. If it sounds good pick it up as an audio book. They all have something to contribute!
/r/seduction17/08/20 11:38 PM
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I disagree, knowing your value and truly internalizing that is not investing where you aren't valued. If she can't see what OP brings to the table then she should be left out for a bit while OP moves on. Either she starts understanding, and quickly. If not, OP has already moved on with his life with other women. Knowing when to let go and say "no" are key pillars to loving yourself. Why continue to bend in subservience to a girl who may or may not be interested. It's too much work. Move on, don'…
/r/seduction17/08/20 11:36 PM
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Have your friend set up a hang out bar session with all of you. See if there's something there.
/r/seduction17/08/20 08:09 PM
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I might even just outright ask for a date to see if she can keep to one. Nope, have confidence in yourself. Move on to pursuing the next girl. She might hit you up she might not. Abundance mentality!
/r/seduction17/08/20 07:21 PM
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that could be down to her validating herself as not a bad person for bailing on me That's exactly what it was, good insight OP! My advice is to put her on the back burner and pursue other girls. She will more than likely hit you up in a couple of weeks with renewed interest in seeing you. In my experience when girls bumped my date with them for another dude, the other dude doesn't work out and they hit me back up. Which usually leads to me having more than one date in a week. My advice, take a s…
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:42 PM
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When eye contact and sexual tension is there you must act on it. If nothing else, mention to her the tension you feel for each other, it will domino into action. When you do nothing girls typically take this as a soft rejection. It could go either way OP, but I would move on.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:38 PM
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I wouldn't correct, she cancelled and didn't offer to reschedule. Don't continue pursuing her, you will only turn her off further. Move on to the next one but keep her in your contacts list. She might hit you up later. as she had something booked with her friend which she thought was the week after. Quick edit: The truth more than likely is another dude higher up on her radar asked her out, so she bumped you for him. Don't take offense this is just how the game is played.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:33 PM
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Using seduction in my personal and professional career has absolutely helped advance my life. I highly recommend using slightly watered down versions of seduction techniques. When I met new people regardless of sex or try to make new connections in general. Using techniques I've learned here and in books has been extremely helpful. I also recommend reading social engineering books and motivational books/videos of how to make friends and become "well liked" becoming well liked is super important.…
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:29 PM
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kinda feel like that was a beta move to let her beat me to the punch Dude, you got a cute girl to ask YOU for your number. That's pretty awesome if you ask me. Don't take what she did the wrong way, she is turned on by you and wants you so is taking steps to get you. Never be afraid of a girl that knows what she wants.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:39 AM
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Can't really do much about this virus and wait for the vaccine. In your case, i would start at the basics and that means everyone not just women. Practice, practice, practice.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:36 AM
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Find you a girl that likes the smoldering look. Be yourself OP. Men do the approaching typically anyway.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:35 AM
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“What is your intention?” Spitting absolute fire! Be honest with yourself OP. If you just want the booty then go for it. If you want an honest to goodness relationship with her then do that. But the key here is you gotta be honest to first, yourself. Then to her. Don't fuck around with your intentions. If you try to skimp on the truth it will bite you in the ass.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:33 AM
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I've done that plenty of times. How would you feel if a grown ass man came running at you from behind?
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:29 AM
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Guys are dense, either go for it without saying anything or simply ask "wanna hold hands?" Give him cute puppy dog eyes for good measure. Most dudes would melt, we're wired for sex by default so go for it.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:28 AM
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Personally, i'm against it. This virus is no joke so your personal health takes utmost priority. But if you must approach, go for it.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:27 AM
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Don't "Run up" to a girl. I know you see a lot of PUAs doing this in videos. I highly recommend against this, especially nowadays. Approach them from the front in full visibility. Don't block their path either, always leave an "escape route." Approaching in this style can be seen as very aggressive so you gotta be careful on how you do it.
/r/seduction17/08/20 06:26 AM
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Any social engineering book touches on this. So do a few seduction books. A simply youtube search brings up a ton of decent info as well.
/r/seduction08/08/20 11:16 PM
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Good advice, I would also like to add Eye Contact and body language you gotta get good at eye contact. You also need to get better at reading body language. Girls tell you all you need to know to your face, without telling you. Learn to read body language.
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:38 PM
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We are talking seduction which isn't always 100% truthful. It's a part of the game.
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:35 PM
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Dude, that's when the most fun hook ups START lol
/r/seduction08/08/20 04:34 PM
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Girls aren't dumb, they can usually tell right away if you're into them or not. Even a little bit, start flirting when you think is right. Typically I do it right away.
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:23 AM
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Shot gun method, statistically speaking, yes it could work. But it will take loads of time and energy. I prefer just pre-screening properly and going from there. Saves me a whole lot of time and energy.
/r/seduction08/08/20 06:21 AM
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If a girl asks you if you have anyone else you're seeing, always always always say YES no matter what. Even if it's a lie.
/r/seduction08/08/20 03:34 AM
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Quantity ≠ Quality
/r/seduction08/08/20 03:33 AM
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What this guy said. Until that vaccine hits the market your best bet is waiting. Just chill and do you for a bit. People will be much more conscientious of their personal health after all of this is over.
/r/seduction08/08/20 03:31 AM
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It means accepting who you are as a person. Are you a nerd that likes to PC game, watch anime and hit the gym. Then be proud of that, own it. Fuck the haters and do what you want. That's confidence. People will make fun of you, others will love you. Fuck the former, friend up the latter.
/r/seduction08/08/20 03:30 AM
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I personally work out for myself and I like having a nice body. When girls tell me that it just cements all the work I put into it. I say start doing it for yourself. But if you're doing it for the booty be honest about it to yourself. Don't lie, look in the mirror and say "I am going to bust my ass to get some ass!!!" Say it with conviction, then go get swole 4-5 days a week. Live it, eat it, become what you want to be and when you get that piece of ass you are looking for, revel in it and enjo…
/r/seduction08/08/20 03:27 AM
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This is a lot to digest OP, in the future put a TL;DR at the bottom and summarize succintly what is going on. From what I can tell, you are hanging on to past traumas and it is affecting your current life. There are some things you simply don't have control over but you're blaming yourself for being in that situation. For example, COVID, even if you did have a ton of friends you wouldn't be able to see them if at all during all of this anyway. There are a few more things in here but it stems fro…
/r/seduction08/08/20 03:25 AM
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If the opposite party is genuinely interested in you it doesn't matter what you say.
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:21 AM
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Always assume attraction, look for indicators of interest. Body language, eye contact, laughter.
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:20 AM
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Cut contact and talk to a new match that values you and your time. we should go some time and get a drink around there! In the future rephrase this as "Let's get some drinks at a cafe then chill at that park! You free on X day around X time? You shouldn't have to joke and skirt around wanting to take a girl you're interested in out on a date. If she rejects, take the rejection and move on. Don't waste your time on a dating app giving unnecessary attention if she isn't interested.
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:17 AM
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If you feel a sexual attraction to the opposite sex and pursue it you are probably bi. Seduction doesn't care what your sexual orientation is. You can always give it a shot to see if you're into it.
/r/seduction07/08/20 03:27 AM
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and probably other places I don’t frequent. There you go! No one fishes for Giant Bluefin Tuna in their backyard ponds. Go where the hang out at!
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:35 AM
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Make your own decision. It's not my job to convince you.
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:33 AM
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Others have found much success through people like him, don't forget his bottom line though $$
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:22 AM
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Your first step is hanging out where those types of girls frequent. I have a thing for them tomboy looking chicks. You can catch them at wholefoods, trader joes, the beach, cottages, library's and more often than not the park, also at clubs that play alternative music. Fish in the right ponds to get what you're looking for. The second step is dressing for the occasion, when you see the type of girl you're into what are the guys they are with typically wearing? What kind of style, what are they w…
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:21 AM
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Some of them are legit, others are not and fake their approaches/closes. Your best bet if you plan on taking their advice is to take it with a grain of salt. Nothing beats getting out there and learning yourself through experience and feedback.
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:16 AM
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she's out of my league No such thing as leagues, only your own self doubt and self worth. She chose YOU! Obviously you are a person that she's into. Go for it and enjoy.
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:47 PM
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you're describing "pick up" techniques. Seductive tech is in part building the best version of you.
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:46 PM
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Be playful with her in return! Enjoy the flirtyness and flirt back. Turn things sexual, escalate.
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:45 PM
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No not at all, films are designed to keep your attention and to entertain. What they teach about love is, to be honest, bullshit! Sure it gives people the warm fuzzies. "I want that to happen to me" "I can't wait to be in that situation!" Contrary to popular belief, life is not a film. Seduction rarely (see never) plays out like you see in the movies. It's ok and in fact awesome when you find someone you really click with, pursue that endeavor. But be realistic and seduce the other party properl…
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:43 PM
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Actually a good video for once. A little too religious but very good message. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:16 PM
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It adds additional problems preacccchhhh
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:10 PM
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I'm left hanging and it's making me feel really anxious. It's been 24 hours. It's only been a day, he is probably busy with something or he got sidetracked. When he thinks of you again you'll pop back up on his radar. Give him a sec. Girls do this to guys all the time, par for course I wouldn't be concerned about it. You should be busy enough with other things in your life to not worry about hanging onto a text reply.
/r/seduction06/08/20 10:09 PM
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Not really, if she looks you in the eye then you reciprocate. Why fear her or feel awkward about a rejection?
/r/seduction06/08/20 07:30 PM
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Nice OP! I've been trying to get an older women in my rotation myself. Glad things worked out for you.
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:49 PM
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If he's still talking to you and going out on dates then he is interested. He might just be a bad conversationalist.
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:28 PM
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"we're getting gelato next week"
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:26 PM
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Before she seemd to be chasing, but now she knows I like her so shes chillin. You have answered your own question. You start chillin too, go on dates with other girls, do your own thing! She will come around or she won't. Doesn't matter don't let her status of you change how you live your life. Give room to let the cat come to you, when she does pet her, show her love, play and have fun. When she has had her fill, give her room to leave or rest. Keep everything in balance.
/r/seduction06/08/20 06:22 PM
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Yea haven't approached in a while too because of this virus, debating getting back into online game ughhhhh.
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:28 AM
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Nice work! Eye contact is an incredible tool!
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:27 AM
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Happens all the time!
/r/seduction06/08/20 12:51 AM
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Having a girl you're already with wing for you makes this incredibly easier. She does all the vetting and shit tests for you. In this case, be chill, smile. Stay out of the way lol
/r/seduction05/08/20 08:33 PM
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For the love of everything enough with the "A" and "D" or whatever, just make up a name! This shit is hard to follow with one letter. One thing you absolutely want to do is reciprocate the sexy times vibe. If you feel it and receive it, return it. Two girls, three girls, ten, whatever. Show your implicit approval by reciprocating and including the other on the fun whatever that is. Stay calm, stay cool, this is "no big deal" to you and you guys are just having fun. Keep them comfortable, then le…
/r/seduction05/08/20 08:32 PM
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All the time, you push through it. You want these types of women.
/r/seduction05/08/20 08:29 PM
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Pretty much! Nice work OP, you have grown as a man and as a person! You think this is magic? Wait until you get sensual eye contact down.....you're in for some surprises.
/r/seduction05/08/20 07:43 PM
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Happened to me to, but sometimes you just gotta go for it. Fuck the mask, fuck the people watching. I have people watching me all the time. Go for it.
/r/seduction04/08/20 08:42 PM
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Starts with This One I had quite a few.
/r/seduction04/08/20 07:58 PM
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I used to do this as well, but stopped after a while. The girl tends to feel "trapped" in there with you. Exiting out makes things difficult as well in case you eject. I have a few FRs for this one too lol
/r/seduction04/08/20 07:44 PM
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Yes, it worked perfectly for me. I stick with it ever since.
/r/seduction04/08/20 06:11 AM
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You gotta be aware of your surroundings.
/r/seduction04/08/20 03:16 AM
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His advice is incredible and has actually helped me close a few times. If you go through my post history I have an FR that directly implements information from 3% man. It works.
/r/seduction04/08/20 03:11 AM
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You'd be surprised how many people lacked self confidence. If the majority of people were confident in themselves and their failures you'd see a lot more leaders. Yes I said "confidence in failures." It is also a part of self confidence, meaning the willingness to take risks and have the faith in yourself that you will see it through no matter what. So yes, a major problem people have when it comes to most things in life, especially seduction is self confidence. There is nothing BS about it. All…
/r/seduction04/08/20 03:09 AM
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Getting out of your comfort zone is a scary thing. Most people aren't down with trying new things. In this case find a group that is okay with getting out of their comfort zone, or go out alone.
/r/seduction03/08/20 07:10 PM
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She's already your girlfriend, just say what you feel. That you will be into it no matter what because it's her that you care about. Then quip about her hair just being cute or something. Don't make a big deal out of it.
/r/seduction03/08/20 07:00 PM
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Eye contact, laughing at his stupid jokes, skin to skin contact or body to body. Like touching his arm or hands. Wanting to be around him, accepting his date invites and when you can't reschedule for him. Everyone is unique, but those basics should get you in his head as a potential partner.
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:41 PM
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Confidence follows experience, typically you would want to get more experience with a situation in order to be more confident in it. In your case that may not be feasible. This is where the "fake it till you make it" mantra comes in. Something else that will greatly help you is defining what it is you want in a relationship, know your needs, know your boundaries. Learn how to communicate those needs and boundaries in a constructive way to the interested party. This in itself is confident behavio…
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:34 PM
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Nice work, this was fun to read!
/r/seduction03/08/20 05:21 PM
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Confidence comes from competence and achievements at the end of the day. You sort of answered your own question, what are you competent in at 28? What achievements do you have? If the answer is nothing, that's ok. What goals are you advancing towards? You should always be advancing towards a greater goal. What is it that you are doing that is helping you achieve your personal goals or advancing your life. Can you support a household? Are you independent? Stuff like that is Valuable.
/r/seduction03/08/20 04:21 PM
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Absolutely agree with this.
/r/seduction03/08/20 02:41 PM
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More details of your situation would be helpful. But typically guys your age who are in Uni have the problem of not going out enough or meeting enough people at parties and stuff. College makes expanding your social circle easy simply by hanging out with people from your classes or being on campus in general. Going to the gym and sports is helpful but what makes YOU interesting? It's good you are working on your confidence but one thing you need to not let get to you is the prejudices of others.…
/r/seduction03/08/20 07:07 AM
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There will always be someone that you perceive as better than you in some area. Doesn't matter who you are, there is always a bigger fish. The trick to remaining confident around other just as confident dudes is to truly understand your value and what you bring to the table. If you find yourself getting jealous of the other guy or becoming timid in their presence, ask yourself "why?" The answer is usually something you lack that you can't really change, which leads to the answer of insecurities.…
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:59 AM
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Nice work!
/r/seduction03/08/20 06:51 AM
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Hell that would be a good thing if I found out my partner was a virigin at that age. Especially if i'm sticking around and intend on marrying her. Honestly it doesn't matter, you'll be good to go. Most guys would be excited to teach you the "how" and what they're into.
/r/seduction02/08/20 07:39 PM
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OP asked a question, I gave advice. I'm not invested in how that answer is perceived by others. My only hope is that it provides help to those who seek it with the bias of "my experience." If you feel that certain people have it better or worse and that they don't have the right to complain, I don't have a feeling one way or the other. That's outside the request of the original post. the phrase "value" means giving most people a chance, not just a pretty face.
/r/seduction02/08/20 06:41 AM
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Relationships are different for everyone, they start differently for everyone. They hit highs, they hit lows. What may be true for one couple may be the complete opposite of another. Everyone want's to hear that feel good story about how that cute couple got together, but reality isn't like that. It's chaotic, what seduction does, it brings a slight order to the chaos. Thus making it more understandable. If you read through here, look through the resources that you find. Actually search and put …
/r/seduction02/08/20 06:32 AM
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You need to find someone you VALUE. That means someone more than looks, more than type. Needs to be someone who understands you and is in relatively the same lane as you. The only way to get more familiar and comfortable with something is to get out of your comfort zone and try something new. Maybe online dating, maybe not. Typically, even moderatly attractive girls get spammed on dating websites so it's something you're going to have to deal with and sift through to find someone who suits you. …
/r/seduction02/08/20 06:24 AM
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she left me on seen If she isn't putting effort into talking to you, why are you putting in so much effort to understand her guy situation? You have a case of oneitis. Move on to the next chick, if she hits you up then continue with that when it happens. In the meantime move on.
/r/seduction02/08/20 06:12 AM
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Not at all an excuse, half of seduction is bettering yourself. How can anyone love you, if you don't love yourself? Seducing a girl is just a side effect of bettering yourself. As a human being (man or woman) you want to push for what you want in life, monetary, physical or otherwise. Pushing for what you want in life takes confidence and effort.
/r/seduction02/08/20 06:09 AM
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I can see that in certain circumstances, but she turned you down for tonight and rescheduled for tomorrow. Pretty straight forward indicator of interest. I would go for it.
/r/seduction01/08/20 11:17 PM
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She is interested and even asked to reschedule with you. This is not a shit test. Accept her invite to coffee, she is literally asking you out on a date.
/r/seduction01/08/20 11:10 PM
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If she isn't giving you eye contact then she isn't interested. It's an indicator of disinterest and a part of pre-screening. Don't waste your time.
/r/seduction01/08/20 06:56 PM
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Eye Contact: Glancing over in your direction or directly at you repeatedly Style of dress "Openess": Does she have open body language? Legs uncrossed, arms uncrossed, looking happy, not wearing headphones, feet pointed towards you. Smiling: Is she smirking/smiling directly at you
/r/seduction01/08/20 02:15 AM
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To be frank with you, depending on where you are in the country a little bit of booty is NOT worth getting sick. Arizona has been hit especially hard in this. Better to either both get tested, then go out or let her know that you prefer staying safe and getting to know her better. Maybe through video chat or something. If you are hell bent on going out for this date, I personally know how absolutely hot AZ can be, I recommend going on a scenic drive to the entrance of a hiking spot with loads of…
/r/seduction31/07/20 08:29 PM
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You seem to have a massive self confidence issue. Women can pick up on guys who lack confidence incredibly easily. You should do some things that help build your self confidence and then go from there. Of course girls want you to make the first move.
/r/seduction31/07/20 08:25 PM
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I'm friends with this one chick that posts stuff like this on her facebook feed for EVERYONE to see at least once every couple of weeks. It's insane what some of the dudes out here say to girls they have never even had sex with before. Blows my mind.
/r/seduction31/07/20 08:23 PM
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Use protection, enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction31/07/20 03:45 AM
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Just enjoy yourself, show interest in her and talk a bit. But give her room to chase. Don't know if you are in America or not, but if you are make sure to keep yourself safe. I don't recommend going clubbing with this virus. Especially in the states.
/r/seduction30/07/20 07:36 PM
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Don't be afraid to change the topic or outright tell her that you don't want to talk about that or aren't interested in a topic. Saying this has shifted conversations from boring dumbshit or something about their ex-bf's to something that was interesting and engaging/sexual.
/r/seduction30/07/20 03:41 PM
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Only gonna post this once: Kenneth Cole Reaction Spritz some on your hand, then on your neck. Chest too, if its gonna be that kind of night. Smells just unique enough to stand out from all the Versace, yet subtle enough that girls will give you that "Come Hither" look.
/r/seduction30/07/20 03:39 PM
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All the advice in this sub means nothing if you're too scared to take a risk. PREACH
/r/seduction30/07/20 03:16 PM
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Say if your girl starts actin' up, then you take her friend 🎵
/r/seduction30/07/20 06:53 AM
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"Attention for girls is like sex for men"
/r/seduction28/07/20 06:37 PM
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There is no good/bad personality type. The only thing you want to avoid personality wise is being fake. Do not be fake and untrue to yourself simply to placate and impress a girl. It will never work out. Be who you are, love who you are. You will attract those who will feel the same. Otherwise you attract frauds.
/r/seduction28/07/20 06:25 PM
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Let this one go OP, who the hell is so busy for 3 weeks that they can't take a second or two to text you. That's mega disrespectful. She is also 4 hours away, no way man. Bail while you're sort of ahead.
/r/seduction28/07/20 06:19 AM
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Good luck
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:54 AM
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She's into you and sending hints, stop being so dense. Go hang out with her.
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:49 AM
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Why be stressed about 1 chick that left you on read. You are important, you should have better things to do than worry about her response. If she's too busy to take a second to respond to a text then she isn't worth your time. Move on.
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:48 AM
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From the girls perspective it really doesn't matter. Especially nowadays with the pandemic. Just hit him up, he will probably be super happy about it. Send him a "heyyy"
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:46 AM
1

You wait, don't get oneitis or be so desperate. It's just one girl, you helped her out, left your number. Be cool, relax.
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:44 AM
2

With situations like this the common denominator is you. You're more than likely too forgiving and too helpful of a person. You see these girls in possible distress, get to know them, be their shoulder to cry on, support them. But sometimes you should take a step back and ask, "why are they in that situation?" Do I really want to put myself in that spot? What is it about these types of women that I'm attracted to? Time for a bit of soul searching OP.
/r/seduction28/07/20 05:34 AM
1

Ask her out to lunch then gauge her response, some girls like a little bit of long-play courting first. Depends on her preferences and her interest level in you.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:48 AM
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No such thing as leagues, only what you think you're worth. You'll do better and then some if you are confident in yourself. Everyone is hurting right now because of this pandemic. I wouldn't beat yourself up over it too much. Work out more, practice a new skill, find a hobby in the meantime.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:34 AM
6

look at that! You approached and your still alive and ok! May or may not of worked out, but you did it, nice.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:06 AM
2

"Let's grab lunch Thursday" Since you work with her it's much easier to approach, it's good that she is leaving that job soon. You can ask her to lunch or just outright tell her you would like to hang with her sometime.
/r/seduction28/07/20 02:05 AM
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Don't, she's working let her work. If you MUST flirt with her pass her a note or something else non-threatening that she can choose to ignore. Also if she turns you down keep things civil or pick a new starbucks to go to. That's where she makes her paper, don't make it awkward.
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:43 AM
1

Why is she doing all this? She is just simply really into you are in the "Moteki" point in your life, indulge in it. Have fun, be safe!
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:50 PM
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Wish more guys understood the art of dumping. You can and will get another girl, have the confidence in yourself to do so. Won't be easy but you can do it. I see so many guys in terrible relationships because they fear they can't do better.
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:30 PM
1

It appears this guy is more stalking than anything if you read the article as he is running into the same people. This isn't approaching so much as it is being a public nuisance. Would like to ask OP to please explain how is bettering yourself as a man or woman incel in nature? Seduction is a by product of taking strides to better yourself. Some men, as you have linked are taking things too far when it comes to seducing woman and need other kinds of help. But it's not fair to take one video of a…
/r/seduction27/07/20 07:25 PM
1

No worries! Sometimes you can't escalate even after a kiss, but that kiss may just get her to text you back to schedule a date. If nothing else it's a nice confidence boost. Can't find a good reason not to go for it.
/r/seduction26/07/20 06:17 PM
2

Always take compliments subtly. You don't want to have a big head/ego. When a girl compliements you dowwnplay it a bit. "I appreciate that" or turn it into a joke "Thank you! I spent 2 hours in the mirror today, glad somebody noticed. What's your name?" I personally like to reflect it back at the girl. "I'm just trying to keep up with your style, what's your name?" something like that.
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:11 PM
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I really like the short audio clips. Made this a lot easy to follow and understand how this played out. The closer here is probably the most important so I will go over that as best I can. When you asked her out sometime I wouldn't have worded it quite like this, you're already in the mall a prime date spot. Instead of "asking her" for coffee a good insta-date idea would be to say something like "you ever been to this starbucks over here? I'm gonna grab a drink real quick" then just walk over, s…
/r/seduction25/07/20 05:39 PM
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Been working out amazing, been letting go of a lot of stuff outside of my control. Haven't been taking rejection hard at all and frankly i'm a better person since learning this phrase and really taking it to heart. Wish I heard it earlier in my life.
/r/seduction25/07/20 04:30 AM
2

Great advice!
/r/seduction25/07/20 02:38 AM
5

what I believe is a date with this girl You better be positive and she better be too, because this is how you slip into the friendzone. She’s picking me up She is definitely interested in you. The Gameplan Have fun enjoy yourselves, have a drink or too. Get physical and just focus on fun and enjoyment. The rest will follow.
/r/seduction25/07/20 02:10 AM
28

don't immediately scan when you go into a crowded club. Explain please
/r/seduction25/07/20 01:59 AM
415

"You either win or you learn" I got this advice from an unexpected source. Taught me to let go and take every "failure" as a learning experience.
/r/seduction25/07/20 01:58 AM
2

Dude, get that incel shit out of here..
/r/seduction24/07/20 09:02 PM
1

Not at all, it's all about how you have sex and the passion you put into it. Just like anything else. I've been with women that liked it ultra slow and girls that liked it really rough and fast. As long as you are compatible its all good.
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:58 PM
2

Dude what in the world are you trying to imply here. Guys flirted with her, I teased her by watching her reactions and making funny faces. There was no deeper meaning or whatever the hell you're talking about. Yes you can have fun interactions with the opposite sex, stop taking this so seriously.
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:51 PM
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nope, and as a matter of fact never been cheated on in my life. They are well aware. If they cheat, they're gone. No take backs. Be clear and confident when you say this too. You won't have a problem.
/r/seduction24/07/20 06:50 PM
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It's just something you kind of have to accept and just understand that it will happen. You can't be overprotective of her either because that is not a good look. Just have enough trust in her that she won't cheat on you and will turn the other guys down. I always told my exes that i did not tolerate cheating at all and they all understood. Never had a problem. If guys would flirt with them in front of me they obviously didn't know I was nearby or watching her from a distance teasing her the who…
/r/seduction24/07/20 05:29 PM
1

It looks like you're doing pretty good, in Japan I would say your best bet is in person at the clubs/bars depending on where you're at. You have a really solid rail system out there so potentially do a weekend vacation in Tokyo or other major hub. Save up some money if it's feasible. Get a halfway decent Hotel and just party it up for a weekend. Thurs-Sunday see some sights, explore, make new friends and just have a great time. I know the COVID situation in Japan is doing much better than it is …
/r/seduction24/07/20 03:01 AM
3

I'm the same, i kinda suck over texts. Face to face i'm soooooo much better
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:25 AM
1

Get rid of that hipster style. Start going for the nouveau riche look. With your beard and facial structure you could pull it off. It's still hipster but it would work for you. Avoid fedoras no matter what anyone tells you. This look is easy enough for you to just throw it on, but will get you noticed. Keep your hair and your beard well kempt at ALL times.
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:23 AM
1

You learned to always shoot your shot and if it doesn't work out it's not the end of the world. Life goes on.
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:16 AM
1

I wouldn't worry about it OP, and like others have said whiskey dick is a thing and it sucks when it happens. Has happened to the best of us heh.
/r/seduction23/07/20 11:45 PM
2

It happens, you can still be friends but move on from her and just take it as a learning experience. It's less of a big deal than you think.
/r/seduction23/07/20 11:44 PM
2

You'll be alright, just be easy and then go from there. No reason to rush this. If she loses interest go to another girl. Her loss.
/r/seduction23/07/20 11:40 PM
1

You're looking for a specialist in therapy to focus on core relationship issues. I recommend starting by going on zocdoc and matching up a therapist that takes your insurance in your area. It's not the perfect place for what you are looking for but its a start. Who knows you may find exactly what you're looking for. Be sure to read the reviews on the therapists that interest you. As a side note, you can also use that as a website to find a doctor for all kinds of things. Not paid by them but I r…
/r/seduction23/07/20 11:39 PM
1

Wait for the COVID test results. Stop being impatient. Don't call her either, just chill for a bit. You have a date planned, wait for the results then move from there.
/r/seduction23/07/20 09:32 PM
1

If the problems are that deep seeded then I suggest getting professional help. I say this with all seriousness. Some us just need more help than others to come to terms with who we are. If your perception is that you are "less good-looking" then you can do certain things to help with that and hell, even if that's the honest truth you still need to learn to love yourself.
/r/seduction23/07/20 09:26 PM
2

Highly situational and it takes a good understanding of body language, and knowing the other person relatively well enough that they won't feel threatened. Eye contact helps loads here. I've done it a few times before but it was pretty obvious that girl wanted to sleep with me. Half the times she was already in my bed. I think only a handful of times I just straight up asked and it worked.
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:55 PM
2

Awesome post for resources!
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:53 PM
1

she's working a lot this week and would let me know She lost interest, move on. It's an easy way to let a guy down. I wouldn't worry too much about the reasons why, because it really doesn't matter. Could be a million reasons. She could even be geniunely busy (unlikely but can happen). Simply respond to her "ok np" or something short, don't worry about it. On to the next one!
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:25 PM
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You made her jealous and gave her room to chase. Nice work!
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:05 PM
1

The only L's you took were Learning experiences. You either win or you learn in the dating game. Looks like you're doing the right thing getting back at there and talking to women. Keep it up, you'll find a winner eventually. About your ex wife Leave that alone, that relationship is in the past, it's time to move on. unfortunately the only time I've been successful with women is when they fall for me by the 3rd date That's an average for most men so I wouldn't beat yourself up over that one. I'm…
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:32 PM
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All my conversations follow a tested model so I just go through the motions My most hated aspect of online dating, but damn does it work. It get's tedious as hell though.
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:25 PM
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Absolutely this!
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:25 AM
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Like the meetup website and app. There is one called "Meetup" you can schedule around it for sure. With the virus going on not sure how many are still going on but the hiking ones certainly are. Doing Tattoos and stuff you're bound to run into a few women there. Go to Tattoo conventions when those start back up and meet people. I wouldn't really recommend meeting anyone at the gym though. The gym is for gains lol
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:16 AM
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Hmm, try using a meetup app and going to local events in your town/city. Or join hiking groups also approaching is your friend. I've used meetup apps and met plenty of women, hiking groups and random get together clubs work well too but you really need to do your research before going to one.
/r/seduction23/07/20 05:01 AM
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Go out to places where women typically congregate, clubs, bars, parks. Also go to places that you would enjoy. Try a new restaurant that has a bar area or something similar. Go hang out with friends, meet friends of friends. There's all kinds of different ways. It's good that you have a busy schedule keep it that way. Once this virus outbreak comes to an end there is going to be a serious spike in club goers. I would say, December onward there is just going to be a ton of access to new faces in …
/r/seduction23/07/20 04:51 AM
2

Absolutely your option, its best when they show or tell you that they are a bad fit right out the gate. Shit tests can be really mean if taken at face value, you shouldn't but yea.
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:15 AM
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You don't have to agree, but im just gonna say it. What you and that other guy are suggesting is the very definition of simp behavior. You are attempting to pull favor with a girl by trying to not appear cheap. It's not about money.
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:06 AM
1

no need to be salty man lol
/r/seduction23/07/20 03:02 AM
1

Don't base reality off of fiction....I've seemed to rubbed a couple of dudes the wrong way. If you want to live in your fantasies where girls fall in love of you based on what you perceive as not being "cheap" then go for it. Most of the time i'm splitting meals on a date and i've never had a problem. Not even once. I have had problems when I would pay for the whole thing or go to expensive restaurants. If your experience is different then great. That's what this sub is for, offering our opinion…
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:57 AM
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ok
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:25 AM
1

Listen dude, OP asked what simping behaviors need to be avoided. I've told him. If you're down with that then that's your business I really don't care.
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:17 AM
2

Nice!
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:09 AM
1

Name calling isn't gonna get you anywhere man. If you wanna trick off your money in the hopes of impressing girls you are going to be sorely disappointed. Some advice to you, stop spending your money no matter how much it is, with the hopes of impressing a girl on the first date. Just some life advice for ya. Please tell me how to be more "Alpha" lmao. If you can't understand what i'm really saying then you have no clue what being alpha or beta really means. Anyways, make sure she is going out w…
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:08 AM
2

Girls only shit test guy's they're interested in. Think of it as a sort of fitness test. The only way to pass a shit test is to agree with what they said, then amplify said thing. Don't try to defend yourself or conform to their belief or perceived world view. Example: "Aren't you too short to be talking to me?" The only way to answer this is to agree and amplify to the point of absurdity . Potential answer: "I like to work up the courage and talk to super tall chicks. Sometimes my voice cracks …
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:55 AM
1

Spending a $30 or less on a date at starbucks or something where you can actually talk to the girl you are interested in or going bowling or something is fine, this is what I mean by being situational. But buying drinks randomly to "flirt" will get you nowhere. Splitting the bill is not what a "cheap bastard" does, it's financially responsible and shows you have limits. If the girl you're interested in feels like you are being cheap then that's short sighted and her problem. You don't want those…
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:48 AM
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It is not at all a myth, i'm telling you from personal experiences and even asking my girl friends. This happens very often. Girls get turned off by a dude not standing up for himself and just bowing down to whatever the girl wants. It shows no backbone and it is simp behavior. Asking her to split with you especially on the first date is fair and is responsible. There is nothing cheap about it. Running around throwing your money at a girl in the hopes that she will be impressed is simp behavior.…
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:39 AM
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30s is still way young, if anything your options increase when you're this age because typically men have a form of income, a place to call home and a car at the bare minimum (typically). You have already stated your problems OP, no better time then now to work on them. I'm not gonna participate in a pity party for you though, you know what you need to do and you have an action plan of accomplishing what needs to be done. In your case your plan is simple, eat healthier, work out. Get some traini…
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:26 AM
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It has nothing to do with being cheap or poor. You don't pay for drinks or food especially during your first interactions simply because you may be getting used for literally free food or drinks. This occurs especially at clubs and bars. You don't have to "pay for the opportunity" to talk to someone you're interested in. There are plenty of situations where you can pay for a date, however it must be balanced and situational. For example, where did you go out to eat? A fancy restaurant? For a fir…
/r/seduction23/07/20 01:22 AM
1

The risk is being turned down. There really isn't a perfect way to "ask" just broach the subject. "I'll be moving to town in October, where should we go for our first date?" or introduce it with a joke of how you've both been through shitty relationships, make this one the good one. It's really up to you, if she's interested it won't really matter what you say, but you need to have the courage to make the first move. It's not guaranteed, but nothing in life is.
/r/seduction22/07/20 03:04 PM
1

Still haven’t gotten a text back. Nope, if she can't hit you back for a simple date then she isn't interested. If a girl is interested she will get back with you or make time for you. Should I message her back and say “hey what happened” Absolutely NOT Her interest level sounds extremely low, let it go. Onto the next!
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:44 PM
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Pretty much all of the simp behavior should be avoided. Paying for stuff Always being there for her as a friend when you honestly want to be more of than a friend and not communicating that Afraid to ask her out Paying for stuff (yes I listed that twice) Constantly texting her bullshit "hey"
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:41 PM
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You're "stuck" because you're afraid of losing her. Losing what you currently have. Which is ironic because that fear is what will make her lose interest in you. From what I can tell she is already interested in you. Not sure what your situation is with this virus and all, but if it's safe I would say you need to plan a date with her. Be spontaneous, be fun, be willing to let her go in order to move forward. You have to take a risk, or you'll forever be her "chat partner"
/r/seduction22/07/20 02:38 PM
1

You gotta have standards OP....
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:35 AM
2

It's actually really good to try flirting and learn flirting with girls while in a relationship. You automatically have the abundance mentality. I typically do this stuff in front of my girlfriend as a tease. She might get a little mad but they mostly take it as a playful joke. It's dangerous territory though so be careful regardless how you practice.
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:34 AM
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Never too old, just know and understand that women your age typically come with baggage. Be it divorcees, children or otherwise. I have seen plenty of 40+ year olds with girls in their 30s or sometimes 25s+ The best time to learn something new is right now! I wouldn't put too much stock into those RSD videos or those daygame "insta-pull!!!!!" videos you see on youtube. Your best bet is reading some books and putting what you've learned into practice. There will be victories, there will be learni…
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:32 AM
3

You can't get the 8+ because you don't believe you can get the 8+ the problem starts with you OP. What makes you think you aren't worth it? I don't care if your a 5+ or a 6. I've seen all types with 8+ all freaking types. You need to believe in yourself and have confidence in your worth. Girls can feel this from you.
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:26 AM
1

Grab her hand and help her over some rocks in a rocky area or a stream. I've done this before and it works.
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:23 AM
1

I really feel for college folks during this pandemic. Absolutely a difficult time with online classes and the like. Definitely necessary though. Typically most guys get rejected or ghosted because they are chasing too much. Let the girl chase, you lead she chases. When you do too much of the former you get the ghost or dumped because you're coming off as desperate. Which nobody wants to deal with. Mock Dates: Don't do this, either go on a date with your girl friends or don't. They won't be able …
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:20 AM
1

Girls aren't stupid man. She knows what you're up to. Man up, ask her on a date and go somewhere. Don't make this complicated. Don't ask her about her other relationships either, that's needy behavior.
/r/seduction18/07/20 10:20 PM
0

Then go for it
/r/seduction17/07/20 09:16 PM
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Until a vaccine is found and COVID is no longer an issue I would be more concerned with personal health over getting booty in the short term. You're better off meeting someone and getting to know them as a person rather than nakey times right away. Not only do you have to worry about STDs and the standard is she crazy or not aspect, but now you have to worry about, if they're sick or not. Now's just a bad time for meeting new women in general. However to answer your question, your jokes would ce…
/r/seduction17/07/20 07:45 PM
3

Stop getting so emotionally invested. You barely know these girls yet you are putting so much emotion and feeling into the interactions. Take a step back, you don't know them well yet. As such stop investing so much into a non-existent relationship and you'll find yourself less hurt by stuff like this. If you feel like she slighted you and you truly aren't interested anymore just tell her you're busy. If she asks to reschedule you can always tell her you don't have the time, are no longer intere…
/r/seduction17/07/20 05:50 AM
4

You owe me a beer dude lol. Nice work!
/r/seduction17/07/20 03:17 AM
18

Guys are typically extremely straight forward. Look for solid eye contact, dumb jokes (which you should laugh at if you're into him) and him literally flexing a bit. Like puffing out his chest, standing up straight, etc. We haven't been able to shake off that evolutionary gene yet lol
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:57 PM
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I have quite a few FRs where i go into making a girl comfortable at your crib. For starters, never EVER lock the door when she comes in initially. You never want to make a girl (let alone anyone) feel "trapped" they are always thinking of a Plan B in case the guy turns out to be aggressive. Trust me when I say she is watching. Give her a tour of your apartment, if you are feeling a good vibe from her lead her by the hand and just show her where everything is to build a little bit more comfort. M…
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:29 PM
1

Ah, that book would still help you rebuild attraction. Either way, you're better off finding a new Dude.
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:45 PM
3

She got freaked out and took a pic for her safety. When an approach goes super south like this bail. Just leave.
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:41 PM
1

It's possible, read 3% man by Corey Wayne. He goes into depth about that there. You're better off finding a new chick though.
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:40 PM
1

Don't shit where you eat
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:39 PM
7

Hows your reading and knowledge of body language? You can save yourself a lot of wasted approaches if you get good at these.
/r/seduction16/07/20 04:33 PM
0

PUA and Seduction are two different things
/r/seduction16/07/20 04:29 PM
5

Whew lad.... I asked you if you were a good kisser. Actions speak louder than words. Your eyes are a great communicator, how was your eye contact, you already had some good kino going but you essentially talked yourself out of a good time. are you waiting for me to make a move? Again too much talking, you could've played this as being "coy" but she started to sense some desperation here. Which leaded to.... she also said I was creepy by flirting with her This was a mix of a shit test and you act…
/r/seduction16/07/20 04:23 PM
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I'll caveat by saying internet arguments are worthless, however there are people reading this that need actual help and are looking for advice. So here are a couple of responses, then i'm checking out of this one. no woman teaches you how to deal with approach anxiety correctly are correct Enough with that incel bullshit it is a whole different information between those who actually approach and those who don't. As I have said earlier, read the books i suggested or don't thats up to you and whoe…
/r/seduction16/07/20 04:13 PM
1

She actually doesn't say that. You should try reading the book before making generalized assumptions of something. All the books i've listed are from authors with years upon years of experience and all pull from actual situations they have been in or are in. It's really good knowledge. I don't give a damn if you read them or not, but you asked for recommendations. There they are.
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:18 AM
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Yes, there are plenty of seduction books. My favorites are "The Art of Seduction", "3% Man" and "Undercover Sex Signals." That last one was written by a woman. All of these books have helped me exponentially in seduction and approaching/maintaining relationships. There are plenty of resources out there, the best tend to be in books. A ton of knowledge in books, no one likes to read though.... Just remembered a couple more "The Art of Mackin'" and "The Elite Way" the author of these is very contr…
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:10 AM
2

Makes me wonder if she pulled away because of him exactly what happened What do y’all think? You're her "safe" boyfriend. It sounds harsh but thats the truth. You're the guy that will always be there. When she is done messing around with other dudes or her primary BF lets her down she will hit you up with the classic "hey" or "sorry it took me so long to respond i was so busy!~ Life has been crazy recently, how are you?!" You need to move on with your life OP, this reeks of oneitis as well. Find…
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:28 AM
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You always want to take these videos/classes with a grain of salt. This is their business, this is how they make money. "Look at me i'm surrounded by woman and fuck like a race horse! You can too for the low price of $XXX!!!~~" This is not to say that they don't offer any substantial help, just realize that at it's core this is a business. It's better to get actual self help seminars or a more "underground" seduction seminar rather than just go for what everyone else is doing with YouTube "in th…
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:15 AM
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Anytime the profile wants money it's a scam. Lol even if its a real chick who wants money it's a scam. Never EVER for any reason trick off money to a chick who isn't your wife.
/r/seduction16/07/20 01:20 AM
6

handling this power for good, without harming yourself or others. This is the hardest part.
/r/seduction16/07/20 01:18 AM
1

Have her pull over and get a lyft/uber. Or ask her to drive you home, you gotta know how to take care of yourself man.
/r/seduction15/07/20 09:55 PM
1

Ok cool, no shame in Therapy! Good on you for realizing you need extra help. More people should go to therapy in my opinion. It's great for mental health. Make sure your therapist is a good match for you to, don't just take whatever you're given. yeah I knew something was off about her 5mins in.. The next time that happens and you get that feeling in your gut, bail. Let her know it won't work out and leave, no reason to torture yourself and waste each others time. I've said this to a few women, …
/r/seduction15/07/20 08:36 PM
1

Sure, the online dating scene is harsh and it always will be for the simple fact that you as a man on a dating site are a dime a million. The ratios never favor males and that's just how it is. You need to stand out, but not be a dick. Have great photos, and put in all the work into your profile and messaging. When i say put in the work to your messaging it really does feel like work. You can expect a typical return on your messages to be around 50:5 so you send 50 messages and get 5 replies, of…
/r/seduction15/07/20 08:34 PM
2

Ever try eye contact? It is an extremely powerful tool that most people do not use. Solid, steady, seductive eye contact. Works wonders.
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:35 PM
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Currently, i am not cold approaching period. Debating going back to online but i have a plethora of experience and success with online dating. Just don't feel like going through the drama of it currently. You should also be focused on your own physical health and safety as things are currently. It's not the best idea to just be shacking up with whoever as it is now. The most anyone should be doing currently in my opinion is forming connections online and just getting to know people through phone…
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:34 PM
2

she automatically says that's a "red flag" This was a shit test. I saved myself by saying I do but just not A LOT The only way to pass a shit test is to "agree and amplify." I would also like to add, that you don't need to "save yourself." You are who you are. If she truly doesn't like that or can't deal with it then she isn't a good fit for you. She then assumes that all I came for was SEX This chick sounds miserable which I already said she is beautiful and sexy Beautiful and sexy girls alread…
/r/seduction15/07/20 05:29 PM
1

Some good insight
/r/seduction06/03/20 01:21 AM
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Sometimes there is simply nothing you can do. Great sex doesn't make her want to sleep with you again. Happened to me a couple of times, frustrating as hell but that's how the game is sometimes.
/r/seduction06/03/20 01:20 AM
1

You don't work there only eat there, if she says no then just say something like "ok np figured i should ask" then never bring it up again. Be polite and civil as usual after that.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:15 PM
1

Instead of going through these wacky scenarios in your head and coming up with all these hypothesis. Have you tried asking her out on a date? The worst she can say is "no"
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:13 PM
1

Nah, bail. Sometimes two people aren't physically compatible. Also, always wrap that shit up.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:12 PM
0

Well said!
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:10 PM
2

Call it whatever you want. Live YOUR life for you. That's all there is to it really.
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:59 AM
1

Trojan only, Trojan ALWAYS
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:26 AM
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Not give a fuck meaning not do something because a girl you are interested in would like it or you think thats what she would want. But doing things (any action) of your own accord because YOU want to.
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:06 AM
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r/tinder is where you should look for tips. However I will say that tinder is a well known hook up app. If you have good text game and can do most of your gaming via text tinder is your go to.
/r/seduction03/03/20 03:51 AM
0

Anyone can improve, everyone can learn. You are only 22 man, you are just starting your seduction journey. Also keep in mind, the older you get the higher your stock goes as a man. Keep pushing towards your dreams and goals. The only thing stopping you is you.
/r/seduction03/03/20 01:22 AM
6

It's amazing what can happen when you present yourself in a clean and well put together manner. Wait till you start dressing a better style too!
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:34 PM
1

She held onto her dating profile this whole time? Where you guys official or what? If not, straight up tell her what you are looking for and that you want her to be your GF. 2 and 1/2 months is a really long time to go out and just have no solid outcomes.....
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:28 PM
1

She is obviously into you OP. Netflix and chill, report back with updates
/r/seduction02/03/20 09:29 PM
1

So, leave it alone. You should be living your life
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:58 PM
1

Pretty good job honestly, sometimes the "i have a boyfriend" is a defense mechanism so you shouldn't harp on their supposed relationships. Overall you did the right thing, she was for sure loving the attention so she didn't say anything about it for a couple of weeks. Us guys aren't that slick, she knew you were into her from the get go more than likely. Oh well, onto the next!
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:34 PM
2

I can get her back successfully You broke up with her for a reason. You can move on and find someone better or even a little bit different. Leave the past in the past
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:29 PM
1

You're trying too hard and you are too aware of the presence of the opposite sex which causes you to act differently around them. However subtle. In your case i will say, be yourself. Just be who you are and be proud of that. You are lucky enough to be extroverted at a base level so use that to your advantage
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:28 PM
1

Pretty decent video, skip until like 13 min in to get the best experience Edit: The breathing in unison thing is really good information
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:07 PM
2

Read a book called "Undercover Sex Signals" be Leil Lowndes. It's basically insight to how girls think/act subconsciously and helps you learn body language. Extremely helpful.
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:04 PM
1

The number of your approaches don't really matter. It's more quality over quantity. The reason why we say approach, approach!! Is to get us used to going up and talking to girls. Once you get comfortable with that you can work on your screening methods. Then approach. Shotgun method is good to start with but efficiency matters.
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:03 PM
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I'm learning that i never really had texting game, I just don't flirt over text and never did. Just hit them up for logistics stuff or to share a random joke or two. You might be the same
/r/seduction02/03/20 07:00 PM
2

It's BS, the phrase "sex sells" is true. Of course guys are willing to throw hundreds of dollars into a "fool proof method of banging that chick!!!!!!111!!" Don't fall for this crap, seduction is a whole other level of things all people need to be doing. The first step is believing in yourself! Coaching can help and it is very helpful to hear the experience of others. But their experience isn't your reality. Be wary of videos/ads claiming 100% chance of doing the deed with just a $200 purchase p…
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:59 PM
2

You're still YOU with or without friends at your side. Be confident in who you are as a person. Going out solo is easy after understanding this.
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:51 PM
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The trick is not caring and enjoying yourself.
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:42 PM
1

This is what happens when you let a girl chase you. 10/10 OP!
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:41 PM
3

Nah leave it, move on. There is always something bigger and better. If she isn't interested do not pursue.
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:46 AM
1

You looked like a safe dude that would follow her request. Not saying that's bad thing but it's not exactly a good thing either....Did you talk to her after she got back?
/r/seduction24/02/20 08:35 PM
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Those numbers aren't terrible at all. They are realistic when you go with cold day game approaches in a shot gun method. I think OP did an excellent job! This is the point at which reading the girl you are about to approach helps. However reading can quickly turn into approach anxiety so its a delicate technique to use.
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:45 PM
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go for it
/r/seduction24/02/20 01:08 AM
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Nope, it comes off as desperate. You gotta push and pull, there is a whole dynamic to it. Honestly it's overly complicated and BS but there ya go...
/r/seduction24/02/20 01:07 AM
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Well said!
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:50 PM
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Typically, both things can occur dependent on the type of date and your compatibility. Sometimes you need to convince a girl that things are ok and she isn't slutty for escalating with you. Other times it just happens and she is just that into you. I escalate by initiating some form of physical contact. Usually a touch somewhere however slight. Like a high five, or a touch on the arm or leg. Just to break the touch barrier. The more relaxed and comfortable in your own skin you are the better.
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:48 PM
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This is pretty typical and what the whole "aloof" thing is all about. Women are like cats. Sometimes you gotta let them come to you. Women also like to chase. When you start chasing, they will lose interest.
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:45 PM
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Something that's really helped me is that if you start a conversation with someone, anyone really, and it keeps hitting dead ends/stops awkwardly with silences and the like. Then that means the other person is not invested at all in you or the conversation. It's a good signal to eject and move on to the next. Try talking on a topic you think she is interested in based on a cold read of some sort. If there is no bite then let it go.
/r/seduction18/02/20 04:42 PM
1

What about her face did you like? Her eyes, mouth, etc. I had a girl tell me this recently. I was a bit dumbfounded honestly
/r/seduction17/02/20 08:43 PM
2

Very well put
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:29 PM
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Go to parties, join some clubs/a frat if you can. Or at least know the people that go out frequently. Host parties if you're good at that and don't be afraid to make "friends" with the girls first. One thing that helped me in college was having a lot of girls in my orbit. Mostly friends as first, then the girls realized that i had a lot of girls just always around me. Which turned into an attraction of sorts, then they would test that curiosity on me.
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:25 PM
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Think of it this way. You have a really nice car, you put a lot of work into it. Custom everything! You get people coming up complimenting it all the time "Nice car bro!" "Nice ride bro!" eventually these go in one ear and out the other. One day someone comes up to you and says, "sick turbo man, how hard was that to install?" Suddenly your eyes perk up, you're interested in telling your story of how you modded your car. In short, TELL HER what you find attractive about her. Respectfully of cours…
/r/seduction17/02/20 05:23 PM
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Yes it's a common shit test, the way to pass this test is to value yourself more and move on. If the convo is boring or she is uninterested move on. Sexual attraction does not equal emotional attraction.
/r/seduction03/02/20 04:33 PM
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Oof two weeks is a minute, but if she is still replying and hasn't ghosted then she is still interested. her messages has moved more towards short She is about to ghost you, set up something with her.
/r/seduction03/02/20 03:32 PM
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Using text to set up a date then leave it alone from there works best for me. Texting is a hangup of mine as well. Try calling her instead, it's different, exciting and unexpected. Plus if she's really into you she will make time for you and your texting skills won't matter.
/r/seduction03/02/20 03:09 PM
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Nice work! I used to live in Baltimore, Fells point is a good spot for it especially on the warmer Friday/weekend nights. Just be careful and stick to the bar areas only as other parts can get a bit dangerous. Nice work by the way!
/r/seduction03/02/20 02:57 PM
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yeah keep walking OOf! I've gotten "NO!" as soon as i started talking once before haha. The level above that is if she literally starts trying to shove or hit you Also have had this happen to me before, one time i laughed in her face. The other time i had to actual grab her hands and tell her what she was doing was wrong and she needed to stop. Which shocked/surprised her, then I shooed her away. Some girls are wild man
/r/seduction02/02/20 01:42 AM
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So first things first, dropping money won't get you laid ever. Unless you're dealing with a sex worker. Yes training classes can absolutely help, most of the time the tips are solid and the information is great. But at the end of the day OP it's up to you and your inner game to get out there and make some moves. This shit is ruining my dating life If your dating life is getting ruined because of a lack of confidence then my guess is that your life isn't where you want it to be right now. There i…
/r/seduction02/02/20 01:41 AM
0

Private Karaoke bars, cheap to rent for a couple of hours. As long as you don't make a mess and are relatively quite you're good to go.
/r/seduction16/01/20 11:04 PM
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Excellent move, this is how you value yourself.
/r/seduction16/01/20 07:00 AM
1

Maybe you suck at dancing. My robot is pretty good i dunno man...
/r/seduction16/01/20 06:58 AM
2

Don't shit where you eat. But if you don't really need this job them talk to her normally. Throw in some great eye contact and MINOR flirting. If there is a happy hour that your coworkers go to then do that with her and let her get to know you.
/r/seduction13/01/20 08:51 PM
2

Absolutely, i recently moved from Baltimore to Washington, DC. Lightyears better in terms of meeting women and having decent social interactions.
/r/seduction13/01/20 07:36 PM
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Nice work, getting rejected is a part of the process. Good on you for approaching that large group. Those can get dicey, nowadays when they clam up I don't make a heavy effort to plow. Know your worth as well, if you're plowing its likely time to bow out and take it as a rejection. It can be hard at first but get's easier with time.
/r/seduction13/01/20 07:29 PM
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Do it!!!
/r/seduction13/01/20 07:24 PM
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For any and all shit tests simply, Agree and Amplify. "you're such a nerd" Response: "Absolutely, you should see my anime collection" Don't give a "shit" about shit tests and you will pass all of them. The subtle shit test are much harder. One i recently failed was talking up and cuddling this girl in the club. She went up to dance and wanted me to come over. Like a lost puppy i did so and lost her in the process. Watch out for the more subtle ones. The overt shit tests are easy.
/r/seduction13/01/20 07:18 PM
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Start working on yourself, you probably won't get a consistent answer from girls if you ask them "why" you appear unattractive. Clean yourself up, get a haircut, hit the gym, work on your confidence. Live your life for YOU. The rest will follow.
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:44 AM
1

Start making moves to be the man you want to be! Stop telling yourself "no" and make some moves
/r/seduction19/12/19 05:40 AM
1

Keep on keeping on 👍🏽
/r/seduction19/12/19 05:38 AM
1

Yes, there are some differences. Mostly girls doing whatever they can to initiate eye contact with the guy. Or get near him. I am lucky to be attractive enough that this happens to me when I dress nice enough or put off that vibe. It's different for sure makes things much easier especially if the girl that approaches is actually your type.
/r/seduction16/12/19 06:50 AM
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It's good that you picked up on this! Yes girls often flirt without having any intentions of doing anything with you. I wouldn't say it's malicious most of the time but it is a thing they do. One phrase I picked up that's helped me is the following: Attention for girls is like sex for men. By learning social cues, and body language as well as improving your skills in reading the mood you will be able to differentiate "i just want attention" vs. "I'm actually interested in you." This skill is har…
/r/seduction16/12/19 06:43 AM
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That means you are trying too hard and putting out that thirst energy. Back off a bit, go out some more and just socialize and enjoy yourself. Start getting back into your hobbies as well.
/r/seduction14/12/19 07:03 AM
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She double booked and the other guy got on the bus first. The bus WILL stop for you as long as you keep putting in the effort. Keep going.
/r/seduction14/12/19 06:57 AM
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Just go, go out with the intent to have a couple of drinks at the bar and talk to another guy or the bar tender. Crawl before you walk. What helped me was forcing myself out for at least 2 hours, talking to someone new (guy or girl for social practice) Also people watch, and try to predict what will happen while looking at the dates of others. Learn body language learn eye contact by watching others. It's tough at first but doable.
/r/seduction14/12/19 06:56 AM
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Met plenty of girls that preferred bigger dudes, especially the smaller petite ones. You'll be fine
/r/seduction14/12/19 05:29 AM
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No, dancing is one way to get it to happen. You're putting out the energy that helps it happen. Depends on the group and the situation but basically read the group and figure out an "in" indirect approaching is your friend here
/r/seduction14/12/19 03:36 AM
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It's not impossible to open a large set, just difficult. If there is a big dance floor then dance by yourself and genuinely have a great time. I can't explain it but if you do this a girl will start dancing with you. Then you can just talk to her. You will very rarely find a girl at a bar or a club by herself. Start opening group sets.
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:35 AM
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I'm still working on consistency but I enter 'flow' states more frequently now and pull directly from the club to home, or am making out soon after entering if that is what i'm looking for on a given night. Compared to these other guys i'm still a complete noob but my click moment was when i stopped caring so much. I mean really, i still get rejected countless times. Sometimes it's embarrassing, other times I barely notice. But at the end of the night it's all the same, who cares. Hell I literal…
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:33 AM
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Attention for girls is like sex for men. After disrespect like that you need to cease all contact. Do not respond, do not seek 'revenge' just delete her number and stop talking to her.
/r/seduction14/12/19 02:02 AM
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This worry is quite normal, honestly as long as YOU find her attractive that's all that matters. Yea people will judge you, they will judge you anyway. It's how the world works. The truth is, at the end of the day when that bedroom closes it's you and her. Anyone who disagrees literally doesn't matter
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:03 AM
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Upvote for sticking in that first set. I would've bailed after the second attempt. He used rejection as a way to build rapport and embraced in the awkward silences. "A" for effort.
/r/seduction14/12/19 12:43 AM
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Hey, since we're not gonna see each other for a couple of weeks, i'll check in with you every so often. That cool? I wouldn't send this, ever. Just respond when she hits you up. The girl is supposed to chase. If she goes cold, she wasn't interested in you in the first place. It's a hard reality but that's the reality. If she is into you she WILL make time and she WILL stay in contact.
/r/seduction14/12/19 12:41 AM
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This guy has been posting here for the better part of a year now...Just don't respond. He is a troll, makes an account asks this same question then deletes his account then does it again a day or so later. No one knows why, just ignore him
/r/seduction14/12/19 12:40 AM
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That's brutal...
/r/seduction12/12/19 11:18 PM
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Yes twice, once when i was much younger and much stupider. Actually changed me mentally. For the better, and again more recently, it hurt but not as bad as the first. It's funny that i'm over it now but I am grateful for the experience and the memories. Always remember that you can never go back to what was. Move forward.
/r/seduction12/12/19 11:18 PM
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Very interesting, i'll try being more direct and dominant
/r/seduction12/12/19 10:48 PM
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I've had the same experience, it feels sketchy to do but as long as you're confident about it then this works swimmingly
/r/seduction12/12/19 10:45 PM
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Nice!!! Everyone has to start somewhere! good work OP
/r/seduction12/12/19 09:26 PM
2

Yes, has happened to me before. Sometimes they use it as an excuse because they aren't into you. Sometimes its legit.
/r/seduction12/12/19 04:56 AM
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I've done this a few times, it can be awkward and I try to avoid it. If it's just her and her mom then introduce yourself to her mom first. Be gentlemanly and upfront. It's a weird dynamic but it can work, i have witnessed it work but there is a lot of "posing" going on. Not in a bad way just attempting to placate the mother. Another way to do it is to flirt with her while the mom is temporarily gone, you can turn it into "her little secret" like she was 'bad' with her mom around
/r/seduction12/12/19 01:14 AM
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Of course, always assume attraction. Hopefully you see her again but if not....lesson learned
/r/seduction12/12/19 01:12 AM
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shes been kind of weird on committing to another meetup She is juggling a couple different dudes, you included at the moment and she is in the process of making a decision. That or she isn't ready to date you exclusively. I would move to another girl while she is being flaky. One thing that stuck with me from this sub is the following: It's hard for a girl to text you while she's fucking someone else.
/r/seduction11/12/19 04:00 AM
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"OK" then keep talking about what you were talking about. If she isn't down when you change the subject then let her go. Sometimes when they say "I have a boyfriend" i jokingly say "so do i" then I continue on with the convo or change the topic. It throws them for a loop then they get curious. Which keeps them invested in the conversation.
/r/seduction11/12/19 03:14 AM
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Always assume attraction
/r/seduction11/12/19 03:13 AM
1

Very good advice!
/r/seduction11/12/19 03:12 AM
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TL;DR this please Ok i read through this whole damn thing....be careful with girls that have a crazy vibe. Yea the sex is good but there WILL be repercussions. Also, she is just using you for attention when she feels unloved. Attention for girls is like sex for men. Remember this. If you must, shoot her a text and set up a date if she becomes unsure or flaky drop her ass. She isn't bringing much to the table outside of a general attraction. Don't waste your time with one girl for a simple lay. S…
/r/seduction11/12/19 03:07 AM
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Talk to everyone who is receptive. You learn a lot about the area and sometimes get invited to dope parties if you're there on the weekend. Really try to geniunely enjoy yourself. It's amazing what the universe does for you when you actually try to have fun.
/r/seduction11/12/19 12:47 AM
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No, caring about it is.
/r/seduction10/12/19 11:27 PM
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start up a convo with a girl in a bar in a town where I know no one and no nothing about You answered your question for the most part. Go out to a bar or two and just start a convo (approach) a good topic is that you are in town temporarily and don't know anyone. You can use this to your advantage for getting a quick hookup with no expectations.
/r/seduction10/12/19 10:14 PM
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Nope, have more respect for yourself, drop her and move on
/r/seduction10/12/19 10:06 PM
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Stand up for your beliefs, be outcome independent, if she says or something you disagree with tell her. Don't be afraid to disagree with her. Girls WILL shit test you to see if you are a "yes man"
/r/seduction10/12/19 09:49 PM
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My vote would be to try the gay bars or college club areas nearby depending on your age. You are basically doing the same thing as us guys with the added advantage of being a girl. Understanding how a woman thinks and flying in under her radar. Use your stealth to your advantage!
/r/seduction10/12/19 09:05 PM
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Yea he went for the indirect approach for sure, but you weren't into him which is fine. You can go out with your guy friend but generally don't expect dudes to roll up to you when he is around.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:59 PM
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This is another option which makes more sense than what I said earlier
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:47 PM
1

Absolutely! check out the FRs in my posts! Edit: Wanted to add a summary. Basically never had a real problem with approaching and picking up girls until after a long term relationship and essential had my heart broken for a second time. Like in pieces....anyway, fell off the horse in a big way and had to start almost from scratch. Lost most of my skills by having too much consistency. Went from absolutely nothing, not even a glance in my direction to making approaches at any given time. Day game…
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:36 PM
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Absolutely, if you are at a bar with you and a guy/guy friend most guys will not approach. I've had this happen to me when I see girls with guy friends at bars. I wait for the guy to get up and go to the bathroom then I approach. It's risky but usually works out somehow
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:35 PM
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Good luck! Please update us if you smash
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:33 PM
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Great FR. Its a tough one to get consistent but remember you don't have to prove anything to anyone. Especially some random person you just met at a perfume store.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:32 PM
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Ok if she said she would be down then let her set it up, go to her place and enjoy some flirty chill event. Maybe have a nice hookah or watch a movie with a light drink or something. The other option is to have sexy times in front of her roommate and invite her to join in. The way I did it was the latter, let the girl i was hooking up with set it up. How to bring it up later I wouldn't, let your actions speak louder than your words. Hang out with her in their room and be a bit touchy. Maybe kiss…
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:27 PM
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Either or is a good idea, you can always go for the dinner date at the dining hall. Let her know that you want to hangout and get to know her more. It's usually easier to do this in a college setting since there is always something going on.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:20 PM
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I'm still very flirty, they can usually tell what i want out of the interaction due to the setting im in. Which is typically a club or a bar, if i wind up hooking up with them I make it known that I am not looking for a committed relationship.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:17 PM
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Even professional athletes "warm up" before starting a game. You just need to warm up a bit with a few different approaches.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:12 PM
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Honestly you should keep yourself busy. She is at home with her family and possibly other dudes from her town. Shoot her a merry christmas/happy new year text then leave it alone. Hit her up again when she is back to plan the date.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:10 PM
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Communication, establish a relationship (of any sort) with a guy you're interested in. Then literally communicate what you want. It sucks that sexual communication is so limited. Every since i've opened up about what i'm into, sexy times are much more fun and rewarding.
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:07 PM
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Read the sidebar for the "how to's" essentially, give her stellar eye contact. Make a sexual joke, tease her. Call her dorky or something.
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:58 PM
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This is an absolute FACT
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:36 PM
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lol are you joking man? your age is perfect for approaching! This seduction works throughout life. I'm older than you and still approach tons.
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:35 PM
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You didn't build any attraction at all. How was your eye contact? Did you guys touch at all? Anything? Did you flirt with her, tease her anything else? If you simply met up for a nice tea then bailed then that's all it was. A nice tea and bail.
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:33 PM
1

I'm not hung up on it. This is the way to be!
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:31 PM
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Nah, i've done it a few times before and it's usually met with teasing or her actually replying "please"
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:30 PM
2

Absolutely, you waste your time less as well. Nowadays I approach girls i'm interested in. If it doesn't feel right or they are being stingy then I just move on. If they can't see a million dollars looking at them dead in the eyes then why do I want to waste my time?
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:22 PM
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Natural game for me, I rarely run into "middle of the road" girls. They are either super into me or not at all. The structured approach could help remedy this but it feels too robotic for me. I prefer to use my wit and gift of gab to let the game flow, for better or for worse. I use structure more so in my text game since that shit is so repetitive. Once sent my guy friends a screenshot of three different convos i was having with different girls I was texting at the time. Exactly the same shit f…
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:20 PM
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She texted me at 11:30 PM asking to come over, and I politely declined This is like the "incubation" period of a relationship/FWB thing. You declined her advances and she got offended. Obviously that wasn't your intention but it appears that's what happened. Excellent looking out for yourself though, if you're tired, you're tired. The only advice I can offer if this happens again is to invite her over then netflix and chill (seriously like cuddle or something else)
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:16 PM
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Go out and experience the world a bit, go try some nightlife, go talk to girls. Start anywhere really.
/r/seduction10/12/19 03:20 AM
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Yes this stuff actually does work. The sidebar has some great info and the Art of seduction is another great book.
/r/seduction10/12/19 03:06 AM
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I'm not here unless we both want to be. Absolutely this! Has saved me so much time especially recently.
/r/seduction09/12/19 10:21 PM
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I try to live in places that have a gym within it. So usually just my home gym. I wouldn't go to the gym specifically looking for girls though.
/r/seduction09/12/19 09:53 PM
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I try to keep the gym neutral ground, unless the girl comes up and talks to you. Which happens more often than you think. Happened to me a few times but i wasn't into them
/r/seduction09/12/19 09:29 PM
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I am not submissive in any sense of the word. However if you have a fantasy or a kink simply communicate that to the girl. She can't read your mind, and the sooner you tell her what you're into the sooner you can get your rocks off. Simply telling her what I wanted or what i was into saved me a lot of time and always equaled a lot more fun!
/r/seduction09/12/19 09:01 PM
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Sure thing, i would like to caveat by saying I am still working on my own text game. But a key I learned is to not be "boring." it's an obscure statement, but sending a text like "Hey, fun meeting you blah blah" is boring as shit. Girls get this text all the time and its annoying. Comment on something that happened during the date, tease her a bit or something similar "Why where you so weird drinking your water like that? lol" Or something else more interesting. The girl knows it was fun meeting…
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:55 PM
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You didn't fail anything. You learned quite a few things, approaching and number closing. Now look into why they flake/ghost you. That's the only common denominator. Girls will ALWAYS have loads of options and older women are plenty interested in younger guys. Just gotta find the right ones. A good example that I like to use, girls flake/ghost on me because at times I can be very needy. Which is something I learned i need to work on. Think about what might make a girl flake/ghost on you. It's mo…
/r/seduction09/12/19 08:33 PM
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Excellent post, hopefully more guys see this
/r/seduction09/12/19 04:10 PM
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The same girls that have rules about not fucking on the first date will break their own rules for you. No joke, after learning about this on this sub years ago, every time a girl tells me this as we are going home i KNOW we are having sex. Just the sentence alone means she is thinking about sleeping with you. Keep the reply to this brief and let it pass with a simple "ok" and move on to the next topic
/r/seduction05/12/19 11:12 PM
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a lot of girls will come home with you but have no intention of sleeping with you If a girl comes home with you she is planning on sleeping with you. If she doesn't you talked yourself out of it somehow. No girl that is sane is going to a man's home, alone, and isn't expecting some form of sexy times. i don't have sex on the first date Just a "i'm not a slut" defense. Your job is to not make them feel guilty for sleeping with you. Read a book called 3% man
/r/seduction05/12/19 11:10 PM
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something risky that would grab her attention/affect her on an emotional level
/r/seduction05/12/19 11:08 PM
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can also make you feel like shit Damn ain't that the truth. It's hard to explain until you experience it too.
/r/seduction05/12/19 05:28 PM
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Yea keep things light and fun. Keep her off balance and dont send noods unless she explicitly asks for them. Contrary to popular belief most chicks dont care about what your dick looks like. If you must send her noods dont go full nood. Tease a bit....fucking "send teasy nudes" man lol
/r/seduction05/12/19 05:25 PM
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I wouldn't respond to a subpoena on that beach. And now you know part of the reason why girls don't text guys back sometimes. What text would you respond to on that idyllic beach? As I said earlier, I hate texting and am working on getting better at it myself if i were in your shoes i'd text something provocative or funny. Just think of something anything, if you really want go to r/tinder and get their tips. Tinder is really all about text game and saying the dumbest shit you can think of. Mayb…
/r/seduction05/12/19 12:52 AM
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I fucking hate texting so much. But i'll do what i can. Your responses are boring. There is no fire or anything and she got bored hence why she hasn't hit you back yet. Also remember she has at least 5 other guys she is talking to currently. You have to pique her interest some how. Make a dirty joke, tease her set up a date. Something different. Here is what helps me, imagine if you are relaxing on a nice beach in the tropics somewhere. You just banged 3 girls at the same time and you are enjoyi…
/r/seduction05/12/19 12:06 AM
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I can squeeze in pretty much anywhere when it comes to night life. Any club, any location. Makes the awkward bit easier. I also get the "shock" value of my age. It helps build interest and is a conversation topic. A dumb thing I do which for some reason works often is, saying something along the lines of "How old do you think i am?" She responds with the wrong age, then asks how old I am "I'm not telling" said in a teasing way. She starts to pursue a little bit. "i'll tell you if you kiss me" th…
/r/seduction04/12/19 08:59 PM
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hmm, this is a good read and something I struggle with. Had an instance of this the other day at a club where I was basically "IN" and talked myself out of sex by being a needy asshole. I will read through the rest of this later.
/r/seduction04/12/19 06:11 AM
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Never said he was "hideous" I said he was balding. He is confident carries himself well and generally doesn't give a fuck. You don't have to believe me, i really don't care.
/r/seduction04/12/19 06:03 AM
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There are all kinds of ways to create tension. Physical tension (touch) literal push pull tension (distance) emotional tension (eye contact) / affect her emotionally. Say something that pisses her off, then say something that makes her happy. There are all kinds of ways to do it.
/r/seduction04/12/19 06:01 AM
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This is a common fear, you will have plenty more opportunities to lay down some pipe. Stop worrying about it so much.
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:43 PM
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The best advice we're gonna get honestly. I wasn’t really attracted to her personality. I was attracted to her ass. Once more men learn this the better we will be for it.
/r/seduction03/12/19 07:18 PM
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One of my acquaintances is balding. Dude is 22 and he gets loads of booty. The girls don't care because of his confidence and how he carries himself. You can't really help your genes man, just be confident in yourself. If YOU need to do something to make yourself feel better about your body then do it. But honestly a bit of confidence goes a LONG way. Side note; you guys should witness this dude tear through tinder. It's disgusting lol
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:44 PM
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Even the best masters still learn
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:41 PM
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Just approach
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:14 PM
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You are putting too much effort into what you say, simply talk to them as you would anyone else. If they are argumentative or get mad then they aren't for you. Move to the next.
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:13 PM
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Probably a BS excuse but whatever. Have fun on your date.
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:12 PM
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Had a really and I mean really sexy chick over this one time and put in so much work to get to that point when she was in my bed I stopped caring. Sex sucked and then afterwords we went our separate ways. I felt used lmao
/r/seduction03/12/19 03:42 AM
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Nice job! Improving in the sack Be in the sack more, for the rest foreplay and going down. Just do it more often as with anything it takes practice. Second date Hang out and have fun like with the first, build some more tension. If you are trying to date this girl then keep building the tension
/r/seduction03/12/19 01:44 AM
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You broke up with him right? Why do you want to contact him again??
/r/seduction03/12/19 01:42 AM
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Communicate with them as you would any other girl. If you put them on a pedestal at all it will turn them off.
/r/seduction03/12/19 01:40 AM
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You're investing too much into a non-existent relationship. Let it go.
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:10 AM
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As with everything in life, if there is no risk there is no reward. Guys appreciate directness. Just ask him, if he says "no thanks" or is taken then move on. It's a part of the game just approach it head on.
/r/seduction03/12/19 12:08 AM
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Have your girl do the searching and the vetting. You'll have better luck than if you do it since she will vouch for YOU. What makes things easier is if you take her along with you when you go out for the night clubbing or whatever. Make it a fun game where you open girls and she steers the conversation to something sexual. Girls are more receptive to each other. And it greatly helps to have one vouching for you in terms of safety/etc.
/r/seduction02/12/19 11:41 PM
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She probably lost interest. Set up a date and get her response. If not, move on. I've had girls (recently) that i've made out with took my number and never hit me up.
/r/seduction02/12/19 11:37 PM
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This girl is the type that isn't great with texting give it a couple of goes, set up a meetup if she is flaky or doesn't respond let her go. Saves you time and energy honestly. Don't delete them from your phone though they may hit you up later. I just add a little ghost or freezing emoji to their contact in my phone.
/r/seduction02/12/19 11:36 PM
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Seconded!
/r/seduction02/12/19 10:10 PM
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We want updates!!!
/r/seduction24/06/19 08:30 PM
4

Never worry about the perfect opener. If you have no idea what to say, simply say "hi" no joke. Just "hi" or "good afternoon" or something. It really doesn't matter
/r/seduction21/06/19 10:36 PM
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We've all been there man, chin up! You either Win or you Learn!!
/r/seduction21/06/19 10:35 PM
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Check out my previous FRs it gets easier. Much easier! Just keep at it.
/r/seduction21/06/19 04:05 AM
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This, dont buy her shit. They will take this as over investing. Yea yea chivalry and all that, not for the first date.
/r/seduction20/06/19 04:45 PM
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Great read! Now that I think about this, outside of my eye contact I dont really project sexual energy. Its an interesting thought and something I'll try.
/r/seduction20/06/19 04:23 PM
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Yea i was thinking that too! Gonna go with "Hit me up, take care!"
/r/seduction20/06/19 05:19 AM
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I think you're right, for real. Oh well, on to the next!
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:20 AM
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True, but I want to try something new
/r/seduction20/06/19 01:13 AM
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I recommend reading The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene it goes into depth on this.
/r/seduction20/06/19 12:52 AM
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Stop giving a fuck
/r/seduction19/06/19 11:33 PM
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Yea thats the way to do it! More recently I don't say anything. Usually I get "we aren't a good match" or something along those lines, usually I just say nothing lol. But yea maybe I should try the "hit me up, take care!"
/r/seduction19/06/19 11:32 PM
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Eye Contact Undefeated!
/r/seduction19/06/19 09:49 PM
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You are already alone in your apartment and cooking together is a perfect date activity. Enjoy yourselves, keep stellar eye contact. Triangle Gaze (google it) and then physically escalate. Do I make a move while fist deep in batter? Absolutely! That shits hot! I'm sure she's already fantasizing about it. You're already winning OP, just follow through.
/r/seduction19/06/19 07:00 PM
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Always show off gains with well fitted clothes. Speaking of, I need to go clothes shopping again. I have a baby face so the best I can do is a goatee, my mustache looks dumb I think so I cut it.
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:14 PM
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Literally make her feel. Something, anything! Anger, happiness, joy, remorse. Something. Girls operate on emotions and typically have a baseline that they are at. If you can take them on a rollercoaster of emotions they will be hooked to you. Typically you would want to start with happiness when you first get to know them. Once you establish an early relationship take them on the emotional rollercoaster. This can be really manipulative and I advise against it, but a girl will become hooked to yo…
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:10 PM
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what is this? Are you just looking to hook up? A shit test mixed with LMR. She was down to smash, if you turned this into a joke and then watched what she was DOING (body language) instead of saying then you would've been good to go. I probably would have turned her comment into a joke then proceeded with escalating. Sometimes a girl waits until the arbitrary number of the third date (typically the "sex date") in order to have sex with you. No idea why. Honesty is good and all but sometimes it d…
/r/seduction19/06/19 03:58 PM
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Damn, some solid advice here. Pretty much how I have lived my life too. It's too short to worry about what others think of you, do what makes you happy, talk to those who make you happy. Take chances, enjoy yourself!
/r/seduction19/06/19 03:52 PM
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I get those all the time, I just remind myself that i've got nothing to lose and just go for it. The worst case scenario is she says "no" it's really not that bad.
/r/seduction19/06/19 12:31 AM
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Laughter is a massive key to seduction for me. This PUA stuff is like learning how to DJ. Anyone can be a DJ but it's up to you to find your own style!
/r/seduction18/06/19 11:45 PM
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Translation: "I'm sorry I didn't get back to you. The guy in was seeing ain't down with me anymore so you're up to bat. What are you doing?" Its an IOI though!!
/r/seduction18/06/19 09:34 PM
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Dunno why this vid has so much hate, I think you did a great job! It helps when they escalate you from the get go!!
/r/seduction18/06/19 09:31 PM
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I'll be honest OP. This girl has a BF and multiple kids. You need to associate yourself with something better. This girl is nothing but trouble, be glad she blocked you and move on. I get that finding someone you are physically compatible with is like a drug but you gotta recognize your value and seek that in others.
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:46 PM
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Men: how do I become sexy?? Women: spatial awareness Lol. I'll have to look into Salsa classes if I have the time
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:15 PM
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Lololol
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:06 PM
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Give good eye contact to everyone, it's what I do. A little bit at a time and eventually you can basically stare down anyone. The crazy part of it is and it sounds pseudo-sciency but I can tell when a girl is really into me and can get an early read on them. I can tell if their being "just nice" "looking for attention" or genuine interest now. Be careful with it though, the wrong kind of eye contact with the wrong person is trouble.
/r/seduction18/06/19 04:11 AM
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Try being handsome and young looking. I feel like a puppy sometimes "You're so cute." (like how you would tell a puppy) Followed by shock when I tell them my age. UGHH hahah
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:37 AM
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Find groups that do your hobby or join a gym. I recently moved to a new city and that's the first things I did. Go out more and meet new people and talk to new people as well. It won't happen overnight but you'll get there!
/r/seduction18/06/19 03:34 AM
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Nah, this is all "asking her permission" to be in her presence. Just a simple quip, something fun, cute, a little dirty. "Turns out I prefer little spoon" Something simple, be funny, courageous not boring.
/r/seduction18/06/19 02:33 AM
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Sometimes the straightforward method works
/r/seduction17/06/19 09:25 PM
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First things first, you need to focus on your studies and yourself. You also sound quite depressed. You need to get back in gear and get outside, seriously. It's amazing what a little fresh air can do. You also have to trust yourself enough to focus on yourself. You are only 22, you have all the time in the world and I can almost guarantee that you will forget this girl in the very near future if you let yourself. These things happen especially in college, you have your life to live and I am wil…
/r/seduction17/06/19 09:20 PM
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Read 3% Man by Corey Wayne, there is a whole chapter that describes this and how to fix it.
/r/seduction17/06/19 08:02 PM
1

interesting. I'll try this
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:17 PM
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Depends, it's all a numbers game regardless but your chances will go up if you look for IOIs and approach those girls. For example, you walk into a club and see 100 girls, out of those girls 10 are interested in you. If you approach all 100 you will locate the 10. But it's more efficient to look for IOIs from those 10 and only approach those.
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:10 PM
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Nice guys are guys who think they are "owed" something when they try with a girl. Like a participation trophy or something. They are also those who think that just because they did the right thing or thought of the girl other than themselves that they deserve to "get the girl." Every guy has the potential to be a nice guy and even ladies men have scared off women by doing nice guy things on accident. Either genuine or otherwise
/r/seduction17/06/19 07:07 PM
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Sometimes a guy simply isn't interested. It's the same for girls as it is guys, if he/she isn't interested then move on
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:05 PM
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A couple of reasons, the first most glaring is the gym is not a hang-out spot. You go to the gym to put in that work, you go to the gym to try to better yourself. Not talk about love/life, too many sweaty bodies and people grunting. Also it will make her self conscious. Simply go to a cafe or something. Have some balls, have some courage. Ask her out for coffee....be careful not to shit where you eat too. Always be cautious about dating girls from work.
/r/seduction17/06/19 04:44 PM
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Wait a day or so then give her another day/time that's not the gym. If she flakes again then let her go.
/r/seduction17/06/19 04:11 PM
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I clicked on your website since you added a TL;DR here. Thanks
/r/seduction17/06/19 03:31 PM
3

But I got dumped by a girl for my size You don't want to be with an asshole like that ever in your life.
/r/seduction17/06/19 03:04 PM
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Try different things, see which gets you the most looks. Better yet, try what you like and don't explain shit to anyone. It's your body, if you like it then that should be good enough.
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:57 PM
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How to deal with insecurities about your dick Is there literally anything you can do about your dick size? Nope, what about your height? Also nope. Then accept it and stop worrying about it. Girls care way less about your dick size than you could ever imagine. Porn/TV have warped lots of guys' perspectives on this. It's really a non-starter issue.
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:48 PM
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If girls are spreading rumors about your dick in a bad way then your seduction/skills in the bedroom need some serious work. This sounds more like a personal phobia really.
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:40 PM
2

Aggretsuko, episodes 8 & 9 the character Tadano is written as a seduction master. They also show some of his text game which is honestly super solid lol
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:38 PM
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A couple of issues: Stop looking for closure Stop putting this chick one a pedestal/you have oneitis You friendzoned yourself, cut contact and move on. You gotta move on OP, you're missing out on a bunch of other girls because of this one chick who is currently banging a dude thats not you.
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:30 PM
5

Your dick has absolutely ZERO relevance when it comes to seduction.
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:27 PM
2

She likes the attention, ignore these types completely
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:24 PM
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Pretty much what i'm doing now, kind of just doing my own thing at the moment. Not getting laid consistently which kind of sucks but everything else is going really well! So I can't complain, It also takes a lot of pressure off when I approach girls. I approached this really tall Hungarian chick at a club a couple of days ago. I knew I was going to get rejected but it was nice talking to her and I learned that talking to someone without expectations makes an already awkward conversation go quite…
/r/seduction17/06/19 02:20 PM
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I've dated very, very attractive women. I can say that none of them have cheated on me. Mainly because I don't put up with that shit. Or drama, as long as they know you arent afraid to walk you shouldn't have a problem.
/r/seduction15/06/19 02:06 PM
1

No idea, I'll check out wonderland ballroom yj Though
/r/seduction15/06/19 02:03 PM
1

The girl pursues and the guy leads, typically speaking. You as the girl should pursue until the guy picks up on your hints. Guys are normally not tuned into the super subtle hints girls give. What might seem like jumping up and down and waving to you might seem like a slight nod to us. The reason why guys you pursue now reciprocate in the "worst" way is simple I think. You're 20, guys around your age are mostly just smashing and enjoying themselves as they should. Just make it known you want a b…
/r/seduction14/06/19 12:58 PM
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I'm a grown ass man who has money, security, a great place to live, wisdom, and authority over my life. I'm more experienced and stand out from the younger crowd because I am a more educated, experienced, and powerful person in society. There are many women for me to choose from and since I have so much value, I have the right to choose any woman who fits my criteria and responds to my advances. Wow thanks!!
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:54 AM
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In general, girls are like cats. Gotta let then come to you most of the time. Every try pursuing a cat for a nice pet? They usually run away.
/r/seduction13/06/19 09:37 PM
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She's getting ready to ghost you, pull back a little pursing her and wait for her to reach out to you. She is probably feeling a little crowded by your attention. In the meantime hit up other girls
/r/seduction13/06/19 09:33 PM
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32, went through a shitty breakup of a LTR a few years back. This community helped me get back on the horse (eat that horse 🤣). Really glad I joined here, slept with plenty of new women and started to really just go for my goals and put out there what I want and the universe has provided, exponentially! I am still working on getting a solid FWB but so far has been a bunch of hit and quits mostly due to me being needy which I am actively working on. I'm way more smooth now then when I first joine…
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:29 PM
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I'll start doing this more myself. Texting is such a pain in the ass
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:28 PM
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Shit dude, good on you man keep it up! I dont feel as bad when I get rejected now but yea, getting all those in a row still sucks.
/r/seduction13/06/19 04:27 PM
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FACTS
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:24 PM
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Nice work! What was that 7 or 8 rejections before you hit! This is inspiring, keeps us all trying.
/r/seduction13/06/19 02:23 PM
2

The tourist aspect helps for sure, but I would say dont think too hard about your approach. Just approach.
/r/seduction13/06/19 12:40 PM
1

If she is already at my place I go for the sex. If we are out in public somewhere I tease and build tension.
/r/seduction12/06/19 06:56 PM
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you keep caving she is gonna walk. Exactly what happened to my last lay. Super hot and cold and I kept being a needy chode. She walked.
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:13 PM
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I have a massive baby face, i'm 32 but people think i'm like 22. It's nuts, I just roll with it and treat it like a shit test. I always joke about it. I use it to my advantage usually. I am still successful with girls.
/r/seduction11/06/19 09:28 PM
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Show her, don't tell her that you're "safe" and that she can be "comfortable" with you. Basically flirt with her but be more subtle about it. Be funny, make jokes be a chill guy. Sometimes when i do this kind of approach I make a joke or semi-flirt with the non-target. Then if the vibe is good I might brazenly say something like "mind if I talk to your friend real quick?" most of the time she will giggle and say "sure!" then wait patiently. Of course your mileage will vary but that's one way to …
/r/seduction11/06/19 06:33 PM
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Approach her while her friend is there and gain her friends approval/trust. She will become your pseudo winggirl
/r/seduction11/06/19 06:24 PM
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Ever hear of "hate-fucking?" Build the sexual tension so high that you basically jump each others bones. The less words the better, go work out at the gym loads. Walk around every now and then with your shirt off and your pants/shorts down a tiny bit lower. Make a grunt when you get up, but nothing too overly masculine. You want her to feel comfortable but you want your sexual energy flowing out in the open around her. Give her STRONG eye contact, triangle gaze, all of it. Make sure your eye con…
/r/seduction11/06/19 05:18 PM
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Assume attraction
/r/seduction11/06/19 04:31 PM
1

Cool, now you know what you actually want. It's a start
/r/seduction11/06/19 03:28 PM
1

I guess I should just focus on gettin my business started and try to keep going to meetups in my free time A good start
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:27 PM
2

Absolutely it exists, I have a few girls I know that are actually friends. Some of them I've been friends with for 10+ years and have gone to their weddings and stuff. Yes they are very physically attractive but we are just friends and they are good people.
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:22 PM
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Damn, i could use a confidence boost myself! But this is awesome! Nice OP
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:20 PM
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What do you WANT to do? Obviously you have a business that needs creating so do that. Oddly enough, when you stop worrying about something so much that's when you attract it, especially when it comes to women. Still go out and have fun, talk to girls yadda yadda but just enjoy yourself work on your business. Read some books about self improvement or getting out of your own headspace. Trust yourself and move a direction. Not saying it's easy, but it's a start.
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:17 PM
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This actually works wonders, having fun and dancing hard (even if you suck) draws girls to you. After a couple come up to you and start dancing ask the one your interested in to take a break with you.
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:15 PM
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The first step, stop feeling bad for yourself. You are telling yourself all of these excuses and lies of "why nobody loves me." It's bogus, no matter how "real" it seems in your head, you are feeding yourself bullshit so stop that. Secondly, the best step is one in a direction. Pick one and just start walking, that's it.
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:10 PM
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Oh yea, its a pain in the ass to get back into the flow of things. One thing i've done that actually has helped me is flirt/go out while I was in a relationship. I didn't close any of these other girls and it never got too far, always stopped before kissing and other stuff. But it keeps you current and capable on "how to game." My ex used to tease me when i would look at other girls or flirt with a cute waitress while we were out. I always kept it fun, but it does help.
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:09 PM
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Filter Damn this one is the most important I think. Too many of us see a cute girl and go "wow she is so cute I MUST get with her" then we start tailoring ourselves to how she is and her lifestyle. Sometimes you just won't vibe with a girl no matter what you do. We need to stop killing ourselves trying to be the perfect match for her. She needs to be a good fit to begin with, things are much more easier then.
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:55 PM
4

"Is this you missing an easy layup?"
/r/seduction11/06/19 05:23 AM
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hmm, my spidey senses are telling me that her telling you about her friend "intterogating" her is a shit test. Look explicitly into that one. It seems like she is testing you to see if you are going to blab to her friends and make a big deal out of it when you eventually smash. Which seems like you will soon at this rate. Girls talk to each other about guys and this kind of stuff all the time, they do it as often as they breathe. So her specifically telling you this screams shit test to me. I gu…
/r/seduction11/06/19 05:20 AM
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About 5:30 PM onward on Thursdays and Fridays when the weather is warm out. Basically every single attractive girl in the city is heading out for happy hour and all manner of activities about then. It's honestly pretty insane, especially by the verizon center in Gallery Place/Chinatown. Hang around that and the national mall which is only a few blocks away and you're set. It's a little overwhelming at first but it's a good thing since there are countless options. Your biggest issues are the supe…
/r/seduction11/06/19 05:12 AM
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I used to game just like that, super direct and forward with my intentions. I'd say it was pretty successful, but only with a small handful of women and it was a ton of approaches. This was in a college environment as well mind you so that also played a factor. Nowadays in adulting life, the indirect approach works best. Unless if she was eye fucking you of course.
/r/seduction11/06/19 05:00 AM
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First things first, you have some insecurity issues as you have stated. It's great that you recognize that you have these issues. Try working on that, secondly what is your goal? What are you looking for? Just sex? A relationship? Figure that out first, really be level and honest with yourself then move forward with that information. You are on the right path, change doesn't happen overnight and nothing good in life is easy.
/r/seduction11/06/19 04:54 AM
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Now you're thinking like a true friend!!
/r/seduction10/06/19 09:42 PM
5

I recommend literally saying things like "we're becoming good friends!" or "I love hanging out with friends like you!" it's subtle but helps them not overly flirt and keeps things friendly. You can also do nice things for them and and be overly kind for no reason, that will get you firmly in the friendzone.
/r/seduction10/06/19 09:08 PM
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Really glad that you realize you need to go to therapy OP. There is nothing wrong with it and wish you luck in your journey! It takes a true man to admit he has a problem and to actively do something about it. Good luck to you!!
/r/seduction10/06/19 08:37 PM
3

It happens man, you move on. You did what you could, it didn't work out you try better with the next one. Just keep on trying!
/r/seduction10/06/19 08:29 PM
1

These good videos keep popping up, I think this was great advice! I encounter the "girl who is leaving in a week" all the time. I'll try some of this.
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:26 PM
1

Everyone likes something different, you like what you like.
/r/seduction10/06/19 02:13 PM
1

Most excellent
/r/seduction08/06/19 05:16 PM
1

wtf stay your ass right there OP, give it another 10 then bounce.
/r/seduction08/06/19 12:17 AM
1

Sounds fun! I do this every now and then. I'll do this tonight for fun :)
/r/seduction07/06/19 11:47 PM
2

You're doing a lot of "boyfriend stuff" for a girl that isnt your girlfriend......is she going out with other people? Like is she bed ridden or something?
/r/seduction07/06/19 12:30 PM
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Depends on your location and some stupid setup of pics and pets lol. It doesnt work for me but my friend crushes it on there. I prefer in person approaches. Tinder doesn't work for everyone.
/r/seduction07/06/19 12:28 PM
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Dont text that at all, it's super needy and you're basically begging her to grace you with her presence. No thank you. Instead tell her something simple, "you free on Saturday? Let's go to X coffee shop and grab a drink." If she doesnt respond or rejects you then stop talking to her and move on. You are wasting all this time on one chick.
/r/seduction07/06/19 12:22 PM
1

This club looks fun as shit! I wanna go!!
/r/seduction06/06/19 11:58 PM
1

We all gonna make it, we just gotta get out of our own damn heads.
/r/seduction06/06/19 11:55 PM
7

Fear and doubt is just your subconscious trying to protect you from harm. It's a primitive thing your brain does that tries to keep you safe, generally speaking it does a good job of it however your subconscious can be a little bit over zealous. Fear and doubt are phantoms, lies you tell yourself that block the way for success! You can't succeed until you're willing to risk failure. You are at the point where you think you should stop, but it's quite the opposite. When you think you should stop …
/r/seduction06/06/19 11:48 PM
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The first step, dont let a compliment break your frame. Keep doing what you're doing, make it not a big deal. When you do sleep with these girls though make sure you ROCK their worlds! They will talk between each other and you will be set. Just be careful since it is a work environment.
/r/seduction06/06/19 04:07 PM
4

Damn this is good advice. Yes! I'm taking notes
/r/seduction06/06/19 04:04 PM
1

You need to work on yourself as you have just described you have some internal issues that should be sorted first. Work on that, get more hobbies, then go for the girl.
/r/seduction06/06/19 04:00 PM
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You invested too much too early, the whole "give a ride" thing is something guys get caught up in often. Hell it almost got me last night, sometimes you need to tell a girl straight up no, especially if it's an inconvenience to you.
/r/seduction06/06/19 03:59 PM
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That other guy isnt being needy, you probably text these girls and put all kinds of pressure on them. Which is easy to do but chill out more. Dont stress so much and enjoy the interactions more. You will have better luck that way
/r/seduction06/06/19 03:55 PM
0

You dance with them, or go talk and invite them to dance with you. On the dance floor typically you just "do"
/r/seduction06/06/19 05:48 AM
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Yes they were interested in you, next time dance with them and have fun. On the dance floor it's all about energy and fun! Make sure you have both.
/r/seduction06/06/19 05:32 AM
0

This video was really good! I laughed at "Slow Gazelle" haha
/r/seduction06/06/19 01:39 AM
1

It's easy for me to say what you should have done in hindsight, with practice it gets easier.
/r/seduction05/06/19 09:08 PM
1

No not really, if she doesn't message you before then or she gets flakey in her responses to you she wasn't interested anyway. Also, life's short man. Better to go in for the kiss when the vibe is right and risk rejection rather than sitting back and wondering about "what ifs"
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:35 PM
2

I wanted to kiss her lips Why didn't you? What do I do now? Plan dates with other girls, and wait for her to hit you back. Give her till Friday, then drop her a message to set up another date. If she takes forever to respond or isn't down move on.
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:29 PM
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Pretty much
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:27 PM
2

did you ever set goals for yourself like "talk to 10 women, get 5 phone numbers, etc.?" I tried doing that, but only found myself getting more and more frustrated. So I changed my strategy around a bit. Instead of talk to X number of girls I changed to. Go out tonight and start a conversation. Didn't matter with who or where, just start a conversation and see where it took me. I would also like to add that sometimes, you just don't want to go out and that's ok, everyone needs a breather/a rechar…
/r/seduction05/06/19 07:56 PM
2

What goals did you set for yourself when you first began learning about seduction? At first I didn't believe in this stuff especially didn't believe in the PUA bs, which i still think is a little bs. But I had nothing to lose so I told myself that I would give it a shot for a couple of months and see what happens. What techniques/strategies did you use to achieve those goals? Document, document document. I originally wrote what I did during the course of a night in a personal journal but switche…
/r/seduction05/06/19 07:27 PM
1

"do you normally invite yourself to other peoples things? 🤣 We'll see :p"
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:58 PM
1

Stop doubting yourself, tell the universe what you want. When the opportunity presents itself TAKE IT!
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:56 PM
4

If you are bored with your own life. How can you expect a girl to be excited about your life?
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:52 PM
3

Shame I can't smoke anymore, ughhhhhhhhhhh Pro-tip:"Girls love free weed"
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:51 PM
2

1% of me is a gluten for pain Bruh i'm gluten free......😂 I want to hit her up tomorrow No you don't! You risk losing her by becoming needy. No joke a few weeks ago slept with this slammin' Asian girl as well only to get all needy/chodey with her and I lost her completely. Sometimes you gotta let the cat come to you OP. Just chill, approach other girls, do other things, keep having an awesome life. She'll hit you up!
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:49 PM
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You already got the green light OP, when they come over and chill with you just get physical with Jenny and don't be shy about doing it in front of Kate. What you're doing is setting the mood and allowing them both to know without words and through actions that you are a sexual being and them also being sexual beings in front of you is safe and acceptable. Be very relaxed, open and non-judgemental. As you are getting physical with Jenny maybe make a glance or two at Kate. Not in a "why are you h…
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:43 PM
2

Nice!
/r/seduction05/06/19 06:39 PM
1

😁
/r/seduction04/06/19 09:04 PM
1

The best way to salvage would be to stop talking to her for a bit, let her pursue you a little. A cat will typically leave after you give them enough attention and come back when you ignore them.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:59 PM
1

Yea its probably an age range thing, I'm in my 30's but look like i'm at most 25. Be weary of the girls you attract/talk to, if they are lacking respect for you the common denominator is you. It's something i've had to learn the hard way myself.
/r/seduction04/06/19 07:56 PM
1

Play it cool & don't be needy Boy do i need to work on this
/r/seduction04/06/19 06:16 PM
2

I'll take you up on this, thanks
/r/seduction04/06/19 06:14 PM
1

not really, if you want to take her out offer to take her out. She knows why you're talking to her.
/r/seduction04/06/19 06:02 PM
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Friday cancelled 15 minutes before saying she forgot her family was coming into town to celebrate her birthday Now that is a real shitty lie Saturday asked me to find her in a largely populated area of a city and hopefully I’d “run into her” That is just disrespectful The disrespects in these flakes would make me drop them both personally. If the first one actually put a little effort in the lie I would hit them up one more time. The second one, absolutely not. Don't waste your time with girls l…
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:32 PM
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Excellent post
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:20 PM
5

mention "Date." Girls will all too often use the hangout as a just friends sort of thing.
/r/seduction04/06/19 05:17 PM
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Don't forget as well, attention for girls is like sex for men. She may have gotten all the attention she wanted and then started to guilt trip herself out of it. There may be no right way to approach this. Might be time to approach other girls and keep it moving. She will come back when she is feeling more cooperative.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:55 PM
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About something; as in they have a job are actively trying to do something with their lives. Aren't on drugs, aren't looking to get pregnant or fuck up some poor guys life. They are about that business and that work. They can exist outside of a relationship with a man.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:53 PM
1

anything really, rather than say "i'm no longer interested" or "actually, no thanks" it's simply easier to block or ignore and move on. This is typically what people especially women do. I can't explain it and no it isn't right but that's the reality of things.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:52 PM
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Yea, she is guilt tripping herself. You were waiting for her to make the moves when you should have been leading. You were just a little slow in escalating is all. Lesson learned.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:51 PM
1

lack of proper communication and inability to say something uncomfortable. It's easier to ignore than it is to deny.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:50 PM
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If you notice that you ask yourself "why can't girls be straight up honest?" Then you over invested in the girl. Don't mean to be harsh its just a fact.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:22 PM
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Sorry to hear that man, i'm no lawyer and suggest you get one if she does indeed go through with these allegations. Keep ALL texts that you received from her. Chick sounds extra crazy so cut all contact with her and her friends, if you have mutuals then just be cautious. Girls like her can absolutely ruin your life stay away as far as you can. Since you're in college it's unlikely she will actually do anything but I would stay away regardless, never associate yourself with her or her friends aga…
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:15 PM
2

Exactly, totally pulling away will build her curiosity but will lower your interest. If you tease you get the best of both worlds. It's not easy to do but the payoff is huge when done right.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:08 PM
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Learn to tease, just hint at something more, something greater like sex or adventure. Then pull away. You will build tension between the both of you and you will stay interested.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:07 PM
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Stop talking about things with her, start DOING things with her! Go karting is always fun.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:05 PM
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What makes you interesting? I live my life and enjoy myself anytime I can. I've done some pretty cool shit and am currently doing cool shit. Doesn't always mean I get girls, hell plenty of guys out here are swimming in chicks but it's all good I'll find what I need eventually. are you just good looking. Yes I want to get better at disqualifying gold diggers For sure get better at reading body language, this is what has helped me immensely. All I want to see it some genuine people You are typical…
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:02 PM
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They would drop you otherwise. Not if you're interesting, i've had girls ask to buy them a drink before, I usually turn it into a joke or have fun with it. One time I ordered a drink when asked and then started drinking it myself, we had a fun laugh and talked some more it was chill. Body language is important. It's good you learned something but what you wrote reads like you're slipping into that incel mentality.
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:27 PM
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No they didn't "fuck you over" you fucked yourself over for not seeing past her game. The better you get at this seduction thing the better you get at seeing when a girl is playing games for amusement. I am almost to the point where I don't even approach a girl if she doesn't seem like she is out for a good time. My screens are almost at the point where I can predict if she is out to play games. I think all of us need to get to that point. Saves a lot of time, hell if you're bored too and find o…
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:22 PM
0

Don't we all play games? Let's say you want a job, they make you write a paper (your resume) and pass a couple of tests (phone/in person interview). Even then sometimes they test your proficiency at work via training and the like. With girls it's the same way, they play games to test your aptitude, they shit test you to test your frame/ego. Sometimes they do things just to bring excitement because you're boring them. It's how this relationship/sex stuff works. Girls play games all the time, but …
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:17 PM
1

First, will people on reddit please stop typing these stories with peoples names as "Z" and "F" just make some shit up, it's the internet, whatever. Call her Samantha or something its a bitch to follow letters as a name damn..... Secondly, when she wanted to "just cuddle" she wanted sex to be your "fault" and not hers. You kept asking too many damn questions when you should have continued to escalate. At times like this you should have read her body language and her responses to your ACTIONS rat…
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:50 PM
2

Well you already hooked up with her. Do whatever you want before hand. I personally don't hook up with a girl that I can't have fun with so do something you enjoy before hand. It really doesn't matter.
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:39 PM
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Damn, now this is a FACT
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:37 PM
1

I live dumb close to downtown DC. I reside in a downtown area as well so you always see girls. The good thing about this area is that it ain't cheap (good and bad) so the girls you typically run into are about something most of the time.
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:35 PM
2

Yes, there are girls everywhere even community colleges. Bad track records can only become a good track record with practice and persistence.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:50 AM
2

hmm thanks, i will take a look when i have some more time.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:11 AM
5

Nope, she obviously can't see my worth. That's alright, the next one will and if not, maybe the next :)
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:10 AM
3

I am not interested in this PUA stuff, i am more into the actual seduction things. Don't get me wrong PUA is great and works very well but it's not what I'm looking for right now. Maybe i'll change my mind. Gimmie a snippit, what paragraph in that book helped you the most?
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:30 AM
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I might give it a shot, a bit hesitant of that particular book though.
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:07 AM
1

To my surprise, she was very nice and very receptive of my approach Funnily enough, most uber sexy girls are real down to earth. "Most...." I've talked to my share of assholes with massive egos.
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:06 AM
2

It's amazing what happens when you respect yourself!
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:04 AM
8

These PUA videos are finally getting better, some good advice in here. nice OP
/r/seduction04/06/19 12:25 AM
2

Here is a tip for you, enough with the acronyms, enough with the theories and trying to figure out the "right things to say." Enough with it!! You need to crawl before you walk and walk before you run. Start doing some goals. "Today i'm going to say good afternoon to someone guy or girl." Start with that and just go out there and do it. You are paralyzing yourself with the process.
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:51 PM
3

Think of it this way, regardless of what happens with girls. You get one, you don't. You might date one, or not. Regardless your life will go forward, you will do your thing and the day/your life goes on.
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:40 PM
5

IG has its uses, i'm not one for social media but it makes things easier when a girl is super flirty with me. I get her IG and just go through her timeline. Either she is a thirst trap or she was just seeking some attention for the night cause her BF is in the feed. Gives you an inside glimpse. I wouldn't recommend it as your "main" thing though.
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:07 PM
2

Alright, would say mine is about (Date:Smash) 10:2 currently, in college it was 10:5 granted I was a different person in college and had the time to completely dedicate to approaches/parties. Adulting sucks 😂
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:06 PM
1

If you're asking about ratios, the truth is they don't really matter. Everyone is different. It's like asking "how many people have you've slept with?" a number is not really indicative of skills.
/r/seduction03/06/19 08:02 PM
1

I'll see how she responds to that text, i can adjust the positioning in person if needed once the date is set up.
/r/seduction03/06/19 06:11 PM
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Nope right out of there
/r/seduction03/06/19 06:03 PM
1

I like this! I'll try it if I don't get any other good ones in a couple of hours. Potentially: "Since you're wearing the pants how about you take me out for tea?"
/r/seduction03/06/19 06:01 PM
1

Hmmm i'll try some of this. Thanks for posting
/r/seduction01/06/19 04:06 AM
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Nope, you move on. Have enough value in yourself to move on especially when they say no. If she wants you she will pursue.
/r/seduction31/05/19 04:41 PM
1

Long distance attraction is always weird. She is for sure into you but you're damn far. It could work out but maintaining interest over that kind of distance with a girl you just met could be difficult. Just be ready to let her go and do what feels right honestly
/r/seduction31/05/19 04:07 PM
2

Dude wtf, dont face her just ignore it and let it go.
/r/seduction31/05/19 02:39 PM
1

Doesnt matter, if she doesnt respect you enough to acknowledge your existence then definitely move on.
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:28 PM
2

Nope, let it go
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:25 PM
1

Stop caring about the "why" you wont get closure about 90% of the time. Just something we have to deal with.
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:25 PM
1

You are upset she uninvited you but deep down want her to invite you again so you can talk to her. Its needy, dont feel bad about it just let her go man. Move on
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:23 PM
4

Alphas aren’t alphas ALL the time, everyone loses. Say it louder for the folks in the back
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:48 AM
4

I wouldn't shoot your shot on graduation day, the logistics suck. She is partying with her family and friends and is worried about just walking. Do it before or days after
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:29 PM
1

big ups posting things, i will recommend your videos for sure in the future
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:08 PM
0

FACTS
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:07 PM
2

Mind if i steal "have you messed with a black guy before?" Gonna try that tonight or this weekend thats fun!
/r/seduction30/05/19 10:58 PM
4

Yo! Fellow DC guy here. Gallery place/China town. National Mall. DuPont U street Adam's Morgan DC is absolutely nuts for daygame. You'd be hard press not to find a place
/r/seduction30/05/19 10:09 PM
1

Respect for posting the "learning" part of the process. You either win or you learn.
/r/seduction30/05/19 10:07 PM
1

So what if they recognize you what's the worst they can do in that moment? Blow your set, other than that not much they can do.
/r/seduction30/05/19 10:05 PM
2

Usually I put a hand on their leg and start to caress. If they move my hand they arent interested. 9 times out of 10 my hand stays things heat up quick.
/r/seduction30/05/19 10:02 PM
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That's the thing you dont "combat" someone else's charisma. You work with it and flow with it. If their charisma overpowers yours then refocus your own vibe. I totally get it when a guy with more charisma comes around and just takes the lead as the new group leader. It sucks, but forcing yourself against someone else's energy will only wind up with you leaving and being upset. You should be having fun anyway and not out only to just get girls. If it feels like the guy who took the lead is vibing…
/r/seduction30/05/19 10:01 PM
1

You dont lose your skills, you are just nervous/afraid of being shown up. Keep your frame and keep doing what you're doing.
/r/seduction30/05/19 09:58 PM
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Nice OP, I'll keep this in mind I need to start doing it more
/r/seduction30/05/19 12:52 PM
4

yep, she will look back
/r/seduction30/05/19 03:46 AM
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Depends on where they look after your eyes meet. I recommend reading a book by the name of Undercover Sex Signals. Not all the time but typically, if they look up after you look at them then this can be seen as them rolling their eyes at you and not at all interested. Or if they scowl. If they quickly look to the left, right, or down maintain eye contact. She will look back up at you eventually and will more than likely crack a smile. Body language is also involved but for starters eye contact i…
/r/seduction29/05/19 11:24 PM
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she said maybe I'll see. Remember if a girl is interest she WILL make time. I advise you start moving on to the other girls. Guys LEAD girls CHASE if you are the one chasing it won't work out.
/r/seduction29/05/19 09:45 PM
1

Trust, it's nothing new man.
/r/seduction29/05/19 09:02 PM
1

I eventually got another but yes...yes I did. One thing I learned after though, its all the same even the sex.
/r/seduction29/05/19 08:09 PM
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Finally! you guys are posting updates on what i've been preaching for months! Eye contact is powerful isn't it? Not a word between you two was said but you formed a connection. If you approached her she would have for sure at least given you her number. Remember that feeling you had, when you have it again with the next girl that is the time to approach and close! Try it again and again! I am hooked myself, i do it all the time now and the power it has is pretty ridiculous.
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:20 PM
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we dont have to just FALL for and chase a guy because he dicked us down! Lol Explains my last lay, because wtf. That shit was stellar. and then poof. YES we like sex just as much as yall I've been trying to tell these dudes!
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:17 PM
1

"It is easier to ignore than it is to reject"
/r/seduction29/05/19 07:07 PM
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Eye contact, if you do NOTHING else and your game is meh. Have killer eye contact and triangle gaze. I wish I knew this earlier as i have completely said the wrong things but my eye contact got me the girl. It's sort of an overpowered move but i'll take it.
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:50 PM
5

Yes I have, met her made out with her and planned a literal sex date for a few days later. This was while I was still relatively new to seduction. Got super needy, slipped into my chodeiness and got ghosted/blocked. Really cute Asian girl too with a killer butt, still beat myself up over it. Ah well, i learned a lot from that experience.
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:47 PM
1

Pretty much, i know another is right around the corner and they missed out on a zillion dollars standing right in front of them 🤷‍♂️ i treat it as their loss. Usually they give me some lame excuse why they can't see me anymore or whatever I don't even respond nowadays cause i'm already talking to the next chick or doing something else.
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:41 PM
1

Do some research if you're serious about making what you were born with work for you. I'm not going to run down all of your style choices. There are subreddits for that and google. You can also find a stylist. If you are serious about bettering your style you will research.
/r/seduction29/05/19 05:03 PM
1

The baby face look used to "hurt" until i made it work for me. You need to adjust your style. Get a stylist or check out a style subreddit and post there for help.
/r/seduction29/05/19 04:56 PM
11

Try giving yourself more than literally one day. Just have fun and enjoy yourself for a bit. Go to parties, explore, join some clubs. Stop pressuring yourself so hard. First day in college is typically the hardest with all the shit thats going on.
/r/seduction29/05/19 04:42 PM
2

This isn't something you should avoid. Use it to your advantage, mix your style with masculine and feminine. It will give you not only an air of mystery but you can potentially rock some of that k-pop glow which girls are going crazy for nowadays. Find a stylist have them suit and boot you. I have a baby face and have learned to dress properly to accent it. Helps loads.
/r/seduction29/05/19 04:40 PM
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Don't let it get to you OP, this happens all the time. Move onto the next one and don't text this one again until she hits you up first. Which may be sooner than you think. If not, you are already working on other girls so it's really whatever. Just had a girl "ghost" me yesterday after having an amazing date last week which was mostly just us making out at the bar lol. It happens for whatever reason, just push through it and find other girls.
/r/seduction29/05/19 04:30 AM
3

I usually comment on the activity they were doing before i approached them. My topics change all the time so I can't really say, but read the situation, your environment and the mood. Maintain great eye contact and you should be good to go.
/r/seduction29/05/19 04:29 AM
3

Wow, thats a lot to absorb! I like the double meaning closures too. I'll keep that in mind. Thanks
/r/seduction29/05/19 01:56 AM
2

Some good stuff in here, nice post. I'm for sure gonna use the "what's your biggest kissing pet peeve?"
/r/seduction29/05/19 12:51 AM
1

You got it, if she mentions her bf a few more times then its more than likely true. Or her not interested in you.
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:51 PM
1

Start with what I said, there is no "correct approach" or "perfect thing to say" start with saying something. Just go up and do it, life is wayyyyy to short to be worried about rejection. Tomorrow isn't promised to any of us.
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:31 PM
2

I am not yet ready to cold approach girls Yes you are! Telling yourself you "aren't ready" is just an excuse. Go up to a girl and simply say "good afternoon" start with that then keep going about your day.
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:29 PM
1

Revenge is NOT seductive...
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:28 PM
1

Make it a joke, the "bf" defensive mechanism is the first line of defense. Just have fun with it. If she really has a boyfriend she will let you know again, if not she will start laughing and joking with you.
/r/seduction28/05/19 10:27 PM
0

Nah, the "i have a bf" is just a shit test. Make a joke out of it, get their number anyway and text them later or instadate now. Either or, it's funny how "my bf" doesn't even phase me anymore lol
/r/seduction28/05/19 08:57 PM
5

Take a pic with your shoe on your head or something lol
/r/seduction28/05/19 08:48 PM
1

It does indeed work, there are a few different ways to do it. The PUA way (which is what most people are used to seeing/reading about) and the Seduction method. Both work well, both aren't guarantees
/r/seduction28/05/19 08:01 PM
1

Throw a dorm/house party and invite her over, I did this all the time to talk to girls. Works!
/r/seduction28/05/19 08:00 PM
3

When they start talking about their ex I usually interrupt and say something like "why are we talking about sad stuff?! We were just talking about fun happy stuff! Come on rainbows and unicorns! Don't be a downer on me!!" I just have fun and make a joke out of it, usually puts the convo back on track. That and I don't really care about their ex, I'm here NOW that's where their focus should be on you and the current interaction. Don't let them project those negative emotions onto your interaction…
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:37 PM
0

Instead of using a shot gun method (approaching every single "doable" girl) try looking for IOIs or feeling for the ones that vibe with you. Their energy etc. You are improving and you are at the point where you can do same night lays. I recently hit that mark myself, and have also been rejected a boat load of times. One thing you start to learn especially in seduction is that this is a numbers game. The interactions are general the same but with different people. It can get mundane pretty quick…
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:31 PM
13

OP, you're too damn predictable. You're too nice. Start caring about yourself more over her. That 10% is the "bad boy" these girls talk about non-stop. That "bad boy" is a guy that actually has some self respect and lives his life the way he wants. All guys have this but we tend to put girls on a pedestal for no reason. She has absolutely no fear of you walking away from her and that's a problem for her. That's the magical 10%
/r/seduction28/05/19 05:31 PM
4

Sometimes things don't work out, realize your value and move on to the next.
/r/seduction28/05/19 04:58 PM
1

Anytime I stop giving a fuck my sexual/dominant frame works out just fine.
/r/seduction28/05/19 04:57 PM
1

I can’t seem to just go up to a girl and call her cute If you literally go up to a girl and say this whats the worst that can happen? Maybe she'll laugh in your face? Maybe she'll say "aww thanks" and keep it moving. You are psyching yourself out by lying to yourself and telling yourself "no" before you even give yourself the chance. Just try, no harm in doing it. Everyone's gotta start somewhere.
/r/seduction28/05/19 04:56 PM
8

Start nexting her, don't invest so much so early. You barely know this chick. No reason to get upset over whats basically a stranger.
/r/seduction28/05/19 04:55 PM
1

My text game is crap too, but overall good video. I'm noticing higher quality infield videos going up nowadays. Finally.
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:58 PM
4

Pretty good watch, clear and concise and legit.
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:48 PM
2

It really is that simple, of course the scale slides the other way too haha. Good on her for approaching him too.
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:07 PM
1

Do what YOU love, don't be afraid to disagree, be ready to move on, have your own life.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:58 PM
2

No it wasn't evil. But if this style of game (although highly effective) makes you feel bad you don't have to do it. Find what works for you.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:55 PM
54

No she doesn't it's a typical shit test. Of course if OP does pay she will happily eat free food lol.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:43 PM
-4

I'm really not the best texter OP. Make a joke "Wasn't expecting you to be so forward, I like aggressive. So where we eating?" Edit: Another good response "Woah! you're trying to get free food already? How many times have you've done this? When's the last time you actually made dinner?!!!"
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:34 PM
-1

Make a joke out of what she said
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:30 PM
2

My bad for not checking out the second pic, she is still shit testing you. Continue to agree and amplify. She will stop eventually. She will do one of two things, start talking to you normally. Or continue shit testing until you both get bored. If she does the latter then she was a bad fit anyway and you've saved yourself some time.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:09 PM
1

but i wasnt feeling it at all so i just said good night. One thing I wish more guys knew, we don't "owe it to girls" to be into them. Sometimes we aren't into it, we have the freedom of choice to not go for it if we don't want to. I have cancelled plenty of times/not had sex because I wasn't into her. Just because she is there doesn't mean you have to. There are plenty of other girls that you will be into in the future anyways.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:07 PM
1

Oh then you are in better shape than I thought, at least when you're with her in person anyway. Good luck! Don't think too hard about the kissing part just enjoy it.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:04 PM
1

This is a shit test from her, agree and amplify. "Hell yea it's 2008, I used this line in chat rooms back in the day. It always worked!" Something along those lines. Turn it into a joke and amplify that joke to the point of absurdity.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:03 PM
1

Yup, she will be looking (staring) back at you. When you start getting nervous due to her eye contact and your heart is racing/its a struggle for you to keep staring back at her then you know you're doing it right. That thing you're feeling is sexual tension. You'll learn to love it.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:01 PM
1

When you first start approaching and gaining experience then don't look for IOIs, just approach girls that you want. Over time when you start to get better seek out IOIs. I recommend reading "Undercover Sex Signals" by Leil Lowndes. It's kind of an annoying read but it is stupid accurate.
/r/seduction28/05/19 01:00 PM
1

You should have a couple of minutes if she is reciprocating. All you can do is your best, so yea for sure give it a shot. Good luck.
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:56 PM
2

My idea is to FUCK IT and kiss her out of the blue when going for a walk tomorrow. ok BUT, try increasing the sexual tension a bit. Have some solid eye contact, triangle gaze, touch a little. Via on the shoulder a high five or something first. When she is reciprocating the eye contact then go for it. You should have much better luck! she tells me she doesn't know and is very busy A word of advice, if a girl is into you she WILL make time. All of these excuses you posted is just her flaking. I ca…
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:51 PM
1

Just kinda was going for it and wanted to share my experience with going for it sometimes. It's appreciated! continue going for it.
/r/seduction28/05/19 12:48 PM
1

Sometimes it's not meant to be, move on and forget about her. This actually happens more times than you think.
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:45 AM
1

Do what feels right, no one has this love and dating thing truly figured out. It's why divorce still exists. Fuck it and do it while you're still young I guess. Good luck OP
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:43 AM
3

Honestly, get your smash in. But remember that they are an Ex for a reason
/r/seduction28/05/19 02:28 AM
1

When you start thinking negatively try ending those thoughts with something positive. "I don't look that good today.......BUT I can at least wear something nice and have a good time, maybe i'll hit the gym later" always end on a good note.
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:16 PM
3

Bumble is garbage for "seduction." contrary to popular belief girls aren't good when it comes to opening on dating sites. The guys do most of the chasing so when it's on them the interactions usually lack. I have gotten "hey" from girls loads of times, only to go on their profiles and they explicitly state "don't message me "hey"" lol. Just keep playing the numbers game when it comes to dating sites.
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:03 PM
1

Eye contact, plain and simple. Google triangle gaze, it's secret gold.
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:51 PM
1

Hardcore facts
/r/seduction26/05/19 02:03 AM
1

Sexual tension, like touching, eye contact, etc. What happens to you (and what I used to do as well) was do all of that stuff to get her back to my crib. As soon as I got back it was basically "go time!" in my head but this typically will scare her off, however you need to treat a girl in your place the same as you would just getting into a cold pool. Slowly enter it, don't just jump right in. Build some tension dammit! Tease a little.
/r/seduction26/05/19 01:54 AM
2

Used to be my problem, you didn't build enough sexual tension. You built it well until she got back to your place then stopped all tension. She gets bored and moves on
/r/seduction25/05/19 02:02 PM
6

Can second this, when you are dancing like you don't give a fuck and own the place is when random girls come up and approach you. I wasn't a dancer until recently. Seriously helpful.
/r/seduction25/05/19 01:59 PM
1

I'm talking to this one girl long distance too so I know your pain. You really just have to do your own thing and live your own life man. That's how I treated this relationship for years. Sometimes we call each other, usually we just hit each other up when we can. We both have pretty busy schedules so you get used to it. If you are waiting for someone to text you then you have too much time on your hands
/r/seduction24/05/19 06:03 PM
1

Just having sex for the sake of sex or validating yourself sucks worse than simply jacking off and going for what you want in life. Really, I also learned this lesson the hard way. But it's a lesson we all have to learn.
/r/seduction24/05/19 01:04 PM
1

I can't give you a real "timing." You just have to do it as long as it feels right. eye contact is a very emotional thing so you just have to trust yourself and try to feel her emotions via her body language and eye contact with you. Its thrilling and nerve wracking but seriously effective.
/r/seduction24/05/19 01:01 PM
1

You explained it just fine! I would add that when you do this think about sex with her. I know it sounds dumb but it is incredibly effective. I wouldn't practice it with a girl you arent interested in because it's kind of a slimy thing to do. You WILL turn them on, only to not give them what they are looking for. That's not seductive, that's just being mean. But yea give it a shot, you will notice your success skyrocket.
/r/seduction24/05/19 04:18 AM
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Either or, every single time I've used it I have at least made out with the girl I did it too. Every single time, it's kind of powerful once you've mastered it. And I don't recommend doing it on a girl that you arent interested in.
/r/seduction24/05/19 03:33 AM
2

Most men are afraid of prolonged eye contact with a girl. Let alone anyone else. How many men have you met that could give you prolonged eye contact. Probably not many, on top of that most guys don't know how to build sexual tension this way through triangle gaze (google it) try it sometime. You will notice a huge improvement in your game. Honestly, at first it's not easy, scary as shit. But after some time you will get the hang of it.
/r/seduction24/05/19 01:37 AM
6

Nice work OP!
/r/seduction24/05/19 12:40 AM
2

That is the best, onenote my absolute faves is when that happens and you know you're about to make out. Its almost like telepathy. So much fun.
/r/seduction24/05/19 12:39 AM
1

My best "pickups" have been girls that I've had fun with through conversation. Just enjoy yourself and the interaction.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:47 PM
2

Getting a number is a numbers game. Its a little bit harder but try going for an insta-date close, then if that doesn't work go for the number. Guys typically go for the number first. Change that up a bit, make the number LAST! A number is just that, a lottery.
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:46 PM
1

I think the community college/surrounding lunch areas are a bingo OP!
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:41 PM
1

Is there a college nearby?
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:02 PM
14

Eye contact has done so much for my game its crazy Haha.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:58 PM
0

I wouldn't say I immediately improved, I was just reinforced with what I already knew. It helped but I probably wouldn't have paid for it. Trial and error is a better teacher in my eyes.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:57 PM
1

"Did a tragic accident occur so you stopped?" Or something else funny?
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:56 PM
4

I alternate between smooth and chode. I have no idea why yet, but when I'm smooth I don't care if at all and am just having fun. Whatever happens, happens. When I'm a chode I'm super needy, think too hard about what I'm gonna say and do and am generally self aware, it sucks. I am still trying to get this under control for consistency sake.
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:49 PM
3

Sexual tension and eye contact are your friends. Dont be afraid of eye contact. This will build sexual tension, hold on to it. Ride that wave, if your heart is beating fast, so should hers.
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:49 PM
1

Seconded
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:46 PM
3

A better read than I thought. For sure will try some of this stuff
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:41 PM
1

Good move
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:37 PM
-1

I'm usually at a club, a gym or generally walking around. Guys like us typically enjoy a girl that comes up to them and chats them up. As long as you put yourself out there you will be able to get your hands on one of us. Not being as picky would help too. Try something new! Be approachable, have "open" energy.
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:22 PM
2

Nah hit her up tomorrow or something, dont be needy.
/r/seduction23/05/19 04:19 PM
2

Happens to the best of us OP. Had something similar happen a few times I wouldn't stress it. In the meantime give her some space and look for other girls.
/r/seduction23/05/19 12:24 PM
1

You hold the camera which gives you a bit of that voyeuristic appeal. You are already rocking a bit of that fantasy element to this. Keep things professional but throw in a tiny flirt here and there and see if she reciprocates. Adjust and escalate from there.
/r/seduction23/05/19 12:21 PM
7

If you are unsure if a girl is interested in you then approach her and gauge her interest level. Always assume attraction.
/r/seduction23/05/19 12:18 PM
4

If you NEED this job, then dont shit where you eat purely because she knows your boss and if things go south then you will have problems at work. Secondly, trust your gut and assume attraction. If she is attracted to you and you are making good eye contact and feel the vibe on the date ask her back to your place to "listen to music" or "have a coffee" they know what's up but they dont want to feel slutty doing it. Lastly, I would say your chances with this girl are pretty good you just have to t…
/r/seduction23/05/19 12:16 PM
1

Open this sub on your computer it's literally on the right hand side, under "seddits"
/r/seduction20/05/19 07:38 PM
1

I would start with the guides section on the right hand side of this sub. After that go out and approach, document here the situations and how the approaches went via FRs (Field Reports) and take lessons learned into your next approaches. It takes time but you will only get better.
/r/seduction20/05/19 06:33 PM
1

If you are interested in a girl and are unsure if she is into you, then you are officially her "friend."
/r/seduction20/05/19 05:42 PM
2

This is exactly what I do, you shouldn't be invested at this point anyway. One time I simply walked away because she was acting disinterested.
/r/seduction20/05/19 05:40 PM
2

Would like to add, it's been a long time since I've seen a video that actually sounds great! This feels like seduction!! Thanks.
/r/seduction20/05/19 05:32 PM
5

Ah, I see you are a man of culture as well
/r/seduction20/05/19 05:09 PM
1

Obviously dont say this to a random girl you just met. OP asked how to respond AFTER a compliment, yall taking my post out of context and for some reason loads of people are salty. You dont have to take my suggestion it's really not a big deal....
/r/seduction19/05/19 10:49 PM
2

Facts
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:59 PM
6

escalating physically with others because of my childhood If a problem is that deeply rooted, I recommend therapy. More people (men especially) need to seek it out. It can really fix some issues. Ignore the stigma attached to it.
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:30 PM
1

Absolutely, just be chill about it.
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:27 PM
2

Typically I start dancing myself (even if i'm alone on the dance floor) and genuinely have a good time. Most of the time they join up, if not, well at least you're having a good time.
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:26 PM
1

No regrets OP, at least you tried! Rejection happens and is a part of the game. Keep moving!
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:25 PM
4

I wouldn't, not during Ramadan. Those whom practice Islam tend to be very reserved during this time. Source: Currently talking to a person of this faith.
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:23 PM
1

So you should know, i've said this on more than one occasion and it's worked every single time. Always generated a positive response. You guys need to have some more courage, i mean really.
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:20 PM
1

The "your legs" is supposed to be interpreted as sexual. You can't get a girl attracted to you if you're afraid to show a sexual side of yourself and your thoughts. Downvote all you want lol
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:19 PM
1

women are their own people That's right! and as their own person they have the responsibility to RESPECT their significant others.
/r/seduction18/05/19 10:17 PM
5

Nah, let her go she ain't interested. If a girl is into you she would have rescheduled and given you a solid date, time and place. Regardless of the facts if she wants to see you 1 on 1 she would have made certain that it would happen, sickness or not. Let this one go.
/r/seduction17/05/19 11:51 PM
3

Hey! Now that is a great way to respect yourself! Hell yea OP.
/r/seduction17/05/19 08:15 PM
-5

The next time a girl tells you "I have a boyfriend" tell her "So do I!" Then talk about something else. Sometimes girls use the "bf" excuse when they aren't sure. Other than that good job, keep approaching!
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:59 PM
28

Whatever floats your boat, i don't judge. A simple thank you works as well.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:39 PM
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When you get a compliment from a girl try playing it off as no big deal and maybe add something like "Yea they are nice, but your legs have my eyes beat!" Have fun with it.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:28 PM
1

Hmm at this point in my game I can do either or. But the best would be night game for me. When a girl is out on the town she is trying to have fun, makes things a bit easier. But rejection comes just as easy.
/r/seduction17/05/19 06:29 PM
3

Do what the book says and you should be good.
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:29 PM
7

Why are you letting her talk to her ex? Honestly when this starts it's already downhill. It also shows a lack of respect to and for you. Bail on this relationship. Your other option, read 3% man by Corey Wayne. This book goes into detail how to deal with this situation.
/r/seduction17/05/19 05:27 PM
2

I naturally talk fast, like a squirrel lmao. It's best to slow it down a bit and speak confidently. But I am naturally energetic so I've learned to play it to my advantage
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:10 PM
1

I went to college late as well, you'll be fine! In fact you'll be ahead!
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:31 PM
12

It's not that we are mean, we just have self respect. If the girl I'm talking to is being an asshole I let her know or just make fun of them. Most of the time they aren't expecting it and get turned on. Other times they genuinely hate it and in turn hate me. I like to think that I'm a decent guy with good intentions but I know my worth. If I'm talking to a random girl just to smash, why put up with her shit? There are hundreds of others that want me more and would be cooperative. It's all about …
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:28 PM
1

Google triangle gaze, if you dont manage to kiss her after doing that then something is wrong.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:23 PM
1

Elaborate
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:41 AM
4

It's not dying, not by any stretch. The rules just changed a little due to social media and not in guy's favor. Women have their pick of the litter within any given 30-50 mile radius of men quite literally at their fingertips. The "Why try harder" mentality is whats at play now
/r/seduction15/05/19 10:17 PM
3

This is the only correct answer
/r/seduction15/05/19 05:09 PM
6

As a black guy I can tell you right now that the size of your package doesnt matter. It's funny cause guys care more about their size than women.
/r/seduction15/05/19 05:08 PM
3

How's your eye contact? Build tension that way the next time you two are together and she asks you a question or something say "I'll tell you if you kiss me.." has worked for me so many times
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:28 PM
1

Nah, I would move on though
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:26 PM
2

I would transition from it then ask her out
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:22 PM
2

Simple take her ass to Starbucks or a really cheap cafe and split the bill. When you get really good at this you can even fake not paying for the bill or seriously only paying for your portion to see her reaction. Guys need to remember that the first date location really doesnt matter as long as you can talk and logistics back to your place are good.
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:17 PM
5

That was a weird segway. The whole "fantasy" topic thing is good to get girls to text you back but bad for actually setting something up. Also take a look at the length of her responses. She wasnt really invested. Excellent try though!
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:15 PM
1

I think you're right.
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:10 PM
1

Oh yea absolutely have rejected this on more than one occasion. Just kept plowing through.
/r/seduction15/05/19 12:10 PM
3

Sure, I highly recommend checking out my previous FR's (Field Reports) you can basically see the progression. I'll sum up what drew me here. I had a LTR with this really attractive white girl, we got along really well and things were going well but I had to break up with her because things were taking a turn, she wanted marriage and kids and all that but at the time I wasn't ready and felt rushed so I cut her loose. After a few months I started to feel lonely, fell into a pretty bad depression a…
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:35 AM
1

Reddit exaggerates greatly I'm 5'9'' and see mainly tall girls with much shorter dudes. It's the same as a girl saying "oh I had the biggest dick of my life, blah blah blah" girls perspectives are off number 1 and number 2 none of them are running around measuring dicks they've come across, most of this is based off of emotions and the energy you put off when you meet/interact with them. It's all about perspective. The fact of the matter is, girls (guys too) don't know what they want. They have …
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:25 AM
3

I remember watching this video a couple years back, thanks for reminding me of it. Really good! One of the FEW videos that I for sure recommend guys to watch for approaching. I still suck by answering a bunch of questions but I force it to work. Using bridging like this guy is really good. Makes things way easier.
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:21 AM
6

No to all 3, do not talk to women outside of the country. Chances are high that they are scammers/dogs
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:41 AM
1

Yes and no, on one hand sex is awesome and really can make you feel great afterwards. Lots of fun too, on the other hand if the sex sucks you feel like you've wasted your time and will just be frustrated. Also you have to worry about STDs and pregnancies. A pregnancy scare is NOOOOO fun. Had a couple of those
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:35 AM
1

Thanks, i should write an FR about it. It was pretty crazy how it happened. But yea, basically did everything I learned from here and elsewhere once I let go, and just treated her like any other girl.
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:41 AM
2

I'd have to agree dressing well ups your chances exponentially. You can get an amazing wardrobe on a budget especially as a man but that's completely up to you. I recommend getting your clothes tailored to be fitted or have a girl help you shop.
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:41 PM
1

Hmm this is a tricky one, looking at this purely from an objective stand-point. He already has another girl on his side vouching for him, and his is speaking with utmost confidence (albeit stupid and completely incorrect) he BELIEVES what he is saying. Therefore he drags her over to his side. It's kind of dumb but that's how the human mind/emotions can function. But magicians to this day make you believe that they disappeared a whole stage of "voluntary audience members" ;)
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:25 PM
1

Big ups!
/r/seduction14/05/19 08:40 PM
23

I used to think that Asian girls were like some sort of untouchable being, especially being a black male. Recently though I finally got that Asian girl....They are exactly the same as every other girl. A girl is a girl, that's about it really.
/r/seduction14/05/19 08:26 PM
4

There is no such thing as a magic pill. I can pretty much promise you if you were to get a lesson from this guy it would consist of theory, situational technique and some form of emotional trickery. Not saying that this is the "wrong" way or there is anything wrong with that but there is no. Magical method that always works. If your goal is to simply sleep with women then by all means find a tech that works for you and repeat it over and over and sleep with women as often as you can like that ot…
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:46 PM
1

As he said, he was a sex addict and currently recovering. As far as his seduction skills looks like he mastered it. Not sure what the question here is?
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:33 PM
2

Everyone's "art" is different, in the terms of this con-man he felt that this was best for his "target" everyone is different. What you get on this sub is generalizations of accepted "standards" of seducing. The guy in the video was an absolute professional at seduction. Most men, not so much. He was able to read that this lady enjoyed the attention and the extra bit of clingyness and he played to her weaknesses. It's not an easy thing to do.
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:31 PM
1

Con-men are indeed seducers but this isn't what most of the guys here are trying to learn. The Art of Seduction goes into this with detail.
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:19 PM
2

It means stop giving her so much attention for a little bit.
/r/seduction14/05/19 06:16 PM
3

Pretty much this, most girls who are sexually active have at least one FWB. Depends on what you want from her but regardless it's best not to worry about a little competition. Side note: /u/PrincessRala the guys on this sub could use more of your insight
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:35 PM
1

There is a counter play, you do it to. I recommend being comfortable with your sexuality but emulate what she does. If you're having a beer or a wine lightly and subtly lick the rim of the glass. Caress a menu that you're holding. The trick is to do it very subtly. She WILL notice.
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:33 PM
0

Always assume attraction
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:17 PM
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How's your eye contact? I consistently go out and deal with bar stools all the time. If you have good eye contact then touch is unnecessary to build tension. And when you do manage to touch her it's just a bonus
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:43 PM
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Always assume attraction
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:43 PM
0

Hair touching or "Preening" is an IOI.
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:20 PM
4

Pretty much you got it! I'm reading a lot of the comments here of guys calling you bitter but I disagree. I believe you are finally recognizing your value. There are a million women out there who are actually interested in you, approach and find them. Once you do your success will go up, less frustrating too when the girl is also on your team. Don't ever be afraid to let a girl go.
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:16 PM
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You always want to assume attraction, however after a bit of back and fourth either ask for the date or make things more flirty. If she goes cold then you have your answer
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:57 AM
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I agree
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:54 AM
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Ah yea, OKC is notoriously just as bad. I have a stupid amount of experience on it. Move on from that chick, nothing you could have done. She was just seeking attention and gave you a minor chance.
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:51 AM
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If she isn't down with you simply because of that you don't want her anyway. You ain't got time for shallow chicks.
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:50 AM
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Give her some space for now, send your well wishes, give it a couple of weeks (at least a week) then check up on her. Use that as a Segway into a date. If she seriously got in a car accident she probably isn't concerned about guys for now
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:49 AM
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Damn, threads like these remind me why I dropped tinder. This girl is annoying me lol. I would ask r/tinder, I have no good response. Tinder is a tricky place because most are there for sex. So text game gets a bit weird.
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:48 AM
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This is a classic text, depends on if you want to be her friend. Basically this is a rejection but she doesn't want to actually say it and make you feel bad. She is busy with some other dude, so you can either hang around her and deal with the occasional hangout with mostly flakiness OR you can just move on
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:44 AM
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It's college, shoot your shot always. No regrets, party as hard as you can until the end of sophomore year. Then lock down and finish up to graduate. Shoot your shot, make a joke or something to get her to laugh then ask. Keep the pressure low especially with college dates.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:10 AM
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All facts in this post!!!
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:11 PM
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hmm, i'll keep that in mind. Thanks
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:19 PM
9

whats your game plan? Enjoy myself, talk to people who I feel like talking to.
/r/seduction13/05/19 04:51 PM
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What the fuck is this shit? Reported
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:47 PM
1

Assume everything is a shit test. Agree and Amplify. Her response But i'll let you boss me around just this once Is supposed to be a bit of a sexual tease, maybe hit her back with something like "Fine with me, I don't mind some whips and chains" or something along the lines of her dominating you. Obviously an absurd joke but that's the shit test. She is testing your confidence/strength. Keep it funny, keep it light. If you really had balls you could respond with an insinuation to her always foll…
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:41 PM
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For now accept your feelings and know that it's ok to feel them. Eventually though you gotta move on.
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:16 PM
1

You can't change everyone. The way I look at it, I try to be a good person, a strong leader, a confident man. If that's not good enough for some people, fuck em'. Then I move on. I care about being looked at as sexist because as a leader you have to remember that your image is important. People frown upon those that punch down.
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:14 PM
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It's hard to learn who you are at that age, that's why you explore and try new and different things. Go on a trip, backpack through Europe. Find yourself, why do you think all the young folks are running around jumping out of planes and hiking and road tripping at your age? Enjoy life, go party. Do something different! Sign up for a work study program in Japan or something.
/r/seduction13/05/19 02:52 PM
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I just became who I am, I became me. Which i can describe as loving, NEEDY, chody etc. Keep the loving part, work on the NEEDY, chody, etc and you're good to go. That's about it. If a girl doesn't like you for you then she was a bad fit anyway. Guys and girls get annoyed by needy, chody people. So for sure work on that. Keep the search up and don't be so hard on yourself. Why am I so needy You are so needy because you lack something, A hobby, a skill, looks, wealth, ambition. It can be anything …
/r/seduction13/05/19 02:40 PM
1

"Dead Fishing" isn't really LMR, it's her telling you that she isn't interested anymore without actually saying it. The likely reason why you even got that far (groping and kissing) is that she felt bad for making you come all that way. Nothing you could've done. Forget it and move on to the next.
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:50 PM
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I couldn't set up a date because I live in Europe and she lives in China and she had no plans to come to my country. You aren't doing this for pen pals, you're doing this in order to get the girl. Also, this is sounding more and more like a scammer. Let this one go and move on
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:46 PM
1

Well thats what it is
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:45 PM
1

I can think of that it might have been is that at the end she was always talking about how much money she had made on some cryptocurrency or something. This was a scammer In case it wasn't a scammer, which it totally was You took too much time to set up the date. Next time just pull the trigger
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:29 PM
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A girl shit tested me a few weeks back making a joke of why I was out alone and how I didn't have any friends. Agreed with her that I had no friends, and amplified by jokingly saying I was leaving since she made me "depressed." I obviously wasn't going anywhere but I physically stood up and and put out the energy that I was really leaving. She literally grabbed my arm and said "I was joking!!!" to which I replied "I dunnoooooo." It was all jokes but it worked. Another that i've recently done tha…
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:26 PM
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I've had situations where the girl took the lead and it was glorious. I just basically showed up, and then left the next morning. It was a lot of fun too. But it's rare
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:17 PM
1

how long to wait between messages and stuff That's text game
/r/seduction13/05/19 01:16 PM
3

I dunno, just how it is. I'm sure there are some books/videos out there that puts it into an elegant non-sexist way. But if you ask me, that's the game. Is it fair? Probably not but here we are.
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:25 AM
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Damn do I feel this post. Whew lad. You don't have to do this your whole life depending on what you're looking for. If it's just a hookup then yea you gotta keep that mask on. But if you want an actual relationship seek out more serious women and eventually you will find yourself with one you can just be "you" around. Keep searching.
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:11 AM
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Stop caring so much, really that's it. Don't be afraid to "lose" her and go for it.
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:09 AM
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Whats wrong with expecting a leader to lead? Edit: "Only, it's only game. Why you have to be mad?"
/r/seduction13/05/19 06:08 AM
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