Hey guys, I have read numerous posts and books on game and similar PUA stuff. As you see I created a new user for this since I wanted this to be motivation for me to keep these field reports up as a sort of journal of things I am trying out in the field and events. Sorry if the formatting is off or if I broke some rules. Wanted to post this while it was still fresh in my head. Just a disclaimer (no offense as well) I generally think this PUA stuff is kind of dumb and is a gimmick. But after trying it and still in the process of getting my game up I have noticed some results which is honestly blowing my mind a bit. So onto the Field Report

I'd say my most major issue is closing, I used to be able to do this years ago but I don't know what happened it just all fell off after getting my career in order. I think i've been too focused on working and online dating. So I am trying this to get back into the real life game.

My Stats

  • Skinny/Athletic

  • Black

  • 5'9'' Height

Date

  • 5/7/17

Arrival Mood

  • Upbeat

  • Confident

  • Energetic

  • Nervous

I rolled up into DC alone of course since all my wing men (general friends) are now married, have kids or are soon to be married. So most of the things I do are alone or with a rando I just met. The event was a meetup.com thing where we would do rooftop bars and go to a few of them within walking distance. I was driving so i did not drink much (1 beer at the second bar).

Upon arriving there seemed to be loads of events going down in DC, and the theme was Kentucky Derby night so lots of people were dressed up in race horse track apparel it was pretty cool. Right before I rolled into the parking garage there was this very cute black girl that spotted me and her and her friend started dancing in the middle of the street in front of my car! I was laughing cause that shit was hilarious, and as I pulled into the garage they approached my car and I rolled down my window and started talking them. Of course I offered them a ride to their car and learned a bit more about them. They were both from Kenya! and they had this crazy British accent. Since I was still really upbeat and confident we just chatted about whatever until I got to their car. Then I asked the cute one for a kiss on my cheek as a reward for giving them a lift, she declined giving some BS reason or some such. I then said "Alright, if I beat you in rock paper scissors then you have to give me a kiss on the cheek" of course I CRUSHED her (rock always baby) and then she gave me the kiss. But damn that kiss on the cheek was some sensual shit. She used a bit of tongue too. What in the hell? I did not get her or her friends number and they left the car I wished them a good night and went ahead to park my car. I know you're thinking "Kenic you fucking clown what is wrong with you?!" Honestly I wasn't interested in her, she was cute but i'm stubborn as a mule. If i'm not interested in them I truly let that shit go. It is probably a problem of mine, and if you have advice let me know.

After parking the car I walk out of the parking garage all good looking and confident and shit, and I walk to the bar where the meetup was supposed to take place. I took the elevator up to the top floor and saw the people that were part of the meetup, it was a bit awkward since we were all strangers and it was the first stop. But I go to the bar grab a water and just observe (I normally do this when I don't know anyone or see anyone i'm not super attracted to off the bat). While observing I see this one dude. Let's call him "Booty Maestro" (this is his PUA name I gave him lmao) I call him this because I originally saw him with this one sort of decent looking skinny white girl. Then as he was embracing this girl he was flirting openly with another chubbier girl. Like really chubby. I took a mental note of this and walked around some more and met a couple of random dudes they were cool so we stuck together for a bit. Then the host comes up and let's us know that we were departing this bar and heading to the next one. During this transition I introduce myself to the majority of the group and a couple of the cute girls that have been floating around.

We all cram into the elevator and just start talking, I make a few comments about how close we are now and everyone laughed I am pretty decent at making on the spot jokes like that. I like making people laugh when I can and the girls seemed to like it. After we got off the elevator the host corrals us together and tells us the plans for the evening. while he was speaking is when I noticed Booty Maestro kissing the decent skinny girl, then almost immediately kissing the chubby girl he talked up not more than 10 minutes ago. Here's where it gets crazy, right after he does that he starts talking to yet an even chubbier overweight girl, and within 3 minutes he slapped her clear on the ass. What the shit???! I was stunned, he had all of them on his arms. Albeit they weren't the best looking but i was impressed like some shit i'll tell you what.

After the host stops talking we all depart this bar and start the short 5 minute or so to the next venue. While walking their I decided now was a good time to get away from those dudes I was hanging with and introduce myself to some of the girls. I created 3 goals for myself that night [Talk to at least 3 new girls/Look at them in the eyes and be aware of this/Get phone numbers]. Honestly I need to remember the names of these girls more but when I am meeting new people unless they stand out to me in some way or I am interested then their names just poof out of my head. I need to get better at really listening.

The girls were mostly in groupings of which I like to call a "Gaggle" (a group of girls together chatting) in this situation I just rolled up to them and started introducing myself while being lighthearted and friendly like I always am. My personality is very inviting so talking to strangers and building a base rapport is easy for me luckily. They were all very nice but 3 girls really stood out to me reason being they were dressed cute and had nice legs. One of them was just genuinely attractive. The first girl was Jess, she was average looking white girl I say an east coast 6.5/10 but she had some baller legs and that's my thing, points are points bro. She was kind of lame in the sense of all of my hooks in my conversations with her either fell flat or she wanted to make random comments about whatever. But as I was trying to get better at the game I listened, laughed with her and made jokes while trying seem like I was super interested in what she was saying. I wasn't but I wanted to work on my Kino among other things. All in all it was a learning experience.

The next girl was this one attractive black chick I can't remember her name but let's call her Amy. She was about 6.5/10 as well but was very fun to be around and other guys seemed to be really and I mean really into her. She was THICK like extraaaa thic in a good way! Nice booty, curves yea she was legit. As soon as I talked to her I could tell right away that she was very, very into me. And our conversations went really well but I was not into her like that even though I had some good cooperation, I dunno what it is about me but this is how I am. More on her later.

The last girl that caught my eye was Anna. This was some girl on work visa from Germany, a tad bit taller than me but was very attractive. I'd give her a 7/10 with a +.5 for her outfit tonight so 7.5/10 overall. This is the girl I almost caught oneitis for and I realized this ahead of time thank goodness but she was the one i put the most work into for the night. I have been practicing up on my kino and with her I was touching like everything in the waist/stomach area, I freaking wish I went for the legs and stuff like that but I was happy that I could put hands on a girl like that again without the nervous butterflies stopping me.

We went to a few clubs, I talked up Anna big time but kept it friendly and casual, being playful, touching her, getting really close. She generally seemed to be fine with it. Near the end of my night I straight up told her that I was into her and she was very attractive. She said thank you of course, then I asked for her number. She gave it to me but it was one of those weird ass german numbers like akjhy0001192873474 she put it in my phone and tried to dial it and my phone said: you dumb fuck I can't connect to that shit. I told her it didn't work and I just put my number in her phone. Now that I think about it pretty sure this was a simple rejection number or something similar. She gave me a hug and we parted ways since they were on their way out.

Now Amy, this girl. We danced together a decent amount, sang some rap during certain songs. It was dope. She even grinded on me quite a bit! But I can't help who i'm attracted (or not) attracted to. So I kept it friendly and I made a point to myself to keep walking around the venue and looking for potential people to talk to. For some reason no one caught my eye. And those that did were in a VIP section. There was no way I was getting past some of those bouncers without getting thrown out literally. This is DC, they do that.

After we left that venue Amy was a little bit tipsy and she was debating getting a ride share home. She made a comment that stuck out to me "You can give me a ride home but you would have to stay over until the morning since you would be driving my car" Basically this was an open invitation to them booty cheeks, I didn't give a direct answer to this but basically blew it off and we started as a group talking about something else. I feel a bit bad about doing that, and I wanted your guys' opinion on this as well. I wasn't attracted to her so I kind of let that go.

This went on for a few bars honestly. Just chilling with the group, me trying to close on Anna to no avail. And in case you were curious Booty Maestro had like 4 or 5 girls all clinging to him. Literally clinging. He had 1 skinny chick, a chubby girl and the rest were overweight. None of them were really attractive but either way this was impressive to me. He was just your average looking dude. Nothing special aside from being maybe 6' tall maybe. But it was interesting. Either way at the end of the night I said my goodbyes and left alone. I'm sure he did not do the same haha.

So here are my overall feelings after the end of the night

  • Pissed off

  • Curious

  • Tired

I decided to keep writing up these field reports since I want to track my progress and see if anything changes. Since forever I just do my own thing, like meet people randomly, online date and usually online dating works out the best for me. I closed on 5 girls from that in previous years except this past year. I can't get shit, barely even a number. I don't know whats going on, so I am switching back to in person stuff. Tinder doesn't work for me either, not as of yet anyway. Sorry for the wall of text and any advice or if you can spot what I did wrong would be helpful. My bad for how disjointed this is I am exhausted its right after I got back from DC

TL;DR: Went to a meetup.com group, met some girls, got one number it doesn't work, don't feel too good about myself. Jealous of Booty Maestro and his fucking harem of average girls. But I know I am still learning, Expect me to post more!