WE DID IT r/Seduction! I am still buzzing from last night but bear with me. I will probably also edit and update this later when I can. I am so relaxed and just chill that I don't know if I can detail this.

Date

  • 6/2/17

Mood

  • Excited for my first date in literal months (almost a year)

  • Confident

There was a few girls I have been talking to on OKC, most of them either ghosted me or flaked out when setting up the date, I would say at least 20 of them. Those were the ones that actually responded, I must've sent close to 200 messages total to get this one date, insane. But I sucked it up and tried to not complain as much and keep messaging.

This girl i was talking to with another unique name. So let's call her Michelle. She was cool, a college grad, gamer girl for real, kind of nerdy and had a few quirks but definitely bangable. I would give her a 6.5/10 to be honest. I rate girls really hard too so take that with a grain of salt.

After a few days of back and fourth about 5 messages total I told her that I was interested and I wanted to meet up. She lived in Baltimore city so I decided on a place in between us which happened to be Towson. I later learned that she didn't have a car which most city folk don't have and she had to uber her way to our date spot which was World of Beer in Towson.

She got there before me and I showed up about 5 or so minutes later. When I walked in I noticed how happy she was to see me, like she jumped out of her chair and hugged me a decent first hug. I noticed right away that she was a bit nerdy and had a funny sort of laugh. But I sort of forgave it, mostly because of blue balls and the fact that she was college educated so I let it slide and didn't disqualify her for it.

At this point I flipped a switch and started applying techniques I read on r/seduction. I slowed my speech down just a tad, like a hair slower than I normally. speak. I normally speak stupid fast so I took it down a notch. I also applied something I learned recently which was to "Assume that she was attracted to me" I also did the "Triangular Gaze" (Looking at the left eye, then her right, then her lips I switched up the order sometimes) method as we were talking, I let her speak and only interjected on a few occasions as I could tell she was getting frustrated with me interrupting her.

We talked about things like where she was from and why she moved back to Baltimore, I am very good at reading people so when I asked this question I noticed her squirm a bit and I joked that "Oh I know why you moved back here!! (Hinting at moving back for a boyfriend)" and just teased her a bit. This was part of the method of "Throwing away my filter" Thank you to /u/Life_Uncivilized for this banger of a tip! Once we were on the ex-boyfriend topic I made mentioned that "Oh I know this is a taboo topic that we shouldn't be talking about on the first date.....but whatever!" we laughed and discussed his quirks and why she broke up with him. I also asked if he was a long-term or just a "fun" boyfriend implying FWBs. She mentioned that she had a few FWB and long-term boyfriends. I thought now would be a good time to turn things more sexual and I asked "Was he a bad kisser or something? or...was he bad in the, you know, sack?" She laughed sort of hard at this and said how "stiff" he was and he wasn't very smooth at doing the deed. I replied that I was "loosey goosey" and started flailing my arms in a joking manner, she laughed more at this.

We were in Towson and they do this block party thing once a month in the summer I told her that after we were done eating we should walk over and check it out. I paid for the check since I was having fun and we walked our way on over. Unfortunately the block party had ended, so I said "Oh we can just walk back then no biggie" I also offered to drive her home since she ubered over, to which she obliged. I started to think about what I read on r/seduction and just thought "Ok fuck it" to myself. There was a couple in front of us also walking holding hands and I said "we should do that" and gently took her hand into mine. She simply said "ok" and held onto my hand. Now gentlemen I was thinking "whaaat the fucccck?!! this is working?!!" at this point I threw away everything and just went with it. Escalate, escalate, escalate! Once we got to my car we started to talk about music and the Gorillaz which is my favorite band. We started to talk about their new album and I felt it was a good time to close and see what happened. I mentioned that "I had their vinyl and a bit of the artwork at home, you want to come take a look?" Her face lit up and she said "YES!" I felt like I was going to faint lads. Ain't no way I thought I was bringing this chick home on the first date. AIN'T NO WAY!

While driving back to my place I put my hand on her leg and we just chatted for a bit, I was paying attention to her body language to see what she was feeling like. Every now and then she would tighten up and then she would loosen back down it was a bit of a rollercoaster. Once we got back to my place I showed her around my apartment (no roomies hell yea boyee) and she became distracted with my computer screensaver which I keep on my monitors all the time. It's a pretty legit space themed photos and we sat on my bed and talked about space stuff. As we were talking it got deeper and deeper into science and tech. Which is fine, but I was ready to bone to be honest. I then said "Oh about your ex that was stiff, I bet i'm a better kisser than him" She responded "Oh really?" and I moved in for the kiss and pecked her on the lips a few times. Then we started making out pretty heavily on my bed. There were a few instances of last minute resistance, i'd say 3 times. Then the magic started happening. Here is a replay of how the night ended

Current Mood

  • Absolutely buzzing

  • Proud that I managed to close on the first date ME of all people...

  • Can't wait to try this again on a new girl