Short FR today, I thought about making a move on this girl since last night.

Date

  • 5/24/17

Mood

  • Tired (it was early)

  • confident

There is this girl that i always see at my train stop when i commute in the mornings, she is usually there alone and sometimes there with this other lady. After I parked my car I made my way over to the train platform and I told myself that I would keep an eye out for her. Of course i see her walking down an ajecent stairway right when I was making a plan as to what to do. This time there was this other much older lady that I see her with every now and then.

I was going to approach as soon as I saw her but (excuses i know) she was talking with the other lady and I didn't want to jump in from behind them like "HIIIII" so I walked at a decent distance behind her, then bitched out and walked past her to try to get my spacing right. I then thought "why am i making this so dramatic" and decided to just approach her. By this time they had stopped and were waiting for the train. I started with a simple "Hey there, my name is Kenic." She looked at me with a puzzled neutral look, she wasn't disgusted or attracted yet but she was a bit frozen. So I said "and you are?..." Her name was very Unique so let's call her "Diana." She said, the older lady next to her was glaring at me HARD. and I mean glaring the shit out of me.

So I thought it would be best to introduce myself to her as well just to relieve some of the tension, I was so nervous I didn't remember the older ladies name. But get this, it was her fucking MOTHER bros. What the fuck, straight up approached this girl with her mom staring me down lmao. My mind went into overdrive make shit up mode, and I asked her. I thought I recognized you, didn't I have a class with you? You went to this university right? She said "maybe, it was awhile ago so i'm not sure" I wasn't trying to be funny but I think she realized what was up and cracked a smile, as a matter of fact she was really smiley and a bit giggly. I had enough time to blurt out that I graduated in 20XX before the train rolled up. Honest to goodness I told her "oh the train is here, I will see you another time." and completely ejected out of the set.

I know, i know I should have stayed in the set. But the mom thing threw me for a loop and the whole time she was glaring into my soul. All in all 7/10 would approach the girl with her mom again lol.

Another thing I noticed was that right before I approach a girl during day game I get nervous, like REALLY nervous. My heart starts pounding, I even get a bit dizzy. Today I asked myself. "What am I nervous about? Why am I scared? Am I about to be injured or severely hurt?" Once I answered these questions I obviously calmed down a ton! Maybe this will help one of you guys.

Side note, an older lady approached me today haha. She was like in her 50's or something not attractive at all, to at least me anyway. But it was cute, we talked for about a minute then we went our separate ways.

Home Mood

  • Tired from work

  • Proud that I had the balls to approach a chick with while her own mother was there haha.

  • Will for sure talk to her again when I see her, will wait until she is at the station alone which I have seen happen on some days. I know her name now so It may make things a bit easier. I felt like she was into me even after I ejected. If her mom wasn't there things may have gone better.

  • Upset that I bitched out on a approach right before I left DC and got on my train home. cute girl with nice legs, I made the excuse "well the other train is about to come I won't have time" which honestly I didn't but again excuses.