Hey again guys, another FR from my quick night out. Was hanging out with family so not too much to report.

Date

  • 5/20/17

Arrival Mood

  • Chill

Goals

  • Approach girls I'm into quickly before I can doubt myself

  • Close

So this was a graduation party thing and it was at this outdoor bar/restaurant thing which was pretty cool, but Baltimore weather is shitty most of the time so it was a bit windy. Saw this cute waitress and talked to her. I made a few mistakes right off the bat, the first was forgetting her name right when she told me. I need to learn to really listen and not ignore these girls say so quickly. The mistake I made right off the bat is quouted below.

Kenic: Excuse me, Hello my name is Kenic. I thought you were pretty cute so I told myself that I had to come and talk to you to see what you were about.

Cute Blonde: teehee, my name is (blah blah blah, I forgot)...

Kenic: Didn't mean to bother you at work just wanted to talk for a sec smile

Cute Blonde: Oh that's ok!

Kenic: So where is your boyfriend? [Here is the mistake if you couldn't tell]

Cute Blonde: Oh he's in the city

Kenic: Wow sorry to here about your condition..

Cute Blonde: Teehee, it's alright but yea I have one

Kenic: Ok no problem, tell him i said that he needs to keep an eye on you cause you're cute [I know cringe, my fault lol]

Shook hands and let it go

The second girl I approached today was this restaurant front of house waitress that I saw back on mothers day, cute, slim and had pixie cut hair (pixie girls are my fucking weakness) So I rolled up on my bike looking cool, went inside and she was at the front podium waiting for customers. Luckily for me it was sort of dead and she greeted me and thought I was a customer. I said "hey there, can i talk to you for a sec?" after introducing myself she seemed pretty neutral towards me. I wasn't discouraged and asked when she started working there and I thought that she was cute yadda yadda, then here is when things went SOUTH.

So for some strange reason, shit starts getting busy. Like a flood of people came in and left at the same time and I had to put things on pause and play with my cell phone while she ran around serving guests. I then see her go to the back, when she came back her face was frowny instead of neutral like irratated. Then she comes back to the front as things were slowing down again, like 3-4 other waitress came to the front and started talking to her jokingly but loudly saying things like. "WHO'S FLIRTING WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, omg, omg" like they gossiped in the back or some shit. I knew the set was completely blown at this point so I played along for a bit and just said "It was ME" In a nice very confident voice. After she saw me you could easily tell she thought I was cute and then she had the face of "oh shit i goofed" so I introduced myself to her and let it slide. They all left and I asked the cute pixie girl for her number to which she responded "sorry but i'm gay" and kind of left it at that, so i pushed a little more. She then started repeating excuses like "i have a girlfriend" "i'm busy" "the world is ending" "i've got a meeting with aliens" all kinds of bullshit. So I just said, ok thanks and I hope you have a good night. Then I bailed.

So all in all I accomplished my goal of approaching without hesitating but has my set blown out. Oh well. I am planning to go out again on saturday night in DC. This time I may have a wingman so we will see. Thanks for readings lads.

Current Mood

  • Chill