Hey guys, I know its been a while since i've posted. I have been busy but mostly with work. There are random FR'esque things that happened but nothing worth writing about. Oh and I ran into my ex the other day. Wasn't as awkward as I thought it would be, nothing came out of that and nothing will so not writing about that either. This will be a very short FR but the ending is what is important. Lets get to it!

Date

  • 7/2/17

Mood

  • Excited to go out with this girl again

  • Wanted to see if I can escalate more

  • Generally happy

After texting back and fourth after I thought what was a ghost, Tiffany and I planned another date. This time she promised to plan something again of her own accord. I offered to plan something but she was very adamant about planning the festivities and I didn't want to argue over getting a second date so I just let her handle it. She wanted to take me to the Ladew Gardens and have a nice picnic and wine while we listened to steel drums and explored the gardens. All in all I thought that this would be awesome, so I went along.

She planned to cook for me and bring it to our picnic which she did, however her roommates ate the food that she prepared the night before, they left some stuff but ate the rest of it. She called me crying and cursing out her roommates but I calmed her down and helped her relax a bit, later to which she thanked me and we worked on a plan B. The second plan was to buy some pre-made food and booze from the grocery store, she paid for all of this so of course I had no problem with it. All and all she spent a decent amount of money (more than $50) on this date so it seemed she was serious.

When we arrived we were very happy to see each other, i rolled up on my motorcycle and she drove since she wanted to go for a ride later. We hugged and unpacked her car, she was looking pretty sexy on this hot day so I kissed her for a bit before we moved to the field to set up our gear. It was a nice day, lots of people and just a really enjoyable atmosphere. We walked around the gardens and talked about random stuff, she also mentioned how good I looked today which was nice.

After having a few drinks and eating the food she bought it was getting dark and we decided that it was time to leave, I thought it was a good date but this was a few days before July 4th, and as such there were numerous fireworks displays. Tiffany bought up that we should go see some fireworks together and she was super excited and wanted to cuddle and what not under the fireworks. I bought up the idea that we should ride together on my motorcycle since it wasn't too far away and would be a new experience for her. I had my extra helmet with me and she happily obliged. We suited up and hopped on my bike having a great time to the fireworks display.

There were loads of people when we rolled up as the fireworks had already started, she found a spot to sit at and had a great time watching/cuddling it was a lot of fun. After the show was over we stayed for a long time while the fireworks crew packed up and just talked about life. When it was time to go home we suited up again and started making out with each other which became very romantic as we were the only ones left in the parking lot and fireflies were everywhere. It was movie-esque, we talked for a bit more things like relationships and sex. She started even talking about how it would be like when we had sex with each other. It was a good time but she wouldn't let me escalate things further. I was cool with this as I wanted to date her for real too so I had no problem with waiting a bit.

When we finally parted ways we texted each other that we got home safely and said our goodnights. The next day I was expecting a text from her, but it never came. A few days after that I hit her up again to get her attention by offering another ride/hangout. No response, I left it at that. As of today 7/14/17 Still no response, call or anything from this girl. So I guess i got ghosted :(

Why did I get ghosted? I had no idea what went wrong, the date (in my eyes) went smoothly fun, and we were kissing lots. Even after the date was over we talked for a bit then she just stopped. Maybe there was another dude she selected, but I am sure I didn't do anything wrong.

Home Mood

  • Glad the date went well

  • Wondering why I got ghosted