Whats up once again, I meant to post this earlier but I was going out among other things. I noticed ever since posting these FRs that I am going out and talking to girls a lot more, so I am only posting these when something relevant happens.

Date

  • 7/20/17

Mood

  • Tired from work

  • Wanting to go home

  • Excited for my date

I met this girl "Kat" (Her name is different but I changed it) online, she is decently cute about a 6.5/10 but she kept catching my attention in her dating profile so I shot off a message not really expecting a reply. For dating sites, Ok Cupid especially expect to send hundres of messages and get no responses back. To my delight however this girl responded back! We exchanged pleasantries for a few messages before I gave her my number and she shot me over a text. We texted briefly and set up the date. We were going to meet in College Park and get some food just to get to know each other.

On the day of the date I was expecting to have to drive a long time in traffic to come see her and planned it for much later in the evening. But she texted me that she didn't want to eat so late and wanted to meet earlier. I am right off of a major transit hub in DC so I let her know that if she didn't mind me in my work clothes (a standard business suit) that I would be fine coming to her. She agreed and about an hour later I was on my way to see her.

Once I got to the restaurant I was a bit nervous that she was going to cat fish me or something which tends to be common (you never really know) but was pleasantly surprised when I saw her. She was wearing a nice short sundress and was smiling a bit which made her look better than her pictures gave her credit for. Once she came in I waved her down and shook her hand to greet her while giving good eye contact.

I mean the eye contact was really good, it got to the point while we were staring at each other I said something along the lines of "Do you feel this sparking going on right now?" point to our eyes and she nodded agreed and continued to stare me down it was great! I then said "One sec, let me come over there" I moved across to her side of the table, we were sitting at a booth, and I made some subtle skin contact. I couldn't resist so I put my hand on hers, and she obliged by entwining her hands with mine.

We talked like this for a bit and I asked her the questions like what her hobbies were, what kind of music was she into, where does she go hiking and if she had any pets. Stuff like that, we talked for about 30 minutes or so. The eye contact she was giving me was STELLAR. Its been years since I have last had this eye contact it was very intense and hard to explain. People on here would call it "Eye Fucking" the whole time we talked to each other we were ravenously fucking each other. She got up to go to the bathroom and I watched her walk away while staring at her ass.

Catching my breath for a second I thought that I should continue to escalate this and make some moves. I wanted to see what she would do if I moved back to my side of the table but give her enough room to sit down. I was curious if she would take initiative and sit next to me, I wasn't shit testing her by any means but I wanted to let her "tell me" how fast I should be escalating. When she came back to the table wouldn't you know it, she saw that I moved and was aware of the space next to me. She plopped her cute little ass right next to me and grabbed my hand all on her own. How awesome is that.

I was a bit nervous so my appetite went to shit and we decided that we wanted to try walking around for a bit. I paid the bill, it was only like $12 and we chatted for a bit more. I was feeling extremely good vibes from her so I just flat out asked her "What's the weirdest place you ever had sex?" and just like that we were talking about sex, positions and all manner of things. I was getting really turned on by all of this and could tell she was too. Earlier in the conversation she talked about her cats and in an effort to close I mentioned that I wanted to meet her cats and pet them or something. She wanted me to as well, but she mentioned how horrible her place was right now in terms of cleanliness. I took this as a shit test and moved on to more sex talk, my intent was to bring up closing again later.

About this time we decided that now was a good time to leave and walk around for a bit. Holding her hand we left the restaurant and walked into what was basically an oven. It was about 90 degrees and humid outside so walking around was much of a no go. We changed plans and headed to a starbucks further up the street, right when we got to the cross walk she was talking about something and I just grabbed her by the waist, pulled her close and kissed her. We gave each other a quick peck on the lips before kissing more deeply again and even threw in some tongue! We continued walking after kissing since it was so hot out and went into starbucks. She paid for our drinks and we sat down and a nice table in the corner where we kept talking about sex. I screwed up a bit here in the following way, I was hard, like really hard. And I'm sure she knew but I didn't take her hand and put it down south so she could get a feel for herself.

I wanted to mention that about here the eye contact was so strong and intense that we just stopped talking to each other and stared into each others eyes for a good 5 minutes without talking, it didn't feel weird at all felt like the right thing to do. After talking like this for another 20 or so minutes we thought that now would be a good time to leave. I bought up heading back to her place again but she declined giving me the same excuse as before. I was inclined to believe her this time as she was giving me specifics of how dirty her place was.

I understand that a dirty place could be embarrassing, and taking her back to my place was out of the question as that would involve about an hours worth of train rides (I didn't drive to work today). As we made our way back to the train station so she could catch her bus we made out some more, touched here and there more and had some really good make-out sessions. She set up the second date for next week and I intend to close on this one! All in all she was really cool, i'm not sure I would date her but we vibed really well. Our astrological signs match up really well too. I don't believe in this stuff too much but felt it was important to mention.

It was nice having someone that I clicked with sexually, everything just sort of fell into place on their own and I didn't have to try too hard. I would like to see her again right now but it's hard to not be needy and keep texting her bullshit. We texted a bit yesterday and sent each other some pics but nothing dirty. I am trying to be patient and see how this plays out. Will update this once I see her again.

Home Mood

  • Happy that the date went smoothly

  • Eager to bang this girl out

UPDATE

We planned on a second date as I said earlier, we went to the sex shop which was chill and we got some stuff from there! then went bowling. After that back to her place to cuddle. AND F CLOSE!!