Haven't written an FR recently. Have been talking to girls and approaching loads but nothing really stuck so didn't want to write lengthy FRs that I didn't close on. Also wanted to thank r/seduction big time for getting me to this point. I have for sure made some progress.
I've read here and there about online dating experiences and peoples frustration with it. Trust me dating online is one of the most frustrating things as a man you could do. However it's 2017 and this is just another avenue of getting the goal of finding a girl that you are interested in. When it comes to online dating I try to not use it as my primary form of going out and talking to girls. Personally I do this thing called "Firing on all cylinders" what I mean by this is that I will have multiple dating profiles on multiple apps however I only use this as a supplement to going out/approaching women. Everyone is different and there are too many variables to list here of your success when it comes to dating online so I will post my statistics so if nothing else you guys can get a feel of what you are in for. Honestly I recommend online dating for everyone, why not? It's free (most of the time) and it's something to do aside from being on facebook all day.
I have been doing the online dating thing for a long time, about 5 or 6 years on and off on the following sites & apps
Match.com
OKC (Ok Cupid)
Tinder
Bumble
POF (Plenty of Fish)
Craigslist
In terms of Successes OKC has the top spot by far, I have been on this site on and off. Only paid for the "A-List" service a couple of times, I can't really say it helps my chances any but you can see who "Likes" your profile. Sort of helps
In terms of worst experiences I can firmly say Craigslist. Yes I got laid however it was sketchy and I thought I would be arrested right before it. Scary scary do NOT recommend. I was at a low point when I hit that girl up. Always use condoms man.
I've only had one Tinder meetup and it didn't even lead to sex. Bumble I have had literally nothing come from it. POF I had one date with this sort of strange girl and we never saw each other again after.
I can't remember how many messages in my previous OKC profiles that I sent but it was a wholeeeeee lot. Below are some real current statistics from my early 2016-current OKC profile
Messages Sent
Replies Received
Ghosts
Messages Received (by girls)
Sex from meeting up on OKC (2016)
Sex from meeting up on OKC (2017)
Pictures on profile
- 14 (mostly full obvious body shots smiling etc no bathroom selfies)
And that's that! My reply rate is about 17.4% which is very low compared to other guys I hear stories about but hey it's something. My Lay rate is a 22.5% chance to get them panties lmao. Hopefully this puts into perspective when you guys try online dating. It's slow going, requires tons of effort and sometimes the dates are complete ass or the girl ghosts you
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