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YouTube Avery Hayden free association, most people on here are going to tell you to some platitude like be interesting, or watch hundreds of hours of comedy specials but learning to free associate is what you really want to do
/r/seduction14/10/22 06:06 PM
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They aren’t on Reddit all day reading theory
/r/seduction09/10/22 09:30 PM
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So much coping about cold approach not being optimal in here even though every guy in here are just gonna use that as an excuse to further not approach
/r/seduction07/10/22 10:14 PM
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“I don’t hit on women who don’t find me attractive” Bs, I’ve gotten with plenty of girls that didn’t seem like they were interested but they were nervous You are missing out on 80% of women if you only go after ones doing choosing signals or don’t seem interested
/r/seduction01/10/22 06:09 AM
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Take a bootcamp with a coach in Vegas, I went to one and it helped tremo
/r/seduction24/09/22 10:47 PM
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It sounds like you are rationalizing your issues about physically escalating, the girl is not going to make the move for you, if you showed intent correctly she knows why you are there and wants you to make a move
/r/seduction18/09/22 08:58 PM
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If you are gonna give advice after doing hundreds of approaches on groups go ahead and give it But if you are going to just rip generic advice fluff from dated pua books stop The simplest answer is just assume the friends are your friends and include them like 20% and the main girl you are interested in 80% that way the friends don’t get bored but you are investing into knows you are interested
/r/seduction16/09/22 05:34 PM
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Here’s some stuff I’ve learned from cold approach I recommend practicing these one at a time until you get them down -solid eye contact with sexual intent, as a general rule of thumb look away right after she does as to not come off too strong -be flirty -dominant but willing to walk away as well, -Able to lead to a place where sex can reasonably happen -Speak from the diaphragm and lower the ending pitch of your sentence, nice wide loose and relaxed body language overall -some other behaviors l…
/r/seduction04/09/22 09:42 PM
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If you are having issues with feeling attraction for women, I recommend visualizing going out and approaching and having sex with them for like 10 mins a day, a lot of men are so desensitized by porn and their hand they don’t even feel that emotion for them anymore, I did it and it worked wonders and actually makes me want to approach them rather than a chore When you get it back I recommend keep doing the visualizations to keep it strong as it will go away if you stop If you are on porn this wi…
/r/seduction02/09/22 04:43 PM
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Your more likely to get a girl in a class on paper, but due to the shear volume of women outside I recommend doing both, to prevent things from getting awkward I usually only go after women who give me IoI’s in class, while just going on whoever in public I think is cute Social clubs and fraternity life can be good, but if going that route you need to make sure 1. you actually vibe with the guys in there 2. and they actually go out and have sorority sisters, I joined rushed into one ASAP due to …
/r/seduction01/09/22 04:57 PM
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Good stuff man, how many approaches are you averaging a week
/r/seduction28/08/22 08:52 PM
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Chewing gum helps me a lot when I go out, the amygdala the part of the brain responsible for this response will largely go away as you had to be safe to be able to eat
/r/seduction21/08/22 07:54 PM
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You need to learn to have confidence and not hide your intent around women, and workout of being thin makes you self conscious, I used to be a lot like this growing up but eventually broke out of it
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:28 PM
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This^
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:22 PM
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It’s your behaviors that matter the most over looks for guys, if height bothers you that much then look into getting shoe lifts for like $15
/r/seduction09/08/22 09:15 PM
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“Health professionals frown upon this” Do you have a link
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:30 PM
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aKshULLy
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:28 PM
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Usually they are trying to boyfriend you when they delay sex a few dates despite kissing and making out and being intimate, gj reading her body language btw, a lot of guys forget that you can use touch even just platonically to test a women to she is interested or not or just playing games with you ie. just using you for free meals There is a chance she was not shaved and not ready for sex but if she knew about the date in advance she should of been ready Just go again it’s her being the problem…
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:26 PM
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FUNDAMENTALS OF GAME: I recommend practicing these one at a time until you get them down -solid eye contact with sexual intent, as a general rule of thumb look away right after she does as to not come off too strong -be flirty -dominant but willing to walk away as well, -Able to lead to a place where sex can reasonably happen -Speak from the diaphragm and lower the ending pitch of your sentence, nice wide loose and relaxed body language overall -some other behaviors like pre-selection are huge b…
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:51 AM
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You mentioned in a reply on this post you would not take coaching services unless you were desperate but I would STRONGLY advise otherwise with your income, I took a bootcamp in Vegas and it absolutely changed my perspective on game and a saved me months of having to figure things out on my own, you can get coaching calls for like 250 a month if you are hesitant about thinking you might doubt it, You by no fault of your own have been misled into thinking that it’ll happen when it happens, be you…
/r/seduction05/08/22 09:20 PM
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if you are concerned about facials and looks, try mewing and going to the gym with a healthy diet, it makes a difference and you don’t need it but it can help, I do go to the gym and currently bench 240lbs @145 pounds so I am fit and gaming before being fit and after, it does help a lot getting buff I will say Countless studies prove lean muscle mass and having good metabolic pump (ie. having shredded muscle helps), it makes you more intimidating which helps with being dominant and the endorphin…
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:36 AM
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I mean yes, for that percentage of guys in here that are not socialized and need hobbies, but a lot of guys in here already are interesting and just need to change a few behaviors in the mean time, I don’t know why people think you can’t improve your life AND talk to girls at the same time in here
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:16 PM
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I never said have no hobbies or no purpose in life, you obviously need some but I don’t like how a lot of people in here peddle the “it’ll happen when it happens” shit and tell them to go work on yourself for 10 years and THEN approach women, you can do both at the same time Also if you aren’t automatically doing those in the moment that’s what I mean, you learn them one at a time until it becomes natural and then learn the next behavior
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:12 PM
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For some in here yes, but the majority of guys just need fundamentals like strong INTENTFUL eye contact, flirting, leading, speaking from the diaphragm, and a willingness to walk away which is like 80% of game to be super successful Even as a loner with a few hobbies I enjoy great success with women, you don’t need to be a traveling doctor who performs open heart surgery on kids in Africa to be interesting to women contrary to popular belief
/r/seduction04/08/22 08:50 PM
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If it’s social anxiety try bupropion, its an anxiety medication that dosent mess with your libido like SSRI’s do, you will have a few weeks of side effects but if you get through it helped me a lot
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:01 PM
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This is the fallback line I use for opening if I can’t come up with something on the fly, when I first got into game I did not know about the importance of tone, I would talk from my throat really fast at high pitch and come off as too friendly in the approach, which is probably your experience by the sounds of things, the line goes hey I just wanted to say I think you are really cute, with adding on bits and here to adjust to the context Whereas when I spoke from the diaphragm and lowered the e…
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:45 PM
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Ide recommend you watch these guys, I went on a bootcamp in Vegas with them towards the end of last year and they had some solid advice, def. don’t date but hookups are fine https://youtu.be/1sctjMME3Hk
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:06 PM
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One of the coaches on the camp told me the problem with RSD is that some coaches were legit and others were not, as long as marketing was good some were allowed in regardless of game That coach was an intern at RSD at the time they were around and here is a video discussing it if you are interested https://youtu.be/6ZzI8Irj0tM As time goes on hookups and sex in of itself gets old and chemistry becomes more important, but I think everyone should go through that initial stage of hookups as it give…
/r/seduction13/07/22 11:30 PM
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Still some good coaches left, after RSD got canceled that was kinda it for organized pickup at least for a while, those coaches are kinda like islands all to themselves Most that are left are very good as the content of what they teach is more practical and effective I can’t speak for other cities but Vegas still has a very strong scene as I took a bootcamp in November and it was really good
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:18 PM
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When you say it’s a date you put a lot of pressure on the girl, you guys need to just flirt and give strong intentful eye contact with them, ie. feel aroused and look them in the eyes looking away right after she looks away
/r/seduction24/06/22 04:24 PM
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A lot of people in here are going to tell you: “oh you guys just didn’t have the spark etc. and we’re not compatible there is nothing you are doing wrong just be yourself :)” But truth be told sexual tension is a result of strong intentful eye contact It’s not an accident, it comes from eye strong sexual eye contact, like saying I want you in your eyes or fucking them with your eyes, that electric sense of a erection and sex more specifically But unfortunately through either getting shamed by so…
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:33 PM
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I’ve had girls cancel because their hair was a little off that day, and we rescheduled later and went on a date, flakes can be literally over anything so just keep patient guys
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:23 PM
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The issue is not so much your fault as is theirs, sexual tension is not an accident and comes from a man having that carnal desire for women is important and if the girl allows reciprocation then it will form The problem is guys are on porn and other things that will make them not super aroused when they see a cute girl walk by because their mind is so used to seeing like 15 strip down in porn, and or shame from the way they were raised I am being very specific in arousal btw, not just logically…
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:15 PM
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They might think you are awkward, but unless you roll up on them like Primus in the music video My name is mud they are not going to think you are a creep Creepiness is just emotional over investment, like getting overly attached before ever even meeting them
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:03 PM
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My first ever lay came from an approach in a target on a girl in a target, how are you supposed to know she DIDNT want to talk to you I’ve gone to clubs and other social venues and been told to fuck off just as much as in non social venues, get this incel mentality out of here that you can only approach in social venues because it might interrupt someone for a few seconds
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:23 PM
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Tbh this feels like an incel bait post based on OP’s confirmation bias to all the comments in here, I am heavily introverted but still enjoy great success with women and have helped others find it as well Yes I have to put myself out more but in the end it is very worth it
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:04 PM
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Or maybe you just don’t know how to approach and never bothered to improve? You could do 10,000 approaches if you are doing something wrong and don’t bother fixing it or trying something new your results won’t change I am very similar in a lot of regards to do and have some hundreds of approaches, and have had great success with it because I was willing to improve
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:01 PM
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And you risk getting hit by a car and dying every time you go out driving, but does that stop you from getting behind the wheel? Even if it’s awkward in the moment, that girl later on is going to appreciate you approaching her as it is extremely validating to women getting approached by men as so many things are trying to tear them down You risk awkwardness, but either you start taking those risks and start getting results, or don’t take risks and keep not getting results it is your choice
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:17 PM
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Trade offs do not include complaining, and it’s ignorant to just say nothing of them, I’m not going to gaslight myself into thinking everything about being a man is > then being a women, if that’s what you need to tuck yourself in it at night then go ahead but I face problems with the pro’s and con’s of both sides while focusing on the benefits, also you never addressed my statistic on incelibate men growing drastically over the past decade which I find funny
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:16 AM
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Well unlike you I didn’t start from the top, which is a big problem between coaches who were already to good or learned to fast, vs those on a slower grind I have experience at all levels and you are the exception at only the top level, I’ve seen through the eyes of the common man and you have clearly not, if you aren’t just spouting some woo woo energy bullshit that is I’ve helped myself and others climb from the top and this toxic elitism from certain veterans is a problem at higher levels and…
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:58 AM
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Hey as somebody who is extremely introverted and then got practiced as pickup hang in there man your body will get used to it we do end up doing the most work for this stuff but we get the option even if unattractive to make a difference whereas most women who are unattractive will have a much harder time We also don’t have to worry about physical assault or unwanted attention, albeit that is often in trade for very little attention The best quote I ever heard on r/seduction is: “Dating for men …
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:30 AM
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It’s more the work involved, a lot of those are inconveniences more so compared to how much work it takes to consistently have partners as a man, whereas it’s almost no work involved for women Sure women have to wait sometimes and lack control in what comes along but there is always water to drink for them unlike most men are stuck in the desert, both wait but one waits without work Also the decades part is inaccurate when looking at most people, about the time women hit menopause most men Slow/…
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:20 AM
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Good post as always Avery
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:45 PM
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My first ever lay came from an approach on a college girl in target, well done
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:33 PM
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Right as I clicked on it mods deleted it, thanks mods for keeping this place clean of this shit
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:12 PM
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My guess is your asking about daygame, go direct but don’t be like hey I think you are sexy or be overly sexual, save that for the clubs, its not really any different than any other type of daygame I like to play the guessing game with majors, be like oh I bet you are a nurse/insert whatever commonly female major and give 3 fusses, then have her do you, it works well for me
/r/seduction26/05/22 12:44 AM
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Until someone starts digging through the genealogical records with 23 and me and tracks your ass down
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:49 PM
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How about you actually try these rather than just write them off, if you think they are too much of a commitment try the speaking from diaphragm one, it takes 20 mins to get down, if you currently do it then stop it and watch what happens You clearly have the aptitude, you could do a 1,000,000 sets it does not matter, these behaviors come from coaches out of Vegas that have been doing game for 10 years, work smarter not harder, if you are taking more than 70 sets to get laid consistently then ge…
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:21 PM
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Op good job on numbers but in my experience and we have similar SMV I can usually get a lay on about 1 in 40 approaches, are you doing all of these behaviors I am going to list: speaking from your diaphragm, and loudly or quietly (As in NOT from your throat) holding eye contact slightly longer than her, looking away after she does, while having good intent, ie. You feel the electric urge of being turned on wanting to fuck her (not just logically liking her) Flirting Having standards or dealbreak…
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:23 PM
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The problem with these approaches is that you are not actually having a conversation with them, they might in that moment feel very validated and give out a number, but unless you have a good conversation they will not really remember you for anything but that and not feel comfortable meeting with a stranger, expect a to have a conversation that favors for 3-10 mins in daygame before closing Also just stick with one opener, I recommend just doing the direct opener, not an indirect into a direct …
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:26 AM
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Game is assisted by looks and style, it really comes down to your fundamentals l, ie. intentful eye contact, speaking from the diaphragm, flirting, leading, knowing how to have good convos, and overall being dominant, that’s like 80% of game OP what attracts men to women ie. looks is a much smaller component in reverse, try a few of those and watch your results change overnight
/r/seduction28/04/22 12:30 AM
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Why are you talking about yourself
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:40 PM
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Fastest way is to get coaching, I got coaching and it shaved a ton of learning off, otherwise what do you run for game?
/r/seduction26/04/22 11:39 PM
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Good to see a FR instead of just incel rants on my feed from this subreddit the past few days, well done
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:22 PM
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Mods delete please before the incel hordes notice this post and jump us
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:59 PM
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Even though I got my first night pull that bootcamp after working with him, I’ll take that bucket over whatever dogshit you are trying to pull me into it
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:59 PM
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Then keep making whiny posts where you complain it’s all BS but never bother to even try any of it in the first place, you are the epitome of the worst kind of viewer on this subreddit, a crab in a bucket who keeps other crabs from escaping by pulling them back in, my life was changed by game and my dating life had never been better because of it, this is not an incel subreddit, go out and actually try game before you rip on it
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:50 PM
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OP go take a bootcamp, this sub does the best it can but teaching game online is very difficult without seeing the person in action because of blind spots so the advice here can be pretty meh because of that, but the best way to learn game after reading a lot of books is to have a coach look at you through a boot camp and immersion program, I went to one and it made a HUGE difference, they can be pricy but can shave years of learning game off, do not say game does not work without actually putti…
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:36 PM
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What material did you read and use? there is a lot of material out there that is debunked but is still in circulation because it never got taken down by the original creators and or by forums forwarding it back and forth
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:51 AM
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Questions for you OP How many approaches did you make that night after those girls and take a look at this copy paste: Are you speaking from your diaphragm, and loudly or quietly? (As in NOT from your throat) Are you holding eye contact slightly longer than her, looking away after she does, while having good intent, ie. You feel the electric urge of being turned on wanting to fuck her (not just logically liking her) Are you flirting at all? Do you have any kind of standards or dealbreakers (ie. …
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:30 PM
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Unpopular opinion time, but as someone who goes out regularly this reads like something out of a book You don’t need to do more than 2-3 approaches a week sometimes a month” Bullshit, I’ve met coaches in the Vegas, the best in the world will usually max out at at least 15-20 approaches on average a day/night, most guys need 50, it’s a numbers game and it can really depend on the approach itself, 2-3 a week or month? Seriously, is that you John Anthony “When you do go out again, don’t focus on pi…
/r/seduction18/04/22 08:21 PM
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I used to talk from the throat and raise my voice at the end, I had good dominant body language at range which girls notice, but the second I would go to talk to them they would lose interest, I learn about the diaphragm and lowering pitch at the end, INSTANT change they were staying interested How about you go out and try stuff before saying stuff that works does not
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:22 AM
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Women get judged as being slutty for making moves by society, don’t blame them it’s the mans job to lead as much as it can suck
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:02 PM
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Gonna stop you right there with reading the word “target” you have either A. read the game or B, read MM, or C. both, regardless call them women not targets, when Erik von marketing wrote MM and influenced the writer of the game he had a bad habit of dehumanizing women in a attempt to sound cool/scientific Now then, if you read through the whole comment string which is fine if you didn’t, one of the behaviors I mentioned was willingness to walk away, if you go up like a puppy dog you are violati…
/r/seduction02/04/22 11:25 AM
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Hi is good with enough intent and calibrated correctly and knowing how to be observant and in the moment, please don’t tell me you are gonna tell him to use opinion or direction openers
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:12 PM
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Then how come criminals are also very attractive to women as well, ie. the broke thug gangbanger types, which also includes as assholes and other bad role model types Explain that one chief There are plenty of dudes who are rich who have great dating lives There are plenty of dudes who are rich who have terrible dating lives (I don’t count buying hookers as game btw) Rich, criminal, average, you name it it doesn’t matter, the guy who gets the girl is the guy displaying these behaviors, how about…
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:04 PM
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“Then how do you explain tinder expirements” This plays a bigger factor than cold approach sure, but taking professional pictures that look good, natural, where you are well dressed, and eating healthy so that your facial features sharpen have a larger impact than just raw looks, there is an app you can send pictures to where women can rate them 1 through 10 if you need help “If attraction is so distinct like that then why isn’t every guy getting laid” Because very few guys consistently display …
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:56 PM
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Behaviors are more important than looks, looks and height do help but it will just take + or - 5 more approaches than usual in my experience, even if horribly deformed you can still get results like this guy here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/sq4r1z/seducing_women_with_a_disabilitydeformation_and_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Here are those behaviors: -speaking from your diaphragm, and loudly or quietly (As in NOT from your throat) -holding eye contact sli…
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:37 PM
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What’s you definition of attractive then
/r/seduction01/04/22 06:05 PM
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Game is a numbers game, expect anywhere from 20-50 rejections before you get a pull depending on your skill level, although you will definitely get some numbers in between those which you can follow up later If you keep consistently going over 70+ approaches to pull I would get coaching because you are doing something wrong you can’t see My first ever bootcamp took me like 30 approaches my first day in to get any results at all despite some experience with game before, it was on hard mode b/c it…
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:54 PM
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Sure
/r/seduction31/03/22 08:12 PM
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Everything has its trade offs, the availability of women is way lower in the day b/c they might be busy sure, but since women never get approached in the daytime they are usually super impressed I lost my virginity to one of my first ever daygame approaches a few years back when I first got started it’s very viable But the party scene has it advantages too, but you also have the disadvantages of competition and having to win over the friends there who are usually more skeptical in the night time…
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:41 AM
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No offense but you have clearly never done cold approach, it is EASIER nowadays because everyone is online dating now, you really stand out, cold approach isn’t the issue it’s OP’s blind spots and AA, just because you gave up without ever going out once does not mean Op should too
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:37 AM
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I’m going to get downvoted for this but cold approach and going out for the intent of meeting women is ok, women go out all the time to clubs to get picked up, op is having blind spots here The real loser proposition is not taking action AT ALL, women want to be approached believe it or not
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:34 AM
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First of all OP good on you for taking action, most would of given up within like 5 approaches on here Now then, the best thing you can do is start with random questions asking where things are, start with guys if you cannot do it on girls then do it with girls Once you get comfortable with that start going up to women saying: “real quick, I have to go but I wanted to say you are really pretty, have a nice day.” And walk away This will get you used to direct approaches, do this until comfortable…
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:27 AM
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I personally went on a bootcamp with 2 coaches a few months ago in Vegas . it was amazing and I learned more in 3 days with them than I did in years of reading material, I watched them pull a 2 set that blew me out 30 seconds earlier, there are frauds but there are coaches who are legit as well Op is probably doing something fundamentally wrong and is having a blind spot with it
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:58 AM
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Pheromones help, I ran game before them and after trying them they definitely can make a difference However they don’t make the girls attracted to you, they put them in a good mood though, it’s an edge that can help but you still need to run the fundamentals of game and all that, but since half the battle is catching a woman in the right mood (ie. a girl could be attracted to you but will reject you b/c she’s in a bad mood) this helps, it’s especially good in clubs since the range people talk to…
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:33 PM
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the real issue at hand isn’t the approach it’s the guys who take it personal or are pushy, women like being approached if done correctly, and to be honest having the balls to come right up and be direct is just as impressive because so few guys do it and do it well, I’ve had girls tell me where were you my whole life whereas that never happened in social circles (albeit I’m not as experienced on these as others) Guys are never gonna stop hitting on women, you can either teach them the right way …
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:55 AM
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To many incels, mods delete please
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:38 AM
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There is a Todd valentine video that explains this well, but start with a template like: “You would be from there” and play it off like that, if she gets mad then be like just messing with you Memorizing canned lines isn’t going to work very well, you want to just use templates
/r/seduction22/03/22 01:00 AM
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Check out your brain on porn it will change your perspective, porn is very damaging no matter how much is consumed
/r/seduction20/03/22 10:30 PM
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Nah, average dude just good charisma and style not poor but def. not rich, of course you don’t believe that because you haven’t met anyone with natural game, but even before I knew about game I had, but based on the tone of your comment there is no point arguing with you because you are not here for an actual debate just confirmation bias for when all the incels upvote you and downvote me for telling it like it is
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:06 PM
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I knew a guy in a fraternity that was 5’1, he slept with over 70+ women and had never heard of game/pickup, it’s a disadvantage sure but if it bothers you that much you can get heel inserts that increase your height by 1-2 inches or even elevator boots, lately this place has been crawling with incels which is why you are probably seeing a lot of posts like that It’s a matter of what guys are running these days as well, a lot of guys still practice old methods of game despite the fact there are b…
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:27 PM
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You guys are generalizing, you are talking about a 1% of a 1%, get out there and socialize stop trying to insinuate excuses based on the success of a few guys who locked in social circle game
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:04 PM
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I knew a guy in my frat that was 5’1 and went through at least 50+ chicks in the time I knew him, stop making excuses He had never heard of pickup btw, he was all natural, something that can help is elevator shoes or sole inserts designed to raise your height
/r/seduction14/03/22 07:22 PM
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This happens when you are new, it’s ok to fail and not meet your goals right off the bat, our bodies as men overreact to rejection because back then if you messed up in the 50 person tribe that could be it for you, it takes time to get used to approach anxiety but keep pushing it, your body can and WILL get used to it
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:33 PM
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Good on you for taking action, too many people on here make excuses and never go out, you can be apart of a Facebook group with thousands of guys and only 20 are actually doing approaches
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:28 PM
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I’m gonna chime in here a caveat as someone in university who joined a frat for the sake of game, make sure they actually have A: Sorority Sisters and B: actually go out and do stuff, I activated into a quote on quote social frat but they only really threw parties among themselves and never went out Another thing, if you are going out to make friends to meet women through clubs, actually be INTERESTED in the activity, if you aren’t having fun with people in there you are going to have a rough ti…
/r/seduction04/03/22 11:24 PM
1

What’s funnier is commenting on a deleted thread, mods had to get involved because the incels came out in force
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:51 PM
-3

Women get judged as sluts, it’s not happening anytime soon sadly
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:55 AM
14

I got -70 karma for mentioning these points on that EXACT post just for criticizing someone about cold approach being creepy, it’s sad seeing them turn this place into what is now
/r/seduction04/03/22 02:53 AM
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The only way you are going to come off creepy is being overly invested or keep pressuring the set after getting blown out, women rarely get told they are pretty and it will usually make their day btw Women get hit on all the time and even if you do it with only a modicum of game you are fine
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:38 PM
-54

This is r/seduction not r/incel, go take your excuses somewhere else, you are clearly another one of these guys that just sit here and bitch that women will never like you and that cold approach does not work etc. ide tell you to just go back to the ladder subreddit, but it was so cringe that you guys got it banned lol
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:26 PM
-66

Women get judged by society a lot more for making moves, they have virtually no incentive to do otherwise I approach under all the following reasons despite those reasons you listed, and you should do the same because women can’t without looking slutty
/r/seduction03/03/22 11:21 PM
1

There is some attraction no doubt, but the amount you need for a kiss vs. sex is quite a bit more, tinder/gram will have looks played into things quite a bit, and they might like you out the gate, but if op can’t keep escalating properly they will lose interest like they are currently, op takes them on walks supposedly, how long and to where, that is a logistical detail I’m concerned about The dates seem fine in terms of him getting to know them, it seems like to me he’s not pulling good enough,…
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:23 PM
1

Where did you find this definition of superficial attraction, who wrote what you read
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:13 PM
1

Ngl most women on tinder/gram meets are there for hookups, not to make some lasting connection and LTR with someone, Op sounds like the kinda guy with intent issues and leading Women have virtually no incentive to lead since they would get judged, it’s up to the man and he A he isn’t being intentful enough with his eye contact B just not finding an excuse to bring them back to his place or C both
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:12 PM
1

Women will not let you kiss them if they don’t feel attracted at least a little bit, idk what this superficial attraction concept is, It takes like an hour to 90 mins to get a good connection with a girl, first dates should almost always be lays of being done right Op is probably not showing enough intent and leading well enough
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:56 PM
1

Sounds like an intent issue, how’s your eye contact, you should hold it slightly longer than she does and look away as she does as a general rule With intent you should feel an animalistic energy to have sex with them, not just logically like them, this will sound very woo woo but if you have that energy and say I want you with my eyes, there will be a very subtle but noticeable charge to the interaction, look at how Elvis Presley looked at women and you will catch my drift (not his album covers…
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:53 PM
1

Really over complicating things, op isn’t pulling but you are mentioning ltr what
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:44 PM
2

My university campus when it’s not winter, and when it’s winter I usually migrate between 4 stores, a target the vast majority of students shop at, a Walmart, Safeway, and a sprouts all close to campus, I will start doing night game later but there is like only 2 good bars where I live
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:59 PM
1

I mean realistically I only sleep with 2% of the women I approach, my point is as a man is that it’s all numbers, but cold approach has the best conversation ratio for work to reward ratio, social takes a while and competence to do right, and online dating the vast majority of women don’t see your profile Once you do enough game, your body gets used to it, you get endorphin hits from approaches, it like the after feeling of working out, most rejections stem from women’s moods and availability, n…
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:51 AM
2

I mean guys in here blow thousands on dating materials and thousands of hours of infield and never do any approaches, not saying you are one of them, BUT if you are on here you must care about your dating life, I did it and it was worth it, I got a bootcamp through u/SocialInception who’s on here and can’t recommend him enough
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:44 AM
3

And if you can’t handle 29 rejections then take a look at your mindsets and inner game, hell get counseling, I once approached a girl who told me to get lost, 2 months later I approached her again by accident, and had her on all 4’s 2 hours later
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:40 AM
5

It’s a lot more effective than just online game where 70% of users are men (hard to standout) but still good but it’s passive Social circle game is something that is good, but takes a while to setup and is a more long term process, and not really probable if you don’t have good game already (speaking from experience after trying for 3 years in college)it’s ALSO passive game Nothing beats the reliability of cold approach, it’s hard at first, but OP if you aren’t at least hitting 1 in 30 lays with…
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:37 AM
10

Scroll through this subreddit, there is a picture of his face with like 600+ upvotes and 10 awards, can’t miss it
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:26 AM
87

There was literally a deformed dude in a wheel chair in here that got with 7 women and has a good wife, stop making excuses
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:58 PM
2

Really hate how r/incel was closed down a year ago and these posts are becoming more and more common on here
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:47 AM
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