Beginning-Space-8010 Archive

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7	Requesting tips/success stories for going out alone. Just gave it a try after a bad date and froze.	Conversation	Beginning-Space-8010	/r/seduction	01/08/21 04:07 AM
2	Social circle is important, not only for meeting women, but for keeping them. Attractive women usually have large friend groups and, IMO, expect partners with the same. And this is a good thing!	Inner Game	Beginning-Space-8010	/r/seduction	24/06/22 12:52 PM

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7	Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory. As a 31 y/o, life has taught me this is nonsense. I have a friend who is horseshoe bald, wears a hat all the time, doesn't workout regularly (sort of skinny fat), isn't very tall, and consistently has LTRs with very hot women. Now to describe my friend beyond looks, he does well financially, has good style, an active social life, and travels regularly. He is also a nice and caring person. I have "Chad" friends who do not do as well as this guy. They sleep with more women, but they are lower qual…	/r/seduction	25/06/22 01:48 PM
1	Social circle is important, not only for meeting women, but for keeping them. Attractive women usually have large friend groups and, IMO, expect partners with the same. And this is a good thing! Thanks for the insightful comment! To be honest, this person and I were just likely not very compatible. I knew this deep down, but was smitten with her looks. Frankly, I was jealous of her. The social circle thing is something I want for myself, so I suppose being with someone who was extremely social shed a light on that insecurity.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 01:38 PM
1	Social circle is important, not only for meeting women, but for keeping them. Attractive women usually have large friend groups and, IMO, expect partners with the same. And this is a good thing! I tried. Not every woman, especially the older and hotter ones, are going to fuck you right away regardless of escalation. If you're saying ANY woman will sleep with you within x dates, then I'd argue you don't have a lot of experience dating HQ women.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 01:33 PM
1	Social circle is important, not only for meeting women, but for keeping them. Attractive women usually have large friend groups and, IMO, expect partners with the same. And this is a good thing! I tried.	/r/seduction	25/06/22 01:28 PM
1	life is cruel No, that doesn't matter. I know it's hard, but you can't look at how you could have done it differently. This is perhaps the hardest lesson in all this: you can't control this part of dating, and you never will. People will ghost and this is good! Let's flip the script. I often match with people I find cool but if I find someone cooler, I will end the conversation with the other people -- of course "cooler" is totally subjective. It still hurts though, so perhaps write out how it makes you feel …	/r/seduction	16/06/22 01:36 PM
2	Is it a turn off to women if you have no social life/no friends? If you have 1-2 good friends, that's a lot different than no friends. And I am not saying it's a deal breaker for all women, though it will be for some. The bigger point is you need to be well-rounded. If your only relationship other than your family is your partner, that will lead to undo pressure on your partner to fulfill all your social needs.	/r/seduction	12/08/21 01:27 AM
67	Is it a turn off to women if you have no social life/no friends? The risk you run with this is if you get into a relationship, you'd likely be over-invested in it since you have no other outlets for socializing. I know some people try to convince themselves otherwise, but good friends are important to one's mental health. If you have issues in your relationship, who are you going to talk to about it? How are you going to feel when she has a girls' night out?	/r/seduction	11/08/21 01:40 AM
2	I spend most of my night out talking to dudes Awesome! Thanks so much for the insight! I really do appreciate it.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 07:05 PM
3	I spend most of my night out talking to dudes While I can't provide any advice, it's awesome you're going out alone and socializing. I tried this for the first time recently, and while I didn't socialize as much as I would have liked, I was super proud of myself for giving it a try lol. Any tips on starting convos when out alone, or is that something that sort of comes naturally to you?	/r/seduction	08/08/21 06:39 PM
3	Why is showing clear interest considered so bloody off putting? A paragraph Actions speak louder than words. Sending a paragraph is easier than meeting someone in person, developing a physical relationship, and having a conversation about intentions/feelings once things get more serious. Sending a long text is a cop out because it's much easier than putting in the work in person. It stems from insecurity since you want to know the other person feels the same way so you can feel good in that moment. It's needy behavior.	/r/seduction	01/08/21 07:00 PM
2	I completely let myself go Big congrats on going out alone. I just made a post on this, basically how I froze and left the bar after one drink. This is a W in my book.	/r/seduction	01/08/21 04:09 AM
341	First harsh rejection Hey, that's okay. You had the balls to approach, which is not easy. There have been harsher rejections, trust me.	/r/seduction	11/07/21 04:33 AM
2	The importance of honesty with women and yourself You're right. She actually has two kids with two different guys. I never met the kids though, they live with the ex because he's rich and she's a teacher. Her ex has a kid with the girl he cheated on my ex with -- it's crazy I agree. Thanks for the real talk. I guess I fell for it because she's hot, the sex was great, and we did have fun times. Moved to a different part of the country during the pandemic and she was not only my first relationship here, but first friend. Appreciate the comment.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 10:37 PM
2	The importance of honesty with women and yourself That's what I was doing, but she contacted me. Only now do I realize what her intentions were. Lesson learned.	/r/seduction	26/06/21 10:21 PM