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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | I just have to share my joy!Very happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Never let a person get comfortable with disrespecting you!Was trying to edit (I suck at succinctness) but hit send. Been that kinda day. Was trying to say "especially when it's all whine & no intention to take what wisdom you've shared to improve their life or situation." Also wanted to say, I'm not a victim & I've been coping with widowhood pretty well thanks to removing the users from my life & setting boundaries. I'm actually grateful for this experience. We're all stronger than we realize & the most valuable lessons sometimes come at the strangest … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Never let a person get comfortable with disrespecting you!THIS!!! Are we triplets? I'm forever grateful to FDS, you ladies came into my life after I'd realized how lopsided my relationships were & I needed the kick in the ass to remove toxic "friends." Normally I wouldn't share the details, but I hope someone else can benefit from them. I'd supported this friend thru the long hospitalization of her husband, then over a year of widowhood while I was sole-caretaker to my own husband thru multiple surgeries & Dr. induced dementia. I was already aware of t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 08:07 AM |
| 6 | Never let a person get comfortable with disrespecting you!High five, Leftist! Did the same to a friend who abandoned me at a time of great loss for a man who'd ghosted her. Made me realize what an uneven relationship it had been. She's been trying to get back in contact, but even after explaining why I cut contact, her reply was still ME ME ME! I had shared nothing personal, but she still wanted to vent her ass off. Told her I assumed she'd been dumped again & was looking around & noticed I wasn't there to bitch to. Not my problem. So I appreciate FDS … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:24 AM |
| 14 | The attitude I’m trying really hard to have with anyone who doesn’t value me enough in my relationships.This has been a core realization I've been practicing with ALL people in my life for the past year. I've isolated myself from users & boundary stompers & it truly IS better being alone. If people don't bring something to your life, then what's the point? I'm working on me! I know what I have to give, just need to learn healthier, wiser ways to share on an even field. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 3 | When things don’t happen..Thanks for the reminder. I tend to believe that things happen for a reason. Sometimes we're aware of the purpose at the time, sometimes we realize it later, & other times it's never really apparent. But if you've TRULY experienced the first two types, it makes you much more open to the third possibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:23 AM |
| 2 | I get real tired of answering the “Why are you single?” Question.Totally. Loved. This! Though I just wanna hug you for surviving all this crap! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:06 AM |
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