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| 1 | What makes you think society is gynocentric? Or what makes you think is it not?Ofc there are "nuances" to everything. I never claimed that there wasn't. As a matter of fact, my entire comment is demonstrating nuances, except we're not talking about women this time and what affects them. We don't have to. Everyone else already does. And sure, we can say that these reasons don't implicitly demonstrate that society prefers girls, but its pretty telling that in almost all of these types of cases, women almost always benefit and men do not. Even if the reasons for it is rooted … | /r/MensRights | 03/01/26 08:13 AM |
| 50 | What makes you think society is gynocentric? Or what makes you think is it not?This question asks for so much introspection and I love it. Keep in mind, I'm a woman myself so I'm answering purely from that perspective and would love more insight from anyone who reads it. Also, its 2am right now so my wording might be a little weird lol I do wholeheartedly believe we live in a gynocentric society. Not just for the "women and children" shit, but also for smaller, more subtle things. For example, the amount of people who will turn and offer help to a clearly distressed woman … | /r/MensRights | 28/12/25 07:33 AM |
| 5 | These people are fucking weird and delusionalI agree. I also want to build on it. I love how everything men are better at than women is downplayed. People love to point out all the ways women are better than men and just shrug their shoulders and say "its biology. Get over it." Accepting that its in their nature as women and isn't nurtured. But the minute anyone points out all the ways men are better than women, its always "Well, the difference isn't that large" or "If the women trained enough, they'd be on par with men" and yada yada. Ess… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 10:27 PM |
| 6 | These people are fucking weird and delusionalMaybe its because its late rn, but what are you talking about? | /r/MensRights | 16/12/25 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Male Loneliness Epidemic- Let's talk about itQuestion...have you ever struggled to tell someone "no" because you were scared of the fall out it could cause? Same thing here. Sometimes saying "no" isn't always that simple. People are pretty good at cornering you when it comes to options. Sometimes, it has nothing to do with "having balls". | /r/MensRights | 29/07/25 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Male Loneliness Epidemic- Let's talk about itI could say a WHOLE lot about why men "aren't truly down for that". Its not that they aren't. If they truly weren't, we wouldn't be having this conversation on why men are lonely to begin with. Its that a lot of them feel like they CAN'T be down for it. Blame it on societal expectations of masculinity or whatever, but the problem is that there is some sort of disconnect between men wanting friends(with other men as well) and feeling like they CAN'T have them. Especially friendships that go deepe… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/25 06:26 AM |
| 48 | Male Loneliness Epidemic- Let's talk about itIts such a "debated topic" because women can't stand hearing about anything men go through. Its primarily women who claim it's not real. It's real. However, men have more power over it than they think. The Male Loneliness Epidemic comes from men having no support or genuine connections with people thanks to misandry(I can explain this further if you want me to). Because of this, a lot of men tend to turn to their girlfriends or wives as their main support system and source of friendship, but man… | /r/MensRights | 26/07/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | I Wish I Was Female, Both The Good, And The BadValid. But I feel like these are two different things here. Your hate of being male stems from societal misandry. If men WEREN'T treated so horribly, you most likely wouldn't hate being a man. So you're not saying "I hate being a man". You're really saying "I hate being a man BECAUSE I hate how men are treated", and then extending that towards your sexual characteristics. The OP may just genuinely have gender dysphoria. He takes it much further. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 01:48 AM |
| 2 | All men now considered too dangerous to change a child's nappy in Victoria Australia. The war against men and boys is now mainstreamIf you see my other comment on this thread, you'll see that I demonstrated how you have no argument here. Men are NOT more likely to abuse children than women are, so just on that ALONE there's no reason to ban men as a whole from certain childcare responsibilities just because a few of them(VERY few) happened to be pedophiles(which is not exclusive to men btw) who committed a crime on a large scale. It ignores all the other men(most of the men) who DID NOT sexually abuse other children, but are… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 02:50 PM |
| 32 | All men now considered too dangerous to change a child's nappy in Victoria Australia. The war against men and boys is now mainstreamSo a few "rogue perverts" that slipped into the system means all men should be banned? | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 04:06 AM |
| 31 | All men now considered too dangerous to change a child's nappy in Victoria Australia. The war against men and boys is now mainstreamThank you for your thought out response. But I feel like you're missing some nuances here. Yes, there were MANY children who were harmed and are now being treated for STDs. But there are also MANY boys being harmed by female teachers. A few men harmed many children. Many women have harmed many children. So by this logic, if we follow the same thought processes here, we should be banning female teachers as well as they pose a similar risk to children(maybe not the transmission of STDs, but the tr… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 04:00 AM |
| 4 | I Wish I Was Female, Both The Good, And The BadYou don't have to apologize for anything. We appreciate you for sharing anyway :) I do want to say that being a "guys guy" is not bad. I'm assuming you mean being masculine or "bro-like". That's another thing society has been hammering into people, especially lately. That masculinity, traditional or otherwise, is somehow wrong. There is nothing wrong with it. And you would not be a bad person if you became it. I take back my statement about your mom and your sister. At least your mom is trying a… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 02:11 AM |
| 209 | All men now considered too dangerous to change a child's nappy in Victoria Australia. The war against men and boys is now mainstreamSo lets ban men from this responsibility altogether because of the mistakes of a few, huh? Okay...so let's ban women from being teachers(or at least, from being left alone with male students, since that would be the equivalent here) since they keep raping and sexually abusing boys. What happened to these children is fucked up and some of those men may be pedophiles anyway. But this isn't a "male" issue. And for them to make it seem like it is, is fucking sick and wrong. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 01:45 AM |
| 9 | I Wish I Was Female, Both The Good, And The BadAlso, being a girl, I can tell you female relationships are not always sunshine and rainbows. Girl power and camaraderie is a joke in some female relationships. Girls don't always care about their shared experiences with other women. Some of them see other women as competition or beneath them. And this can be true for mom and daughters too. Both genders are capable of having deep, intimate, relatable friendships with people of the same(or opposite) sex. And both genders are also capable of being… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 01:34 AM |
| 11 | I Wish I Was Female, Both The Good, And The BadTo be completely honest with you, you sound like you have gender dysphoria. Whether that makes you trans or not is up to you, but guys do not generally hate being men. They hate the way men are treated, and how they are perceived, and how those biases affect their lives but.. They don't hate being a man in and of itself. You even went as far as to say you hate having a penis and wish you were born a girl. That sounds like gender dysphoria. Most men don't feel this way. However, I completely unde… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Tomi Lahren went on Fox News to blame men for low fertility rates.Been saying this for awhile. Fuck em both. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/25 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Let us be the good father for our sonI love this. It breaks my heart when I see so many men claim that they feel more protective or more loving of their daughters than their sons. All it does it causes emotional neglect that spirals into depression and self-hate. Men should not be raising their sons to go out into the world with these defeating feelings, especially when you know how horribly this world will treat him when the time comes. At the very least, he should have his dad beside him, if no one else. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/25 06:27 PM |
| 9 | Destabilising Manhood and Masculinity: Unbecoming Men in a Violent Gender OrderI believe wholeheartedly that feminists(and/or women altogether) should not be the ones starting conversations on male behavior and what "should" be changed about it. Like what the fuck do they know? | /r/MensRights | 16/06/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Always a pleasure to see misandry alive and well...The two aren't mutually exclusive. I can be a staunch critic of misandry and call whatever bitch who touts it whatever slur. But go off. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/25 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Always a pleasure to see misandry alive and well..."Top post by a top tier dude" First off, I'm a chick. Second off, who cares if I call her a bitch? She is. If you can fix your mouth to say anything as atrocious as the things she says about men, you deserve whatever terms someone calls you. | /r/MensRights | 16/06/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | An observation on historyYES YES YES AND YES 👏🏾👏🏾 | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 07:00 AM |
| 3 | The more you learn about how men are treated worse, the more depressed you becomeThis is why I'm so big on highlighting all the ways misandry presents itself, even when it's not obvious. Because sometimes we can feel like we're worlds apart from other people who have never taken the time or day to consider issues men face, or from those who do but consider it "less serious". I might pop off sometimes and sound unhinged, but there truly is a deeper purpose behind it. It IS depressing to watch it happen, and to watch everyone around us be blind and/or resistant to it. Misandry… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/25 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)But once again, you brought up an imaginary argument(we are not talking about voting in any politicians), argued against it, and claimed that this is how my original argument is wrong. And also, people using their biases to shape their preferences is my WHOLE argument. Of course it says that people have reasons behind why they choose certain things. I NEVER denied that. I'm saying that often times those biases are HARMFUL(like misandry), and we need to point it out and have conversations concern… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)An opinion would be his statement that he thinks GGs have better styles and more variety than BGs. That's not verifiably true because someone can say(and they have said) the reverse. His opinion can be changed with almost little discussion. All it takes is finding a BG with his "preferred" style, which I'm assuming he did since he said he liked the Stray Kids. His preference, on the other hand is that, unless exceptionally remarkable, he will always default to GGs over BGs, and then he used his … | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)You replied twice to two different comments so I replied to both of your comments? How am I responding "hydra-style"? Anyway, this is going to be in 3-parts because of character limits. And i also replied to another comment of yours separately so...if that's "hydra-style" then bite me. I did not, in fact, remove all other variables. Let me explain to you how arguing works. Someone presents a claim/assertation to my original claim/assertation. My original claim was that misandry(and homophobia) i… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)Damn, I thought I was making shit up when I thought you were cherry picking my responses, but you are. This is what I said: "YOU literally presented a scenario of a man preferring art BECAUSE of hot women and then said this is reasonable. Now you're trying to back track and say that no one said people see art in a purely sexual manner, when I neither made that claim nor tried to argue that they did. I presented an argument against YOUR OWN CLAIM that it's fine if a man prefers art because, and o… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)Because of internalized homophobia. Which I brought up...in my original post. I literally brought up straight men saying that they would not give the time and day to male groups. So if you got laughed to scorn about it, the main reason is because straight man can't fathom another straight guy being into male groups unless he's gay. Please tell me you understand that. I don't need to pick a better example, because that's a perfect example of where I was going with my argument. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)Umm...? "A man preferring art because it's full of sexy women is a perfectly reasonable explanation" YOU literally presented a scenario of a man preferring art BECAUSE of hot women and then said this is reasonable. Now you're trying to back track and say that no one said people see art in a purely sexual manner, when I neither made that claim nor tried to argue that they did. I presented an argument against YOUR OWN CLAIM that it's fine if a man prefers art because, and only because, of hot wome… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)If you disagree with this, present an actual argument please. Keep in mind that many men often have no other comparable metric between preferences for artists when considering gender besides "she's hot". If you disagree with that as well, present an argument. Also keep in mind that the Women Are Wonderful Effect(like that one commenter brought up and sometimes I forget about this) can make people think women are better than men on most facets based off of nothing other than them being a woman. I… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)That wasn't my argument. My argument was that some men use sexuality often as a mask for misandry, considering how interwoven into common social thought it is, and that this harmful bias can be shaped up as a "preference". | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)I never said it did, nor did I create a strawman as i was not presenting an argument to distract from my point, but an opinion on perceptions and preferences of art, just like you're doing. But you also can't invalidate the fact that people will feel remiss to discuss deeper aspects of certain topics with you when you present your feelings towards them as surface level. Such as "me like cause me horny". Of course people are allowed to feel how they feel and to have their own preferences. The fac… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)Also, you can appreciate art that aligns with your sexuality. But it feels regressive if that's the ONLY reason you appreciate it. And sometimes and for some men, it is. Appreciating art and expression based ONLY off of how hot and heavy it gets you leaves much to be desired in terms of your intellectual considerations of the world around you. It makes me not want to have a conversation with you, ya know? | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)"I'm not denying sexuality plays a part in our preferences. It is a part of our daily life after all" No paranoia. But rather insinuating the perfectly reasonable conclusion that our biases shapes our preferences. Even harmful ones like misandry, and that we may often try to justify it by using our sexuality as a scapegoat. Seeing as this is a Mens Rights reddit, I figured this was relevant, kpop preferences notwithstanding(but used as an example here). | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 02:51 AM |
| -1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)Okay diva girl lol | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)"but I prefer GGs because a) I'm a straight male, with everything that goes along with that" ....did you or did you not say that? What exactly does that mean to you if I'M the one who's wrong in my own conclusion of its meaning?? | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 01:16 AM |
| 0 | Misandry & Homophobia In Music Artist Preference? Let's Talk About It(Using K-Pop as an example)But...you just proved my point of what I was trying to say. Of course you can have preferences. I'm not denying that. But my problem is with your reasons. You like GGs because you're a straight male. You link being straight and being male with why you like the GGs. This places their significance, in your eyes, on the fact that they are female. You put "them being female" on a pedestal for why you think their music has a certain je ne sais quo in your opinion. No offense, but that's weird. If all… | /r/MensRights | 13/01/25 01:04 AM |
| 5 | The Philly Man Who "Rubbed One Out" On A Woman In Dollar TreeI get what you're saying but the examples you listed are not the same. In the eyes of the general public, the default is to hate men, and then advocate for that hate by using examples such as this. "Not all men" is a legitimate retaliation to the misandry interwoven in modern thought. Yeah, what this guy did was sick, but to use this as an example of WHY we should hate men(which many are doing) is wrong. Responding with and having conversations that not all men even THINK to do stuff like this c… | /r/MensRights | 19/07/24 10:21 AM |
| 4 | This is absolutely disgusting. Imagine if someone said something similar about women.Damn, if we're being honest, it seems like female infanticide has some layers of misandry to it. The value sons have over daughters isn't inherent, it's because sons can WORK and provide better in the economy some places in India have built. Those in poverty become desperate to rise above it and can't waste resources on a daughter who isn't allowed to thrive in it. If the economy was different, the value of sons and daughters would equal out, or rather -- as is the case in the West -- tip in fav… | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 01:52 AM |
| 3 | This is absolutely disgusting. Imagine if someone said something similar about women.I did read somewhere that female infanticide is pretty common in some parts of India, but I don't know how common exactly. I mean, there doesn't seem to be a shortage of women. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 12:19 AM |
| 6 | This is absolutely disgusting. Imagine if someone said something similar about women.Ah okay. This is horrible, but how does this translate into meaning all men(or all INDIAN men) are the problem? Does this happen often in that country? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/24 06:22 PM |
| 4 | This is absolutely disgusting. Imagine if someone said something similar about women.Probably. I read somewhere that India reports an average of 90 rapes a day. I'm not sure if it's true, but if it is, I wonder why. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Revisting: Women's Only Buses and Trains in Places Like Malaysia, Japan, India, etc.I'm a little late(had some hang ups recently), but I read somewhere that while the male and female sex drive IS different, it's not THAT different. Men do report having stronger sex drives, and women having "not so strong" sex drives, but there are more differences in sex drive WITHIN genders than BETWEEN genders. Which means that generally speaking, men and women have pretty much equal sex drives but there are more men who report having "high" ones compared to women. I'll link the study when I … | /r/MensRights | 22/02/24 11:07 PM |
| 2 | What is "gooch grease" and are men being attacked for a natural male issue?Thanks so much for the answer! | /r/MensRights | 27/07/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | What is "gooch grease" and are men being attacked for a natural male issue?Ah, okay so wrong subreddit to ask. Thanks for answering anyway! :D | /r/MensRights | 27/07/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What is "gooch grease" and are men being attacked for a natural male issue?Wait, no Im actually not a troll 😭 I got locked out of my other account and decided to boot this bad boy back up so I could ask my question. I'm genuinely curious, I swear! The reason I asked is because I've been seeing people say things like "men are so fucking gross" and "this is why I don't date men", so I figured MensRights would see it as many of the common stereotypes perpetrated about men to fuel misandry. I wanted to start a discussion about it. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/23 10:09 PM |
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