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Regardless you shouldn't use underhand tactics and manipulation to get that. You should be upfront and honest and let go. Allow your heart, not your head, to guide you .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:59 AM
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No, the point of dating is to find someone you want to have a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 11:49 AM
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Way to disrespect soldiers on deployment. Ah some might get upset you're invading gay spaces, but like so are the women so... You're an older guy using college girls inexperience to your advantage in order to get laid. That's really scummy and very manipulative. This is probably the worst one. It's one thing an inexperienced college dude having casual sex with an inexperienced college chick. It's another an older man specifically targeting college chick's because they're inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:38 AM
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He deserves to be happy, and honestly it sounds like he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:01 PM
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Looking at his bumble, he's a balding, and a black guy interested in white guy activities (nothing wrong with that mods). I don't know who he's targeting, probably any women with a pulse, but really he's looking for outdoors type active women who want to go hiking, fishing, hunting etc. Those women are typically white and may have racial preferences with who they date, more so than inner city metropolitan women. Its probably more a case of the colour of his skin turns off a lot of the women that…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:13 PM
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No, honestly I don't understand why women are attracted to men who look like they do meth. Meth, heroin, weed, speed, acid, mandy. It makes no sense to me because drugs are not a sign of a successful man. But yet women find drug heads attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:01 AM
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Well as always averages can mean different things. Let's take a data set of 11 guys, there are many ways to determine the average attractiveness of those 11 guys. You can line the guys up in order of attractiveness and pick the middle guy as your average guy. Everyone above him is more attractive than average and everyone below him is less attractive than average. You can assign each of them a value for their attractiveness, add up all the values and divide by 11. Then everyone with a rating abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:12 PM
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You mean women are complex individuals with their own goals, aspirations, emotions, friends, families, ambitions, struggles, anxieties and more? Noo! Women exist for men to fuck, ooga booga!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:06 PM
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No, not yet, started dating a girl and we hit it off. She's pretty full on though. Really like her, but I don't want to get overwhelmed by her. Am I red pilled? Absolutely not. Being red pilled means you got rejected by a girl because you faked being a nice guy to get close to her, then asked her out and got rejected, but you don't understand that you were rejected because you lied to her about wanting to be her friend, rather than because you're unattractive, and that if you'd just asked her ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:00 PM
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Thats why you do what I do and marry someone with large tracts of land.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:05 AM
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Its a learnt behaviour. Actually today I received an email from the scammers threatening me with blackmail unless I deleted a reddit post calling out their scam. I secured my bank accounts, changed my passwords, and posted an edit to my original post laughing at them. You have one life, in that life you can be many things. Rich, poor, strong, weak, attractive, ugly. A lot of those things you have no control over. If you are born rich you're rich and you did nothing to get that money. But one thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 10:04 PM
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Thank you. I'm not religious, but if there is one religious message I can get behind it's to not pass judgement but to let God judge. That doesn't mean I don't think the people who scammed me aren't cunts. But it means I do not hold onto feelings of anger and hate, because they will fade into irrelevance while I will continue to spread positivity and kindness. In 10 years time I will not remember being scammed. But I know that there will be hundreds maybe even thousands of people who will rememb…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:58 PM
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I lost £8k for being niave, trusting and "nice". Scammed from me like that. But that doesn't mean I'm not going to be nice to the next person that comes along, I might be a bit less trusting, but I'll still act in good faith and be nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:52 PM
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Thats simply untrue. Most people have the ability to be attractive looking with a bit of care and attention. It's about promoting your good features and hiding your bad features. For example I have gorgeous blue deep set eyes and perfect eye brows and a really well proportioned face. But I have a high hair line and no jaw line. So I have a beard to hide the jawline, and look directly at the camera/person to promote my beautiful eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:50 PM
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You getting shafted by people while being nice isn't a reflection of you it's a reflection of them. If their first thought is to take advantage of you, it's because they are selfish assholes. But that shouldn't concern you, because you acted in good faith and with positivity and that makes you a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:46 PM
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You'd have to be really ugly to be universally considered ugly. Otherwise you just have no style and no self care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:44 PM
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I don't want to be called and thought of as a nice guy. Why not? Being nice is probably the highest achievement one can hope to have in this life. Other than being fun. Being nice means making everyone's day around you a little bit better, and having a positive impact on the world in every interaction you have. There are no down sides to being nice. Just endless upsides to yourself and everyone around you. And when you are nice to others, they are nice to you. And I wish I was as misogynistic as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:40 PM
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You're right, the other guy is a sexually frustrated "nice guy" who doesn't seem to understand that the exact same toxic behaviour he is displaying towards you is the reason women avoid him. He is proving to everyone that he isn't a genuine nice guy, through the way he views women as a whole and their reasons they won't date him "Chad thundercock is taking all women". He doesn't realise that he's not competing with Chad thundercock, but a women's ability to be happy on her own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:28 PM
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I've been called "nice guy" a few times and it makes me wanna punch the person who said it Its funny you say that, because I get called a nice guy a lot too, and I say "awh thank you, I try my best" and move on. If your immediate reaction to someone calling you a nice guy (not in a derogatory way) is to punch them (or want to punch them). Then chances are you're exactly the sort of "nice guy" that r/niceguys is talking about. Ie someone who is using being a nice guy as a front for their toxic an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:23 PM
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He repeats the height of the 5ft 2 guy twice, he doesn't repeat the height for anyone else. His agenda is to say "see height is the only thing that matters I'm going to be single forever whaa" rather than maybe accepting that you don't need to be the most attractive man in the world for a women to like you. You just need to be emotionally available and fun to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:28 PM
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If she's rich, she's happy. If she's poor, she's an alcoholic bitch who hates men and hates herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:56 AM
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Hmm, I was about to disagree with you there. But then I recalled sitting in a pub with a mate chatting to a girl. I had a gf at the time, so I handed the batten over to my friend who was a hedge fund manager. She didn't understand what he did, or how much money he made. She just knew to invest in "ETFs".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:14 PM
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Hence why they’re constantly applauded for every little success and achivement, but not criticised for their failures. Thats prevailing in all aspects of progressive politics. If you are a black kid from a wealthy family and have a safe and secure upbringing and as a result go on to be a successful businessman then you are given far more praise than if a white kid from a working class family started a business from nothing and became successful. Purely because its expected in a progressive socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:46 PM
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I understand this though. If in dating a Bi women, I know I can fulfil her sexual needs in relation to men. But I will never be able to satisfy that desire for female attraction. The only way she can "scratch that itch" is by having some form of relationship with someone else. Which bring polygamy into the picture. Its not so much that I have a problem with bi women, its that I know I won't be able to satisfy their sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:23 AM
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Gen Z won't have relationships. They won't have children. They won't get married. They won't have religion, and they'll end long standing traditions. Gen Z will be corporate progressive drones. Endlessly consuming products while experimenting with new LGBTQRSTUVWXYZ movements and socialist policies that make the rich richer and the poor stupider.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:55 PM
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He doesn't want to have to pay for everything or stay a virgin until marriage. I don't think anyone WANTS to pay for everything. But I know plenty of men who understand their role is to pay for everything, while their wife's role is to housekeep. That is the traditional relationship. stay a virgin until marriage Now that's really traditional. Even 50, 100 years ago I think most people were having sex before marriage unless they were ultra Conservative. I think you're conflating conservatives wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:53 PM
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Work out, meditate, read, work on my online degree, You genuinely sound like a really interesting person. meet friends I think this is the big one that I'm not understanding. I don't meet friends, I don't really have many friends. So while you may meet friends for drinks and chat for hours. I'm playing computer games in my underwear. hike I take it you're in America. I've been getting out and going on walks more. Bit difficult in the winter tho as its dark by 5pm. housework, play with my pets, v…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:28 PM
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Something related to selling/purchasing/displaying art Not just art, but any sales job. Sales jobs are all about confidence and charisma. So if you can be a good salesperson, you're going to be attractive to the ladies. The difference is you're selling yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:40 PM
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In terms of a job you can work towards and get without being exceptionally lucky, Doctors, Farmers, Engineers, and Finance Bros. Then maybe boring but highly paid jobs like Lawyers and Accountants. Then physical jobs like skilled labourers. Then admin office jobs. Then service jobs. Lastly unskilled labour jobs. Ultimately though, business owner, entrepreneur, musician, actor, professional athlete. Those jobs are the most sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:37 PM
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Consent, and their lack of what it means. On a more literal case, having sex with an animal is child abuse. Tampering with the dead is illegal in almost every country I care to think of. On a more theoretical level, none of those "things" can consent. I'll exclude children here as well, because they can technically consent, but it's not actual consent and I think we all agree that peados should be in prison. But the sex with other things is a problem because of the lack of consent, and without u…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:22 PM
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going to the gym at night because the douche bros take up too much space. Amen to that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:17 PM
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Yeah, I think at the very bottom of the pile you will find men and women who will do disgusting things for sexual pleasure. There are men and women who have had sex with animals, children and dead people. Its best not to think about those people too much though. They do not fit into any "pill" or social category. They are disturbed individuals who should be in prison, not in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:15 PM
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Just check the back of the cubical door at the bar, it's on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:10 PM
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I'm a handsome man, my mummy said so! Are you calling my mum a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:08 PM
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Women don't worship any men. Also an 8/10 literally puts me on the fringe of the 80/20 rule. So if you follow TRP logic, then I'm just on the fringe of being attractive, and actually that's reflected in my daily life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:16 PM
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No, I'm just don't follow girls around trying to work out what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:06 PM
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The quality of men on a whole does need significant improvement. Me being a 8/10 doesn't do much when women's opinion of all men is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:32 AM
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Honestly I have no idea what women do in their spare time? Sure they shop, and they watch influences on Instagram and YouTube. But what else do they do? Women: what do you do on say a Wednesday night after you've finished work? As a man, I will play video games, scroll reddit and maybe go on a jog if I feel like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:31 AM
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Would you feel the same way if women were posting such comments about a male serial killer that was just arrested for stabbing a woman in cold blood? I don't understand the question. I don't care the gender of the victim or the perpetrator, murderers are cunts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:34 AM
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Those joke comments you are saying about aren't really jokes though are they. When a man says "yes please, I get to have sex AND die!" That's clearly a joke. When a women says "why is the serial killer soo hot 🥵, I want his babies" that's clearly not a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:09 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:55 PM
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I don't know a single guy with "sexy" levels of muscles who doesn't either work intensely physically demanding jobs, or goes to the gym every day for at least an hour pumping weights exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:43 PM
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if they don’t have it genetically, Sorry but genetics plays no part in it. I could look like a body builder if I put in the effort and juiced. My genes do fuck all. I've seen models fitness routines and they literally bounce a weighted ball around for 10 minutes, do some leg raises, then go for a jog and that's it. Do that not even every day and you'll be model fit (combined with a good diet).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 05:38 PM
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Why is this? Women don't need to maintain muscle mass. They just need to cut body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 02:43 PM
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Same way men punch above their looks. Slim down. Honestly women have this so easy. No expensive gyms or hard work needed. Just don't eat so much and you will be slim and sexy. If you want to get a figure (bum and flat stomach) then do some light exercises for 30 minutes a day and it's done. Men have to do hours of intense training to get the sexy muscles that women love. Women just have to not be fat. If you are still ugly after losing weight, and want to punch up. Then work on your personality.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:52 PM
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Its disgusting women having jobs. Next thing they'll be wanting rights, a vote, bodily autonomy, to wear trousers! Its the downfall of Western civilisation I tell you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:40 PM
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Cardi B and Nicki Minaj rapping about how useless men are? Is that what they're rapping about? I genuinely can't understand a word they say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:43 PM
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I think her takeaways are likely to be accurate. Men aren't supportive of each other in the way that women are, but the flip side of that is that we are rarely hostile to each other the way women are. A man respects a man a lot more than a women respects a women. Also male sexuality being more direct, instinctual, rather than mental. That is definitely true. A women can have passionate sex with a man she doesn't find physically attractive if that mental stimulus is there. A radical example of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 06:22 PM
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Make sexuality great again!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 05:49 PM
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Far more likely to be killed by a cow in America than to be killed by a shark. That doesn't mean don't be afraid of sharks, it means take more caution around cows. I for one would encourage women to meet guys in places and ways that allow them to feel safe. After a while they'll let their guard down and that's when I'll strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:25 PM
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I cone here to shitpost my thoughts. I get to read things back, and I've actually learnt a lot about myself and become a better person because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:14 PM
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If my female partner earned significantly more than me, ofcourse the expectation is that she would pay more towards things like housing and bills. I would be pretty disappointed if she didn't treat me to days/meals out too. But those things are never expected and always appreciated. I would ofc contribute what I could afford to taking her out etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:06 PM
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I mean yeah, I literally went on to talk about crying and almost throwing up after going to the gym. I know it's tough, but just because something is hard, doesn't mean you shouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:22 AM
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Here's to hoping he figures his shit out without having to be scammed out of his money The most important lessons are often the hardest to learn. Talking on here is part of what's helping me through it. I feel I can be open and honest here without ridicule because, well this entire sub is full of emotionally damaged men and women who are somewhat on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:21 AM
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Being honest, I've been him. He is emotionally immature, which is caused by his lack of experience in relationships, and his lack of experience being rejected. I think unless you get into a semi serious relationship at school, that then breaks apart, and you have your heart broken. Most guys suck at emotional intelligence until they've been through a lot of shit. What did it for me was a combination of the last girl I had a crush on being possibly the most attractive woman I'm ever going to talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:11 AM
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Two reasons: He doesn't have any other options available, and doesn't think he will have any other options available in the future. To him, you are the one and only chance he has to get into a relationship. You are the pinnacle of his expectations in romance. The sad truth is, if he stopped focusing on you and moved on, there would be other women out there who might be interested in him. Although with his desperation and clingyness that's unlikely (attitude is more important than looks). He's ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:41 AM
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You've got to push yourself out of your comfort zone, but in a way that doesn't induce a panic attack. I've got a lot worse since the pandemic because I've not had those regular social interactions. Thank you government lockdowns. Because fuck everyone that isn't statistically likely to vote tory I guess. Eventually after lots of positive interactions you get comfortable with a setting or with certain people. The worst one I had recently was at the gym. I don't use the gym, I tried to use the gy…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:37 AM
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Anxiety. My social anxiety means I don't spend much time in bars, clubs and other places where interaction with women happens. I work in a male dominated industry (although there are a few women at work). So yeah, lack of opportunity. But I must give credit to hinge. After sucking on OLD for years, Hinge has given me more matches than ever, and I've had intelligent and pleasant conversations. Even got myself a date. So yeah, let's hope my anxiety doesn't fuck that up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:04 PM
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I did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:49 PM
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Idk, if I'm talking amongst my closest friends I may admit something like "I never thought I would get with a short/tall/fat/blonde/asian/redhead, but my girlfriend is amazing". Its not an insult to them, its an admission that I had prejudices against certain types of women, and my partner helped me get over those prejudices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:36 PM
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Murderers sound a lot less murdery when you frame it in a way that sounds less murdery. For example: "I want to murder anyone who stands in the way of my life" Vs "God sends you challenges that you must overcome"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:46 PM
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I added yo your post, I'm not arguing with you. I feel like on here when people say "improve yourself" they only focus on muscles and weight. They don't focus on emotional maturity, social skills, or any of that lot. An emotionally immature, socially awkward hunk will still struggle with women. They may be able to have sex with women, but relationships will elude them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:32 AM
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. If not, improve yourself. I would argue the definition of improve. Improve could mean going to therapy and working on your mental health. It could mean going to the gym and working on your physical health. It could mean going out more and improving your social health, and social confidence. It could mean getting an education, or going for that promotion or whatever. Its not just about pumping irons in order to look good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:05 AM
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Just because you've never experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I've never experienced the strong force, but I know it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:56 AM
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Valentines day is a trap. A very sneaky trap. Its an opportunity for women to complain that their man didn't do enough, or only ever treats them on valentines day, or forgot about it, or something to that extent. All while doing absolutely fuck all for their male partner besides maybe dressing up in something sexy and letting him fuck her. Rules for valentines day is: Don't get her just flowers, you should be getting her flowers all year round not just on valentines day. Don't get her chocolate,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:27 AM
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Why tho? Why do you want to fuck over their lives. Its insanely abusive to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:19 AM
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I don't understand what OP wants. He can just ghost them all and leave. Why be a cunt about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:14 AM
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they seem happy enough, and they're not hurting anyone. It does seem like they spend wayyyyy too much money on anime merch, but it's their money so eh. Which means I tolerate them. I don't actively want to impede on their right to do so. However they're weirdos. I think something that is missing in society is the ability/courage to say "that's weird and I don't agree with it. But you do you I guess". Tolerance isn't "yes, these guys are hero's, they're so brave and inspirational to find someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:32 AM
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Ok but the hint was that I should make a move and start pursuing her. That's what she is after. She hasn't made the move, she is just letting me know that I should make a move. If I didn't make the move, nothing would happen. Which is the point here. If she walked over to me, grabbed my hand, and we started dancing. That would be her making a move. Instead she would make a remark like "I love this song" and expect me to realise the hint and ask her to dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:13 PM
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You've never had a girl message you first on a dating site, I had one girl who told me she wanted to ride my face and bear my children. But she ghosted me after a few hours of saucy messaging. girl who puts herself in your orbit Fortunately I'm not fat enough to hold a body in orbit. girl who got close to you at a party? Only after I've made the move with her. We can be mutually vibing, but I've always laid the groundwork, or made the move. Like leaning in for a kiss. I've never had a girl make …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:43 PM
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I'm not a particularly unattractive man, I've dated some very attractive women. Not once have I received any attention from any women without first initiating. Maybe some girls I've met have been interested, but they haven't let me know, or even suggested that they might be. Women simply get enough attention from men that they don't need to initiate anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:19 PM
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Might as well say: "Men should die alone and never interact romantically with women".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:00 PM
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Would all men steal if given the chance? I don't think so. Men aren't some primordial beast. We have a moral compass and we can understand right from wrong. If a man rapes a women, its because they've somehow convinced themselves that it's alright (like saying "it's alright, she's wanted to fuck me before so I can help myself now she's drunk"). Or they've got a deep hatred of women, know that it's wrong, but simply don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:57 PM
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Its the sort of man I'm going to be 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:49 PM
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I think that falls into successful mem. Wealthy men. Men that are secure and safe, but can take you scuba diving off the coast of Hawaii because he wants to, and then fly you to Dubai to go base jumping off a skyscraper. Men with so much money that they can take you for a spin in his Mclaren, before dropping you off at the spa to relax. That sort of man will always be attractive, even if they are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:28 PM
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I'm in this position. I need a girlfriend because, even on a professional wage, I'll never be able to afford to buy a house without one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 02:55 PM
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Men don't expect to draw attention from women. Men expect to have to impress women. So when we get attention from women, it's either completely missed, or we think we are getting attention from a woman (because we want it from that specific woman) and they aren't really interested. Men also want what they can't have. That's why lesbians are attractive to a lot of men. Because we know they don't want us, and that turns us on. But the flip side of that is a women showing too much interest into a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:20 PM
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I think OP should consider mail order brides. Seeing as they get the benefit of living in a first world country, and he gets the benefit of having someone to show off at parties, everyone is a winner. Alternatively he could get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:42 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:05 PM
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Ir was flailed discussion when I posted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:04 PM
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Its not. Honestly it's probably the best way to have a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 07:59 AM
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It wasn't sarcasm, I'm genuinely confused why they don't want to answer questions if it will filter out guys they clearly aren't interested in. Oh shit, I just figured it out. Its not about whether they are interested or not. It's about getting as many matches and likes as possible in order to pad your ego. So by filtering out it means they have less matches and less ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:20 PM
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But answering questions means hours less time spent swiping through wasted potential matches finding the one guy with tussles blonde hair, or a love of painting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 10:10 PM
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Is this where I make those comments agreeing with OP? The "desirable nice guy" is just someone who hasn't got mental health problems. I don't know a single person like that. Maybe my brother, he doesn't seem to have mental health problem, but he might just be suppressing it really well. Basically the always connected always on hyper alert world we live in now is destroying our ability to function as humans and the pandemic doesn't help. I think it will be harder and harder to find people that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:40 PM
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This is where I tell you that most of the guys on here are wrong and most of the guys on here tell me I'm not attractive. Regardless the biggest issue is simply being seen. Even attractive guys get rejected and refused regularly. What sets them apart is the way that rejection impacts them. They don't cry online, they don't hate women. They laugh it off and try again later. Attractive guys looking for long term relationships either get into long term relationships, or end up dating and subsequent…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 04:17 PM
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I tend to agree, but most of them are hidden behind a paywall. And there is no weight filter
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:00 PM
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Exactly, the only reason to pay is to access more women to swipe on. But if women aren't paying, it makes it impossible to be seen. Dating apps need enough members to create choice and represent a wide enough portion of society. But a small enough population so that everyone has the opportunity to see everyone. If I were running a dating app, I would be creating smaller populations within the app. You only need a few things to whittle the numbers down a lot. For example if I say I'm a Caucasian …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:55 PM
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How long between matching, and proposing a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:46 PM
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How pointless it all is, and how expensive it is of you pay for it. Firstly, spending an hour every day swiping through your designated people, then spending days talking to someone, only for them to ghost you and for you to have to start again. Its genuinely the most pointless thing ever. At least dating IRL you get to decide immediately if you're into them or not. Then just how expensive it is. Hinge charges £37 a month for premium. Amazon prime is £7 a month. My phone is £30 a mo th for a bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:30 PM
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Men struggle most in areas women find easiest: Getting empathy, seeking help, dating, making friends and other social issues. Women struggle most in areas men find easiest: Being respected, being taken seriously, standing up for themselves, being independent. Neither life is easier, but because we only see women breezing through dating, we fail to see women failing in the corporate world, or falling down when they find themselves alone with responsibilities. And because they only see the success…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:43 AM
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This isn't a movement, never was never will be. 99% of men will continue being normal and the 1% of people who study red pills, blue pills and dating strategies aren't the sort of guys going on dates. Touch grass, then you'll be able to go in dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:56 PM
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No, I'm a product of my time. I think so lowly of society, not myself. Comparatively I'm pretty good looking, fit and respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:41 AM
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What I heard is "you're really good at taking photos".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:36 AM
2

It matters in the same way that holding a door open for someone else matters. It doesn't positively impact your life in any way, but good people still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:36 AM
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100% agree, I don't think I said "if you ask a women out then they owe you a response" I said if you're in a relationship then they're shitty for not giving you closure. Plus it's also not a mandate. They never have to do anything. It's just a reflection of their selfish personality if they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:34 AM
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And those women are assholes too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:32 AM
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Its still a shitty thing to do. I would say it is your responsibility to make sure that everyone you interact with has a positive experience interacting with you. Sure you could go around being a cunt, but then you'd be a cunt. Or you could be a good person and tell people how you feel about them. Even if that's not something they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:34 PM
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Ghosting is a huge problem, closure is fantastic at helping you move on. When you are ghosted you ask yourself so many questions like "what did I do?", "what did I say", "why did she leave?", "what's wrong with me?". And it can quickly turn to you blaming yourself, blaming your appearance, your personality and having a real identity crisis because you simply don't know why this person who you felt you were really connecting with suddenly doesn't care about you any more. Just saying something lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 10:04 PM
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A relationship isn't a transaction, it's a mutual understanding of respect, love and understanding. Do you treat your friends the same way? If I came to you feeling emotionally drained, would you tell me to fuck off because you're not my personal servant? I assume friendship, relationships etc are all foriegn to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 08:41 PM
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Exactly that. I shaved my beard off on Friday, I do it semi regularly just to let my skin breath. Anyway, I meet up with my friends over the weekend and we take a group photo as one of my mates is leaving for work across the world. After the photo everyone laughs at me for my smile. It's not a normal smile with teeth showing and a big ) shaped grin, like this 😁, it's more like 😧. My mouth open, because that's what you do when you smile, but thats about it. And it made me realise that I can't phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:38 PM
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This is a big thing that I'm trying to work on. Happy people choose to be happy, and they embrace happiness when they find it. Miserable people (like myself) choose to be miserable and embrace misery whenever they find it. Its learnt behaviour, my mother (lots of the problems I have go back to my mother) is the most miserable cow in existence, and so is her mother. Just fucking miserable all the time. Say we go to the beach as a family, it'll be "no you can't have ice cream it's too expensive, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:18 PM
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Cheeky 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:20 PM
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Jobs on him, my cock is amazing and I have no shame. Fuck, he can send that shit to my employer, I might get a raise
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:34 PM
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Fair point. Still nothing to do with their loyalty as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:28 PM
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Its a good instinct to have, but it shouldn't become overwhelming. For example my mother. Her protective instinct means she will sabotage me and my siblings careers, love life, ambitions because in her mind she's protecting us from the dangers of the unknown. Shit is toxic as fuck. So yeah, be protective, but don't be possessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:37 PM
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Thats what they said about being gay and mental health problems, until they stopped stigmatising being gay and found when they are tolerated and accepted by society, gay people operate perfectly well. Perhaps the cause and effect are the wrong way around, or there are negative externalities at work. Promiscuous women are still stigmatised heavily in society, and so will more likely develop mental health issues that their husband isn't prepared for and can't deal with. Forcing them apart. Perhaps…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:25 AM
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This sounds incredibly whiny. You know your girlfriend doesn't exist to serve you? If your girlfriend has had a traumatic past, then you should acknowledge that and try to accommodate for it as much as you can. Why should you? Because you're her fucking boyfriend and that's what boyfriends are for! If you can't handle that responsibility, go fuck around with someone else. Don't fuck up her life any more by being another asshole boyfriend in her life. If you lack empathy to such an extent that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 09:12 AM
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I agree with you 100%. I think a lot of people on this page have no idea what actual love is, and are instead guided only by their genitals, not their hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:38 PM
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Congrats to you. Thats amazing. I'm being told that social media means you'll leave him as soon as someone better comes along. What would you say to that? To me I think to love someone means that regardless if someone appears to be a better partner, you stick with the one that has brought you so much love and happiness. You have a loyalty to that person, so long as they love you and make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:17 PM
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Then you're dating the wrong people my friend. If you're a good partner, then you won't have any problems keeping a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:40 PM
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So social media makes people unable to love one another for ever? I think you are mistaking 15-25 year old promiscuous liberals who don't believe in LTR or marriage or commitment and genuinely LTRs between people who love each other and are committed to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:32 PM
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Its not a fantasy to my parents, who got together in their early 20s, and are still together now. Nor my parents parents, who got together in their teens, and stayed together till death took them apart. Nor their parents, who again, were childhood sweethearts who stayed together until the ripe old age of 88.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:23 PM
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Obviously finding the one first try is unrealistic. But it's certainly a goal. If you don't go into a relationship thinking this is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, what do you go into a relationship for? "I'll use you until I'm hotter/wealthier/in a better place mentally then I'll get rid of you?" I think that's more disturbing than anything. I've never had a serious LTR, so maybe I'm missing something. I've only ever had short term flings that never last. But when I look b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 09:21 PM
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God yes. The comfort of knowing someone is there for you. Someone you can rely on, confide in, celebrate with. Someone who will push you to be the best version of yourself, and you can push to be the best version of themselves. Someone I can give gifts to, and recieve gifts from. Someone I can travel the world with, and make memories which we can reminisce about in old age together. I would rather go through life's events on my own, than have each event marked by a relationship with someone who …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 07:57 PM
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Have fun. Honestly thats the most important part of life. Take her somewhere that you'll enjoy on your own, and hopefully she'll enjoy it to. And don't forget to smile
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:25 PM
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Ofc men are worse today. Watch any old school footage of factory workers, or miners, or even office workers in the 20s or 30s. All smart dressed, loving life, big smiles, all fit and well groomed. Now you have slobs going to work in jeans and t-shirt (me), overweight, messy hair. No sense of style, not gentleman in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:21 AM
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In my age group women out earn men by 20%. If these women don't leave the workforce to have kids (birth rates are dropping across the board) then in the next 30 years as they grow through the business, women will dominate every position of power in government, companies and NGOs. They will dominate because they are currently given preference for promotion by fact of having a vagina. With those extra opportunities, they gain more experience meaning if we were to revert back to an equal footing wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:37 AM
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Thats not what he's saying though. The point is that women are watching these videos. Meaning they must have atleast some level of perverted interest in it. Maybe it's curiosity, we all watched 2 girls 1 cup as teenagers. Even though we knew it would be disgusting. I personally have watched porn that afterwards I've been disgusted at myself for watching. Porn habits don't equal consent. But they may provide insight into how our brain works when it's horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 08:21 AM
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She was really hot, most of them were 7s at best. It depends if you like Asian girls I guess. The one with 1000 matches was really fucking hot. Small frame, massive tits (fake and paid for by her ex) and really pretty face.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:32 AM
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I imagine it'll be like badoo. Ugly people and foreigners looking for sugar daddies in the west. On Badoo I matched with so many Thai girls who set their location to London. Same with Philippines, Malaysia, etc. I got chatting to one about why she does it and what the results were. She said she had 1000 matches in a week and 10 offers of payment to support her. So yeah, make of that what you will
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 10:08 AM
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You mean women are no longer intimidated by men and have found their voice and are finally speaking up about all the creeps and weirdos that hit on them all the time. I think that's what you mean. In the past if a creep approached a women, she would awkwardly try and skirt around the conversation and make an excuse to leave. For fear that he might turn violent, or similar. Now though she has the confidence to stand up for herself and tell you exactly how she feels. She doesn't have to live in fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:06 AM
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No because I don't want a bunch of dudes sexually assaulting me. The same reason straight women go to gay bars is the same reason straight guys shouldn't. Not saying all gays are like it. But every single flamboyant gay guy I've met on a night out has either tried to grope me, or has groped me. Going to a gay bar would be my idea of hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:59 AM
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It depends. Sometimes both people realise that the relationship wasn't meant to be, but they still like each other as friends. But it has to be mutual. If you are staying friends because you want him/her to take you back. You're hurting yourself for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:23 AM
1

I find playing contact sports is enough to build muscle mass. But I must admit my arms are a bit weedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:30 PM
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Lifting weights is so boring though. And it makes my arms hurty
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:25 PM
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Man: hey you're cute, wanna go out Women: no Man: hey you're sexy wanna fuck Women: no Man: hey, we've been friends for a while and I want more than that, will you be my girlfriend Women: no Women: Its mens fault I'm single old and undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:14 PM
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The most intimate expression of love and commitment. It shouldn't be given lightly, but also shouldn't be reserved. Its like a special currency in Vidya games. If you hoard it until the end, you realise that the game would've been a lot easier and a lot more fun if you'd spent some of it to get past the grinding. But if you spend it freely at the start, you'll realise that later on there will be someone you want to spend it on who won't appreciate how much you've spent already. Basically it boil…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 08:20 AM
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I'm okay being forever alone, so yeah one girl for the rest of my life is better than none.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:01 PM
2

Even the most timid girl will get bored of lattes and reading after a fee months.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 10:10 PM
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You created a fake scenario in your head, and then used that fake scenario to disappoint yourself about things that haven't happened yet. Chin up lad,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:40 PM
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You're right, thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:51 PM
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Facts are your female HS friend chose riding on the back of a motorcycle over listening to my violin practice or watching me destroy at COD. Danger and excitement is sexy and it will always be sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:15 PM
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Looks really aren't everything. But it is irrelevant whether you like sports or 40k. You're missing my point. The point isn't that I like 40k, therefore I'm not attractive. The point is that if I don't know who I am, then how the fuck is a potential partner going to know who I am? She can know my name, my height, my star sign, my address. But ultimately if I'm a stranger to myself, I will always be a stranger to her. And who would form a relationship with a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:30 PM
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This is what it means to "be yourself" or "find yourself" or "love yourself". I have absolutely no idea who I am. On one hand I'm a nerdy introverted guy who knows way too much warhammer 40k lore. On another I'm a sports fan who could spend forever watching, playing, and listening to sports. On another I'm an ambitious young professional with dreams of starting a real estate firm. On another I'm a free spirited wanderer who would love to explore the world. On another I'm a sophisticated gentlema…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:08 PM
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For example, one time I had a sex dream about James Bond... And I don't mean an actor that played James Bond, in fact, he didn't have a face at all... He was just a gray blobby figure in a suit that I understood to be James Bond and a James Bond spy thriller scenario. And that was enough... So you fantasised about a sharp dressed mysterious man, with power and wealth. A man who oozes confidence. A man who is dangerous, and exciting. That is pretty standard for most women. I believe there have be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:39 PM
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r/PPD has 90k members, r/BLKP has like 8k, r/RP doesn't exist, but probably had 100k members at most. In terms of communities on reddit, these are small numbers. More people are members of r/Coldplay than r/PPD. So by your logic because hundreds of thousands of people all experience Coldplay as good music, it must be good music? r/antiwork has millions of members, does that mean capitalism has failed and we should embrace communism? Fuck no. It means a bunch of useless losers on the Internet are…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:58 PM
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Obviously you will work out each others preferences as you go. But say its a random hookup, she's more likely to want to hook up again if she felt fulfilled and the best way of ensuring she is fulfilled is by making her cum first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:21 AM
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This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:17 AM
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obsessive or boring I'm both. But I recognise that I'm both. Life is a journey and recognising your flaws is the first step down the path of self improvement. I've been able to improve the boring side by simply doing more stuff. But the obsessive side is still with me. I probably need therapy to work out why I'm so obsessive, and what steps to take to stop being so obsessive. But anyway that's enough about me, I agree with you completely. A 10/10 Chad and an 8/10 slightly better than average guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:42 AM
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Top tip. Make her cum before you even let her see your dick. Your job is to pleasure her, her job is to pleasure you. She will most likely put more effort into pleasuring you if she is pleasured first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:22 AM
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she did consent to the transaction, No, you cannot consent to something you have no knowledge of. Any lawyer will tell you that. That is why "stealthing" is classed as rape. Informed consent is pivotal to our society. If you don't understand that, then I'm really worried for the women in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:14 PM
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Good luck finding a trustworthy rating agency. Thats fine, if we label B rated people as A rated people they will fetch better profits on the market, we can hide these within the bundles. I'm sure nothing bad could ever happen from this sort of system.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:59 PM
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I'm thinking of introducing relationship options. The option to date me in 10 years time, and you take on the risk that in 10 years I'm going to be fitter, more attractive and have a higher RMV. Maybe even derivatives based on bundles of people and the average RMV value of each bundle, so some might have AAA rated RMVs some might have B rated RMVs but you date the bundle and hope you have a good bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:49 PM
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Some women love being with men that actively despise women and hate them with every fabric of their being because they are bitter and angry incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:37 PM
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But unlike stock market prices, humans attractiveness devalues with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:28 PM
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I changed my location to the posh part of the city, and set my distance to 1 mile and now only 1/3 are obese rather than every single one. I think Hinge has an algorithm that shows you the least matched people first. Which makes sense I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:53 PM
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Which is the biggest point against TRP. If following TRP turns you into a spineless angry bitter man with no honour or integrity, then it's not worth the sex. Paragons of manhood are good, kind, honourable men. Who love their friends, family and partners. Who are loyal and caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:29 PM
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Thats a very roundabout way of saying you're an invertebrate with no morals. I value honour, integrity, truth, justice and virtue. In my mind people like you are a disgrace to men and manhood. People who would lie, cheat, manipulate, and worm their way into relationships are doomed to fail. If this is what society has come to, then we must revert back to the word of christ, and I say that as an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:25 PM
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This probably isn't going to help your conviction that different people are attracted to different things. But: Karen Gillian Jodie Comer Jutta Leerdam OK maybe not as famous but still a gold medal winning Olympic athletes with 2.1m Instagram followers. Not a household name. Infact I could add a lot of athletes and olympians on here. Basically anyone you see on r/ohlympics, except some of the weight lifters and field athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:19 AM
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Thats not makeup, that's her going from smiling to straight faced. I guess you've just never made a women smile
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 07:08 AM
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My beanie baby collection is going to mature any day now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:05 PM
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Mental health problems are legitimate problems with medical journals and research done on them. Being short isn't, short people aren't in anyway inhibited by being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:05 PM
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Also trying to change others drastically is seen as manipulative by society these days, so there's additional prices being paid. If you manipulate someone from being depressed, overweight, and emotionally damaged by societies expectations of her. Into someone who is healthy, happy, financially and emotionally stable and content. I wouldn't call it manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:46 PM
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Right but you the individual have far less influence over the value of the stock, but far more influence over the value of your emotional investment. For most people, if they dump their life savings into one stock, they are at the mercy of the market, the executives and the government whether that investment goes up or down. But if you dedicate your emotional investment into one person, you can work with them to make them the best possible version of themselves. Think of it like sitting on the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:40 PM
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You're contradicting your own point. If my dick gets compliments, then that means women are sleeping with me. Meanwhile You're saying I don't have the looks to get noticed. Clearly if I lack the looks, but still get my dick wet, then it's not all about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:09 PM
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I'm the opposite, I would love to be complimented on my looks. Ironically the only part of me that regularly gets compliments is my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:06 PM
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Jesus christ, you autists really have turned dating into a stock market. If you guys really do believe in this stock marketesque dating world. Wouldn't the best strategy be to buy low sell high. In other words, date the ugly fat girls and turn them into smoking hot beauties? Obviously time isn't on your side, and younger women are the ones who actually have any long term value. But there are plenty of depressed 20 somethings with body issues. If you can get them into a gym, and turn their life a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:05 PM
1

What does LMV and RMV mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:57 PM
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I think it could go two ways, a pessimistic way, and an optimistic way. Optimistic: After Gen Z and beyond develop serious mental health problems from OLD and Social media, medical professionals start shouting out the dangers of these apps. What starts out as a fringe movement of people rejecting these apps eventually grows momentum until they are around the same size as the Vegitarian movement is now. Ie, most people recognise that they should use the apps less, and maybe go one day a week with…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:32 AM
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UK
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:04 AM
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Socialised healthcare, if you are suicidal (which I'm not) you get put on a waiting list which is about 6 months long and you get 3 free therapy sessions. Otherwise you pay yourself. Isn't social healthcare beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:58 AM
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Thanks, I should but money is tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:16 AM
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Absolutely yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:16 AM
1

The average male in America is 6ft tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:15 AM
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Benadryl there was a time when I was an 8 year old boy, and my friends were only my friends so they could stab me in the back later, when my name became an insult, where being associated with me was enough for girls to start crying. When you get bullied to such an extent as a pre pubescent boy, it doesn't matter how good looking you are, those trust issues, that low self esteem, those things stick with you. Now when I get complimented, are they complimenting me, or are they just saying that so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:13 AM
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They don't have an issue other than their world view
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:40 PM
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I don't need to sympathise with short dudes, because there is nothing wrong with short dudes. Mental health problems are legitimate issues, like physical health problems. Being short isn't a medical issue (unless you have dwarfism). But some short guys act like their the biggest victims in the world. Its stupid, short guys aren't victims and they need to recognise that being short isn't restricting their dating ability. Being a whiny little bitch is. If you are short, and own it, and are great t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:32 PM
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"Whaa people are tall and I'm short and I can't get laid because I'm short whaa whaa whaa" I fucking hate short guys who can't get over the fact they're short. Tiny little manlet babies complaining about what they haven't got rather than appreciating what they have. Stop being an insecure bitch and own your shortness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:15 PM
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What is a pretty average guy to you when it comes to face or height? Like just under or at 6ft tall, skinny and scrawny, well presented, but not handsome. Looks after what he has,but hasn't got much to start with, if you get what I mean. But the life of a party. Like, such an energetic and charismatic guy. Was there a lot of alcohol involved? No paraplegic drunk, but there was alcohol. And how do you know that they went home together? Because he was meant to be staying at my place haha
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:10 PM
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That guy looks like he's tall and skinny. So get in the gym a bit and build up some shoulders and arms. His teeth are a mess, so maybe braces or just don't smile with your teeth. His ears are big, so maybe wear a hat when possible, but thats not the end of the world. His hair is fine, keep it short and clean. You could polish that guy up to a relatively attractive bloke.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 09:06 PM
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I think women who are "conventionally attractive" can be both attractive and unattractive depending on how the present themselves. If they are classy, and attractive that turns me on. But being slutty ot trashy, even if you're model attractive, it's not attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:36 PM
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I disagree. You're thinking LTR but even for hookups. If you can approach her at a party and keep her dancing and having a great time, she will sleep with you regardless of how you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:34 PM
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I disagree, as a conventionally attractive guy with anxiety, and other mental health problems, and suffering loneliness after leaving all my friends behind and moving to a new city, I would rather be less attractive but drop the mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:33 PM
3

Guess we are buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:31 PM
1

I call bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:26 PM
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No, sorry I should have said its not ALL about how you look. Clearly if you are disfigured, people will steer away from you. But an average guy vs an attractive guy if the average guy is confident, fun and energetic, then they will have more success than a bland and introverted attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:25 PM
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I've watched with my own eyes some pretty average guys hitting on gorgeous girls and going home with them because they gave off really great fun vibes. All you need to do, when on a night out, is to show her a good time, and then seal the deal at the end. In this case looks really don't matter. She doesn't care what you look like, if you are super positive and active and make her laugh and smile all night.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 08:24 PM
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Its not about how you look, really. Honestly and truthfully it isn't. IRL dating is about confidence, energy and vibe. If you give off a positive vibe with confidence and you make her feel safe, happy and excited to be with you. You'll pull every women you meet. OLD is about the photos you use. You can be the most attractive guy in the world, but if you only have selfies of you posing in your room, no one will swipe on you. If you have a photo of you playing sport, or on a hike, or in a band, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:55 PM
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Well not as upfront as that. But you do hear of people who have got a fat girl, and convinced her to start working out, and has resulted in them turning into a worldy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 06:04 PM
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You know when you see someone and they look like they're good fun you know. Like you want to be mates with them, but they're just too fat to find attractive. I'm not the sort of person who will hit them up and then try and get them to lose weight, I feel like that's pushing boundaries. Would rather just skip em.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 05:52 PM
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Which honestly is goals. He's also not stupid. He's invested that IG money into assets that give a return, meaning he'll never have to work again. Meaning literally no one can cancel him. If investment firms will take Chinese billionaires money, then I don't think he has to worry about being cancelled. I would love to have such a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:23 PM
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He's probably just a really great guy, who hangs out with really great women. Like, women want to have sex with him, and he is smart enough to only have sex with women he trusts. You can only be cancelled if you let people cancel you. Jeremy Clarkson said "I can't be homophobic, I watch lesbian porn" and then made the most successful show on Amazon Prime. Sure people will criticise his lifestyle, but he'll continue doing his thing and won't let it stop him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:13 PM
2

Then what makes you qualified to call them misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 02:55 PM
1

Hahaha, wtf. That's the most retarded thing I've heard. What's he going to do, keep them on in bed? Let's share a steamy shower, but let me keep my shoes on. Its like telling a girl you're foreign and only in town for the week. Yeah you might pull, but it's just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:01 AM
2

I live in London working as a construction professional. The only time I see women is when I go shopping and they're stood behind the counter, or on public transport. Neither of which are appropriate to hit on someone. I've also got anxiety, thanks to trauma from my childhood, so even if I did get the opportunity to talk to a women, I get a panic attack and start crying. Looks wise however, I'm fit, and generally good looking, except from the 1 in 10 times I look in a mirror and hate the way I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:57 PM
2

There have been gyms, but it's not my sort of thing. It's all roided up freaks and slab heads. My sports club is more genteel, I play with lawyers, accountants and financial advisors.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:20 PM
1

I don't go to the gym, back before gyms people stayed fit by doing sports. Activities with other people where you try and get balls into goals
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 09:06 PM
1

Because tinder wants to get you off its app ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 02:39 PM
1

Fat can be worked off, anxiety is stuck with me forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:17 PM
0

I have anxiety which stops me going to bars and clubs. I've also moved from my hometown to a new city recently, so don't know many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:06 PM
3

But the fact you are trying to get the weight off proves you're not comfortable being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:05 PM
1

Your logic doesn't make sense though. If most girls are unattractive, and I am attractive to most girls, then most girls I see would be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:56 AM
1

The complaint is having to shift through all the fatties to get to the fitties.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:48 AM
1

You have to pay to see who likes your profile. Also tinder is full of attractive women, none of whom are active on tinder, and just have links to their social media/only fans. Maybe that's the problem. Attractive women are able to leverage their looks for cash, so have no incentive to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:47 AM
5

You're active in r/keto meaning you're actively trying to lose weight. Meaning you recognise that your body is neither healthy or attractive. Jeep up with the diet though and I'm sure you'll reach your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 11:20 AM
1

I've fluctuated in size, at my leanest just before covid, at my fattest about 3 months ago. It's about identifying the direction you are going in, and making changes to stop it early. I haven't done any exercise since Tuesday evening, which is especially lazy for me. But my mental health and work and other things have stopped me. But I do regular exercise every Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:56 AM
0

I guess I don't see the fat guys because I'm not looking for them. But most fat guys I know are strong fat. Like, big arms, big legs, and a big belly. There aren't many just fat guys around, like there are just fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:42 AM
1

I'm in London, which should be full of young, fit, hardworking professionals who are very image conscious. But alas no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:40 AM
0

All the women I was swiping on were 20-25. Maybe I was given the shit for the day, but I swiped through over 100 and only gave out 4 likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:36 AM
2

Its frustrating when dating has mostly moved online, and it just means filtering through hundreds of unattractive behemoths to find the one attractive women who already has an inbox full of men who have also realised she's the only attractive women on the site. Men are all chasing after the same top women because all the rest are fat. If the rest of the women got into shape, maybe dating wouldn't be so toxic. It's supply demand economics. The supply of attractive women is at an all time low, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 10:32 AM
2

I live in London, which should be full of young, hard working, wealthy professionals. But is just full of fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:42 AM
2

Tiktok thots and Instagram models aren't reflective of the real world. Its more financially beneficial for them to appear single, because Simps are more likely to donate and subscribe to their socials.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:27 AM
5

Because they have been told they do t need to be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:25 AM
2

I'm not angry, or bitter. Just disappointed that this is what's happened to our society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:23 AM
2

Why is it so hard to believe that other men can be attracted to women who aren't attractive to you? Being 200lb of walking lard isn't attractive to anyone, and if it is attractive to you, you have serious mental problems. I can't imagine how heartbreaking it would be for me to think that my partner thought I wss unattractive o Which is why in swiping left on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:22 AM
2

Is this the secret behind the "I'm an average guy and I have loads of sex" claims. You're just fucking lard. You're why these girls aren't sorting out their lives. People like you call them beautiful and they believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:20 AM
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They aren't all obese, some are just fat, and some are just ugly (or have no sense of style, no way of showing their inner beauty). Its hard to tell IRL because there are a lot of attractive women, but they could all be in LTR. Single women are single for a reason and most of that reason is because they're a 3 at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:29 AM
3

I work in construction, so the only women on site is Gary when we made him dress up as a women that one time. When I do work in the office and there are actual females present, do you really think I'm going to risk my career by flirting with them. My interactions with women in the office are as follows: Yes, No, I'll ask someone else. If a women in the office takes a shining to me, and asks me out, taking away any oressure from HR. Then if it doesn't work out, I'm now forced to spend 8 hours a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:20 AM
1

You've completely missed the point. The point isn't to get women, the point is to have a successful and fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:53 PM
2

You've completely missed the point. The point isn't to get women, the point is to have a successful and fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:32 PM
1

I don't want kids, because I'm a selfish cunt. Flights and hotels to Barbados and a 5 star luxury resort costs about £1500 per person per week. I'm prepared to spend £3000 to take my SO and I on that holiday. I'm not prepared to spend £4500 to bring a child as well. Meaning if I had a child, I would have to go somewhere cheaper, like center Parcs, or Benidorm. Especially if I have 2 or more kids. Then you have the time problem. Do I want to spend my evenings in the gym, or eating out, or playing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:08 PM
1

Then I'm sorry but you're a failure and should probably give up on finding happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 03:42 PM
0

So set a non-sexual goal. For example, I want to be able to bench 300lbs, or I want to run a marathon, or I want to own my own home, or I want to become a senior software developer, or I want to travel the world. If you set those goals, and work towards them, irrespective of female attention, you will feel like you're achieving something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:44 PM
1

You're applying video game logic to the real world. You're trying to game it, and that works when the consequence of failure is getting to try again immediately. But the consequence of failure in dating is heartache, hurt, and emotional damage. So gaming it doesn't work. The only way dating works if you be yourself, that's if you want meaningful relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:40 PM
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The argument is that women should stop sleeping around at all and settle with one guy. Once all the attractive guys get hooked up with an attractive women, then all the "average" guys and "average" women will be left to get together. Sure there may be some attractive guys and attractive girls that slip through for various reasons. Right now the "top 20%" of men are sharing the top 80% of women. At least that's the argument. The argument is that the top 20% of men are just getting so much female …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:58 AM
5

Good for you, but then you have to accept that you're in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:02 PM
5

“I really like you and if your comfortable would like to kiss you.” Thats going to get her panties wet for sure. Its funny, 50 shades of grey is considered porn for women, the most intimate fantasies of women, and was a record selling book with millions of copies sold. At no point was the female protagonist asked "if you like, we could kiss, if you're comfortable with that, no pressure, but I would like it". No, women like men to be confident and take the lead, that comes with the expectation th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:00 PM
2

Yeah, I understand that. I have friends who have been raped, sexually assaulted and groped. I know why women are on edge. I get that completely. So what's the solution? We just segregate society into men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 03:53 PM
3

I'm not sure you understood the tone of my comment. Which is understandable as its a text message. But it was meant to be humorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 08:10 AM
0

What great resignation? There hasn't been one, more people are on payroll than ever in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:51 AM
9

Thats why you're better off alone. Interacting with women is just plain risky. A joke, action or anything really that they take offence to will be used against you and you may end up in court, or worse outed on the Internet as a sexual predator. No one will listen to your objections because you must always believe women. You'll lose your job, your kids (if you have any) and you may face time in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:47 AM
4

at least to most English speakers. To North Americans. I'm British, and I will not be bullied on the Internet into using Americanisms
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 07:25 AM
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Women are soft, and homely. A women cam make you feel at peace and safe with nothing but her words and her touch. I think there are a lot of things that I love about women that someone who is gay would think about a man. But I'm not gay, so I think about women like this. But making a women laugh, making her smile, making her fall in love. Just the thought of having her light up when she sees me. :( I'm so ready for a relationship, I just wish my career and financial situation was in the same pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:20 PM
5

When men stop having sex with drunk women, women will stop claiming they can't consent when drunk. Why? Because for most of those women the only sex they are having is drunk sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:18 PM
6

The point was well and truly missed. If you are nice because you expect something from someone, it's not genuine. Being nice means doing something without the expectation of a reward, or doing something is the reward. For example picking up a friend from the airport is a nice thing to do, and you would be doing it because A you want to help a friend out and B you want to spend some time with your friend because you enjoy their company. Picking up a friend from the airport because you want to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 02:35 PM
8

I'll do favours for anyone, like picking them up something in the shop, or walking their dog when they're away. What I won't do is spend hours driving to the airport and back to pick them up, and refuse gas money. That's a bit more than a favour, so yeah you should've picked up on it. If he got pissed when you declined him, he was never your friend. He was only ever interested in you romantically. So yes he lied to you about being your friend to try and get close to you so you would see him as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:04 AM
2

Being honest with yourself, and your date, will always be the right choice in the long run. If I'm looking for a LTR, then I'll tell them that. There is no pressure on them to decide there and then if they want a long term relationship with me. But it sets expectations right away. The problem is a lot of men do as you say, they say they want a LTR, then pump and dump. Which means when a man says they want a LTR, women are immediately suspicious and on edge, because they've fallen for that one be…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 10:45 PM
8

Call me kinky but I really get off to 6 years of relationship, buying a house together, getting married and then having sex for the purpose of having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:43 PM
2

They aren't. There are a certain group of "nice guys" who aren't actually nice guys. They just act like nice guys because they think that's how they will get laid. Then when they get friendzoned, rejected, ignored. They flip out and show their true colours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:03 AM
2

And I'm fine with that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:01 AM
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Call me a doormat if you like, but I think when someone is being nice to you, and your immediate reaction is to exploit his nice behaviour and use him. It speaks more about you than me. If Being nice means you'll be taken advantage of, and never find a partner, then that's fine by me. You can be anything you want in this world, and the fact that so few people choose to be nice is a shame. Just be nice, boy, girls, everyone. Just be nice, ffs it isn't hard. The world would be a much better place …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 09:08 PM
1

As I said, I'm failing because my anxiety means I rarely interact with woman in a romantic setting, and then my constant need for reassurance that they do actually think in attractive/ want me/ love me drives them away. That doesn't mean I sing know what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 05:56 AM
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I know why I'm alone thank you. But you are alone because you're attitude not your height. Women don't care about looks if you can make them feel protected, valued, interesting, sexy etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:48 PM
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Thats simply not true. Height isn't that important. Over 6ft and for most women it's no difference at all. Considering the average guy is 6ft, if you are shorter then you're literally below average. All the short guys I know are in LTR with beautiful kind women. While I'm alone. Thats mostly due to my anxiety keeping me home and away from situations where I may find women. But I'm still alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:38 PM
1

Yeah, pretty much haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:54 PM
1

I mean, I'm over 6ft, I try to keep myself fit, I have a beard, I've just started a career, but not earning much right now. When you combine all those things, I'm about average for my city. I live in London, so it's full of super rich, super hot guys and girls from around the world. I know a few guys my age earning 6 figure salaries, who are way "hotter" than me. If you think I'm above average, thanks. But I'm really not, you're just overestimating what average is. Sorry bud, but you're bellow a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:42 PM
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As an average guy, I have like a 70% conversion rate on irl from chatting to being interested sexually. That doesn't mean 70% of girls I hit on fuck me. That's 70% of the single women I've hit on during night out have expressed their interest. The problem is, I very very rarely go out, and when I do I very very rarely hit on women. Thats the killer. Online dating doesn't work for average guys that much is true. But if you're failing IRL too, sorry but you're probably well below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:35 PM
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The onlynequalising factor is that most women on dating apps aren't looking to date. If you approach the women IRL you are much more likely to get a date than approaching women on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 09:55 AM
2

Maybe but I have anxiety and don't get out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:48 AM
3

I find tall women extremely attractive. But I find short women more sexually desirable. Idk maybe I'm weird but as a 6ft 4 guy, I want a tall women who will look elegant and beautiful next to me. But then I want to dick down a 4ft 11 petite girl. You get me. Like yeah a relationship with a tall girl would be perfect, but casual sex, the petite girls win it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:56 AM
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I think your type is based on past reactions. Typically my type would be a blonde girl, tall but slim, small boobs, perky ass, kind face maybe some freckles. That doesn't mean I can't fall in love with other body types, that doesn't mean I can't change my type in future, or that they have to have any of those features for me to find then attractive. I can't rule out short thic Asian chick's with big boobs, but I wouldn't say that's my type. I'm not massively interested, but if one were to presen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:52 AM
0

I worry this, but then I look around me at my friend's who have gotten married and I realise that men and women are still happiest when in a monogamous relationship. I just fear that "progressives" will be pushing single independent strong successful women too far. Almost there is a lot of hatred and toxicity aimed at men from radical feminism that might stop women seeking a relationship at all, to their own detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:28 AM
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Which is stupid really. Sure, you've got to advertise to real people. No point putting your clothes on a stick thin model when the majority of customers are fat. But my biggest peeve is the American insistence on putting g beautiful people (men and women) on TV all the time. If you watch British TV, we have fat women, tall women, men with facial "defects", women with odd shaped faces. Like we put real looking people on TV. In American TV everyone is thin, athletic, good looking. It's depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:50 PM
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80% of men are considered non-attractive by women, half single men will probably never be married or even considered in a relationship. Thats simply not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:57 AM
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Honestly this sounds like a good idea. I prefer individuals blocking other individuals over individuals reporting and banning other individuals from the site. If a bunch of commie snowflakes want to block me for hurting their feelings go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:02 AM
1

Everyone wants to be friends with the ugly girls, because comparatively they will look more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:57 PM
2

Oh yeah, if a girl starts playing games with me I dip out. I wear my heart on my sleeve. If I'm interested I'll tell you and I'm too honest for my own damn good. But that's alright because it means I'm not with someone who actually doesn't want to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:15 PM
0

Wait, I'll let you know after this weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:10 PM
13

Being rejected can't help but make you feel less worthy because for all intense and purposes you are less worthy. Someone else has decided that you are not worth their time effort and adoration. Now that might just be a one off, she might be an idiot who doesn't know what's good for her, or what she wants, or whatever. But when it happens again and again with different women with different backgrounds and different expectations then there is only really one way you can take it and that is feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:00 PM
1

I try to be, but thats probably a question better directed at the people I've interacted with over my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:47 PM
1

I'm a guy, so no. But I have seen guys who are exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:46 PM
0

To get laid? Well, be nice to everyone regardless, and show the person you want to have sex with that you're not just being nice to get in her pants. Then ask her to get in her pants anyway because you find her sexually attractive and you want to fuck her. Then hope she finds you sexually attractive too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:07 PM
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Its so obvious as well. Like when they are polite to attractive women and then rude and obnoxious towards everyone else. If you change how you behave based on the individuals you are interacting with, you aren't a nice person. You're a brown nosing simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:05 PM
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I don't understand why people don't try listening to that advice. Sure if you're fat and really ugly then you won't get women. But like ffs try being a nice person without the expectation that doing so will get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 12:00 PM
3

Single mom's have 3 big red flags: They're unable to keep the man that knocked them up. They're already caring for a kid. In the wild a male would kill another males child if it was taking resources away from his own kid. Obviously that is barbaric, but the alternative option is to just avoid single mom's. They're willing to get knocked up by a man that's shown no commitment to her. She's therefore "easy" and not desirable. There are of course exceptions to the rule. I was talking to a girl the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:17 AM
1

Because this sub is largely an open space to speak your mind. You get people who are mentally ill speaking. If we were to regulate who can speak, it becomes less of a debate and more a dictat. If you want to engage them, please do try and talk them round to sense. If you don't want to engage them, don't worry about it. They can be bitter and toxic in their own cloud if toxicity and will continue to fail at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:12 AM
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I followed OPs idea and now I just sit in my room facing a wall for 5 hours a day instead of going online.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 07:48 AM
1

If your motivation for getting in shape, quitting smoking, building a career etc is that you'll be able to pull attractive women/get a relationship with an attractive women. Then you are doing those things for the wrong reason. The motivation has to be for yourself. You need to learn to love yourself. Remove women entirely from the picture, and learn to love yourself. Quitting smoking is a massive thing, and he should be massively proud of that. Being fit and healthy at his age is a massive plus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:21 PM
1

Probably tonight. But I'm not motivated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:27 PM
0

No, reddit, like most of the Internet (except Facebook) is dominated by young millenials and gen Z all competing to see who can come up with the most stupid takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:12 PM
2

You're 44, the guys you're talking to are 20 odd with the mental age of a sexually frustrated teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:10 PM
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If that's your goal, be honest with women and they will appreciate it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:51 AM
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So if you had a choice of lying or being alone for the rest of your life, you’re telling me you’d choose to be alone? That isn't the choice being offered to you. The choice is lying in order to have sex. Or being truthful to women you're interested in, removing the ones that aren't interested in the real you, and finding someone who genuinely loves you for who you are, not who you've told her you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:45 AM
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Sorry to break it to you, but lying in order to get laid doesn't make you a nice guy, it makes you a twat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:38 AM
2

Instead if lying about being a sweet and caring yet masculine and protective man. Why not just become one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 10:21 AM
1

I did online relationships, they don't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:22 AM
7

The good men got bored of trying to impress flat, boring, one dimensional women only for them to treat them like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:45 PM
-1

100% of societies lead by men have collapsed. The existence of Queen Elizabeth 1, Queen Victoria and Queen Elizabeth 2 doesn't mean female leaders are better. But rather in order to survive in a male dominated world, female leaders have gad to adopt male attitudes to problems. Women aren't ruthless enough to succeed by themselves. And when they do succeed by themselves it's because they have abandoned the attitudes and behaviours widespread in female society and adopted male behaviours. I've nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 11:49 PM
1

They may need support to loose weight. Even if it's just offering to join them on a run, or go to the gym together. Setting team goals will make both of you healthier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 04:56 PM
2

If your partner gains a load of weight, why didn't you say something earlier? Why didn't you try and stop them? Weight gain is a bad thing, it reduces physical health and fitness, its not just appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 12:59 PM
2

Attention seeking troll posts clearly outrageous opinion to bait people into engaging with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 08:58 AM
0

Ok, I should clarify if a stranger was having a cardiac arrest on the street and you were just passing by as a regular citizen without any medical training. If you are trained as a doctor, a medic, a nurse or a first aider then you would likely be expected to help. Similarly if you are a police officer, security guard, or member of staff on private property again you might be expected to help due to the duty of care. Finally if you have caused the cardiac arrest in any way, then you would be exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:21 PM
-2

If a person is in cardiac arrest and needs defibrillators applied. You have no obligation to save their life, even if it would only cost you a minute of your day. Its a shitty thing not to, but forcing someone to do something is called slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:08 PM
1

It does. Because your opinion on women is based only on the women that aren't in LTR. Just like the RAF officers opinion on their aircraft design was based only on planes that made it home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:22 PM
7

Yeah, kids are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:11 PM
38

Positive feedback loop. Ugly as a kid, get bullied for your looks, low self esteem, trust issues, can't attract women, loose confidence and develop mental health issues, can't attract women, loose motivation, can't secure good jobs, can't maintain a healthy body, can't maintain an active social life, can't meet women, stay depressed. The way out is to recognise the spiral, and make real change to break the loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:00 PM
7

If men aged 19-30 didn't want a relationship, just FWB, then how come the MAJORITY of weddings, and long term relationships start between the ages of 20-30?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:29 PM
5

You must be God, your ability to invent new realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:23 PM
21

Its difficult, because your mind doesn't really know what it wants. For example a women might think she wants a relationship, but is attracted to guys that aren't emotionally available for a relationship. So in her mind "no guys want a relationship" but in reality she isn't attracted to guys that want a relationship. And then maybe if she does meet a guy that wants a relationship, then she gets scared and bails out of the relationship. She's entitled to do that. But it's wrong to say no men 19-3…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:22 PM
12

especially in the 19-30 age range, are looking primarily for hookups or short-term FWB. Thats just flatly untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:15 PM
1

I'm white, tall, attractive and from a well off family. Doesn't mean I get approached in clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:56 PM
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Exactly, so with the reasonable women in relationships, or happily single. Only the unreasonable women remain available. It doesn't matter how much of a "Chad" you are, you wont get a relationship unless you try lots and lots of different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:59 PM
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Online isn't real life. The effort it takes to approach someone online is negligible. I can message 1000 women online in one day, I can only approach maybe 10 women on a weekend at a club, but there are significant hurdles to overcome to even do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:27 AM
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Chad is bullshit. Its a meme. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 09:16 AM
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If only I could be 14 again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:06 AM
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Maybe your culture and location is more open to that. Maybe it's a college thing. Maybe the girls were not attractive in the slightest (I've had my fair share of older and fatter women take a shining to me in clubs, but I normally run).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:15 AM
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Yeah, alpha and beta men don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:10 AM
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Thats not what I said, read it again
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:09 AM
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Yes, I am. Never said I wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 07:09 AM
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Sufficiently attractive, or sufficiently confident and with good enough game that they could attract women. It's not about looks its about having game and confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:21 AM
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Have left school, am in work. Nothing changed. Shit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:52 AM
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To start with, I'm not complaining about not being able to find a girlfriend. I know why I can't find a gf, and I'm OK with that for the time being. I'm just interested in the data and theories that go into dating. If I look at all my female friends, only one who is single is a real catch, the rest that would be peak gf material are already in relationships with extroverted and really good men. A few who aren't good gf material are in less great relationships with less good men, while a good chu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:52 AM
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Thats not true, if that were the case, people who "don't have time for dating" but are otherwise attractive and successful would still be able to find partners because women would throw themselves at them. Maybe the culture between where I live and where you live is different. But that's certainly not the case here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:47 AM
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Meet tons of women so that when the right one comes along, you'll know it (she'll clearly stand out), and she'll be attracted to you. And more importantly you won't fuck it up. I found the right one a while back, but got nervous and said some utterly retarded things and drove her away. But everything is a learning opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:45 AM
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I don't have a degree, yet I would consider myself of a higher intellect than someone who took a social sciences masters. So I would agree with this statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:43 AM
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Exactly. If I use myself like the guy above used himself. I'm single because; I'm introverted and have anxiety and find it difficult to initiate contact with women. Thats it. I'm tall, good looking, semi athletic, have a career, emotionally available, not the highest of standards. If I was a women, I would have DMs full of people trying to hmu. As it is, unless I initiate I can go weeks without talking to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:38 AM
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I think some are picky and want to find their person. Yeah, so that's their reason. I wasn't saying that the reason is they are ugly. The reason is that they are emotionally unavailable or very picky. In which case it doesn't matter what you do, you'll never be enough for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:32 AM
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Yeah, when applying logic to large populations you have to make some pretty major assumptions. Congrats for finding your weirdo though, right person at the right pace at the right time is statistically unlikely but beautiful when it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:30 AM
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Oh for sure. But we're all on the spectrum here. Just trying to see patterns and order in a chaotic world.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:29 AM
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I know pro athletes that can't get a text back. I know the children of multi millionaires who have utterly failed to get dates. If you have no game, you'll fail at dating regardless of who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:27 AM
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We all live through experience, and we form our opinions and choices based on our past experience. When we experience a traumatic experience we try to tell ourselves that it won't change how we feel towards people. But it does. But positive experiences can result in positive changes of opinion. We can look at homophobia. Someone who considers themselves not homophobic, would learn homophobic tendencies after experiencing a negative interaction with a member of the LGBT community. While a homopho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:22 PM
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https://youtu.be/9GHPNKUMf70
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:50 PM
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There are an awful lot of men that believe in alpha, beta male shit. There are an awful lot of men who believe that women are conspiring against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:10 PM
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Right but that's not going to happen overnight. If she loved you she would understand that. Everyone wants to fall into the perfect relationship immediately with the perfect partner. That shit doesn't happen overnight, and while you can't make her stay if she doesn't want to. You can make reasonable effort to try and make thing work. That doesn't mean tolerate an abusive relationship, that means don't give up at the first hurdle. If your man is in a rough place and can't handle the pressure, hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:09 PM
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I cry in a low B flat Really need someone who can hit those high notes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 05:00 PM
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She has the right to find someone that she is happy with. If I have mental health problems that cause me to cry, then I think the best person for me is someone that understands my mental health issues and is OK with that. Just like if I was in a wheelchair, and my gf was complaining about pushing me around all day. If that is such a hardship for them, leave and let me find someone who is willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:59 PM
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Benedict Cumberbatch is hot though. He's also rich and successful and plays intelligent characters. He can't say penguin though, so he's got nothing on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 07:52 AM
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I'm not acknowledging the existence of that Binary. In my opinion and experience it doesn't exist. I have not met a good man over the age of 20 who is still a virgin. I am merely stating that, if those extremes were presented to me in isolation, and I had to choose one, I would choose to be a good virgin 99 times out of 100. The 1 other time would be for curiosity sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:56 PM
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Success is living a good life. A life of a good person. Good people aren't aggressive misogynistic assholes. Success is measured by how many people you have positively impacted during the course of your life. Someone like Freddie Mercury lived a very short life, but positively impacted millions of people. Someone like Jordan Belfort is still alive and going strong, but he fucked over millions of people. Be more like Freddie and less like Jordan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:54 PM
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Sure misogynistic aggressive men might get laid more. But they're misogynistic and aggressive. Would much rather be a kind and caring virgin than and aggressive and misogynistic player.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:39 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 06:05 PM
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It literally does because it allows access for ambulances, resources, food security. A nations infrastructure is its blood vessels, and without it, the nation will die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:05 PM
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Hey u/Zcuzz I think you look handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:12 PM
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Oh don't get delusions. Some brits are arseholes and knobheads. I'm almost comically like the American stereotype of an English gentlemen, and it's cost me both emotionally and financially as I'm just too trusting and polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:24 AM
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Thats why you do courses and learning. I'm British, so idk what resources are available in the US. But I'm sure you can find guides and information on getting started in flipping properties. You'll probably lose money as you learn, but thats life, and you can do some nudes to recover haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:20 AM
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Honestly the developers around my way could learn a thing or too from Cities Skyline. Too many houses, not enough services, and the traffic is shit. So you're doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:17 AM
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With that sort of money coming in, you could get into real estate flipping. Buy run down properties, do them up, sell them on. You'll make more money, and get real world experience in construction. And build a sustainable business model, while improving the quality of housing in your area. No one will give you shit if you're the one funding it. Honestly do some online courses and see if PM is something you might want to do long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:11 AM
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I don't want to come across rude, but do people find that sexy? I'll admit to finding petite girls attractive, but that normally involves a small girl with regular proportions, not a super skinny girl all boney and the like. Clearly someone does, maybe that's further proof that all people are attractive to someone. Don't give up on a career in construction, project management will be right up your street, and you can fund education with your OF stuff. In 2022 there are so many online courses, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:02 AM
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Honestly, no. She's probably shorter than you, but no stronger. Most of what we do is office based, and design work. But we go on sites a lot and never get any problems from the labourers. Thats said, you look almost malnourished, and I'm concerned for your health. Have you had any advice from a doctor about your weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:52 AM
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My colleague is a 5ft 4 skinny women with an art degree. I wouldn't want to guess her weight, but it wouldn't be much more than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:40 AM
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If I was a large strong man, I would be working construction I work construction, and while I'm tall, I'm not "strong". Don't let stereotypes and sexism deter you from pursuing a useful and productive career.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:36 AM
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Apologies, but the fact remains that regardless of the legality of the profession, its still a profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:34 AM
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You're focusing on the wrong thing. I'm not saying they all should become lawyers, I'm just saying they should do more productive work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:34 AM
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Legality has no bearing on the market. By your own admission if people are willing to pay for it, then it's a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:33 AM
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A confidant, a friend, someone to direct romantic gestures to, someone to explore the world with, a team mate, another pair of hands when I'm building furniture, another source of income when I buy a house (for the mortgage), someone I can celebrate and support, and someone who will celebrate and support me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:47 AM
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I'm an engineer, currently building public infrastructure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:07 AM
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Thats a problem of social mobility rather than anything else. The normalisation of sex as work is probably the biggest failure of modern society. Yes, it's the oldest profession, yes its never going to go away. But we shouldn't be commoditising what is the most intimate and profound act two humans can do together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:58 PM
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Forming parasocial relationships with women you'll never meet online is unhealthy. Trust me, been there done that. Its also addictive as fuck, because this time she really means it. Edit: just seen your profile so obviously you have a vested interest in justifying your chosen career. I think you're wasting such amazing potential doing something that ultimately is destructive to society. From where you're sat you're probably laughing straight to the bank. But you have a lifespan of only a few yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:50 PM
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Smoking provides a stress release and makes people feel happy. But selling tobacco isn't beneficial to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:29 PM
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In Western society I do believe that women are able to, if not expected to, pursue professional careers. Female attendance at University has out numbered male attendance for some years now, and women under 30 out earn men under 30. The rhetoric of "women are discouraged from pursuing careers" may work in rural very Conservative areas of Western countries, and in developing countries. But in cities and more progressive areas that certainly isn't the case. And certainly being an online stripper is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 04:22 PM
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Men aren't the reason to get a degree. Or a good productive rewarding job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:59 PM
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But it's a destructive profession. Dealing heroin has value on the marketplace, but it's not a constructive profession. I'm not saying they should be banned from being online strippers. I'm just saying I don't value their life choices, and I am judging them for their decisions. Just as I would judge someone who becomes a drug dealer, or a burglar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:50 PM
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Absolutely, but the fact of the matter is a lot of these womens ambitions and goals start and end at being an online stripper. Its a waste of talent and is detrimental to humanity as a society. So many intelligent and talented women reduced down to online stripper
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:28 PM
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Ideally I would like to see them engage themselves in productive work. Something tangible and to the benefit of others. For example they could become criminal defence lawyers, or truck drivers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 02:21 PM
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When you are reliant on one platform for your income, then you have a right to be concerned with that platform removing, censoring and demonatising you. Pewdiepie is outspoken about how YouTube DMCAs and demonatises his videos despite earning millions a year from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:54 PM
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Did incels consult women before declaring women as colluding to keeping them virgins? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 12:20 PM
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Its not about feeling bad, it's about feeling empathy. The ability to put oneself in anothers position and to understand the emotions and suffering they have been through. You don't need to do anything, you just need to accept that, for the person asking the other person out, there is a flood of emotions that can be overwhelming to some. And that a bit of empathy at that time goes a long way. Do you feel any emotion towards others?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:54 PM
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But their value literally doesn't change if you look at them in any way other than sexual. I know this, because as a straight guy, I can hold other straight guys in the highest regard and place exceptional value on them. Your mother wouldn't be any more or less valuable to you if she had double Ds, a thin waist and long sexy legs? Your doctor's advice wouldn't be heeded any more closely if he was a 6ft tall, muscular good looking bloke with good hairline and a strong jaw. You aren't better at fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:28 PM
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Stop putting value on people based on their looks. It's unhealthy and leads to mental health issues. Regardless of how attractive you are or someone else is, their value doesn't change
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:45 AM
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Dateless, because that's my situation right now (self burn ooof)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 08:51 AM
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Red pill, blue pill, green pill, orange pill. If you're a nice person people will love and appreciate you regardless of how you look or how much of an alpha you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:54 AM
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First of all, let's not even mention how this ONLY applies to dating apps, and not at all real life. Where men who would never even see a message from a woman online, will actually be able to go as far as getting a relationship or sex from a woman. The problem here is that dating apps are safe spaces. Everyone on there chooses to be on there and they have signalled their availability. Ain't no one getting written up by HR for trying to chat up a colleague on Tinder. No one is getting kicked out …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:17 PM
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Don't blame you. I don't know why, but men seem to do a 180 as soon as you fall in love with them. They go from being the most caring and compassionate people, into being manipulating, obnoxious assholes. Like the first part was just a lie to get you interested. I don't understand it to be honest. I just try and be a good person to everyone all of the time. Although that gets me in more trouble than it's worth, because I try to do the right thing and it's never the right fucking thing. Maybe tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:08 PM
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Why would women want to be used and abused by horrible devilishly attractive studs when they could be disappointed by pathetic man child's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:57 PM
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Rudeness on dating apps: Its hard sometimes to remember that the person behind the screen exists, and you aren't just talking to a computer. The rudeness may just be frustrations with dating and dating apps in general coming out on you. No excuse for it, its wrong, but thats likely the motive. The man who wants it and he wants it now: This guy got horny, and decided to go on the dating app. He's sexually frustrated and wants a cum dumpster right now. He's an idiot, but that's what being horny do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:28 PM
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Thats a good question. And I don't anymore. I'm done with being blue balled by Internet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:07 PM
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Absolutely. I watched a women butcher a pig once on Instagram reels. I was so turned on by the end of the video. Idk why, but a women showing off her skills is so hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 04:40 PM
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I don't know why you are harassing me like this. But it's in breach of reddit policy. Please stop. Yes, I was scammed. Well done. Do you want a medal for something I freely admit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:49 PM
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Its almost like time goes by and situations change.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:44 PM
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Women don't differ by so much that what feels good for her wouldn't feel good to others. Unless the women you talk to have their vaginas on their knees, I think I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:21 PM
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Maybe you are a bad teacher. I'm shit at sex because I've only ever had it when very drunk, and no one has taught me how. But I'm amazing at foreplay, and could probably make you cum before you've even seen my dick. Because I had a relationship with a women who took the time and effort to explain what makes foreplay good, and what feels good for women. A dick is a dick. But there is so much more to sex than penetration with a dick. If you want to have good sex with your partner, you have to teac…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 02:03 PM
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Sure if a random man stops you in the street and asks you out. But I'm talking about someone who is friends, either directly or through mutual. Who has known you a while, and decided to ask you out. That takes courage, and it should be respected. Being nice to people isn't a duty, by all means be a cunt. But don't pretend like you're morally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:38 PM
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Men have enjoyed the ability to accrue their own wealth for many more years than women. So it is only natural that women will use their privilege (sexualising themselves) to get what they want (money) from men. Thats what it boils down to ultimately. If they have 1000 likes or 100k likes then just want money. The person on 1k likes is hoping that someone wealthy will see them and lust over them and maybe she can get his money by getting in a relationship with him. The 100k likes person is either…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:31 PM
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I don't understand, why wouldn't you show empathy? They aren't a good match, that's fair enough. But in their mind you're someone they felt strongly enough about to ask out, and you have rejected them. So you can feel empathy for the pain you have caused them. Even if you are justified in your reasoning. It seems like you aren't a very nice person, but I'm sure there is just a misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:16 AM
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I think you raise a very good point. Human garbage exists, both with men and women. If a women feels in danger because they rejected someone. It's because the person they rejected is a violent and mentally ill asswipe. If a women has 0 empathy towards a man she rejected, its because she's a hollow and cold hearted asswipe. Good men accept rejection as part of life. Its painful, but it's just part of life. I have been rejected more times than I care to mention, I have been humiliated almost as ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 10:22 AM
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Here is the big kicker to your statement. Westerners who transition to the third world (the developing world) don't kill themselves. They actually adjust really well. Alternatively, suicide is no more common in low income households than medium or high income households. Additionally suicide among men is indiscriminate towards how attractive you are, how successful you are, or how much sex you can have. A friend of a friend committed suicide, he was in a middle class family, he was a athlete, he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:15 AM
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In women most features that are considered universally attractive have a logical explanation. Large breasts suggest that she will be able to provide ample milk to babies. Wide hips with a thigh gap suggests that she won't have any issues during childbirth. A flat stomach and strong legs suggests good physical health and strength. A face with few blemishes or scars again suggests good health. A symmetrical face is aesthetically pleasing, not just to men, but to all humans and our love of symmetry…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:30 PM
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I believe its the sort of smile that would get you arrested if she found you unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:18 PM
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I was gifted with many things, but a strong chin/jaw/angular face was not one of them. What is it about a defined jawline that makes a guy hot? It's one of those things that we just accept is an attractive trait, but there's no logic to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 08:17 PM
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Oh I was being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:59 PM
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This is transphobic, men can have vaginas too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:06 PM
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Because this utter garbage of "if you love me you will willing do sex acts you don't enjoy" seems really prevalent here. The big issue here is who is doing the proposing. If we have a conversation about sex and it turns out you have a fantasy that I'm not comfortable with. It is my choice if I want to do it. Typically speaking, if you test your partners feelings towards you, or dedication to you. You've already lost. Because it means one of two things. 1. Your partner isn't making it clear to yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 11:37 AM
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Or worse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:58 PM
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So do I. Thank you 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:24 PM
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Oh, you're projecting your own failings as a wife onto me. Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:07 PM
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You didn't do anything wrong. Shit happens, I'm a better person because if it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 04:06 PM
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Was. Sadly became single on Christmas day this year. But that's 2021s problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:58 PM
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Oh absolutely. "I can't wait to see her face light up when she sees this" can really get you through anything. I'm a very giving person, and doing things for other people, buying them presents, and generally helping them out really is my love language.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:52 PM
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Fair. But I think the main premise of it is to be able to love someone, in whatever way that is. As well as the ability to recieve love from someone. Coming home from work to find your partner has done something for you, just because they love you. Not out of any obligation or leverage. The feeling of being loved is unparalleled. Especially if you've lived alone for most your life. Hell that much is true for when you move back in with your parents over the holidays and your mum cooks you a wonde…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:49 PM
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Yes. I bring to the court your mom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:13 PM
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You could've ended it at "I love him and he loves me".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:11 PM
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Most people are pretty if you are a healthy weight and build, and we'll groomed, look after your skin etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 03:05 PM
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I did too, which is why I wanted to share haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:46 AM
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I wouldn't say being hot is a red flag in an of itself. But if their only attribute is being hot, run.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:37 AM
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Must've been back when stick thin crack addicts was the in style. Now models need to be more filling and athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:26 AM
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Fuuuuck that's hot. End the Fed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:18 AM
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Exactly my point, thank you. I'm just saying it's like girls who only use their body to attract men, then expect men to be interested in anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:17 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:15 AM
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That depends if you also have hobbies and interests that she can relate to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:13 AM
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Sex isn't the point of a relationship. You'll realise that once you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:12 AM
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Trust me I've been a model. No offence but posting videos of yourself masterbating on the Internet isn't modeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:10 AM
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They will wank a lot if that is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:43 PM
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Well that went downhill fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:32 PM
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You take roids, you have no self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:32 PM
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I have thousands of dollars to lose to insta thots. What do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:29 PM
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Cum dumpsters sound good in theory, but in practice a sock is cheaper and won't break your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:29 PM
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I would say my comment is aimed at maybe 5% of women and 5% of men. I was just scrolling through Instagram and saw some models and then saw their caption and it was depressing to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:28 PM
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His intentions might be the same, but his pace might be off. I'm renowned for rushing things and going too fast. So while my intentions might be honourable, and similar to hears. We aren't compatible in our speed. That doesn't mean one of us is right and one of us is wrong. It just means we aren't compatible. I'm sure there is a women for me who shares my interests, values and ambitions. That also matches the speed at which I wish to enter a relationship. Just like there is a man for you, that d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:27 PM
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Ok, but I would say that people who aren't users would naturally stay clear of such one dimensional people. Because there is nothing more to them. I speak from personal experience, trying to get sincere and intelligent conversation out of my ex was like trying to suck blood out of a rock. She had looks that would reanimate the dead, but the limits of her interests were which clothes would make her arse look bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:23 PM
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Can't make you any less attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:20 PM
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For a decade I was the type to be interested in intellectual topics and getting to know the person before becoming intimate. Thats your problem. I didn't say anything about withholding intimacy. Wanting to be promiscuous, and having intellectual conversations aren't mutually exclusive. If you treat intimacy as a reward for good behaviour, you aren't in a mutual relationship, you're training him like a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:19 PM
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Thats different to making her entire life about looking good. Getting dolled up is fine, especially if it's to make an impression on the man you want. But spending 3 hours in the gym every day, sticking to a strict diet, having a professional makeup and photoshoot every day. That's too far man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:17 PM
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In order to get the model looks you see on Instagram, twitch, porn you need to: Learn how to do good makeup, and spend time finding the right makeup routine that works for you. Have a regular workout routine that balances cardio with weight training so you look dainty and athletic at the same time. Have a rigorous diet, that you stick to all the time. Have a professional photoshoot every day, then spend hours editing your photos with filters and photoshop. Models look as good as they look becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:15 PM
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6ft 4 is the new 6ft. Those manlets are just angry that they can't be tall chads. But for real, since my last failed online relationship I've deleted all my dating apps and will only be looking in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:10 PM
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Yes, true. I am wrong to assume that everyone shares my wants. There will be some who genuinely are content without having a real relationship, and just want a cum dumpster that knows how to keep quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:08 PM
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Absolutely you can. That would be ideal. You have you successful career because you took time away from being vain to focus on something else. You would look even better if the hours you put into getting qualifications and building a business were instead put into working out and getting cosmetic procedures. But because you're successful, and you have other interests (for example debating sex and relationships online and challenging your world view) you are far more attractive than if your physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:06 PM
2

Amen. Seriously though you are right. On an evolutionary scale we've still not adapted to using tools, let alone having a social network of 8 billion people able to talk to each other indirectly across thousands of miles instantly via the Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:02 PM
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Ok, but if your life is a screenplay, then you have more important things to worry about. Relationships are possibly the most important part of our society. Sex being the primal necessity to pass our genetic material down to the next generation. And a lifelong partner being (for the majority) an escape from the pressures and expectations of daily life. Having someone you can come home to and be yourself with is the best feeling in the world. Having to maintain a facade to give the impression of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 09:00 PM
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No, not at all. My first crush at school. No wait, my first crush was the volleyball captain and that kinda disproves my point. My second crush at school was the nerdy girl that I sat next to in English class that I totally overlooked while I was pursuing the volleyball captain. She wasn't going to win any beauty prizes, she had a face scarred by acne, unfashionable frizzy hair, and presented herself rather scruffy. She wasn't even that hot. It feels weird to talk like that about a then teenager…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:56 PM
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Yeah, for sure it's a bonus. But the bonus is like tracking down the owner of a wallet with thousands of dollars in it, and handing it back. Only to be g8ven the cash as a reward. Having a girlfriend you can relate with, share common interests and goals with, work together well and have good banter with is the aim of the game. If she has a cracking body as well, that's a bonus. And vice versa. But if you aim for the cracking body, you'll never find the perfect match. And your opinions towards re…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:48 PM
2

Everything is good in moderation. The flip side is, in the words of Chryl "too much of anything can make you sick". Being too vain will result in mental health problems, entitlement problems, loneliness and depression. The same as being too rich. Winning the lottery is worse for your health than Covid-19.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:45 PM
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Based. Honestly, being able to go online and find endless amounts of gorgeous women wearing flattering clothes, or nothing at all is truly remarkable. But it would be nice to have a respectable and intelligent conversation with a women without feeling like I'm talking to a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:41 PM
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According to a few virgins who can't talk to women, looks are everything. According to every man who's ever been I any long term serious relationship. Its everything else that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:39 PM
1

There were hundreds, perhaps thousands of books that were overlooked because they didn't have an interesting looking cover. They might never be read simply because they didn't make an effort to look good. Sure the content is what makes a book good, but you'll never know until you open the front cover. That cover is the only thing someone has to go off to judge the quality of the book before they invest time and resources into acquiring the book and reading it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:24 PM
1

We haven't solved them yet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 05:18 PM
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If I want to drive to a different state I get on the road and may pay a few tolls to get there. If we let corporations build and charge for use it will get out of control as all they care is maximizing their profits. I didn't say hand over control to private corporations, I said get rid of taxes. If the roads are owned by the state, and paid for by tolls. There is no profit incentive, and only the people who use them pay. Maybe that will encourage more people to support railways as alternatives,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:12 PM
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Why is that the case? If I need something, I pay for it, if I don't need it, then I won't pay for it. For things with a large upfront cost that I don't need until I do, like healthcare, I can pay an insurance for it. Like house insurance, and car insurance. For things I use every day, I can have a subscription service, like my phone, or electricity. That subscription can be metered, or open. For things like defence and police there is slightly more justification for taxation. But if I want a wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:55 PM
0

How does Walmart maintain its store?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 01:32 PM
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I know what they're called. Still means she only keeps half of her salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:38 AM
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I specifically love that I can make 6 figures in a career I enjoy and keep all the money for myself. Minus the part the government steals from you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:15 AM
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Welcome to the incel side of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:15 AM
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I think maybe the 90s and 00s were the best time for dating/relationships. People were very much more liberal than they were in the 80s and 70s. Contraception was normal. Women were equals in most places. Phones made communication easier and faster. But there was no social media, there was no competition from men around the world. One of my recent relationships was with a model who had thousands of guys commenting under her pictures on Instagram, and while it was great to be dating a model, just…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:14 AM
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Now I'm imagining a toilet that operates like the doors in A Hitchhikers Guide. That would be a weird dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:07 AM
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Sigma grindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 11:05 AM
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While I sympathise with OP, being good at sex, and being the best sexual partner to your Mrs are not mutually exclusive. I'm shit at sex. Never got the hang of it. My timing is all off, I can't seem to get the angle right so it goes in all the way, and I flounder around like a seal on ice. But I always make her cum. Which is what being a good partner is all about. And to be truly amazing at pleasing your partner, make her cum first. When women cum, they get hornier. If you can make her cum first…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 10:32 PM
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Thats a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:03 PM
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A bitch that gets laid, your choice mate. Be a bitter crybaby, or have some goddamm self respect, and be a good person!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 05:06 PM
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I'm a man you dickwad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:54 PM
1

I'm saying your current attitude of being a bitter and angry crybaby isn't making you an attractive partner. You disagree, therefore I told you to keep doing what you are doing. How is that a personal attack. If you want to have a good partner, be a good partner. Be the person you would want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 04:26 PM
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Ok, stay single, angry and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 01:43 PM
1

Even by pure numbers alone In the USA there are about 3% more women than men at every age bracket. In Europe that rises to 5% (but is decreasing due to African and Arab migration). Assuming equal numbers of gay men and women, that means statistically there is enough people for every man and women to find a partner. some woman will fall hopelessly in love with you one day They will, if you become the sort of man they can fall in love with. No women is falling hopelessly in love with a fat neckbea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:25 PM
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That sort of rhetoric is why you can't attract a women. Stop blaming others for your failure. You're not as physically repulsive as you believe you are, you just have a toxic mindset. Be positive, be kind, be loveable and people will love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:53 PM
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Based. Guys, there will be a women who is desperately and hopelessly in love with you. But only if you learn to love yourself, and empty your heart of negative thoughts and resentment to those you consider better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:40 PM
1

Don't get married because it's a government contract. Get married for tax breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:46 PM
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Neither, I would stay on the sigma Grindset and ignore female distractions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:39 AM
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Sorry to break it to you, but women aren't magically angels because they have a pussy. They can be evil brutal savages that are capable of murder and worse. But the justice system comprehensivly fails male victims of female criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:32 PM
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Because its not reflective of reality. In reality women are just as likely to be murderers, rapists, abusers, peadophiles, etc etc. But they get away with it because they are women. You cannot compare official crime statistics because of the sexism in our justice system.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:30 PM
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Incels deserve the hate they get. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:29 PM
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I can bet my right testical that if women were physically stronger than men, there would be a lot more male victims of women's jealous rage. As it is, it's usually just assault and getting kicked out if the flat you both bought. That's right, she can't possibly be the one to leave the flat, she's a women. But she hit you, why are you such a wimp, deal with it, you're a man! I hate when women bring up man on women domestic abuse statistics. Because men don't ever report domestic abuse, and even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:21 PM
1

I bet they can't even grow a moustache
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:18 AM
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I have a friend, he's a professional athlete, only half Thai though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:15 AM
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I'm not romanticing it, no doubt they had their issues. But men were real men back then. Not the soyboy cucks and incels they are today. They had broad shoulders, smart hair, and a moustache. The rest is minor irrelevance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:13 AM
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I know a Thai place that you'll love
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:09 AM
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We are all animals in the end. If you gave sheep the ability to communicate with humans. Do you think the female sheep would enjoy being one of dozens of sheep that the male sheep rapes? I don't think so. Maybe over time the female sheep would convince the male sheep that raping them whenever they please is wrong, and that they should choose just one sheep who will be his partner for life. Then maybe over time the female sheep will stop considering themselves as property of the male sheep, and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:06 AM
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Its only since post war rhat food security in the west has enabled 1. People to get fat. 2. Working class people could earn money without physical labour. 3. Society could focus away from securing enough resources to live a good life for themselves, and towards solving issues like feminism and racism. So now you have fat, unhealthy landwhales giving lectures on the patriachy. While soyboy cucks cheer them on. 100 years ago the blokes would be in the fields or the factories and mines doing hard l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:55 PM
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This is inconclusive evidence. Girls who are active on reddit are likely themselves unattractive, and therefore have been sidelined from the popular groups of attractive people. Attractive people congregate together in attractive people places (bars, gyms, clubs) while unattractive people congregate in libraries, Internet cafe and Tumblr, and Reddit. The reason all the guys these girls see are unattractive is because they aren't going to gyms, bars and clubs. So they won't ever see attractive gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:48 PM
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Now do Indian men. Seriously though, we all have preferences, and it can suck when the person you find attractive doesn't find you attractive back, because of things outside your control. But like, I don't find most black women attractive, but I have found some black women attractive. I don't find most Asian women attractive, but I find some Asian women attractive. I don't find most butch women attractive, but I've found some butch women attractive. But whether I find you physically attractive o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:33 PM
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Be a nice person. Help anyone who is in trouble regardless of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:59 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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