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Yeah, i believe it's a good possibility.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/22 11:38 PM
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Pussy Pass still in effect, she doesn't start serving until April 2023.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/11/22 10:42 PM
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Texting is weak...calling shows you have confidence and women are attracted to confidence. Use texting for logistics only.
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:45 AM
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This isn't the result of thirsty men, this is just a low quality woman that you don't want to waste your time with.
/r/seduction25/07/19 07:24 PM
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The dedication and determination it takes to acquire the skills is the key.
/r/seduction16/07/19 07:48 PM
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Yeah you get looks in the same way that a nicely painted car gets looks however once you get in the car you realize that it doesn't start or has a lumpy idle with no AC. Get in touch with what you're communicating with respect to body language, it matters, women pick up on it.
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:26 PM
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Weak body language is still weak body language even if you're jacked.
/r/seduction16/07/19 06:08 PM
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You don't come off as a masculine man that has purpose.
/r/seduction16/07/19 05:57 PM
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In person works best.
/r/seduction16/07/19 04:55 PM
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Forget about her, let it go, that's the best thing to do, NOTHING!
/r/seduction16/07/19 04:54 PM
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Keep up the good work but also know there will be people trying to derail your progress and that includes women.
/r/seduction16/07/19 12:31 AM
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It means that you don't have a life and that you don't put yourself first because you have a life that's rewarding and interesting and that you're happy about. A man with stuff going on doesn't have time to entertain this type of nonsense. If you don't have stuff going on, fake it until you make it.
/r/seduction16/07/19 12:28 AM
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Stop showing that you care so much, don't be the emotional tampon, treat her like any other girl and watch how she changes.
/r/seduction16/07/19 12:18 AM
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Isn't the "spark" the physical attraction.
/r/seduction16/07/19 12:11 AM
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You can't build rapport by text, you can only do that in person.
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:51 PM
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Why waste time with women you aren't attracted to?
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:51 PM
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That's still weak...A confident guy that takes charge knows the date, time and location of where he wants to meet. He assumes the date is on and shows up.
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:49 PM
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If you're following Corey Wayne's advice, you would have assumed the date was good and not hit her up, you showed weakness there.
/r/seduction15/07/19 11:40 PM
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No, like all women they are turned on by men that are masculine, confident and that have purpose.
/r/seduction15/07/19 09:59 PM
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I made plans to see her on the weekend. Messaged her on the Friday and she said she actually had to help a friend, but didn't offer any alternative times. You fumbled when you didn't set up a definite date, i.e. day, time and place when you saw her at the gym.
/r/seduction15/07/19 09:58 PM
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Nope, I smile, say hello and ask her for her name but do not volunteer mine, she needs to ask for my name which tells me she's interested, at this point she's usually twiddling with her hair.
/r/seduction15/07/19 09:53 PM
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If she were intimidated, she'd still be interested.
/r/seduction15/07/19 04:37 PM
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An attractive women makes eye contact with you, you look away, you've just broadcast your weakness.
/r/seduction15/07/19 04:36 PM
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Women are always testing for confidence and strength. How you show your interest makes a huge difference in a woman's behavior as you have seen. If you don't know how to lead, don't stand your ground, act weak and indecisive they will lose interest and reject you.
/r/seduction15/07/19 03:18 PM
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Let's meet up an person and discuss, I'm free x day at y time at z location. You're only interested in women that are actually down to meet which means they have actual interest in you.
/r/seduction14/07/19 09:31 PM
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Women are attracted to men that are confident and that have purpose. Men the have confidence and purpose don't have time to be an emotional tampon to women that they aren't romantically involved with. These men have options, be one of these men.
/r/seduction14/07/19 09:28 PM
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Stop being an emotional tampon. Show that you care? This is a weak mindset and chases women away instead of attracting them.
/r/seduction14/07/19 09:10 PM
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The only thing you can do is walk away and don't look back. She's not attracted to you, she doesn't want to talk to you. Come to terms with this and move on.
/r/seduction14/07/19 09:08 PM
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Calling is better, being scared of rejection is weak, being scared doesn't attract women and will cause them to reject you. Women are attracted to masculine, confident men, work on being that man.
/r/seduction13/07/19 10:59 PM
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I texted her about 10 minutes ago, all I said is “Hey”. Still waiting for a response. This right here is weak, no wonder she hasn't replied.
/r/seduction13/07/19 01:35 AM
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A weak mindset is still trying to connect with a person in one way when you know that you want to connect with them in another way. Friend zone is a particular connotation, it isn't just women that you know that you are friends with, there is a difference.
/r/seduction13/07/19 01:28 AM
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If you want to have any real success with women use the phone for logistics only and make your best pitch in person.
/r/seduction12/07/19 09:29 PM
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If you want to be romantically involved with a woman don't fill up that space with women that aren't interested in you romantically. Abundance mentality, for every woman that wants to friend zone you there are a bunch that won't.
/r/seduction12/07/19 07:04 PM
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You must be fucking something up once they get to your crib. If a woman agrees to go to your crib and actually shows up there, sex is on the table and the only way you don't get it is if you fuck it up. We need details from you to diagnose.
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:51 PM
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A confident man doesn't worry about looking at a woman and that includes looking at her boobs. Do you think James Bond would be averting his gaze when encountering a hot babe with bursting boobs? No, he wouldn't!
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:49 PM
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There's a huge difference between meeting women in person versus goofing around on Tinder.
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:22 PM
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That was a needy move on your part, you should have waited a couple of days to set up the next DEFINITE date. Notice how she declined with no offer of an alternative. I would have have told her to contact me when she's available to get together and be prepared to walk away if you don't hear from her. Keep it moving.
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:17 PM
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There's no magic bullet, cheat code, etc. The medium you're using tends to give rise to those type of results.
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:33 AM
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Don't take dating advice from a woman. Seriously.
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:11 AM
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Learn how to wait 3 weeks, use that time to do other things, talk to other women.
/r/seduction11/07/19 03:27 PM
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Your problem was "we chatted a lot", "she got a bit colder while answering messages". Use texting and phone calls in the beginning for logistics only, meet in person to get to know the woman. Chasing will only serve to push the woman away because it makes you look weak and desperate.
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:11 PM
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This is the mindset of a man that isn't confident. Confident men show women that they desire them but confident men also have purpose and aren't always available because they have stuff to do. Quality women that are attracted to confident men make strong eye contact, that's how they weed out the non-confident men because only a confident man will maintain eye contact.
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:46 AM
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Don't try to build rapport via text or telephone because it won't work, it's something you can only do by spending time in person, doing things together, going places together, etc.
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:34 AM
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Stop thinking there's a glass ceiling. There are many White and Asian women that are into Black men so stop making excuses. Be confident, make eye contact and engage.
/r/seduction11/07/19 11:27 AM
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She sounds like she has self esteem issues. I wouldn't text anything back, why bother with the drama that will ensue?
/r/seduction11/07/19 01:01 AM
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So I suggested we meet next week if she’s free and she agreed. A few days go by and she’s texting me less but then sends me a text wondering how my day is going and we make small talk. Nothing interesting really. I then see her at work again and everything still seems to be going well and I ask her what her schedule looks like on Tuesday and she said she was doing stuff in the afternoon but to “let her know”. I You're supposed to already know the day and time you want to get together with her, t…
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:55 AM
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The mistake you made was not getting out of the car the moment you go to your house. Talking for an hour or two? Seriously?
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:41 AM
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Not setting a definite date, time and place makes you look like a guy that doesn't know how to take charge, it makes you look weak.
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:37 AM
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That means she's not interested. Move on to the next girl. It's really that simple. Don't try to get to know women over the phone or via text, get to know them in person. If the woman is interested she will make it easy.
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:24 AM
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No, you shouldn't. If she was interested she would offer another day. All you can do is tell her to contact you when she's free to get together and keep it moving.
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:24 AM
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Confirming does make you appear weak i.e. less confident. Confident men don't worry about women flaking on them. You either have a positive thinking mindset or you have a negative one. Confirming to avoid flakes is born out of a negative mindset.
/r/seduction11/07/19 12:22 AM
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If you call try to set up a definite date meaning day, time and place. If they're interested they'll agree. If they say they're busy, have to figure out their schedule, etc, tell them to give you a call when they are free to get together. If they're interested they'll contact you, if not they won't and you just move on. You don't make another call, you don't send a text, you get on with your life, other women, interests, etc. If they call, they're interested.
/r/seduction10/07/19 11:49 PM
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This is why you use texting for logistics only.
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:15 PM
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Yo, stop using my pictures, you don't look like me!
/r/seduction09/07/19 09:13 PM
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Using texting for something other than logistics.
/r/seduction07/07/19 01:15 PM
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This is why texting should be for logistics only.
/r/seduction07/07/19 01:14 PM
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Compliment when there's something to compliment. If she's beautiful and you find that to be true nothing wrong with complimenting her about that.
/r/seduction06/07/19 11:56 PM
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In an ideal world you approach because the person interests you and you persue because you find the person interesting and they find you interesting. Getting laid is just a part of that puzzle.
/r/seduction06/07/19 09:18 PM
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Your life has to have purpose (things to do that you love doing and have meaning) outside of any relationship with a woman.
/r/seduction06/07/19 08:01 PM
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This is why you only text logistics.
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:56 PM
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Texting is best for logistics only. Interact with women in the flesh for best results.
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:37 PM
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You lack confidence which comes from challenging yourself and overcoming those challenges. Be a man with purpose and things over time will fall into place.
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:36 PM
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Find something that brings you joy be it a hobby or career and excel at it to the best of your abilities. This gives you a basis to draw strength from, when you're faced with situations where your confidence wanes are you engage in negative internal chatter.
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:34 PM
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This is what a weak man with no confidence does.
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:31 PM
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Part of you wants to ask her out, but you know that women are only interested in good looking guys, and you know that you are physically unattractive. This is the internal dialog of the weak man.
/r/seduction06/07/19 07:29 PM
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Talk to girls you know personally.
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:25 PM
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At university you are literally swimming in women.
/r/seduction05/07/19 08:24 PM
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Oh, you again?
/r/seduction05/07/19 07:24 PM
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Yeah, nothing wrong with 1 call to set up a definite date. If you get her on the phone, set up the date, if not leave a message, if there's interest she'll call back and you can set the date up then. Texting for anything other than logistics is weak.
/r/seduction05/07/19 07:21 PM
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I was riding my bike in the park the other day and passed a woman on her bike going up hill. The woman made the effort to catch up to me just so that she can compliment me on my socks. Naturally I said thank you and wished her a pleasant rest of the day.
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:07 PM
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I would call on the phone and make a definite date, meaning day, time and place. Assume the date is on unless you hear otherwise.
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:05 PM
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Great strategy, I would use very crisp potato chips, they make the best sound.
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:40 PM
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Girl with the boyfriend is a cheater, good to have fun with but not girlfriend material.
/r/seduction05/07/19 04:58 PM
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How can it be awesome yet there be no chemistry?
/r/seduction05/07/19 04:34 PM
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This BS again?
/r/seduction05/07/19 04:12 PM
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I would have arranged a date for the weekend working on the assumption that its clear here that she's interested. This is what a confident man would do.
/r/seduction05/07/19 03:54 PM
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Start by listening more and talking less. If you don't work out regularly i.e. lifting it's going to be hard to present physically as being strong and believe it or not that makes a huge difference in your mindset and how you present yourself to the world. You have to be self directed and self motivating, people that are aren't seeking approval from other people and also know that you can't change other people. There's nothing wrong with being empathetic but you need to stop trying to be likeabl…
/r/seduction05/07/19 03:46 PM
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Texting to confirm transmits weakness on your part, you should always assume that when you've made a definite date with a definite time and place that it will happen unless you hear from her.
/r/seduction05/07/19 03:18 PM
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You're probably coming off as weak meaning your body language and style of speaking is transmitting weakness.
/r/seduction05/07/19 03:16 PM
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Hotel, motel, Holiday Inn.
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:59 PM
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Life Pro Tip: Don't date women that fuck for a living.
/r/seduction03/07/19 07:07 PM
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Your lack of confidence is what's going to decrease your success. Your looks don't matter, your presence does.
/r/seduction03/07/19 06:55 PM
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When you operate from a place of fear you will seduce no woman. Women, especially the quality ones, are attracted to men that are confident.
/r/seduction03/07/19 12:12 AM
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Women don't want to hear about your fears when they don't know you. Women are attracted to men that aren't weak and needy. Your text communicates weakness, women aren't attracted to weakness, they are attracted to strength. ​ Since it hasn't been 24 hrs, I would wait a week for a reply, yes a week, and then follow up with a call but you can't do that because you deleted the number. Lack of confidence and positive thinking on your behalf will result in rejection pretty much every time.
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:49 PM
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Looking away shows you are weak. Not talking to her after her giving a clear signal she's interested shows you are weak. Women aren't interested in weak men.
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:17 PM
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Interact with the person in the flesh, use texting and calling for logistics i.e. when and where to meet.
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:16 PM
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The thing to do is to call your phone from her phone.
/r/seduction02/07/19 10:43 PM
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You're still looking for validation from women. MGTOW is the opposite of that. When you're not looking for validation from women you reduce the instances where you need "proof".
/r/MGTOW07/01/19 04:03 PM
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You're man aren't you? Obese? Work on that.
/r/MGTOW05/01/19 03:40 PM
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Happy in the context of the relationship...there's a difference.
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 08:40 PM
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Most guys are worker ants and that's normal. Talk is cheap and currently all you're doing is playing it safe and that's okay you're only 25 and still have time to come up with a real plan for success. To do anything seriously takes lots of time and the more time you spend with a girlfriend AND dating, the less you have for implementing the plan. The thing to keep in mind with women is that they only see you in the context of your relationship with them. This means anything that you do or say tha…
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 07:25 PM
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It must suck to live in fear...man up and go MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW04/01/19 04:38 PM
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This sub is for Men that are going their own way, not boys looking for women's validation.
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 07:45 PM
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They should Go Their Own Way!
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 07:40 PM
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The caption should read: Understand her requirements for a man are totally unrealistic as a result.
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 05:15 PM
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All men have to chase after pussy to get it not matter what race, party or religion. Going your own way means turning your back on the programming that has you chasing women, trying to impress women and thinking that your ultimate goal is to marry them.
/r/MGTOW03/01/19 05:11 PM
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Women are people, there are corrupt people and people that aren't. Use your common sense to determine who is who.
/r/MGTOW02/01/19 05:53 PM
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When you go your own way, you prioritize yourself over women. When you do this you don't fall into the trap of marriage, a business contract not in your best interests. You don't have to worry about divorce or alimony because you aren't buying into the contract that requires you to do that. ​ MGTOW isn't a movement, it's a choice.
/r/MGTOW02/01/19 05:51 PM
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