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im going trough the same , but even with 3-4 dates a week , most of them feel empty and sometimes i feel discouraged i know its a number game , but what would you recommand to keep on going ? i have tried activity dates , drinking dates , walking dates , its exhausting somehow to restart at 0 every new time and repeat the same stuff about you
/r/seduction26/03/25 07:30 AM
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Are you saying that a happy basement dweller has no chances at all ? how to get out of happy basement dweller situation ?
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:46 PM
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yes , thank you
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:24 PM
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whats wrong with beeing single forever ? you`re doing fine , just be honest with yourself . you might feel a bit lonely , but deep down you value more your freedom . Also it`s a possibilty you`re afraid to get attached and to loose it. gratz on the weight loosing , do it for you. edit : word
/r/seduction21/03/21 09:12 AM
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White , blacks , what about asians or arabics origins ? Asians in PRL sounds kinda cliche as well i read somewhere there some good latina asian mixing , myth ?
/r/seduction17/02/21 10:46 PM
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si hay pelito hay delito ?
/r/seduction17/02/21 10:37 PM
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" wait it out till the perfect opportunity." dont wait , create it , here is how ​ walk nearby , cross his road, body charge him , pretend you didnt see him and drop some water on him and blush red tomato. Finally pretend you`re sorry, maintenaning that you`re not used to arouse men, while looking eyes deep into his soul ( his left eye ) dress simple such as a random white tshirt and some shorts , a tiny splash ( the mininum , it has to be invitational ) of perfume on your forearm . The key is t…
/r/seduction24/10/20 08:34 PM
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most of the times , it also takes 20 seconds to do something terrible that will affect all your life
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:59 PM
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what kind of frame control would this be ? ​ girl : your hair is out of fashion guy : yeah , you`re right
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:23 PM
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" girls want a guy with a buzzing social life and clear social proof " ​ What do YOU want in a woman ?
/r/seduction03/09/20 01:04 AM
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hey op , many great aswers in your great post. ​ you said she has doubts about you ? If you`re not the nextflix or movie kind of guy/couple, here is my take on dissolving remaining doubts. on 21 th century , few women know how to cook anymore. Make her come to your place , put her at ease, glass wine( lemonade will work ) cuz why not , and make her watch you cook ( even if you cant cook ). Dont let her participate in , assert dominance. I swear , even if your omelette doesnt even look like yello…
/r/seduction27/08/20 12:59 AM
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its not what perfume you put , but how much you put on
/r/seduction29/07/20 05:35 PM
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I have no advice , but you have a cool way of writing what do you do for a living ? what do you mean be more influential ? ​ persuation can be tricked , the brain doesn`t proceed everything. what`s your endgame here ?
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:31 AM
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smile when the stars aligns
/r/seduction08/07/20 09:37 PM
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i like being disqualifyed without spotting it , i like to pretend/fail into their game , i like to pretand i dont understand their sarcasm so they invest even more , all this because in the end seduction is about letting be seduced. ​ i heard you`re trouble
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:43 PM
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reading models from mark manson is how mostly started here
/r/seduction29/06/20 08:32 PM
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if you fail kiss , say you couldnt resist , and try 3 min later
/r/seduction28/06/20 04:31 PM
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when she look at your lips , it either mean you have spinach on it , or she wants you to kiss her.
/r/seduction28/06/20 03:40 PM
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hey you , ​ i recommand reading Models form Mark Manson , it will give you the basics of seduction understandings . ​ Most guys here tell you to do squats , kettlebell. I agree and disagree. It`s true men are very visual , but thats just to get the attention. Like you said , you have trouble Maintening the attraction. Physicial exercice is healthy so do it anyway , but i have a different approach of seduction , even tho i try to take very much care of my body and gym. One of the "secret\core" of…
/r/seduction28/06/20 10:50 AM
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1) when you can read the correct signals and she looks at you and says : what ? you kiss her ​ 2) few steps before entering the next place of the date , you can say : "stop " , you pull her and you kiss her it shows leadership , control , polarizing by momentum stop, mindfucking ​ 3) when she look at your lips , its a go kiss signal , or at least shes thinking about it. pay attention , it can be a very very fast look. if extended look... its kinda obvious ​ 4) the classic but boring : would you …
/r/seduction27/06/20 06:17 PM
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nice sangria tips ;)
/r/seduction25/06/20 06:48 AM
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dance class are the easiest way to meet single guys and girls , also it builds an intimate atmosphere , and lots of serotine release due to dancing. Also there`s a lot of micro kinobody involved. i recommand salsa if you`re sensible , rock if you`re kinda extrovert. also its ok to suck at dancing , its about comitment and consistency. I had lot of fun learning dancing and lots of nice encounters. Would recommand
/r/seduction12/06/20 05:40 PM
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the best advice to fall into friendzone ? /s
/r/seduction12/06/20 01:24 PM
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attitude
/r/seduction09/06/20 12:57 PM
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interesting , but why marry in the first place ?
/r/seduction09/06/20 10:00 AM
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how does one act on their sexual tension to make things actually happen? ​ - balls
/r/seduction09/06/20 09:40 AM
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if you want to keep the relationship to fwb : dont be needy and expecting much tchit tchat. -dont develop personal feelings -no gifts , no gesture if not sexual Right now , intervals 2-3 days is perfect for him to remain interested , but dont be needy and dont expect much. Messages should be just for logisitic. If you start tchit tchating , well is it still fwb anymore , or is your subconsicous wanting more of him ? ​ keep it simple , dont get attached or you might get hurted
/r/seduction09/04/20 11:42 AM
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if there is one advice to remember : don't develop feeling for your fuckbuddies. The moment , one of you start developing feelings, the interaction will change , so does the attraction. Right now you seem to be on that way ( needy ) . If you keep pursuing that way , you`ll be the one that suffer if you aren't already. no personal infos , no gifts , etc. ​ Also , in my eyes , he is doing everything right. He is not ur tchat buddy , so why bother about the texting. He is doing a very good push-pul…
/r/seduction09/04/20 09:21 AM
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until they are bored of masturbating
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:52 AM
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I dont believe you , when you Say they tell you that you are ugly. Would you consider you're a smily person when talking to women ? Or are you usually quite pushy ? Dont give UP , just Care less , its part of séduction Thé moment you let go , they will cling to you. Anyway i wouldnt want to stay with a woman that Say to anybody he's ugly. Either its a red flag , or they are just shit testing you to sée how you react. I would love to show you that attraction is not a choice , but im no coach and …
/r/seduction07/03/20 05:01 AM
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I also believe that attraction is not a choice. It's hard to explain , but in m'y êyes it's some kind of state. In your short text , i feel like you mostly focus on thé negative sides or things that cant bé changed. Why not focusing on what you Can change ? How do you know that you are not 'beautiful' When i read you , i was shocked because i relaized i never look at thé guys of women. Attraction is not a choice
/r/seduction06/03/20 07:55 PM
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I often get called cute , it bothers me even tho i dont react , how Can i get better ?
/r/seduction17/02/20 11:45 PM
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what do you think of building the tension to the maximum and never releasing it ( going for the kiss but then going for a ear whisper instead ) , and building the LMR first ? basically reverse psychology to make her think she really wants to fuck u . I agree its harder to pull without any kiss , but in most case , i feel like if you`re a good kisser ,and mostly know when to pull out , she will beg for more. I know older women dont like to play this way , but in my case , i`m a big fan of reverse…
/r/seduction11/02/20 05:08 PM
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hey XXX , wensday 20h ill cook something at my place , come over ( formulate as you wish , its the idea - notice how you order and dont ask ; you indicate time and place , and remain ambigous for the rest ) Usually i follow this routine : 1st date : sport/fun 2nd : formal/eating/drinking outside 3rd : invitation to my place for a meal and usually more ​ you've probably built comfort and rapport , now is the time to show leadership and confidence. ​ gl buddy
/r/seduction20/01/20 10:16 AM
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niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice ​ emotional connection do help opening legs , but confidence and leadership is what made you score here =) you did way much more pulling than pushing in this case , how did you do the pushing ? She seemt very interested from the begining, ​ well done
/r/seduction19/01/20 01:03 PM
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use the frustration energie to ask him how he does it , and learn from him. win-win. ​ either accept it , change it or move on. Here you have the possibility to change and to learn
/r/seduction19/01/20 12:57 PM
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i did a tease in a tease to try to show that even tho you are recomended to use men to women flirtations , flirtations are not unisex , its an attitude to addapt
/r/seduction17/01/20 07:53 AM
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And yet rules are made to be broken :)
/r/seduction16/01/20 04:16 AM
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You build the Space for her to come to you. Mostly rapport , but as you already knew , women in abusive relationshim dont think straight and will Always put their abuser first It's about Béeing here when she needs you. She also needs to feel that she Can talk to you without being judged Gl Buddy
/r/seduction16/01/20 04:09 AM
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What about social awareness ?
/r/seduction16/01/20 04:05 AM
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Doesn't this also fit for man to man tease ? :)
/r/seduction16/01/20 04:04 AM
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'if i dont do it now , i will never do it'
/r/seduction16/01/20 03:58 AM
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I feel like asking too much questions IS boring , you have to lead and show Time restraint : Hey . You know what , i was heading for a Quick Coffe at this place 2 mins from hère , Come with me , lets finish this conversation ' There you go , you have your date set up. If shes réceptive to thé flirts at Coffe , fclose later on. Strike while thé Iron IS hot
/r/seduction16/01/20 03:55 AM
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What do you do in your free Time else than this ? 'Empathy' IS key. its not about Germany or anywhere ( even tho you're a Tiny bit right , your profile in south America would pull 10 Times more , which would lead to a total of 10% ) Understand that Even with huge sucess , its only 10 out of 100 girls. As you already know its a number game. Imagine having a very busy life , some hot girl come and daygame you. It smells fishy. No one with a busy life or interesting life has thé Time to daygame ( m…
/r/seduction16/01/20 03:47 AM
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For you grrinchas , how do you défine it ? What do you want it to bé ? Personally i like to call it Destiny , and as you already know , Destiny Can be pushed but not forced. Attraction is not a choice. Number games, social awareness , opportunity , outcome indépendant , i'm curious and i'd like to know how you would défine it , cuz you definitvly sound liké you finished thé game.
/r/seduction16/01/20 03:27 AM
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If you make out too much , its known to 'kill' tension. You want to make out just enough so she will want more. You gave them what they need , probably make them wet , but i feel like you make out too much. Just mâke out , smile and leave. Thé power of "leaving" IS humongously strong. Thé moment you let go , women and their 6 th sensé will try ANYTHING to keep you alongside. Like other Guy Saïd , not enough rapport , you pressurize too much thé f close and appear needy somehow. They dont trust y…
/r/seduction16/01/20 03:09 AM
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will you able to sleep at night ? you said it urself , the married thing is a complication
/r/seduction12/01/20 11:48 AM
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nice strive for improvement. What i suggest is hard learning the lesson : isolate and close. It`s also one of my weakness , so you'll have to remember this lesson to act better the next opportunity. ​ Tbh , i believe that fighting for what you care/want is very honorable. In this particular context , your best shot is to let her come to you. You had a chance to show your desires , it didnt happened. I suggest remaining flirty , but not needy , chasing other girls , and eventualy amy will come to…
/r/seduction12/01/20 03:44 AM
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care to develop ? "I can't get aroused at human bodies. " I dont think that`s related to autism , but mostly preferences.
/r/seduction12/01/20 01:43 AM
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yes , not caring
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:41 PM
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"im old enough for you"
/r/seduction11/01/20 12:40 PM
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The neil strauss opener is very subtile , because it`s time restrained , light and suggestive. now imagine him , with his funny and great bald head saying : hi , im neil. giving out your names brings out not much value , actually it kills any mystery vibes. You also miss out the opportunity to let her ask you for your name.
/r/seduction31/12/19 12:02 AM
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there`s a very powerfull tool called vizualisation : We talk all the time about wanting to try different things (literally even different rooms) and I totally WANT to initiate this (I actually do like initiating if I wasn’t so awkward) but I literally don’t know how. ​ When the opportunity rises , like one of those fantasm near the diner table for example , vizualize it in your mind while maintenaning eye contact ( for some reason try eye locking his left eye ). I dont know if this science has a…
/r/seduction28/10/19 05:12 PM
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whatever the results , what can you change about it anyway ? What i`m saying is, you will not be attractive if you start worrying about this ( something you can`t change ) ​ i never asked my self if i was ugly or hot , those things don`t interest me. However i`m interested in : my posture , my hygiene , my career , my goals, but mostly the present. The way you behave is what makes you attractive ( forget tinder ) . btw life is not always sunny , and the quote is total bs. start gym if you havent…
/r/seduction25/10/19 06:15 PM
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ironically enough when you start fucking other women , you will move on , and she will want to come back to you. You can`t change much of what`s happening , so accept it , and move on. She knows she has you on the leash atm. It will stop the moment you start fcking elsewhere.
/r/seduction12/10/19 10:31 PM
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whast the solution to this ?
/r/seduction12/10/19 05:45 PM
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Nice buddy ! Remember , what ever the outcome , it`s already a victory and a valuable lesson. So for now on , you have nothing to loose and everything to gain. that`s the mindset for this occasion. Peace
/r/seduction12/10/19 05:42 PM
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the only relevant thing is that now you are limited by time. Dont let the opportunity fade away. She knows you like her , act on it ( doesn`t mean to throw roses at her all the time ). Assume what happened , go talk to her normaly , and tell her what i told you to tell her at the end. DONT CHASE HER , MAKE HER CHASE YOU = SEDUCTION ( go google disqualifying-seduction , and use them )
/r/seduction12/10/19 05:25 PM
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Hello Buddy, you learned a very valuable lesson that day : never tell your buddys when you like someone. It stronger than them , people talk a lot, specially women. ​ next time you go talk to her , finish by : Hey, i know you know that i`ve been liking you , but.... ( start moving away ) Don't think i`m that easy ( wink and leave ). will make you appear like a conquest , a challenge , and that you are socially clever. ​ staying unaffected is key when it comes to seduction, forget about what happ…
/r/seduction12/10/19 05:04 PM
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I agree with you , but the mechanism is subconcious. Based on social psychology experiment, being disagreeable then switching halfway through to being agreeable makes you more attractive to the other person. An artificial "warm up" is created Attention, interest, and maintenance. Different skills are necessary for each phase. Attention being am initial spark, interest being a focus on short term charms, and maintenance being long term commitment and patience. Appealing to bolster their weaknesse…
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:41 PM
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Send me a profile pic in private . Ever had ortho treatments ? Are your teeth aligned ? If you really have a short mandibula , you must have had orthotreatments in the past. If you never had , it`s all in your head then , or you had a bad dentist. If bad dentist , you can still chose to go for operations , YET VERY VERY VERY RISKY ( facial , lingual , mandibular nerve passing trough the jaw line cut section ) Anyway if you`re serious about it , why even ask reddit about it ? go consult a maxilof…
/r/seduction11/10/19 09:54 PM
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disqualify her at every lunch. " are you always like this ? " At lunch , disagree with everything she says , then sometimes agree and make a compliment/qualifyers after. "i never thought you`d be that kind of smart ". ( if shes hot , tell her shes smart , and vice versa ) If she doesnt answer to your attempt , stop it. If she answers back , keep doing it . As long as she invests in you , you`re wining the game. ​ tldr ; make her invest in you
/r/seduction11/10/19 09:22 PM
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if you focus on how you should act/answer etc , how can you focus on what the other person is telling you ? ​ bodylanguage , posture , are , in my eyes , expression of the subconscient. You can decide what to move , how to stand , act , but then it`s not the expression of the body language it self, therefore not natural. Women sense this kind of bs , they have some kind of 6th sense ( while you were playing soccer or wow at school , they were doing social stuffs and developing that 6th sense ) ​…
/r/seduction11/10/19 08:54 PM
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tell us instead what you are looking up to. Do female watch "female porn" ? i even wonder how could someone describe what female porn category is. I heard women like and are curious about gay\bi sex. obviously its different for each individual , but still curious.
/r/seduction10/10/19 06:51 AM
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Hello , Would you mind sharing your biggest regrets/struggles or one of the hardest situation you ever had to go trough during all those years ? How do you deal with the downs moments ? I struggle with this one woman in particular that i keep seeing every month for a formation. i have a weakness for her kind , she has everything i want . I`ve dealt with many many women ,success and heartbreaks etc , i`m pretty shielded , yet for some reasons i can`t understand , i don`t want to stand her presenc…
/r/seduction06/09/19 12:26 AM
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I was thinking about how to apply this today. For example if a woman doesn't even give me a chance to speak and walks of rudely to a simple greeting, then I shouldn't get upset because it simply means that she is clearly beneath my level. If she was on the same level as me then she would actually be socially calibrated enough to respond and politely decline my advance. Her rudeness is a reflection of her poor character, because if we lived in a world where men sat back and women had to do 95% of…
/r/seduction03/09/19 02:14 PM
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sucess is going from failures to failure without loosing the same enthusiasm. I never fail , i either succeed , or i learn. Churchill and Mandela. After 1000 aproaches , you will remember how great and impactful this shouting lady was. Because of her , you can evolve to the next stage. If you can surpass this now ( what ever you would have done , she would have shouted ) , what can stop you from now ? You`re way braver than you thought and this , is , a victory over yesterday. Keep going
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:20 AM
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Absolutely Like in a rpg game , a boss is outcome independant. The game goes on wether you defeat it or not. Even when you defeat the final one , you have the possibility to restart on a harder difficulty. This concept is key. Now you`re the boss , and many challengers will defile. Usually , the main hero has a route to reach the boss. But there are thoose games , where the boss comes to you instead of you coming to him , and this is when you get the thrills and excitements. You want to be this …
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:14 AM
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Become outcome independant and have genuine fun. Way much easier said than done at all ( i dont know anybody that approaches for fun... , but it`s this kind of vibe ) She had a bad day , no matter what you said or have had done , she would have shouted. Lesson ? Sometimes whatever you do , it had to happen. So why feel bad about it ? "Today is victory over yourself of yesterday ; tomororow is victory over lesser men" miyamoto musashi it wasnt a BIG FAIL , it was a huge succes toward progress. Co…
/r/seduction03/09/19 01:30 AM
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You`ve sent obvious signals. He doesn't seem clueless at all and feel at ease near you. I think he still feels hesitant about it , could be many reasons , but dating at work... Is he gonna get fired if trouble happen ? probably both of you ^^. ​ You seem to very much like him , i feel like most women would have moved on already. On your quest to seducing him more , try disqualifying more. Look for tension , don't please and validate him. Do it until he can`t resist anymore. One indian guru preac…
/r/seduction03/09/19 01:18 AM
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How tall are you and how old are you ? Is there a particular reason you need someone in your life atm ? Are you feeling challenged or stressed by some current events in your life ? Do you feel more like you need someone in your life atm or you need to loose weight first? Those are lots of questions , but i`m trying to frame perspective. Under certain circumstances , boring routines , stressfull events , insecurities and doubt start to settle in. You might be in a rough period , and that`s why yo…
/r/seduction03/09/19 01:03 AM
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don't you think that neither confidence nor narcissism can be faked or lead to failure and false expectations ?
/r/seduction02/09/19 11:41 PM
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Im naturally very competitive. Is that off puting ?
/r/seduction02/09/19 11:31 PM
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You use suggestions and images. Never talk or mention sex when you meet someone , they will know what you think of. Be subtle , use vocabulary , make it look like you didnt know what you were doing. basically fuck with their mind. Anything that comes out of ur mind : "Do you like cock-tails ? The daiquiri one is so juicy and exquisite within its mango touch. The icy glass combined with the warm aftertaste makes me shimmer. Wanna get one down ? " Some girls seem clueless tho, generally not the sm…
/r/seduction02/09/19 09:40 PM
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Even if wrong about your guts, Keep those women around , beautiful women have lots of beautiful friends ( also not beautiful ) The fact that she went out with you , is a positive sign. Maybe she was testing you on that day, and she made it work , cuz now you "full of doubts and insecurities" Key to seduction is to be outcome independant. Maybe she felt you were needy. ​ What i`m saying is : you can never truly know if someone really likes you. Rest unaffected , and try again. Maybe she is a slow…
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:47 PM
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because older women have less time to waste and have played around the bush for many decenies already. Older women don`t like undecisiveness. It`s the main turn off. Why the married and with kids ? Because most of the times it`s boring in the bed , and they want to feel young again ( the kids ). What he forgot to mention , the crucial point , is... DIVORCED WOMEN.
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:41 PM
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change the perspective around Now you`re the boss
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:37 PM
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Magic. Attitude , skills , frame control. A lit bit of sarcasm , curiosity , and optimism. Mostly discipline , confidence , perspective Basically your strength of character Questions are your best tools when it come to emotions if not actions, alligned with empathy. You best weapon if not your D , fingers or mouth , is... your smile. Smiling is a reflection of your character Smiling is more than an invitation , it`s a gift. Smiling is a begining and is full of potential. Smiling aligns with fant…
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:35 PM
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Hey Nick , 60 different signs women can give off when they are attracted to a man ? seems like a lot If you go for every women interested in you , insn`t it low stardards ? What would you do if you spot one of thoose ? She`s already attracted to you ,so what to do with her , if you`re not that much physically interested into her ?
/r/seduction01/09/19 12:43 AM
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Mention boyfriend as soon as you see IOI. Isn`t it what women do all the time ;) ?
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:56 PM
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" be cool as an icicle " gonna be my new mantra , it`s awesome
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:44 PM
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" At the same time I want her " Regrets my man , regrets. Stop your "ego" , listen to your heart. What happen will happen. Maybe she`ll be the one enlightening you. you will regret not trying Also , the answer to your title question is yes and no, but mostly yes. When i go do humanitarist missions , i see children trading my toothbrushes for cig packs at the local store. This is the irony when you try fixing anyone who hasnt asked to be fixed. watch her blossom ? Let you be blosommed by her inst…
/r/seduction30/08/19 09:40 PM
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What about sapiosexual women ? You could have the best body language in the world , yet with 0 elocutions skills , you could only seduce a deaf one. What`s your thoughts on story telling ?
/r/seduction30/08/19 06:47 PM
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Not sure how you guys will hook up when she`s far away... Gotta wait for next shooting opportunity or something, it was maybe her nice way to tell you off. yet the answer is about how to not fuck up the situation ; Ok lets be friends or the NO i dont wanna be friend. It`s a trap , both options are weak. It`s called Derisory choice " wanna die from electrocution or hanging? "- the illusion of choice. Here you have the element of surprise, which can boost your attraction gauge. ​ Max litteraly wor…
/r/seduction29/08/19 10:36 PM
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yet , she still signals you otherwise. Think about it twice. If she meant what she said with guy A , she wouldnt even have written to you. Like max said , the ok or the bla bla bla respond is weak. Give it a shot and try to set up anything.
/r/seduction29/08/19 08:57 PM
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she wants to be reassured
/r/seduction29/08/19 10:53 AM
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You are right. It`s true women can sense you in few seconds , but as optimist or pessimist as i can be , this is still not lost. As as i said , once you manage to surprise her in her own game , the switch can be very fast. Disqualifiers : I `ver nerver thought you`d be this clever. This one is very powerfull , it turns the perspective and frame around. The element of surprise is huge in porlarizing emotions. Sometime it`s even better if she isn`t attracted in the first place. ​ The problem you s…
/r/seduction28/08/19 08:47 PM
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you can reinforce the emotion bond by polarizing emotions. feel good , feel bad , feel nice , feel like an asshole. then there are those questions like : whats this one thing ( value ) in life that you couldnt live with ? what does it allow you to do ? and How does that make you feel ? whats the hardest struggle you ever lived ? When you make her invest toward emotions , she can almost feel thoose. Sometimes its too fast to ask deep questions , so actions > words. Always be in constant movement …
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:40 AM
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unless , you know .... attraction =) . Yet you are right
/r/seduction21/08/19 04:06 AM
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or maybe because it smells fishy down there ^^. They wouldnt use an occam razor anyway
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:54 AM
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" you read book , you must be boring ?"
/r/seduction21/08/19 03:49 AM
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I like to ask them the invisible or flying super hero power question. Then later on while i explain the reasoning , i can show value and also make her qualify more by asking this : "so it seems you tend to go towards your ambitions. Are you ? " ​ qualifying is indeed one of the most effective tool in seduction. But creating attraction becomes easier with time. My struggles and concerns lies in the transition. What to do once you`ve created that sparkle of attraction ? Build rapport , comfort , e…
/r/seduction11/08/19 10:24 PM
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nice awareness. Gainsbourg said : le talent c`est avoir l`envie. Basically it`s nice you are still going for it. When talking to her , fuck her with your eyes. If willing , she will make things easier for you. "hey , why dont we meet\meat for XXX reasons " ​ talking with her will be the test it-self. Thats why i think she`s giving you some signs and taking the same road towards her desk. She wonders if you have the balls to approach. Will you be able to maintain posture ? eye contact ? basically…
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:23 AM
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dont overthink how she would like to dance , but how YOU would like to dance. It`s about fun, your FUN. forget textings etc. Words are words , only trust actions. so basically , its not : how to touch a girl/dance with her but how to have fun when i dance.
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:12 AM
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too bad for them =)
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:09 AM
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I don't want to get in trouble, as I need this job experience for my future career. i would abort missions since you see her everyday. Imagine things turn bad , creepy vibes for your career. ​ Yet the chase it self when it comes to women , specially milfs on my side, rely on instincts. start by saying hi , and verify your assumptions. You kinda want to see what kind of woman she is. Maybe she will make things easier , maybe it`s all your projections ? say hi.
/r/seduction11/08/19 03:08 AM
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At that time she was telling me how she enjoys spending time with me and how she can't wait to come visit me in my town. And then all of a sudden, she became distanced and closed you`re not here to fix her problems. Shy or not , you shouldn`t deal with her stuff. i think she was looking for a friend in you , and now is scared because she can see you have too much feelings. If ever she was looking for something serious and has some trauma shell , in both circumstances you`d want to give her space…
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:56 AM
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Even tho you like her very much , the best thing to do right now is to give her space. i would give around 3 weeks ( with the hope she comes back ) . The more you would push right now , the more she`d go away. If she likes you , she will contact you. See it as a test. Remember , it`s not because you think everything was so easy to do with her , that it`s mutual. but when it seemed to get serious, it looked like she put some shell around herself and forced to pull herself away from me. ​ the mome…
/r/seduction11/08/19 02:52 AM
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my favorite part of this book is the fck yes or fck no. Gamechanger for me, learned to let go off unreasonable chases.
/r/seduction10/08/19 11:21 AM
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please , man : paragraphs. Anyway , from what i read , she acts like she has other options. Also it seems you friendzoned yourself or she did to you. You see something romantic wheras she sees a good friend in you. Hugs and kiss means nothing for a girl. Because of non abudance mindset , you focus a lot on this one girt. It`s the opposite for her , she has many options , and you seem far away , so basically you`ve become her pal/buddy and that`s why she dropped the : ​ She told me that I am tryi…
/r/seduction10/08/19 11:19 AM
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How is it going so far ? is it positif ?
/r/seduction07/08/19 06:48 AM
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Got u' ' Like ma mama say , we allll Cook pancakes differently, Still is a pancake 😂'
/r/seduction06/08/19 07:33 AM
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Read how to bé a 3% man. A girl that at least likés you 51% wouldnt let thoose conversations die. Actually most Girls that really liké you initiate the texting. Here it's thé opposite. Also because you're too much in the texting scène , you're probably already friendzoned :( She likes you as a friend. What Can you do about it ? Let her some space and sée if she contacts you. You will sée that she probably won't ever text you. Basically you feed her free Time and attention . Thé good side ? You l…
/r/seduction06/08/19 07:25 AM
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You're not meeting enough people , you stay with the same group etc, even 'ugly' ( no one is ever ugly in my opinion ) women get asked out. Like most comment Say , men are visual. Yet if you dress like a 'slut'/vulgar person, you'll bé treated like one. Ever seen a slut beeing asked out ? No ( not saying you dress like one ) You have to research first what kind of men you are looking for. Dress apropriatly( geek nerd , sporty , fashion , vulgar , classy ) and screen people out. You know , there …
/r/seduction06/08/19 07:15 AM
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Laughing IS Always a solution to all seduction aspect. ( Laugh too much tho and you become too much of a clown ) Shittest , naggs, provocation, compliments : laugh and you're ok. Dérision changes thé frame and disamorces thé situation. The : 'dear dairy , cute girl has vanished' was really funny to me. Todd IS damn good
/r/seduction06/08/19 06:38 AM
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So what do you gain from asking if not showing your intentions in an non subtile way ? I feel like you loose more than win by asking this In the end like you Say, it doesn't even matter , so why asking ? Didnt some women shut you down instantly ?
/r/seduction06/08/19 06:30 AM
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'slow down tiger'
/r/seduction06/08/19 01:55 AM
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im considering reading it. What did this book help you achieve ? I feel like i`m a natural charismatic person, at least its what i`m told. I`d like to know what i could gain from reading this.
/r/seduction29/07/19 08:44 AM
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Eau sauvage de dior - same perfume as french president , lots of compliments , smells very good , elevate you from the others. its the smell of succes , attitude , and kindness. It`s not arrogant at all compared to armani or the one. Makes you mature and confident. ​ Abercrombie classic , very popular when aiming at younger women. Makes you smelll young and adventurous. Funny enough it has become popular for its headaches and its negativity amongst studies. This abercrombie one is like a polariz…
/r/seduction29/07/19 08:38 AM
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"pay this one , ill get the next the one" Win win. She says no , she seems cheap. Most of them will answer to you , how about you pay this one and i pay the next one ? Then i answer , then why dont we pay both our drinks now or settle it around a rock paper scissor game. Then i usually i fck off from those girls , but im so curiously genuine into people that i will keep playing around til she buys me the first one. ​ I like to set the drink around a game of paper rock scissor, and i like to tell…
/r/seduction29/07/19 08:31 AM
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amplify and exagerate : you`re so right , i'm so lucky to have you, i mean what could i ever achieve without you. ​ or ignore. What i dont get , is why the more i ignore women the more they insist, whereas when i get ignored i just move on. maybe they needy hihi.
/r/seduction29/07/19 08:07 AM
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During monk mode , did you practice meditation ? You did the opposite , and closed all your senses. You denied all emotions. Now you gotta do the opposite and embrace them. Meditation is a catalysor to opening senses and emotions while remaining stiff and relaxed : you are the mountains and the clouds pass by. Meditate 10 min the morning , start with 3 min , then 5 , until 10 wont be enough for you. Use some free aps , like headspace or many others , it makes it so much easier and enjoyable.
/r/seduction29/07/19 08:01 AM
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nice sharing
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:57 AM
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if you have really no clue , just tell her you cant resist , and kiss her. Do it after a spike of emotions , like a good laugh. No girls will ever be mad that you couldnt resist to kiss her. ( context )
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:55 AM
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This is why isolation is a crucial part.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:52 AM
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Goldexcavator
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:51 AM
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i recommand how to be a 3% man from Corey Wayne. The sutble art of not giving a fukc from Mark Manson. Find a new hobbie , place to chill , put yourself on the market by showing up at stuff.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:40 AM
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yes it works , because its some kind of disqualifying process and makes the person invest in you . aka: ​ "wow , what made you say this ? " also if you manage to guess the assumptions right , you automatically transcript high value.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:36 AM
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For the one into animes. Warning spoilers. Saitama , one puch man hero , enters depression because he is too strong and has nothing more to learn. Basically bored and depressed. His good friend king gives him some wise words that he read from another manga. It`s a bit the same message you wrote. You have to open your own doors to your pathway , because they dont open themselves alone. if you have the time to whine , you have the time to get better. Change comes from the within.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:33 AM
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Yes,but ​ this doesnt apply for the introverts. Also laconism can be perceived as arrogant. Charisma comes from innerwork. ​ In the end what makes a charismatic person attractive ? His passions, his vision of life , his non caring attitude toward others. Basically the expression of confidence. ​ charismactic implies already high energy person. It doesnt work for everybody.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:29 AM
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for every newbie ready this , a good cologne is applied twice. Once on your chest/neck . once on your forearms. 2 psshit is already risky , go above and you`ll smell vulgar. ​ Dont think applying cologne is a magic pill , but it helps. If you`re looking for a new one and cant decide much , check what presidents or celebreties wear.
/r/seduction29/07/19 07:14 AM
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Fantastic ! Its Awesome. Youre building comfort and rapport while doing this. Now youd like to polarize a bit the emotions , it cant only be positive vibes or there wont be tension and youll fall in the friendzone. For this its easy , you can disagree when he says something. Him : I like cats. You : Realllllly ?? cat sucks ? ( polarize + disqualifying + investment suggestion ) bla bla bla , then after a pike of emotion you : i never thought you`be this cool/clever/attentionate. ( then give him t…
/r/seduction28/07/19 01:57 PM
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Let me know how it goes , i hope you live something magic.
/r/seduction28/07/19 06:04 AM
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i`m glad it worked out for you. She didnt chose you in the first place for nothing. Fondamental core of seduction is creating the space for her to chase you. That`s exactly what you did and why she choose you over the hordle of needy men validating her. Congratz buddy , you made it.
/r/seduction27/07/19 02:08 PM
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how long have you been doing this ? Did this help really you ? I'm considering doing it.
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:49 AM
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leave the party when its at its best. It makes people miss u, specially when you are high energy. Make sure you have an impact on her that night ( dont forget to push. cant only pull ) . Dont be needy about the sex or she`ll feel about it. Be light Be polite and stuff , but send a msg to her with your eyes. The kind of gaze , damn shes hot , and i already effed her. ( compassionate , masculine , and positive smily smirk ) Let her the space to reach you later on that night. Enjoy the party , talk…
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:38 AM
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I know its dissapointing and frustrating but look at it as a test. If you get angry over it , she`ll see you as needy, which u kinda are atm. If you tolerate it , you didn`t set up your ground rules. The right perspective is : too bad for her. Move on. Part of seduction is giving her the space to chase you. Question is , what are you doing next ? your best move is always your next.
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:29 AM
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disqualify him , make him invest in you and be smily. google disqualifying; its a catalysor to seduction in the right circumstance. Read his body language , what does his eyes say ? his feet ? dont always agree/laugh to what he says , learn to push to create tension. ​ if its summer work go for it , if its a work you care : forget about it ^^ Be subtle. ​ I never thought you would be XXX(spontaneous ) ? Are you always XXX ?
/r/seduction27/07/19 06:18 AM
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The easiest way to create tension Is to look in her left eye and vizualize what you'd liké to do to her. Then look at lips and again in the eye. I dont liké to do it anymore because it feels like i violate them.
/r/seduction26/07/19 11:43 AM
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I appreciate the Time you took to answer. It makes a lot of sense to me. I sparkle lots of attraction on milfs since I'm a young smily and fit doctor lol. Mostly good Vibe. Yet i've never went for it , but désire it much. Curiosity : You don't touch married women since its Tinder , right ? Or maybe you do but they didnt tell you. Or you wouldnt mind ? I dont think im dead enough to touch a married woman , doesn't seem very ethical to me.
/r/seduction24/07/19 02:31 PM
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Fantastic. I understand very well. One last question , what's your âge setting on Tinder then ? IS there something you should avoid to do with milfs or that might kill the Vibe - basically any turn off ? Thanks for your great input
/r/seduction24/07/19 10:30 AM
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Your chances are very low for now. With time you can increase it ,then you might have a shot. I was gonna write a bit more about it , but tbh , do you realize your obscession about her ? Do you see how hard is it to let go ? ​ Its ok for you to like her , but you probably like her already too much , and she knows about it or dont want to accept it. She seems to value friendship more. ​ I dont know how much do you know her. How much time have you spent together ? Is there any girl in your mind or…
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:20 PM
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might be dumb , but i don`t advice texting that much in the beginning. The moment you already wrote too much , its friendzone time. ​ In this case , i think you already are in it. Sometimes because of lack of experience , you`ll realized that you don`t really like her , but like the idea of beeing with her. Its fantasy. It`s a heading nowhere road. If you truly enjoy her , you need to gauge her interest in you. How much do you think she is attracted into you? Read her body language. If 0 interes…
/r/seduction23/07/19 09:29 PM
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In my eyes , seduction is about empathy and social awareness. Both might seems tough for you , but that`s what you should aim to work for. Yet Whatever you say or act , some girls are chimicaly attracted to you. THIS is one of your many chances to success. Learn to spot when one girl is attracted to you and let honesty work for you. Honesty is very valuable, Some guys just open up to girls , still shaking , and saying blunt they feel nervous. and it works... ( courage, honesty , still better tha…
/r/seduction23/07/19 09:09 PM
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where do you meet milfs ? Tinder or at events ? How do you manage to be straight away with them while remaining subtle or non needy ? I feel ur dead inside thing.
/r/seduction23/07/19 08:37 PM
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the only mentality i have is : too bad for her.
/r/seduction07/07/19 10:46 AM
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Don't doubt when asking. Ask as if it was the obvious thing to do : Come, let's go. The "hardest" thing is the timing = social awareness.
/r/seduction04/07/19 08:03 PM
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Yet i feel like that , If you are good enough at polarizing emotions , you can make someone obscess over you which increase your chance of her chasing you. I realized that the girls orbiting around me are there because i don`t give them what they want : time and attention, also probably my d. Add this with lots of disqualification and some kino , you will mark your encounter. Ironically enough , it`s hard to detach from a girl you really want or like. ​ I also think , this only works if you are …
/r/seduction01/07/19 09:12 AM
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I used to get sad , but i learned from my patterns and mistakes. Every new date i would try something i was afraid to do to keep progressing. ( a.k.a its now or never ) Now i see dating as something fun and rejections save me lots of time. ​ Dont count on tinder to mesure your progress. Only failure helps you move forward. Understand that if you are sad , it is not attractive. ​ I use this image to fuel my mood , maybe it can helps you too : here The moment you take everything too srsly , you wi…
/r/seduction01/07/19 08:40 AM
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The moment you do gifts or be nice , she kinda knows you`re into her. It`s too easy. they want challenge , they want to do something and then get rewarded. I`m also a very affectionate man , and trust me gifts are terrible options. She should be the one making gifts in the first place or eventually you can start gifting way later in the relationship. TLDR : most of the time , the moment you gift , you loose attraction.
/r/seduction29/06/19 07:06 AM
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Start small . Start taking everywhere you go. Anything will do because it's not sensed as needy. Make statements - remarks. When YOU Ask them out straight away , it's thé opposite. Also most Girls dont Say yes , because it's too easy. Keep you smile Man , its ok to have bad days , but stay true to your self. Some how you attract a lot , but you lack social awereness. Do it for fun , not for thé saké of chasing women. " Hey ! You kept staring at me in such a way , IS there something on m'y shirt …
/r/seduction29/06/19 12:23 AM
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Simple curiosity : If you had the choice between those 2 Superpowers, which one would you pick ? The power to turn invisible or the power to flight ? I Sense bait, but are those kind of questions what you define as Fboy attitude ? I think appeareance does not matter ( doesn`t apply to tinder ) , it`s just that Op doesn`t have enough fun dating. A simple pic of Op and a pet on his tinderprofile would resolve the situation. Flight or Invisible ?
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:00 PM
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Why have you been fascinated by Discourses ? How can one simple Man like me understand any of his sentences ? I`d love to give try, but why bother the headache ? I`d need a simplified version
/r/seduction19/06/19 11:24 AM
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Ofc you don't need of Anyone else but you , thoose Books are true nightmares to read in the first place 😂😂
/r/seduction18/06/19 12:57 PM
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Learn from this : when its Big deal it doesn't happen. You ve been gyming , self focusing , you were not needy because you have other troubles, therefore it just hapenned. Women want sex this way , it just happened. Congratz m8 , she was not all over you for a reason , she was craving your attention you were not giving her
/r/seduction18/06/19 12:54 PM
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Congratz. Are you happy and dissapointed at thé same Time ? I liké your conclusion , nothing has change : so what Can you learn from this ?
/r/seduction17/06/19 05:08 PM
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Ever wonder why Mona Lisa is the most famous painting ? You`ve never wandered in her left eye ​ /s
/r/seduction01/06/19 08:27 PM
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This is why , ladies and gentlemen , you look in the left eye of a woman when you talk , because it`s straight connected to her right hemi-cortex
/r/seduction01/06/19 07:06 AM
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Its ok to bé Shy , introvert etc . Why are you in Hawaï ? When you're as attractive as you , people are nicer . Confidence doesn't Come After 10 shots of vodka. Confidence starts with small steps. In 7 days seems.tough to Man up . What do i recommand you ? First find and decide what women you'd liké to hit. Now come this approach , it's not needy at all, it tricks everybody brain , and you Can just leave at any moments : it's calling for help . Eg : sée a pair of girl walking. Hello Girls , i'm …
/r/seduction22/05/19 03:00 PM
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I dont understand how this is thé love of your life if you haven't met yet. I believe you are in love with your fantasy. In my expérience this is thé best way to get hurt because you have lots of expectations right now. Trust me , and dont believe in words but Rely instead on actions. This group chat is only msg. For now , i advise you to calm your tits and wait until you Girls finaly meet. If i missunderstood your text, and if you Girls already met , then what's wrong ? Just tell her you went o…
/r/seduction22/05/19 02:31 PM
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After what people here told you : inner work , confidence etc , I suggest you to practice disqualifying. Many consider it the most effective tool in the game. Attraction IS not a choice. Ex : " I Wonder if you're as smart as you look like' Also because you are young , hit the gym while you Still have no responsabilités. 45 min pèr day IS far enough. A toned body at your âge makes big différence. And mostly thé game paradox : if you focus on Girls , you repell them more. Find something you liké ,…
/r/seduction22/05/19 02:11 PM
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Its currently exam period
/r/seduction22/05/19 01:33 PM
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your suspicions are your own projections. You are looking everywhere for IOI therefor become needy. Your current mindset is to please people and not vice versa. Rethink it , rethink abundance mentality , stop the insecurities and you`ll realize your hair doesn`t matter. Accept it , joke about it , vulnerability is attractive , but never feel bad about something you can`t change. ​ hit the damn gym
/r/seduction21/05/19 11:28 AM
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Yes , out of context seems creepy. It has to be done in the right playful way , but i understand your point
/r/seduction18/05/19 05:47 PM
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A story about ego I have this friend who is very bold and also become bald later on , but doesnt matter. ​ Popular , handsome , a bit like you anon1029. He has this win win story that always amazed me. ​ At some point in the date, girl come over , and will have to use the bathrom. While she is there, he is in the other room and litteraly put his balls \package on the table. You either get to fuck the girl , or get to be rejected and become a legend =) what`s gonna be your choice anon1029 ?
/r/seduction18/05/19 03:17 PM
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disqualify him , ignore his attention , and give him attention when he gave up. If you always make the first move or validate everything , there is no polarization hence no chase.
/r/seduction15/05/19 06:16 PM
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D’ailleurs, ne dit-on pas qu’une femme qui éclabousse un homme, c’est un peu comme la rosée d’une matinée de printemps, c’est la promesse d’une belle journée et la perspective d’une soirée enflammée ?
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:13 PM
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In my very little personal experience , you gotta find a way to tease her or get you teased , and whenever you have that smirk face , you can just reward her by either cuddling or kissing. It feels natural and you also anchor something strong in her, a bit like Pavlov and his bell dog. You can amplify this relapse-reward polarization , by disagreeing with her the previous last 30 min before the couch moment and by disqualifying her. Once on the couch , agree to everything she says and subcomunic…
/r/seduction22/04/19 06:22 PM
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I dont understand those kind of posts. Why would you ask the girls questions , when she should be the one asking them. the only think you should do to a woman is disqualify and tease
/r/seduction22/04/19 01:21 PM
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If you have time to go out 7 nights in the row , you have nothing going on in your life , and by this you aren`t attractive at all. beat AA , by starting slow ,and by talking to everybody you meet on daily base : cashier , etc
/r/seduction15/04/19 12:51 PM
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what if im a refugee`s child , and she`s from high class aristocraty ?
/r/seduction12/04/19 02:28 AM
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how does that make you feel to sleep with an underaged girl ?
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:00 AM
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outcome independant. People who hook up , don't give a shit ​
/r/seduction05/03/19 01:56 PM
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You probably had Coffe cream on your lips
/r/seduction05/03/19 10:36 AM
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At this stage you Can even considér the mother ^ It's when challenged , that your true self reveals. Even if it fails , what a great story to tell. Bounce back my dude
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:28 AM
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Quit instagram and start talking to real people , maybe it will spark more attraction than black letters on a screen.
/r/seduction07/02/19 03:51 PM
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1) what's your thing in life ? 2) how does it look like in one of your perfect days ? ( what would you do if you were billionaire ) 3) how does it make you feel ? ( when you do 1-2 ) 3 oldschool questions that work wonders. Add some kino on the Key words and gg. What i like the most about those 3 questions , is that you can gauge interest of the person, but mostly you can figure out if she`s "good" enough for you. It`s very fast to get someone hooked about you , but without the flirt... the disq…
/r/seduction07/02/19 11:34 AM
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At the hospital , one of the best advice i ever received so far : when you ass fu*k ur women , do you apologize beforehand ? Just pretend nothing happened
/r/seduction04/02/19 07:15 AM
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Dude , i admire your jump into perspective , a thing i was not able to do at your age. Now let me ask you this : How long did it take you to type this ? How much emotional investment did you put in ? Do you think she would ever do that for you ? Or would she rather type about this New Guy she met online ( wtf )? Do you really want to be with that kind of girl ? Open your eyes. She might have had feelings and it was a legitimate rejection. But why bother so much anymore ? M'y final question if yo…
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:24 AM
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Dat offhand advice should bé pinned in thé wiki. A Real bro tip. Curiosity ? You got heartbroken much or you just have fantastic social skills ?
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:06 AM
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I don't understand why caring about their réactions anyway... But if it Can help you , in terms of quantity , it improves when you know that she doesnt know. ( Is he hitting on me ??? ) Even a smile Can cover that mistery. So smile more, with good eye contact. In terms of quality : when i stopped caring about their réaction and stayed true to my values. Somehow it does create polarization , and if you manage to reverse it later , it builds attraction , so better reactions. Tldr : smile at life a…
/r/seduction26/01/19 12:01 AM
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There is no right or wrong yet Wrong mentality : impress them / nice Guy ( "surmoi" ; prétention ) Right mentality : does she fit you ? Is she good enough to accept you the way you are. Stay true to yourself. There are some tips , some questions you could ask , an attitude , a frame that Can build strong attraction , but what's thé point if it's not genuine. Thé only thing you could try to focus that night , is to maintain eye contact. I dont Care if you're timid, Bad seeing , introvert , what e…
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:47 PM
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Don't change your attitude ( from when you met her ) until she is ready to go next lvl. Your first meassge got an answer back because it was a private joke between you' guys. Next thing first , you get insecured , and change attitude. What now ? Fck it , still text her when you sée something private joke between you'. She will remember how you made her feel. Thé best option is to maintain attraction , and if you ever go back there, she might bé there for you. _ don't tell me you even considered …
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:37 PM
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Before you win someone you must be ready to loose him. It makes probably no senses to you right now , but it will someday. For now, to detach your self from outcome , ask your self this : will it matter in 10 years from now ? ( No ) so fck it and do it anyway
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:15 PM
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Humans , women and men , want what they can't have. By ignoring her , she craves what other Girls get. It creates attraction. Thé Big ego ones , will resist , but thé moment thé relapse is made in the right way , she will get obscessed in you. There are other factors such as high value person , jealousy , group effect. But if you remember 'the game' or original mystery method , thé point is , you gotta make her feel spécial.
/r/seduction25/01/19 11:05 PM
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Maybe start this chart by saying hello....
/r/seduction20/01/19 12:04 PM
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Look at her lips , it will boost ur libido. To kiss , you need to stop momentum. By looking at her lips , you are breaking momentum ( if she spots it ) - pull her and kiss. Don`t forget the : pull her part. ​ Going for the kiss is a win win situation ( it isn`t if you bound deep friendship ) , so you have everything to win. Also if rejected , just say you couldn`t resist. ​
/r/seduction15/01/19 12:34 PM
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1) "He`s so timid\shy , it`s so hot" 2) Big women section of porn sites. ( i have to admit , those are women , and i`ve never seen big men actoring ) Yet i am convinced there must be women attracted to obesity. Sexuality varies for everyone , explaining why the different categories of sexuality : sapio , etc. As you mentioned, it`s a combination of multiple elements , yet i do that believe timidity and obesity can be sexual traits. ​ TLDR : What i mean by all this : Timidity and obesity are not …
/r/seduction15/01/19 12:27 PM
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Those kind of stuff cannot be asked ( actually you can , but it`s socially incorrect and poor sense, unless you have extremly high sense of calibration or if you are brad pitt ). so how does it happen ? just like sex happens , but you tell her no when she wants you to fck her. Most girls will not be too happy about that , but it will create even more attraction towards you , until it fades away because you`re too slow. ​ Gl buddy ​ ​
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:44 AM
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She did not text anything , because you never proposed anything or did you ? Her , recontacting you is a sign that she is attracted. It`s probably your last chance. ask her out right now, you dummie , it`s your job , she already showed you the signs. Are you even attracted to her ? ​ Also if she ever mentions why you never answered back , don`t fall for the traps. gl buddy
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:38 AM
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Timidity and morbese obseity can be attractive. It`s all about perspective. Both shows vulnerabilty which some women finds attractive in their way.
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:35 AM
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Guys. ​ How to cheat approach anxiety ? Pretend you are doing it for a friend ( But do it for you lulz ) and stay flirty. It`s a brain trick , you won`t take the rejection personally. ​ Some might say it`s dishonest , but when you realize that what you say is only 7 % of the message communicated , fuck it. example : approach taken from the french movie , la haine, poorly retranscripted : - Hello ladies =) You see , i have this friend , he`s a poeeeeeeeet , but he`s very shy , so i came to see if…
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:30 AM
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so what can he do ? ​ abort mission ?
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:17 AM
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Also having sex with her , is like visiting the house you gonna spend some time in. It`s important. Nevertheless , on the hormonal level it`s cheating but fundamental.
/r/seduction15/01/19 11:17 AM
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yet when you refer to a shitty situation , like in the elevator : Aww shit , do you have thoose kind of terrible days where nothing happens right to you ? If you think about it , it`s so absurd its kinda funny . In this situation you build rapport and comfort. Also because the subconscient part of your brain doesn't process the negative , it hears : Terrible ( good or bad , brain doesnt process it ) Happens , Right , Absurd , funny. it's now about the angst , it's how you formulate it. I think b…
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:09 AM
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I`ve never seen anyone comfortable by crossing their legs like this. It only means , hurry up , i gotta pee =)
/r/seduction13/01/19 11:24 PM
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Something that friends don`t do : looking at lips. ​ Everytime i feel like i`m gonna friendzone this new woman , i look at her lips , and ofc she sees it and knows what it means. Then i calibrate from her response ( the best is, when you caught them looking back at ur lips). ​ By the time this process happens , it means i should have already kissed her ​ good luck buddy , would love a field report of that dinner with her at ur place , we deserve to know.
/r/seduction13/01/19 11:13 PM
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Buddy , as you said , its maybe part of her vocabulary. You probably dont have thé same définition as hers. You protected her and its all that matters. Criticism is a projection of one self. Look how she talks about her son. She must think she is pretty weak. beeing unaffected by her remarks is how you show her you aren't a weakling. And if she really pushes it too much , just fuck her harder. Don't let this affect you , merry xmas to you Buddy 💪
/r/seduction25/12/18 09:09 PM
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here is your cure : Would she do the same for you ? no. ​ while you are suffering , she's probably having fun. While you are texting lots of words , she answers with one word. ​ It's not your fault , and beeing genuinely nice is remarkable , but welcome to 2018 and the beta orbiters , social irrational media , and instant gratification time. ​ Find a girl who will blow out your phone and D , not the inverse. ​ Sorry my man , hope this was brutal enough to make you move on.
/r/seduction25/12/18 06:09 PM
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you invest too much in her whereas she should be the one. Seduction is creating the space for the women to chase you. ​ Ask yourself while you`re wasting time creating assumptions : is she thinking about me right now ? the only text you should ever send her is to meet her irl. ​ ​
/r/seduction23/12/18 08:13 PM
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the only thing that you should ask your self is this : Would she do the same for me ? Look at how much you invest and how much she does. In seduction , in order to work , the woman has to invest more than you. i went that road, its gonna fail buddy. ​ THE ONLY WAY it could work , is when you are ready to loose her. Gl with that.
/r/seduction02/12/18 06:01 AM
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I like to ask different questions after the mini small talk and i never close, often disapointed by the answers. What is this one thing in life that makes it worth living ? why ? tell me about it , describe it. What would you do tomorow if you had nothing holding you back ? ( most girls tell me traveling , and it's already a turn off for me =( ) What are you dreams ? ( the more i ask this questions , the more i realize there are no more dreamers yet ) People likes to talk about them selves. I de…
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:07 PM
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Mby nothing went wrong buddy, or mby you were too slow. Why not move on and let her the Space to invest in you ? In my mini expérience , not inserting D fast enough makes complications in opposite future investment view the circumstances ( you're not staying long, or mby she was polite, Bad isolation/lacking logistic to fuck ) Maybe she is just busy for now , anyway i believe you should act like in abundance mentality and let her chase you if she ever does. Girls on Tinder meets lots of guys , s…
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:05 PM
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Yeah but at some point he shall aproach, cuz they wont Come on their on . So how shall he proceed ? I believe op should ignore however they react, and think it's their loss. Yet i'd like to hear more succes stories from other sedditors
/r/seduction15/09/18 10:52 PM
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"if you had a magical button that you could press , and all your trouble would dissapear , describe me your perfect day" ​ What does XXX ( from previous answer ) allow you to do ? How does that make you feel when you YYY ( from previous answer ) ? - this is where you want to insist the most. It's all about emotions. those 3 questions have helped me to go at a deeper lvl. Or the cube game. In fact , if the other person is willing to answer , it makes them invest. Try thoose , and feedback to me. …
/r/seduction15/09/18 08:33 PM
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Next Time suggest her to watch porn together :) Thank me later
/r/seduction30/08/18 04:53 PM
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You're a Silly and clever gamer ,i Like your style. i'd jump you if i was a chick.
/r/seduction30/08/18 03:39 PM
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Listen , you will read Many great answers to your post but there is something that took me Long Time to understand about Kino/physical escalation. I used to be a Shy toucher. I understood that at some point i had to touch to show intent to avoid platonic relations. Thé progressive part of touching was not only to show intent , but to make ME and not thé other person feel more comfy about touching. So how ever you wanna proceed , do it for you. Go slow until you're ready to touch more and more. D…
/r/seduction28/08/18 06:13 PM
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That's why you have to find out.
/r/seduction28/08/18 01:10 PM
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Any Links plz ?
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:55 AM
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Everytime i hear 'whats UP' After what you described , i go for a kiss.
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:18 AM
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At some point , instead of looking deep in her eyes while listening, look at thé lips. Usually from there , if you pause enough , its enough tension to go for thé kiss. Lips are Magic for me, thé arc of cupidon , thé vermillon Line , thé curves of désires.... Try it :)
/r/seduction27/08/18 07:16 AM
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Most people pick 7 anyway ... Dont Ask to pick her hand ... Just pick it...
/r/seduction26/08/18 05:10 PM
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Quick tldr of lucifer principle plz ? To know if worth Reading . Thx
/r/seduction25/08/18 02:44 PM
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As a Scorpion♏ i get along very well with fishes♓ Are you Virgin :) ? PS : it used to bé a very famous question at élite french school interviews to test openmindness ? 😏
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:41 AM
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Thén you gotta learn your self :)
/r/seduction24/08/18 11:32 PM
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I catch any given eye contact and stick m'y tongue out while runing like a 3 year old Girl. No , but i just stick m'y tongue and grin. From there , i adapt :)
/r/seduction24/08/18 11:30 PM
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Don't Ask them out , but make it easier for them to Ask you out. Laugh , haïr twisting , eye fuck them. Give them solid hints yet don't play too easy. If they can't catch it ... Move on. Also the moment you make them disqualify them selves, you won :) You Can also Try the cube game , it works wonders. Work on your élégancy , its Universal attraction for global people and mostly smart guys. ( Simple dressing , black and white colors , moderate make UP , can't insist enough on posture , your laugh…
/r/seduction24/08/18 11:25 PM
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What i meant is never tell them explicitely , such as : you're cute , i like you. I love u. Of course you gotta escalate and show intent, but it's a body language. Never let them know verbally. When you know you have someone in your pockets , you're no challenge anymore.
/r/seduction24/08/18 11:12 PM
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Thanks man , i appreciate the effort. I got the idea , i just dont understand what "we're deep undercoveer" means , and i still don't.
/r/seduction12/08/18 06:39 PM
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"just" don't get attached. You are a romantic tho.
/r/seduction12/08/18 06:38 PM
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Any risky questions you like to ask them ?
/r/seduction11/08/18 05:46 PM
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In my eyes you are the one leading the interaction . Don't change the attitude if he's not ready to change. So keep leading and making things easier for him. Like alex said , mention something from the date " hey , how about we check that ice cream place you mentioned next moday 17h " ( it's you chasing him ) Wait for reply , calibrate , gauge and adapt. Its good you have another option , so you wont have to double text. either he answers or call you , either move on. Tldr : keep making things e…
/r/seduction11/08/18 05:16 PM
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If you can't accept it , change it . If you can't change it , why does it even matter ? You have two options after reading this. You already know the option you are living in. Try the other one which is : do not care and deal with the cards you were born this. All your fears and assumptions are your own process of insecurities created subconscisouly in your childhood. By this ,I mean , forget already what you know. What do you know about what women want ? Do you think sex is only about stomping …
/r/seduction11/08/18 04:58 PM
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It's nice you can take step backs and look with perspective. It's very hard to see in the cloud, congratulations. Attraction is subconcious , just the fact she approached you or tell you personal stuff is comfort. But there is no rapport neither tension. Listen , one more time on the perspective thing. I don't believe in women friendzoning , you did friendzoned yourself by not showing intent or didn't escalate. There is no tension. I know it's hard for introverts , but its mandatory ( contrary c…
/r/seduction11/08/18 04:23 PM
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Talk with your body language and eyes , then shoot a text then. what is this city where you aren't allowed to talk to a girl ? if you are not allowed to talk to a girl , how were you born ? is it like some mormons or forced marriage stuff ? a strong solid eye contact which visualizes " i want you " will comunicate everyting she needs to know. Remember to smile. also do you really want to flirt with a chick that send nudes ? if not in relations , those chicks are attention whore and sending their…
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:24 PM
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This is a good mindset start , because you don't change for a girl. You have showed who you are. If she likes you , perfect , if she doesn't , do you really want to be with her ? Attraction can be created , but if you don't have the solid foundation , it will crumble soon or later. You can for exemple , make her invest into qualifying her , and making her feel good. It's subtle. somehow if she is not at least 51 % interested in you from begining , just move on , it's a waste of time and you do n…
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:15 PM
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good luck man , you have overpassed it the past , you can do it again. My cure to oneitis is going to festival , there are 10000 of unicorns , and you just forget the previous one. Hope you did well last night and that it kinda cured you. remember , unicorns are everywhere , it's a number game.
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:36 PM
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You want to create the environement for them to chase you. basically you live your solo life , and just give hints to her. "im going to XX on XX , come with me" Is she has initial interest , she will make it easier for you. If she still comes to date , show her you can have good time , and remain challenge. Never let them know you like them. texting is for poets and kills anticipation. Don't. tldr : find a hobby and live your life
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:30 PM
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Don't take it personally , maybe she fucked up. Be glad you got approched , its like 1 % of women if not escorts.
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:25 PM
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i feel bad , i have no idea what it means =(
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:23 PM
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When you base your results on online dating , where pics matters the most, ofc looks matters =) open your perspectives , and deal with the cards you got. It's all about attitude
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:21 PM
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it takes time. You chose something you like , and you get better at it everyday. Consistancy is the key. After a while , you`ll feel good with what you have achieved , and you'll care no more about people , because you found your inner peace. Also it's important to look back and see the improvements in you. ( i recently cleaned 7 years of my fb , i have never been so proud of the improvements over the years ). I feel very confident those days.
/r/seduction11/08/18 12:18 PM
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i know life sucks , that's why i chose to laugh about it. Don't give up man , i know there is good in you. You are just very annnnnnnngry at people right now. Let me ask you this ? you start the day fine , then people destroy your work. In the end of the day what do you see ? You pointed the negative. Instead look at what you have achieved. Chose the positive and fuck them. Don't let people affect you , but only your improvements. Make everyday counts. No zero days. Try meditating , you must hav…
/r/seduction10/08/18 10:45 PM
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Was it always you or the girls who said bye first ? I guess no one ^ since you always get ghosted. You take life too srsly mister Anubis , everyday you have the choice to be happy and yet life will hit you hard. At least you had a choice , not like when you get ghosted. Learn to let go and your pain will ease. Peace out
/r/seduction10/08/18 08:09 PM
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you want to be the one that ends the kiss first.
/r/seduction10/08/18 10:58 AM
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footnotes 2 : try again 10 min later when (1) didn't work out. gotta talk more about LMR !!!!!
/r/seduction09/08/18 10:33 PM
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jaw asymetrie is very manly. own it ( i'm in surgery and esthetic ) . Own everything about you. You can even tell a women you have anxiety , and make her wet. Its honesty and balls. If you really want group travel , do it only if you want to visit , or party with a buddy ( not the case ), it has to be genuine, not forced. If you go with the expectations you mentioned , you can only be disappointed. ps; I've met everytime a new girlfriend in travel groups , or some really nice friendship. Its lik…
/r/seduction09/08/18 10:13 PM
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Basically be like a mountain. If you show you cannot be affected by her actions , you will remain challenge. Somehow you have to accept the idea of walking away , even if you don't intend to. I'm not saying walk away , just accept the idea. The moment you cannot walk away , she has the power. Look at what you wrote , you feel unsecure and in doubt ( not judging you personally ) . This is not what challenge looks like. You can show vulnerability , but not Doubt. Remain confident. Good luck ps : I…
/r/seduction09/08/18 09:52 PM
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what can he do to make it up ? help this bro out
/r/seduction09/08/18 09:38 PM
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seduction is letting be seduced, therefore you're seducing her =) You can try a eye contact test. Next time , focus somehow on her reactions when you look in her eyes. Don't break contact, focus her left eye. if she looks down , then back at you , you're in. if she maintains eye contact , its even better. is she touching you more than you do ? If not , kino test her. or maybe all of this is self projection , and she is just manipulating you. need more context...
/r/seduction09/08/18 09:35 PM
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All what you said seem reasonable. Yet a few things. Focus on your things , she will contact you. Tinder , okcupid and zoosk , should be a bonus. Don't rely on it as a main way to meet new people. Like you said , she is smart , she is testing you. She is interested but you gotta pass a few tests. It's good that you stop calling , don't show neediness. When she contacts you , don't ask her if she wants to come at the concert or pool party , mention it like something you would do alone and command…
/r/seduction09/08/18 09:18 PM
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You can give to women , but it has to be a reward. In this case , she has done nothing in your favors , she is not helping you at all. You gave her a hand , she wants the arm now. Move on , congratz on realizing it.
/r/seduction09/08/18 03:13 PM
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The hammer is not emotions but attitude. Before selling your stuff , how would you define seduction ? What does seduction allow you to do ? How does that make you feel ? I hope thoose question will make you think.
/r/seduction09/08/18 03:03 PM
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could be anything. life is absurd , accept it. also this simple dynamics for cats. 1) you want attention , you get none 2) you don't want attention , you get it from everywhere.
/r/seduction09/08/18 02:37 PM
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I don't understand , you seem like friends with mini benifits already. Maybe she wants something casual too. I don't understand the point of your post , neither your formatting, yet I tried. If you want friendship , you guys already talked 5 h on the phone. Friends do this. If you want the benefits now , you gotta stop killing the anticipation and let her do the contacting. Fuck her once , and then explain your vision. don't do the opposite.
/r/seduction09/08/18 02:19 PM
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Wouldn't you want to proceed just as you would proceed for a shit test ? agree and amplify or ignore
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:57 PM
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tldr ?
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:54 PM
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would you like to get called 20 times at night , for someone to ask you something obvious ? ALSO WOULD YOU LIKE SOMEONE WRITING TO YOU LIKE THIS ? your post sweat neediness. It's ok , it does happen. when you say you open up , what does that mean to you ? There is a difference with vulnerability and non stop blabbering. I believe actually that if you did shut your mouth all that time , you would have had more success with those girls. Also , with this generation of beta orbiters and female const…
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:53 PM
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When you ask them those questions , here are 2 follow up that might help you build attraction and help you gauge interest. 1) what traits are you looking for in a guy ? ( eg. honesty ) 2) What do those traits allow you to do ? ( what does honesty help you achieve in your couple ) 3) How does that make you feel , when you ( have a honest relationship ) ? You will gauge interest with the attitude she takes to answer. But don't think that what they answer is true. Humans know what they want , but t…
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:30 PM
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Don't focus on the kiss too much but on your hands. Your hands should be doing something , pulling her from waistband , pulling her hair , maintening her chin. Remember to pull first the kiss. and SMILE AFTER =) for the kiss it self , you will improve with time , during sexy time or like u/wagsyman said , just copy.
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:57 PM
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its called helping a bro. it's like not touching married women. A matter of self respect and sign of empathy. would you like your married woman to keep looking around ? fk no Would you like someone to help you win time and money ? fk yes edit: format
/r/seduction09/08/18 12:13 PM
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Time has change , technique has evolved. But somehow even the core of their thoughts has changed. Marc Aurelius , Ovidus , Seneca , Taoism , its "fun"to read , but come on , its 2k+old. Their concept is higher than us , its hard to understand and to apply. Ovidius talking about how women take care of their body.. useless info for nowadays. Also whats schocks me and that no one ever mentions is that all those philosophers exceptt Plato ( the only one ... ) were all gay to the extreme, and with we…
/r/seduction09/08/18 11:50 AM
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the true question is , what do YOU like ?
/r/seduction05/08/18 07:34 PM
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Wow. How to accept the fear of change better , and not let it overule over you ?
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:20 PM
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How to embrace the fear of change ?
/r/seduction03/08/18 06:25 AM
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my goal in seduction is to become attachment free.
/r/seduction03/08/18 06:15 AM
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how ?
/r/seduction03/08/18 05:34 AM
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sometimes im too happy and when i lock eyes , people think im retarded, im not smiling but my eyes are. also im part asian . fml for beeing happy
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:40 AM
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what's the secret/minset no never loose in the seduction game ? How to fail more often ? how to calibrate the most accuarely when you meet someone new ? ( gaining thoose social skills )
/r/seduction03/08/18 03:14 AM
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Somehow it's an investment to push air out of your mouth. No but , i see your point, glad you mentioned it.
/r/seduction02/08/18 12:30 PM
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dodging bullets
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:29 PM
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damn fking right , i forgot the ignore option. Bonus for laughing. Thx You are also very right , any answers different from agree\amplify\ignore will only compromise your position.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:28 PM
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Dat pizza roar tho =) nice man
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:20 PM
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In gym , I really don't recomand ( if its just weigfhtlifting ) . You don't shit where you eat , but many gym classes have duos, partners, groups and ofc singles. After a while you get to know them , there you go. ( so go for the gym classes )
/r/seduction01/08/18 12:17 PM
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salsa , or any dance lessons clubs\events ( any hobbys will work : trx , gym , cooking class , ceramic, etc ... ) still you have to be enjoying it in the first place.
/r/seduction01/08/18 07:18 AM
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Many ideas popping up : 1) stop fapping , you'll be sex hungry. 2) maybe you are somehow sapiosexual. you might find them physically hot, but something else might even turn you more on. Power games , mind games , taste, cleverness ? 3) lack of escalation. I used to fail all the time because of this. I hated to be touch and assumed girls were the same. I forced my self with the years to be more physical, and now its natural. 4) You are freezing because you are not used to it. I was like you. One …
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:23 AM
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"criticisms are a projection of yourself ^ ^ , and guess what , tom cruise has the body of a 12 year old , send my love to your manly gf" you dodged a bullet here. still , could anyone come up with a answer "agree and amplify" type ? Im curious
/r/seduction01/08/18 04:54 AM
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you can do almost anything you want with the right attitude. i really enjoyed the story =)
/r/seduction01/08/18 04:47 AM
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whatever you do , let her invest more in you than you invest in her. Right now you are pulling your hair out while she might be having fun. let her do the texting. Remember scaricity mindset, go find someone else to cuddle meanwhile.
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:49 PM
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What he meant was : don't expect anything at the dance floor, specially if her bestie is here. Your biggest chance to continue with her is to calibrate and isolate. I`m also surprised you didn't already invite her to your place or 1 on 1 somewhere else. Man , congratz on the move on your crush. Great start. Don't fuck it up now , and don't show neediness at the party. Best luck to you
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:28 PM
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Man i'm happy for you she replied. do not forget scarcity mindset for now or you'll be hurt by your own imagination.
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:17 PM
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its a good sign , dont worry. no one knows what she meant, but generally a girl laughing is an ioi...
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:07 PM
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Save the money and invest in your self. It's like the people paying for herbalife, scientific diet , where they make you 1000 scans and tell you at the end to eat veggies and fruits. If you watched their stuff , you can do it on your own , and use that money on your side. I know coaching might help a lot and i`m not saying don't do it, but please reconsider. Take action
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:37 AM
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Thx man , i'm going to untold in 2 days with exactly a group of 3 buddies also with appartement logistic ready , i`m excited.
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:34 AM
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so how do you escalate then =) ?
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:28 AM
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you do the dicko-helicopter first ^
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:27 AM
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You want her to invest more in you , than you invest in her. You don't text, she will text you.
/r/seduction30/07/18 02:15 AM
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Instructions unsure , gonna wear sunglasses everywhere now. I have a "friend" that never looks at anyone when he talks ( he is quite rich , clever , handsome , the full package ) . It's so annoying and it feels arrogant. It's like talking with his face turned 45 Degrees. Yet sometimes, he would give a little bit of eye contact. I really don't understand people talking sideways. I personally respect this person , but come on , it smells arrogance , high nose big ego , lies , and self-complexes. D…
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:56 AM
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I pushed air out of my mouth while reading tax exemption. this sub has many psychology expert. Would someone explain to me why i found this funny ? its feels like some nlp subconscious shit right there.
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:32 AM
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Does it even matter ? If she likes you, she likes you.
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:23 AM
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When you work your ass off everyweek, you really want to have some time for your self on week end to recuperate. Its very easy to understand. Yet my solution for op , is to find a new hobby where he can socialize. Gym class, Salsa , degustation. At least it's fun for him , and its will be easy to socialize when you are in your element. Do it twice a week , its far enough - you'll be happy and feel better. Socializing will be bonus
/r/seduction30/07/18 01:08 AM
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You can do it without even knowing how. Beeing different is a strenght, remember this. To connect emotionally, you can start by asking questions. Let me help you with 3 questions. But before this , you also have to adopt a mindset where you are the prize "is this girl good enough for me ? and not the opposite". "If there was a magic button that you could push and suddenly everything was possible with no obstacles, what kind of life would you have?" ( it makes her visualize her perfect life ) The…
/r/seduction12/07/18 06:32 AM
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Give them the room and space to chase you. Be mysterious. Never answer. actions > words Check 3 % man from Corey wayne
/r/seduction09/07/18 06:32 AM
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The thing is : what does be attractive/do not be unattractive mean ? Attitude>looks but looks matters. You friends seems to : be confident non-neediness scarcity power to walk away In your opinion, what more do you think make them so successful ? Seduction\psychology is fascinating to most of us here. Corey said if from beginning she doesn't have at least 51 % interest in you , its kinda over. After some times , i have been able to see more often which girls around me is interested and i've been…
/r/seduction09/07/18 06:25 AM
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While i listen and lean on the attentiveness i manage to read her signs . I feel like i'm a good listener , but my strength are in story telling. Now i would like to go next level , and lean on the attention while i Talk . Is it even possible to multitask those ? Why is listening and paying attention easier than talking and lean on the attentiveness ?
/r/seduction03/07/18 06:27 AM
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Thx man for the file. Author talks about nlp. I want to study it. Do you have litterature about it or recommandations ? where to read first ?
/r/seduction18/06/18 12:32 AM
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Fantastic sum up. Could you do one with "3 % man" from Corey please ? thx again
/r/seduction18/06/18 12:18 AM
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Next time try this mentality : Instead of "i need to approach her" , try " I want to approach her"
/r/seduction07/06/18 07:23 PM
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Wait for her to respond , she has seen your message , she is "testing" if you can handle some space and time without her. If you persist texting again now or later , it will show off weak\needy. either she doesn't respond and move on \ either she will write you back when she is ready, and it will be easy. both case are sort of win\win for you. remember , don't let events change your attitude. Be the same as day 1. Show her you can handle some time and space.. In the best case scenario you could …
/r/seduction06/06/18 11:06 AM
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PS: Opposites are less likely to attract , BUT they do have statistically the longest relationship in terms of time. Somehow they complete each other.
/r/seduction06/06/18 09:10 AM
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"How do I not let this shit bother me?" 1) Scarcity mindset. fake it until you make it. If you were dating 15 women , or even 3 , how would you think this particular rejection would have had affected you ? 2) Perspective. see it as - your win , her loose. 3) Try again. but know that things would be way much easier if you let her invest the most. You might want to call and set up a next date. On the phone you can gauge her interest. Then you adapt from there : continue or move on. random thoughts…
/r/seduction06/06/18 08:47 AM
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bro ... im somehow sexually frustrated because i cant just cum while fucking. It last usually 45 min 1h30 , before i give up frustrated and tired. so i try to give her the pleasure etc but cant find mine , and its compromise lots of things.... people told me to try without condoms , or less tensed w/e . how do you handle that shit ? only cummed once one my first night , since then , never again... and ofc i can cum while masturbating. mb its weed , or mb im gay. halp plz
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:52 PM
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ok
/r/seduction02/05/18 06:41 PM
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where are those extensive romance places ? asking srsly
/r/seduction29/04/18 05:52 AM
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how about hugging brad pitt ? you get the idea ?
/r/seduction29/04/18 05:47 AM
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Try approaching without saying a single word. Pretend you're mute and write stuff down on phone in emergency case. Im doing this for this week , i find it ultra fun and its very educational. Report back plz
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:55 AM
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they were shy in front of their friends. Try to isolate next time ^
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:48 PM
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it worked for me too. you will want it so bad and will not care about the outcome. its a solid advice. Op , i was in your shoes not so long ago. The same way you did mention , i also felt that precise moment where i needed to kiss in order to step up things , but would never attempt it. Now its pretty clear and simple for me , every time i feel that moment i need to kiss , it means i should have had kiss 15 min ago. Therefore what i do is : I stop the momentum by doing nothing. i would simply ju…
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:40 PM
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there is no room and space to escalate in a coffee especially if you sit face to face... so how do you manage to get her back to your place without the kino ?
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:28 PM
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talk with your eyes and body
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:25 PM
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I'm currently learning sign language. Words are futile , its all about your energie and attitude when you approach. Ofc your enthusiasm will disappear after approaching the 100th woman on that day. Be honest with your self when you approach , it has to be genuine.
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:24 PM
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Yeah , but isn't it the point ? everything ends
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:27 AM
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Plz elaborate. i'm curious. I also believe like op , that the chase, the challenges , seducing, are the most exiting part. I understand that women are not objects , but how is that a destructive path ?
/r/seduction19/04/18 10:26 AM
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I never thought i could become so horny in front of a girl that is twice my size and height, i call her piggy. Yet she was so receptive , and my friends told me she stinks dicks, but fuck it. Life is absurd, brush your teeth.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:47 AM
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Seducing , is letting the woman seduce you. it works both way. It`s crucial to pay attention ( which is what this post is about ) Its true simple and effective work best, but until you can pay attention naturally and consistently , i found those advice from op very solid. Its very good guidelines.. fake it until you make it....
/r/seduction14/04/18 01:58 PM
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Raising my standards makes me feel arrogant , how can i avoid that ? I know what i'm worth , but also know i'm not more important than anyone else on this planet. Yet i already find my standards to high.... ambition/drive cultured/educated fit and funny , wealthy , etc... Because i worked hard to achieve thoose, i expect the same from them ... how can i make this even higher ? Naturally i have tried to lower my standards , but exactly as you said , i got what i didn't want. As that point i feel …
/r/seduction06/04/18 03:14 AM
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1) Hows the situation with him and your mom ? look closely and you'll find your answers. 2) You are waiting for any kind of his validation. You hide and hope he seeks for you because he was/is probably absent or busy now or during childhood. You do respect him a lot and don't understand why he doesn't open up to you. Also you are afraid that your choices are not worthy enough for him. 3) The thing is, most politician are verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry ambitious. He will prioritize his…
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:45 AM
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read last paragraph. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:17 AM
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kiss her neck , and pull her hair down. she will beg for ur d, tell her to say please first. or... literally just grab her pussy. Don't be embarrassed , she wants more sex you will ever want. She's kinda waiting for you to make a move. If you are stressed, she will be stressed. In that case , communicate with her.
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:10 AM
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The thing is , i'm the most fun person I know , and am my best friend because i find most people boring. Obviously, I'm also somehow narcissic. I made peace with my situation, better be single till then. What I meant by number 3 was , i'd like to be with a girl that DOES provide the fun , and not me doing all the work all the time. Add this to being fit and cultivated/ambitious ... I believe that working up 6 days a week takes us too much time , add this to our jobs , and we have not much time r…
/r/seduction05/04/18 11:41 AM
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Invade her space or pull her closer to you. testing the water. My first go for the kiss was a total sketch, it failed but it was a big Victory and i learned so much from it. This is how it went , and what i learned that moment. It's middle of the date, we are warming up next to a heat lamp. I launched my super gaze , she asked "what?" , i went for the kiss. She dodged by hugging me , I told her "i just couldn't resist you", she said i was funny =) What happened here is , I basically almost jumpe…
/r/seduction05/04/18 10:06 AM
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Is he always like this ? :))
/r/seduction05/04/18 09:20 AM
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As someone similar to you and who would add to your list : number 3 she has to be funny. I feel even more fucked ^
/r/seduction05/04/18 09:20 AM
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Your question is why The pros mostly show what you have : education, money , taste etc ... starting the game with easy mode. The cons show who you are. Most women do not care about what you have, but who you are instead. The same way that in their eyes Attitude >> Wealth >= Appearance > Words 13 countries, lived in 2, and you can't approach , how is that possible? You know how to approach , you just don't want to. You feel like it's not worth it , not the right moment, not much to win ? You have…
/r/seduction05/04/18 12:39 AM
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how do you punish ? Feels like punishing is taking a rejection srsly. Do you just look away , start doing something else ?
/r/seduction06/03/18 08:10 AM
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i feel like this is when you`ll throw a wink ^
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:57 PM
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thx
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:52 PM
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Someone here once mentioned , to give that loook as if you were caught with the hand in the cookie jar, once she caught you checking her out. Whoever you are , you simplified my life.
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:45 PM
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Instructions unclear , gonna try tomorrow to check teacher ass .
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:41 PM
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"Bro. If you're into self-development and not getting laid, you're probably not doing self-development" the fuck am i doing then ?
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:32 PM
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i wish i read that 10 years ago
/r/seduction04/03/18 06:23 PM
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There is something complete and honest about it : it's living in the present. Story of the movie : Vicky Cristina Barcelona
/r/seduction27/02/18 11:37 AM
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Dude you're a king
/r/seduction26/02/18 10:47 PM
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I made more deeper research about this, and reddit has some great post about this , but anyway i found this link , i think it will help you http://westsidetoastmasters.com/resources/book_of_body_language/chap8.html
/r/seduction26/02/18 10:46 PM
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sell me this fcking pen More seriously now : Mystery always used to go for the friends first and went for the target later. Like mentioned by the guy from the store above , if things go well with the friends ( aka disarming ) , its easier to isolate the woman you want , also it adds value to her eyes ( friendly , appreciated , etc )
/r/seduction25/02/18 09:46 PM
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I've been using the same Technic and it works great to show intent and create tension which I was lacking to transmit , also because I fail to not enough kino ( Usually when they notice that deep stare and mental projection and the vibes you send , they will just say " what? " - like whats happening with a smile). This is where i will try to pull her and kiss. One more detail ==> Subconsciously when 2 people are attracted they will synergyze, movements are copied , heartbeat become the same. EYE…
/r/seduction25/02/18 09:21 PM
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Hoping this will help you : Hang in there , keep hunting and failing more . Discipline , Optimism , and Experience taught me that often right before success i feel like giving up. Now when it happens , i know its a good sign , so you gotta keep going. You're close bro , i respect your discipline. a few more applications are nothing compared to the 50 you did. On the side line , what also helped me against past consistent failures, is to visualize your own Success. Believe in Victory. Try to imag…
/r/seduction24/02/18 09:49 PM
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Thank you
/r/seduction15/02/18 04:21 PM
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Hey man , After long time of self analysis , i realized i was afraid to kino, and still am, which fucks up most of my game. I crave for it , and yet am still uncomfortable to get touched too early or to touch. Your post makes a lot of sense now, but where to literally start ? I always hug or kiss for greeting, lead by pushing the back with the hand , some high 5 there and there , some shoulder touching. This subreddit and one mod in particular always advice to go for the hands, and I have been f…
/r/seduction15/02/18 02:29 AM
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Remember , women mostly don't know what they want , but in the rules of attractions : body doesn't lie. She might not be into you and finds you just friendly , but subconsciously she might be attracted. Therefor look for bodylanguage clues and act on them. To be honest the simplest way would be to ask her out and you will know straight away. 1) bodylanguage = Look for everything on her half left side of her body , this is mostly how the body express its emotions. dilated pupils , feet pointing t…
/r/seduction01/02/18 02:05 AM
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It's not what you have , but who you are. The magic that enlightened me was , you can be whoever you want to be =) Good luck on your journey !
/r/seduction01/02/18 01:22 AM
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Dear gh0stem, It`s not the first time i see your name here and i would like to help you if you let me. I understand what you are going trough, I am a chronic heartbroken man my self , its a constant cycle , but here is what time taught me. I`m gonna make lots of assumption based on my experience - it might not be exact most of the time in your case but focus on the message. How to let go ? - Its probably one of the hardest and simplest question on this life. Some remarks before It get answered. …
/r/seduction31/01/18 12:31 PM
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"I''ve got a hundred agendas running through my mind when I'm speaking to women. I'm a charming manipulator. I'm seductive." 1) Please elaborate. When i converse , i follow the scheme " what kind of women is she ?". I`d like to focus more on what you just said. I don't understand how you can have hundred agendas running through your mind , and be your-self at the same time. I believe the key is to pay attention all the time , but how to be this charming manipalutor , this seductive gentleman ? H…
/r/seduction30/01/18 06:38 AM
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"Has anyone ever told you , you have ... very sensual Lips ?"
/r/seduction08/01/18 01:00 AM
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Just Do It Just Do It Just DO It You can only WIN , because when you don't, you LEARN I gotta go back cultivate my garden
/r/seduction08/01/18 12:49 AM
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